Nina Nesbitt - When You Lose Someone (Official Video)

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  • Nina Nesbitt - When You Lose Someone (Official Video)
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    Director: Wolf James
    Producer: Marion Solheim
    EP: Nathan Killham
    Prod Company: Kode Media
    DOP: Peter Bishop
    Gaffer: Greg Probert
    Steadicam: Austin Philips
    1st AC: Adam Fox
    2nd AC: Rory Thomas
    Spark: James Leech
    Spark: Tom Parkinson
    Editor: John Cutler
    Colourist: Chris Bell / Creep Post
    VFX Artists: Cian McKenna, Jonathan Irwin
    DIT: Ed Chambers
    Runner: Vanya Chulkov
    Cast: Gustave Juvenal Die, Nick Middleton
    Covid Super: Nick Middleton
    MUA: Emily Clarkson
    BTS: Jon Stone, Lewis Newson
    Location: Streatham Space Project
    Camera Eq: McX
    Lighting Eq: Panalux
    Lyrics:
    I thought it’d only be a moment
    like a night of summer rain
    but it’s like a landslide of emotion
    everyday
    i’ve been trying to recover
    i put you to the back of my brain
    now i’m just trying to remember you
    in the best way
    I go from, feeling numb, to feeling everything at once
    and don’t know if I-
    wanna cry, one of the
    the hardest things i’ve ever had to learn
    is how to lose someone
    first, you don’t have the words
    it’s the kinda flame you don’t see till it burns
    then it hurts till it eats you alive
    changes you forever in the blink of an eye
    and it’s not something that just fades overnight
    it’s something that stays for the rest of your life
    when you lose somebody you love
    when you lose somebody you love
    it comes and goes like it’s a season
    but the clouds are always grey
    and late at night when i’m alone with my thoughts
    it feels like a ferrari racing
    I go from, feeling numb, to feeling everything at once
    don’t know if I
    wanna cry, one of the
    the hardest things i’ve ever had to learn
    is how to lose someone
    first, you don’t have the words
    it’s the kinda flame you don’t see till it burns
    then it hurts till it eats you alive
    changes you forever in the blink of an eye
    and it’s not something that just fades overnight
    it’s something that stays for the rest of your life
    when you lose somebody you love
    when you lose somebody you love
    #NinaNesbitt #WhenYouLoseSomeone

Комментарии • 1,1 тыс.

  • @BLAZEgamerGamer
    @BLAZEgamerGamer 2 года назад +2313

    “Grief, I’ve learned, is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.” 💙

    • @Kris97520
      @Kris97520 2 года назад +24

      Que bello todo lo que has escrito. Muchas gracias.

    • @aprilemeola3793
      @aprilemeola3793 2 года назад +24

      I love how you put this!

    • @Lioness_of_Gaia
      @Lioness_of_Gaia 2 года назад +13

      Well put. 💛

    • @dorthy739
      @dorthy739 2 года назад +24

      Such a beautiful way to make sense of grief & pain...
      LOVE is the perfect answer...
      🌸🦋❤🕊💗

    • @moka7349
      @moka7349 2 года назад +13

      It's how you put it that made it feel better🌺

  • @AmyBro97
    @AmyBro97 2 года назад +696

    This song hits hard. I met someone online and we started talking all day every day for a couple months. We connected on a level I never had before. We had so much in common it was ridiculous. He made me so happy every day. Every single day, that is, until the day he suddenly passed away. I never got the chance to meet him in person. We were planning on finally meeting in person that month, but unfortunately, it was too late. I will never forget the way he made me feel and the happiness he gave me. I think that was the happiest I’ve ever been in my whole life. I really think I fell in love with him that quickly. He was amazing. He was perfect. I will never ever forget him as long as I live. RIP Chris ❤️

    • @elisekhoury7718
      @elisekhoury7718 2 года назад +14

      I am sorry for your loss🤍😔😔🤍

    • @elisekhoury7718
      @elisekhoury7718 2 года назад +6

      How are u feeling?

    • @angelberthakatundu9475
      @angelberthakatundu9475 2 года назад +4

      I'm definitely sure!! Shes happy for you💞

    • @dinajones2761
      @dinajones2761 2 года назад +7

      I hope you are okay. My father in law passed 5/3/2022 in a nursing home because his oldest son put him there. He died tired and miserable.

    • @ash-qh5or
      @ash-qh5or 2 года назад +5

      I can relate to your story,it's almost like we experienced the same thing

  • @Derrickinreallife
    @Derrickinreallife 2 года назад +38

    It's so Sad when someone you Know becomes someone you knew.

  • @Jtw24T
    @Jtw24T 4 месяца назад +19

    You meet that one person, it messes you up for the rest of your life.

  • @Barbara-hx2qy
    @Barbara-hx2qy Месяц назад +8

    I lost the father of my kids in February 2024. We spent everyday together for almost 20 years. March would have been 20 years. I miss him deeply and I will always cherish every moment we spent together. 😢 I’m trying my best to cope and move forward with my life. It’s just so damn hard without him!

  • @ayvidyan
    @ayvidyan 2 года назад +728

    This song hurts. I am still recovering from my grandfather who died last 2020 then my 7 years old cousin who is like my little sister died 7 months ago and life is never the same since. This song described my feelings so well. Thanks for making this song.

    • @TheAstronomyFloyd
      @TheAstronomyFloyd 2 года назад +18

      I can relate my Grandad passed on 30 December 2020, so every new year is gonna feel weird

    • @Rodneyvx
      @Rodneyvx 2 года назад +9

      I am so so sorry for your loss! Nina her music is always with so much emotion ⭐️ love her music

    • @bvnnyteeth
      @bvnnyteeth 2 года назад +10

      I lost my grandfather my best friend the only person I ever considered a father a few weeks ago this is very relatable my heart aches

    • @ayvidyan
      @ayvidyan 2 года назад +6

      @@bvnnyteeth I am so sorry for your loss my grandfather died at the age of 94 although he lived his life well and I believed he served his purpose, his death is still so hard to accept. I still think of him all the time.

