My father is a Hindu and my mother a Christian . Though she doesn't go to church but my father respect her beliefs . She prays to her God and read bible and every one is fine with it ☺️☺️. She hasn't changed her surname as well . PS : This August they will be celebrating their 28th marriage anniversary 🤗🤗
I am marwari married to sikh/himachali Girl , neither my family was perfect and nor she was.... Accepting the flaws and differences of each other is real love...that happened in my life.❤️
@@shwetasingh2255 wow dude why would you say something so harsh?! Maybe you are generalising idk bcoz im a bengali. But i do have some punjabi friends they aren't really manipulative or something. 😬😂
Hina Ansari hope i said it the right way..... maturity what they refer to is a mentality they have borrowed from someone..... they havent analysed it from a broader perspective....... cant expect from all..
Come on guys , take it easy . Stop blaming me . My comment is real . Such things happen . We can't just ignore looking at them . Many people still feels that accepting religion of groom should be done by bride . But I doesn't . Stop being judgemental here . Actually na , your comment seems that you don't wanna accept that such things happen in our society . That's harsh reality which I wanted to to show through my comment . And Hina you , plz stop dragging the name of Arijit sir in bw . Wash your eyes and then tell did I mentioned Arijit Singh in my comment ? No !! Being arijitian doesn't mean I don't have my views and my way of expressing reality . At first I ignored comments of you guys but now I felt to clear things out . .. Accept the mishapping of our society first then only we can correct it ... Hope you are "mature" enough to understand what I was trying to tell .
The first part is actually the reality and the second part is the expectation 😔 A cousin of mine had experienced this before She was forced to convert from Hinduism to Islam after marriage by her husband's family Thankfully her husband is very supportive and both of them are still fighting with his family I just hope everyone gets someone so supportive like him no matter which religion 😌
Am frm Tamilnadu. My husband is frm Kerala. I know malayalam. My husband is trying to speak in tamil to communicate with my family. Culture language everything is different. He behaves like a second half because of love ❤ he understood my feelings.
Its a job of the boys to be mature! Boys Understand!! And girls don't date immature boys blindly. The maturity matters more than beauty (Girl and Boy, both should be mature enough for a healthy relationship)
@@namratadubey4832 there are some, but girls don't see maturity as a factor in boys.....and even boys don't see it as a factor.everyone just want to be coooool
Thanks Nijo for the episode. I was one of the lucky wife, daughter in law as in flip side of this story.. My husband, my laws were very supportive My hubby supportive ❤
It doesn't matter whether it is intercaste love marriage or an arranged one.The only important thing is to accept and respect each others belief.Even arranged marriage also have many adjustments.But if you genuinely love your partner,you will happily be a part of his/her religion and culture.
For a being a girl to live or survive in their law's house is to get the support from her husband.... Her husband is the only one whom she can trust and share all her problems... He should co operate and the girl should also co operate to ignore each other flaws.. Otherwise it will not be less than a hell for her..
Yes, hopefully more people will be in a good financial position so they don't need to live with their in-laws. It's important for a couple to have their own space; but when that's not possible, the spouse needs to have their partner's back and always advocate for them to their parents.
Yes understanding means everything...even iam being a Christian telugu speaking ❤️ married to a bhuddist speaking Marathi... I'm happy they have accepted me..even they talk in telugu rather in marathi..I'm blessed I've found my love and a great family..
As a Turkish Muslim married to an Indian Hindu, this video really struck a chord. I hope everyone gets acceptance and love from their family and friends like we did on our journey :)
@@nijojonsons ok if you really love your wife then your childern should have kaur surname even jonson surname exist in america and european country not india
This is something every relation in this society needs .. little patience and proper communication .... Respecting each other and that's it .. and they can live happily forever ...❤️❤️
Ahaha dekho kaun bol raha hai arre mulle jab hindu sikh dharm ke ladkiyo ko mulle luv jihad karke unse shaadi karte hai aur unka jabran dharm parivartan karte hai tab kyu kuch nehi bolta
@@ajaypaul394 Vahi toh... Jo log Yani Jo Muslim ldka khud Islam Nahi follow karta Vahi force conversion Karwa sakta HAI... Kiuki ki forceful conversion is haram in Islam... Tum reverts Ka Kya bologe Jo khud apni marzi SE Islam qabool kare... İslam ko Jan k zabardasti İslam follow karwana kişi SE is wrong
Best part was no religion was targeted and no religion was shown as a victim religion. Not even a religion or language's name was taken. Perfect message
Don't agree at all, Jain's are the who discriminate the most, I'm saying this because I'm married to a Jain, who made me convert my religion name language everything... Irony...
