While I understand that your focus here is how important it is for us as women to develop ourselves more intrinsically….but ladies don’t ever and I repeat don’t ever underestimate the power that comes with investing in your physical appearance It’s as important But ke awonoma ngalonto Thank you!!!
ewe, I feel like we need to be careful not to demonise beauty. I firmly believe God can use ur beauty, & I don’t think there’s anything wrong with trying to protect ur beauty. the only problem is idolising ur beauty.
Men love beautiful women. But chaos quickly drives them away. Work on your physical appearance not for esthetics sake, but for your health. Be comfortable in your own skin, look natural, because the man you're attracting is obviously natural. Also try and heal from past traumas, especially those childhood ones, ey they can turn a beautiful relationship upside down.
I enjoyed this so much. Not only do we think looks make us valuable but we also think looks and money make a man. Just because a man has money or looks good does not mean he will bring value as the head of a home, husband or father. Social media has distorted what VALUE really is. Infact things like kindness, respect, loyalty are so down played. Keep speaking your truth Sihle.
A man must be judged on his character more than anything. Not to say money is not important, what you will find is that a man of strong character is / will be a man of means, his natural inclination will be that of a provider & protector.
Sihle, you’re brilliant. Everything you said hit the nail on the head, this is what men are dealing with, women of low character who are hyper materialistic and vane. You have got another subscriber 💯
Thank you so much Sihle 🥹I’m 17 years old and most of the woman in my family focus on vanity but I want to be different and you helped me . I hope that I can meet you one day 🩵.God bless you, I love you 😊
you know ive just started my journey following christ, you make so much sense and i feel like you are quite misunderstood on tiktok. the world is a dark place now. you have so much wisdom. GOD bless you.
Yohh Sihle waze wangitshela indaba zami ngiyathokoza ... i wish you can break it down futher more focusing on how one should rebrand... i am a 23 year old who's been a celibate for a while now ...trying to rebrand and build my relationship with God
I'm all for this talk neh, but why is it "men centered" why is the value directed at men seeing us worthy? Can't we as women take value in individuality, not for men most of the times, but for you as an individual, like be an intelligent person,be valuable,work hard,invest in knowledge, in assets, in family, for you not to be seen by men so they can marry us or stay longer.....😢it's sad that everything we do as women to empower ourselves ultimately bubbles down to being a good woman to a man first 😢I don't know.thats just my take
I think most of her channel is centred around men. I suppose there’s nothing wrong w/ that bc a lot of women are male centred so she does have a target market, it’s just that sometimes it comes off like she has a jaded perception of what (societally) beautiful women think & how they act. but then again maybe the women she’s talking about do exist..? but it sounds like such a small group. idk.
The name WOMAN is based on MAN (ie womb carrying MAN). The name FEMALE (ie fetus carrying MALE). The woman came from the man that is y she is "Man centred". First centre, God the Father, 2nd Biological Father, Third Husband. Thank you for the question❤
@@oscarmalaakgosi2665 what…? God is the only being your life should be centred around. if you disagree atleast provide verses. & this is literally SA, the majority ‘fathers’ are deadbeat & we live in one of the highest GBV regions especially domestic violence cases of husband’s abusing their wives… how does it make it sense to centre our lives around sinful beings? (even if you said to centre our lives around women)
That's just how it is. The quicker we accept it the quicker we can move on. Mina I'm tired ke of fighting for our gender. We will lose. That's just how it is.
I believe God is raising a generation of young men and women who represents his kingdom.People who will be a representation of kingdom marriages ,not the facades that we have acquitted ourselves with.I also think we are busy promoting promiscuity by normalising co-parenting, meaning it is ohk to sleep around as long as we co-parent successfully from the normal baby mama/daddy situation. Marriages as God's holy institution for living right and bringing offspring which will be healthy adults with something to contribute to society has been overlooked so much that it dents relationship as the gateway to meanful marriages .Vanity of vanities indeed
Hmm girl now this is a good word, thank you Holy Spirit!🙌 This is the real definition of a high value woman. A high value woman does not fixate her value based on superficial things but substantially. Being transformed by the renewing of their minds❤ Romans 12:2 Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.
We cannot be a woman of value outside of being a faithful bride to the Lord Jesus Christ. No man who is outside Christ should even be able to locate you.
