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  • Опубликовано: 14 авг 2024

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  • @Aknaught92
    @Aknaught92 2 года назад +716

    'Small objects are a choking hazard to her.'
    My man just murdered that dude.

    • @uteear
      @uteear 2 года назад +8

      Fr

    • @juliane.mfarias9285
      @juliane.mfarias9285 2 года назад +12

      F

    • @melaniescribbles
      @melaniescribbles 2 года назад +41

      It was kind of justified though: she told him she was married in a message, so I don't know what that crazy bastard was on about that she 'should've told him'. Not her fault he can't read.

    • @moxikyutube6924
      @moxikyutube6924 2 года назад +17

      EMOTIONAL DAMAGE

    • @will-bd3uv
      @will-bd3uv 2 года назад +13

      DESTRUCTION 100

  • @Qwerty95ish
    @Qwerty95ish 2 года назад +776

    Story 1. As a man if I was the EX I would be beyond humiliated by the sister behavior and be begging her to stop this insanity.
    Story 2. If a woman tells you she is married and you think she is just lying to you to get you to go away, GO AWAY!!!

    • @MoostachedSaiyanPrince
      @MoostachedSaiyanPrince 2 года назад +38

      Yeah, I agree about story 2. Because even if the woman is just playing hard to get, that alone is a sign that she's more interested in playing games than actually starting any kind of relationship. And if all you're looking for is a good time, don't keep pushing someone that says no even if you are convinced she doesn't mean it, because that's a good way to get into trouble. It's a lose lose situation. Neither people that play hard to get, nor people that pursue people they think are playing hard to get, are worth bothering with. Someone says no, move on, regardless what you think.

    • @nicksuazo4377
      @nicksuazo4377 2 года назад +12

      Story 1. I honestly don't understand what was going through the sister and the mother's minds. The sister sounds toxic and very controlling. She has this fancy delusion of her and the OP being married to brothers, and while that sounds cute, understand that trying to play Cupid only ruins relationships, especially since she clearly doesn't want to be with her ex, and now, is with someone new. It doesn't help that the OP's mother seems to be encouraging her sister and doesn't understand that the OP has moved on with her husband and is about to have a baby. I'm surprised that the ex and ex mother in law are on on this, but they were probably told by the sister and mother that she was playing hard to get or something. I'm glad that she wasn't forced into the relationship in the end, and that the husband and brother are supporting her choices in the future

    • @cultmecca
      @cultmecca 2 года назад +9

      @@MoostachedSaiyanPrince Yeah man I dunno why people want to be in relationships so hard with people that don't want them

    • @kagato23
      @kagato23 2 года назад +4

      @@cultmecca these folks convince themselves that once they are dating their target will immediately see how great they are, and then love them the same way back. It’s very magical thinking, but they ultimately don’t intend to be with somebody who doesn’t want them.

    • @kagato23
      @kagato23 2 года назад +6

      Yeah what stands out to me is that. So full confession, i really screwed up with my last big relationship. We both had faults but easily 80% of the problem was me. Looking back would I have done things differently? Absolutely. Now she is done with me though, and definitely not inclined to stay friends (we tried, she never got over her anger at me which again, fair). If any of her friends and family tried to do shit like this, I’d be too embarrassed to even think of it! Especially knowing she’s in a new relationship! Why on earth would I want to be part of an inevitability doomed effort to convince her that her ex who hurt her is better then the current relationship she is happy in? Putting aside the fact she deserves better I can’t even conceive putting myself through that.

  • @blueclaws9894
    @blueclaws9894 2 года назад +619

    No means no, regardless of marital status. Single women have JUST as much right to be free from harassment as a married woman. Hell, that applies to EVERYBODY, not just women!

    • @-tesla-1959
      @-tesla-1959 2 года назад +11

      😑👌❤

    • @Bananakingchad
      @Bananakingchad 2 года назад +2

      Can u re write it to be person instead of women cause men get harassed as well

    • @xVOVANATORx
      @xVOVANATORx 2 года назад +23

      @@Bananakingchad The last sentence removes the need to do that.

    • @maddiemcnugget1076
      @maddiemcnugget1076 2 года назад +5

      Ikr? It’s very weird that just because this man is handsome, that people are trying to find ways to excuse him and blame her. Honestly people tend to excuse men in general but it happens much more with handsome men.

    • @blueclaws9894
      @blueclaws9894 2 года назад +9

      @@maddiemcnugget1076 People naturally want to side with attractive people. With no information, just their words, the attractive person will win public opinion every time. It's a natural response thing.

  • @TKS60163
    @TKS60163 2 года назад +109

    "Small objects are a choking hazard to her"
    Now that's a lot of damage!

  • @cc_snipergirl
    @cc_snipergirl 2 года назад +281

    What kind of person introduces their wife as their housewife and skips over her actual name? Even if she didn't work, it's like introducing her as his servant. It I'd start laughing too

    • @NikkiAkaNlg
      @NikkiAkaNlg 2 года назад +15

      Thank you. Idk how this was even a question to begin with. We're people too, not slaves.

    • @danielmiller3845
      @danielmiller3845 Год назад

      @@NikkiAkaNlg bruh lmao quit using this as a victim card.. it doesn't even involve you

    • @NikkiAkaNlg
      @NikkiAkaNlg Год назад +12

      @@danielmiller3845 Umm what?..

    • @GuyOnHypixel
      @GuyOnHypixel Год назад +9

      @daniel miller who tf is you

    • @kentario1610
      @kentario1610 Год назад +9

      Forreal, "Mrs [my own surname], the housewife", where is respect anywhere in there?