@@jasminc1993 that even muslims do a lot!! Tht's the issue in inter-religion!.. Most don't want to lose our identity but some religions can't accept it!
I married cross religion, my sister married cross religion, even my parents married cross religion!!!! No issues. It's all great! All you need is to grow beyond the set expectations of the society and care about what really matters, the love and understanding between the two.
@@chandrayeedey7462 sure man... although one from them is living together for 6 years... others are new... so let us see as far I see... it's just that if the intention of a person doesn't change... things go very good...
Honestly the first one seems like a "fell in love instantly and we'll marry within a year of being together because we're cool" kinda relationship. Many successful inter religious marriages take place after years sometimes almost a decade of being together, where they have already discussed such things.
True. That's why after seeing all this happening to my close ones. I don't feel like getting married but we all need a partner/a friend to spend life with.
The main problem in inter cast, inter religion marriage is our elders. Who don't want to leave there children different life. There are just pressing there way of life on us.
And the biggest two question what religion will your child follow and what caste system will you follow to give the final rituals to your departed spouse. One question I don't know always what to answer. Second question once must answer like who the hell cares how my spouse will burry me.
@@avionserrao7943 first we have to live and think about burrying they think about after death but what about our today. And the child will follow one religion that is humanity which is not followed by any1
Too good Nijo. I wish your message spreads far and wide at the earliest so that we have a more sensible and tolerant society. Go ahead with such messages. Good luck.
I have also faced this language problem after marriage. I also had the same expectations but it still continues. The second part is far from reality. Hope everyone realizes how a simple gesture like these can change their lives in a better way!!
The actual problem in reality in inter religious marriages is the husband itself who flips his character n behaviour for the sake of his side family members 😔until n unless husband stands n supports his wife in evry situation against his family members itz impossible for a wife to sustain in such a house together, saying wit experience bcoz am sufferring NW😔NVR go for inter caste n inter religious marriages if ur husband is nt on ur side to support in any situation
@@bincysimon8973 yess itz Love Arranged Marriage bro,better to get alert before dan to cry later,Just go for the partner brought by ur parents dat wl be gud ,bcoz if we go ahead on our wish tmrw parents also wl nt support us ,dey wl say u hv done as ur wish so we r nt responsible for anything
Why the world ahowing these relations as if husband is on his wife's side its pretty okay with wife. But if the husband takes the side of the parents, he has no respect to his wife. Isn't it strange?
@@ankitsaxenaversionunknown so ur the person who NVR value ur wife if married n only care n value ur parents ,so y ur here to gv rply in dis context to my comment without any sense
@@khushislays2305 as mostly if interfaith mairrages don't have Muslims chances of conversion is low . it's still present but comparatively very very low . And childrens have greater chance of athiesism Lemme guess one is hindu and other one is Sikh or Christian
After 10 years of being together, my husband finally revealed that he married me so that he could convert me to Islam. That way he could go to heaven. He pressured me for 1 year with a condition of divorce. I tried to compromise. When I failed, he tried slandering me to my family and sent divorce letter. Now he is my ex. He remarried 3 months later. He later sent me a letter about how he still loves me and wants me to go back. How much hypocrite humans can be!!! Before marriage I had told him, I don't do religion. P.S: I am born in a muslim family. Instead of convert, the word should be "revert"
This is not just happen in inter-caste or inter-religion. The *boys-side* yeah the boys -side always being stubborn to change girl according to their family and atmosphere.
I am proud to say that husband is really understanding and we have come across situations like this and he was really open minded.. I am totally blessed 😍
I came here after watching Tanishq's ad. And no, this was not on my recommendation, I searched for inter-religion marriage and came across this beautiful video. My father is Hindu Kayastha, and my mother is Catholic. They have been married for 34 years now and our family friends always belonged to the circle of mixed religion and mixed caste uncles and aunties. We live so happily and face no problem- the reason is we respect each others' culture, religion. Life goes on and no one has any problem with anyone. If my great grandparents and grandparents had no problems, then why should others? It is sad that Tanishq ad titled "Ekatvam" (confluence) has been succumbed to online trolling and has been pulled down. Great work Nijo Johnson.
