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46:37-48:08 Thank you...! People that judge are often so stupid themselves.

This guy is over-analyzing. Sometimes people just pick the loser. People change over the course of decades, and sometimes it's for the worse. Just because a woman cheats with a loser doesn't mean that the man has some under-lying attachment issue.

So f****** what what's the solution

I think the nice guy bullshit is happening more because of all kinds of shit

I'm 8 minutes in and not a damned thing has been said yet.

I see a lot of men recoiling from this interview, stating that it makes them even more anxious. I don't get that, why does it seem so scary? For me, it's the opposite. It makes sense of so much that used to be bewildering. There's nothing in this interview that should fill someone with dread. The message is, Have Hope! There are absolutely things you can do to have a better time dating and meeting women! I can only imagine that the anxious men simply want to remain passive partners and let life happen to them. But life will hand you nothing. You're men! Stand up, and start reaching for the things you want. Don't retreat into your comforts.

Orion Taraban is a genius....just raised a million notches....

Great info brought to the table.

The thing is that in almost everything i.e. bricklayer, there's an apprenticeship someone to teach you, there's nothing like that for desirability.

Much of this is depressing AF and scary. I thought I was secure but I’m back to being extremely ANXIOUS. Ugh!!!

I'd say that part of being yourself REQUIRES humility. Humility leads to vulnerability, which gets gets rid of fear, which enables the confidence to be ourselves. So any guy that says he is who he is, that person is not being themselves. That person wants something, but is not acting in line with who he truly is, because he is not humbling himself in order to learn how to get what he wants. So allowing ourselves to be puffed up with pride and arrogance literally prevents us from being ourselves. You can say arrogance and prideful behavior is just who that person is, but in reality, that haughty and prideful behavior is actually being used to cover up who that person truly is, and thats motivated by the fear of being vulnerable.

In her mind, the "low value" man, may make he feel genuinely more lived or important. She may very well be fooling herself, but she wasn't getting what she needed from her husband.

Awesome content 👌🏿

I was left for a guy 20 years older. Ego took a big hit. Turns out she's not that into him afterall, just wanted a stability I refused to provide.

The bigger pool, it is like the bride who has to choose between 5 dresses and the other who has an entire warehouse of wedding dresses to pick , the second one is never satisfied enough ( maybe there is a perfect dress in this warehouse) they can't choose.

The lack of self-awareness here! All this talk about desirable men but you’re talking about what men think women desire. Edit: right after I comment, you talk about the cat/milk analogy so you do understand that you don’t understand!

Omg the never ending intro

It’s alive

Orion’s point that men just got to adapt is obviously true on the individual level. We got to play the cards we are dealt with. But it’s no help for men at all on the population level, since men are judged on a relative, percentile basis. Only 10% men will ever be considered top 10% attractive. Of course, that’s not a problem for Orion who would be doing fine in dating with his ultra successful RUclips channel 😂

Meet me in a seedy alley.

Orion can be nefarious with me.

I enjoyed this. I like everything you guys said, but I noticed that you missed a critical aspect on why a woman doesn't want to have sex as the relationship progresses. If a man is complaining that his lady doesn't want sex, this very complaint already tells you the problem. He is too hyper focused on his own needs to the point of complaining like a little boy which tells you he has a mindset that makes him unnattractive. A woman must feel heard and understood, which helps her feel SAFE. She must feel cared for, which is why the courtship is never supposed to end. She must feel like her man is the leader with the family and the household and is able to stand up for himself. She must feel his strength to stay calm even when she is not. If those criteria are not met, it destroys the sexual polarity, because she begins to feel like her husband is one of the children that SHE has to lead. It puts her in her masculine because the man is acting feminine by being complacent. There is absolutely no way a woman can feel genuine desire for a man who does NOT act like a man. It's a man's BEHAVIOR that makes the difference. So when a man complains, instead of taking the lead and upbuilding his wife, he comes off as more of a child and turns her off even more. I get that age can be a factor in less sex, but in most cases, less sex occurs because the man doesn't act masculine and relinquishes leadership to his woman, which she does not like, then he makes it worse with complaints. In the same way, when a man is trying to take the lead, but the woman fights him for the lead, that will also destroy sexual polarity. The honeymoon stage is just a feeling of newness which wares off. If the man chose a woman he has a true romantic interest in and he knows how to show up properly as a man, the sex generally doesn't stop because the woman tends to want it more than him. Men hyper focused on sex and the ones that refuse to learn how to properly show up will never experience that. The man has to be the masculine so the woman can relax into her feminine. This even cuts through all attachment styles, although a person still has to vet for integrity and things like that, because unhealthy attachments can still mean disloyalty when things aren't going well.

Good, the trash took itself out. Like attracts alike.

Thanks for having me!!

LoL

I'm over five and a half minutes in and there hasn't been a single correlation to the title of the video and the content of the conversation 👀 seems more like an overview on medicine and knowledge acquisition rather than a talk on relationships. Might be helpful to get to the pertinent information in a video sooner rather than later. EDIT: 6:45 looks to be when you get going lol.

50yo retired single guy, never married, no kids and celibate - honestly the happiest I've ever been in my life. I absolutely love living without the pain of women trying to manipulate, use or play you off with someone else.

In the 80s the world started getting financial iced. As well pussy got commoditized. Then came the internet and it revealed an amplified this construct.

Hey Orion, call shamanism placebo is pure ignorance. With all due respect. Total ignorance. If you wish to keep the excellent intellectual level of yours, please educate or nuance. Thanks and regards!

Just do not marry!

Self sabotage is more common than you think.

Hi ! HFM this channel has a potential to grow Keep it up 👍 . Help men how to be a real man never teach them to hate woman. Hope women also not to hate men. We need each other to make our planet a better place to live. Thanks for inviting Dr. O and I really like this kind of talk 👍 GodSpeed 🙏

Women have complete disdain for good guys. They think good guys are just an act. Women want to turn the fuq boy into a husband bottom line

If she leave you for the bum then let the bum have that tramp, get over the feelings then go get another one

Psychacks

Well, depends, if your just a freaken common senseless dork, the yes i can see her choosing something else, success doesn't make the guy, most financially successful guys are literary moral morons,,

Lmao orion is a savage

Trying so hard to stand out and trying to compete with other dudes is exactly what makes you NOT stand out. That communicates low confidence and it communicates that you don't think you deserve to get what you want. I'd be careful of the advice you take from Orion. He over complicates everything in his mind to the point of becoming unnattractive to a woman. Then complains about it, looks towards superficiality to explain things away so he doesn't have to take responsibility for his own behavior or change anything, and then blames the woman. And he sounds really smart when he does it, so it seems correct, but it isn't.

Herophilus & Erasistratus were accused of dissection & vivisection of humans - considering they served Ptolemy in Alexandria - If they said to the god-king: "We can find the secret of immortality!" I'm pretty sure he'd say: "take 1000 criminals, do the research!" So, some people are willing to cut things apart and find how things work.

I like how Doctor Orion keeps on trying to understand people and relationships. I might not agree with him in some things, but he is adorable. Once I asked a woman, who cheated her husband on with someone who worked in her house, why? One night stand with such a guy? She answered: "I really enjoyed, how much he was turned on by me. I felt like a woman again". It is very important guys to understand that you must keep on giving that feeling to your woman. If you stop, good luck with that, you will be cheated on, no matter how much value you can show.

Amazing wisdom about talking about value from 45:34- 51:49. Gems that can fill up a diamond mine.

👏 👏 👏 Finally!

Can you show us the research on X about sexual promiscuity ?

Most men aren’t that charming? Speak for yourself bro. I think Orion misses the point on a few things.