Divorce Lawyer Reveals: The Untold Realities of Marriage, Prenups & Mandatory DNA Testing!

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  • Опубликовано: 13 июл 2024
  • In this eye-opening video, a seasoned divorce attorney shares invaluable insights into the often misunderstood world of marriage and divorce laws. From the complexities of child support and custody battles to the financial implications of divorce, this video is a must-watch for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of these critical issues.
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    - 🧬 *Mandatory DNA Testing:* Uncover why mandatory DNA testing at childbirth could be a game-changer in child support cases.
    - 💔 *Divorce Proceedings:* Learn about the steps involved in the divorce process, from mediation to trial.
    - 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 *Child Custody Insights:* Discover how custody decisions are made and the importance of the child's best interest.
    - 💸 *Financial Implications:* Understand the financial aspects, including alimony and the role of prenuptial agreements.
    - 🌈 *Same-Sex Marriage Challenges:* Gain insights into the unique challenges faced in same-sex unions.
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    [00:00:00] Mandatory DNA testing on childbirth.
    [00:06:11] Is marriage still a viable institution?
    [00:07:56] The importance of planning a marriage.
    [00:10:22] Infidelity and social media.
    [00:18:06] Longest divorce process: three years.
    [00:18:25] Ongoing family law cases.
    [00:20:53] Choosing the right people.
    [00:23:27] Legally preparing for divorce.
    [00:27:08] Reasons for initiating divorce.
    [00:31:24] Cheating and peanut butter.
    [00:38:25] Who loses more in divorce?
    [00:40:26] Abuse is abuse.
    [00:42:40] Accepting alimony and stigma.
    [00:46:26] Prenuptial agreements and marriage.
    [00:51:28] Same-sex marriages and divorce rates.
    [00:53:29] Pro-mom vs. Pro-dad in court.
    [00:58:02] Child's role in custody decisions.
    [01:03:15] Updates in family law.
    [01:07:07] Legal ramifications for false paternity.
    [01:09:17] The courts and child support.
    [01:14:29] Pettiness over breast milk.
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Комментарии • 215

  • @miyaspence1
    @miyaspence1 5 месяцев назад +15

    Great episode! It's refreshing to hear from someone with a law degree and knowledge on a subject matter instead of these IG and Google scholars!

  • @shaydesofblue2281
    @shaydesofblue2281 5 месяцев назад +9

    Ok, I'm a married black man to my queen going on 9 years. I listen to these podcasts to kill time at work. Now since I can finally read the comments, I'm just perplexed about how our community point of view in a marriage has changed. In my hypothesis, our community doesn't have any unity. We used to get each other backs. Now, idk what's going on because I don't have social media(i guess RUclips), but damn. 😅. I do miss hearing the funny random ladies. I think we should get part 2, 3, etc, on the old topics with different guests. I would love to hear out more opinions that's out there.

    • @biggmixxo
      @biggmixxo 5 месяцев назад

      U have it right. Lack of unity has increased but not just for blacks. 😮. Social media is making most people anti-social.😮

    • @allenoverall7361
      @allenoverall7361 5 месяцев назад

      It's not just our community it's a generational thing to where they have made everything about a family just bad.

    • @Shackbulley
      @Shackbulley 3 месяца назад

      The bw never had our backs most sold out the bm for walfare,foodstamps,and section 8

  • @DeajaneWilson
    @DeajaneWilson 5 месяцев назад +19

    Really appreciated seeing someone online whose rhetoric is not divisive. He was very informative.

    • @lordfriezachrist6546
      @lordfriezachrist6546 4 месяца назад

      He's a lawyer who gets paid off divorce, of course he's not going to be divisive. He's playing both sides ism

  • @ZhyonFlowers
    @ZhyonFlowers 5 месяцев назад +11

    Just for clarification, Stephan Jackson didnt give her the prenup the day before. She held off on signing it and he waited until the day before to tell her if she dont sign it now its over. She had plenty of time to sign it though(according to him).

    • @rashunwashington6284
      @rashunwashington6284 5 месяцев назад

      You still wrong he gave it to her months before

    • @chitownbob9714
      @chitownbob9714 4 месяца назад

      ​@rashunwashington6284 that's what the man said.
      He said she stalled until day before wedding, so he said he'd back out.
      He should have threatened to call off the wedding a month beforehand.