Eakatvam was not a issue sis!! Problem is that all adds have targeted hindus only! & also if u marry muslim & continue to follow ur religion its just not acceptable! U may see all the unity adds between hindu & muslims u will understand ... Why tht add was removed
Hey so being someone who wants to marry a Catholic boy. (I'm a Hindu) My in laws told me that if i don't convert my children won't be called as valid as I'm not ready to convert. Is there any loop hole where these church people accept my child without me having to get converted.
U tackled it again.. I used to bring these points in family but I always had been declared as reluctant but thanks for giving me confidence that I am right
Just stay within the religion and culture that you were born into so that you will not end up with this situation. This is so unless the other side is willing to accept who you are and where you came from. Its all about love, respect and living together in this world.
Don't marry a person who cannot support you and stand for you.....and religion has got nothing to do with this ....even in the same religion, family of in law's can be imposing and make your life hell If you are lucky then God will break your relationship with such person before you get married
Currently m in the situation that i love my partner and also he loves me but religion.. He wants me to change my religion becoz he believes that due to religion it will create problems for me in his family but if he will support me everything will be fine as the time passes...whereas I believe in respecting both the religions and following then both with respect
True.Whatevevr different religions or same religion,if someone can not accept or support who u are,that marriage will fail... Family problems and relatives problems are already there ..it doesn't have to do with different religions. Ppl only use the difference religion as an excuse for their bitterness and for them to get full control over us
I chanced upon this video and instantly loved it. Mine is an arranged marriage but we were born and brought up into 2 different states. Mine was Gujarat and my husband's is Punjab. Surely, patience and communication play a strong role in any type of marriage.
@Lashiv b ikr this is the thing with third world countries. You must be from the west so you dont know our struggles..politics also play a part of this..most jobs of this generation dont pay much and so they are dependent on their parents. Most young women cannot handle the stress of private companies and duties of a daughter in law. So most of them quit their. You would meet someone who would say that they are in a private company and is earning decent but thats only 10% of the population and most will lie about their salaries. So kids even if they are almost 30 chime with their parents regressive thought process and do as they say. Its just the way of life in a third world country like india..and its a cycle. It will be very hard to break this cycle unless a new progressive government takes the lead.
Hi Nijo sir, My marriage is happened with Christian guy name is Nijo Johny and I'm belongs from Hindu family. there were some issues in the starting in both the family.. but now things are going good. The best part is he never asked me to change my religion, beliefs and rituals. He is the best husband. I'm from Kerala.
Wow What a great video this is the thing which every woman needed.... This is not only applies for other religions but this is also needed for the same religion....
I had inter religion marriage.. I am brahmin and my husband is muslim.. My husband and me equally respects our religion and celebrate every festival including christmas.. We are so happy and we are so neutral and both of us never forced others into anything even though our parents and relatives didnot understand us.. We are so lucky and also inspiring to both of us that whatever comes we should face it equally and also to society..
Wow sir u are indeed a great example of unity and diversity... 😘😘😘.. Often females are forced to convert her religion after marriage... But u didn't force ur partner ..Lots of love and respect to you sir... 🙏.. Jai Shree Ram ❤️❤️❤️....
Nothing is changing in the current generation. So many girls from other religions are being converted to a particular religion, by men who pretend fake love. And it's happening among the present generation only..
Isko dekh kr smjh me aata hai ki kaise dheere dheere emotional blackmail kiya jata hai pressurize kiya jata ki ek ladki apne dharm ko chhor kr husband ka dharm apnaye aur baad me jb vo iski complain kre to saaf saaf keh diya jata hai ye tumhara decision tha.. Well done ye sb dikhane ke liye..
@@priyadarshinighosh8786 its not a question of need. An independent woman can definitely quit marraige easily. But if you see deep down in inter religion scenario... Families are involved.... Everything is on stake in such marraiges.
Hi iam Christian and my husband is muslim we are nit changed our religion and we are together with very happy also our family too....... Religion is not a matter but love is a matter........ We have that love we respect eachother we care each other so our relation is sucessfully going
Change of religion is a very severe case unless you are in that religion by namesake.. Don't fall in love with other faiths if you are not willing to change your religion.. Falling in love could be avoided but after marriage things change.