  • @maddogdisorder
    @maddogdisorder 2 года назад +162

    Genuinely confused by some of the comments saying the OP should have been wearing a ring. I know a lot of married couples who don't even have rings. But also, she said no more than once. A ring shouldn't matter nor should her status as single or married. Also what if someone is in a relationship but don't believe in marriage? Does that suddenly make them fair game because they aren't legally attatched?

    • @ginathecookie
      @ginathecookie 2 года назад +4

      To some horrible people… yes, yes it does. Trust me, it’s not fun, some people just do anything to get the person they want, even if they’re taken or said no. (I speak from experience, had a ex that was very sought after and people didn’t care she was with me, they still tried to get with her). Still fcks with my head to this day

    • @wordforger
      @wordforger 2 года назад +16

      I am a committed single woman. And by that I mean I'm committed to being single for life. Treating marriage as the only acceptable reason for a woman to say no and have her boundaries respected is UTTERLY disgusting.

    • @wallflower7441
      @wallflower7441 2 года назад +2

      Right and I know lots of people who don’t wear their rings to work so it doesn’t get lost, stolen, or damaged

    • @Au1n
      @Au1n 2 года назад +1

      wedding rings come in weird shapes and sizes
      some rings are slinged on the arms forever till you can't even take it out

    • @moonroman1188
      @moonroman1188 5 месяцев назад

      when my parents got married they didn’t even buy wedding rings at all

  • @cameronbarber9732
    @cameronbarber9732 2 года назад +347

    You are free to wear a wedding ring if you want. There is no law, policy, etc, that says a wedding ring is mandatory. Half my coworkers are married and don’t wear theirs.

    • @KnightGamer724
      @KnightGamer724 2 года назад +34

      My wife constantly forgets hers. It happens.

    • @lolitabubbles26
      @lolitabubbles26 2 года назад +30

      My mom lost weight and hers doesn't fit. She would rather leave it in a jewelry box than loose it if it slips off.

    • @kimberlyjones8152
      @kimberlyjones8152 2 года назад +21

      @@lolitabubbles26 I can't wear my ring at work cause it's a safety hazard since we use power tools

    • @potaoishpotato4172
      @potaoishpotato4172 2 года назад +13

      Me and my fiance decided to use necklace, or other matching acessories since I enjoy big rings (like, with skulls and all) and we had a hard time finding something that matched both of us.

    • @marcelsgroot
      @marcelsgroot 2 года назад +10

      Yes me and my wife dont wear ours either simply because we both are not jewelry wearing people.

  • @yukeying1002
    @yukeying1002 2 года назад +493

    I may or may not be the only person to think that the OP's sister might have had some weird fetish/kinks/desire revolving around siblings. Sure, it would be really cute and cool to have you and your sister date your boyfriend and his brother, but going that far to make your own sister's life miserable is slightly messed up in my opinion. Let the poor girl date who she wants to and marry who she wants to, don't just force their interactions and matchmake them almost 20 years after they've broken up because you ship them and you think they'd be cute being couples like you and your husband.

    • @gabrielfreire3732
      @gabrielfreire3732 2 года назад +15

      @Wildcard abnormal? I tought it was kinda of magalomaniec and selfish

    • @skywalkerjohn8965
      @skywalkerjohn8965 2 года назад +8

      @@gabrielfreire3732 more like crazy

    • @shroomey6686
      @shroomey6686 2 года назад +2

      @@gabrielfreire3732 do you mean megalomaniac? not trying to be a spelling corrector here but im just wondering if its a completely different word

    • @smileyhappyface5864
      @smileyhappyface5864 2 года назад +2

      @@skywalkerjohn8965 Eh.. it was more along the lines of insane.

    • @averysadpizza6714
      @averysadpizza6714 2 года назад +2

      @@shroomey6686 megalomaniac is when somebody will do anything for power, i.e controlling other people's lives since they get a feeling of power from it, so OP's sister is attempting to control OP since probably gives her a sense of importance or power

  • @claytoncastleman9259
    @claytoncastleman9259 2 года назад +230

    Man I would have walked out at the intervention. That was completely uncalled for. Sounds like the OP did the right thing. The mom and sister sound "BSC"

    • @adornnielryndem8637
      @adornnielryndem8637 2 года назад +1

      @@MuhammadHosny0 lol 😂

    • @don5241
      @don5241 2 года назад +2

      What's bsc

    • @claytoncastleman9259
      @claytoncastleman9259 2 года назад

      Bat shit crazy

    • @KuopioKallavesi
      @KuopioKallavesi 2 года назад

      intervention was called for.... imagine adult people acting so entitled that they stop talking to each other coz of some petty reason.. or they cant get over their hurt ego and pride even after 6 years? who childish u have to be one must ask. Think before you draw conclusions.

    • @claytoncastleman9259
      @claytoncastleman9259 2 года назад +18

      @@KuopioKallavesi childish would be the sister trying ever since her sister and ex broke up to get them back together. Even after being told countless times to stop and that the OP doesn't want to. Just because the sister had this fantasy of them both being married to brothers. The OP is also now married for X amount of years and the sister still tries. Neither the mother or the sister listened to the OP. They could have dropped it anytime, but chose to keep pushing.

  • @christapadilla8744
    @christapadilla8744 2 года назад +46

    The last story had me, like i did't spend 5 years of my life with lack of sleep and poor eating habits for you to tell others I'm a housewife.. nahhhh

  • @sanddagger36
    @sanddagger36 2 года назад +40

    Story 1: It's so nice to see at least part of the family backing the OP up. It seems the mom has a favorite daughter and will side with her no matter how crazy she acts. Unfortunately with these stories, no matter how obvious it is when someone is in the wrong, people usually side with whom they like more rather than the person who is actually in the right. It is so refreshing to see that her father and brother understand the sister is crazy and don't just back her up like the mom.