    • @manuel3662
      @manuel3662 2 года назад +5

      my brother died on april 2021 , and my father on 2003 - this song brought tears to my eyes. im from germany - sorry for my english. dianne ,i know how you feel and im sorry for your loss

  • @pixiexdustxx
    @pixiexdustxx 2 года назад +415

    I lost my husband in December 2020 to cancer. This song speaks everything that is so hard to put into words. Over a year later and I still wish he'd walk through the door.

    • @wearechristsbeloved4843
      @wearechristsbeloved4843 2 года назад +19

      I lost my husband suddenly to cancer in oct that yr and I feel the same. Sending prayers to you😭😢💔❤️

    • @desireefantini
      @desireefantini 2 года назад +15

      I lost mine on August 28, 2021. Unfortunately, cancer took him too. I miss him so much and he will always be the love of my life. Sending both of you a big hug!

    • @legoblocks489
      @legoblocks489 2 года назад +13

      sending a big hugs to all of you there

    • @jamiecadenhead3307
      @jamiecadenhead3307 2 года назад +8

      I lost my love in a trucking accident! He died July 27 2018 and I still feel the pain like it was yesterday 💔 grief is something I could never put into words!! I'm sorry to you all for your loss!!

    • @ayahvictoor4715
      @ayahvictoor4715 2 года назад +3

      Oooh it's heart wrenching ☹️

  • @TLLynch-xj7dz
    @TLLynch-xj7dz 2 года назад +62

    I lost my dad 10 years ago next month. Whoever says it gets easier truly does not know what they're talking about. My dad was everything he was my strength he was my inspiration to do better and to be better he was like my moral compass. And he was my rock I went through hard times. But there is one thing I know he's always here with me. We never truly lose the people we truly love and that has loved us we can't see many more everyday but they are there right beside you taking every step you take breathing Every Breath You breathe. But just because they're physically gone doesn't mean they stopped being with you they will always be with you wherever this life should take you that's because you keep them in your heart. And yes this song will move you to tears, it is such a beautiful song.

    • @undauntinglyprudent
      @undauntinglyprudent 2 года назад

      More power to you and peace to him ✨

    • @mpanjamoryn5480
      @mpanjamoryn5480 2 года назад +1

      My daddy was the same my best friend and true heart love of mine
      I cannot replace him with any thing
      Am counting 3yrs 😢

    • @monistefy
      @monistefy 2 года назад

      I lost my mum earlier this year, and I can already tell this is a wound time can heal, she was everything to me. I'm glad you can also still feel your dad with you, at least we have that 🤎🤎🤎

  • @danilonunes1204
    @danilonunes1204 2 года назад +186

    This song makes me feel so many things I can't even put into words

    • @f_USAF-Lt.G
      @f_USAF-Lt.G 2 года назад +1

      Put it into a playlist... That way you can guide your emotions in/out of dark/light

  • @Hawaiiansky11
    @Hawaiiansky11 2 года назад +57

    Feeling true grief, for the first time in my life, and I can confirm this song is 100% accurate. God bless everyone going through this. Believe that they are only in another dimension and your love will bring you to them when it's your turn to go. And, that every single tear drop can be felt by them, as it turns from your grief to an "I love you" to them.

    • @kellygrier9692
      @kellygrier9692 8 месяцев назад

      I really needed your words of encouragement thank you so so much

  • @MadilynBailey
    @MadilynBailey 2 года назад +67

    gahhhhhhhhh this is so good!!!!!

    • @kreanos
      @kreanos 2 года назад

      right? 😭

    • @lexY4575
      @lexY4575 Месяц назад

      omg hi madilyn😭

  • @adonai7187
    @adonai7187 2 года назад +101

    To those like us who find it hard to express our emotions comprehensively and accurately we come sit and listen to Nina, this song does its best to express the very marrows of our brokenness..

  • @sorifarente
    @sorifarente 2 года назад +240

    I broke up with my boyfriend a month and a half ago and it still hurts. He has already moved on, I feel depressed and alone. Your song comforts me at least a little. Thank you.

    • @kristydairinunsir4460
      @kristydairinunsir4460 2 года назад +15

      Keep your head up queen🌸 take time to heal. It hurts but you will be okay🌱 Let it all out & always know you're not alone❤

    • @babypink56
      @babypink56 2 года назад +1

      You’ll be okay 💓

    • @morningglorydawn4376
      @morningglorydawn4376 2 года назад +4

      One Day he will be in your present position. Hang in there ❤️☀️☀️❤️, hold your head up high and face the Day with Gratitude wherever you can find it, and there is much. Work on You and a year from now you can look back and see what it all meant. Pocket that Knowledge, and fall in Love with Beautiful You!

    • @ahavacitrus4897
      @ahavacitrus4897 2 года назад +3

      You are not alone even if it feels like you are sometimes. 🤝

    • @Theroady
      @Theroady 2 года назад

      Same feelings right now sis 💔

  • @CyndiTrogden
    @CyndiTrogden 2 года назад +8

    Grief is love with no place to go! I know I will have my son again in heaven one day! I wish I was with him but my two remaining children only have one parent…me. My kids Dad died 5 years ago & then my oldest son died 10 months ago. I’m forever heartbroken missing my boy. His 7 year old son is here for me to love & I’m going to love him all the days of his life like I did Chris. 35 is too young. Fuck covid. You stopped my sons heart!!!!! And crushed mine!!

