Breaking the Chain of Unhealthy Relationships | Dr. Janie Lacy | TEDxOcala

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  • Опубликовано: 3 июн 2024
  • It is easy to find yourself in a toxic relationship, so it's important to have self-compassion and to not beat yourself up. There are three important steps to follow to ensure a healthy, happy relationship. Dr. Janie Lacy is a Licensed Relationship Trauma Psychotherapist who has over fifteen years of experience working with those who have unsuccessfully tried to break free from their toxic relationship patterns. By addressing the root issue of their suffering, Janie creates breakthrough experiences from the inside out, allowing her clients to finally find peace within themselves they have so desperately longed for in life. She is a nationally recognized expert in the field of relationship trauma. Janie has been featured on Good Morning America, CNN|HLN, ABC, CBS, FOX, NBC to name a few. She is also a faculty member with the International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals and an entrepreneur. Her accolades and awards include: Orlando Business Journal's 2021 "Women Who Mean Business", Onyx Magazine’s 2020 “Woman on the Move,” Orlando Magazine's 2019 “Women of the Year” and African American Chamber of Commerce of Central Florida 2018 “Enterprise Business of the Year.” This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 60

  • @porschemysticque
    @porschemysticque Месяц назад +1

    Such a powerful story with incredible insights into relationships. It'd never occurred to me how nearly every aspect of your wellness determines the success or failure of your relationships. Powerful!

  • @shannonwhittingtonconsulti9741
    @shannonwhittingtonconsulti9741 2 года назад +10

    Totally agree that everyone deserves to experience healthy relationships! Mindset-inner work-body work. Do the work! Great talk!!!

    • @JanieLacy
      @JanieLacy 2 года назад

      When we do the work, we can change our life!

  • @RamonRaySmartHustle
    @RamonRaySmartHustle 2 года назад +11

    Unhealthy relationships are something that so many of us can AVOID or STOP - THANK YOU Dr. Janie Lacy!!

    • @JanieLacy
      @JanieLacy 2 года назад

      When we heal, we can deal and make choices that lead to healthy relationships!

  • @stephenhuber2658
    @stephenhuber2658 2 года назад +8

    Janie is an amazing speaker and therapist. A real credit to her field
    Stephen Huber

    • @JanieLacy
      @JanieLacy 2 года назад

      Thank you! I appreciate your support!

  • @ryanlacy554
    @ryanlacy554 2 года назад +6

    Great message …. Healing from our childhood wounds is such an important and much needed topic… We need to do a better job as a society of protecting kids and offering resources. With social media, it seems that our kids and teenagers have even more opportunities to suffer injuries to their self esteem and sense of identity from the hands of their own peers. It breaks my heart to hear of the kids that are so wounded that they even end up hurting themselves or others.

    • @JanieLacy
      @JanieLacy 2 года назад +1

      We have to learn how to break patterns or we will certainly repeat them. Healing is possible and available for all!

    • @Ambush7891
      @Ambush7891 Год назад +2

      Hi papa

  • @patriciatomlinson3555
    @patriciatomlinson3555 2 года назад +6

    Breaking the chain of toxicity is so very important to health and well-being. Brava on your great talk!

    • @JanieLacy
      @JanieLacy 2 года назад

      Breaking the chains can free us to have a better future!

  • @patriciawooster
    @patriciawooster 2 года назад +5

    Sometimes we forget that we can decide who we are connected to. Thank you Dr Janie for your mission to help people seek healthy relationships.

    • @JanieLacy
      @JanieLacy 2 года назад

      Yes! We can decide who we allow in our lives!

  • @stephenhuber8692
    @stephenhuber8692 2 года назад +3

    Fantastic talk here. I have known Dr lacy for a number of years and she is dynamic! Stephen Huber Professor of Psychology Full Sail University

  • @MsSharonToldson
    @MsSharonToldson 2 года назад +4

    Excellent presentation Janie! Thank you for your transparency and years of experience that the world can now embrace and benefit via TedEx. May Women Redeem self worth and break all ties with trauma bonds thru your insightfulness and wisdom filled presentation.

