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The Power of Affirmations, Men's Issues in Society & More! Ep 137
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[00:00:00] Intro
[00:06:12] Men's issues in society.
[00:07:38] Relationships and societal impact.
[00:13:28] Women's expectations in dating.
[00:16:06] Traditional gender roles in education.
[00:21:09] Both genders' struggles and concerns.
[00:23:30] Unrealistic expectations in relationships.
[00:27:07] Splitting household responsibilities and finances.
[00:30:47] Gender wars and projections.
[00:34:14] Unconditional love for men.
[00:38:02] Unconditional love and conditions.
[00:42:38] Men's response to pressure.
[00:44:53] Masculinity and domestic violence.
[00:48:35] Understanding emotional triggers.
[00:52:27] Clothing and control in relationships.
[00:59:27] Emotional intelligence in relationships.
[01:02:55] Reading the room.
[01:03:37] Men expressing emotions.
[01:08:37] Can a man be an effective leader without religion?
[01:12:06] Religious differences in relationships.
[01:16:18] Is marriage still a viable concept?
[01:21:40] Approaching women in public.
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"Let's create spaces for men", then those same women want to be part of it. This is why advice from women is as usesles as ever.
She also backed up nothing with any stats or facts from all her deduction of random takes from the times.
I love this episode DRUC is one of the few podcasts that look to have diverse panels and engaging conversations with women without bashing or disrespecting women and I love that!
The endurance of a positive relationship between FLFP (Female Labor Force Participation) and male
suicide can be understood from the notion that males probably gain less
from their wives working than the wives themselves. While working
women derive both economic and affiliative benefits from work, the
husband's gains may be basically economic. While one might anticipate
that working wives might be happier and thereby provide their hus-
bands with psychological benefits in family relationships, research in-
dicates no difference in depression and psychiatric symptoms between
working wives and housewives. The husband is left balancing his pri-
marily economic gains against various losses from FLFP. The losses can
be extensive. One such loss is a decline in the male's power in the
family (Eshleman, 1981:126). Field research indicates that many work-
ing class males, the social class most likely to commit suicide, report
that their working wives are becoming too independent and that they
no longer feel like "kings" of the roost (Rubin, 1976:176-184). Another
cost is the sense of anxiety that economic independence and greater
contact with potential mates may enable a wife to leave a relatively
unhappy marriage. Indeed, divorce rates are considerably higher among
working wives than housewives (Simpson and England, 1981). Hus-
bands also often find that their working wives have less time to act as
their counselors, comforting them from the vicissitudes of life. Finally,
to the extent that husbands help their working wives with household
and child-rearing tasks, husbands have less leisure time. Thus the eco-
nomic benefits derived by males from FLFP may be easily offset by the
loss of power and tensions surrounding their wives working. Perhaps
for this reason, the historical-cultural theory advanced by the present
paper works only for females in the emancipation era. Gibbs and Mar-
tin's (1964) status integration theory of suicide remains a key predictor
of the male suicide rate.
These women are wrong with their disagreement on the Chris Rock quote. What he said is absolutely true. A man can only be loved somewhat unconditionally by a woman if he’s either her Son, Brother or Father.
Facts the ladies are talking for the ladies
They don't know or really care about what men want.
They go back to saying men don't do this and that after they ask a question about the girls
Women are not loved unconditionally. Maybe children love their mothers unconditionally but it’s definitely not that way in relationships between men and women.
@@Mrs_Sandra7 Maybe, maybe not but it’s absolutely factual that a man’s love for a woman is more genuine than it is from a woman to a man.
@@40III If that’s your experience then I won’t refute that but I don’t think that’s true at all.
The endurance of a positive relationship between FLFP (Female Labor Force Participation) and male
suicide can be understood from the notion that males probably gain less
from their wives working than the wives themselves. While working
women derive both economic and affiliative benefits from work, the
husband's gains may be basically economic. While one might anticipate
that working wives might be happier and thereby provide their hus-
bands with psychological benefits in family relationships, research in-
dicates no difference in depression and psychiatric symptoms between
working wives and housewives. The husband is left balancing his pri-
marily economic gains against various losses from FLFP. The losses can
be extensive. One such loss is a decline in the male's power in the
family (Eshleman, 1981:126). Field research indicates that many work-
ing class males, the social class most likely to commit suicide, report
that their working wives are becoming too independent and that they
no longer feel like "kings" of the roost (Rubin, 1976:176-184). Another
cost is the sense of anxiety that economic independence and greater
contact with potential mates may enable a wife to leave a relatively
unhappy marriage. Indeed, divorce rates are considerably higher among
working wives than housewives (Simpson and England, 1981). Hus-
bands also often find that their working wives have less time to act as
their counselors, comforting them from the vicissitudes of life. Finally,
to the extent that husbands help their working wives with household
and child-rearing tasks, husbands have less leisure time. Thus the eco-
nomic benefits derived by males from FLFP may be easily offset by the
loss of power and tensions surrounding their wives working. Perhaps
for this reason, the historical-cultural theory advanced by the present
paper works only for females in the emancipation era. Gibbs and Mar-
tin's (1964) status integration theory of suicide remains a key predictor
of the male suicide rate.
She said being a stay at home mom his harder than providing for a growing family. You can’t make this Shii up 😂
Riiiighhtt un fcking believable
I don't think she realizes that the man who has to go earn a living to support and provide for his family has to compete against his coworkers, AI, outsourcing, etc. It's a highly competitive world.
The stay at home mom is not competing against anyone, so she's not necessarily under threat.
It’s a tough job in itself but certainly not in comparison to being out all day making the money to keep the roof over their heads 😂 What if a man is working 12+ more hours everyday? Nah he ain’t coming home to change diapers and wash dishes 😂 Everybody has to play their part.
Women with these talking points are disingenuous. They give the notion that men play no part in raising the children outside from work or help out around the house which makes things easier on them. Why do you think day time show have been so successful for decade, it didn't become successful by stay at home mums working 100+ hours. JU should have been there to give them some pushback.
