Stopped an 87 Year Old and What She Told Me Broke My Heart

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  • Опубликовано: 1 фев 2025

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  • @0kimbc28
    @0kimbc28 3 месяца назад +778

    When this channel gets to a million subs, I'll proudly say I was in the first 15k.

    • @Surfermom1977
      @Surfermom1977 3 месяца назад +18

      I would love to meet you !!! Praying for you to have a family for this Christmas 🎄

    • @Vyrions
      @Vyrions 3 месяца назад +5

      we are.

    • @cjohnson4342
      @cjohnson4342 3 месяца назад +15

      She can come to my house for any holiday anytime except I live in Michigan. I hosted every year for my uncle and great aunt who were only 2 years apart in age. I have lost them all now and would have her any day!

    • @ronaldlindeman6136
      @ronaldlindeman6136 3 месяца назад +4

      I was in the first 16.9k.

    • @HelloKitty-iq8tt
      @HelloKitty-iq8tt 3 месяца назад +2

      @@ronaldlindeman6136me too!

  • @Anna-ww4pv
    @Anna-ww4pv 2 месяца назад +839

    Having a family doesn’t mean you won’t be alone.

    • @incognito595
      @incognito595 2 месяца назад +59

      TOTALLY TRUE.

    • @pujikristina2186
      @pujikristina2186 2 месяца назад +42

      @@Anna-ww4pv sad but true.

    • @toffeeapple7783
      @toffeeapple7783 2 месяца назад +110

      I think the worst kind of loneliness is being in someone's company and feeling totally invisible.

    • @luluzyz
      @luluzyz 2 месяца назад +23

      Yep

    • @yama-t7263
      @yama-t7263 2 месяца назад +21

      so true....

  • @fosbury68
    @fosbury68 3 месяца назад +295

    There's a whole movie in that 3 minute conversation. God bless her beautiful spirit.

  • @barbaradavies4061
    @barbaradavies4061 2 месяца назад +303

    I HOPE THAT ANYONE WHO KNOWS JOSEPHINE WILL CONTACT HER AND INVITE HER FOR CHRISTMAS . GOD BLESS THAT LADY.

    • @tju9470
      @tju9470 2 месяца назад +14

      Obviously the friends she has aren't good people. They should invite her but don't, although they know she is lonely at home. How can these people even live with what they're doing?

    • @duchesslisa9099
      @duchesslisa9099 2 месяца назад +2

      This!!

    • @Rainbow-yh6ov
      @Rainbow-yh6ov Месяц назад +2

      @@duchesslisa9099 ?? This what?

    • @janebee1912
      @janebee1912 Месяц назад +2

      I would definitely invite her ❤

    • @jeswazwadi7049
      @jeswazwadi7049 Месяц назад +1

      She seems nice but the issue with western countries is that they only like spending Christmas with family

  • @ijustagirl74
    @ijustagirl74 22 дня назад +12

    Someone needs to adopt this lovely lady as a grandma..She would be so happy and so would the people who adopted her..

  • @Rowan-d2y
    @Rowan-d2y 25 дней назад +8

    Sweet lady.
    I wonder how life would have been for her if she had said yes to Basil.
    I hope she finds a good friend.

  • @umisays519
    @umisays519 2 месяца назад +19

    She's quite sharp at 87. I hope she finds someone special to spend the holidays with.

  • @bamajenn333
    @bamajenn333 2 месяца назад +28

    "I have friends but when it comes down to it, you're still on your own."
    I felt that deep 😢💔

    • @lilycool2601
      @lilycool2601 2 месяца назад +1

      @bamajenn333 I am so sorry to hear that. But chin up, you are still loved by others.

  • @ElDrom_Belle
    @ElDrom_Belle 3 месяца назад +25

    Goodness, almost 90 and looking like tgat is truly amazing

  • @kathleenkarsten5739
    @kathleenkarsten5739 Месяц назад +18

    At 87 she still has a twinkle in her eye! I love that, and her too! 🥰

  • @Takeawayinataxi
    @Takeawayinataxi 23 дня назад +14

    Josephine is lovely. I often see old people in London just sitting on benches. I thought about all the old people during covid. Bless them. What a lovely lady.

