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  • @BillyAnthony23
    @BillyAnthony23 2 месяца назад +19

    Condoms will prevent us from having this conversation

    • @kevinmoore7799
      @kevinmoore7799 2 месяца назад

      Not quite, abstinence will tho... Be strong and abstain from it til she respects you enough to honor everything about you. Condoms break and it doesn't protect you from women that'll see you as a lick and play with your life

  • @Notlikeyoullorthem
    @Notlikeyoullorthem 2 месяца назад +6

    My answer to the question! Some women keep the baby even if the guy doesn’t want the baby, because some women don’t believe in abortion or killing a baby , just because a guy don’t want it. On the other hand some women do get rid of the baby, it’s a deep heart felt decision to make. But O it’s multiple angles you can relate to in this situation and not only that statistics show a broad spectrum of women and men in this situation that was good and bad for many families outhere in the world………………STAY BLESSED KING AND KEEP DOING YOUR THING BRO LOVE

  • @TonioT38
    @TonioT38 2 месяца назад +1

    Divine intervention ancestors. You speaking from a European aspect of the value of life. As black people we have a soul. That women knows she loosing a soul.

    • @jamesbuttery3862
      @jamesbuttery3862 2 месяца назад

      That’s F’d up. You’re saying no one but black people have a soul?? Cmon with the buhshit man

  • @vegasbrown3717
    @vegasbrown3717 2 месяца назад +2

    Termination of a Pregnancy is a Much more powerful concept then a baby Daddy , if you ever been through that process, it’s something you can never forgive yourself for , as a man, my kids are Grown so the thought of the others still hunt me an it’s not even my body it’s my child , so I couldn’t imagine a conscious female in the moment, some just can’t do it , they rather have that baby and fight through then the guy who may mean them no good.

    • @daviseab
      @daviseab 2 месяца назад

      Dang brother, this response hit different.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @massocial5910
    @massocial5910 2 месяца назад +2

    Some will say religion or the thought of aborting a child is against their principles…. BUT… the counter to that is religiously u supposed to wait till ya married if it ain’t religion then why did you give it up RAW or never had the conversation about having a kid together beforehand ⁉️❓⁉️ mannn listen, GOD BLESS EVERYONE

  • @uptown215
    @uptown215 2 месяца назад +5

    As a man it's our job to lead. It's our job to be logical and if you don't want the baby why get her pregnant? Females are going to be females but its our job to lead them

  • @billbradske
    @billbradske 2 месяца назад +9

    It helps them by giving them power. Men have more power in most situations but not here smh

  • @belly3677
    @belly3677 2 месяца назад +10

    1) Everyone doesn't believe in Abortions
    2) It could be financially beneficial
    3) They always wanted a kid
    4) Its the naturally responsible thing to do, TAKE CARE OF THE CHILD YOU CREATED🤔

  • @215quab
    @215quab 2 месяца назад +3

    Family means nothing now a days , it’s the attachment. Like you said they can get who they want , misery loves company no matter how toxic that shit be

  • @tsmom6264
    @tsmom6264 2 месяца назад +1

    The dads can also make the decision to not have unprotected sex...unless he's raped. Life is about choices. Make your choice from the beginning and then live with the results....otherwise it's irresponsible on both parts!

  • @EazybEazee
    @EazybEazee 2 месяца назад +1

    They keeping it for themselves in that case. With that said they can't be mad at the dude

  • @ndeeclearpublishingllcu.t.6052
    @ndeeclearpublishingllcu.t.6052 2 месяца назад +4

    A woman who. Keeps it is not a murderer second think of the benefits,,ebt, housing,,child support . To many it's a come up O!😎💯💯💯

  • @DaRealButterknuckles
    @DaRealButterknuckles 2 месяца назад +7

    Sometimes it’s not about the guy it’s about a life growing inside them as men we don’t know what that feel like.

  • @reemraw9956
    @reemraw9956 2 месяца назад +2

    It’s in a woman’s soul to want to have a baby, it’s in her DNA, you can control what you shootin in…If you know you don’t want a baby with her…Pull out. Or deal with what comes with it. What you want and what it is are 2 different things at that point my G.