😂 im done unsubscribe im tired of hearing these bihs
43:34 Thats one thing she got right. Women leave men out of fear of being left
The Great Depression happened when the stock market crashed. After ww1 many men came home to low interest rates from the roaring 20’s. The Great Depression occurred in the 1930’s not 20’s. Interest rates went up sharply tanking the economy. Many families lived through it by gardening and trading with others in their communities.
Wtf was she talking about
The endurance of a positive relationship between FLFP (Female Labor Force Participation) and male
suicide can be understood from the notion that males probably gain less
from their wives working than the wives themselves. While working
women derive both economic and affiliative benefits from work, the
husband's gains may be basically economic. While one might anticipate
that working wives might be happier and thereby provide their hus-
bands with psychological benefits in family relationships, research in-
dicates no difference in depression and psychiatric symptoms between
working wives and housewives. The husband is left balancing his pri-
marily economic gains against various losses from FLFP. The losses can
be extensive. One such loss is a decline in the male's power in the
family (Eshleman, 1981:126). Field research indicates that many work-
ing class males, the social class most likely to commit suicide, report
that their working wives are becoming too independent and that they
no longer feel like "kings" of the roost (Rubin, 1976:176-184). Another
cost is the sense of anxiety that economic independence and greater
contact with potential mates may enable a wife to leave a relatively
unhappy marriage. Indeed, divorce rates are considerably higher among
working wives than housewives (Simpson and England, 1981). Hus-
bands also often find that their working wives have less time to act as
their counselors, comforting them from the vicissitudes of life. Finally,
to the extent that husbands help their working wives with household
and child-rearing tasks, husbands have less leisure time. Thus the eco-
nomic benefits derived by males from FLFP may be easily offset by the
loss of power and tensions surrounding their wives working. Perhaps
for this reason, the historical-cultural theory advanced by the present
paper works only for females in the emancipation era. Gibbs and Mar-
tin's (1964) status integration theory of suicide remains a key predictor
of the male suicide rate.
What does being well traveled have to do with making a relationship last? I swear when you let people talk they will expose themselves… wish Jeu was here for this episode because he wouldn’t have let these things slide so easily
Stay at home moms are not working like that lol… my grandmother was a stay at home mom and my mom was a single mother and my grandmother always said she could never do what my mother was doing. Women need to stop comparing actual labor to cooking a meal (1 hour). If y’all are splitting bills that’s different but a stay at home mom doesn’t work more than 4-5 hours a day… women exaggerate and this is proof of that lol
Well most women jobs is easier cause it mostly consists of sitting down in front of computer for 8 hours in Air Conditioned Office
The endurance of a positive relationship between FLFP (Female Labor Force Participation) and male
suicide can be understood from the notion that males probably gain less
from their wives working than the wives themselves. While working
women derive both economic and affiliative benefits from work, the
husband's gains may be basically economic. While one might anticipate
that working wives might be happier and thereby provide their hus-
bands with psychological benefits in family relationships, research in-
dicates no difference in depression and psychiatric symptoms between
working wives and housewives. The husband is left balancing his pri-
marily economic gains against various losses from FLFP. The losses can
be extensive. One such loss is a decline in the male's power in the
family (Eshleman, 1981:126). Field research indicates that many work-
ing class males, the social class most likely to commit suicide, report
that their working wives are becoming too independent and that they
no longer feel like "kings" of the roost (Rubin, 1976:176-184). Another
cost is the sense of anxiety that economic independence and greater
contact with potential mates may enable a wife to leave a relatively
unhappy marriage. Indeed, divorce rates are considerably higher among
working wives than housewives (Simpson and England, 1981). Hus-
bands also often find that their working wives have less time to act as
their counselors, comforting them from the vicissitudes of life. Finally,
to the extent that husbands help their working wives with household
and child-rearing tasks, husbands have less leisure time. Thus the eco-
nomic benefits derived by males from FLFP may be easily offset by the
loss of power and tensions surrounding their wives working. Perhaps
for this reason, the historical-cultural theory advanced by the present
paper works only for females in the emancipation era. Gibbs and Mar-
tin's (1964) status integration theory of suicide remains a key predictor
of the male suicide rate.
Even if bills are being split, if she has a problem with making a meal she need not to be with anyone.
Women need to stop with the whole "Men don't go outside at night worried about being attacked", YES WE DO!
The difference between us is we understand violence on a level that y'all as Women will never understand. Just bcus we aren't expressive with a visible worried face or shrugging over to the point our head is in our chest doesn't mean we aren't worried or concerned.
We're mindful of the fact at any moment of the day shit can and probably will hit the Fan so we have to be prepared. There are times we just get that feeling shits about to go down and it does. When y'all as Women get into a confrontation everyone comes to your rescue no questions asked with the utmost seriousness but for us as Men Ain't NOBODY really trying to come help us let alone take it as serious as it should. We're On Our Own. Y'all as Women worry about the dudes your height or taller while we're mindful of anyone and everyone regardless of height. If we get attacked its a "It Is What It Is" moment, a "YOLO" moment, a "Do or Die" Moment.
Y'all as Women just let that stuff consume you to the point you're terrified of everything moreso bcus of what comes into your head that you conjured up inside or heard other Women speak on instead of the stuff that actually happens to you on a consistent basis. Us as Men DON'T let it consume us and we move accordingly.
Statistics show that men are more likely to be attracted by a stranger than women. 80% of homicides victims are men but women somehow ignore this and say men don't have to worry like them.