    • @alexiscobian9146
      @alexiscobian9146 5 месяцев назад

      It’s just hard to see the big deal when they broke up 13 years prior. She didn’t say it but she likely left him. Women pick and choose men like a candy store so I don’t see the big deal. It’s a bigger deal if this happens between brothers because the girl typically dumps the guy.

    • @sanddagger36
      @sanddagger36 5 месяцев назад

      @@alexiscobian9146 what are you talking about?
      She admitted she rejected his proposal.
      What does your sexist opinion about women have to do with the the fact that her sister has been trying to force her to leave her husband for an ex-boyfriend for 13 years? "Not a big deal"
      Are you stupid?

  • @TheMetalWeirdo
    @TheMetalWeirdo 2 года назад +183

    If I were in OP's shoes where my sibling and tried to do an "InTerVeNTiOn" to force me into a relationship with my loser ex I'd walk out, contact my sane family, go file a police report and go no contact with egg donor and eggdonor spawn #3. I'd also collect as much proof as possible in case egg donor tries to take me to court over my child. Or just burn the house down with them still inside.

    • @jynxorjames3413
      @jynxorjames3413 2 года назад +14

      everything was ok until the last part

    • @KuopioKallavesi
      @KuopioKallavesi 2 года назад +1

      grow up kid.

    • @TheMetalWeirdo
      @TheMetalWeirdo 2 года назад +7

      @@jynxorjames3413 I have zero patience for people who can't accept a no for an answer

    • @BexstarDuck
      @BexstarDuck 2 года назад +10

      @@TheMetalWeirdo
      Still doesn't give you the right to murder people lol

    • @RazielTheUnborn
      @RazielTheUnborn 2 года назад +2

      @@BexstarDuck It doesnt but when it endangers you losing your child..... I never condone or condemn such an action as I can completely understand the reaction. Just because we are higher thinking beings does not mean we are not animals. Just like any animal that spends years takimg care of their child (think elephants) we will kill yo protect our spawn and ask questions later. The ! Other threatening to go to court over grandparent rights is a threat to take the child away, or force the child to be in vicinity of the grandmother which gives the sister access which means the ex boyfriend has access. Yeah, fuck that. Lite the house on fire.

  • @storkparanoia
    @storkparanoia 2 года назад +67

    story 3: if my husband pulled anything like that i would humiliate him in from of everyone. he didn't even have the decency to call her by her first name. he wants to live in this mad men fantasy world where women do as they are told. he lied about her and expected her to just smile and go with it. they clearly don't know each other all and the husband clearly doesn't respect his wife.

    • @Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681
      @Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681 Год назад

      wow you are that sensitive to what i texted XD?

    • @endergirldragontsuki3292
      @endergirldragontsuki3292 Год назад +2

      Honestly, I agree with ya. I just laughed myself and said I would do the same shit or worse because that's would be humiliating me to not be introduced properly at all and labeled house wife if I'm not one but only clean up a place I call home. Pretty much got me riled up lol some guys want to look cool around other by saying stupid things that will bite back later.

  • @rightwing3940
    @rightwing3940 2 года назад +25

    I have had someone do an intervention against me for lying. They doubted the stories I told about my life over the years but they had no proof and said they couldn't be friends with me anymore unless I lied about not lying and said I made everything up. The stupid younger me didn't have many friends and complied which is something I still regret to this day. Long story short at a later time I cut ties with them and told them off, a whole year went by and they begged me to come back. The point being, set your boundaries and if anyone tries to control you then tell them to fuck off.

  • @kyowyunkim7966
    @kyowyunkim7966 2 года назад +89

    Story 2- I'm more impressed the guy thought the op was playing hard to get. Is that really a thing? Like how big is your ego to think that way. Op clearly told the guy to back off.

    • @imahumanbutichosetobeapota5479
      @imahumanbutichosetobeapota5479 2 года назад

      i thought the op's husband would say say back or i will kick you

    • @Heartrose7
      @Heartrose7 2 года назад +2

      In some rare case "playing hard to get" is a thing yes, but the stability of that gambit is very volatile and I liken it to high stakes gambling, because done right the effects have a good pay off, but done wrong and the House takes everything. That's why I watch both for amusement, but pass on actually getting involved in it.

    • @irisravenhild9060
      @irisravenhild9060 2 года назад +1

      To sweet cinnamon bun,
      if you only knew how common it actually is.

    • @ThatOneLadyOverHere
      @ThatOneLadyOverHere 2 года назад +2

      I have never done or said anything that meant "try harder." What are they even supposed to try at? If being themselves doesn't make me attracted to them then they deserve someone that is attracted to them. If I've decided that something about their personality isn't what I'm looking for then, again, they deserve someone looking for the qualities they do have and isn't looking for something they aren't. (Obviously we should all be trying to be better, but our flaws shouldn't be things that our partner has trouble loving, having a harmonious relationship is enough work as is.) If I am into them then I will also make an effort to get to know them and see if this is a good relationship.

    • @ThatOneLadyOverHere
      @ThatOneLadyOverHere 2 года назад +1

      After reading these comments, if someone does mean "try harder," then I say: don't, just find someone else. If everyone keeps telling you "try harder," maybe get therapy to see in what ways you need to build yourself into a better, more independent, or confident person. Take a break from trying to date to work on yourself, then get back in the game later.

  • @aimies
    @aimies 2 года назад +38

    The second story is defi not a jerk. She can wear the ring whenever she feels like it and especially since her hubby seem fine with her not wearing it. She already told him she is married and he still doesn’t stop. She should has reported him for sexually harassment.