  • @DocuPrep-wn3mn
    @DocuPrep-wn3mn 2 месяца назад +7

    Women are emotional. They grow up playing with baby dolls, planning their weddings, and visualizing life with a perfect husband. These thoughts early in life weigh on most of the life decisions that they end up making, unless they start to let some of that go. Pure emotion 9/10 times.

    • @brianperry3576
      @brianperry3576 2 месяца назад +1

      Preach

    • @brianperry3576
      @brianperry3576 2 месяца назад +1

      Preach

    • @TonioT38
      @TonioT38 2 месяца назад

      @@DocuPrep-wn3mn to have sex with a women with no condom that you have no intention of being with her is not logical so you would be thinking emotional as well. Not logical as a man is intended. You just don't have to live with your emotional decision if she has a abortion.

  • @IshmaelStevenson-vx9vk
    @IshmaelStevenson-vx9vk 2 месяца назад

    I've spoken to different women about similar situations like this! Some females in the inner city or the ghetto feel & believe that they are not loved... either by other family members, friends, boyfriend etc so some females actually told me out of there own mouths that when they have that child from a baby until adulthood that kid will unconditionally love the mother. In other words some/alot of females have the baby just to gain assistance from the government or collect child support it's a natural come up! For without a female having to lift a finger as far as taking care of herself or the even the child because the man or the system will do it.

  • @jacobthompson852
    @jacobthompson852 2 месяца назад +1

    Most women want to genuinely be loved unconditionally and they think having and keeping that child can give them that.

  • @bbundlez9622
    @bbundlez9622 2 месяца назад +1

    I always know what I held in my soul!!

  • @jasen_734
    @jasen_734 2 месяца назад +2

    The better question is, why would a woman lay down with a man that doesn’t want a baby, and not use protection

  • @beequiet5436
    @beequiet5436 2 месяца назад +2

    "Queens don't abortion ya wombs we need more warriors soon sent from the stars, sun and the moon"

  • @dugnice
    @dugnice 2 месяца назад +1

    Because such women want the praise of being a "strong single mother" and child support and if they can't get child support then just the satisfaction of making the child's father miserable, if possible.

  • @grizzdabizz
    @grizzdabizz 2 месяца назад +2

    It should perplex you why a guy would have unprotected sex with a woman he doesn't want a child with. The word for the day is ACCOUNTABILITY!

    • @JarrettWashington-w7u
      @JarrettWashington-w7u Месяц назад

      That's not what he asked .. he is asking a question bcuz he doesn't know...why can't women just answer a simple question without pointing fingers

  • @tswpholla
    @tswpholla 2 месяца назад

    O. They keep that baby whether the man wants it or not it's "they're body they're choice" which ultimately hurts them and the child/children in the end... You made a great point, holding a child hostage never goes as smoothly as they always think it will go

  • @MrB2eazy
    @MrB2eazy 2 месяца назад

    Its all about control og...even if they give u a say or ask your opinion at the end of the day they got the power

  • @wesleyledbetter6711
    @wesleyledbetter6711 2 месяца назад

    Oschino is right I'm from Philadelphia to nicetown to be exact.. if you know that guy your dating is living reckless.. a guy that you're dating is irresponsible don't have a kid by him... Find a hard-working man that's responsible because I was irresponsible for years I don't even know why I'm still here honest to God truth...

  • @thoughtsmagnetic8640
    @thoughtsmagnetic8640 2 месяца назад

    It’s a cycle Men and Women repeat what they see in their environment TV and music

  • @Unkown111st
    @Unkown111st 2 месяца назад +1

    I dont understand how women's that struggle and still have kids on top of dont have no job or career..no financial support..THAT GOD TO WELFARE😂😂

  • @Aaron-h3l
    @Aaron-h3l 2 месяца назад

    It’s gods will who enter the earth.. some of the people who had the roughest life be beautiful people

  • @Mrchann1993
    @Mrchann1993 2 месяца назад

    Damn og this is my current life right now I swear shit ruined me but I’m still getting thru this shit but I can type a book about this specific topic then the man gets super ridiculed by everyone

    • @vicmartin229
      @vicmartin229 2 месяца назад

      Me too shit crazy!!! Literally sat Down with her and told her to her face I’m not going to be there…I don’t have the time or money we not even a couple why would u wanna go thru with this…..I just don’t get it!!!