The endurance of a positive relationship between FLFP (Female Labor Force Participation) and male
suicide can be understood from the notion that males probably gain less
from their wives working than the wives themselves. While working
women derive both economic and affiliative benefits from work, the
husband's gains may be basically economic. While one might anticipate
that working wives might be happier and thereby provide their hus-
bands with psychological benefits in family relationships, research in-
dicates no difference in depression and psychiatric symptoms between
working wives and housewives. The husband is left balancing his pri-
marily economic gains against various losses from FLFP. The losses can
be extensive. One such loss is a decline in the male's power in the
family (Eshleman, 1981:126). Field research indicates that many work-
ing class males, the social class most likely to commit suicide, report
that their working wives are becoming too independent and that they
no longer feel like "kings" of the roost (Rubin, 1976:176-184). Another
cost is the sense of anxiety that economic independence and greater
contact with potential mates may enable a wife to leave a relatively
unhappy marriage. Indeed, divorce rates are considerably higher among
working wives than housewives (Simpson and England, 1981). Hus-
bands also often find that their working wives have less time to act as
their counselors, comforting them from the vicissitudes of life. Finally,
to the extent that husbands help their working wives with household
and child-rearing tasks, husbands have less leisure time. Thus the eco-
nomic benefits derived by males from FLFP may be easily offset by the
loss of power and tensions surrounding their wives working. Perhaps
for this reason, the historical-cultural theory advanced by the present
paper works only for females in the emancipation era. Gibbs and Mar-
tin's (1964) status integration theory of suicide remains a key predictor
of the male suicide rate.
Right I feel for my life every time I step outside my house
The great depression affected the white community, the black community was already in a depression, we didn't have much to lose, so we as black men didn't leave black women, the black community was still married and moving forward during those times, still being married at 80% until 1963, those were white ppl problems not ours
Facts we actually thrived and started creating black wall streets. The white men got so mad they bombed their own country to destroy us.
The endurance of a positive relationship between FLFP (Female Labor Force Participation) and male
suicide can be understood from the notion that males probably gain less
from their wives working than the wives themselves. While working
women derive both economic and affiliative benefits from work, the
husband's gains may be basically economic. While one might anticipate
that working wives might be happier and thereby provide their hus-
bands with psychological benefits in family relationships, research in-
dicates no difference in depression and psychiatric symptoms between
working wives and housewives. The husband is left balancing his pri-
marily economic gains against various losses from FLFP. The losses can
be extensive. One such loss is a decline in the male's power in the
family (Eshleman, 1981:126). Field research indicates that many work-
ing class males, the social class most likely to commit suicide, report
that their working wives are becoming too independent and that they
no longer feel like "kings" of the roost (Rubin, 1976:176-184). Another
cost is the sense of anxiety that economic independence and greater
contact with potential mates may enable a wife to leave a relatively
unhappy marriage. Indeed, divorce rates are considerably higher among
working wives than housewives (Simpson and England, 1981). Hus-
bands also often find that their working wives have less time to act as
their counselors, comforting them from the vicissitudes of life. Finally,
to the extent that husbands help their working wives with household
and child-rearing tasks, husbands have less leisure time. Thus the eco-
nomic benefits derived by males from FLFP may be easily offset by the
loss of power and tensions surrounding their wives working. Perhaps
for this reason, the historical-cultural theory advanced by the present
paper works only for females in the emancipation era. Gibbs and Mar-
tin's (1964) status integration theory of suicide remains a key predictor
of the male suicide rate.
where is Jeuu, when we need him???😂😂
Exactly because Jeuu would have challenged these women on some of these topics & statements they made which I absolutely live for😂😂😂😊😊
Cant we stop this narrative that housework is that hard!? Its not that hard to maintain a house especially if you not working. Also this narrative that men dont anything around the house needs to stop too!!
Big facts
Just because they speak eloquently doesn't mean they understand mens issues deeply that's why they all try to bring this middle ground points that men and women go through the same things these women are all the same they might have some few talking points and move a certain way by saying stuff but if you let them talk the answers are in the details of their statements
The endurance of a positive relationship between FLFP (Female Labor Force Participation) and male
suicide can be understood from the notion that males probably gain less
from their wives working than the wives themselves. While working
women derive both economic and affiliative benefits from work, the
husband's gains may be basically economic. While one might anticipate
that working wives might be happier and thereby provide their hus-
bands with psychological benefits in family relationships, research in-
dicates no difference in depression and psychiatric symptoms between
working wives and housewives. The husband is left balancing his pri-
marily economic gains against various losses from FLFP. The losses can
be extensive. One such loss is a decline in the male's power in the
family (Eshleman, 1981:126). Field research indicates that many work-
ing class males, the social class most likely to commit suicide, report
that their working wives are becoming too independent and that they
no longer feel like "kings" of the roost (Rubin, 1976:176-184). Another
cost is the sense of anxiety that economic independence and greater
contact with potential mates may enable a wife to leave a relatively
unhappy marriage. Indeed, divorce rates are considerably higher among
working wives than housewives (Simpson and England, 1981). Hus-
bands also often find that their working wives have less time to act as
their counselors, comforting them from the vicissitudes of life. Finally,
to the extent that husbands help their working wives with household
and child-rearing tasks, husbands have less leisure time. Thus the eco-
nomic benefits derived by males from FLFP may be easily offset by the
loss of power and tensions surrounding their wives working. Perhaps
for this reason, the historical-cultural theory advanced by the present
paper works only for females in the emancipation era. Gibbs and Mar-
tin's (1964) status integration theory of suicide remains a key predictor
of the male suicide rate.
20:20 and that’s the problem, the woman just said in her focus group one man addressed an issue and almost every man was in agreement that they go through the same thing and the first thing she did was negate what most men are goin thru by involving women as well 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
I seen that shit too!