  • @lyrebird9749
    @lyrebird9749 3 месяца назад +23

    Aww, someone should ask the Belfast council to organise social gatherings for lonely people at Christmas time. This should happen everywhere!

  • @dudley8671
    @dudley8671 3 месяца назад +747

    I regret, not living in the city which Josephine resides. I would love for you, Josephine, to be a part of our family. It would be our honor❤

    • @charlenerathgeb8217
      @charlenerathgeb8217 3 месяца назад +59

      That is Belfast, I recognize the beautiful City Hall in the background. I have so many relatives there who would LOVE to share time with this beautiful soul. Wish I knew how to reachher.

    • @dudley8671
      @dudley8671 3 месяца назад +34

      @@charlenerathgeb8217 Yes, I hope that contacts have been made. Josephine wished for a family. I hope Christopher heard this and is doing something for her. To me, social media is neither beautiful or particularly positive. Though, this is *an excellent example where good will, love & joy could be spread.* Saying hello is a good first step but kindness to others takes sacrifice & risk as well. Thank you for sharing the video is of Belfast. I casually guessed Northern Ireland but was not certain. Best to you💙

    • @RitaFlannery-nl6cv
      @RitaFlannery-nl6cv 3 месяца назад +21

      Such a good soul 💞

    • @gracehope7
      @gracehope7 3 месяца назад +11

      ⁠@@dudley8671 What a perceptive thought, that kindness to others takes sacrifice and risk as well.

    • @dudley8671
      @dudley8671 3 месяца назад +6

      @@gracehope7 Thank you & best wishes to you. 💙

  • @wesmariner
    @wesmariner 3 месяца назад +28

    46 year old bloke and this has brought a tear to my eye.
    Wish she lived on my street. Would love to have her for Christmas dinner.
    Such a sweet lady

    • @Sydneywide1
      @Sydneywide1 3 месяца назад

      I don't know that she would like to be had for Christmas dinner. Lol.

    • @hideouslyugly
      @hideouslyugly 2 месяца назад

      @@wesmariner I'd rather have turkey...

    • @jeanmansfield9230
      @jeanmansfield9230 24 дня назад +1

      @@wesmariner I'd come to. I'm in the same predicament as her

  • @lmorgee5
    @lmorgee5 26 дней назад +10

    I’m alone too Josephine. I am widowed. I think you would make a fine friend. I feel like so much of the time, people are invisible.

  • @PamelaRoss-qh6jh
    @PamelaRoss-qh6jh 2 месяца назад +16

    How nice was that!? Reminds me of a time when people simply spoke to one another for no other reason than to be kind!

    • @Jennifer-x3m
      @Jennifer-x3m 2 месяца назад +3

      Yes true no one bothers any more

  • @sandraholtzmuller1318
    @sandraholtzmuller1318 3 месяца назад +135

    Such a sweet lady…..she needs to be someone’s surrogate grandmother…..

    • @blueskysailing
      @blueskysailing 3 месяца назад +9

      Yes, she would be a wonderful grandma to some very lucky children. 🙋❤

    • @nansweetnan
      @nansweetnan 2 месяца назад +8

      hi josephine. You can be my surrogate mother. My mom died in 2020. i miss her and am so lonely without her. God Bless you

    • @jacquelineoconnor7234
      @jacquelineoconnor7234 2 месяца назад +1

      @@nansweetnan Your mum will never leave you, she will always be with you in spirit. Your heart will heal eventually, my heart was broken when my mum died but I know I will see her lovely face when my time comes.

  • @crystalmiller4577
    @crystalmiller4577 3 месяца назад +32

    I hope someone adopts her as granny into their family.

  • @deborahwade2641
    @deborahwade2641 3 месяца назад +22

    What a lovely woman. I wish her good health and happiness. 😊

  • @centaur1288
    @centaur1288 25 дней назад +11

    This video has inspired me to go and talk to an old person today. Just saying hello and smiling to someone can change both of our lives.

  • @L8DB8
    @L8DB8 3 дня назад +13

    87 years old and still so well spoken and sharp in the mind. Wonderful video. Thank you.