  • @bosshog9347
    @bosshog9347 2 месяца назад

    Hard subject….. been in the situation, i believe if the man doesn’t want it, it should be a paper to sign to give up all his rights and responsibilities….no one shouldn’t be forced to be a parent….. BUT ON THE OTHER HAND , like the great late 2 pac said…. WE SHOULDNT HAVE THE RIGHT TO TELL A WOMAN WHEN TO CREATE ONE …..ITS HER BODY , so as men we need to wear protection to help prevent these hard decisions

  • @Suhay5
    @Suhay5 2 месяца назад

    I’m with you on this topic O. Maybe it’s because with us females our emotion sometimes outweigh our logic. With some of us it outweighs a lot of the times. 😅

  • @fun1good898
    @fun1good898 2 месяца назад +2

    What's wrong with nature?
    Men plant seeds, and women bare them. Simply put.

  • @mossburgdunk3392
    @mossburgdunk3392 2 месяца назад +2

    They banking on the forever ties or the chick wasn’t able to easily get pregnant or abortion may go against her beliefs

  • @felixmitchell6593
    @felixmitchell6593 2 месяца назад

    Bcuz it's the blessing of having another part of you so I respect they thoughts of having alone plus women are a very independent species...they go hard O

  • @AbdulAlim-xv3ew
    @AbdulAlim-xv3ew 2 месяца назад +1

    Brothers if you don't want no kids strap up or pull out early if you know how to .

  • @arizonaronclothingtv
    @arizonaronclothingtv 2 месяца назад

    Single mothers are celebrated in the black community. Attention is the new currency ie gender reveals and baby showers. Also a baby is an accessory like a Gucci or Birkin Bag. Lastly its a hustle and a form of independence. Section 8 can get them out they moms house, stamps for food and child support is getting to the bag...Malcom said by any means necessary

  • @123catz
    @123catz 2 месяца назад

    She wants to keep it because its a life that could have been. Some people see it as murder some see it as a life that could have been. Everyone different

  • @lillyinthefield2787
    @lillyinthefield2787 2 месяца назад

    And the rest are lonely so they keep it so there never alone anymore and mentally still have something from that man smh. All. Mentally broken reasons

  • @tswpholla
    @tswpholla 2 месяца назад

    I've been paying support for 16 years, my son will be 18 in a couple of months and I'll finally be off,. She's had like 5 more since then,. It's my only one. They get nothing else but the support,. When I started making more money, she got none of that only with the order calls for,. When I received a settlement from a car accident, also became a home owner she got none of that

  • @mspennyisaac
    @mspennyisaac 2 месяца назад +1

    I be just as perplexed when men go in women without condoms then when she gets pregnant, they’re surprised & upset. 🫣 like somebody forced yall to do it.

  • @TabbFromPhilly
    @TabbFromPhilly 2 месяца назад +1

    Some women use the children as leverage. But there are many stand up women that still want to have the baby without the man or his dollars. Some women want to have the baby thinking it will keep the man or bring him back in her life.

  • @niayeemshort419
    @niayeemshort419 2 месяца назад

    Thats they way of thinking they will have something over us been like that for 100 yrs and sad part we lose in court

  • @donnawilliams6001
    @donnawilliams6001 2 месяца назад

    So sad and true!!!! Problem is men and woman need to run a background check before having relationships in the first place . Secondly both parties are at fault and mom should not be bashing the fathers cause it takes two 2️⃣ parents to raise a child and that child support ain’t it . I’d rather work 2 jobs than to wait on peanuts . Sad to say but woman been lining men up and presenting them to the system and its men that keep making babies with them as well . If you’re making children with anyone who will bad mouth you in anyway . You need to hit the reset button and fast . Cause it ain’t for you or them

  • @vicmartin229
    @vicmartin229 2 месяца назад

    I’m going thru that as we speak!!