    • @georgemelvin588
      @georgemelvin588 2 года назад

      Awwww, so sorry about your losses Cyndi, my deep and sincere condolences, how have you been?

  • @roshniaslam4760
    @roshniaslam4760 2 года назад +20

    this song has broken me and comforted me in equal measure, trying to adjust to life without the man who was possibly the true love of my life, she has given voice to my heart; a beautiful song to cry, heal and let go to.

  • @mutantthug4507
    @mutantthug4507 2 года назад +218

    I thought it'd only be a moment
    Like a night of summer rain
    But it's like a landslide of emotion
    Everyday
    I've been trying to recover
    I put you to the back of my brain
    Now I'm just to remember you
    In the best way
    I
    I go from feeling numb to feeling everything at once
    And don't know if I
    Wanna cry, one of the hardest things I've ever had to learn
    Is how to lose someone
    First, you don't have the words
    It's the kinda flame you don't see 'til it burns
    Then it hurts 'til it eats you alive
    Changes you forever in the blink of an eye
    And it's not something that just fades overnight
    It's something that stays for the rest of your life
    When you lose somebody you love
    When you lose somebody you love
    It comes and goes like it's a season
    But the clouds are always grey
    And late at night when I'm alone with my thoughts
    It feels like a Ferrari racing (on and on)
    I go from, feeling numb, to feeling everything at once
    And don't know if I
    Wanna cry, one of the hardest things I've ever had to learn
    Is how to lose someone
    First, you don't have the words
    It's the kinda flame you don't see 'til it burns
    Then it hurts 'til it eats you alive
    Changes you forever in the blink of an eye
    And it's not something that just fades overnight
    It's something that stays for the rest of your life
    When you lose somebody you love (lose somebody you love)
    When you lose somebody you love (goes on and on)
    when you lose somebody
    (When you lose somebody) when you lose somebody you love
    (When you lose somebody) when you lose somebody
    The hardest thing I've ever had to learn
    First, you don't have the words
    It's the kinda flame you don't see 'til it burns
    Then it hurts 'til it eats you alive
    Changes you forever in the blink of an eye
    And it's not something that just fades overnight
    It's something that stays for the rest of your life
    When you lose somebody you love
    When you lose somebody you love
    When you lose somebody you love
    The hardest thing I've ever had to learn

    • @i_Mandy_i
      @i_Mandy_i 2 года назад +3

      Please pin it on top

  • @TheAstronomyFloyd
    @TheAstronomyFloyd 2 года назад +142

    When Nina writes a sad song she knows what she’s doing, songs like this, Hold You or Make Me Fall are perfect examples, no one shows reflectiveness quite the same

    • @NazirBNS
      @NazirBNS 2 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/28LC-ZLCPbY/видео.html nings

    • @porkrolleggandcheese5707
      @porkrolleggandcheese5707 2 года назад +1

      I would agree, but also check out Gemma Hayes. She does melancholy and longing like no other. I think you might appreciate her, especially "Palomino", "Happy Sad", "Back Of My Hand" and "Ruin".

    • @rebanuszananiasz1248
      @rebanuszananiasz1248 2 года назад

      🄰🄱🅂🄾🄻🅄🅃🄴🄻🅈

    • @lalnuntluangihnamte3684
      @lalnuntluangihnamte3684 2 года назад +1

      Exactly.

  • @kagurakagura597
    @kagurakagura597 2 года назад +22

    *Whenever I listen to this song, I missed my Mom so much who passed away 4th of March this year and I have been struggling alot with my life lately. But this song give me some strength and blessed my heart so thank you Nina* ♥️

    • @monistefy
      @monistefy 2 года назад

      So hard! I hope that with all the pain and despite of it you can have a beautiful life 🤎

    • @jessicaxx7163
      @jessicaxx7163 Год назад

  • @nerrymacapagal
    @nerrymacapagal 2 года назад +41

    The line "it's the kind of flame you don't see 'til it burns" gets me every time😭😭😭 truly a lyric genius!!!

  • @stacymasha
    @stacymasha 2 года назад +17

    This song just gave me memories of my mum 💔😭😭. She passed away in Nov 2020 and things have changed since then. It's never the same without the ones we love. I miss her so much.🥺😭

  • @xanalbino
    @xanalbino 2 года назад +25

    This song got right to my heart and head. I lost my son almost 6 years ago. You said it all it never goes away and you try to not remember it but you never get over the pain of losing a child.

    • @monistefy
      @monistefy 2 года назад

      I lost my mum earlier this year and I feel the same, not trying to remember the memories that make the heart ache the most. The love never goes away, so I know the pain of not having them also stays. I wish you the most beautiful life possible 🤎

  • @TheArussell5
    @TheArussell5 2 года назад +10

    Such a moving song. It hurts my heart and makes me miss my dad who passed away 36 years ago.
    Beautiful Nina ….much love Ann xx ❤️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿❤️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @iblaughn
    @iblaughn 2 года назад +13

    A beautiful song. So beautiful. I lost my mom and grandmother (last grandparent) in 2019, my dog of 10+ years in 2020 and my dad in 2021. This song, while sad, is also comforting. Grief is a hard journey that we will all go through at some point. And it is so hard to learn how to lose someone you love. How to start again and carry them with you. Eventually, you start to live again but it’s different. It’s like the way you see the world is broken and everything looks different. Hopefully, you learn how to feel their presence in a different way and realize they’re still with you and will always be a part of you. But it’s so hard. Much love to the many people on here going through grief. ❤️

  • @brandonrichardson9499
    @brandonrichardson9499 2 года назад +10

    I just lost one of my best friends on Sunday and it’s been extremely hard for not only myself, but for so many people that loved him. My heart is so shattered for his wife and two little girls…. Music has always helped me cope with life. And when I came across this song, it spoke to me instantly. Thank you for writing and singing this song Nina. ❤️

  • @kitcat6903
    @kitcat6903 2 года назад +38

    I lost my dad a few days ago, I came home from work and there he was. I’ve been an absolute wreck and I can’t explain how I go from numb to feeling everything all at once. I see parts of him around the house, his phone still rings and I don’t hear his voice follow. Small things catch my eye and I remember him. This song popped up and broke my heart all over again

    • @theggirl93
      @theggirl93 2 года назад

      Same here, lost my Daddy to cancer last Dec 2021 and life has never been the same. I took care of him 26 years of my life including 10 years of my married life. I miss my Daddy so much.

