as good a reason: ageing, self love and patriarchy [live discussion]

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[@neonclawsavie]

This was lovely, we definitely need to hear these conversations and thank you for sharing such a diverse group of people. Definitely need another feminist discussion on this channel!

[@jameswilkerson678]

Please turn this into a series. This was beautiful to listen to.

[@bobbijeanlevorson8129]

My daughter sent me your song (As good a reason)…at first I was confused - I thought the message was that I was full of “spite”…this conversation helped me understand that she realizes how much she values my (and my mother’s) strength. Thank you and this song is truly appreciated and beautiful ❤

[@LouiseORourke-qd1nr]

I’m going to send it to my daughter because she mentioned to me the other day how her Dad is unappreciative of what I’ve done for the last 30 years…he’s a good man, a loving husband and father….but I get it. And I’m proud my daughter won’t settle for less than what’s perfect for her

[@carolinealmond5390]

I LOVE hearing women's voices, since we so rarely get a platform to talk about our experiences and our feelings. And I so appreciated hearing these women speak about feminism. Thank you Paris!!! Love your music too, of course--can't wait to hear more!!!

[@RabidGarbagePossum]

I would love more episodes in the future, esp highlighting women/femmes who aren't cis or gender conforming or those with disabilities both 'visible' and non-visible (such as autism)

[@Savannah-ez2wp]

One of the things that I believe isn't talked about enough is the woman and girls who were never catcalled or looked at in a certain way. It might seem like they were lucky by an outside observer. But in reality, as one of those girls (who is now a grown woman reflecting on her teenage years), I can tell you that it messes with us too. I felt unwanted, and like I had to change my outward appearance to try to get these strangers to notice me. It's a very detrimental thing that has been ingrained into the minds of so many young people by this patriarchal society. And that's not even going into the disgust and shame that I feel because I even thought that way while there were so many other individuals who wished it would stop for them. I realize this now, and I've worked on myself, but it's just something that I've barely seen spoken about, especially when it effects so many people, specifically minors

[@ClaireR525]

This was really wonderful; thank you so much for having these conversations! I especially loved that idea of running when you are a kid and that freedom of not thinking about your body, that was very moving.

[@neonclawsavie]

hey my loves! Excited to watch this

[@arinad2]

Thank you for this, I love the respectful way you all spoke on these important issues

[@maggieo.513]

As a new and young mother, I feel so lucky to have a daughter that I may lift up how I never was. Also I'm discovering now the contradictions of wanting her to wear armor but also wanting her to live freely and unapologetically.

[@mqbirkholz]

I was so excited to watch this and, even having experienced it first hand, watching it back was just so special. Thank you for including me in such a wonderful discussion with such wonderful ladies. 🥰👏

[@parispaloma]

Thank you for being a part of it!! I feel so lucky to have been able to share that space and our thoughts together with you x

[@xxxxxx-vd6yf]

This is so beautiful... Love that, thank you ❤

[@kamic136]

This was absolutely beautiful to hear. I really wish that had more views because this is an important conversation to have

[@lilac.2858]

Thank you so much for making this happen! I love hearing from all these different perspectives

[@Novaurawr]

Nice

[@LorenaTheWitch]

I never thought of aging discrepancies between genders. Thanks for the new perspective. 😊