How to convince parents for inter caste inter religion love marriage | smile with prachi
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- How to convince parents for inter caste inter religion love marriage
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Disclaimer: This is not professional advice, please take this series lightly. Treat my opinions as something coming from your friend. For those suffering from depression and mental health issues I would seriously recommend going to a professional.
I hope next generation kids will not get this intercaste marriage problem 👍
Y next generation our generation also supports kuch log h 2 kode ki soch vale unhe koi ni smjhaa skta
Absolutely rytt
@@missrawat9380 yeah.. parents hm rahenge that's why 😂
@@basha9237 yeahh..u r right but bhut km h jo smjhte h😓😓
This is the problem which never disappear because of the 4 fucking ppls, our parents thought of everytime
Honestly, I love the anger and passion in you to speak out against meaningless conservative ideas. It gives me strength. We need people like you in our society♥️
When I told my parents that I want marry a Muslim guy, they checked his background and everything then agreed to marry him . I'm blessed with an open minded and beautiful family ❤️❤️❤️
Ohh great🥰
2 years wait kro.. Love jehaaad hoga tumhari ghapa ghap kar wo burkhe me daal dega
@@rheakaurkhokher8320 great nhi love jehaad hoga
@@pankajpandey2408Bro all Muslims are not wrong...and if someone's parents doesn't have problem whether their daughter gets married to Muslim or any other caste..We are no one to judge
Lucky uh
I've convinced my parents to marry hindu firstly they got angry later everything was agreed ❤🥰
Congrats :)
Good to know
@@floridasingh6101 well everything goes with moral values of ur fiancee is he stable to take care of you,better responsible then everything goes satisfaction to ur parents mind that's it dear.
@@SmileWithPrachi thanks
Wow dude
Best Part 08:38
Be Financial Independent
Stand your Ground
Don't bend for Emotional Blackmail
Fight for the Person you Love
I did everything 😢😢
@@iamdeepakbhandari In that case you need some professional advice.
Check out more videos
Hope you find Answers
@Achagoni Dinesh Goud
I'm writing down few examples which I believe can be Useful for you
* Few years back I used to have a Girlfriend who happen to be a Hindu. After being together for a very long time she was left with three conditions by her Parents 1) Leave the Boy and Marry the Person of our Choice 2) Choose the Boy and be the reason for their Suicide 3) Convert him and then Marry.
* I still remember the Day, On March 6th 2016 she said " I talked to my Parents about us and they placed three conditions infront of me(Conditions that I stated Before), I can't be with a Man other than you, I can't choose you over my Parents and I can't ask you to Convert as it was not the right thing to do in Love. Hope you will Remember me and Cherish our memories". I was shocked hearing those word from her as I was unaware of that Conversation. Then I tried to Hug and asked her to look into my eyes in order to cool her down. She pushed me away and said "Your warmth even for a second can make me to choose you over anything and that's the reason I'm not even looking straight into your Eyes. I miss You ever Second of my Life till my Breath Lasts" and left from there.
* Those are the last words she ever spoke to me and that the last time I ever seen Her.
* I brushed this story to make my point that we are not always meant to be together, even a single day with them worth a life time.
* We can't control everything but we need to fight what we believe and the rest leave on God.
* Love is important as so as Parents we can't be Happy breaking their Hearts.
* The decision she made on that day made me to Love her more and I Cherished her in each and every memory of her.
* For Love just two people are enough but for marriage two families need to come forward keeping aside there customs and beliefs. That is some serious issue we are taking about which can happens in High Profile Societies like it doesn't matters. But for people like us every family becomes orthodox when they deal with Marriage.
* All I can say is it depends on the couple and how much fight they put to be together.
* And I cannot support running away and getting married as I have seen few of my friends doing that which doesn't End well.
* Hope you find your answer if not write once to Prachi Di.
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Like you...i am loving one muslim since 5 years..and iam hindu girl..we love so much..but our parents will not allow me to marry an muslim..we fight daily related this topic..and i get angry every single day related this to my bf...i dont know what to do??
@@umaprabakar8533
used to have a thought which needed to be executed if anything goes side ways but never got a chance
just go with the reply " I Love Him and I can't be with anyone other than him. It will be better if I stay Single for my entire Life instead of marrying someone other than him."
It will take Years but eventually worked for most People. Note, your partner should be equally cooperative and supportive.
Hope this Helps ✌🏼
{Disclaimer: This is not a professional Advice}
I wish I had a sister like you..
Here my sister is the game changer, she is objecting my marriage proposal..
Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏
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Any luck on your side?
your sister is nagin, purane karmo ka badla le rahi he
65 k views that means ....65 k love stories are in trouble
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Savage comment😅
True..
I'm a Christian girl who's deeply in love with a Muslim guy...
Idk what's gonna happen to us
Not really. Im just curious lol
@@Icerosegaming everything is happen for a reason dude ! Gbu
I wish you were my mother so that i could share everything😭
Same 😥😥
Sry to say but , if u compare ur mother with someone else than ur idiot . If something wrong happens then this video aunt will not come , there is ur own mother to stand first....
@@arbhai9839 thankyou for ur criticism
@@arbhai9839 hi brainless
Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏
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Finally my parents are agreed for intercast marriage after long time of struggle....