    • @ytbr3383
      @ytbr3383 2 года назад

      I'm so sorry about your loss. Stay strong, that's what he would like you to do. His memory and soul will stay with you.

    • @ytbr3383
      @ytbr3383 2 года назад +1

      @@theggirl93sorry for your loss. I really hate cancer. Lost a close relative to it aswell. Stay strong.

    • @danielabudau9064
      @danielabudau9064 2 года назад

      🤗🤗 it hurts but we are here for you if you need us. Take care of you ❤️

    • @monistefy
      @monistefy 2 года назад

      I'm sorry for your loss, it truly sucks! I lost my mum to cancer earlier this year and I sure know our lifes are more difficult now. 🤎🖤

  • @alexandrabajic4451
    @alexandrabajic4451 2 года назад +4

    I lost my father 14 years ago and the pain is still as strong as the day I was told he was dead. It's so hard to heal from it and move on. I wish I could have seen him before he passes away but well... Life happens.
    Enjoy each moment with your parents. It's so precious.

  • @schweggles
    @schweggles 2 года назад +10

    I lost my last surviving grandmother in July 2020, one of my uncles February 2021, and another uncle and my last surviving grandfather within a week of each other in October 2021. This song puts the grief I've felt for months into the words I never could. Thank you Nina 💕

  • @jacquejohnson552
    @jacquejohnson552 2 года назад +2

    I love the words of this song! Losing someone to passing or break up is hard. In my despair crying out to God why Lord why? I found myself searching listening and then I had the most real nightmare. Just when I thought I was at the end of life, I felt someone take my hand but saw no one there. But the feeling of love and safety was evident. I woke up and felt renewed. The guilt, disappointment, the why have all been replaced with this. I look for the good in everything. The loss of my loved ones, the end of a relationship, disappointment in family children friends. I look for the good. It is hard and sometimes difficult but then the good is worth it. Give your worries, your baggage of burdens to God and know he has this for you. Walk away and feel the goodness. There is POWER in PRAYER. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
    WE are survivors not victims...

  • @ihssaneamarty7760
    @ihssaneamarty7760 9 месяцев назад +3

    When you lose someone who never exist in fact jyst in your heart and your head . It is More painfull than losing someone you reconize

  • @stephaniemanus-marino9638
    @stephaniemanus-marino9638 6 месяцев назад +2

    I'd never heard of you and as I sit here unraveling and asking why this child I cared for so deeply as my own was taken from us so unnecessarily and I feel like he pushed me to hear this thank you for putting this pain into words

  • @sharid3222
    @sharid3222 2 года назад +34

    You captured into words something for which there really are no words. You have captured this impossible emotion of grief into a single song and then set it free for the world to heal. Thankyou!

  • @twofreakystans8911
    @twofreakystans8911 2 года назад +52

    That’s what makes art worthwhile. When artists like Nina are able to word out what it feels like and then other people know that they’re not alone.
    Love it!

  • @northernmajor407
    @northernmajor407 2 года назад +9

    Whatever you were facing, remember to not easily give up. Fight that negative feeling inside you. If you fall, stand back up and keep fighting. Never underestimated your inner power. Show to the world that you are one of the best and try to stay positive at all costs.

    • @brendapearce8425
      @brendapearce8425 2 года назад +3

      That’s true. It’s ok to hurt and crying is sooo relieving to the soul. Don’t hold it in when you have grief within your heart and soul. Everyone goes through the stages of grieving at their own pace. Go through it and the sun will surely shine for you yet again one day. Going through all stages of grieving doesn’t mean you won’t ever think about your special someone and cry at times and that’s perfectly fine to allow yourself to remember the pain, the good and bad times. But, I know that that someone is around you at all times everyday. As well as God will be holding you up whenever you cannot hold your own self up. Look around and you will see all the signs this person is still with you and is waiting to see you again when Our Heavenly Father calls you home. What a glorious reunion that will be. ❤️

  • @thehoodguyzim
    @thehoodguyzim 2 года назад +78

    She never disappoints, her voice 😍

  • @sharonmateka2710
    @sharonmateka2710 2 года назад +16

    First time I'm hearing of Nina Nesbitt but I gotta say I'm hooked already. This song is so relatable and daaaamn! Her voice😍

  • @suhanikhadkachhetri5929
    @suhanikhadkachhetri5929 2 года назад +3

    With every falling apart there is a coming back together, I hope everyone going through pain it shall pass by & you are not alone , I love you ❤️ Thank you for existing ✨

  • @oliviabrindle7562
    @oliviabrindle7562 2 года назад +13

    Such a powerful song that really captures the emotions of loosing a loved one

  • @ColinKuan
    @ColinKuan 4 месяца назад +1

    Every word of this song resonates with the loss I still feel for a dog who saved me and was like both a daughter and best friend to me.

  • @jennifermiles5739
    @jennifermiles5739 2 года назад +13

    I lost my husband July 18 2021 to Covid at 44 years old. I never saw it coming. I am recovering still and this song truly opens your eyes to the process. Beautiful song beautiful message.