Great video as always but revenge body show wasnt just about trying to make man feel like the lost something and wanting him to coming back. There were cases where people came cause they wanted to fix themselves. Some were bullied and put down by their parents, sisters etc. And that an effect on them growing up and who they are as adults.
Can I practice being a Proverbs 31 woman as a 15 year old ? I once fell into a trend because of my peers and I still regret it until today but I gave my life to Jesus and I want to seek wisdom and gain insight. Any tips ?
@JohnKumalinga yes the Lord does it for us not to hurt others but to give us peace and salvation. Whilst we are in him we should pray for those who hurt us. Our healing is to glorify God and only to glorify God. It has nothing to do with what others do, they will have their own judgment. In Christ he will avenge to save your soul and other souls as well.
Proverbs 12:4 - “An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who shames him is as rottenness in his bones.” To just add a little to what you are pointing out. When someone hero worships themselves and wants to be worshiped that is pride and that is not right at all. Also when someone looks down on their man then they definitely cant claim to be a proverbs 31 woman and funny how most baddies just call themselves that. I like proverbs 12:4, an excellent wif is the crown of her husband, as we all know what makes the king a king is a the crown losely translated a man with an excellent wife feels and is a king, but when a woman shames him that woman is rottenness in his bones. Loosely translated a man with a woman that shames him is even weakened at the core of his bones than when he was alone.
Also something to just buttress the point you spoke about women with no flas and i think this one applies to everyone both man and women in the faith. People like measuring their partners using 1 Corinthians 13:4: "Love is patient and kind; it does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude", but i think arrogance and being rude and boastful is you standing on a high horse to measure the person you are dating 's love to you before self introspecting to see if you measure up yourself. In short all i am saying is the Lord hates unjust scales and just like the Lord Jesus we should be willing to serve, and the moment you decide to sit on a high horse and want to claim the love you are receiving from your person you are being short changes you are most likely what you are claiming the other person is.
And earthly marriage between a groom (man) and a bride (woman) is supposed to be a shadow/representation of that relationship between God and His people/Jesus and His church. Within that context, a woman would do well by aspiring to be a Proverbs 31 woman.
Women see another girl getting something and being treated a certain way, so they feel they want a man that will do that and a man has to do all that for them and they start making it a requirement, but don't know what she did to get things there
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Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised
While I understand that your focus here is how important it is for us as women to develop ourselves more intrinsically….but ladies don’t ever and I repeat don’t ever underestimate the power that comes with investing in your physical appearance
It’s as important
But ke awonoma ngalonto
Thank you!!!
She did say that
ewe, I feel like we need to be careful not to demonise beauty. I firmly believe God can use ur beauty, & I don’t think there’s anything wrong with trying to protect ur beauty. the only problem is idolising ur beauty.
Men love beautiful women. But chaos quickly drives them away.
Work on your physical appearance not for esthetics sake, but for your health. Be comfortable in your own skin, look natural, because the man you're attracting is obviously natural.
Also try and heal from past traumas, especially those childhood ones, ey they can turn a beautiful relationship upside down.
No time for healing, people be jumping from one relationship to another like it's nothing 😢 its scary
Love this. This is beautiful
Sihleeey, YOU TREAD WHERE ANGELS FEAR TO TREAD!
True revenge is in mind.😊
Well said Sihle!
I enjoyed this so much. Not only do we think looks make us valuable but we also think looks and money make a man. Just because a man has money or looks good does not mean he will bring value as the head of a home, husband or father. Social media has distorted what VALUE really is. Infact things like kindness, respect, loyalty are so down played.
Keep speaking your truth Sihle.
We value fake value and devalue real value. How can we untangle from this disillusionment?
A man must be judged on his character more than anything. Not to say money is not important, what you will find is that a man of strong character is / will be a man of means, his natural inclination will be that of a provider & protector.
"My sister you still the same"💀
Sihle, you’re brilliant. Everything you said hit the nail on the head, this is what men are dealing with, women of low character who are hyper materialistic and vane. You have got another subscriber 💯
louder!! “high value woman” just because you do your lashes and nails 4 times a month?😭please heyyy
😭😭😭😭😭😭
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Right?
You can be a high value woman whether you choose to maintain yourself this way or not. It's a heart issue
@@zuziwekubheka9368 you missed it. nobody said the two can't coexist. it definitely is a heart issue though, i'll agree with you on that.
I love you my girl❤❤. Thank you for making morals fashionable. I'm so tired of this social media vanity.