Kese manaya plss tell pls pls
@@mansisingh2527Kisi aur se shadi krne ke liye mana kiya had time....unko time Diya aur samzaya..Sabse jaruri chiz....sab kuch thik ho jata he...bs apko koshish karni chahiye and patience rkhne chahiye...try to convince them...and work hard for it
@@heythere3163Don't loose hopes..try more to convince or tell ur any other relative to help u for convincing them.
congrants dude....i hope my parents accepted this thing :(
lucky you
Her children are goin to be so lucky
Ikr
Rlly vvvvv much
Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏
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Well, Also Mostly Every Kid Of The Next Generation 💯
MERI BHI INTERCAST LOVE MARRIAGE HUI HAI MERE BHI FAMILY WALE PAHALE SHADI KE LIYE NHI MAAN RAHE THE..
INTERCAST HONE KI WAJAH SE MAIN BAHUT JYADA PARESHAN THI FIR MERI FRIEND NE MUJHE TANTRIK BABAJI KA WHATSAPP NUMBER DIYA AUR Main SAMPARK KARNE KE BAD AB MERI FAMILY WALE BHI SAB MAAN GAYE THE LOVE MARRIAGE KE LIYE MERI LOVE MARRIAGE KO 4 MAHINE SE ZADA TIME HO GAYA HAI..I M SO 😊 HAPPY OR SAB SE BADA THANKS M UN BABA JI KO DENA CHAHUNGI JINHONE MERE PAYAAR SE MERI SHADI KRWAI KISI KI BHI KOI BHI PROBLEM HAI TO MAIN AAPKI HELP KARNA CHAHUNGI AAPKO BABA JI KA WHATSAPP NUMBER DETI HUN 99902-85374 AAP BABA JI SE CONTACT KAR SAKTE HO YAH MERI REAL KAHANI HAI KOI JHOOTH NAHIN HAI...
I am 25 and he is 34 ...his mom just rejected me and we are In love for past 4 years...and here I am watching this
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Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏
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Thanks ! A beautiful video indeed. I am now married for 2 years to my long-time boyfriend of 10 years. I have faced all the situations mentioned in this video and I faced them exactly as Prachi thought of :) Really happy to have made such a decision. Enjoy almost every day of my life now. Be Independent first girls and then try and convince your parents. Also, don't budge from your decision and keep true to the person you really love. Parents will eventually come around !!
TrickyLoveProduction ur parents also agreed ah??
i am happy for you😊 stay blessed❤️
plzzz rply and tell me that does the love remain same after so much time.❤️plz rply asap
Thank you i was going to listen my parents voice instead of choosing my love .
How many days u taken to convince your parents
some parents are even ready to kill their own children 😞 what to do in those cases
it's unbelievable that there are such parents, if they gives more priority to their pride than their childrens' life then there is no option other than running far away from them so that they can find them never and ever
killing someone is crime bt du u support ur 18yrs daughter wants marry to unsettled guy ? evn law doesn't care about parents point,last week a girl killed her mother in hyd
@@rajeshpapani Yes rajesh, it is very unfortunate that such thing has happened every single person in the society blames her for what she did and even she will not get a peace of mind for doing the same.But if parents kill children there are some people who supports the same. And my suggestion is not for the couple who did not get settled financially.
They should run in another country.
@@rajeshpapani Parents should check only the background, character and job of the boy, not caste or religion.. If the boy is not settled and dont have a primary income, give him time...
It would have been great if you (in this video) or subsequent parts, covered, "How to deal with inter-caste/inter-religion conversations?". There are a few challenges over and above a vanilla love-marriage that you talk about in this monologue. Never the less, very strong and valid points, appreciate your honest work here.
I'm not kidding this works! So, one of my family friends, they're three siblings. And the younger one is a girl who was in love with a guy from a lower caste. And she's been convincing her parents from the past three years, but they weren't showing any interest. She left home with the guy yesterday and now! For a wonder her parents are asking them to come back and they'll get them married in a legal way. This ancestral way of choosing your partner on the terms of caste and religion should be slowly taken off. Another three four generations to come, the world should be a better place to live in. Cheers to whoever is seeing the video, during the lockdown 🍻
I think in next generation it will be normal. I think most of the people of our age themselves do not care about these things and will teach same to their kids.
@Achagoni Dinesh Goud very true.. I know a brahmin girl who fell in the trap. This issue has to taken care of.
@@sheebasolomon Many times they change names 😐😑😬
@@sheebasolomon shadi ho gyi kya unki ab...? Jo ghr se bhag gyi thi....Ya honour killing ho gyi
Just before i listened to ur video i followed few of the same points which u mentioned here that's the reason I'm adding this comment here.Thankf for your wonderful n helpful video!!!!!!!
I told my mother about my Love,we both are financially independent and secured with good income also our families have known each other for more than 30 years.
Here comes the problem with caste.... both of my parents stopped talking to me even without listening to me completely and about us.
My mom tried emotional blackmailing but I stood by myside saying until u agree for our marriage i will stay single till may be I'm 40.
My elder sister have also had love marriage that's the main reason they are focring me to marry someone from our own community to stop relatives gossiping about our family.
I don't bother much about relatives n society's opinions becoz they change with our status.
Me and my boyfriend want to pursue higher studies and live a well settled n happiest life to make both of our parents very happy and make them feel that they are very fortunate to have us as their children.
My boyfriend's parents agreed n indeed they are way too happier to welcome me into to their family having known abour me n my family without even bothering about castes. They just love me because of my simplicity n nature.
I'm not sure how long will it take my parents to convince for us......
Would try to follow all your steps to convince my parents amd try for better explanation.