  • @Fullyautogoon
    @Fullyautogoon 2 месяца назад

    Its a power & control thing, women wanna feel like they can dictate & manipulate shit they way they want & a baby is one of the things in life they got sole control of & they feel like it give them some type of upper hand on the man

  • @4horseMen959
    @4horseMen959 2 месяца назад

    Facts it's crazy out here

  • @kingbeazy4329
    @kingbeazy4329 2 месяца назад

    If going into it you KNOW you don’t wanna have a baby, WHY NOT PROTECT YASELF!! 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @yaquahyisrael1380
    @yaquahyisrael1380 2 месяца назад

    Some keep the child to be spiteful
    Some keep it for health reasons
    All and all it takes 2 to play at the end of the day
    It’s All good til that seed is dropped under the hood.

  • @JerseyRican
    @JerseyRican 2 месяца назад +1

    2 reasons one they don't care they just want a kid and two she like the way the dude looks or she like what he got 🤷‍♂️

  • @arshynelewis2177
    @arshynelewis2177 2 месяца назад

    U should MKE a post askin🤔
    : If it was up to ur dad, would u b here❓
    : If it was up to ur bd, would ya kids b here❓

  • @rosebuddraper2666
    @rosebuddraper2666 2 месяца назад

    I know a girl who got pregnant, the dude didn't want the baby and told her to get rid of it so she asked him to help her pay for the abortion and he didn't want too. She didn't have the money to get it and couldn't give the baby up so she raised him by herself. Now she sees the hurt she caused her baby

  • @Shizz1226
    @Shizz1226 2 месяца назад

    Sometimes women be that attached to you if they can’t have you they’ll settle for havin ya baby

  • @jamahlnesmith3972
    @jamahlnesmith3972 2 месяца назад

    These chick's be thinking about they self! Tryn to get a check..

  • @AwareHead101
    @AwareHead101 2 месяца назад

    Bro I was hit with the same thing..slept with a complete stranger drunk and now 10 years looker I’m still looking at the chick cause she kept the baby

  • @edwinarroyo2485
    @edwinarroyo2485 2 месяца назад

    They shouldn't get skeetit up in anyway...

  • @Dalis856
    @Dalis856 2 месяца назад

    Child support and government assistance is an addiction

  • @joeywhitney3109
    @joeywhitney3109 2 месяца назад

    I agree with you O

  • @kingscooterYouTube
    @kingscooterYouTube 2 месяца назад

    You gotta keep the baby we gotta help population be stronger ...#TRAPISM

  • @bigcitystyles2100
    @bigcitystyles2100 2 месяца назад

    Happened to me schino my BM knew years before she got pregnant I didn't want to have kids with her cause I didn't feel she was cut out to be mom we had sex one day and I said let's go get that pill she got me with the oh no we are good , yeah good and pregnant so I feel u cause that speaks to my situation my BM knew and didn't care

  • @hasaane53snicholson68
    @hasaane53snicholson68 2 месяца назад

    Peace .. O its all about control. Period west philly in the house 55th landsowne. Peace ..

  • @GoatThegoat-ib1ui
    @GoatThegoat-ib1ui 2 месяца назад

    The gonna love em more I hope🙏🏿

  • @MAXPRESTIGEEE
    @MAXPRESTIGEEE 2 месяца назад

    Christ is KING

  • @ethershakur4768
    @ethershakur4768 2 месяца назад +1

    Me either

  • @lillyinthefield2787
    @lillyinthefield2787 2 месяца назад

    NOST THINK IF THEY HAVE IT HELL COME AROUND EVENTUALLY BUT LITTLE DO THEY KNOW BYE THEN HE ALREADY SLEEPING WIT OTHER WONEN

  • @buddevans2218
    @buddevans2218 2 месяца назад

    They only think about themselves

  • @SoopaViral
    @SoopaViral 2 месяца назад

    Everyone doesn't believe in killing their child...

  • @Real2k25
    @Real2k25 2 месяца назад

    Facts

  • @beanypablo5394
    @beanypablo5394 2 месяца назад

    This women would rather have a sympathy story of a man did them wrong.

  • @YungTrapor
    @YungTrapor 2 месяца назад +5

    LeBron never met his father. God bless you Gloria for having that baby!!🙏🏻

  • @MoBetta-um7jg
    @MoBetta-um7jg 2 месяца назад

    That’s a woman’s prerogative. I don’t question that, what I question is, once the woman decided to keep the baby, has the baby and the father plays no part in that child’s life. I mean, shows no interest, has no involvement, you later call him a dead beat. He told you he didn’t want to have the baby and you decided for him. What you expect. 🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @Jesse-n4d
    @Jesse-n4d 2 месяца назад

    Hmmm...because Some People dont Want to Unalive a Child n go to H#LL on judgement day..

