THIS Is The BIGGEST Mistake MEN Make Approaching WOMEN... | The Dating Dr Orion Taraban
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I’d rather be single …..
Get a cat or dog known for good nature = muuuuch more rewarding/satisfying. Why waste precious human psychic energy and autonomy to bend over backwards for acceptance from over-self-valuing women just in order to end up being parasitised?
That’s fine but then don’t come back in a year and complain about being lonely
@@brianmeen2158exactly
@@brianmeen2158Its a sentence which Is in my head before i do aproach. I Always tell myself in my head.
If you dont aproach her dont complain that you are alone.
Or high risk high reward, or if you dont aproach her a dont deserve her😅. This Is the way how i motivate myself 😅.
@@filiptravnicek4791 its not that crucial, believe me...make sure you hype yourself up for the things that serve you also
My experience is; just let them see you and wait to see who is interested in you. When you know, then you approach acting like yourself. No games. No stress or fear of rejection. Be well dressed and clean. Someone will like you.
...still waiting...
When did you learn to read minds? How about this. If your tall good looking confident and have success in every thing you try. Cold approaching is perfect. If your any one else just accept its fat girls or the rope.
@@robertstone9988 what have you got against fat girls? You don’t need to read minds, just notice who is interested in getting to know you.
Why is dating so complicated 🤔 I'm so glad I gave up on it many years ago 😳
It's not complicated they just told you to go talk to the girls that give you eye contact. It sounds like you're one of those people that would rather just believe that it's out of control.
ppl are just crazy
Because in nature, the strong survive and pass on their genes and the weak, don’t.
Nature doesn’t want those who “find it all too hard and give up” passing on their genes.
I came here with questions... And honestly, I'm only leaving with even more questions. Listening to this has only highlighted just how painfully little of a clue I have about this stuff.
And what the heck is this "come hither stare"? - All my life, almost every woman without exception has made every effort to never make eye contact with me at all... I know, I'm no George Clooney... but really?
Thankfully this is all academic, as I have been married now for 17 years. Somehow. God help me if she ever leaves!
Go read the Rationale Male volume 1 and 2 and you will know more than most men out here about female nature .
Rational male is good
But don’t worry about it women don’t even know what they want.
If you see one go and talk to her like you already know her. If she rejects, you simply turn your head and talk to the next one, don’t even miss a beat.
Women are ridiculous ignore them and they’ll chase you, a while back. I had sciatica and was walking around a great deal of pain had a pissed off look on my face. I was amazed at how many women were attracted to that.
Unbelievable
@@M-iy4tfYou must have a good looking face and body because i have a serious face most of the time even when i have straight face and all it does is scare them off.
@@secretagent4610 I’ve been told I’m average 🤷🏻♂️
Really. It's when you catch woman's gaze, she holds it just long enough so that it's clear it's not accidental and then looks away. Typically, she wouldn't be facing you straight up. She would move her eyes to look at you and then move them away. It's difficult to put it into words but there is a sensual quality to the look. Warm, inviting. Slight smile. Potentially intensity, focus. And after she looks away, she might smile to herself or play with her hair. Indications that she is having pleasant thoughts. The longer she holds your gaze, the more intense it is. And women in general want to use as little as possible. Where I come from, we literally say that she is throwing a fishing line. It's an invitation. Very effective and very feminine way of doing things.
DOC, enjoy listening to these videos. Like a cheat sheet to life. May you always have great content 🙏 ✨️ 😊
What ever happened to "my that's a lovely dress you have on, may i have this dance?!"
Exactly. I just wrote something similar.
Yeah I know right? We have overanalyzed and complicated this stuff to an absurd degree at this point
Women don't trust men anymore and are creeped out nowadays if they don't know you. Because of social media and perceived danger, things changed.
A regular conversation and getting to know someone is appreciated. Pick up lines are weird and awkward.
What happened to good old Barn dances in the Village Hall! 😂
Barns have been converted into AirBnb's
the animals are long since out of the barn...
Loved this conversation about dating and this guy, reincarnation of a salesman as a psychologist....using lots of intellectual professional words but still somehow wrapped in humour! :-)
Am I the only one tired of words like "Vibe" and "Energy"? In most cases it just describes the body language, demeanor or responsiveness of the other person. How about we give back "Energy" to physicists to use.
YES and SYNERGY
One of my favorite word is " vibe"
I can't stand it. Makes my skin crawl. It sounds so stupid and childish.
The mistake is not picking up on social cues and cold approaching women who’ve shown no interest.
More and more men have stopped cold approaching, its a complete waste of time.
The average female wants to be in a relationship with a top 10-20% of man. The average man is satisfied to be in a relationship with an average woman. Women are naturally more picky and not as satisfied in current relationships due to hypergamy. The mistake is men are pursuing women who naturally have more options (young women) compared to most men 80-90%. Men need to stop pursuing females and focus on being a top 20% male all around and the options will be endless. The issue is, this comes back to haunt women since most top 20% of men have multiple options thus will most likely not be faithful in a standard monogamous relationship.