  • @elaiiinneeyy
    @elaiiinneeyy 5 месяцев назад +6

    I enjoyed this episode. So much valuable information was shared. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @user-hz8ue8mi8v
    @user-hz8ue8mi8v 5 месяцев назад +3

    The special guest was really preaching! He kept it informative professional relatable 👌🏿 it's also so beautiful to hear how he speaks about his wife! So much love, respect and admiration

  • @bigboytwin901
    @bigboytwin901 4 месяца назад +2

    Someone send this to the lead attorney

  • @charleswiley6129
    @charleswiley6129 4 месяца назад +2

    The state absolutely benefits from you being in their system on child support.. they accrue interest and charge you for processing your child support.. the more you owe the more interest they receive

  • @lafayettehodge6395
    @lafayettehodge6395 5 месяцев назад +3

    Man I have watched several video's with divorce attorney's on them. This has to be the most interesting one I have ever seen. He is telling truths but not whole truths basically not going hard one way or the other lol. He is staying real neutral between men and women. Good information though...

  • @RCCrosby
    @RCCrosby 4 месяца назад +3

    If you're going to buy a car
    Do you go to a Mechanic? Who's going to tell you all the things that are wrong.
    Do you go to a car Salesman? Who's going to tell you everything that's good.
    Do you go to the Manufacturer? Who's going to tell you how and why it was made.

  • @kylejohnson8751
    @kylejohnson8751 5 месяцев назад

    We need more episodes like this

  • @user-jf9ru2mo4f
    @user-jf9ru2mo4f 5 месяцев назад +6

    This episode was everything! Really refreshing and insightful.

  • @adrisjones7261
    @adrisjones7261 4 месяца назад +1

    In SC if you miss that court hearing and its the first just to let you know the letter they send you says you will be defaulted to be the father of the child and they will set child support payments in your absence.

  • @J2Fresh247
    @J2Fresh247 5 месяцев назад

    This definitely was a informative session.

  • @kippreggelogan9570
    @kippreggelogan9570 5 месяцев назад +6

    Great episode.

  • @user-mr1mq8ge1q
    @user-mr1mq8ge1q 4 месяца назад

    And In Most Situations when Those People Around You Disappoint You The Circumstance Changes (correct) ?

  • @Bazile_TP
    @Bazile_TP 5 месяцев назад +2

    Kudos on a fantastic episode! Appreciate Mark's insights into prenups, postnups, and divorce. Crucial points were covered, dispelling myths. The powerful representation underscores that achieving favorable outcomes in court doesn't hinge on having a Jewish or white lawyer - minorities can excel just as effectively, if not better!

  • @Wanderer25
    @Wanderer25 5 месяцев назад +7

    Fellas if you're serious about marriage be serious about protecting your assets. Well executed prenup and living trusts. Don't get shamed and guilted into the "love conquers all" fairytale. Prenups may not be romantic but divorce and custody courts aren't.

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 5 месяцев назад +3

      🎯

  • @marvyperso6309
    @marvyperso6309 5 месяцев назад +1

    I appreciate y’all for this video lot of knowledge!

  • @stennett84
    @stennett84 4 месяца назад +1

    Sugarcoated words. Let’s do this interview again with another attorney🙏🏽

  • @yamamotogotbodied1606
    @yamamotogotbodied1606 3 месяца назад +1

    Lmao bro definitely was a lawyer this episode

  • @direwolf1977
    @direwolf1977 5 месяцев назад +24

    Moral of the story is, men don't get married, save your life!