  • @pookierobinson2763
    @pookierobinson2763 2 месяца назад

    Sometimes women want kids because the dad has green eyes or good hair

  • @WellnessWhirlwind-
    @WellnessWhirlwind- 2 месяца назад

    I’m married kid was planned married before the kid so can’t say o he only with u for the baby married 10 years next yr together 20 baby 3 a be 4 next yr

  • @kingmeloalkaqn8018
    @kingmeloalkaqn8018 2 месяца назад

    Some females just raised different were they don’t believe in that bro

  • @SuperRayray205
    @SuperRayray205 2 месяца назад

    Maybe she don’t believe in abortion or she delusional thinking the baby will keep the man. But it all start with the man . If he doesn’t want kids he should use precautions. I tell my son this all the time . Once she pregnant , it’s all in her hands now 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Melstar-kn1se
    @Melstar-kn1se 2 месяца назад

    💯

  • @AbdulAlim-xv3ew
    @AbdulAlim-xv3ew 2 месяца назад

    Sisters stop letting brothers go raw in you

  • @nasirbutler5836
    @nasirbutler5836 2 месяца назад

    Using that baby as a check OG or thinking they can change or keep the man

  • @natashao0517
    @natashao0517 2 месяца назад +4

    If a grown man doesn’t want to have a baby he needs to strap up! He should know by now how babies are made 😂

    • @goattbe111
      @goattbe111 2 месяца назад

      Women will tell you to take the condom off and later ask you why you hit it raw lol had it happen to me. Straight Jezebel’s but in Jesus Name i learned my lesson

    • @uptown215
      @uptown215 2 месяца назад

      ​@@goattbe111gtfoh with that lame ass excuse. You're just weak and don't get much buns so you listen to whatever women say

  • @Anti-Ignorance
    @Anti-Ignorance 2 месяца назад +1

    Bruh O, where this question come from?

  • @astronumbernine6396
    @astronumbernine6396 2 месяца назад +5

    If you murder somebody on camera and get caught by the police. You go to court and they charge you for first degree murder. The judge sentenced you to 37 years in prison. And you then say I don't want 37 years. What does that mean if you already created the outcome by making the choice to kill somebody in the first place and knowing you could either get killed or by someone who loves the one you murdered or you can get caught and get 37 years in prison? We can't skip steps

  • @fendel43
    @fendel43 2 месяца назад

    I understand you saying the father won't be in the babies life but you both created life and that is hard, traumatic, life altering for a woman to strip that life from her body. Speaking of both creating life, men know how babies are made so if you don't want to create life act accordingly. We all gotta work on hindsight and not keep saying hindsight is 20/20. I understand the youth and that just isn't a possibilty most of the time when we are young but I'm speaking on grown adults. There are also a million other reasons why she might want to keep that baby. Relationship factors into it too. Maybe the woman is hoping if she has the baby somehow the man will stay in her life. Could be manipulative or she might truly love him and is crushed he wants to end the beginning. Religion, history, traumatic experiences, love, loneliness, humans are animals, empathy, morals, some really good reasons, others selfish, and then others evil. Broad range of reasons and factors. Not a one answer fits all by any means, obviously it never is.

  • @boomarlee1642
    @boomarlee1642 2 месяца назад

    The baby lives inside them, it's not for you to understand you're a guy. . so for us men we're not that attached like they are

  • @keithjohnson765
    @keithjohnson765 2 месяца назад

    Bigger question, if you don’t want a child why go in raw in the first place?