Make yourself strong mentally and emotionally. There will come a time when you will realize that your parents are only doing this because of their own fears and that is nothing to do with you. That it is their responsibility to deal with their fears, not yours.
Refuse to marry someone else when the time comes. You will have to patient as it may take time. You will also have to recognize emotional blackmail and avoid it from disturbing you. For that you have to focus on your career as well as strengthening your relationship right now. Only when these factors are in place will you be at least eligible to marry, let alone convince your parents.
You can also use lines like these.
"I thought you always wanted to see me happy. Are you sure that i will be happy with the one you choose for me?"
" My partner is the only person in my life that i have the chance to choose. Please let me make that choice with your love and blessings"
" I will always support you and will not leave at any cost since you are important to me, but my significant other is important to me too. Don't force me to make a choice between the people i love."
"I am not asking for your approval on my partner, only your support to let me be with her."
"Will that society come to save me if i am unhappy in my marriage?"
"Since you won't agree for divorce if i am unhappy, why don't you let me marry the one i love in the first place? "
There are many more lines which you can make up but it all boils down to the fact that making a choice of partner is your right. Don't give it away at any cost, not even for the people you love the most in this world. If they truly love you, they will support you, no matter what.
have they been convinced by now?
Hi what's the update
Bro pls give update...kya rha tumhara
actually, I am 19 years old all your points were valid and it's true. true love never dies
Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you......🙏🙏
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After 25 u will say true love never exist😁😁..This happens as u grow more n matured even more.. you understand love is not only enough to sustain a good relationship..It only contributes 1% of relationship. Important thing is behaviour , respect, compatibility, mental understanding of person with u and etc..This all will matter more other than love to have cordial relationship
Padhai kar bro 🙃
You have beautifully described the current complications in getting married that couples faced today and also figured out solutions for them.......Thank you so much Ma'am...Great you are 👌
Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you......🙏🙏
friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp
Our Supreme court have said.... if we want to remove castism and all there should be inter caste marriage
Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏
friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp...
Br Ambedkar had said that
I feel like doing suicide 😭😭😭😭😭
@@kshemendragourav3746 I'm a brahmin and even I hate caste system, all my family members are of the same opinion, but I will never compromise on religion, I'm proud of my religion, I'm a proud sanatani
@@coolguy-zm7tn sanatani dharm says vasudhev kutumbakam, hinduism is way different than other religious where you are free to chose your way of life, your way of worshipping God.
I am that 25 years girl which u told in video .. still my family does not agree in love marriage. . recently I lost my father just 2 months back and every one is forcing me to get married in a typical arranged marriage procedure. No one cares about what I want... only reputation matters 😢
Hoping ur reply on this prachi
Why do u care lol
Only your mothers opinion counts
Society should understand the difference between arranged marriage and forced marriage......Hope you choose wisely.
@@rheakaurkhokher8320 exactly, u can choose the best suitor in the arranged marriage custom as well, be discerning and circumspect, that's it, don't be flrced to choose one
Reading your comment after 3 years. what's your situation rn? did you get arranged or you stood up for yourself?
It's your life.they just force ypu and leave ypu. So its in your hand to marry@@user-vb6zf1om5t
I eloped with my wife and even after that our parents were into caste bullshit and didn't give a simple marriage reception. We tried to convince them for 4 years after our court marriage but eventually gave up hope. Now, they just want to behave as if everything is normal without even saying sorry for harassing us for 4 years. They are still abusive though. To make things worst, they have said all sorts of lies to their society and relatives. My parents blame my wife parents and her parents blame my parents for not agreeing to a marriage reception. We have now cut all relationships with any and everybody from our relatives to parents. Now, life is simple and happy. We have come to realize that our parents are limited but most of all narcissists and extremely toxic. "When the roots of a tree starts to rot, you need to cut the tree and re-plant it in a different location." Same is the thing with human beings.
Sorry to know you had to go through so much. This whole caste issue is really just so pointless!
Good that you stood up for yourselves though, marrying the one you love is very important.
@@SmileWithPrachi I love my religion, but hate caste system 😭😭😭
The most common problem occurs in same age relationship that both the partners remain financially weak. But in our country the girl's parents are not ready to wait for the boy to get a job. They think their daughter's life is destroying because they think that they will not find suitable groom later. What to do in this situation??
💯 correct 😢
My family will not have this problem.
Because my parents themselves did intercaste martiage back in the 80s. It was arrange marriage.😂😂😂
I am lucky in this case.😁😁😁
Intercaste arranged marriage 😯😯
Super luckyyyyy
The main issue is of the EGO.
no the main issue is this shitty society
"society m kha muhh dekhaiynge
4 loog kya bolnge" never got who they 4 people's are🤣
@Ex- Muslim Sanatani dude i m not interested in changing society because i knw kch nhi ho skta n jaha tak baat rha badalne ka it starts within you only phle khud badlo fir desh baega
@@khushbupurbey9919 Exactly!!!
@@khushbupurbey9919 I have said this already but reiterating, I hate caste system but love my religion, no compromise on that, I don't want hindu women to bear kids for a muslim family, who or someone in his next generation could become a terrorist and kill our people totally forgetting about his heritage
@@khushbupurbey9919 the son of raja ganesh founded khilji dynasty he killed, tortured, raped, a lot of hindus and converted many of them to islam
What if parents threatens to kill themselves if their children not agreeing to marry the person of their choice?@ prachi
Please suggest
@@spoorthivaidya8843 that's a criminal offence so be brave and don't show mercy on that person who threatened ur life
It happened in my family..my sister has been forced to get married a guy of their choice , they didn't accepted her bf bcz of his caste only. My sister n her bf they both were financially settled n independent, still my parents didn't agreed. They threatened my sister that they will die if she will do anything like this. N now has to marry the guy of their choice😒 everybody's happy except my dii.
