50yo retired single guy, never married, no kids and celibate - honestly the happiest I've ever been in my life. I absolutely love living without the pain of women trying to manipulate, use or play you off with someone else.
In her mind, the "low value" man, may make he feel genuinely more lived or important. She may very well be fooling herself, but she wasn't getting what she needed from her husband.
Or maybe don't think like a beta? I'm married and my wife is attracted to me even after 30 years because marriage does not "seal" the deal, dating, interactions still go on. She's a human not a robot.
This guy is over-analyzing. Sometimes people just pick the loser. People change over the course of decades, and sometimes it's for the worse. Just because a woman cheats with a loser doesn't mean that the man has some under-lying attachment issue.
Good point! But... I've seen it again and again. Guys continue to get with such, "Hey, she just changed overnight into a loser" type of women, and they wonder what in the hell is going on. The easiest answer is, "Hey, people change... and all women are ******", but that's not the whole picture. When these same guys look back on their own past (childhood, relationship experience, etc), they see that wow... there's something to the whole thing about the people I surround myself with and who I tend to be attracted to.
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50yo retired single guy, never married, no kids and celibate - honestly the happiest I've ever been in my life. I absolutely love living without the pain of women trying to manipulate, use or play you off with someone else.
I was left for a guy 20 years older. Ego took a big hit. Turns out she's not that into him afterall, just wanted a stability I refused to provide.
Self sabotage is more common than you think.
In her mind, the "low value" man, may make he feel genuinely more lived or important. She may very well be fooling herself, but she wasn't getting what she needed from her husband.
Good, the trash took itself out. Like attracts alike.
Lmao orion is a savage
Thank you for watching!
Love how he breaks things down in an intelligent but simple way.
Just do not marry!
Get married to a 'woman with class and values' ... have kids...but bear in mind that "statistics" might catch up with you.
Or maybe don't think like a beta? I'm married and my wife is attracted to me even after 30 years because marriage does not "seal" the deal, dating, interactions still go on. She's a human not a robot.
LoL
Psychacks
yes?
Better living through psychology!
This guy is over-analyzing. Sometimes people just pick the loser. People change over the course of decades, and sometimes it's for the worse. Just because a woman cheats with a loser doesn't mean that the man has some under-lying attachment issue.
Good point! But... I've seen it again and again. Guys continue to get with such, "Hey, she just changed overnight into a loser" type of women, and they wonder what in the hell is going on. The easiest answer is, "Hey, people change... and all women are ******", but that's not the whole picture. When these same guys look back on their own past (childhood, relationship experience, etc), they see that wow... there's something to the whole thing about the people I surround myself with and who I tend to be attracted to.