  • @maureenhopkins430
    @maureenhopkins430 2 месяца назад +22

    I lost both of my parents 29 years ago this Christmas. I wish I lived near Josephine. I would “adopt” her as our new mom/grandma. It kills me that she is alone for Christmas! 💔😭

  • @MoonSpinners
    @MoonSpinners 2 месяца назад +57

    I hope Basil is still alive and watching this. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if he got back in touch with her?

  • @hellen2405
    @hellen2405 3 месяца назад +13

    I can barely write this through my tears. What a beautiful soul she is. I hope she finds friends and people to share Christmas with ❤

  • @annikajustinussen6881
    @annikajustinussen6881 28 дней назад +30

    Someone should adopt the lady as part of their family. She sounds like good company.

    • @genevievechausseart
      @genevievechausseart 27 дней назад +1

      I was thinking the same. Christopher & her should be friends💖Thank you for sharing that amazing moment with us.

    • @alandoyle3442
      @alandoyle3442 25 дней назад

      @@annikajustinussen6881 she probably smells of piss and vinegar.

    • @toffeeapple7783
      @toffeeapple7783 23 дня назад

      @alandoyle3442 Charming.

  • @millie9236
    @millie9236 Месяц назад +25

    I'm 61 and my 87 year old mom lives with me. I took care of my Viet Nam vet dad for 20 years. Aging is rough. No one helped me and didn't attend my dad's memorial. It's like not having family. I take great care of myself since I'll be doing the "Golden Years" on my own.

    • @cindycrump8493
      @cindycrump8493 Месяц назад +4

      May God Bless You! I was a caregiver for my mom, grandma & later in life caregiver for hospice patients. It was especially honoring to take care of my own family. But it’s hard & you do have to take care of yourself.

  • @suen5006
    @suen5006 3 месяца назад +217

    She missed her chance at love because she didn't want to disappoint her parents. How sad. You made such a lovely portrait of her.

    • @EdelweisSusie
      @EdelweisSusie 3 месяца назад +11

      Same as my ex. He had a coercively controlling mother who offered to help him with his £30k debt if he and his child moved back to Wales and dumped me. He did both.

    • @sunrise-p8o
      @sunrise-p8o 3 месяца назад +8

      Same here...i know I'm missing chances to have a normal life and family like everyone else but what shall i do!..pleasing my parents comes first!...for the same reason as hers!

    • @LindaHighland-ei4fb
      @LindaHighland-ei4fb 2 месяца назад +7

      I relate to her a lot as a single woman, and I’ve had chances x

  • @margaretwaite7226
    @margaretwaite7226 2 месяца назад +16

    I know exactly how she feels. I live exactly the way she does . It's very hard .

  • @Jewel-Retired
    @Jewel-Retired 3 месяца назад +19

    I am in California so I cannot invite Josie to my home, but in her honor, I will "adopt" a local senior for the holidays (and beyond). Perhaps others could do the same? I have a feeling Josie might like to know the impact she has had around the world.

  • @freyasstories
    @freyasstories 2 месяца назад +21

    When she said "I wish I was part of a family", all I wanted to do was give her a hug.....

  • @AWWYEAHHHHHH
    @AWWYEAHHHHHH 3 дня назад +12

    Regret will always cut deeper than rejection, or making a mistake. She remembers one single moment where her life could have turned out differently. Take chances in life

  • @phillynurse9492
    @phillynurse9492 3 месяца назад +155

    The title was misleading this wasn’t heartbreaking it was a testimonial to the resilience and fortitude of a woman who makes her life worth living. Sometimes the hand we’re dealt is read and played wrong. But we must carry on with our hearts open and head held high. She’s a role model for those who are the last ones standing. Do it in grace and style ❤

    • @postpunkhah
      @postpunkhah 3 месяца назад +2

      @@phillynurse9492 Amen!

    • @kathleenwagg3030
      @kathleenwagg3030 3 месяца назад +5

      Salt of the earth❤

    • @thatbemefool
      @thatbemefool 3 месяца назад +15

      HELL YEAH SHE IS…she’s Baddd Ass!
      Strolling down the street, breathing fresh air and enjoying life as it is. I hope to have pure joy and a smile at her age❤️

    • @stephanie-fh5qv
      @stephanie-fh5qv 2 месяца назад +4

      What do you mean with that the hand we are dealt with are read wrong?
      Some people enjoy and need company much more.
      People have no idea what it’s really like to be totally alone!
      I’m like Josephine, although I’m only 39z
      And I hate it, I would have preferred to die with my siblings.
      You have no idea how hard it is.

