7:04 what I am saying is high schoolers don't date😭💔 university huns and gents work hard and chow course don't let relationships distract you. In Uni continue finding yourself in your 20's. The more you look to God ( Yah) He will bring your spouse. Isaiah 60:22❤Just Love Jesus Christ in your Youth!!! From :❤A loving 20 year old virgin sister❤
this is a good idea but instead its not impossible for god to give your spouse in highschool, instead date depending on gods voice and what he tells you to do!!
1 John 1:15 "Do not love the world or anything of the world. If anyone loves the world, the father is not in them. For everything in the world -the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life-comes not from the Father but from the world. The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever "❤
I'm a 19 year old who has realised that indulging in the desire for instant gratification, can lead to negative consequences, through viewing such content. I just want let you know that even with thousand of negative comments you recieve, there are people, like myself, who are willing to learn from you and become better people❤.
It takes a certain self awareness to understand this. This message is going to fly over a lot of people’s head and call you a hater. Unfortunately they’ll learn the hard way, it’s the best teacher
Preach wena girl, speak the truth. Don't forget the babies that never saw the daylight and ended up at Marie Stopes and the evil dark spirits that brings into women's lives. And with guys the evil rituals or ukuthwala that also comes with dark cloud such as death and generational poverty and curses that go down to the 4th generation they are inviting to themselves. We not judging but speak the truth. Patience and hard work leads to true wealth
Women think this is not a significant thing but the snyama from this lasts their whole life. Ritualists steal destinies for a moment of pleasure and worse their lives
@karldrogo9765 it's true they don't understand. The thing is even if you tell them they think you jealous or narrating a fairy tale until someone is old and achieving nothing or nothing significant in life or their life is just stagnant and going nowhere slowly
Our politicians are top of the list. It has filtered to the people on the ground. Knowing your worth can also be in a good way, where men who take advantage of girls sexually. That was what guided me from a young age. Being independent was foremost for me, thank God my mum sat me down and warned me about what is happening in this world. Men with money were just a turn off, because I could just envisage how it was going to turn out. I always say that I respect a prostitute because she is upfront that she in business. But the hypocrites who pretend to be these good girls, but are just after money are the dangerous ones. Hence the Nigerians class South African women as being only after money. They have no shame to be labeled as such. Thank you for bringing up this subject as a young person.
@@hildadavids217 Your mum did very well and keep it up, it will pay off in the long run even in the short run. Because these things don't end well especially for girls unfortunately, if you follow each story you will see these girls end up sick, die or just permanently depressed just surviving and not living life to the fullest. Its just we get distracted with new stories as if this lifestyle is sustainable but each story never end well at all. Keep it up
I hate the fact that materialism has young people forgetting ,that the people we are envious of are in their thirties meaning they were once where we are ,with nothing and were nobodies and they are now reaping the rewards of patience, resilience, hardwork, discipline and self investment.We as we are supposed to be pouring in ourselves,dealing with our childhood traumas, unfortunate backgrounds, learning, exploring and finding our purposes so that we can change the world with our unique talents,we are chasing after illusions.Success that is obtained gradually can be maintained and REAL LIFE is Slow.
The Lord Christ Jesus said, "Take heed and beware of covetousness, for one's life does not consist in the abundance of the things he possesses ". Spot on Dadewethu.
Loved this video. If I can add on for men one thing I always preach to my brother is build yourself, make solid friends and build solid relationships with family and even a gf. When you pursuing a career with money don't forget to add character. For woman don't get sucked up into the social media world. Most of those people are faking it.. Remember your morals and values
Instant gratification pushes people to extreme lengths to gain whatever their heart so desires. A lack of contentment is the worst thing to have in your life, because you will inevitably compromise your morals & values in most cases. Also, many young men like myself are literally so depressed because of the unnecessarily high and unrealistic expectations and standards that have been set by some women and men like Andrew Tate - if you don't have a Bugatti Veyron, you're "useless" and you're not a "high value man." The red pill space has contributed to young men chasing materialistic items that are completely unrealistic and far from their reach.