    • @nicoletarosu2594
      @nicoletarosu2594 2 года назад

      🤗

    • @loredanacaldararu7916
      @loredanacaldararu7916 2 года назад

      Many people killed in hospitals due to killer protocols.... u might think this is crazy but is the raw truth....😥
      ....

    • @georgemelvin588
      @georgemelvin588 2 года назад

      Awwww, so sorry about your loss Jennifer, my deep and sincere condolences, how have you been?

  • @patrycjaburzynska1805
    @patrycjaburzynska1805 2 года назад +36

    I lost my dog this week, he was my best friend for almost 12 years and this song is all what I feel right now 💔

    • @ashleyclaire844
      @ashleyclaire844 Год назад +1

      i had to put my dog down yesterday, and i sought this song out too. i hope you're doing better now.

    • @baeramashwn9917
      @baeramashwn9917 Год назад

      Sending love your way 💖 RIP cutie 🦮

    • @roseyvassiliou1333
      @roseyvassiliou1333 Год назад

      i also lost my dog this year end of january and feel the same way 💔

  • @MrScienceMaths
    @MrScienceMaths 2 года назад +15

    Simply beautiful the song, the sounds, the vibration and of course most important Nina, Love you Nina!

  • @bridgetgoetowski8922
    @bridgetgoetowski8922 9 месяцев назад +3

    I heard this song several years ago when it first came out. I always thought it was so beautiful and heartbreaking. Now, it hits differently - I lost my dad suddenly exactly a week ago. Now the words have taken on such meaning that I hoped I wouldn't have to understand for a long time... but in a strange way, I'm glad I have this song.

  • @MedSou
    @MedSou 2 года назад +5

    *Dear person who may be reading this*
    .
    .
    👇
    *You’re amazing stay blessed, stay safe and have a amazing rest of your day*

  • @hopelessopus660
    @hopelessopus660 7 месяцев назад +3

    *"But what is grief, if not love persevering?"*

  • @greenf33t
    @greenf33t 2 года назад +11

    This song truly hurts...got me really emotional. I lost my best friend and my dad in 2021 just 2 months apart from each other. I am still recovering.. I don't think I ever will. Until I actually see them one day.😭😭

  • @tizzyxx9018
    @tizzyxx9018 2 года назад +23

    Nina is such a talented young artist. Always creates original and meaningful music. Powerful words projected by a beautiful voice. ❤️

  • @paridhikapoor5500
    @paridhikapoor5500 2 года назад +108

    Lyrics:
    I thought it'd only be a moment
    Like a night of summer rain
    But it's like a landslide of emotion
    Everyday
    I've been trying to recover
    I put you to the back of my brain
    Now I'm just to remember you
    In the best way
    I
    I go from feeling numb to feeling everything at once
    And don't know if I
    Wanna cry, one of the hardest things I've ever had to learn
    Is how to lose someone
    First, you don't have the words
    It's the kinda flame you don't see 'til it burns
    Then it hurts 'til it eats you alive
    Changes you forever in the blink of an eye
    And it's not something that just fades overnight
    It's something that stays for the rest of your life
    When you lose somebody you love
    When you lose somebody you love
    It comes and goes like it's a season
    But the clouds are always grey
    And late at night when I'm alone with my thoughts
    It feels like a Ferrari racing (on and on)
    I go from, feeling numb, to feeling everything at once
    And don't know if I
    Wanna cry, one of the hardest things I've ever had to learn
    Is how to lose someone
    First, you don't have the words
    It's the kinda flame you don't see 'til it burns
    Then it hurts 'til it eats you alive
    Changes you forever in the blink of an eye
    And it's not something that just fades overnight
    It's something that stays for the rest of your life
    When you lose somebody you love (lose somebody you love)
    When you lose somebody you love (goes on and on)
    when you lose somebody
    (When you lose somebody) when you lose somebody you love
    (When you lose somebody) when you lose somebody
    The hardest thing I've ever had to learn
    First, you don't have the words
    It's the kinda flame you don't see 'til it burns
    Then it hurts 'til it eats you alive
    Changes you forever in the blink of an eye
    And it's not something that just fades overnight
    It's something that stays for the rest of your life
    When you lose somebody you love
    When you lose somebody you love
    When you lose somebody you love
    The hardest thing I've ever had to learn

  • @christerrill3318
    @christerrill3318 11 месяцев назад +2

    My dear friend lost her husband recently, and she shared this with me explaining that it explains so much of what she's feeling. Thank you for your talents, and for these devastatingly beautiful lyrics that speak to so many. I'm so glad it has brought her some sort of understanding during such an unthinkable situation. My heart! TEARS! Thank you.

  • @siathebest5732
    @siathebest5732 Год назад +7

    She's Beautiful

  • @R4VEFOX
    @R4VEFOX 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is so true and completely and utterly breaking my heart.

  • @Caitlyn.
    @Caitlyn. 2 года назад +10

    This song explained so many things I can never put into words and to those who have lost someone close remember this every day. Remember: they loved you, you were there everything, one day you’ll see them again, it’s ok not to feel ok, it hard but just remember salt looks like sugar, I know the invisible but just remember you were the hardest thing that that person had to give up ☺️☺️😇

    • @ambergarcia8006
      @ambergarcia8006 2 года назад

      The absolute beauty of music.......it helps situations in our lives that are so powerful that we can't even come up with the right words to explain.