    • @navkiratdhami5923
      @navkiratdhami5923 2 месяца назад +6

      And she looks fit and healthy for her age. Some people have all the family but surrounded by drama!

  • @Emmaforever
    @Emmaforever 2 месяца назад +14

    Josephine, is wonderful. I hope people near her see this and speak to her. She's really lovely.

  • @audioartisan
    @audioartisan 2 месяца назад +18

    That sweet lady is anything but shy. She deserves all the friends in the Universe!

    • @charmc4152
      @charmc4152 2 месяца назад +1

      Sometimes it's easy not to appear shy in the moment, depending on the day, but in other circumstances, the shyness might be almost overwhelming for some people.

  • @suzanneblaylock9598
    @suzanneblaylock9598 24 дня назад +8

    She's a very young 87 year old and I am sending you much love from across the pond. Beautiful scarf ! Beautiful woman !

  • @annekathleen4498
    @annekathleen4498 2 месяца назад +14

    Wow she's great for 87. Josephine you're very welcome to visit me in the Netherlands 🎉❤

  • @torduck4804
    @torduck4804 3 месяца назад +76

    The sad thing is that Josephine ended up being worse off having an overprotective parent. I know someone in a similar situation, parents wanted to keep her at home, now she’s very lonely and her parents have died. Never hold your kids back in life!

    • @mr.motivation3797
      @mr.motivation3797 3 месяца назад +4

      Yea but also don't push them to be 1 of the many fkin morons that most people are. It's a 2 way street. Most people are miserable followers.

    • @humansnotbots-y8l
      @humansnotbots-y8l 3 месяца назад +1

      @@mr.motivation3797 balance!

  • @otterpoet
    @otterpoet 3 месяца назад +21

    I love this woman. What a sweet soul. She'd be welcome at my table any day and twice on Christmas.
    But seriously... We need to find Basil!

    • @deliabotha7187
      @deliabotha7187 3 месяца назад

      There is a Basil James Wheldon from England. Born 1913. Died 1965.

    • @k.e.becquer4681
      @k.e.becquer4681 3 месяца назад +1

      @@deliabotha7187 Probably not the right one. About 24 years her senior.

    • @deliabotha7187
      @deliabotha7187 3 месяца назад

      @@k.e.becquer4681 I am from South Africa. Her story touched my heart. 🙂

    • @deliabotha7187
      @deliabotha7187 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@k.e.becquer4681even a photo of him on Google😊

  • @lisamurphy5663
    @lisamurphy5663 2 месяца назад +23

    I want to adopt Josephine into my family!💕

  • @fernandochavez4312
    @fernandochavez4312 26 дней назад +8

    Such a beautiful lady. Great smile. Thanks

  • @2-old-Forthischet
    @2-old-Forthischet 25 дней назад +14

    I think you made her day.

  • @jarrac
    @jarrac 2 месяца назад +12

    Lovely lady. Just needs people living nearby to her to see this vlog and give her some time. Don’t let her be lonely.

  • @towanda1067
    @towanda1067 3 месяца назад +23

    I I’m in Rhode Island, USA. We have a program called “The Village” where folks volunteer to help seniors. We provide rides to appt., wellness checks, visits, small home repairs or tasks, and the like. Look for a way to get active with your local community…volunteer at a senior center, nursing home, hospice, etc. our elders are often the most overlooked population, hungry for companionship. Give a bit of your time. You will be amazed how much you get back.

  • @lizdoyle7158
    @lizdoyle7158 25 дней назад +14

    a lovely lady and to hear her honesty was wonderful the world still has beautiful people like Josephine i wish her great happy 2025 with Gods blessings to keep her safe and well 💖💚

  • @hedgehoghogtel1694
    @hedgehoghogtel1694 23 дня назад +12

    That's so sad 🥺. There will thousands of elderly like her. I hope she gets a new friend and anyone who sees this where she lives reaches out to her.