Mannn
The endurance of a positive relationship between FLFP (Female Labor Force Participation) and male
suicide can be understood from the notion that males probably gain less
from their wives working than the wives themselves. While working
women derive both economic and affiliative benefits from work, the
husband's gains may be basically economic. While one might anticipate
that working wives might be happier and thereby provide their hus-
bands with psychological benefits in family relationships, research in-
dicates no difference in depression and psychiatric symptoms between
working wives and housewives. The husband is left balancing his pri-
marily economic gains against various losses from FLFP. The losses can
be extensive. One such loss is a decline in the male's power in the
family (Eshleman, 1981:126). Field research indicates that many work-
ing class males, the social class most likely to commit suicide, report
that their working wives are becoming too independent and that they
no longer feel like "kings" of the roost (Rubin, 1976:176-184). Another
cost is the sense of anxiety that economic independence and greater
contact with potential mates may enable a wife to leave a relatively
unhappy marriage. Indeed, divorce rates are considerably higher among
working wives than housewives (Simpson and England, 1981). Hus-
bands also often find that their working wives have less time to act as
their counselors, comforting them from the vicissitudes of life. Finally,
to the extent that husbands help their working wives with household
and child-rearing tasks, husbands have less leisure time. Thus the eco-
nomic benefits derived by males from FLFP may be easily offset by the
loss of power and tensions surrounding their wives working. Perhaps
for this reason, the historical-cultural theory advanced by the present
paper works only for females in the emancipation era. Gibbs and Mar-
tin's (1964) status integration theory of suicide remains a key predictor
of the male suicide rate.
The most common struggles women face in relationships always wanting to change a man, seems like women are never content
They have a average man, they want him to change
They have a man of stature, they want him to more intune with her emotions
Men in the Great Depression weren’t leavin their families, they were killing themselves, this is why men’s mental health became important
Both were happening. Its literally documented.
@@morena1484yes of the White Community. Black Men during those times weren't leaving Black Women like it was made to seem in this video.
@@kaimobley5324 definitely not the black community
Love is unconditional
The relationship is conditioned, your boundaries are conditioned
She can love me from a distance
Great guests ,great questions, great episode .
Fellas she is 100 percent wrong about the depression, stock market crash, and the dust bowl…. Social services had nothing to do with anyone of those things….. My wife laughed while she was talking. My wife is a PhD in African American History and Economics, and a Dean at a HBCU.
She mustve been programmed then, because plenty of us were privy to these nuances. Its very well documented, and just because it doesn't paint BM in a perfect light doesnt mean it's not true.
@@morena1484 she must have been programmed… or is it you have been programmed? You do realize up until 1965 black America was married at a rate of between 65-70 percent, that is to include chattel slavery as we as Jim Crow. Facts are non debatable unless you are Donald trump.
The great migration north speaks on this topic. It was a small percentage of men who left their families back in the south to look for work alone. The majority took their families and moved together.
I have a Ba and the fact the fellas didn’t challenge them on it says a lot. They should have challenged a lot of the womaneese that was spoken. I know a few personally
The endurance of a positive relationship between FLFP (Female Labor Force Participation) and male
suicide can be understood from the notion that males probably gain less
from their wives working than the wives themselves. While working
women derive both economic and affiliative benefits from work, the
husband's gains may be basically economic. While one might anticipate
that working wives might be happier and thereby provide their hus-
bands with psychological benefits in family relationships, research in-
dicates no difference in depression and psychiatric symptoms between
working wives and housewives. The husband is left balancing his pri-
marily economic gains against various losses from FLFP. The losses can
be extensive. One such loss is a decline in the male's power in the
family (Eshleman, 1981:126). Field research indicates that many work-
ing class males, the social class most likely to commit suicide, report
that their working wives are becoming too independent and that they
no longer feel like "kings" of the roost (Rubin, 1976:176-184). Another
cost is the sense of anxiety that economic independence and greater
contact with potential mates may enable a wife to leave a relatively
unhappy marriage. Indeed, divorce rates are considerably higher among
working wives than housewives (Simpson and England, 1981). Hus-
bands also often find that their working wives have less time to act as
their counselors, comforting them from the vicissitudes of life. Finally,
to the extent that husbands help their working wives with household
and child-rearing tasks, husbands have less leisure time. Thus the eco-
nomic benefits derived by males from FLFP may be easily offset by the
loss of power and tensions surrounding their wives working. Perhaps
for this reason, the historical-cultural theory advanced by the present
paper works only for females in the emancipation era. Gibbs and Mar-
tin's (1964) status integration theory of suicide remains a key predictor
of the male suicide rate.
Yo
She said being a stay at home mom is harder than working
Lmaoooo
That's because they think 50 hours working in a ac office or comfy work environment and not blue collar worker's doing 50 hours
I peep that too let's be serious it's not that hard to maintain a house.
The point is majority of women are not 100% stay at home mothers. They are contributing to the household financially but are still expected to do all the household chores.
@@fatimabafagih8362 no they are not expected to do so that’s not true and that hasn’t been true for a long time men in 2024 are doing chores and cleaning we just aren’t complaining about it
@@kinglouie9685 yo honestly before I had my mine I was nervous about parenting but when mine was born I realized that all of the “parenting Is so hard” talk was cap - at least not for if it’s one child with no behavioral issues … it’s easier than I was lead to believe
I mean GREAT PANEL. I respected all their views and points.
50:01 she doesn’t think what thousands of clips on the internet of a multitude of women saying the same thing reflects the majority but the women she knows does??! 🤨🤨🤔🤔🤔🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ I pray most female dating coaches/experts aren’t this dense when it comes to world views because hers are highly solipsistic
Does the thousands of redpill clips that reiterate harmful ideologies against women reflect the majority of men? There are plenty of toxic clips from BOTH men and women about the opposite gender. None of which represent either side.