@@pragatipal1019 your di should not listen to your parents at any circumstances in the first place.. you dont have to care for those who dont accept the fact that their children are individual human being...not their personal property...she should run away... anyways you dont fall into that same trap..all the best
@@piyali444 thanks for your reply
All it needs for parents is just to have a few minutes of emotional and blackmailing conversation with their child. They feel proud that they have given them the best advice one could ever get. And be happy and satisfied for seeing their son/daughter live the life they want and not how their child wants to.
14 15 Age Children Are Asking Questions About Getting Married 😂😂😂😂
Hey praise the lord 🙏 but love can happen anytime.. we can't help
I Totally Agree With The Love Part, But Here We Are Talking About Getting Married
@@rebeccatutorials9774 this is not love, this is just atrraction ok.. Focus on study
@@pankajpandey2408 Lol
@@fitnesscuratortoday7909 ghapa ghap
I'm a hindu girl. I'm in relationship with a muslim guy for the past 2 years. From the beginning itself there were so many problems from his family. They disagree to accept our relationship. Even my family is also against this relation. But we need our parents to agree and then want to get married. I don't know what to do. Somebody please help. I'm 24 years old. Somebody please help. I'm going through a very bad mental situation. I'm mentally down. Not able to do anything in the fear of losing him. How can we convince both the families? Somebody please give me a solution. We don't want to lose each other. Please be kind enough to give a solution. Thankyou 😭😭❤
I can just pray for u 🙂.... Hope u guz get marry in future 💐💐
@@zohebansari6429 tnku so much🥺❤
@Exmuslim Sahil😊 we want our family to agree our relationship. Not doing any eloping or register marriage
@Exmuslim Sahil😊 no I'm not using any.
@@anushabalakrishnan839 ignore that b*llshit man... He is literally in every comment section xD telling everyone same
I paused the video in between for suddenly I realized I'm not even thinking about these positive things(bf and marriage) and I'm 22 🤐. I'm leading a completely unhappy life, and just diagnosed from depression caused of failurea
May Lord Mahadev bless u my good wishes are with u soon u will witness good and happy days
@@daddatyagi3255 thank you so much ❣️ har har Mahadev
My message to girls. Pls look into the boys habit before marrying him. You dont want to leave ur parents for an alcoholic guy
Habit can be changed but what about the shitty thinking .
Stupid
@@nikitamaggie6789 well said 💓
That's kinda sexist. Why are you saying it only to girls.
I'm having similar cases, I will come and tell when it progress and positive, Thanks for sharing this , I will fight for it and make it.
What happened? Please update
Much needed. I still have 2 years to go. We have been dating since school and for about 6 years now. His parents are cool about it. My family has got issues because recently another cousin of mine ran away and got married due to which the family wont accept love marriages. I just hope for the best.
Sister ...... Your Cousin Did Intercaste Marriage or Inter Religion Marriage ??
@@vishalbajantri8401 Among hindus she is among the low caste. So I dont know what to call it.
@@theerthap2711 ..... I Mean The Boy Belongs to Hinduism Or Other Religion ??
@@vishalbajantri8401 Yeahh my brother is hindu and even she is. But among hindus we have different types so thats the issue
@@theerthap2711 ...... I Am Proud Of Hinduism ... I Want to Live And Die As A Hindu .... But Sometimes Because Of This Strict Caste System In Hinduism .... I Feel Disappointed.... Now Its Time To Eradicate This Evil Caste System
I really like how you explain things here from the parents' perspective. Eye opening!
I am doing power play right now 😀 I am completely independent, living in different city and taking my all decision..
Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.......🙏🙏
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Congrats to all the lucky people. All the best to those who still fighting. Wish this religion and caste thing were never here.
Will share my succes story after I convince my parents
that's the spirit
Allllllllllllllllllllll the best dear😀
All the best
God should help u 😊.....
All the best 😊
Y different religions y different caste y don't make everyone equal
Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏
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I am really frustrated because of my parents . They don’t even listen
Same situation 😣
😭😭😭
Even if your parents listen and both got married walking around your city ppl gonna question who is this guy or girl 🥵🥵🥵
She is his wife. He is her husband@@Travelwithkugan
There is huge difference between love and attraction
No attraction can lasts for 2years
We, get into a relationship only after thinking about the future problems that will likely arise. And how both parents of the person will react to it, once they know about it. But we are getting into a relationship, promising each other that we will do everything we can to make the parents understand and accept us wholeheartedly. But once the situation really hits it, the love would thrive only when the efforts are double-sided. That is what I'm going through rn. All it took was just a 2-hour emotional talk with her dad, to make her throw me away from my life abruptly, even though I loved her with all I had. Promises are trusts are never true.
I agree girl should be independent before marriage I am 18 but my partner is 24 and his family wants him to get married as soon as possible
gonna send this to mom when i will want to get married.. Thanks a lot ma'am
You won my heart. Very rationally explained.
Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you...🙏🙏
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My marriage is my grandmother's last wish when she was on deathbed. She wanted me to get married to my cousin... I had always called him brother since my young age. Now my family wants me to get married to him. He is 5 years older than me and he actually wants to get married to me!!! I have told him several thousand times that I don't want to live with him and yet he has not taken any actions.
I gathered courage and I told to my uncle and from whom my whole family got to know that I don't want to get married and now they are planning to do emotional blackmail.
I really don't know what I should do now and my grandfather wants to secure his life at the cost of mine. He is a person with no vision and do not want to get married to him.
Try to convince your mother or your father first, whoever you are closer to and you feel will support you when you tell them your reasons why you can't marry your cousin. If this doesn't work out give the boy reasons why your marriage will not work , tell him that not only you but he will be miserable too. Ask him if he wants to be miserable in his life and if he thinks that he doesn't deserve happiness with someone he loves and who in turn truly loves him back. This will if not fully convince him then at least he will have some doubts. You can also introduce this doubt in any of your family members ( who is old fashioned or not that educated) or better yet your cousin's parents that even if yourll end up marrying your baby may not be healthy because yourll are cousins (this can be true if he is your first cousin) and even if he is your second cousin you can just get them thinking. I don't think that your cousin's parents will be comfortable with the idea that their future grandchild may suffer from health complications. And if nothing works out if you are independent then rent an apartment in another city or state and tell your parents and family that you will have nothing to do with them unless they drop the idea that you get married to your cousin .Don't even talk to them unless they agree with you . Just try to analyse your situation and do what is best for you . But do not get married to your cousin just because of pressure from your Family. You can also write to Prachi Di and see what she tells you to do .
@@pinkz1135 by
@@poojapadmakumar8006 wat?
Cousin marrage is forbidden in Hindus ?
Isn't Cousin marriage forbidden in Hinduism?
Thankyou so much its really helpful to me at this point as i am also going though the same situation.I want everything to be solved respectfully, because at the end of the day they are our parents they always want us to stay happy. Love always finds its way if you have the right guidance and patience.Just believe on each other and work for it what it requires. As we all are here to be loved and to give love to each other.
All this is good. Im pretty sure countless couples used this video to try convincing their parents. In the end it doesn't matter uk. When orthodox parents shut their minds off, there is no chance for reasoning, practicality.
Even I am facing this problem.. We are seen each other since 7yrs nd it's long distance relationship too.. Hope I can convince my parents.. Every time I think for each problem there will be a solution nd we must found that nd should fight for that..i need God blessings. Nd really I like this video content which helps me alot though
Did you convince your parents ???
Yes I have a success story
M watching this vedio today but I have done all these things before for 4 years to convince ( I waited for 4 years to take yes of my parents) my parents for the boy I loved and finally we are angaged
I was stubborn and showed my parents that I ll not marry anyone else and also I ll wait for your yes and it worked finally
But also before taking yes I have proved myself before my parents N also relatives by getting financially independent girl
And financially independent does not mean 10-20 thousand salary it means more than that u have to be fianancially independent that much from which u can make ur life better with better lifestyle.
It's works a lot to convince as world bows down in front of money this days.
I hope atleast some parents change by seeing this video 🙏🏿 very well explained Prachi🙏🏿
The only thing I learnt from u is mindfulness and proper cunningness to do good. ❤️
Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏
friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp..
New videos starting tomorrow. 11 am
That made my day❤
yay ! ❤
I would have loved to share with video with my parents.... But i wish the title was slightly different, like " why nothing is wrong with inter religion marriages" or " how inter religion marriages can make the world a better place.
Can't share it with this particular title.🙈
But this is obviously your video,and probably you won't even read this, but wanted to tell you,.. You have some very genuine points... Thank you for sharing them.
Omg! I am.a teen and idk how but this same question at 6:40, was popping in my mind since yesterday and i was kind of thinking the same thing and luckily here today i found this video for the first time ...and she is sharing the exact same question...with the best solution...Thank you so much like I think this is a fate thing that i came across this video💯🙏🙏 ..She is so understanding and good speaker👏👏♥️♥️
Kuch jgh parents glt hote h kuch jgh p bche bhi galat hote h...meri friend sbke khilaf jake inter religion marriage ki...use sasural m har time force kiya gya religion change k liye..name k liye..Mathe p ak bar usme tika lga diya to uski sas or uske pati n 4 din khana ni diya..ma bap isi cheej se darte h ki jha cheeje had se jyada alg ho vha adjust krna bilkul bhi easy ni hota..or jo pati bde bde promises krke leke jate h 4-6 month m unki reality dikhne lgti h..plz hr parents ko glt mt thahrao yr..aajkl 15-16 ki age m school khtm hota ni bche life partner choose kr lete h..agr ap dono mature ho ...dono apne pero p khde ho to hi koi fesla lo plz🙏🙏 ni to jin parents ko glt bta k jate ho n..ro k unke pas hi aate ho
That guy was muslim right?
I support intercaste interfaith religion except islam because of personal law board of muslim because polygamy is allowed in islam .and halala and if a girl from other faith does not convert in islam marriage is consider null .i know some uggradation has happened in muslim personal law board like triple talaq but until uniform civil court is not allowed no boys or girls should Marry muslim because it may harm you
It's cover almost all issues of intercast marriage.. I am in between somewhere.. Trying to settle down and struggling to get married from other caste..