  • @ninecatsmagee8384
    @ninecatsmagee8384 2 месяца назад +15

    I hope someone nearby Josephine has now taken the initiative to go meet her and invite her for Christmas, at the very least. A dear person who deserves to have many friends.

  • @jane-yr7gs
    @jane-yr7gs 3 месяца назад +19

    Hope some of her neighbours see this
    ❤️

  • @sylphofthewildwoods5518
    @sylphofthewildwoods5518 2 месяца назад +13

    There's so many good people in the world who live alone and would love someone to talk to or have a meal with and be treated kindly. They are the real jewels if you can find them, you're blessed.
    God bless Josephine 🙏

  • @carolmaresca450
    @carolmaresca450 Месяц назад +9

    I would be happy to have her as a friend.

  • @Bloquita5
    @Bloquita5 25 дней назад +13

    I needed to go do something but I didn’t want to stop listening to Josephine because I felt so drawn to how she expressed herself. Josephine, I send you a warm hug and daydream of how delightful it would be to sit and enjoy some tea with you. Even if we said very little, your vibration is stellar and certainly felt. Thank you, you beautiful human. 💞🌺🫖

  • @jonvee7014
    @jonvee7014 25 дней назад +14

    What a beautiful soul she is..😊❤

  • @debrabolton9372
    @debrabolton9372 25 дней назад +21

    I relate so much to what Josephine had to say. I am 72, an only child, never married. It has gotten a bit harder since both my parents are gone, my father most recently four years ago. Josephine is such a lovely woman! ❤

    • @Redsnapper123
      @Redsnapper123 24 дня назад +1

      @@debrabolton9372 you never married but did you have children?

  • @texgal
    @texgal 2 месяца назад +28

    It would have been nice if we could have had a way to send her Christmas cards so she knows that she has reached many of us with this video she was a lovely lady

    • @dorothyd4160
      @dorothyd4160 2 месяца назад +1

      That is such a splendid idea.

  • @theroadlesstraveled3993
    @theroadlesstraveled3993 24 дня назад +11

    In every community, there are so many people like her....elderly, alone, often shut-in due to health.... in need of companionship and human contact. Society disregards them ,but they have so much wisdom and value to offer still.
    Younger generations are accustomed to a more modern approach to community/socializing, but these folks....I can't imagine how difficult it is for them if they don't have family connections. Loneliness is a horrible thing to endure. 😢

    • @remarkablyricky
      @remarkablyricky 24 дня назад

      Sadly true

    • @barrypooley3192
      @barrypooley3192 24 дня назад +3

      The problem is people have been warned about everything and they are so scared of being approached and there are no singles clubs anymore its all online and most of that is a scam to gather money so it's very difficult in this modern world for older people I'm 71 going on 50 but I live alone and the majority of the people around me are mostly single and terrified of other people we need to bring back singles clubs for genuine people 👌👌👌💯💯

  • @Addy-iy5jl
    @Addy-iy5jl Месяц назад +40

    She made her best friend at 67, enjoyed that friendship for 20 years, how beautiful! 😍 and I gave up at 37 & thought you one cant make good friends beyond college days!

  • @SheilaGrad
    @SheilaGrad 3 месяца назад +15

    You look wonderful for 87 !!!

  • @cylotron
    @cylotron 28 дней назад +50

    My grandmother was in a nursing home towards the end of her life. I used to go visit her every weekend. There was a lady across the hall from her named Gertrude (can't recall her last name for the life of me). My grandmother introduced me to her. I found out that Gertrude did not have a family nor did anyone ever go to visit her. From that day on, anytime I went to visit my grandmother, I spent time with Gertrude also. She told me her husband had passed away years ago and they never had any kids. I enjoyed the visits I had with her and looked forward to seeing both of them each visit. Eventually Gertrude passed, then did my grandmother a few months later.

    • @DB-dg3gt
      @DB-dg3gt 21 день назад +4

      You never know when you are entertaining Angels. Jesus said the least you do unto these you do for me. Thanks for sharing.