    • @carlrood4457
      @carlrood4457 2 года назад +6

      Agreed. The ring is completely irrelevant. If she were unmarried, she still is allowed to say no.

  • @oblivion_2852
    @oblivion_2852 2 года назад +16

    #3 is just straight disrespect. Reminds me of the time my parents introduced me as "This is our autistic son" - which I reject on the basis that I'm not autistic and even if I was that's a disrespectful way to introduce anyone (by their disability) as though it's their defining feature.

  • @ranniemanangan5371
    @ranniemanangan5371 2 года назад +78

    Story #3: Not a jerk, actually the husband is being misogynistic... He implies to his co-worker that he is the main provider in the household by labeling her as the housewife, which btw there is nothing wrong on being a housewife.... If we understand the context of the word "housewife", you may think that the husband is implying that she doesn't have any other job other than taking care of their house and family, even though the OP has a job.... And she was introduced by her surname and nit even by first name which some people do.....

    • @Allen-ko1oz
      @Allen-ko1oz 2 года назад +33

      Its crazy how worried he was about his self image and didnt regard how his wife felt about being disrespected like that. From what it sounds like he needed a good ego check from her lol

    • @goatlover6312
      @goatlover6312 2 года назад +12

      Also, even if he had somewhat of a reason like let’s say that his workplace would start harassing him if he didn’t have the salary to support a non working wife (best I could come up with but still a stupid reason) then he should not just make up a lie on the spot and just hope the other person plays along. He could have at least told her in advance that he was going to introduce her as his housewife and ask her to play along.

    • @jordanwardle11
      @jordanwardle11 Год назад +2

      ​@@Allen-ko1ozfor those sort of people. There is no such thing as an ego check. It's never their fault

  • @RBFSmurf
    @RBFSmurf 2 года назад +38

    Story 1: messed up on so many levels. Sounds like the toxic family from hell.
    Story 2: She’s under no obligation to wear any kind of jewelry, including a wedding ring. That’s between her and her husband, not her and the office douchecanoe.
    Story 3: Could have been handled better by both parties. “Only when I get home from WORK, ya big joker” with wry smile would have gotten the exact same point across and not made the coworkers feel as uncomfortable. The husband was definitely a jerk.

    • @Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681
      @Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681 Год назад

      third story i suppose i can work with that

    • @jackiebiskan4748
      @jackiebiskan4748 Год назад

      we dont know the whole story so i am siding with the man cuz she is do him dirty and if that is how she acts when your mans brings over his new work mates that she is not a great wife
      again dont know the whole story i mayt be off on this but i think the man is a bit of a jerk but no to the point that your wife should to you dirty like that

    • @jordanwardle11
      @jordanwardle11 Год назад +5

      ​@@jackiebiskan4748why would you introduce your partner by their last name? That's weird and quite honestly, very disrespectful especially if they were married, then it's Mrs husband's name

    • @TheOrignalTRockz
      @TheOrignalTRockz 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@jackiebiskan4748You definitely should face the same reaction as the third story just revealed how much of an immature and misogynist a**hole that husband was. Her answer was straight up brilliant and to the point, exactly what he needed to hear to understand and learn to never to anything like that again ever with a partner. Period. There is no room for a big ego walking over her and expecting her to swallow his sh*t and smile along.
      He apparently did not care how SHE felt, so it’s necessary to mirror that behave and let that jerk taste his own medicine. Period.

  • @mellsc9412
    @mellsc9412 2 года назад +20

    Last story, if my spouse called me a house wife, I’d probably say “you’d better make more so I can stay home then!”
    But seriously what a weird thing for him to say. I know people can view being a housewife negatively. He really should’ve brought that up with her.
    Edit: not related to a conversation about this, but my spouse just took another job so I can work part time and take care of more of the home related work and chores😳 I guess I don’t have a leg to stand on.

    • @carlrood4457
      @carlrood4457 2 года назад +4

      No, it's still really a weird way to introduce someone no matter what their work/home situation is. 99.999% of people would say, "This is my wife, XXXXXX." What they do usually comes up in conversation. It sounded more like he was introducing his housekeeper.

  • @EmiToast
    @EmiToast 2 года назад +25

    "sorry but small objects are a choking Hazzard for her" 💀

  • @HavianEla
    @HavianEla 2 года назад +10

    Sounds like YOUR consent doesn’t matter to your sister, and if that’s the case, I’m so, SO RELIEVED that you’re getting a restraining order against your sister and mom!! The fact that they care so little for free will is !!!!!!!!

  • @angus_ismyname3424
    @angus_ismyname3424 2 года назад +9

    I’m a nurse and never wear my wedding ring at work. It rips the gloves and when I wash my hands/use sanitizer it gets underneath the rings and causes skin breakdown. Wearing a ring is not an obligation to show you’re married. That’s just silly

  • @stefanchisu1685
    @stefanchisu1685 2 года назад +83

    This sister's Op is the definition of a shiper

  • @brandim1441
    @brandim1441 2 года назад +75

    So I've been married for 16 years and if he was ever stupid enough to introduce me as "the housewife" I would slay him in front of everyone as well (verbally, of course)! Hats off to my girl! 👏

  • @Karmillina
    @Karmillina 2 года назад +19

    Look if she wants the ex in the family so bad she can have him. And also the ex is an idiot for allowing it to happen

  • @DoomsdayR3sistance
    @DoomsdayR3sistance 2 года назад +12

    Story 1, the motivations of the sister are insane, but the Ex must be even more questionable.
    Story 2, If anybody says they are in a relationship, even if they aren't, it's a hard NO. In this case they were, guy is a creep and there is photo evidence which could be taken to HR, probably instant dismissal after that horrible behaviour. no means no.