  • @thetorontogirl
    @thetorontogirl 2 года назад +2

    It's been three years since my dad suddenly passed away. I remember the day like it was yesterday when I got the news.
    It was sunny.
    The snow and ice were melting.
    A lovely day in early February. It was so warm that I had to take my jacket off when I was shoveling the driveway.
    I was the last to know.
    A week later, it was his funeral. Before we left the funeral home, we each took a little red plastic heart from a glass jar as memorabilia of his passing. I have it somewhere but that little heart changed my life in ways that I didn't know it would. It was the last time I would ever see his face before they'd close his casket.
    The day was so cold, the coldest its been all that winter. It snowed that morning, heavy snow, the type of snow he loved. He always loved the snow but not the cold, just like me.
    My fingers were frozen while I clung to his coffin in front of a crowd of people. I wore a red coat, like the colour of the roses I made his wreath out of. It was the weekend before Valentine's Day and every flower shop was full of red roses, the symbol of love.
    It's gotten easier but it still hits me sometimes knowing that I should've treasured my time with him instead of trying to fix how we spent time together. And if I could just have 10 minutes with him, that's all I'll ever need.
    Miss him everyday. Shine on you crazy diamond 💎

  • @vanessavega8517
    @vanessavega8517 2 года назад +15

    I love the song. The video takes it to another level. This is the type of song you can let your heart sing it for anyone you’ve loved. A parent, a spouse, a friend. It just hits the right words to describe these types of feelings. I LOVED IT!

  • @stephcarrin
    @stephcarrin 2 года назад +4

    Such a beautiful song. My heart and prayers go out to those who lost someone.
    I lost my bro to addiction 12/29/2019. We use to be so close. 🙏😢💔

  • @Horrorblonde
    @Horrorblonde 2 года назад +4

    I miss you mom losing you changed me forever when I lost you I lost me too..

  • @iainmacleod8159
    @iainmacleod8159 Год назад +1

    I first experienced grief a week after my dad died. I was 18 and sat in the workshop and opened the bag my mum had given me on my first day back, a week after he died. It contained a small home made apple pie. My dad used to get one every week and now it became my heirloom. Sounds a bit daft nearly 50 years later but I still get emotional every time I bake one. Today I was helped by our 6 year old granddaughter Eliza. It tasted good with a few tears on top, Iain

  • @viacurnow8851
    @viacurnow8851 2 года назад +4

    I really needed this today, my auntie died from suicide last year and i now have anxiety and maybe depression caused from that event, I had an panic attack this morning because I was thinking about her, but now I have come across this song and it really helped me understand what I am feeling. Also you have a beautiful voice. ❤

  • @94north70
    @94north70 Год назад +4

    1 year today i lost my best friend. Still thinking of you homie

  • @irispostma2679
    @irispostma2679 Год назад +1

    We had to say goodbye to our doggy yesterday. He got to live to 16,5 years and it was really his time, but he was the absolute sweetest dog in the world. My life was infinitally richer with him in it. I'm so grateful to have been able to spend so many beautiful years with him. But none of that makes losing him any easier. To anyone going through grief right now: it's okay, let yourself feel it. They will stay with you in your heart and one day the sun will shine again. Much love to all❤❤

  • @brianhenley1345
    @brianhenley1345 2 года назад +7

    I lost my daughter may 5th 2020. To heroin. I needed this song. Thank you. So much.

    • @ambergarcia8006
      @ambergarcia8006 2 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry to read this about your daughter. My best friend died the same way recently. I'm proud to say Ive been heroin free for a little over two years now. I can't imagine losing a child, and my heart aches even just imagining it. Heroin addiction is one of the hardest and most painful things a person can go through. I know as a Heroin addict, that your daughter didn't want the problem she had and probably would have done anything to change it. Hang onto sweet memories....I have found that is what keeps the ones we loved so much alive. Please know that your comment hit me hard and that there is a stranger out there in the world who is thinking of your precious daughter today.

    • @aeconiglio
      @aeconiglio 2 года назад

      Sending you love. I lost my mother to addiction and depression. I've been sober for years, but the grief never dies.

  • @jadescholz1767
    @jadescholz1767 2 года назад +1

    6 weeks ago, my husband and I had a talk for over two hours while our son slept between us. He had struggled for over 2 years with addiction, depression, anxiety and bipolar disorder. He had finally gotten a good amount of clean time, but was still refusing to go to a psychiatrist about the possibility of taking an SSRI, or a mood stabilizer or something. I could see that his depression was worsening, and I begged him so many times. But that night, we had a great talk, about moving forward, starting over, clean slate in a different state in a few months. We talked honestly about the way the 2 years had affected our relationship and our family, and how to rebuild after he had killed the trust that we had shared with his relapses. He told me that he felt real hope for the first time in over 2 years that we could rebuild our marriage and put it on even stronger foundations.
    Right before he went to sleep, he groaned and put his hand to his forehead. I asked if he had a headache. He said, "no, sometimes a thought from the past few years will bust in and send me right back to rock bottom." I asked if he wanted to talk, but he didn't. He said he just needed some sleep and would be better tomorrow.
    He woke up early, tried to call and text his mom several times, and when I woke up and walked to the kitchen to get some water, I saw my soulmate, my husband, the only man I have ever truly loved.....I saw him through the kitchen window that looked out on the back porch. He had hung himself there. Over one of the rafters. I tried hacking at the rope with a knife, then dug at it with my fingernails. He was 6'6" and I'm 5'1", so I got him loose and tried to gently lower him down. I climbed on his chest and started trying to get his heart to beat, find a heartbeat, tilted his head back and tried to blow my life from my lungs into his.
    He was gone.
    My beautiful, loving, funny, scarred, imperfect, devoted, far-from-perfect but loved infinitely just the same, husband was....gone. In the span of a moment.
    I've drug my feet through this past 6 weeks trying to figure out what life looks like without him in it. It doesn't help that every other aspect of my life took that opportunity after he passed away to go ahead and fall apart as well. This song feels like it's singing directly to the jagged hole inside of me that refuses to scab over even a tiny bit.