    • @lizdoyle7158
      @lizdoyle7158 18 дней назад +1

      Lovely story you made a difference in both there lives with your visits and time im sure there loking out for you as kindness
      Is the one thing in this life thats never forgotten God will Bless you 😊😊😊

  • @Lynn209111
    @Lynn209111 2 месяца назад +17

    I’d love to adopt Josephine and make her a part of my family!

  • @BarbaraPryor-Smith
    @BarbaraPryor-Smith 28 дней назад +12

    She is a delightful soul, as is the gentleman who interviewed her. Both are lovely people who brighten our world! 💜🌅😌

  • @donnacoleman4624
    @donnacoleman4624 24 дня назад +12

    I love Josephine, i wish we could be friends. She is so lovely, so real!
    Im 64, but i can relate to her. I hope she finds a new bestie soon!
    ❤❤

  • @emmylou-y4b
    @emmylou-y4b 3 месяца назад +13

    I love her candor. There's a sadness but she looks lovely; get dressed up when she goes out and holds her head high. God bless you, Josephine.

  • @SamJone2024
    @SamJone2024 2 месяца назад +32

    This is me in a few years! Grew up pleasing everyone became a breadwinner. Helped everyone out and forgot I have my own life to build. Now all my siblings are partnered and I’m still on my own but has gotten older now. I sometimes have to beg to be included on their outings but I don’t want to ask all the time. I was so focused on work and providing when I was younger I also forgot to build my own community, now that I’m older it is harder to make friends.

    • @plushrush
      @plushrush 2 месяца назад +7

      There’s a whole world of people who have chosen their family members. You wouldn’t even have to beg to be included; you can come to my house!! I make a great cousin 😂

    • @nipaparekh1678
      @nipaparekh1678 2 месяца назад +1

      @@plushrush so lovely of you to invite her ❤️❤️❤️

    • @nipaparekh1678
      @nipaparekh1678 2 месяца назад +2

      @@SamJone2024 so sorry to hear about your story … I hope you can get to social clubs so you can meet more people 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

  • @socorroquinones9058
    @socorroquinones9058 2 месяца назад +16

    Sometimes the issue of being alone is outliving the people we loved dearly.

    • @maryg5415
      @maryg5415 2 месяца назад +3

      So true vest wishes from Ireland ❤

  • @annburchard6199
    @annburchard6199 2 месяца назад +11

    WOW! Marriage, children, were not in her cards of life. Blessings to her!😊

  • @breegrams
    @breegrams Месяц назад +16

    I want Josephine to be my grandma, I lost mine too young!

  • @janmarsh5643
    @janmarsh5643 3 месяца назад +15

    87 and still beautiful. ❤

  • @queens6583
    @queens6583 2 месяца назад +12

    What a lovely woman. Someone adopt her please!

  • @finethingw88
    @finethingw88 3 месяца назад +19

    What a lovely lady, I want to adopt her...I only live an hour away x

    • @snowbear1877
      @snowbear1877 3 месяца назад +7

      Try and make contact with her.

    • @angela64355
      @angela64355 3 месяца назад +5

      Go find her!🙏

  • @Deliaben67yahoo
    @Deliaben67yahoo 25 дней назад +20

    My doors are open. Who wouldn’t want to have someone like her as part of your family?!

  • @alidamihovilovich4331
    @alidamihovilovich4331 2 месяца назад +15

    This couldn’t have come at a better time for me. .Thank you!

  • @susanne9602
    @susanne9602 3 месяца назад +18

    Josephine is simply magnificent!

  • @trenaphillips1973
    @trenaphillips1973 3 месяца назад +43

    She is a lovely woman. There are so many wonderful people living alone and often lonely, especially in their senior years. We are an odd society at times. ❤

  • @joycegibbs5267
    @joycegibbs5267 2 месяца назад +12

    OMG, if anyone knows her, please invite her in !!!! What a darling lady. I've never married, being shy and I feel so lonely. With a world is crueler than ever 😢💔

  • @debm212
    @debm212 2 месяца назад +15

    Beautiful Josephine! Would love to have her for a neighbor

  • @Pauline-wu4ej
    @Pauline-wu4ej 26 дней назад +6

    What a lovely woman. That conversion was so interesting.

  • @CatherineDover
    @CatherineDover 2 месяца назад +13

    What a lovely lady and you sound like a kind hearted man. Thank you.