  • @maryrod5202
    @maryrod5202 2 года назад +4

    I sat stunned watching you on a TED talk! Amazing amazing amazing! Congratulations what an honor to be a TED speaker. What a great summary of Women Redeemed! As one of the early Women Redeemed participants I can attest to the incredible healing thus difficult work provides! You and Women Redeemed are amazing! Thank you again for tying all of these different works together into a concise program! Truly it was the best thing I’ve ever done for myself. You’re absolutely correct! “It’s never too late!!!!!”

  • @cinvinmendo
    @cinvinmendo 2 года назад +6

    This is so important. These are the pillars we all get to have in our lives!! Thank you for this talk Dr. Lacy!

    • @JanieLacy
      @JanieLacy 2 года назад

      We create a solid foundation with the work of the pillars and we can have a better future!

  • @StudioJonesDesign
    @StudioJonesDesign 2 года назад +5

    Getting out of toxic relationships and avoiding them makes for a much happier life. Great information Dr. Janie!

    • @JanieLacy
      @JanieLacy 2 года назад

      Much happier life and healthier relationships starting with ourself!

  • @shorty90dma
    @shorty90dma 2 года назад +5

    Thank you Dr. Janie!!! Loved how you spoke so clearly on how to get to safe connections and healing - inner work and body work!!! It is never too late to heal childhood wounds!! :)

    • @JanieLacy
      @JanieLacy 2 года назад

      When it comes to healing ourselves, we can teach an old dog new tricks!

  • @sheenajackson791
    @sheenajackson791 2 года назад +1

    It’s so important to break the chains from generational toxicity. Thank you Dr. Lacy.

  • @punamsaxena3475
    @punamsaxena3475 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your power and strength with the world. Your sister would be so proud of you.

  • @woodlyoralus9385
    @woodlyoralus9385 2 года назад +2

    You did awesomely! Honored to have shared the stage with you.

  • @DrRoandRogSchmidt
    @DrRoandRogSchmidt 2 года назад +3

    What an amazing TedX talk and incredibly important topic. Thanks for having the courage to share Dr. Janie. Your sister is smiling from heaven. We are all so proud of you. (2nd comment)

  • @askschellie
    @askschellie 2 года назад +4

    What a moment of insight and self-awareness! This was absolutely amazing!

    • @JanieLacy
      @JanieLacy 2 года назад

      Insight and self- awareness can open the door to creating the life we dreamt of living!

  • @citarellirealtygroup6274
    @citarellirealtygroup6274 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for sharing !

  • @ItsTracey
    @ItsTracey 2 года назад +1

    Toxic relationships are certainly the killer of dreams. Thanks for sharing your insight and for always being a light to many women across the nation! Much Love ❤️

  • @changingtheangle102
    @changingtheangle102 2 года назад +2

    Wow, stellar talk. You are gifted.

  • @christinahoward4947
    @christinahoward4947 2 года назад +1

    Thank you, Dr. Janie Lacy! This information is much needed. My brother was in a toxic relationship that caused lots of stress, and I truly believe the stress caused his death at age 48. I hope more people will recognize when they are in toxic relationships and free themselves before it's too late. I loved the three pillars and how you discussed them in detail. Thank you for providing such valuable information.

  • @SleepfortheSoul
    @SleepfortheSoul 2 года назад +4

    This moved me ! Janie- you Rock! What great insight ! You obviously “ did the work” in life! So proud of you !🎉❤️💕

    • @JanieLacy
      @JanieLacy 2 года назад

      Thank you! I believe we all deserve healthy relationships starting with the person in the mirror!