Having nice things can be enjoyable, but they should serve as a reward for our hard work, not the central purpose of our existence. Life is about striking a balance: working diligently while also taking the time to enjoy moments with our loved ones. Achieving material success should reflect our milestones, demonstrating that we can provide for our family and help them achieve their dreams, like an early retirement for our parents. However, allowing the pursuit of wealth to consume you can ultimately lead to your downfall.
The worst problem with materialism is that it prevents you from really building your life. We can put our own lives on hold for things. Sometimes struggle and simple helps you realise the real worth of things. Person can only sleep in one bed or drive one car at a time anyway...
Wow Sihle, your speaking nothing but FACTS. As someone who is young too, i truly take your advice to heart. I hope this reaches many people, especially young ones❤
Thank you for your wisdom. I’m going to use it to protect myself and my loved ones. We pray for the Good God to protect us from this kind of life. ❤ Thank you so much. I’m not going to wait for a man, I’m going to work on myself and my business. Thank you so much.
Fantastic Video. I teeter somewhere in the middle of this conversation . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with liking nice stuff but you are damn right . Balance is very important. I was once a victim of consumerism constantly buying unnecessary things I didn’t really need that go out of fashion fast too . But recently as I stopped spending so much on such items and started saving more I have been able to invest in several businesses . I really hope most of the girlies see the light soon as the sad thing is most of them do not use the funds to do anything valuable for there lives or the lives of others and in the end of the day in years to come they have nothing tangible to show in terms of achievement in life . Misplaced priorities is rife especially these days in the African continent . I was born and raised in London but now live in a country in west Africa and when I speak to the fellow average young girls here I am amazed at how shallow a majority think . It seems most of them always end up down and out and bitter . Love to you all . X God help our generation.
Hi everyone I have to confess alot of things to Jesus. I have fallen into sexual sin/ sexual immorality. I have been chasing alot of things but nothing gives me fulfilment. This lie that I am living is damaging me. Please pray for me.
I agree withe everything. Thank you for making the video. I am 40, and I also see a trend of younger men who show interest and with time you realize they wanna borrow your car or ask for money...the love of money is indeed the root of all evil.
Sometimes it feels like you are the only sane person in the world.. when you go on social media and find people indorsing filth and making it normal. So refreshing to see that I'm normal and that there are others like me whose heads still work. Let's pray for our nation. American culture is destroying our beautiful people.
Girl... you're so blunt on everything, I'm just giggling each time you spit a gem cause wow! One would think your bitter but in actual fact, your just honest. We need more like you.
My spirit always knew that fast things are not good and thank God I had a present family. Hearing you articulate it has given me a clearer understanding as to what kind of potential dangers may come. Thank you Sihle for providing such a different and true perspective. Peer pressure was real in high school . I'm glad I stayed a teenager while I was a teenager.
I love you Sihle ❤️ . I’ve been thinking about this topic for the past week , I even started doing longer meditation exercises to try and detach from my worldly desires . Now I’m seeing this video 🫂❤️, you just gained a subscriber
yohhhh I'm a baby mama, and I'm almost 24. what you are saying is facts. now I'm being disrespected by kids (his girlfriends). be careful y'all. kodwa mina I'mma keep on pushing my registered, legal business. while he chases fast life, I'll see how it ends. btw my baby daddy is also my age. I can't imagine going thru this with an older guy.
Our little sibling. You have said a mouthful. Those with ears to hear let them hear. Your discernment is on point! ❤ Keep your eyes on Jesus. Much love and respect always.
Life is short. Enjoy what you can accordingly to your pockets but never let it rule you. I enjoy my designer bags i worked hard for but they don't define me. Happy new year and enjoy what you have in good health
Hi Sihleeey It would make a huge difference if married men who are accomplished would not entertain these girls and stay with their wives I honestly wish that men would value they're families more then just boosting their egos. When men have money especially alot of it they forget what they need and go for what they want.