Finaly someone said it. Love this so much
Thank you so much Sihle 🥹I’m 17 years old and most of the woman in my family focus on vanity but I want to be different and you helped me . I hope that I can meet you one day 🩵.God bless you, I love you 😊
you know ive just started my journey following christ, you make so much sense and i feel like you are quite misunderstood on tiktok. the world is a dark place now. you have so much wisdom. GOD bless you.
Yohh Sihle waze wangitshela indaba zami ngiyathokoza ... i wish you can break it down futher more focusing on how one should rebrand... i am a 23 year old who's been a celibate for a while now ...trying to rebrand and build my relationship with God
You and I both
Hey Sihleey❤ 4:21 well said.🙏 A real man is also a leader. A lion must be with a lioness.
She in the kitchen again..👩🍳🍲🔥🔥🔥
the feast!!! cooked baked and did a whole 3 course!!
5:42 girl you hit the nail. 😂😂🙌🙌🔥💯🔥🔥🔥
I'm all for this talk neh, but why is it "men centered" why is the value directed at men seeing us worthy? Can't we as women take value in individuality, not for men most of the times, but for you as an individual, like be an intelligent person,be valuable,work hard,invest in knowledge, in assets, in family, for you not to be seen by men so they can marry us or stay longer.....😢it's sad that everything we do as women to empower ourselves ultimately bubbles down to being a good woman to a man first 😢I don't know.thats just my take
I think most of her channel is centred around men.
I suppose there’s nothing wrong w/ that bc a lot of women are male centred so she does have a target market, it’s just that sometimes it comes off like she has a jaded perception of what (societally) beautiful women think & how they act.
but then again maybe the women she’s talking about do exist..? but it sounds like such a small group. idk.
The name WOMAN is based on MAN (ie womb carrying MAN). The name FEMALE (ie fetus carrying MALE). The woman came from the man that is y she is "Man centred". First centre, God the Father, 2nd Biological Father, Third Husband. Thank you for the question❤
@@oscarmalaakgosi2665 what…? God is the only being your life should be centred around. if you disagree atleast provide verses.
& this is literally SA, the majority ‘fathers’ are deadbeat & we live in one of the highest GBV regions especially domestic violence cases of husband’s abusing their wives… how does it make it sense to centre our lives around sinful beings? (even if you said to centre our lives around women)
That's just how it is. The quicker we accept it the quicker we can move on. Mina I'm tired ke of fighting for our gender. We will lose. That's just how it is.
I believe God is raising a generation of young men and women who represents his kingdom.People who will be a representation of kingdom marriages ,not the facades that we have acquitted ourselves with.I also think we are busy promoting promiscuity by normalising co-parenting, meaning it is ohk to sleep around as long as we co-parent successfully from the normal baby mama/daddy situation.
Marriages as God's holy institution for living right and bringing offspring which will be healthy adults with something to contribute to society has been overlooked so much that it dents relationship as the gateway to meanful marriages .Vanity of vanities indeed
I listened to this twice
I was this woman in my teens and my family said i was bewitched
Truth be told ... continue with the good work😊..may the spirit of God empower you 😚
Hmm girl now this is a good word, thank you Holy Spirit!🙌
This is the real definition of a high value woman. A high value woman does not fixate her value based on superficial things but substantially. Being transformed by the renewing of their minds❤
Romans 12:2
Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.
I’m in stitches, the truth in this 🎯 😂😂😂
Jaw dropped 😮.you are so on point.im also surprised when a hot girl gets played,but I get it now.
You such a rare breed.
I dont like female friends but Ngingaba umngani wakho.😅
Cha Sihle Ave ukhuluma 😂
But I love it ❤♥️you always coming in hot with the truth .
I’ll support you thru !
Came here from TikTok and I love it
We cannot be a woman of value outside of being a faithful bride to the Lord Jesus Christ. No man who is outside Christ should even be able to locate you.
😮 you didn’t let up on that pedal!Haaaah! Tell them.
Yeyi Sihle you are bringing it home now my darling ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I want to be in alignment of what is being said here😊❤❤❤
she's cooking again🔥
Well said👏 an exceptional breakdown of the current women we dealing with in this era👏, great analysis 🔥💯, keep doing the lords work.
Absolutely love this video, I love the way you think aswell. i literally clapped hands. We need more of this in the world.