    • @kevinwilliams3272
      @kevinwilliams3272 6 месяцев назад

      Hello Kristina. I've been on your Web site. Very well designed and a very interesting content. ♥♥♥

  • @StephenMcCall
    @StephenMcCall 2 года назад +1

    Life changing TedX Dr. Janie! Thank you for providing insight into the three pillars of healing. This provides hope for so many who are currently or have been in a toxic relationship. It’s encouraging to hear positive outcomes of your clients who took action, healed, and then found love in healthy relationships. Everyone who watches this speech will be empowered to heal and not give up hope on finding love. Brava!

  • @TamraAndress
    @TamraAndress 2 года назад +2

    Incredible! This is spot on and such an avid reference point for people who are just getting started on their healing journeys or need a new reminder when a trigger arises!

  • @sofiaprintemps7116
    @sofiaprintemps7116 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for your vulnerability in this video. This is a must-shared video. Especially now that the year is ending. Many of us need a reset. Also need to hear the truth despite how difficult it is at times. Thank you so much for your expertise and professionalism as always.

  • @Gabililros
    @Gabililros Год назад +2

    She’s amazing, she experienced such a tragic thing and now she’s helping others! Respect 💗

  • @kellyrafferty2735
    @kellyrafferty2735 2 года назад +1

    Dr. Janie Lacy is such a beautiful vulnerable soul sharing her inner light and wisdom. I’ve done the life map and I can honestly say, it changed my life and the way I relate to others. This knowledge embodies true empowerment and freedom. Excellent, authentic and timely talk ☺️.

    • @JanieLacy
      @JanieLacy Год назад

      I appreciate the sentiments and complements! I am so glad this talk is helping so many to get the needed support on their healing journey!

  • @royalexander1898
    @royalexander1898 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Dr. Lacey! Outstanding inner work! Good nurturing, healing methods and practical excercises for the mind, body, soul and spirit. I love what your doing!! Amazing gift you gave and do give to others!!

  • @lifefulfillmentadvisors1399
    @lifefulfillmentadvisors1399 2 года назад +1

    Many of us want to be a part of something bigger than ourselves and feel safe.. On so many levels, this talk on relationships hits home. Thank you for putting these three pillars in place for us to run with. I’m so mindful now of the body keeping score! What a fantastic presentation! Thank you sincerely Dr Lacy!

  • @waynewashington8116
    @waynewashington8116 2 года назад +1

    WOW! Just watched your TEDx Talk. You knocked it out of the park. Nice work 💯. I left encouraged and inspired 🙏🏼. Thanks for sharing.

  • @MonicaRicciCoach
    @MonicaRicciCoach 2 года назад +1

    What a terrific talk on an important topic, Dr. Janie. Our childhood wounds inform our important life decisions for sure.I appreciated this talk so much! Thank you.

    • @JanieLacy
      @JanieLacy Год назад +1

      Thank you for watching!

  • @roberthanna9
    @roberthanna9 2 года назад +1

    This is fantastic! You are a wonderful educator and speaker Dr Janie!

  • @srcali1865
    @srcali1865 Год назад +1

    Wow, this was really good and very informative. I really learned a lot listening, reminding me that we have people with different experiences. I found this to be very very good information

  • @user-kh1ky9kd6o
    @user-kh1ky9kd6o 8 месяцев назад

    You help me in the hard days my PTSD control my life

  • @user-kh1ky9kd6o
    @user-kh1ky9kd6o 8 месяцев назад

    Thankyou for reading my story. God bless
    0:47

  • @martinamushendje5735
    @martinamushendje5735 2 года назад +2

    Great talk!

  • @demondlane5428
    @demondlane5428 10 месяцев назад +1

    Dr. Janie Lacy is one of three psychotherapist featured on this seasons 90 Day Fiancé "The Last Resort" that will air on TLC August 14, 2023 @ 9pm. Be sure to tune in.

  • @Anxietywarriorqueen
    @Anxietywarriorqueen 4 месяца назад +1

    What if they are really good at hiding important information and to late to know? Masking is hard to identify.

  • @user-kh1ky9kd6o
    @user-kh1ky9kd6o 8 месяцев назад

    Thankyou for reading my story. God bless
    0:47