A lion will always eat meat if it has the chance. Blame should be on women. A men can have money but it is a women who is a keeper of sex, if a women doesn't want a men with money can do nothing
Sadly this mindset is also what leads a lot of young women to flying to Dubai just so they can eat poop and sleep with dogs. People really need to understand that the love of money is truly the root of all evil. I feel very bad for our generation because I believe that a lot of people will have so many regrets in the future. 💔
While enjoying nice things can bring joy, they should be a testament to our hard work rather than the primary goal of our lives. Striking a balance is essential: we must dedicate ourselves to our careers while cherishing moments with those we love. Material achievements should symbolise our progress, showcasing our ability to support our families and help them realise their dreams, like giving our parents the option of an early retirement. However, if the pursuit of wealth becomes all-consuming, it can lead to our undoing. This is why I embrace materialism. Having risen from humble beginnings, it’s natural for me to appreciate material possessions. By chasing financial freedom, I can ultimately choose to be materialistic or not.
Good info , this woman speaks nice . Personal I don’t like decent girls like her . Blame me . I got my heart break from a girl well mannered and presentable like her . I rather stick to women who are materialistic .
How can you not agree for sihleey to be president for our next generation course this sister speak facts of life she should be put on Skeem’s Saam for part she educate our country hle.
I feel like the caption of the video is not aligned with the context of the video. Maybe the video should be titled as “How young people comprise themselves in pursuit of soft lie”. Because when I saw the caption, I thought that the video was about demonising materialism and promoting minimalism.
Agree with you on this topic especially consumerism without knowing how to start a business but the question is how about starting a new business is it chasing material also????????
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"What does it profit a man that he gains the whole world but loses his soul"!
Wealth and freedom that comes from having money
Amen
@@Oluwafreya If your soul is that worthless then I pity you.
7:04 what I am saying is high schoolers don't date😭💔 university huns and gents work hard and chow course don't let relationships distract you. In Uni continue finding yourself in your 20's. The more you look to God ( Yah) He will bring your spouse. Isaiah 60:22❤Just Love Jesus Christ in your Youth!!!
From :❤A loving 20 year old virgin sister❤
Halelluyah! You the 1% out of the 99%. May Yah bless you for your obedience my sister.
this is a good idea but instead its not impossible for god to give your spouse in highschool, instead date depending on gods voice and what he tells you to do!!
I'm a 21 year old guy, also a virgin (by choice, religious reasons). Keep it up.
No music no nothing just facts. My sister you are a blessing ❤
I LOVE THIS!
Listen she is spitting 🔥 👌 👏
1 John 1:15 "Do not love the world or anything of the world. If anyone loves the world, the father is not in them. For everything in the world -the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life-comes not from the Father but from the world. The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever "❤
Amen!
Thanks!
I'm a 19 year old who has realised that indulging in the desire for instant gratification, can lead to negative consequences, through viewing such content. I just want let you know that even with thousand of negative comments you recieve, there are people, like myself, who are willing to learn from you and become better people❤.
So true
It takes a certain self awareness to understand this. This message is going to fly over a lot of people’s head and call you a hater. Unfortunately they’ll learn the hard way, it’s the best teacher
God told me that the system of Babylon is hidden behind social media😢😢
Yeyii be happy with what you have hle😭 social media is a lie guys
❤
Yazin...a lot is going on out there
A whole lie
Preach wena girl, speak the truth. Don't forget the babies that never saw the daylight and ended up at Marie Stopes and the evil dark spirits that brings into women's lives. And with guys the evil rituals or ukuthwala that also comes with dark cloud such as death and generational poverty and curses that go down to the 4th generation they are inviting to themselves. We not judging but speak the truth. Patience and hard work leads to true wealth
Women think this is not a significant thing but the snyama from this lasts their whole life. Ritualists steal destinies for a moment of pleasure and worse their lives
@karldrogo9765 it's true they don't understand. The thing is even if you tell them they think you jealous or narrating a fairy tale until someone is old and achieving nothing or nothing significant in life or their life is just stagnant and going nowhere slowly
Amen you cannot do evil and reap good.