  • @jennajoseph893
    @jennajoseph893 2 года назад +4

    Story #1 - I love the support she has gotten from the men in her family. It is wonderful to see how much she loves her husband; and that she is constantly defending the men that have had her back (husband, dad, brother) the whole time.
    Her sister sounds like a narcissist.
    Story #2 - Taken is Taken and no means no. In my own life, I have been with my high school sweetheart for 18 years. We are registered as domestic partners in 2 states. We did the paperwork for the marriage license in both states, and it just things happen, the license expires, and redoing pre marriage counseling, finding an appointment time at the county office while working, or a pastor that we like, with schedule constraints, it expires; and then we have to start the process from the beginning. (Again.) So we are taken and not married. When a couple says they are together, they are together. Its not an open invitation to ruin someone's life, just because someone wanted to be with her.
    Story #3 - I'm pretty sure the laughter was an automatic response. He should have told her his feelings ahead of time to give her time to digest the information. Then told her why he felt the way he did, and brainstorm appropriate responses. And then he could have said what he wanted to say in a way that was more respectful, and she could have handled it with respect as well.

  • @reallybadgamer2602
    @reallybadgamer2602 2 года назад +9

    I found this channel a week ago or so and is probably my favourite channel on this site. It's just so great

  • @joshuadavis9216
    @joshuadavis9216 2 года назад +6

    Yeah that's not how interventions work Op doesn't have a problem

  • @thebean6731
    @thebean6731 2 года назад +7

    Don’t shoot shots unless you’re prepared to get shot back

  • @danteallstar826
    @danteallstar826 2 года назад +3

    I know there’s people who see themselves as matchmakers or shippers and will try to force something just to fit this weird fantasy of theirs. The sister wanting both brothers to be married to both sisters must’ve been such a wonderful idea in her head that she just kept trying to force it.

  • @rachelsarmientotack
    @rachelsarmientotack 2 года назад +16

    The last story is the only one that I could have much insight about. The first story is simply baffling and the second is pretty clear about what's happening and who's the jerk.
    Personally, I'm gladly a housewife. And there's nothing inharently wrong with the role. However, if I were to be working a full time job alongside my husband, he couldn't be bothered to help around the home, and then tried to act in public like he was the rightful head of household by belittling all I do for the family........ I would be livid. Absolutely livid.
    Pull my husband out of the room to immediately confront how incredibly disrespectful his behavior is... LIVID.
    I would demand that he correct his perspective in his own mind as well as how he portrayed my role in the relationship to his coworkers immediately. And that if he was so ashamed of our relationship dynamic that he felt it necessary to lie, he should consider stepping up his contribution as a husband rather than belittling my contribution as a wife. Or at the bare minimum learn to be gracious and appreciative of me rather than feeling bad about himself.
    I would have chosen to confront the offense in another room and have him correct his own error. He doesn't need my help embarrassing himself nor redeeming himself. But, I understand her emotion behind the outburst.

  • @TheHeirofDrakkon
    @TheHeirofDrakkon 2 года назад +8

    Story 1. Haven't seen my eldest sister or talked to her in 8 years, then 10 or 11 before then.
    Story two. My soon to be wife is a massage therapist and she and I talked unfortunately she can't wear a ring during work hours, so we're agreeing to have matching wedding band tattoos so she doesn't get hit on even if she forgets her ring, which is often due to her profession.

  • @1mm0rt4lty7
    @1mm0rt4lty7 2 года назад +9

    These stories are so addicting!

  • @proruv
    @proruv 2 года назад +2

    My anger issues couldn't handle the first story

  • @dinonuggies175
    @dinonuggies175 2 года назад +22

    Bro ur videos are always fun to watch and they drop a lot I love ur channel

  • @Vanaditz
    @Vanaditz 2 года назад +18

    I might as well watch all the videos since i have nothing else to do especially since i’m sick rn

    • @Vanaditz
      @Vanaditz 2 года назад

      @@AmItheJerk make sure you find out how to turn on donations so next time i might be able to clock in and donate a bit

    • @raerose2278
      @raerose2278 2 года назад +1

      Hope you feel better soon Modelo! 🙏🏽

  • @Rizillion
    @Rizillion 2 года назад +6

    I started to watch u like 2 weeks ago and finally caught up on all of the Am I the jerks. Can’t wait for the next episode

  • @nympo_logy
    @nympo_logy 2 года назад +8

    I have been watching your videos for a couple of days and i really like them. Keep it up! 👍🏼

  • @brianburnside5949
    @brianburnside5949 2 года назад +2

    My wife and I have not worn our wedding rings for all but two of our thirty years of marriage. Rings have no magical properties and certainly do not keep people from cheating. Nor do they stop people from flirting in the work place. The lady should have taken this to hr.

  • @danmeireader4114
    @danmeireader4114 2 года назад +3

    The sister is like every obsessive shipper ever

  • @Pippis78
    @Pippis78 2 года назад +5

    It's so sick that women have been conditioned into the belief they have to have or lie they have a boyfriend/husband to be left alone. A woman's will or wishes do not have bearing - only whether they are "owned" by another man already. A man might respect another man but not a woman. A lot of people (men and woman) still believe women owe being awailable and being nice to any and all men.

  • @kingtigertheheavy2708
    @kingtigertheheavy2708 Год назад +1

    "Sorry but small objects are a choking hazard for her" damn 💀

  • @entwoo2221
    @entwoo2221 2 года назад +14

    1. Do not deal with crazy people, and do not deal with people that supports crazy people no matter how close they are to you. Sometimes life is more peaceful that way.
    2. Interesting train of thought, Wedding ring? No? Here's a photo of my Dingdong. Who lies about being married to play hard to get, seriously.
    3. First if the husband want to be respected he shouldn't be making scenario that paints him better and his wife worse. There's no shame in having a wife who works or even earns better than you (If that's the situation).