    • @markkindle8114
      @markkindle8114 5 месяцев назад +3

      Facts

    • @Maiajlisaaa
      @Maiajlisaaa 5 месяцев назад +3

      And women should stop having kids with y’all if that’s the case. And if she so called don’t care about marriage y’all should have an open relationship. on both sides

  • @whenAgrownman_speaks
    @whenAgrownman_speaks 5 месяцев назад +8

    He's never been to a Texas child support court. I had my son the first 8 yrs of life she got him through the courts bc I didn't file on her and was able to get child support+ back support. I got him back at 14 and Texas refused to take me off any support, instead of dropping my 500 monthly and 200 back, only reducing my monthly to 250 but I was given partenal custody but they literally treated as joint, she was paying 200 in support until 18. He's now 20 and I'm still paying arrears, so can't text me that system ain't out to destroy men

    • @biggmixxo
      @biggmixxo 5 месяцев назад

      Whoever files 1st will most likely have the outcome in their favor 😮

    • @whenAgrownman_speaks
      @whenAgrownman_speaks 5 месяцев назад

      @@biggmixxo not in Texas. I've sat in those courts and seen them give drug addict mothers rehab just to force child support on the father because it's about who offers the state a chance to make money. Honestly if people would read the child support laws and statues it literally says judgement is to benefit the state not the child

  • @poeticwisdom3
    @poeticwisdom3 5 месяцев назад +1

    Great interview

  • @Mrs_Sandra7
    @Mrs_Sandra7 5 месяцев назад +2

    Great episode! But same sex marriages in the U.S. have been legalized since 2015, and if the divorce rates are that high within that short time frame, then that’s even worse, because their marriages aren’t even lasting that long, especially if they recently just been legalized 🤔

  • @Jayycool4
    @Jayycool4 2 месяца назад

    Danced around a lot of simple questions

  • @abdulwalichestnut7663
    @abdulwalichestnut7663 4 месяца назад +2

    Nowadays in my opinion men shouldn’t get married until laws get changed that actually hold women accountable for false pregnancies 🧬 DNA test & putting men on child support even if they didn’t sign the birth certificate….Personally the economy has to get better especially with careers & jobs cause college is looking like a joke for black men on very small percentage of men are getting great careers however if college want to get better they should give better classses as far a trades skills in high school especially for black men

  • @if.i.dusse_somyself7683
    @if.i.dusse_somyself7683 5 месяцев назад +6

    Do not marry for love. It is a financial contract.

  • @acr8615
    @acr8615 5 месяцев назад +1

    The refuses visitation, whats the steps to file a court order?
    Tx has a new law to file against the CP $500 each time for refuses the AP visitation.

  • @user-mr1mq8ge1q
    @user-mr1mq8ge1q 4 месяца назад

    From That YOU Knew

  • @mIKE.TURNup
    @mIKE.TURNup 5 месяцев назад +4

    I was married . I left after 20 years. I will never do it again.

  • @jtgordon2587
    @jtgordon2587 5 месяцев назад

    Great Show

  • @dreal500
    @dreal500 4 месяца назад +1

    Goes to show that lawyers aint for you. They for that buck!

  • @user-mr1mq8ge1q
    @user-mr1mq8ge1q 4 месяца назад

    That choice would Be According To The Court The Question which Implicate A Treacherous Intention

  • @mellyred1
    @mellyred1 5 месяцев назад +11

    They wanted so badly for this guy to pick a side *men ...lol he was very professional and knowledgeable. Asking leading questions didn't work ..but who wins tho? 😂 happy to see an actual professional and not just opinions from people who are coming from an emotional place and not a qualified professional. 👏🏼

    • @flatbush9117
      @flatbush9117 5 месяцев назад +2

      right?!!! lmao

    • @sallyhemings2295
      @sallyhemings2295 5 месяцев назад

      Lil man is so OBSESSED with this topic 😅but I don’t know why…he shouldn’t marry anyone! 😂

    • @flatbush9117
      @flatbush9117 5 месяцев назад +1

      who is lil man?

    • @allabouttheu2182
      @allabouttheu2182 5 месяцев назад +4

      nah that brotha is just married. in real life most men that are married tells us not to get married. he’s giving politically correct answers because he’ll probably have to hear it from his wife. y’all are just gullible to what you want things to be lmao

    • @mellyred1
      @mellyred1 5 месяцев назад +1

      @allabouttheu2182 what does his professional experience have to do with his marital status? Brainwashed to think that these podcast entrepreneurs' words are more valid than that of someone who litigate these issues on a daily basis? 🤔 you the type to ask your mailman for medical advice huh lol what a joke 🤣 😂 😆

  • @jomelallen4347
    @jomelallen4347 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for this. Was your best show yet. Unfortunately it has put me off marriage. NOOO THANK YOU LOL