@@BrayoTintsAndWrapsit sounds like you watched like a hundred red pill videos. That negative shit is not going to get you anywhere how about you improve yourself! Also news flash you can date girls on your level of attractiveness! As long as you have confidence in your fun to be around then they're going to want to hang out with but if you're a negative sourpuss who thinks women are all evil because you dated a couple girls with personality disorders which made you find the red pill cult and turn in this negative Nancy.
White men need to be marrying black women.@@BrayoTintsAndWraps
@@BrayoTintsAndWraps
_""Men need to stop pursuing females and focus on being a top 20% male all around and the options will be endless."_
Well, this will work for the individual, but it's obviously not a valid solution for the whole society since anybody can work their way up to be a "winner", but not everybody. Especially not everybody at the same time. That's in the nature of things. If everybody is the winner, nobody is...
Or to use another exaggerated metaphor: just switching sides from slave to slavemaster won't abolish slavery.
The biggest problem that I see in this whole current dating dynamic is, that even the "winners" get their soul eaten up in the long run and end up disenchanted and cynical. That's because they experience with how ridiculously much antisocial behaviour and downright abuse they can get away with (and have even MORE success with it). This will make them lose respect for their hookups, then for the other sex in general and eventually for themselves.
All that doesn't invalidate your points though. The observations are still spot on, just the direction we are headed as a society is scary and grim.
@TacoBella25
By that logic cold approaching is a dead end from the start, since 90% of men are functionally invisible to women. Combine this with the female tendency to not approach the men they are actually interested in, respectively NOT giving such clues/invitations like discussed in the video and it becomes virtually impossible for people to meet each other in the real world.
You could limit yourself to dating apps of course. But even the mainstream is slowly realizing, that it made dating worse not better.
Key is to find women/men that actually want to be picked up don’t forget lots of women/men are just out with friends for a few drinks or a dance and find it annoying to be constantly approached. This is NOT a rejection to the person itself but rather to the act as it isn’t wanted, not all are out to pick up, some of us are just having a good time not wanting to make an acquaintance. Eye contact is usually a dead giveaway if someone looks at you for a few seconds you know they’re interested.
The solution is for men to quit cold approaching in any way. More and more men are giving up on dating and seeking relationships and I don't blame them. Men, especially young men are better off being single, they will accomplish more and be happier.
@@BrayoTintsAndWrapsPlease leave the red pill cult. Rather than giving up on talking to women why don't you learn how to read their signals and approach women that are open and if you do talk to a girl that rejects you just tell her have a good night. Also you can meet women while you do things. You don't have to make it a special event. Just go out and be social and talk to him around you.
Picked up? For what? That insinuates just for a bang.
Eye contact means nothing. That being said God forbid approaching someone at a SOCIAL event lol.
The biggest mistake is approaching them at all. 95% of them should be sent to Coventry- permanently.
What? Be vulnerable? Share your present emotional experience? Major turnoff for women.
I think a simple compliment works. " i hope you dont mind me complimenting you on your style/ hair/ smile/dress/ bag/ heels/ beautiful eyes/ perfume. What is it? / . And leave it there! She'll be super flattered and talk to you if interesyed. If not step back and just throw a smile now and then.
She's going to think you've got queer eye if you go around asking about anything fashion related. Most men don't give a shit about fashion and women know this. She's going to think you're gay, dude. 😂😂 "I love your bag." If you can say that sentence as a straight man, you're not a straight man.
This whole thing is a crock. Play stupid games. Win silly prices.
9’s and 10’s are insufferable, non-wife material. Long-term, loyal women are below that.
Only if you’re not a 9 or 10 yourself
@@noneofyobusiness7099 not even johnny Depp and Brad Pitt could keep their women in check
Know your value
the only value any of us has in the eyes of Yahweh so your man made value assignments are nonsense
Damn he hit it right on the 👃
OMG i was going to say the dropping of the handkerchief because i remembered pride and prejudice.
I used to approach with my platinum card on my forehead. Worked every time. Now I couldn’t care less. They are just not worth the effort. MGTOW
Ya. That tactic attracted all the people who want to use you.
MGTOW is the best option for young men. Some of the most stressed men Ive encountered were all in relationships. Every married man I’ve ever met advised me never to marry.
Don’t lead with money, they will just milk you and quickly move on. Instead go for humor and physical attraction, something that’s more substantial and longer lasting.
@@BrayoTintsAndWraps what's that, men sent their own way? You don't sound very smart.
If you truly were GYOW, why click on this video & comment?
i never knew that the women looking into your eyes as a come hither signal until I was in my thirties.
0:08 Approaching while not being at least 6’2 with a chiseled jawline, and not worth at least mid-seven figures
Really🤷♀️
Being an invisible man, how would i be noticed to even see social cues in the first place?