Our politicians are top of the list. It has filtered to the people on the ground. Knowing your worth can also be in a good way, where men who take advantage of girls sexually. That was what guided me from a young age. Being independent was foremost for me, thank God my mum sat me down and warned me about what is happening in this world. Men with money were just a turn off, because I could just envisage how it was going to turn out. I always say that I respect a prostitute because she is upfront that she in business. But the hypocrites who pretend to be these good girls, but are just after money are the dangerous ones. Hence the Nigerians class South African women as being only after money. They have no shame to be labeled as such. Thank you for bringing up this subject as a young person.
@@hildadavids217 Your mum did very well and keep it up, it will pay off in the long run even in the short run. Because these things don't end well especially for girls unfortunately, if you follow each story you will see these girls end up sick, die or just permanently depressed just surviving and not living life to the fullest. Its just we get distracted with new stories as if this lifestyle is sustainable but each story never end well at all. Keep it up
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I hate the fact that materialism has young people forgetting ,that the people we are envious of are in their thirties meaning they were once where we are ,with nothing and were nobodies and they are now reaping the rewards of patience, resilience, hardwork, discipline and self investment.We as we are supposed to be pouring in ourselves,dealing with our childhood traumas, unfortunate backgrounds, learning, exploring and finding our purposes so that we can change the world with our unique talents,we are chasing after illusions.Success that is obtained gradually can be maintained and REAL LIFE is Slow.
I mean ❤
😂I found myself jealous of a 42 yr old man, that's when I told myself chill I'm not even 23 to Begin with
'REAL LIFE is slow' 💐 that's the gold
@@ImmaculateIsaboke imagine and unfortunately thats where most of the Youth are but as long you have the right narrative you'll pull through
Woman, you're a treasure to our young and future generations ❤
The Lord Christ Jesus said, "Take heed and beware of covetousness, for one's life does not consist in the abundance of the things he possesses ". Spot on Dadewethu.
Loved this video.
If I can add on for men one thing I always preach to my brother is build yourself, make solid friends and build solid relationships with family and even a gf.
When you pursuing a career with money don't forget to add character.
For woman don't get sucked up into the social media world. Most of those people are faking it..
Remember your morals and values
Your content is very important in SA today shem, you are so wise and I wish I was your friend .
Instant gratification pushes people to extreme lengths to gain whatever their heart so desires.
A lack of contentment is the worst thing to have in your life, because you will inevitably compromise your morals & values in most cases.
Also, many young men like myself are literally so depressed because of the unnecessarily high and unrealistic expectations and standards that have been set by some women and men like Andrew Tate - if you don't have a Bugatti Veyron, you're "useless" and you're not a "high value man."
The red pill space has contributed to young men chasing materialistic items that are completely unrealistic and far from their reach.
What colour is your Bugatti?
@@persiizee1819 My Toyota Tazz is silver.🥂
@givenmabussi danko
Having nice things can be enjoyable, but they should serve as a reward for our hard work, not the central purpose of our existence.
Life is about striking a balance: working diligently while also taking the time to enjoy moments with our loved ones.
Achieving material success should reflect our milestones, demonstrating that we can provide for our family and help them achieve their dreams, like an early retirement for our parents.
However, allowing the pursuit of wealth to consume you can ultimately lead to your downfall.
The worst problem with materialism is that it prevents you from really building your life. We can put our own lives on hold for things. Sometimes struggle and simple helps you realise the real worth of things. Person can only sleep in one bed or drive one car at a time anyway...
Wow Sihle, your speaking nothing but FACTS. As someone who is young too, i truly take your advice to heart. I hope this reaches many people, especially young ones❤
Thank you for your wisdom. I’m going to use it to protect myself and my loved ones. We pray for the Good God to protect us from this kind of life. ❤ Thank you so much. I’m not going to wait for a man, I’m going to work on myself and my business. Thank you so much.
Fantastic Video. I teeter somewhere in the middle of this conversation . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with liking nice stuff but you are damn right . Balance is very important. I was once a victim of consumerism constantly buying unnecessary things I didn’t really need that go out of fashion fast too . But recently as I stopped spending so much on such items and started saving more I have been able to invest in several businesses . I really hope most of the girlies see the light soon as the sad thing is most of them do not use the funds to do anything valuable for there lives or the lives of others and in the end of the day in years to come they have nothing tangible to show in terms of achievement in life . Misplaced priorities is rife especially these days in the African continent . I was born and raised in London but now live in a country in west Africa and when I speak to the fellow average young girls here I am amazed at how shallow a majority think . It seems most of them always end up down and out and bitter . Love to you all . X God help our generation.