  • @vincentbelljr.9903
    @vincentbelljr.9903 4 месяца назад +1

    Family Laws are Pretty much one sided. 💯Ehat we need to be Really Talking about is How Can We get These Laws Updated to 2024” It’s Highway Robbery for Centuries of Men… keep it💯Mr Lawyer man

  • @Guilla4Life
    @Guilla4Life 5 месяцев назад +1

    I love seeing the brotherhood that yall have… 💯💪🏾

  • @user-mr1mq8ge1q
    @user-mr1mq8ge1q 4 месяца назад

    Dependant on The one who was emotional investted financial invested who invested Time And The level of Lost envolved

  • @treutable
    @treutable 5 месяцев назад +8

    If more woman were financially responsible for the demise of a marriage woman would not want to get married either!

    • @P03ticJustice
      @P03ticJustice 5 месяцев назад

      Women don't want to get married either way is dangerous marrying black American men. Yall the top killers

    • @flawed2001
      @flawed2001 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@P03ticJusticeWho hurt you? Go get therapy please.

    • @acmikell6765
      @acmikell6765 5 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@flawed2001your question is filled with apathy! Even if he had been hurt and may need therapy, your response is more insulting rather than compassionate. We need to learn how to care about each other.

    • @flawed2001
      @flawed2001 5 месяцев назад

      @@acmikell6765 Sir. Pay close attention to who I responded to. Thank you.

    • @HidNTrackz
      @HidNTrackz 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@flawed2001do you really care who hurt him?
      If the woman that destroyed his life had him suicidal, would that matter to you?
      If he told you, what would you do with that?
      Or did you say this to shame him and invalidate his feelings and statements?

  • @CouncilwomanKT
    @CouncilwomanKT 5 месяцев назад +2

    Ok Bobb Law Firm!

  • @dr3wsk3y46
    @dr3wsk3y46 5 месяцев назад +3

    Is Jeuu ok???

  • @ladynavoa8204
    @ladynavoa8204 5 месяцев назад +3

    Fam 💕

  • @brianwashington5902
    @brianwashington5902 5 месяцев назад

    Pretty informative. But yall gotta work on your volume levels or bring the mics closer. Jeu the only not mumblin 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @antaeuswaller4458
    @antaeuswaller4458 5 месяцев назад +2

    Marriage is not a bad thing but we can't keep doing it the way we're doing it today. The number of people getting married and the number of people getting divorced shows it's not working. Divorce number are high and marriage numbers are low .....aka it's not working anymore.

  • @bLAKzAIRE
    @bLAKzAIRE 5 месяцев назад

    Idk if this question makes any sense but here goes, If alimony can stop if a the person receiving it gets in a financially supportive relationship, can the person receiving it get more $ if the person paying gets married and their net worth increases due to the marriage? Same question for child support?

  • @bauttiet.h.u.g.5900
    @bauttiet.h.u.g.5900 5 месяцев назад +1

    If you get married, get a prenup and don't cheat.

  • @charlesdavis2704
    @charlesdavis2704 5 месяцев назад +10

    Bro tripping. I'm not getting married lol. He said he does se biased in the court system but the standard is best interest of the child. That doesn't make sense if it's biased. Towards the mother it's can't be best interest of the child

    • @A-Thomas
      @A-Thomas 5 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly there’s no way the 2 can be true. The Lead attorney is the best. He also said social media increased infidelity when in fact all it did was shine a light on what was already happening.

    • @flatbush9117
      @flatbush9117 5 месяцев назад +1

      no the point that he is making is now you have more QUICK access to reach out to ppl than ever before which increases the rate of ppl cheating

    • @A-Thomas
      @A-Thomas 5 месяцев назад

      @@flatbush9117 I would argue sexual liberation and feminism increased cheating. When women valued their bodies they didn’t give it away like free candy. When they didn’t give it away like free candy men and women couldn’t cheat as much because there were significantly fewer people to cheat with.

    • @flatbush9117
      @flatbush9117 5 месяцев назад

      that’s bullshit, there was always prostitutes and women who gave it up easily. You would actually have to get up out of the house and go searching, now you can easily hit strangers up on the dm and plan things

  • @treutable
    @treutable 5 месяцев назад +11

    So the moral of the story is don’t get married through the state got it!