  • @carlrood4457
    @carlrood4457 2 года назад +3

    Spending nearly 20 years obsessed with a sibling's high school relationship is bizarre. I guess it can happen in small towns and where there are arranged marriages, but how many cases are there were two sets of siblings married each other? I can only guess the sister had some vision of them all being super close, living next door to each other, going on vacations together, spending every holiday together, etc. I suspect the EX has been egging her on in her delusion because he can't handle that he was the one who got dumped.

  • @docha_tiarna9318
    @docha_tiarna9318 2 года назад +38

    For the wedding ring one, I only wear mine during dates or special days.
    The housewife one though, I do agree with her standing up for herself, but she didn't have to call him useless.

    • @itsadoggo3772
      @itsadoggo3772 2 года назад

      I completely agree

    • @maddogdisorder
      @maddogdisorder 2 года назад +20

      She didn't call him useless she said he couldn't bother to help her around. The husband used the words useless in place of what she actually said

    • @itsadoggo3772
      @itsadoggo3772 2 года назад +3

      @@maddogdisorder that doesn’t rlly justify it I mean in terms how it’s used it can be taken in the same way it still gave the impression of him being incompetent. She still laughed at him an belittle him in front of people. If she had an issue she could’ve been more mature instead of embarrassing her partner in front of an audience.

    • @amanofmanyparts9120
      @amanofmanyparts9120 2 года назад +1

      I am a man and I do *all* the cooking, washing, washing up and nearly all the housework. I did it for over 13 years after my wife died, so I kept on when a new lady entered my life and home. I like to do these things for her!

    • @merriquelynn866
      @merriquelynn866 2 года назад +9

      @@itsadoggo3772 But wasn’t he embarrassing her by throwing out all her education and hard work?

  • @sarahsherman4514
    @sarahsherman4514 2 года назад +3

    Had to cut off my sister. Dont miss her drama at all. All our family starts out siding with her because of course her version plays her as a victim but once they have a closer relationship with her they realize why i stay away.

    • @alphonsejohnson5601
      @alphonsejohnson5601 2 года назад

      Im sorry to hear that. I hope that one day, you and your sister can reconcile if she changes, but if not, then have a good life and keep that drama away from you. Have a nice day.

  • @Nunya144
    @Nunya144 10 месяцев назад +1

    If I was being harassed and HR did nothing after I have texts, emails, etc. I'd sue the company. It'd make my day to get every dime I could from them, and I would roast the dude.

  • @TheCybroid
    @TheCybroid 2 года назад +1

    Small objects are a chocking hazard best line ever

  • @Grimangell135
    @Grimangell135 2 года назад +2

    Story 1- Blood may be thicker than water, but even blood can be toxic. This is next level controlling. Someone stated this is definitely a case where the sister is the golden child and the mom chose her to try and make it the way golden child wants it.
    Story 2- dude shits where he eats apparently. Dating a coworker or even hitting on a coworker is not the best idea. Unless the relationship actually develops positively, you can get burned massively.
    3. Why the hell is the 1950s re-emerging? Good on the woman for speaking up.

  • @user-fg4tn8ot6b
    @user-fg4tn8ot6b Год назад +3

    Story one: Damn. I remember this story. It was a total crapshow with the mother and the sister alienating the family by insisting a reconciliation. The sister knew OP was uncomfortable being in the same room as the ex, who was being a creep. The mother knew, too. *That reconciliation can be forgotten as well as ever meeting the baby; they put the safety of their family member at risk (especially when pregnant). All because the sister wanted to have her fantasy of two sisters being together with two brothers from another family being a reality.* 🤦🏾‍♀️
    And I hope OP's dad and brother stopped blaming themselves for the unhinged behavior of both the mom and sister. It's not their fault. *These two guys are not the ones who alienated the family from these two women; the mom and the sister did it themselves.*
    Story two: Doesn't matter if OP was married or not. *That's s3xual harassment!* I hope OP got to HR. She has proof of his disgusting behavior! *He was rude, disgusting and offensive by sending unwanted nudes and crossing her boundaries!! No means no!! And that workplace should stop blaming her for not wearing a wedding ring! I bet that wouldn't stop him from doing so!*
    Story three: I feel second-hand embarrassment. Because that guy f*cked around and he found out quickly! *Don't lie to your co-workers to appear as someone important, while undermining the one you chose to spend the rest of your life with!* 😬

  • @dajanadrobac7548
    @dajanadrobac7548 2 года назад +10

    1story: at first I thought her sister wanted to be with her ex boyfriend...

  • @JustVixo
    @JustVixo 2 года назад +4

    I watched your videos for a few weeks they are so good you got a new subscriber:)
    And what is the game name in the background?

  • @jordanbodnar4632
    @jordanbodnar4632 2 года назад +5

    Honestly I've had no contact with both sides of my family for the past 4 or 5 years because of a disrespectful comment directed at me about my wife. I told my egg donor that I'm no longer her son and cut all ties. God only knows what would happen if the sperm donor showed up. My life is better without them in my life.

  • @antares8476
    @antares8476 Год назад +2

    A godmother? Telling the kid "oh darling it'd be so much better if ex was your daddy, not him". Yeah hurt the kid.
    Grandparent rights. Best threat. As if it existed after this.
    "Hansome" creep: HR will jump if you threaten to involve the police and show 1-2 from the messages. Of course before this save them on a pendrive.

  • @YurideGroot
    @YurideGroot 2 года назад +10

    if I introduced my wife as Mrs de Groot the housewife I would expect her to be pissed off. Husband is the jerk.