  • @jellymoonbun
    @jellymoonbun 2 года назад +37

    This song hits on so many levels. Simply amazing

  • @MyIncredibleRecipes
    @MyIncredibleRecipes 2 года назад +1

    I miss you mom 💔
    I lost my mom a few months ago and it broke me in a way I could ever put into words. A forever emptiness.

  • @user-vv7og1gt7t
    @user-vv7og1gt7t 2 года назад +4

    Perfect song for me today, I just lost my father who was 94, I miss his love so much already. 😢 He just passed 3/13 and the funeral is 3/16. I’m in so much pain. She has a great voice and the song means so much.

  • @TheRealBellaSwan85
    @TheRealBellaSwan85 2 года назад +2

    I lost my mom back in November do to Covid, and I miss her everyday....I also feel like I'm never going to stop grieving for her.

  • @anasiul7768
    @anasiul7768 11 месяцев назад +5

    “I’d always assumed I was responsible for the way I felt.
    That it was my fault, somehow.
    Like some people are just born wrong. Built wrong. Raised wrong.
    I’ve learned that I have always been wrong in thinking that. There has never been anything wrong with me. I wasn’t born different. There was absolutely nothing extra or out of the ordinary about me.
    I was just born marred by someone else’s scars rather than my own.
    I will not apologize for how I learned to survive the scars I was born with. I won’t be ashamed of how I’ve learned to carry the pain I was burdened with. I won’t be made responsible for not being capable of stitching wounds I was inflicted with before I was even alive.
    I’ve been sinking my entire life.
    My eyes refused to close and the world…
    It’s never been more absolutely beautiful.
    The world is golden-brown from here, beautiful while dying, peaceful while fading, silent in the farewell. It’s the most beautiful color I have ever seen in my life. Light streamed through the waves of the ocean that rocked my body gently to the rhythm of a sound only it knew, sung in the voice of all those whose goodbyes my heart felt the absence of. The light created a single flash of golden rays that ignited the bottomless depths of the sea above me, before I was finally buried forever, held in between the arms that had never cradled me. That’s sort of how I felt, too, as I looked at the moving water above me - too close and yet so far away -, dancing elegantly with the tide, with a nostalgia invading me so strong I didn’t crave to fight my way to the surface, though there was a deeply ingrained sadness in the morose parting.
    I guess it’s time to end my part of the story.
    It’s time to finally let the dead things go…
    And let the words I’d never said finally drift to shore…”
    - Excerpt from a book I’ll probably never publish

    • @DesmondBeamer-sq1rk
      @DesmondBeamer-sq1rk 2 месяца назад +1

      Loved this so much. God bless you ❤

    • @anasiul7768
      @anasiul7768 2 месяца назад

      @@DesmondBeamer-sq1rk thank you ♥️

  • @kiruthikabalasubramani8874
    @kiruthikabalasubramani8874 2 года назад

    I stopped myself from hearing these. But I can't. As I lost my granny this week and next to that day was the day i lost my 1st and last best friend. And sadly my dog was also dead 2 weeks before. I feel overwhelming. And a sphere of grief ball is rolling inside my throat. I can't take any of these and some times I am pretending nothing happened when I know the reality. Failing in every attempt of fooling my mind. Kindly take care of your loved ones and show them that you love them and care for them❤️❤️. You ain't gonna get anything by keeping your love secret. Live the fullest in this life. My prayers to all the strangers reading this.

  • @stonecoldrattlesnake
    @stonecoldrattlesnake 2 года назад +11

    Beautiful song. Thank you 🖤🖤🖤

  • @sophrosyne5900
    @sophrosyne5900 2 года назад +1

    I have been single for almost a year and a half and this song made me cry, and also smile. Beautiful song. Nina is so underrated.

  • @marissa8202
    @marissa8202 2 года назад +14

    I lost my ex when he passed away it hit me so hard it broke me all over again. And now and days it still hurts, comes and goes like she says. but you must keep swimming guys and just remember that no matter what you will always have them in your heart and treasure those memories forever.

  • @shinhooyongmusic616
    @shinhooyongmusic616 2 года назад +2

    i left this comment on facebook but i wanted to leave it here too: this song gives breath to how i have been feeling since having my heart broken, grieving the loss of loved ones, and all the emotions i feel day and night. beautifully executed and grateful to have an artist who can express these difficult feelings in song.
    thank u for creating something that can help with mine and so many others healing process.

  • @deetour-indigo
    @deetour-indigo 2 года назад +3

    I've been with here . Since somebody special I've watched her grow and mature her sound. .keep going higher. Much love ❤

  • @Laurieis1
    @Laurieis1 2 года назад +1

    What a beautiful voice and amazing song

    • @georgemelvin588
      @georgemelvin588 2 года назад

      Smiles, so so beautiful indeed Lauren, feels really great listening indeed, how are you doing?

    • @Laurieis1
      @Laurieis1 2 года назад

      @@georgemelvin588 I'm well and you?

    • @georgemelvin588
      @georgemelvin588 2 года назад

      @@Laurieis1 I'm pretty much good, thanks. It's really nice getting to hear from you, where are you from?