Unfortunately they are and if you know them they failing in their own but coaching others to be successful?😂
Stop it i’m a single dad of 2 I provide and parent kids in school 75% the time if u a stay home parent u blessed unless u homeschool then props but work is hard hangin wit my kids is the best part
The endurance of a positive relationship between FLFP (Female Labor Force Participation) and male
suicide can be understood from the notion that males probably gain less
from their wives working than the wives themselves. While working
women derive both economic and affiliative benefits from work, the
husband's gains may be basically economic. While one might anticipate
that working wives might be happier and thereby provide their hus-
bands with psychological benefits in family relationships, research in-
dicates no difference in depression and psychiatric symptoms between
working wives and housewives. The husband is left balancing his pri-
marily economic gains against various losses from FLFP. The losses can
be extensive. One such loss is a decline in the male's power in the
family (Eshleman, 1981:126). Field research indicates that many work-
ing class males, the social class most likely to commit suicide, report
that their working wives are becoming too independent and that they
no longer feel like "kings" of the roost (Rubin, 1976:176-184). Another
cost is the sense of anxiety that economic independence and greater
contact with potential mates may enable a wife to leave a relatively
unhappy marriage. Indeed, divorce rates are considerably higher among
working wives than housewives (Simpson and England, 1981). Hus-
bands also often find that their working wives have less time to act as
their counselors, comforting them from the vicissitudes of life. Finally,
to the extent that husbands help their working wives with household
and child-rearing tasks, husbands have less leisure time. Thus the eco-
nomic benefits derived by males from FLFP may be easily offset by the
loss of power and tensions surrounding their wives working. Perhaps
for this reason, the historical-cultural theory advanced by the present
paper works only for females in the emancipation era. Gibbs and Mar-
tin's (1964) status integration theory of suicide remains a key predictor
of the male suicide rate.
Listen this was a great conversation. It good to see the contrast between these women and the less mature ones. It shows relationships will be hard but they are definitely possible. It's really about education yourself and being open minded.
The endurance of a positive relationship between FLFP (Female Labor Force Participation) and male
suicide can be understood from the notion that males probably gain less
from their wives working than the wives themselves. While working
women derive both economic and affiliative benefits from work, the
husband's gains may be basically economic. While one might anticipate
that working wives might be happier and thereby provide their hus-
bands with psychological benefits in family relationships, research in-
dicates no difference in depression and psychiatric symptoms between
working wives and housewives. The husband is left balancing his pri-
marily economic gains against various losses from FLFP. The losses can
be extensive. One such loss is a decline in the male's power in the
family (Eshleman, 1981:126). Field research indicates that many work-
ing class males, the social class most likely to commit suicide, report
that their working wives are becoming too independent and that they
no longer feel like "kings" of the roost (Rubin, 1976:176-184). Another
cost is the sense of anxiety that economic independence and greater
contact with potential mates may enable a wife to leave a relatively
unhappy marriage. Indeed, divorce rates are considerably higher among
working wives than housewives (Simpson and England, 1981). Hus-
bands also often find that their working wives have less time to act as
their counselors, comforting them from the vicissitudes of life. Finally,
to the extent that husbands help their working wives with household
and child-rearing tasks, husbands have less leisure time. Thus the eco-
nomic benefits derived by males from FLFP may be easily offset by the
loss of power and tensions surrounding their wives working. Perhaps
for this reason, the historical-cultural theory advanced by the present
paper works only for females in the emancipation era. Gibbs and Mar-
tin's (1964) status integration theory of suicide remains a key predictor
of the male suicide rate.
This us going to be a good one. .. sounds like a great panel here.... woke up to it playing at the halfway mark
Also great episode like always gents. I honestly dont think ive seen a show that i could critique you'lls part as far as show running.
Young brothers …”push back”
“Men leave all the time” 80% of divorces are filed by women… and I’m sure if the guys asked how many times these women been broken up with they would all say never or just 1.
The endurance of a positive relationship between FLFP (Female Labor Force Participation) and male
suicide can be understood from the notion that males probably gain less
from their wives working than the wives themselves. While working
women derive both economic and affiliative benefits from work, the
husband's gains may be basically economic. While one might anticipate
that working wives might be happier and thereby provide their hus-
bands with psychological benefits in family relationships, research in-
dicates no difference in depression and psychiatric symptoms between
working wives and housewives. The husband is left balancing his pri-
marily economic gains against various losses from FLFP. The losses can
be extensive. One such loss is a decline in the male's power in the
family (Eshleman, 1981:126). Field research indicates that many work-
ing class males, the social class most likely to commit suicide, report
that their working wives are becoming too independent and that they
no longer feel like "kings" of the roost (Rubin, 1976:176-184). Another
cost is the sense of anxiety that economic independence and greater
contact with potential mates may enable a wife to leave a relatively
unhappy marriage. Indeed, divorce rates are considerably higher among
working wives than housewives (Simpson and England, 1981). Hus-
bands also often find that their working wives have less time to act as
their counselors, comforting them from the vicissitudes of life. Finally,
to the extent that husbands help their working wives with household
and child-rearing tasks, husbands have less leisure time. Thus the eco-
nomic benefits derived by males from FLFP may be easily offset by the
loss of power and tensions surrounding their wives working. Perhaps
for this reason, the historical-cultural theory advanced by the present
paper works only for females in the emancipation era. Gibbs and Mar-
tin's (1964) status integration theory of suicide remains a key predictor
of the male suicide rate.
Great conversation. The host asked very good question and the selection of guest was fannominal. Daily Wrap Up is always on point but y'all went next level on this one.
Yea you wanna man that worship god but you don't wanna submit
Yet she'll have 50 bodies
I think both people in the relationship should contribute to the house. Going tit for tat will create arguments but if both people under the roof take turns cooking, washing dishes, taking out the trash, etc. that relieves stress from the other partner. Even paying for dinner can relieve stress from a man that provides the majority of money
If I'm doing house work then she needs to pay half the bills 50 percent exactly. Ima spend and do for my children regardless tho.
@@troy028majority of women work and contribute to bills.. especially if they're married to a Black man. Majority of Black men don't make enough to support a household on a single salary.
@@jas1565 never said the majority of women didn't work. That's not my argument. Yea we going 50/50. We do half the house duties. We going half on cutting the grass. When pipes burst I'm fixing half and she fixing half. That's 50/50. But for me and my girl she cleans the house and cooks and does the laundry. I fix what breaks cut the grass pay 70 percent of the bills. She works and contributes.
@@troy028 sounds childish. Tit for tat with housework is immature. You're not mowing the lawn or fixing burst pipes or repairing things around the house on a daily basis. House duties like cooking, cleaning, laundry are far more frequent than house maintenance or repairs. Also, you working a job and paying bills is something you would have to do with or without a wife. You don't get a pass on household duties for paying bills in a house you live in, especially when the majority of women work as well.