  • @sierrasasmartass7755
    @sierrasasmartass7755 2 года назад +3

    Story 3: I tend to say whatever comes to mind, so if I was the wife and my husband just introduced me as 'the housewife' without thinking I would've just said "bitch". It's a knee jerk reaction for me to jump to swearing.

  • @francessweeney2308
    @francessweeney2308 Год назад +1

    Restraining order for both the ex and the sister. It's BEEN 18 YEARS since she broke up with ex

  • @dominicaibodje8197
    @dominicaibodje8197 Год назад +1

    "Sorry but small objects are a choking hazard for her"
    I'm rolling 🤣🤣🤣

  • @nickoleiwas
    @nickoleiwas 2 года назад +1

    Abou the wedding ring story:
    My opinion:
    When she says that she don't like him, he should leave. Everything else is not important anymore.
    And the idea of a wedding ring that people around someone knows that she/he is married.
    Without the wedding ring some people can try to start a relationship with her because they don't know that she is married.
    So, she should use the wedding ring and this guy should learn basic human interaction.

  • @Legendcrafter-df6zt
    @Legendcrafter-df6zt 2 года назад +2

    Having an intervention about a breakup where you mention that the person who you are intervening for is married 🤣

  • @emmadodge4444
    @emmadodge4444 2 года назад +5

    I love your videos! Thank you so much for the shoutout! 😁😁😃🤩

  • @StoryMing
    @StoryMing 2 года назад +1

    It doesn't matter if she's married or not. If someone tells you to back off, you back off.

  • @carlrood4457
    @carlrood4457 2 года назад +1

    The wedding ring shouldn't matter. She said no. If she actually were single, she'd still have the right to not be interested and say no.

  • @HeavenlyDemon_Jugo
    @HeavenlyDemon_Jugo 2 года назад

    "Sorry bud, small objects are a choking hazard for her"
    .... I just spat my tea out.

  • @certs743
    @certs743 2 года назад +1

    What kind of creep blames someone for their sexual harassment.

  • @imani134
    @imani134 Год назад

    Lol, the first op’s sister really thinks she has a chance of being godmother 😂

  • @kalosmobilegames9478
    @kalosmobilegames9478 2 года назад +6

    God damn the tony hawk game in the back ground made me wanna have a sezer

    • @justanannepfp9814
      @justanannepfp9814 2 года назад +1

      you're just nauseous of diva's sick skills 💥

    • @kalosmobilegames9478
      @kalosmobilegames9478 2 года назад

      It the beginning of the video it was glitched out on the bridge and was just shaking

    • @nicdaman4002
      @nicdaman4002 2 года назад

      Yeah, I think different backround content (like fortnight in some videos) would improve the overall quality

    • @John6-40
      @John6-40 2 года назад

      I enjoy the random gameplay footage. If this made you feel that repulsed, you may want to see a Dr. 🤷‍♂️

  • @darkwarriormaster9644
    @darkwarriormaster9644 7 месяцев назад +1

    Story 3: So the husband can dish it out, but he can't take it.

  • @wordforger
    @wordforger 2 года назад +1

    That second story... Dude should have backed off moment she said no. PERIOD. OP should go to HR with his texts and messages.

  • @TheOrignalTRockz
    @TheOrignalTRockz 7 месяцев назад +1

    Story 3: ​​⁠ the third story just revealed how much of an immature and misogynist a**hole that husband was. Her answer was straight up brilliant and to the point, exactly what he needed to hear to understand and learn to never to anything like that again ever with a partner. Period.
    No sympathy whatsoever for entitled jerks.
    There is no room for a big ego walking over her and expecting her to swallow his sh*t and smile along.
    He apparently did not care how SHE felt, so it’s necessary to mirror that behave and let that jerk taste his own medicine. Period.

  • @helloiamseb
    @helloiamseb 2 года назад +1

    13:46: Was that a roast? If that was, that was good.

  • @hikari5964
    @hikari5964 2 года назад

    "Small objects are a choking hazard to her." That was savage 😂😂😂

  • @WolfiSamu123
    @WolfiSamu123 2 года назад

    I like the way you read the storys out
    (I'm German) and with these interesting storys I also practice understanding english

  • @LattePunch
    @LattePunch Год назад +2

    Story 2: I hate that mindset of someone "playing hard to get". A no is a no man. Even if she was lying about being with someone else the only sign that should be to you is that she's uncomfortable and wants you to back off.

  • @FearArt
    @FearArt 2 года назад +2

    This was a good live stream

  • @aleksandarvil5718
    @aleksandarvil5718 Год назад +1

    Story 1; 2 : OP's _sister_ = *thinking like romance novel & rom-com* mindset

  • @sherriv4860
    @sherriv4860 2 года назад +2

    This is weird. Your sister and your family ambushed you. Stay away from them. They do not know boundaries.

    • @alphonsejohnson5601
      @alphonsejohnson5601 2 года назад

      Yes, maybe try to reconnect with them one day in the future WHEN YOU feel comfortable ( if not, that's fine).

  • @anonymous9397
    @anonymous9397 2 года назад +3

    I swear to God yesterday they had 211k and now it's 215k

  • @zai5253
    @zai5253 2 года назад

    This could be the basis of a psychological thriller

  • @thunderpants3500
    @thunderpants3500 Год назад

    First story, THAT'S WHEN YOU GO NO CONTACT! 100%!

  • @ItzAprilLOL
    @ItzAprilLOL 2 года назад

    I had someone not believe I was married, even when I was wearing a ring.