  • @supremeamp1787
    @supremeamp1787 2 года назад +3

    My Father past away last year and damn this song struck my heart. Help us transform the pain into a brighter Future. The way you delievered this feelings *Goosebumbs* ❤❤❤

  • @TheNaturalMtDew
    @TheNaturalMtDew 2 месяца назад

    Nina, I don't know if you read the comments on your songs, but if you see this one, I just want to say thank you. Thank you for giving words to feelings that so many of us have and can't express. Grief is not a lesson any of us want to have to learn, because it's something that can only be learned by experience. I wrote an article about ambiguous loss right after this song first released and I referenced your song for the article... It's still one of my favourite things that I've published because I wanted to help others the way your song has helped me. Thank you. ❤

  • @SoldiersofChrist7
    @SoldiersofChrist7 7 месяцев назад +30

    I lost my girlfriend August 2023 I woke up next to her and her face was the first thing I saw. I'm in so much suffering and take this pain anymore so don't take the one's you love for granted .😢just want to hold her and fall asleep THIS SUCKS!. One day they are here and then there gone..😫 I just hate being alone. But I am finding putting down my comments help. GOD BLESS YOU

  • @karenmcmullen1199
    @karenmcmullen1199 2 года назад

    I lost my son in 2018 it has been almost 4 years and it is a part of you you can never get back your heart is broken but you keep on going because that is what God wants he was sick for many years and now I know he’s in heaven singing with the Angels choir

  • @melissajohansson6917
    @melissajohansson6917 2 года назад +11

    My foster brother committed suicide three years ago, i feel everything you're singing in this song. It's definitely going into his playlist. Thank you for making this song, it's beautiful

    • @LimeHidden23
      @LimeHidden23 2 года назад +1

      Many condolences on your foster brother committing suicide! My father committed suicide in September last year 😢

    • @melissajohansson6917
      @melissajohansson6917 2 года назад +1

      @@LimeHidden23 oh, I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm sending all my love and hugs

  • @marina1463
    @marina1463 2 года назад +1

    This song is therapy...

  • @pauserratgutierrez
    @pauserratgutierrez 2 года назад +4

    This song makes me remember of someone I will always love. Her name is similar to yours and you with your amazing songs make me remember of her everytime. Thanks Nina 😌

  • @melzyofwonderland7363
    @melzyofwonderland7363 2 года назад

    Bittersweet, heaven sent, & sublime 💝❤️💛💞💞💓💓💖❤️❤️💜💜💝❤️💖💓💞💓💖❤️❤️❤️❤️💖💛💛💛💖❤️💝❤️💕💓💚💖💝❤️💕💓💚💓💖❤️💝❤️💙💙💓💛💖❤️💝💜💜💜💝💖🧡🧡❤️💖💛💛❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

  • @iantearys2001
    @iantearys2001 2 года назад +3

    One of the best ballads ive ever heard🤧😭

  • @oinin3464
    @oinin3464 2 года назад +2

    The voice and the lyrics match each other so perfectly.. directly hits my heart

  • @martin.edwards
    @martin.edwards 2 года назад +5

    What a beautiful, poignant song Nina. Thank you for putting into words what so many have felt in recent times 💕💕

  • @dbartelini44
    @dbartelini44 Год назад

    my heart is hurting me so bad crying 😢listening to this love and miss u so much momma 😢

  • @muknacab
    @muknacab 2 года назад +4

    I really love her voice! Great song

  • @fannypeere223
    @fannypeere223 2 года назад +1

    I see it as a goodbey to someone i lost when i was young.. died in a moto crash.. 😌 R.I.P i was token by... relationship went down. Amen 🙏

  • @bowtieism3
    @bowtieism3 2 года назад +4

    She can do no wrong, she is such a great songwriter and singer. It´s been so cool following her since Peroxide and it´s been so amazing to see her evolve and become even better than she was before. One of the most underrated artists of our generation along with Tinashe, Tori Kelly and JoJo.

  • @markscott4579
    @markscott4579 2 года назад +1

    Wow,i tracked down who sung,its a good day to stop giving af because it cheered me up,then i hear all these awesome songs.very impressed

  • @hriatdee1615
    @hriatdee1615 2 года назад +5

    From the first note I'm connected, I lost my grandfather 20.03.2021 it still hurts 😭❤️

  • @NealMaingot
    @NealMaingot Год назад +1

    Wow ..this is a beautiful song, fighting the tears back!

  • @narmy8168
    @narmy8168 2 года назад +24

    This song is sad but the amount of emotions she putted into this song made me smile💜

  • @abizarpurnamaputra1209
    @abizarpurnamaputra1209 3 месяца назад

    allmost everydays i played this song, so much

  • @sharonadhiambo5994
    @sharonadhiambo5994 2 года назад +3

    What a powerful masterpiece. This song is so amazing 💞💖💖🙏🏾

  • @Alexiss2004
    @Alexiss2004 2 года назад +1

    Many of us have lost someone in our lives...it takes a long, long time to recover from that. The memory, although it hurts, also helps to heal, for all those beautiful moments that we lived together, I love you and I miss you my brother ❤️

  • @sarangbiy
    @sarangbiy 2 года назад +11

    Nina never releases bad music❤🙇‍♀️

  • @moonblade2085
    @moonblade2085 Год назад +1

    I lost my grandfather almost a year ago, May 3, 2022. Still feels like it was a few months ago. He’s the first family member that I lost and could comprehend what was going on. I don’t think I’ve ever cried so much.
    Out of my 2 grandparents, he was the one I was closer to. Especially when it came to academics. We always talked about my schooling. I graduate from college this summer and I just wish he could be there.

  • @dbgreene9020
    @dbgreene9020 2 года назад +10

    The first time I heard this song I had to pull over in my car bc it overwhelmed me. Lost my mom and it hurts everyday. This song taps into that pain so beautifully.

  • @victoriasheehama891
    @victoriasheehama891 2 года назад +1

    Grief never goes away, you just learn to live with it ❤️✨

  • @kayleebaker6801
    @kayleebaker6801 6 месяцев назад +4

    I lost someone who held the family together and now he’s with his wife up in heaven