  • @JamillahBrown-fs4zw
    @JamillahBrown-fs4zw 2 месяца назад

    Cause everyone doesn’t believe in abortion. Now I’m pro choice but I wouldn’t get one. My baby dad wanted me to get one and I didn’t. We were extremely young so I get why he wanted to, but I’m not on that. 💩 I probably wouldn’t have any kids if I listened to him because I only have my one daughter. She’ll be 29 in October I’ll be 43. You do the math. I’m from 11th and Cumberland building ijs

  • @AdamBullock-t2m
    @AdamBullock-t2m 2 месяца назад

    Simple answer these chicks is scattered

  • @MrNOSHORTSNOLOANNOCREDIT
    @MrNOSHORTSNOLOANNOCREDIT 2 месяца назад

    Our opinions don’t matter

  • @ourcultureourmusic3299
    @ourcultureourmusic3299 2 месяца назад

    I’m a Muslim but the answer is in the Bible revelations chpt 2
    Stop chasing those Jezebels lol
    They are here too make your life miserable

  • @wilsonwoods5555
    @wilsonwoods5555 2 месяца назад

    It's too late to have this thought or conversation! You should have thought about this before the act of sexual relations took place. I don't believe that a black man is having this conversation or even asking for help understanding what he has done! You could have prevented all of this by keeping yourself! The woman was not the problem. The lack of being a man is the problem! Grow up! SEEK GOD! BE THE MAN YOU WERE CREATED TO BE!
    AMEN!!!
    ASK ADAM!

  • @moneyryzo7489
    @moneyryzo7489 2 месяца назад

    A FEMALE WANTING TO GIVE AND TAKE CARE OF A LIFE SHOULDN’T SOLEY HAVE TO DO WITH WHO SHE HAD IT WITH…I’M HONESTLY SURPRISED TO HEAR YOU TALK LIKE THIS “O”…..SOUNDS MAD SELFISH BUT IGNORANT AT THE SAME TIME…IF YOUR FATHER DIDN’T WANT YOU & ONLY YOUR MOTHER DID…WOULD YOU SAY MA?….YOU WERE A FOOL TO KEEP ME…WHY GO THROUGH WITH GIVING ME LIFE IF MY FATHER DIDN’T WANT ME??? COULD YOU SEE YOURSELF SAYING THIS TO YOUR MOTHER IF THAT WAS THE CASE???

  • @bbundlez9622
    @bbundlez9622 2 месяца назад

    Shoutout o

  • @tyreesneed
    @tyreesneed 2 месяца назад

    why would they want to have it by themself? uhhhh maybe b/c they have morals. maybe cuz they dont want to be a murderer. its a mortal sin. and its 1 of the worst sins in GODS EYES. not everyone is heartless and ruthless to murder an innocent child. you cant understand or comprehend that some humans have morlas and obey GODS LAWS? your son is dead right? so use your brain.

  • @rahzikashiharris9539
    @rahzikashiharris9539 2 месяца назад +3

    IF HE AINT WANT A BABY WHY GET HER PREGNANT? THATS A BETTER QUESTION?

  • @r.simmons3559
    @r.simmons3559 2 месяца назад +1

    Whaaat? I can't believe this is a question. A woman is the closest thing to the creator. Bringing life into the world and you can't expect her to terminate that.

    • @SunnyStyles247
      @SunnyStyles247 2 месяца назад

      We are the creators of the children's world we r the closest thing 2God the will every know💯

    • @r.simmons3559
      @r.simmons3559 2 месяца назад

      @@SunnyStyles247 the first God man Worshipped in ancient Africa was the god Ptah. Who was a woman, this is documented

  • @carlosbostic7090
    @carlosbostic7090 2 месяца назад

    Income

  • @savaliali913
    @savaliali913 2 месяца назад

    How you knock Jay Z then come with this topic

  • @MRSHOW329
    @MRSHOW329 2 месяца назад +11

    Narcissistic mental health woman

  • @bigdogstatus7659
    @bigdogstatus7659 2 месяца назад

    Why would u want to kill a baby oschino….this a man talking and you’re muslim my guy what are u even talking about 🤨

  • @Mark-h2c6e
    @Mark-h2c6e 2 месяца назад

    I've been through this situation. I just pay and stay away from them.

  • @josephcommer8375
    @josephcommer8375 2 месяца назад

    The thing is men and women know that having sex could bring about a baby right and honestly as a man I feel it’s time to man up and take care of the seed you planted. I understand your view as well but we as men gotta be held accountable because I vowed to be way better than my dad so for me it’s man up and show your kid the love you didn’t get.