Be excellent in her presence. Your odds are better if you're in some sort of environment where you will encounter the same women repeatedly and you are there because of shared interest i.e. some kind of class, church, volunteering, etc.
this guy said everything and nothing at the same time
😂😂😂
Exactly… seduction is all about how you say it, not what you say 😉😂
They often fantasise about someone they don’t even know, and then get angry when she’s not interested. Just treat women like humans and talk to them to get to know them, then you’ll know if they’re interested. Don’t fantasise about someone you don’t even know.
That's what's so called nice guys do that try to befriend a girl to date her. That's shity game.
Stop trying. Just be. It really doesn’t mean anything unless you decide it does. People come and go.
Work on a goal outside of yourself. That is where fulfillment lies. People are attracted to fulfilled people. It doesn’t have to be monetary in nature either.
I wait for women to show interest or approach me.Simple
Need your advice...Other than the "stare" mentioned in this video what are other signs/cues women subtlety let you know they are interested?
But he sang sometimes women will show interest with eye contact or being around you. You kind of have to look for that and go for it.
Good luck with that. You better be above average or an 8-10 out of ten for results
@@angie-dm3boThey'll tell a friend or family member to tell you or they'll show a great deal of interest and extra warmth towards you. Listen to your intuition very closely. You'll feel it. If you feel nothing or especially cold energy radiating from her, don't do it.
Also, don't even bother cold approaching unless you're above an 8 in the looks department. You'll just waste your time (not always, but I'm generalizing here).
Smart move. Choose women who choose you. Life is 100000x easier that way
Biggest mistake: Not being *chad.*
Step 1: Be attractive.
Step 2: Don,t be unattractive.
Biggest mistake is making decisions on an empty stomach or full sack.
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Good...
No entiendo but good...
Resumen: no dudes en hablar, no pienses demasiado, hazle pequeñas peticiones o pídele favores, el contacto visual directo significa interés por parte de ella pero por parte tuya puede ser intrusivo. Suerte! 🎉
Doc Taraban is in his early 40s, not interested in marriage/family and is just seeking to score as much as he can and that's what his messages cover. Nothing wrong with this, but it needs to be stated.
NOOOOO! Today shall absolutely NOT approach at all!!! There are a nr of women, that in best case ruin your life on social media, just because you approached, and in worst case, call the cops on you!!!
Why i should approach a woman and give her Validation which she constantly gets from tons of alpha guys ?
I'd consider myself pretty high level at this but with the knowledge I ain't some male model and quite average. What works is conversation and you don't want to hear this - but average or below. No way some average guy with average finances is dating a supermodel - despite how charming you are. And yes I've pulled a few but they were probably having an off day so you got lucky.
My name is McLovin😏
I am Casanova
I am Adonis
@@deleted01 I get every woman to bed 😀
Just take $10,000 out and whack it on the table. Works every time 😂
Yep. Men and women have been doing that for centuries. It’s called prostitution.
You'll attract the wrong people that way! 😂😂
Sad little man
I can NOT be bought Mr
If you think money gets you laid then you don't have game
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BS. you could approach wrong but if she's physically attracted to you it wont matter(for initial appr) and vice versa you could approach the correct way from the side or up front being present in the moment and if she dont like what she sees it'll be rejection mostly soft rejection but nonetheless rejection. Seen it to many times.
This guy looks insanely similar to Rory Jennings
After many years of working on myself i gave in and started a match account after 6 months 0 interaction. I am not ugly have my own house have hobbies and intersts. No one replies to my conversation starters. Whoch are not agressive more inquisitive. Dammed annoying let me tell you.
Ben Affleck never Cared
Lot of work, isn't it?
Not being six foot and rich
um, why bother
I get every woman to bed 😀
"Flexively adaptive" ha ha ha ha.... Using a parallel to a car salesman ha ha ha ha.... Translation: Learn how to manipulate women.
No. It's lesrning how to listen to your customer and find out what they want to buy.
@@user-cz1gu8nl9o No, it's doing a quick superficial read on a human being to know what they will buy if the right buttons are pushed. That is not the way to a long-term relationship...but I assume the type of guys who do this are not looking for that, so sure.
Golden tip: don’t care so much, just know there are many women on the planet.
I had to turn it off. I’m very familiar with this material. Referring to people as numbers. Gag. Negging. Gag. You have game when you’re confident and you don’t rush it. Not a fan of this guest.
Take your *red pills* instead fellas. 💊
And get your passport, trust me, _it's worth it._ ✈🌍
More American nonsense.
You guys are losing the plot why the fuck would we do any of this? We can get anything we want online. Or you can go to the bar find a girl for the night and move on with like it’s cheaper simpler and life is better
You keep writing this but it has never happened to most men.
2 male bashing feminists.This Dr. Is out of ouch with the youth...