Thank you for this beautiful message🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hi everyone I have to confess alot of things to Jesus. I have fallen into sexual sin/ sexual immorality. I have been chasing alot of things but nothing gives me fulfilment. This lie that I am living is damaging me. Please pray for me.
Praying for you❤Jesus will save you if you ask Him to. 🙏
I agree withe everything. Thank you for making the video. I am 40, and I also see a trend of younger men who show interest and with time you realize they wanna borrow your car or ask for money...the love of money is indeed the root of all evil.
Sometimes it feels like you are the only sane person in the world.. when you go on social media and find people indorsing filth and making it normal. So refreshing to see that I'm normal and that there are others like me whose heads still work. Let's pray for our nation. American culture is destroying our beautiful people.
Appreciated. My daughter is turning 11 and as soon as she starts blossoming, I'm turning her to some of your videos.
8:46 Yess Sihle 😭 even betway makes them think education is not important. 💔Its sad.
What kind of man are u dating 😂😂🤣🤣
Haibo🤣🤣🤣🤣
😅😅😅😅@@Cramos1771
Girl... you're so blunt on everything, I'm just giggling each time you spit a gem cause wow! One would think your bitter but in actual fact, your just honest.
We need more like you.
My spirit always knew that fast things are not good and thank God I had a present family. Hearing you articulate it has given me a clearer understanding as to what kind of potential dangers may come. Thank you Sihle for providing such a different and true perspective. Peer pressure was real in high school . I'm glad I stayed a teenager while I was a teenager.
I love you Sihle ❤️ . I’ve been thinking about this topic for the past week , I even started doing longer meditation exercises to try and detach from my worldly desires . Now I’m seeing this video 🫂❤️, you just gained a subscriber
yohhhh I'm a baby mama, and I'm almost 24. what you are saying is facts. now I'm being disrespected by kids (his girlfriends). be careful y'all. kodwa mina I'mma keep on pushing my registered, legal business. while he chases fast life, I'll see how it ends. btw my baby daddy is also my age. I can't imagine going thru this with an older guy.
You are also still a kid.
Work on yourself not on to show him that you can do it,, a woman without a men in her life destroys herself further
@@SelloLebea-yd2pq I needed this, thank you so much Sello
Our little sibling. You have said a mouthful. Those with ears to hear let them hear. Your discernment is on point! ❤ Keep your eyes on Jesus.
Much love and respect always.
Celestial did say that materialism will get young woman killed. I hope they listen!!
No lie , I was like a sister in christ on some comment you made , now I wanna be your friend 😭...I love celestial
You are very smart may God bless you.Wish many young people had that mindset
Amen Sister, this is very true so wish people could wake up n face the reality as well as stop living in delusion.
Life is short. Enjoy what you can accordingly to your pockets but never let it rule you. I enjoy my designer bags i worked hard for but they don't define me. Happy new year and enjoy what you have in good health
This channel needs more recognition
Hi Sihleeey It would make a huge difference if married men who are accomplished would not entertain these girls and stay with their wives I honestly wish that men would value they're families more then just boosting their egos. When men have money especially alot of it they forget what they need and go for what they want.
A lion will always eat meat if it has the chance.
Blame should be on women.
A men can have money but it is a women who is a keeper of sex, if a women doesn't want a men with money can do nothing
Girl, you just got yourself a subscriber
This video contains a great deal of insight. Thank you
Sadly this mindset is also what leads a lot of young women to flying to Dubai just so they can eat poop and sleep with dogs. People really need to understand that the love of money is truly the root of all evil.
I feel very bad for our generation because I believe that a lot of people will have so many regrets in the future. 💔
While enjoying nice things can bring joy, they should be a testament to our hard work rather than the primary goal of our lives.