  • @Blizardstar1200
    @Blizardstar1200 Год назад +1

    Story 3 I think OP could’ve laughed and treated what her husband said as a joke, but it was a bit harsh to say what she did after. I think that couple needs some couples counseling on both sides cause there’s something going on there that neither of them seem to think up.

  • @Larchkty0324
    @Larchkty0324 Год назад +1

    In the last sorry it sounded more like he was putting her down in order to make himself seem like the man of the house. She could have talked to him about it later but it's unlikely that he would have corrected the misunderstanding and he could have, just as easily, talked to her about it before he decided to introduce her that way. He's an ah for what he tried to do. However, she didn't need to say he doesn't help out. She could have corrected the misunderstood without making him look lazy and then talked about it with him in private.

  • @thebumblebeemovie3514
    @thebumblebeemovie3514 2 года назад

    Omg small objects are a choking hazard for her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Now that is how you be insulting and say “this is taken” at the same time 😂

  • @MrHildebrand
    @MrHildebrand 2 года назад +1

    That awkward moment when youtube recommends a random video to you and the narrator is someone you're subscribed too

    • @MrHildebrand
      @MrHildebrand 2 года назад

      @@armamentarmedarm1699 I was thinking more along the lines of ohnickel

    • @MrHildebrand
      @MrHildebrand 2 года назад

      @@AmItheJerk HAHA I thought that voice sounded familiar, even Key was flabbergasted by it. I've been doing great, it's good to see you're still active in the community! I've been playing a lot and I mean 400 hours a lot of Path Finder wrath of the righteous the past few months. Great stuff. Awesome that you're still making content, I wish you the best man!

  • @TheBalisongBear
    @TheBalisongBear 10 месяцев назад

    In response to story 1, my ex cheated on me and dumped me before the wedding. My younger brother, who was like 7 and loved my ex, asked me, in front of my new girlfriend (now wife) when I was getting back with the other girl.
    My mom (who didn't even know that she cheated) jumped in before I could say a word.
    "He didn't choose to remove her from our lives, she decided that she didn't want to be around us anymore."
    My younger brother, (just a little kid, remember) never mentioned her again.
    That's what a healthy family looks like, folks. No toxicity. No bad mouthing of anyone involved. Just laying out the facts in a loving way and in terms that can be well understood, and then accepting them.
    My 7 year old brother was more mature than most of the women in these stories.

  • @Tatkitten
    @Tatkitten 2 года назад +1

    I can’t say this is exactly why but for some sisters, the idea of “oh how cute. We’re dating brothers” or “were pregnant at the same time” comes off as magical and very movie esk. I’m saying this because that’s how my sister was when she was pregnant for the first time and I was having my first. She kept going on and going about how funny it was and how we’d do all these things together, ignoring the fact that I had told her long ago during her first pregnancy that it was the last thing I wanted. This was because during her first pregnancy she was utter hell on wheels to be around and used the excuse of emotions or baby to pull stupid shit (namely “winning” discussions she was losing). What annoyed me the most was that she complained about me not being supportive of her when 1) hers was a natural pregnancy and I had to have medical help for mine, 2) she would ditch her oldest on me or my mom because she was pregnant, and 3) her first pregnancy she had bitched endlessly about her own sil doing exactly what she was doing to me. And while I know I don’t have any right to say when she can or can’t get pregnant, she was hell to be around during it because she needed to be center or attention 24 7 and use me as a prop for it with the whole “pregnant sisters” thing.
    Now a days I don’t talk with her unless I have too because the woman stresses me out with her bs nearly 90% of the time.

  • @henryjensen2849
    @henryjensen2849 2 года назад +3

    Deep emotional stories with a background of dVA skateboarding in Luigi town nice good vid tho

  • @Jojo-cd9qv
    @Jojo-cd9qv 2 года назад +1

    bruh the roast though

  • @rebekahjohnson9839
    @rebekahjohnson9839 2 года назад +1

    I think Op mom and sister Should Think what they did and the ex boyfriend should back off and Op code worker should just leave Op alone. If she married the code worker should stop trying get with Op.

  • @boomonther
    @boomonther Год назад +1

    As someone who’s still not on speaking terms with a sibling for various reasons(not as crazy as what’s in the story) I’m surprised that they didn’t just drive away when they saw sisters car at the “tea party”

  • @fireeeeyisgone
    @fireeeeyisgone 2 года назад +3

    i love these videos so much, sadly i cant watch every single one because of school :(

    • @fireeeeyisgone
      @fireeeeyisgone 2 года назад +2

      @@AmItheJerk nice, i sure will do that while studying!

  • @zerothehero555
    @zerothehero555 2 года назад +1

    me:just listening to the story while doing some homework and i thought it was about to end
    narrator:so thats where everything started
    me:how does this even get worse....

  • @clankerb-3123
    @clankerb-3123 2 года назад +2

    In Story 2 he said she didn't tell him she was married yet she did and he just called her a liar and kept going

  • @emyywolf
    @emyywolf 2 года назад

    Wow this sounds like a mess. A simple restraining order on the EX would have fixed it.

  • @artuitous
    @artuitous Год назад +1

    Second story: I would have just blocked him as soon as he started that shit. Whether or not I was in a relationship at all. No one wants to see that as soon as he tried to show it.

  • @kussd18
    @kussd18 2 года назад

    man the guys in these stories...just wtf. As a fellow man I'm disgusted. Story 2 dude should be arrested, 1 needs some serious help right along with the sister, and 3 needs to get over himself. They all deserve to be humiliated and shunned.

  • @susanrand512
    @susanrand512 Год назад +1

    Story#1- about crazy sister, how has nobody realized the sister is MENTALLY ILL and needs immediate help. Whomever is supporting your sister cut them off and don't look back. You are not the jerk.