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 5 месяцев назад

      Will that really change how the Legal System actually works though if a Woman can still weaponize that very State? 🤔🤔

    • @bauttiet.h.u.g.5900
      @bauttiet.h.u.g.5900 5 месяцев назад +1

      Not sure that is it.🤔 If you do happen to get married, don't cheat and get a prenup.

    • @burnthrust
      @burnthrust 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@bauttiet.h.u.g.5900 cheating doesn't matter in a no fault state

    • @treutable
      @treutable 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@UnexpectedWonder the only way you become a victim of that situation is if you are legally engaging with a woman through paper trail, or offspring. Other than that what weapons does she have against you?

    • @HidNTrackz
      @HidNTrackz 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@bauttiet.h.u.g.5900so don't cheat will keep you from getting divorced? 😂

  • @juiceforman3025
    @juiceforman3025 4 месяца назад +1

    Fellas dont get legally married unless your woman is getting money.. i dont see alot of high earning women having these issues.. 😒

  • @johnking6102
    @johnking6102 5 месяцев назад +2

    Very informative but I think it was a little too politically correct from the lawyer(rightfully so he has a job outside of content) but it does a disservice to the questions when every answer “it’s both”. Great show

  • @eastafrika728
    @eastafrika728 5 месяцев назад +32

    You know these podcasts discuss how marriage ends and how it should start, but they never discuss how it should be within the marriage. It is always a childish blame game of boys are good and girls are bad. A life lesson from a 40 year old Afrikan like myself, the worst way to socialize is by assuming the worst or seeing the negative in others, you'll never learn anything nor will you keep any relationship. Children learn and socialize by the negative, physical touch and gestures, they assume danger first, it is a defense mechanism that even insecure men use, adults are supposed to learn and socialize by anticipating the positive of people or the environment.

    • @timeflyflytimeENT
      @timeflyflytimeENT 5 месяцев назад +3

      Check out the marriage episode. With successful black married couples. I for got the ep number tho

    • @rebelc7258
      @rebelc7258 5 месяцев назад +7

      ​@@timeflyflytimeENT that's one out of how many episodes?? They just love to bash women and insinuate black love is non-existent yet black women are the most loyal. Read their viewers comment section is all you need to know.

    • @marionjackson495
      @marionjackson495 5 месяцев назад +10

      @@rebelc7258 if you’ve watched there episodes completely they always talk about men and women should be interdependent for each other and make compromises throughout the relationship. Plus you cannot tell me that black love is alive and well in the communities, after civil rights we stopped showing up for each other tbh. Ik generational trauma has a lot to do with it but at the same time we didn’t do much to fix that situation.

    • @eastafrika728
      @eastafrika728 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@marionjackson495 at the end of the day, you have to wake up tomorrow with only one choice, are you going to be negative about society and yourself or positive about both?

    • @burnthrust
      @burnthrust 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@rebelc7258blk women the most loyal with the highest divorce rates?

  • @2livedrew58
    @2livedrew58 5 месяцев назад +31

    he giving all these politically correct answers 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 5 месяцев назад +7

      Right... Younger folks hopefully aren't falling for this like the past.

    • @A-Thomas
      @A-Thomas 5 месяцев назад +12

      The Lead Attorney is the man to talk to

    • @eznosnopes5276
      @eznosnopes5276 5 месяцев назад +3

      Yeah so one these answers are soft balling what you see in real life.

    • @vincentbelljr.9903
      @vincentbelljr.9903 4 месяца назад +2

      Exactly sugar coating cause he still getting a Check from these Broken Laws🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️😡

    • @naldof6732
      @naldof6732 4 месяца назад +3

      He’s a lawyer. What do you expect? He represent both sides in divorces so why would he take a hardline stance and mess up his money by coming across as biased? Imagine if he cuts off female clientele because they feel he’s too pro male or cuts off male clientele because he’s too pro female. Gotta be smart about these things bro. Things on the internet are forever. Suppose a former client tries to bring suit against him using this video claiming he was bias and that’s why he didn’t represent them well enough. Think about the overall situation and think smart.