Striking a balance is essential: we must dedicate ourselves to our careers while cherishing moments with those we love.
Material achievements should symbolise our progress, showcasing our ability to support our families and help them realise their dreams, like giving our parents the option of an early retirement.
However, if the pursuit of wealth becomes all-consuming, it can lead to our undoing.
This is why I embrace materialism. Having risen from humble beginnings, it’s natural for me to appreciate material possessions. By chasing financial freedom, I can ultimately choose to be materialistic or not.
This is what we need to be hearing love the message love new subscriber.❤
Just subscribed...ur my type of person.. someone i wanna be friends with..an inspirational friend.. thank you for the video! U speak the truth.
I needed to hear this, thank you!!!❤
Shout out to you Sihleey... saw your colab with Ask an Older MAN channel.... iM SO PROUD KEEP THE FLAG UP and shine sisi!!!!!!
Preach sis, If no one's gonna say it.
P R E A C H !!!
The truth in everything that you have said... if only these high school and varsities girls see this.. And they really age quickly..
You and I should be friends. I need people with this mindset in my life ❤ you just gained a follower xx
So well said !!
So many great points here !!
Woooow, profound hlemma. You gained a new sub
You are looking better and better every week
This lady said it all!!
i just love Sihle, always speaks facts
You just earned a subscriber, lemme go watch everyting else!!!
Blessed with wisdom bizo❤
Don't forget to leave a like 😅
Finally found you..a voice of reason..of common sense..beautiful my sister❤
Splitting facts!!!!!
2:46 yess girl wee see the hair umhle sana!!❤❤🥺🥹
God bless you and every other woman who thinks like you.
Good info , this woman speaks nice .
Personal I don’t like decent girls like her . Blame me . I got my heart break from a girl well mannered and presentable like her .
I rather stick to women who are materialistic .
so much wisdom 👌
the wisest of our generation😇
How can you not agree for sihleey to be president for our next generation course this sister speak facts of life she should be put on Skeem’s Saam for part she educate our country hle.
Finally got you on RUclips. Lemme get into it
You opened my eyes thank you. ❤
So powerful 💪❤
1 Timothy 2:9
The truth in this, is I've started praying on payday and I can see the difference in my savings account ❤😊
I like this channel!
Just saw you on Paul (ASk an Older Man). Good Job!
FACTS!!!!!!!!
I feel like the caption of the video is not aligned with the context of the video. Maybe the video should be titled as “How young people comprise themselves in pursuit of soft lie”.
Because when I saw the caption, I thought that the video was about demonising materialism and promoting minimalism.
Hai shame wena 🙌🙌🙌
U r such a gem ❤
Facts on facts. 💯💯
Oh I love Sihle ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Preach 🙌🏿
Its refreshing to see the are still real women like you who are wise and speak facts
You know women like her ,give worst heart breaks trust me
You have just gained a subscriber here 👏🏽👏🏽
Yesterday girl, you ate so mature for your age! Wow- quality woman...everything you said.
I only learn all this in my 30s👌🏼
Teach your peers!🙌🏼🙌🏼
Speak Sis!
My darling you're spreading GOODNEWS🔥
Yeah preach 🗣️
We are not here to feed our lowest desires, there’s so much to life.
Great videooooooooooooo!!!!!! this video showed up right on time. God is good
Amen sister!
Thank you for this Mam
Mhm. Siyabonga sisi. ❤
It's very sad cos that's where witchcraft starts when people want what's not theirs or what they can't afford
Spilling stinging facts!🔥🔥🔥
Agree with you on this topic especially consumerism without knowing how to start a business but the question is how about starting a new business is it chasing material also????????
No, just start. It's an advise to myself too.🎉
Girl you're so smart...
Subscribed with immediate effect
Cho Cho Chooooo!!! My Sista !!! You are KOOKING !!!!
Wisdom
Sihle, I love you. ❤
I’m not even materialistic 😂I just don’t wanna be broke 🤣I’ll never go behind a marry man that is twice my age
Just came across you, girl I am hooked ❤
Wow! You Killed this