That's true
God bless
@@Serene1999 not now😑
I lost my love due to this caste problem. We were in 10 year of relationship😭😭
So sad
You must have fought more
You need to do everything for love
I pray noone go through with this condition
U are the one who chose to marry some one. U are the problem
The thing is that most of the love marriage or relationship case only end up at deceives or reparable to that.. That's why most of the parents are scared of it and yeah all of them are scared that what will community says. Sometimes youths give up on their relationship just bcs of their families sake 🙁 that's the thing we're just kids to our parents and nowadays most of the relationships have no future even arranged also... It can only be solved by giving it time knowing yr partner, children completely why tf this only happens in India.. I'll tell my story.. I know my parents very well. If I want to marry a person who is general and hindu there's no problem and if he has a great character and trustworthy.. 2 - if I want to marry a Muslim then it will create a lot of issue bcs the society, the differences between the religion and all that stuff... So it's impossible.. In deep in their heart they can let me to marry him but same problems arises.. Baat aa jaati hh logo k taunts pe and that's what y'all never got up in a relationship.. Mere parents ne mere liye bhoooottt kuch kiya hh our love is pure but I'll never begin.. I know my parents will at some point allow me but....
And yeah kya ptaa tb tk jb tk time aayega shadi ka toh society aur forward ho jaaye shayad or maybe god can help... Hope my comment doesn't sounds sheepish ..and yeah I respect every gender and religion..
A big reason why love marriage fail is that partners don't have family support. Family plays an important role in solving problems and keeping the relationship healthy.
I don't mind inter caste marriage but I have a problem with muslim marriage, maybe the person u marry is very good and understanding, but what about the progeny, no guarantee that rationale parents will give birth to rationale kids, saif ali khans grandmother,mother, wife are hindu, but son taimur ali khan, he may think tomorrow he's very fair, and that closely related to taimuraid dynasty, conveniently ignoring the hindu heritage, jalaluddin khilji the founder of khilji dynasty who raped, tortured hindus was son of raja ganesh. We don't want hindu women to bear the kid's who would tomorrow end our lineage, and become a terrorist, we don't want hindu women to part our genes, our rich culture to our enemies
It is this idea, from where the whole love jihad narrative is born out of, moreover, women are very centric to pur culture and religion, without women, our religions have no real meaning or fun, u add life to our festivals, those gracious jewelry, ostentatious sarees with world class embroidery adds a whole lot of vibe to our culture and festival, we don't want to loose u. We don't u to go and hide urself in a burqa
hey Prachi you forgot to add the link of the Hindi version of this video :)
Love you Di
Phele vdo dekhi n channel subscribe kr diya andar se bhut strong feeling aai ki aapki baatei kahi na kahi help kar skti h
Upar wala aapko Khush rakhe ❤️
I'm not that much old or have a job
But i have a love
We are in different religions
She says she loves me a lot
And wait for me how ever long it takes
And i love her tooo much
(This video is inspiring me really deeply)
What religion
Im unable to comvince because my parents start to behave in a way which gets them health issues
Its so frustrating
Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏
friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp
Yes exactly..
MUMMY BOLTI HAIN KYA TMHE AISA MAT KAHO PAPA HEART PATIENT HAIN ETC.
Same here ,my bf s mother , saying that if he will marry with me , then she will commit suicide ☹️☹️ I don't know ,,is really iam bad
@@palluchavhan703 its not like u r bad
But there are many other factors affecting a decision
I dont know about love or how much it matters to you
But there are issues which u would know when u become a parent
Things are not as straight as they seem to you
Religion is something which supersedes nationality
It might be u who thinks other way but not everyone is going to think the way u do
And caste is a dominant factor and those who challenges it
Upcoming generations have to face the consequences of the decisions taken now
The world is not going to be saint
Devils are always at work and they are better than the rest of the people.
U have to convince them what u can offer to make them quiet
A deal which would never challenge their superiority.
And u live ur life but never try to gang up
Because if others would do the same
Then the troubles will always increase for people like u and those who are connected to people like u
So instead of beginning or joining a movement
Just opt for a simple and quiet marriage and live ur life as usual
The times have changed and majority may strike every blow to shatter ur core
Any threat to hierarchy would invite many problems in which whole life will be passed in solving them.
I wish you were my mom or dad😔💔😭😭
I am watching this in lockdown... there is no issue of convencing my parents bcz i dont hv a bf 😁😀 so i dont understand y i watched this full video....but loved ur example of 25 and 28 years old lady one is independent other one is dependent....i would like to b 25 year old lady.😊
Same here :)
Dii I'm in love n I don't know how I will deal everything, but before saying yes.. I said everything to my mom coz I felt comfortable to share but that was my bad decision I guess, Maine socha at least baat ko samjhegi badlemain dhamki mili ki mujhe hi marrdalenge or ham brahman hai n his is marathi guys, but Maine nai chooda sath unka n voh bht achehai..this means pyar krna parents k according gunahh hai, kiya toh they will kill us.. Jaladenge mardenge this was the words of my mom.. I was shattered in many pieces by listening all such
How is it now dear? Any improvement?
See if your better half is Marathi then marry him ..... elope with him ❤
So sad😓
I am proud hindu, and a brahmin as well, but will never say no to love marriage of hindu couple
Hnn jyadatar panditayan hi shikar ho rhi hai love jihad ka aur intercaste marriage ka bhut maja aata hai ye sab krke aur open mind wala feel aata hai full independent
Dependencies with parents is most of time is one of the reasons...Support system is highly needed...