Great video as always but revenge body show wasnt just about trying to make man feel like the lost something and wanting him to coming back. There were cases where people came cause they wanted to fix themselves. Some were bullied and put down by their parents, sisters etc. And that an effect on them growing up and who they are as adults.
A wise woman❤❤❤
SAn Candace Owens
what a wise young lady. Men and Women like you have always been the backbone of societies.
May God bless your good work Sihle
I like how you played with the V's and not use narcissism
Chile!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yho,I'm loving this talk shem
wena I am a girl but I always, i mean always agree with you😇Love you lots
Sorry for watching two of your videos without subscribing, extremely informative channel
Thank you again for an amazing video 🔥💯👏🏽!!
Can I practice being a Proverbs 31 woman as a 15 year old ? I once fell into a trend because of my peers and I still regret it until today but I gave my life to Jesus and I want to seek wisdom and gain insight. Any tips ?
That prayer at the end, lol Siyabonga mfwethu. You're brave bra very brave.
LOUDER🤣📢🔊😂🔊📢
Amen 🙏🏿
God bless your heart
Yes wena Bizo tell them
You're making the world a better place
❤❤❤sister keep cooking 🍳
Amen👏🙌
Hey, i really like your content coz it is focused on things that are happening in our society, can in have an Episode with you if you don't mind?🙏🎙
she's monitized 😇😇😇
Piece of advice is for everyone to stay in their lane
Grill us Sihle ❤❤❤
Shu!😰🔥🔥🔥
Real revenge is in Christ, in how youve changed your values, ❤
Should we even revenge? Isn’t it for the Lord to avenge?
@JohnKumalinga yes the Lord does it for us not to hurt others but to give us peace and salvation. Whilst we are in him we should pray for those who hurt us. Our healing is to glorify God and only to glorify God. It has nothing to do with what others do, they will have their own judgment. In Christ he will avenge to save your soul and other souls as well.
Brilliant
I love you sihle❤❤❤
Proverbs 12:4 - “An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who shames him is as rottenness in his bones.” To just add a little to what you are pointing out. When someone hero worships themselves and wants to be worshiped that is pride and that is not right at all. Also when someone looks down on their man then they definitely cant claim to be a proverbs 31 woman and funny how most baddies just call themselves that. I like proverbs 12:4, an excellent wif is the crown of her husband, as we all know what makes the king a king is a the crown losely translated a man with an excellent wife feels and is a king, but when a woman shames him that woman is rottenness in his bones. Loosely translated a man with a woman that shames him is even weakened at the core of his bones than when he was alone.
Also something to just buttress the point you spoke about women with no flas and i think this one applies to everyone both man and women in the faith. People like measuring their partners using 1 Corinthians 13:4: "Love is patient and kind; it does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude", but i think arrogance and being rude and boastful is you standing on a high horse to measure the person you are dating 's love to you before self introspecting to see if you measure up yourself. In short all i am saying is the Lord hates unjust scales and just like the Lord Jesus we should be willing to serve, and the moment you decide to sit on a high horse and want to claim the love you are receiving from your person you are being short changes you are most likely what you are claiming the other person is.
Amen sister 🤍
@bodycon dresses from Shein 😂😂😂
Amen ❤
Proverbs 31 women is not a real existing women. The women represents Gods people, Israel.
And earthly marriage between a groom (man) and a bride (woman) is supposed to be a shadow/representation of that relationship between God and His people/Jesus and His church.
Within that context, a woman would do well by aspiring to be a Proverbs 31 woman.
@@JohnKumalinga a women within the body of Christ you mean, a believer?
Let her cook
Wow this is so profound
Sihle who do you follow on social media? As a teenager please teach us how and who and why ?
Older women in the faith, you can ask the Holy Spirit to lead you to Titus 2 type of women to follow. Abba answers us❤.
My advice: immerse yourself in the word of God as a teenager, it will transform and build you in ways that social media can never ever do.
Women see another girl getting something and being treated a certain way, so they feel they want a man that will do that and a man has to do all that for them and they start making it a requirement, but don't know what she did to get things there
Amen
You can tell she was about to go hard @ 4:26 sommer had to edit the video at that point.
leave your life to please GOD not this world
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10:03 🤣🤣
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i love love love it
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Read Your Bible Guys !!
I have fear for you, Please pray more!
can i get a girl like this??? 😍
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Chomi coooook!! vanity has fruits and it shows! True revenge is in the mind🤌🏾