  • @TheJab2093
    @TheJab2093 5 месяцев назад +15

    He just gave us 1000 reason why not to get married as a man 💀😂😂 thanks sir

  • @Cahluvca
    @Cahluvca 5 месяцев назад +1

    Follow the money....most aren't going to go against the system that pays them.

  • @RCCrosby
    @RCCrosby 4 месяца назад +1

    Men believe they are the best thing that has ever happened to that woman and don't want to believe that a woman would want someone else so they're not going to Check to see if their woman is cheating.
    Women know other women want their man so they're always going to check to see when their man is cheating.

  • @invaluabledre4916
    @invaluabledre4916 5 месяцев назад +7

    It breaks my heart when a black man says ( weather your man, woman or whatever you identify as) smfh.

    • @P03ticJustice
      @P03ticJustice 5 месяцев назад +1

      They don't see black women as actual women that's why they say that. To black American men only white women are actually women

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 5 месяцев назад +2

      Conditioned mindset

    • @sallyhemings2295
      @sallyhemings2295 5 месяцев назад +3

      Why? If it doesn’t Apply let it fly 🦅

  • @wutang23361
    @wutang23361 4 месяца назад

    Marriage is for rich people because once they get a divorce and the man walks away unscathed

  • @priestbishop3
    @priestbishop3 5 месяцев назад +1

    This advice from a lawyer is AMAZING!!!! It seems he is giving men advice as if everything will work in their favor when it usually does not. Lawyers tell queans to lie, to make false abuse claims, to make false claims of inappropriate touching and S.A. on children. Does anyone think he is giving good consul to men?????

  • @lrrubio4084
    @lrrubio4084 5 месяцев назад +2

    34:01 mins into this discussion and the attorneys answers seem blue-pill leaning, semi-oblivious and female protecting (not that he needs to be downgrading them, but is definitely watching what he says when speaking about women)
    Hopefully his answers become more impartial throughout the rest of this conversation

    • @lrrubio4084
      @lrrubio4084 5 месяцев назад

      Just finished the whole episode.
      1) The attorney remained with the same fence-riding, blue pill-leaning, female protecting answers
      2) Once again, the Victim and R4cial card was used by the guest and supported by the hosts. Please understand thalis only perpetuates the stereotype a d shows your lack of accountability
      3)To the hosts; You had the opportunity of asking more direct and specific questions to counter the guest’s vague answers but yall chose not to

  • @johnpreskar9006
    @johnpreskar9006 5 месяцев назад +1

    If you want turmoil, headaches, a bear down+ bias against you because you got money to spend, by all means, get married! If you’re smart, don’t, fellas, go live a good life!!

  • @yahyahnegro1088
    @yahyahnegro1088 5 месяцев назад

    There's no way I'll stay at home with the k8ds. Unless I on vacation.

  • @Bluewolf23able
    @Bluewolf23able 4 месяца назад

    She’s not a queen and you’re not a king

  • @marcoandell
    @marcoandell 5 месяцев назад +2

    He did a great m job of not stating how bad of an idea it is to get married. If 50 percent of marriages end in divorce. Of the 50 percent that are not divorced 50 percent are unhappy. In all actuality that means you have s 25 percent success rate. Translation it will more than likely fail. Period

  • @FlyHighSPT
    @FlyHighSPT 5 месяцев назад +4

    I’m so sick of all this marriage statistics talk half black ppl don’t even get married but these misleading goofy statistics is what y’all always wanna base arguments over most don’t even know how statistics worj

    • @HidNTrackz
      @HidNTrackz 5 месяцев назад +1

      How are divorce stats misleading?
      Please enlighten us on what metric should we disregard or data quantization should we use to get accurate numbers?
      Where do we find your accurate marriage stats if the government statistics cannot be relied upon?