Hi actually i convinced my parents for my love marriage. But sometimes they tell some hurtful things in the marriage prep and my relatives are saying pretty hurtful things in the name of making fun. It hurts me later the moment. I regret why i disclosed my 7 yrs of love to them. They're judging what we would've done in these past years. My sister asked whether i did any registration marriage. It hurts me. Im not able to enjoy my marriage. Do you have any ideas
I am not experienced enough... But atleast be happy they are letting you marry... Find your way ,you don't have to live with them all the time .... Focus more on being in happy marriage with your partner instead of them. Let them be or else it'll impact your marriage.
My boyfriend’s father argued that i have different DNA as I’m from lower cast. No one will drink water from my hands.... no one will except me. They didn’t even consider the fact that I’m independent girl who’s employed, pay tax and so in love with their son. We’ve been together from past 8 years. It just seems impossible to convince his father.
Oh no.. run away
TOH UNKO BOL KHUD AANA KITCHEN SE PAANI LENA PI LENA MJHE BHI SHAUK NHI HAIN
@@punittiwari212 to fir rehney ki v kya zarurat hai us k parents k sath
Itni independent hai to kahi rent par room/flat/apartment ley k shift ho jaay
Or fir ghar kharid ley ya to khud hi apney husband k liye ya fir dono mil k
Baki bacchey honey k baad sab maan jaatey hain
Sabsey accha to yahi hai
Pregnant ho jaay ladkiya fir to shadi karni hi padegi
Qki non virgin ladki se shadi wesey v bahot sey log nahi kartey arrange marriages me
To jisko v karna hai aisey kar sakta hai
Fir apney aap sab door bhag jayengey
Or jis k sath marzi g saktey ho
W.b may a chiz nahi hay ..serf hindu ho a kafi hay
I hate caste system
Ma'am what to do when the girl's parents tell they'll die if she doesn't listen to them,and she's a brahmin
Be successful man, no need to convinced
Everyone will die one day🙃
@@theweekndxoabel Brahmins are wicked casteist ppl who divided this nation.
inter caste is hard, but how about inter religion marriage?
I'm 14! I'm just thinking that should I leave him! He is Muslim and I'm hindhu! I'm just confused what should I do😣! I love him alot! ! Thanks sister 😘 for a good advice
Dear it should become love jehaaad.. You can search nikita tomar
You are just 14 idiot 😞
Lol 😹😹
@@dynamicgamersv2085 ye ladki nhi hai ye mulla hi hai 😃😃😃😃
Sounds like infactuation.
Think outside the marriage border, Forcefully parents married you,,,don't warry you can apply the divorce and go back to the you're loved one, if a person truly loved you always you welcomed..
Di i am not financially independent
I do the zid thing i just say no for every boy they are seeing
Sometime my mummy says this 'ab mera dum ghut ra h ' i love them a lot but i can't left my life in a every going deal
Even they are not allowing me to go for job or even any kind of outside studies as well
I am telling you ,todays education gives only degree. So buy books and start studying by yourself . Crack any gov. Job along with it. Marry any general caste person ,because everyone torture us even constitution also
Hnn jyadatar panditayan hi shikar ho rhi hai love jihad ka aur intercaste marriage ka bhut maja aata hai ye sab krke aur open mind wala feel aata hai full independent
Getting to marry with the person you want is okay, but a person must be mature enough to fall in love with someone and take that decision this is the person i want to be with, first they need to know about them selves, they need to understand and accept themselves completely then they may capable of making a right decision, it is not parents vs children, most of the parents want their children to live a happy and joyful life but the way of way of expression may seems different for children. Whether you want to marry the person you want or go for arranged marriage is dependent on multiple aspects
No parents want children to be happy. They only want his/her children to be happy with someone they marry
Osm motivation sister love u... The first video i see that the content like this.... My mind is full of questions of this topic..now iam clear tqqqq lott😍😍😍
Hi prachi sister i really love the way u express the things, i think it helps a lot of people who are going through difficult phases keep going we always support u and love u and thank u for everything ,take care byebye 🤗🤗
I'm crying right now I love a girl and she loves me too but due to this caste bullshit we'll have to part our ways one day😑
I hard to find a way out bcoz my better half is Hindu I’m Christian. Her family is orthodox Hindu and she is divorced. But same community, one way or the other convince her for marriage she go back to family thinking what will my society thinks....
U know prachi, I'm 26 (catholic) wrking in an IT industry, just focussing on my career for better n better growth financially. My partner is 27 ( hindu) and preparing for gvt exams, he is too serious and focused abt his studies and career. We both don't think too much abt marriage rt now, but ya we do want to marry and for now we just go with the flaw and thought of living in a live in relationship, where we both can know more n more abt each other and plus waiting for both of us to get financially independent, so that later we can convince our parents. That's wat we have planned. Ya along with studies he also wrks very hard to collect the money for us for live in, me too dng the same. I just hope and pray that we get the best that we deserve in our life. 😇
All the very best for your bright future both of you 😇😇😇😇
OMG this is my story...same religion case and also age difference is same.
however, we both are working in the same government department..
I just hope and pray that I get married to my love one day.
I am in high school now and just recently started dating him he's such an amazing guy he was trying to convince me for a relationship since a year and all i know i have to first focus on my further career and all and he always say that we'll achieve success together and I know many problems will come but we will never give up just stay strong and will fight.... His whole family know about me and are comfortable with that....as we are still teens I know but he always take a stand for me in front of his parents......my momma is not knowing a single thing about us we are going to inform her after 10th as I'm young i don't know much about relationships but just know that I'm happy with him and can continuing loving him along with all the circumstances....❤️🙃
Here was my story....