28:14 she wild. 100% of the bills is easier than be stay at home mom??...schools, vaccums, and dish washers do 90% of your job....
By that logic computers calculators and overall technology is doing 90% of the current day jobs today.
@@fatimabafagih8362horrible comeback but you tried it.
@@fatimabafagih8362that's cap
@fatimabafagih8362 nope not true, computers and tech actually made humans work moe because it got rid of the small inconveniences. Most people today work harder than they people had to 70 years ago because now we can do more meetings, do more research and etc and the expectation is higher. No one is clocking a stay at home mom to make sure she is working while the kids are at school and the 1hr of laindry/dishes combined. My fiance stays at home to I have no gripe against women that do but to think she's working as hard as I am is just silly. She brings other things to our relationship but reality is still reality
@@km55111 people today work harder then they did 70 years ago? I agree with the expectations being higher but that’s not the reality at all. Technological advances have made things so much easier. Heck so many people now even use chatgpt to write their work emails lol. And it’s great your wife is a stay at home mom but that’s not the reality for the majority of women.
Im here to watch Eli keep females in tune wit reality. Men have more options and make this world operate, women make life comfortable. Shit isn't hard we need each other.
Good push back to see the mind sets of the women on the panel .. dope one video .
Black men understand how we feel.
We shut down when we've been shown repeatedly that no one gives a fuck about how we feel. Why bother stating things no one will pay attention to?
35:28 no Abuse and respect aren’t boundaries. Those are prerequisites that don’t need to be spoken. Who wants abuse and disrespect?
I like Allie, because Allie speaks the truth. All lives Ali.
Alison is wrong about one thing... Most women are not contributing 50% when it comes to the bills.
Most men still out earn most women and if you speak with men who share economic responsibility with their women you'll hear that they pay more of the bills.
And you'll ALSO hear most of those men say they have no problem contributing to household duties and can list off the chores and things they contribute inside the home.
She's absolutely right... women move different for their man when they're in love, period!
Yea but they also become comfortable and complacent once she obtain what she wants from him. Ex. Marriage
@@Cheflyfe_knitty if she is in love with him...all she wants is, to be with him and see them elevate as a unit. If it's something other than that she's after, she's not genuinely for him...she has a motive. I think some men don't know the difference, especially if they're blinded by appearance and not paying attention to the character and energy of the woman 🤷🏾
@@shantewilliams7684 men know the difference that's why a lot of women are treated accordingly. We know most are in relationships after her own benefits hence why she is so quick to leave once some responsibilities and accountability are placed on her. A lot of men find more peace in being single than in a relationship due to the rules women choose to place on us. It's a double standard, single men get more benefits when it comes to women
@@Cheflyfe_knitty hmmm, interesting concept/perspective. Can you honestly say that the benefits you get from women as a single man...are coming from quality women, women that you would actually consider a long term relationship with. I think, more often than not, when someone is providing certain benefits without boundaries or real standards...there is a low sense of self-worth that they struggle with 🤔
@@shantewilliams7684 honestly I find relationships with the women I'm not in relationships tend to be stronger than the ones I get while in a relationship. A lot of ppl fake wanting relationships just bc they want D and don't want to look bad. A lot of times I find I can be 1000 percent more honest when I'm single. Bc women tend to become highly possessive in relationships as if she is the only person he will ever need in his life. We as men don't truly like that. We would rather our own space for the most part. Ex. U can mess with 3 different women while single and they all accept it. But the second she in a relationship she act like you are the devil for messing with the same women. It's a double standard that most men find benefits single men. Hence the major decline in marriage
Where's Druu? He would definitely give these women some pushback on topics like men knowing there's no such thing as unconditional love for men and that cop out that men and women go through the same thing. Notice how fast the women got defensive when any blame lied at their feet.
She had to go into the Great Depression to get her points
And still was wrong
@@kaartier right she tried to tie it in with the welfare situation.. epic fail
The endurance of a positive relationship between FLFP (Female Labor Force Participation) and male
suicide can be understood from the notion that males probably gain less
from their wives working than the wives themselves. While working
women derive both economic and affiliative benefits from work, the
husband's gains may be basically economic. While one might anticipate
that working wives might be happier and thereby provide their hus-
bands with psychological benefits in family relationships, research in-
dicates no difference in depression and psychiatric symptoms between
working wives and housewives. The husband is left balancing his pri-
marily economic gains against various losses from FLFP. The losses can
be extensive. One such loss is a decline in the male's power in the
family (Eshleman, 1981:126). Field research indicates that many work-
ing class males, the social class most likely to commit suicide, report
that their working wives are becoming too independent and that they
no longer feel like "kings" of the roost (Rubin, 1976:176-184). Another
cost is the sense of anxiety that economic independence and greater
contact with potential mates may enable a wife to leave a relatively
unhappy marriage. Indeed, divorce rates are considerably higher among
working wives than housewives (Simpson and England, 1981). Hus-
bands also often find that their working wives have less time to act as
their counselors, comforting them from the vicissitudes of life. Finally,
to the extent that husbands help their working wives with household
and child-rearing tasks, husbands have less leisure time. Thus the eco-
nomic benefits derived by males from FLFP may be easily offset by the
loss of power and tensions surrounding their wives working. Perhaps
for this reason, the historical-cultural theory advanced by the present
paper works only for females in the emancipation era. Gibbs and Mar-
tin's (1964) status integration theory of suicide remains a key predictor
of the male suicide rate.
The way the girl next to Eli was looking at him at 1:16:30 is crazy ngl 🙃
This was a dope and very informative episode. Keep it up!