  • @josephinenilsson1541
    @josephinenilsson1541 2 месяца назад +18

    My name is also Josephine and I am also an only child. Being an only child is also something I feel deeply has affected me and a big part of who I am. This hit hard.

    • @mariat-f2u
      @mariat-f2u 2 месяца назад +1

      I'm not an only child but I'm quite shy and in the past, I did my best to keep my parents happy 😊

  • @FuchsiaFire444
    @FuchsiaFire444 2 месяца назад +12

    Amazing. Almost 90 and as clear as a bell. Very strong spirit, lovely person.

    • @yvonneplant9434
      @yvonneplant9434 2 месяца назад

      Yes, why does it surprise you?
      Most older adults aren't going to suffer with dementia.

  • @MaiDove3
    @MaiDove3 2 месяца назад +12

    But 87 and walking around and living on her own, she’s amazing!

  • @PeteH0121
    @PeteH0121 23 дня назад +13

    What a nice lady.
    The world is the worse for her not having married and had children.
    I'm sure they would have grown up to be lovely people too.
    Something of a dying breed I'm afraid.

  • @mixedandknot5911
    @mixedandknot5911 3 месяца назад +26

    Josephine, if you read this comment please remember that your advice is going to help many of us who take life on too seriously and care too much about others. God Bless You.

  • @alisonchristodoulou825
    @alisonchristodoulou825 2 месяца назад +12

    What a lovely lady. Wouldn't it be wonderful if Basil gave her a call.❤🎉

  • @christicostigan
    @christicostigan 3 месяца назад +25

    Folks that are only childrenaturally think that if you have siblings that you're not alone or lonely. Sadly , it might even be more painful to realize you have siblings that don't get along with you and you are equally as lonely.

    • @nuhrisha
      @nuhrisha 2 месяца назад +3

      @ christicostigan This….right there hits hard!

    • @brip557
      @brip557 2 месяца назад +1

      Yep

  • @lizjones9086
    @lizjones9086 2 месяца назад +39

    Wouldn't it be lovely if Basil was still alive also was single & they met up because of this little interview...🙏

    • @mightymo8699
      @mightymo8699 2 месяца назад

      I know a family of Wheldons but sadly no Basils!! Would have made a wonderful story.

    • @lizjones9086
      @lizjones9086 2 месяца назад

      @mightymo8699 ahh that's so sad...that would of a beautiful story for them both...thank you for letting us know...bless them

  • @mariannaszabo7002
    @mariannaszabo7002 24 дня назад +11

    Having a family is wonderful... but there is someone whi is always with you, always loves you! God can be your best friend!

    • @pursequeen6148
      @pursequeen6148 24 дня назад +5

      Absolutely! He is ALWAYS with us... That's why I never feel alone❤

    • @Peter_Pepper_Love
      @Peter_Pepper_Love 23 дня назад +2

      My mother always said "son God never leaves us truly alone"✨️

  • @peacefullypeachy
    @peacefullypeachy 2 месяца назад +13

    Ma'am Josephine, for the short amount of time I saw you through this video, let me tell you that I love you and God bless you🙏🏻 I'm an only child too and both my parents and all grandparents passed away already, but I'm only 28 years old. I live alone with my cat🐈,but Jesus Christ also resides in my peaceful home and in my heart. To Christopher, I love you and thank you for making these videos. God bless all of you 🙏🏻

  • @job2249
    @job2249 2 месяца назад +13

    It's better to be alone than having someone that makes you feel alone.

  • @oliviacasino8888
    @oliviacasino8888 3 месяца назад +30

    Dear Josephine…sending love and hugs to you now and especially on Christmas Day 2024! Your smile gave me such a lift! From California an 83 year old lady!

    • @lidijabirsa7768
      @lidijabirsa7768 3 месяца назад +2

      Sending love and hugs back to you lovely lady, across the pond! 🌷🍀❤️

  • @ckp2ator389
    @ckp2ator389 25 дней назад +8

    "Just get on with things", yes. Josephine has a positive outlook. The bad side of living a long life is you're going to outlive those you love and like. Even if you have children, you have to let them go and live their own life, as you did yours. Kudos to Josephine for not blaming her mother for her own choice not to continue her romance with Basil, I bet her mother would have wanted her to.