🙃
Am I right...??
Any advices
And if I am doing wrong...🙂❤️
@Saurabh Singh thanks
Hey you are too young you don't have the intellectual capacity and maturity to choose a partner
Are home work karo iss umr main
He is come from a muslim family and my father don't like him just for the religion issue. Apart from religion issue father can't pointing out.bcz he is civil engineer financially okay and his family are most reputed and also financially in a very much good position. Most educated family I have ever seen. We both are perfect for each other but timing is wrong for me. I have to earn first. And then I can proved myself and take my dicission. My bf also so supporting about my career.if everything goes well I will definitely marry him. Love from Kolkata ❤️(Habibul Islam+Evana Islam..... Sound so good)
Civil engineer are good??
K wht ever hope so u will get together??
Please don't marry
@@reshavraj8480 r u jealous
@@bibinthomas5282fridge 😂
I love you prachi di.
Everytime you solve my lots of problems.
You are my big sister...
Prachi, I'm in love with a person since 1 year whom I met on Facebook. We have met directly for 5-6 times and we both love each other so truly. I'm almost 23 and I'm well settled in my life with a good salary. My boyfriend is too earning very well as he is a trader. My parents scolded m very badly telling that how did I trust someone on Facebook. I couldn't even force them for anything. Now they are searching for a different person for me to get married with which I don't want to. I literally feel like dying. Please help me!
Omg 🥺 , Please try to convince them I'm sure they'll agree, I feel sorry for u 😔
Aapki intercaste h kya bhen
Sad to hear your situation. it's your 2 year old comment so i hope they have agreed to marriage now.
Life is yours not your parents. They are living their life. It's in your hands to live with your bf. Or suffer with marrying others in life
Love u Di❤. This helps me a lot for taking my decisions.
But nowadays, i think there is no much problem with parents, the partner we loved was not willing to wait, until our parents are convinced......🙄
Thank you Guru Ji ..... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏
friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp
Good joke yaar. How much time you have to wait. 6months? 1year.this life is just 60yrs cycle.
@@jattinikhilendar6302 yesss..life is short i agree ...then go for it ...go get married. ...but iam saying don't seperate from ur partner by just showing the reason as caste problem.
Well Said Prachi.. That facebook idea is simply superb.. I love it :)
Their should be no conversion of religion in inter religion marriage
Agree👍
bestest and matured video ever!! thanks sister
I am in a relationship of intereligion of 9yr.. Currently I am studying in college.. Can u please help me to take the right decision.. What should I do
Just find someone in ur own community .. There are more than enough people living in india
@Smile With Prachi please have a look at these comments
A Muslim or Hindu girl. Should look for their own community boy.
Life is not easy as film, movie.
A bride get value only if she loves parents. Before convince parents u need to convince your creator.
Your parents given u a lot . now u making them inferior in society. Whether Muslim girl or Hindu girl pls do not kill your parents emotionally for your personal benefits and happiness. It is true that everyone leaving in the society. So think.
@@viveksingh-dp7hv muslims are not as bad as u think..
ya some orthodox muslims maybe very toxic but most of the muslims are very loving and kind too
@@blueeyes8386 muslim are all same.
Orthodox parents are disliking the video😕
Seems to me that, she is promoting love marriages, if parents are going to come across this video they would start finding videos on youtube about how to convince our children not do love marriage.😂😂😂
You are really making a difference in the world🙏
I respect her opinion but still, I will share my views as well.
I think just a mere selection of boy or girl by whomsoever whether by yourself or by parents or etc will not make your marriage a "Happy Marriage". Auditing of humans by humans is itself a very big question mark.
Marriage is a very long process. There is also difficulty in getting a divorce if it doesn't work as we expected.
Marriage is almost like "Gambling of Humans by Humans". That's it for now guys.
Prachi ...i request you to shed some light on inter religion marriage..... I think many of the viewers are struggling
Ur sooo true.All your points are truly valid
Hey Prachi, you are doing a great job,but coming back to convincing parents for inter-cast wedding is highly a difficult job to do it,As we both are 30 Financially Independent, compatible with each other and trying to convince guys parents from past 3.5 years ,they will come with new reasons everyday i really do not know from were the creative ideas pop up in their brain ,Probably they could have become a creative head in any MNCs , they think what Society thinks,they say we both are of same age and they want a girl who is highly financially sound and influential so that their Sons Life gets settled ,Sometimes its very frustrating cannot focus on the work......
Hey Prachi.... Thanks a lot for this video.. I think exactly similar to what you have mentioned here. Though, I am seeing a similar kind of case these days... I have started doubting my own thoughts as if an doing right or wrong. What should you do if your own partner starts making you feel guilty of not thinking about parents and society whereas what you expect from him is just not letting go so easily.
Hi you are so beautifull
Parents take care of u from the time u r born, cary u in their womb for 9 months with utmost care, don't hurt them
Your tips goes well for people living in urban areas and have small family but these tips won't work for people living in villages and joint families .
You look familiar to deepika! And the way you talk.🤗
I m in love with hindu girl just completed btech and preparing for cat while her graduation already completed and now she working and now her parents want her to marry 🙂🙂.... What should I do I can't see this. .