I believe The most common struggles men face in relationships with women
is feeling inadequate with their career status
During the Great Depression men left the home to “Find Work”
The endurance of a positive relationship between FLFP (Female Labor Force Participation) and male
suicide can be understood from the notion that males probably gain less
from their wives working than the wives themselves. While working
women derive both economic and affiliative benefits from work, the
husband's gains may be basically economic. While one might anticipate
that working wives might be happier and thereby provide their hus-
bands with psychological benefits in family relationships, research in-
dicates no difference in depression and psychiatric symptoms between
working wives and housewives. The husband is left balancing his pri-
marily economic gains against various losses from FLFP. The losses can
be extensive. One such loss is a decline in the male's power in the
family (Eshleman, 1981:126). Field research indicates that many work-
ing class males, the social class most likely to commit suicide, report
that their working wives are becoming too independent and that they
no longer feel like "kings" of the roost (Rubin, 1976:176-184). Another
cost is the sense of anxiety that economic independence and greater
contact with potential mates may enable a wife to leave a relatively
unhappy marriage. Indeed, divorce rates are considerably higher among
working wives than housewives (Simpson and England, 1981). Hus-
bands also often find that their working wives have less time to act as
their counselors, comforting them from the vicissitudes of life. Finally,
to the extent that husbands help their working wives with household
and child-rearing tasks, husbands have less leisure time. Thus the eco-
nomic benefits derived by males from FLFP may be easily offset by the
loss of power and tensions surrounding their wives working. Perhaps
for this reason, the historical-cultural theory advanced by the present
paper works only for females in the emancipation era. Gibbs and Mar-
tin's (1964) status integration theory of suicide remains a key predictor
of the male suicide rate.
This episode shows just bc you have your degrees doesn't mean you know what you are talking about.
Household work is harder than world work.... What job(s) have you worked? There are retail jobs that are harder than household work
Wait 45:04 I need to look into the history of this. Because what does the 1920’s have to do with the 1990’s?
I know about the suicides…
This was a panel of grounded women for real,a real balance of logic and emotion was on full and well received display for real,kudos to their mothers and elder females who guided them in d right way.
They are educated but still lost tbh.
29:59 I’m living from theory? I was there! I was 10-16, but I was there. I saw my mom run herself ragged. Dad had it easy. He went to work, came home and rested.
My friend going through it right now.
This show was one of the best. All we was missing was Jeuu.
The women on this panel who are y’all because I’m driving to work right now and my soul is being fed yes yes oh yeah have a new fan. You have a new fan on this show for real great great great episode.
The concept of finding your soulmate or “the one” is pretty childish considering that has never been case and for the vast amount of written human history families as a whole decided who marries who.
they way Ole girl looking at Eli is crazy. she zoned in. ok Eli if she ain't got no kids u better shoot that shot😂
oh shoot never mind she married didn't realize my bad
Cassandra's point on love in relationships and "love's place".. that hit. She's going to get a follow off of that.
She is right about the depression era, many men left their families out of shame and feeling defeated.
Wrong.. they left to find work where they could. Not leaving to leave.
No she’s not. Right. She’s wrong. More men stayed at home than go out to work. Those men of that era were abusive. White men im particular. Black men still had the jobs they did.
That was white men leaving homes not Black men was married at 75% of households.
Wrong she even said that women had to go get jobs lol in the 1920s they didn’t even hire women if men weren’t getting jobs women definitely weren’t. Most women were in another state at a job that was barely paying ans sending that money all
The way back home
@@kaartier#1 BW always worked, so idk where yall ever get this rhetoric from? Lol. Get off the podcast, and start reading some books, archives etc
Mrs. Grey shirts' history is not right. She needs to read "The Moynahan report" or listen to Crimson Cure. She thoroughly covered this matter.
Exactly, this is why men should take heed to women who speak eloquently. They tend to speak giving the notion that they are well versed in what they're speaking on. Once Eli started giving a lil push back, she started going all over the place with assumptions.
Black men why ya dont build community like white men. Why ya dont build family like them..
@@ra-sun124Black men why ya dont build community like white men. Why ya dont build family like them..
@@ra-sun124 bingo….. and you have women in this chat in their man hating feelings😂😂😂😂
Yo Eli/Ace Excellent Content And Analysis On This One.... We Definitely Need More Content Like💯
thanks for the shoutout! I'm happy you liked the video. Got any suggestions for future topics?
@DailyRapUpCrew 💯🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡 We Definitely Need The Live Call In Stream Shows Back Just To Touch Base With The Dailyrapupcrew Family.... But Outside Of That Definitely More Content Like The One Y'all Just Posted With More Of A Great Pannel Like Who Y'all Had On There In This Episode 💯
White men with jumping out of Windows not black men trauma black men were still providing a household, white women was getting abused that made government change laws to help white women black women just fell in place
Statistically speaking men get attacked more than women or slash abused even by women
@@DailyRapUpCrewLet's have an in depth conversation about debunking popular talking points with historical facts...then decipher the reason why some1 would want the masses to think differently....programming etc.
Men know how we are feeling, we’re pissed because something bad happened… women swear we want to vent to help our mental health, we want SOLUTIONS… these male advocates are grifters
She just said she doesn't know but she is talking about it.
They are super lazy and making excuses. A baby does not require you to breastfeed all day, hold it all day, etc. if they were THAT focused the community wouldn't look like this.
one of those times i wish i was there, becaus.e me and the young lady coud have had a great convo, because she made some connection that she needed to be more clear about how the one connects to the other
Listen, my my list is realistic. If you don’t have a crib, a car and a career I can’t mess with you if you have children because I don’t have no children I can’t mess with you everything that I require in a man I have and if it’s something that I don’t have, I will not require that in him, but I will hope and pray and wish for him to come. We already possessing that because then I will find that inspirational.
Been following yall for a few years. This was the most redreshing ep. I have seen here or anywhere else on these types of topics.
I agree with the women. Many women don't mind supporting men or changing their clothes from something that he doesn't want her to wear. My lady ask me all the time if what she is wearing is appropriate.
I do agree, a lot of dudes have they chick paying 1/2 or damn near 1/2 the bills, but not doing anywhere near 1/2 the housework. If you can't expect a woman who work full time to do most of the work at home.