    • @FlyHighSPT
      @FlyHighSPT 5 месяцев назад

      @@HidNTrackz nigga it ain’t like these studies interview EVERYBODY IN THE US 😂😂

    • @FlyHighSPT
      @FlyHighSPT 5 месяцев назад

      @@HidNTrackz you can’t get accurate numbers for real life 😂😂they only interview so many ppl plus sum ppl not truthful

    • @FlyHighSPT
      @FlyHighSPT 5 месяцев назад

      @@HidNTrackz plus I think u missed the fact most black ppl don’t get married so why do you go by statistics that don’t rep your demographic

  • @franklinwill22
    @franklinwill22 4 месяца назад

    Please dont bring this dube back...listening to lawyers speak in circles is like nails on a chalk board. Dude didn't answer 1 question simply direct. The viral white lawyer was eye opening on his view on marriage.

  • @stephenc.9164
    @stephenc.9164 5 месяцев назад +2

    50/50 isnt in the best interest of the child, its in the best interest of the state to collect. This and many other lawyers who are on podcasts are usually skillfully advertising for themselves. "Get a lawyer, get a lawyer." Aren't these magistrates and judges able to make decisions in the absence of lawyers. They are all on the same team. They tell you, oh i know how this judge operates, or this judge hates the way this lawyer purports themselves and holds them in contempt. Its is in no way, in the best interests of the child.

    • @MarkWBobbEsq
      @MarkWBobbEsq 5 месяцев назад

      How is 50/50 custody not in the best interests of the child, absent issues like abuse or drugs, etc.?

    • @user-jf9ru2mo4f
      @user-jf9ru2mo4f 5 месяцев назад +2

      How is giving each parent 50% of time with the child not in the child’s best interest? 🤔🤨🧐 Some of y’all had no parents and it shows.

    • @stephenc.9164
      @stephenc.9164 5 месяцев назад +5

      @MarkWBobbEsq because realistically, you can not split the child rearing in half. They will not make a hard stance on both positions being equally important. If they did, then they would just be litigating in circles. The best interest of the child is 100/100. When they do a 50/50 split custody, neither parent would be obligated to pay the other. Just take care of the child when in your possession. That is equitable, but no, in order for the state to get paid, someone has to owe someone and there needs to be a middle man who handles the distribution. It's a racket!

    • @stephenc.9164
      @stephenc.9164 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@user-jf9ru2mo4f Bliss

    • @MarkWBobbEsq
      @MarkWBobbEsq 5 месяцев назад +1

      Yes, you can. You split holidays, holiday breaks and regular weeks. When you provide 50/50 custody, it generally eliminates the need to litigate in circles. It is in the best interest of the child to split the time with each parent (unless there are issues like violence, etc). @@stephenc.9164

  • @tinkle2549
    @tinkle2549 5 месяцев назад +4

    39:25 I’m so glad the lawyer broke it down and defended women bc the guys just wanted the lawyer to take the “ men” side on everything but that’s just simply not true … it’s a lose lose for both parties & Some men don’t even realize how valuable a stay at home wife is

    • @dominicdeshazo2285
      @dominicdeshazo2285 5 месяцев назад

      Bull most women ain’t stay at home wives the economy not even set up for that lifestyle anymore only 25% of women are as of 2023

  • @Shakemoose
    @Shakemoose 3 месяца назад

    I pause the video at 38:40 and after I submit this comment I will not resume watching. Dude is cap b. He can’t even answer the question, it’s like he’s giving the political correct answers rather than speaking direct. I’m out dawg. ✌️

  • @tahutira480
    @tahutira480 5 месяцев назад +1

    The problem with a these Lawyers opinions is that telling the truth damages their profession, even if their retired. If you sit in a Family court proceeding you will see the boas in favor of women.

  • @homegirlgoddess7877
    @homegirlgoddess7877 5 месяцев назад +1

    Can we teach Eli to say “with” instead of wiff

  • @allabouttheu2182
    @allabouttheu2182 5 месяцев назад +3

    love the interview but you can tell he was giving politically correct answers. probably be scolded by his wife if he kept it real

  • @jsworld1446
    @jsworld1446 5 месяцев назад +4

    This dude is disingenuous. Talking about both parties are hurt when they were asking him in general who is more often hurt. Saying if they are in a financially supportive relationship. That would be so hard to prove. It's basically only if they get married will that cancel alimony.

