Not only will the abuse continue,it will get worse because the Narcissist now feels they need to get back at you for leaving them,then it starts,in earnest. Before,you were Gaslit,now the Narcissist turns Gaslighting into their basic means of communication. Their passive-aggressive comments,a small creek before now come as a raging flood of insults followed by a small compliment,which you grab onto like a lifeline,praying to be pulled to safety,which they do,then push you back in,getting caught in whirlpool of escalating madness and abuse. The Narcissist is dead set on you staying,dead or alive. The Narcissist will push you by whatever means that are available. I spent 18 years in the grasp of a malignant Narcissist,he pushed me more than one time to attempt to take my own life,just to make the abuse stop. His smear campaign has started before my return,my friends wouldn't speak with me,as he was telling them I hated them and wished they would disappear,and they did. We lived in a 12x48 trailer with the horizontal slat style windows. He changed the locks on the doors to key open only,him having the only key. If I went outside,he made sure I was unable to speak with anyone . My only chance to get out were my Therapy appointments,which he took me to,and she became my link to my family and eventually my way out of the relationship. She had spoken with my Mom,and between the two of them devised a plan of rescue. I was told that sometime in the next 3 weeks my Mom would come to get me. I threw things in garbage bags,and stuffed them unger the trailer via a panel I could pull up in the closet. The day my Mom showed up,he had taken the day off work,when she knocked he opened the door,and as soon as he did flew by him,open the paneling on the trailer,threw my stuff on the trailer and never looked back. That was 2017,and haven't had even a tiny bit of of curiosity about how he is has been
Flying monkeys are my 5 daughters so I have had to let them go. He told me that he would take my kids from me and he did. Nothing can I do as they are adults now. It is a game they play with the narc and I want nothing to do with this part of my life. Welland Ontario Canada
Bless you my heart goes out to you the narcs are so 😈 evil. Karma will hit him. Your 5 daughters will see through his manipulating ways . Please stay well look after yourself x
Sorry but life is not predictable are you astrologer then how understand without practical,and this pose your like that you have not physically mentally prepared for your own battle
I am focused on my things that is it. Thanks! ✨🕊💫
Yes thank you day by day I'm taking it easy I'm learning what these RUclips videos and thank you so much for this video is help me a lot
Not only will the abuse continue,it will get worse because the Narcissist now feels they need to get back at you for leaving them,then it starts,in earnest.
Before,you were Gaslit,now the Narcissist turns Gaslighting into their basic means of communication.
Their passive-aggressive comments,a small creek before now come as a raging flood of insults followed by a small compliment,which you grab onto like a lifeline,praying to be pulled to safety,which they do,then push you back in,getting caught in whirlpool of escalating madness and abuse.
The Narcissist is dead set on you staying,dead or alive.
The Narcissist will push you by whatever means that are available.
I spent 18 years in the grasp of a malignant Narcissist,he pushed me more than one time to attempt to take my own life,just to make the abuse stop.
His smear campaign has started before my return,my friends wouldn't speak with me,as he was telling them I hated them and wished they would disappear,and they did.
We lived in a 12x48 trailer with the horizontal slat style windows.
He changed the locks on the doors to key open only,him having the only key.
If I went outside,he made sure I was unable to speak with anyone .
My only chance to get out were my Therapy appointments,which he took me to,and she became my link to my family and eventually my way out of the relationship.
She had spoken with my Mom,and between the two of them devised a plan of rescue.
I was told that sometime in the next 3 weeks my Mom would come to get me.
I threw things in garbage bags,and stuffed them unger the trailer via a panel I could pull up in the closet.
The day my Mom showed up,he had taken the day off work,when she knocked he opened the door,and as soon as he did flew by him,open the paneling on the trailer,threw my stuff on the trailer and never looked back.
That was 2017,and haven't had even a tiny bit of of curiosity about how he is has been
This what what am going through
Flying monkeys are my 5 daughters so I have had to let them go. He told me that he would take my kids from me and he did. Nothing can I do as they are adults now. It is a game they play with the narc and I want nothing to do with this part of my life. Welland Ontario Canada
Bless you my heart goes out to you the narcs are so 😈 evil.
Karma will hit him.
Your 5 daughters will see through his manipulating ways . Please stay well look after yourself x
✨💃🏾Cocoa
Sorry but life is not predictable are you astrologer then how understand without practical,and this pose your like that you have not physically mentally prepared for your own battle