44:23 It was a Phenomenon!!!! 🧢 🧢 🧢
Can’t us Great Depression because it was a different time frame. Back then women wasn’t leaving because if you leave your husband there was fear of the stigma of being not worthy of another man. Second, men leaving idea is false because on that grounds they was still liable to take care of there family still. Now if you saying leaving of suicide then yes your right. But when when the stigma of not being worthy went away, support from the government and women working then that number of females leaving skyrocketed
dont think its most, but its not all. she says it perfectly for that 15% of guys that all women like, they can ask for anything, because the woman wants him,.......
This was a great podcast, definitely great to the ears if those that listen 👂🏾💯
Men who were forced to leave during the great depression were BECAUSE THEY WERE TRAVELING TO LOOK FOR WORK. They didnt just walk off.
Not everybody has nor wants kids.. that shouldn't be one the major points when talkin bout a relationship
That depression take was crazy 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ Plus it has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with men leaving the house or not. Also, stay present in today. The depression comparison was apples and oranges to the conversation. I bet when all these women initiating divorce today aren’t bringing up the depression period. They are going for extortion at that time!!!
😂 1920s BM was building Black Wall Street in 30 different states and cities During the depression . It didn't effect us as a people
Like she went off and was soo wrong I was with her all the way till then
@@Charlotte-bz8hoit's a historical fact that BM have left their families due to stress, losing their jobs, substance issues etc. We went thru a lot, and there were no resources to cope. These similiar patterns happen today. Its well documented in articles, studies, art via movies, fictional books and various entertainment. Plenty of us have discussed these nuances with our grandmothers, aunts etc. ALL BLACK MEN were not building, some were very much running.
@@morena1484 please give me a date of when this all went down a source or whatever cuz that legit makes no sense at all leaving job and going where ? After slavery it was Jim Crow ,red lining, segregation, civil rights, crack epidemic ,dismantle of the black panthers ……so what on gods earth are you talking about
@@morena1484 wrong
@@Charlotte-bz8ho prove it lol
I'm just listening for the 1st time. Usually I only listen to music in the car but lately I'm listening to words of wisdom from wherever they may come. One issue I noticed immediately is the mic volume. I'm delivering mail and I have to turn the volume on max to hear u guys. Then a commercial comes on and I have to turn it down because it's mad loud lol. Just something I noticed if you all have the means to improve the sound or volume of the mic during editing? Idk if that's even possible. Other than that great content! Thank u so much
Men left their households and went where? We don’t know! 🤣😂🤣😂
What about when children grow older what will she be doing because she will mot be changing diapers forever its only until the child os old emough and if she's the only one at home what she won't be washing dishes the and cleaning the house all day alot of these women are lazy washing few dishes takes like few minutes cleaning the house isnt the whole day activity since shes the one in the house most of the day
& they also never mention that around the 10 years old the child starts having chores which usually
Are dishes etc stuff the woman is suppose to do they watch tv and I know this for a fact.
Exactly...Thats the point I was making for 8 hours the kids is not even in the house they're at SCHOOL....So what is she doing for 8 hours of the day that's soooo hard...when the kids come home the father is almost off work lol
Everyone is so well spoken and eloquent I love this I definitely wanna see more like this. I haven’t heard the n word or b nothin like that.
The intro music makes me think of that show about Aliens that used to be on tv in the 90s. 😅
They just yappin fr
On god
Great video, great views from all parties I’m definitely gone do some research to check some point these ladies had💪🏾🌎🦁🌅👸🏾🤴🏾
Let me ask a question about religion.
If a man believes in Zeus, Ra, Odin or some other god, would that make him an effective leader?
If yes, how and if no why not?
This might be my favorite episode. These women gave honest povs, articulated themselves very well, they were based, gave ways to fix problems on a deeper level, understanding of men problems and beautiful as well.
Be a mother and father is a duty and its rewarding! Stop complaining because our parents were dealing with far worse!
The term unconditional love is used more to how society treats men,women, and children. Individually we all have conditional love for our loved ones however in terms of society men have to provide something of value to be seen as value. This means build himself up. Women and children are loved for by society as they are. Even if they have defects society today favors them over an able bodied man who produces nothing. Im surprised no one cleared that up.
Beautiful women, & they look good, too!
They always say how black men don't understand ourselves. Meanwhile the majority of us are successful and in the middle class or better. Most women don't understand how to keep him at peace but will blame us for not understanding her. A lot can't cook or fail to clean yet hold a man to the extreme expectation. We will do it but don't get upset when we dip out with another women as well. If y'all want us to do it all trust us we will
We are not that different, Allie girl you better tell him you better tell them
Love the queen In gray 💯🫡
😂😂😂 the strong perpetual victim
Dating app is horrible advice to meet someone. It's a fact that it's flooded with people with all kinds of personality disorders/liars. They will charm you and ghost you.
I feel you ma'am on the welfare state and 1900hundreds stuff but lets not forget not having a complete black family (men in the home) worked out for those we'll say evil people, and that people like Margaret sanger existed.
She speaking more about white mean because blk men has historically stayed in been in marriage
Not settling is a huge thing for me because you is not going to tell me that I have to have a husband that comes with kids already. I’m not doing that this world is too big you was not about to tell me that I got to take my husband without a car, a crib and a career going for his self, I would never ask my man to possess what I don’t have and that means that I am not settling
Women don't know what love is for men...
How about the men that are refuting, what they seen growing up. Many Men were raised by single mothers and refuse to create a family and put them through What the Men experienced growing up in a Single parent household
great show fellas, lol, great guests......
Yoy can love someone and not be with them. Loving someone unconditionally doesn't mean being a doormat. You csn love from afar.
They are completely wrong about their assessment of a non religious man 😂 They are not loose cannons that have no self control or morals. They obviously have never met one.
42:38 Men left the families during the Great Depression? Why didn’t the host call her out on the 🧢?
Shorty saying we all have the same complaints is crazy we have a majority of different problems stop the all of us thing it’s you and he and yall live completely different existence
They think that being a housekeeper is a hard job because they think work is sitting at a desk on a computer or talking to people