  • @deemtime1007
    @deemtime1007 5 месяцев назад

    So no marriage 😂😂😂😂 basically

  • @636racer
    @636racer 4 месяца назад +1

    it would of been nice if they got a divorce attorney who’s been married for more than 10years he sound wet behind the ears

  • @daquantwp
    @daquantwp 5 месяцев назад +4

    I don't think this dude was genuine. You can tell he mainly or only represent women. It's literally stats you can go look up to go against a lot of what he said. You would think men get custody and alimony 50% of the time, and we know that's not true!

    • @MarkWBobbEsq
      @MarkWBobbEsq 5 месяцев назад +4

      I'd love to see these stats you speak of. The standard is the best interests of the child - which is having both parents equally involved. There is statute that it is based on.

    • @jsworld1446
      @jsworld1446 5 месяцев назад +2

      ​@MarkWBobbEsq yet we all know the father is usually not allowed to be equally involved still getting the weekend dad rulings for the majority of cases.

    • @flatbush9117
      @flatbush9117 5 месяцев назад +1

      y’all love talking about STATS, are these from legit websites?! Only look at stats that fit y’all narrative 🥱

    • @jas1565
      @jas1565 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@flatbush9117or stats from 2002.. as if it's relevant in 2024.

  • @dvan5374
    @dvan5374 5 месяцев назад +2

    Lawyer simping, his wife listening telling men not to move money. He suspect

  • @jahrenewilson1474
    @jahrenewilson1474 5 месяцев назад

    How can man say, “been with a woman for 5 years, get a breakthrough & she didn’t help?” Whatttt???

  • @pwpstrick
    @pwpstrick 5 месяцев назад +3

    This mf couldn’t be my lawyer.

    • @Caydengodwin
      @Caydengodwin 5 месяцев назад +1

      😂

    • @c24cm49
      @c24cm49 5 месяцев назад

      Lol why?😂😂😂😂

    • @HidNTrackz
      @HidNTrackz 5 месяцев назад +1

      Facts. He will sell you up the road to your ex-wife to play nice.

  • @MrQuincy611
    @MrQuincy611 5 месяцев назад +1

    Bad interview. This guy is trying to be diplomatic and not giving the real! If you want the real attorney to talk The lead attorney is the right guy for the answers

  • @samwooden5574
    @samwooden5574 4 месяца назад

    I'm coming in late, MEN are being destroyed.. keep it real FT the law has to change.. yal piss me off ... respectfully.. wishy-washy ish is killing me .. if you read between the lines .. pick a side!!!!!!!

  • @bricks10751
    @bricks10751 5 месяцев назад

    This guy is trying to save his business by the way he's answering he's not telling the total truth because he knows it's going to cost him we need a more nutruel lawyer who goes to tell it like it is

  • @P03ticJustice
    @P03ticJustice 5 месяцев назад +11

    Why are black men worried about divorce when statistically only 2 out of 10 become husbands ever ?

    • @rodehs688
      @rodehs688 5 месяцев назад +1

      Preach!!

    • @rnick123
      @rnick123 5 месяцев назад

      I don't believe that at all. So only 20% of men marry? That's cap

    • @Terrel05
      @Terrel05 5 месяцев назад +14

      The reason 2 out of 10 become husband's is because they are worried about marriage its not the other way around.

    • @P03ticJustice
      @P03ticJustice 5 месяцев назад

      ​@Terrel05 that's a lie.

    • @nonyabiz12
      @nonyabiz12 5 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@Terrel05...Exactly.

  • @TellTheTruthNation
    @TellTheTruthNation 5 месяцев назад

    Mics are too low.....

  • @Roi509
    @Roi509 5 месяцев назад +4

    I would prefer @TheLeadAttorney he doesn't beat around the bush

  • @flatbush9117
    @flatbush9117 5 месяцев назад +1

    I’m starting to think that the hosts need to start dressing better on video. They look very teenager-ish and not like gentlemen/adult men…. especially that Ace

  • @paragon7934
    @paragon7934 5 месяцев назад +3

    So this is just a political correct convo got it😒🫥. No facts, just anecdotal and fake ish. Understood. Support you guys but can't continue watching

    • @johnking6102
      @johnking6102 5 месяцев назад +1

      I fw this show heavy but this episode in particular was a lot of top toeing around harsh truths, especially the lawyer. Other lawyers have had these type of interviews and actually held people accountable