  • @galaxygal1746
    @galaxygal1746 2 месяца назад +23

    I don’t think this title should have the words - broke my heart. This is a story of resilience. She has an open heart, obviously takes pride in her appearance and maintains a positive outlook. She just keeps on keeping on, which is all we can do… I’ve been in romantic relationships during my life, and at times I felt the most lonely… Having children certainly does not guarantee you’ll be cared for in old age… I think the key is to develop hobbies and interests that take you outside of your own self indulgence.

  • @Ulysses88047
    @Ulysses88047 3 месяца назад +19

    I had a neighbour who was 94, and she was very fit and cheerful....I asked her what was her secret, and she said..." I don't really know, but I think it is because I never married..."..😊

  • @MicksA
    @MicksA 3 месяца назад +11

    I wish there was a way we could connect with others who are lonely. Older people can be so beautiful to sit with.

  • @gurindersinghdhillon1106
    @gurindersinghdhillon1106 2 месяца назад +24

    I am none practicing homosexual but never told anyone because of my culture and religion. I pretended all my life. I lived with my mother and I am nearly sixty. I am frightened when my mother dies how will I cope. Life has been difficult but mother was always there even though I never told her the truth. I understand more than anyone about loneliness. More than half of my life has passed let's hope I don't have a long life. When God is ready to take me it will be the happiest day of my life. It will be end of a long journey. I am so glad about this channel. It is one of few times when I can open up. It has been difficult but I managed to keep my dignity and uphold moral values and I am proud about this.

  • @kirstenn.pedersen2598
    @kirstenn.pedersen2598 2 месяца назад +12

    What a lovely Lady. There are millions like her. Lovely and lonely. We should all cherish these sweet old ladies and welcome them in our midst. Especially at christmas.

  • @susannechakan4939
    @susannechakan4939 24 дня назад +12

    What a beautiful and joyful woman. I wish her a happy rest of her life 🙏💗

  • @SMT-vb2vb
    @SMT-vb2vb 2 месяца назад +11

    What a beautiful soul Josephine is, I wish I could give her a hug🙏❤️

  • @michellescarborough16
    @michellescarborough16 3 месяца назад +14

    What a lovely lady. I hope someone who is kind and has a good heart will see this , and ask her over for the holidays.

    • @user-st6nt4ou6f
      @user-st6nt4ou6f 3 месяца назад +2

      What a beautiful thought. 🌟🌺🌷🌻💐

  • @soniagreen3277
    @soniagreen3277 2 месяца назад +13

    What a darling she is. If I lived close I would totally have her over for the holidays. I hope someone on here is able to connect with her and adopt her into their family. It broke my heart! there are so many people in her position, it is so sad. Bless her heart!

  • @pamparliament8676
    @pamparliament8676 27 дней назад +9

    This Christmas we had extra people joining us. A young man, who is a friend of my youngest son. Long story short, he had a bad home life and ended up living with his step dad, after finishing high school. He wasn’t treated very well by him and ended up addicted to crack. Our son got after him for it and he got clean. This young man came to live with us last January. Since then, he’s got a job, his own apartment, recently found a girlfriend and is working on getting his driver’s license. We have pretty much adopted him, as he really doesn’t have any family.His girl friend joined us this Christmas also. She, too, doesn’t really have any family and I have taken on the task of mentoring her, as she really doesn’t have any parent in her life, nor had any growing up. The third extra person is a friend of mine, whose mom passed away this past summer. She grew up an only child and this was the first Christmas without her mom (her dad passed away a couple of years ago) and she really didn’t have any invites for Christmas from anyone else in her extended family (except for a cousin). So, not wanting anyone to be alone for Christmas, we made room for all 3. We are their family now.
    Josephine, if you were here and we knew you, you would have spent Christmas with us! I pray that God would sent you a new family to be apart of, so you won’t be alone anymore. :-)

  • @curtismarean6963
    @curtismarean6963 21 день назад +10

    What a lovely lady! I think you really made her day, as you get older you find yourself more and more alone in the world, and spend time looking back on things. By talking with her you made her feel connected to the world once again, and that is a very special gift.