It truly takes a lot to be open and accept people as they are. That too in case of a life partner. I hope the world soon realizes this and celebrates the variety of religions, cultures and traditions Hats off bro
My father is Hindu and my mother is Sikh. They equally understand eachother rituals and I am too following both the religion and respect them equally 😊
Wow...having an understanding partner is a great asset...I'm going through the same and tensed.... to convince someone who will not change is so difficult.....but to convince someone so understanding is easy and lovely
I feel so blessed. My husband and I are from different religion and we respect and worship all Gods at my place. Not once we have ever discussed about changing religion or surname, and my in laws very supportive too. We have two kids and we have given them complete freedom to choose what religion they want and we strongly believe that there is no religion bigger than humanity.
Best part about your stories is the solution rather the "flip" side of the story...you actually let us see things in better light. Thank you for these stories
Love love love u for this 😘😘😘😘😘😘awesome ! A great slap for those who oppose inter caste n inter religious marriages ‘ little adjustments === lots of love ‘👏👏👏👏
Wow this video got on her phone..coz of google algorithms.. as that’s what has been our topic lately...but I’m glad it did.. loved the positive attitude and acceptance Nijo do let us know how cane we are a part of this community amazing content
Thank you for making this. Love this. In a Life Partnership, the element of 'losing' entails no space, even of a speck. When we learn how to work together versus work against each other things would start getting better.
I like to make an observation; This man married a girl who is of a different religion. He must’ve had courage to do that. Men who do this must be in love, for they wouldn’t do it otherwise. This often affords the girl a partner who cares, who does not gaslight and who will be broad minded. But I like the sentiment this conveys.
I’m Muslim and my fiancé is Sikh. We are getting married soon. I’m a revert to Islam and I was scared about getting married to him but honestly why does it matter to anyone?
It matters to the society if you’re a girl because ultimately all the prestige and izzat lies on women’s shoulder, if you’re a boy and trying to marry in a different relgion, your people won’t have any problem infact it will be a matter of pride as they will think ultimately you will convince your partner to change religion and all your kids will follow your religion, pathetic male dominating society.
Bro , Extremely well explained real scenarios. Actually I didn’t handle the situation well , now I got to know . still more better if I handled, life is good . Hope my life would back . Tx Bro once again . Awaiting for next video . Highly appreciated entire team.
Hindus never marry to muslim and christian. Please 🥺🙏 hindutva ko bachaoo. Christian missionaries aakar hindusthan ko hindusthan nahi rehne diye. Their were 100 % Hindus in 18 century but now Hindus are 50% if this continues muslim will lead us. Please do not convert yourself.
Loving means accepting the person without any alteration...❤
True
True
So right.
When it comes to apply practically no one support. So leave it. This is India.
@@h.n1433 it would be India but I know for a fact we will make a change soon even if it takes years
My father is a Hindu and my mother a Christian . Though she doesn't go to church but my father respect her beliefs . She prays to her God and read bible and every one is fine with it ☺️☺️. She hasn't changed her surname as well .
PS : This August they will be celebrating their 28th marriage anniversary 🤗🤗
But she stopped going to Church. That’s enough damage done.
@@JanetMartin134 wait i think it's not realated to this case .
@@JanetMartin134 it's not damage...it is actually good
Why she's not going to church
@@MiyokoJEE her choice
I am marwari married to sikh/himachali Girl , neither my family was perfect and nor she was.... Accepting the flaws and differences of each other is real love...that happened in my life.❤️
She is Punjabi or sikh ? Don't you think it's only interstate relation 🤨
@@shwetasingh2255 wow dude why would you say something so harsh?! Maybe you are generalising idk bcoz im a bengali. But i do have some punjabi friends they aren't really manipulative or something. 😬😂
@@anushkaa28 acting & pretending to be good infrnt of others & showing elephants teeths...let me tell punjabis hate bangauli
@@shwetasingh2255 you're Hella toxic girl.
Exemplary man 👌👌👌
Second part : expectation
First part : reality
It's a reality if you are mature enough🤷🏽♂️
Bhai q arijit ka fan bol kar uska naam badnaam kar rahe ho😒
Tumne agar duniya dekhi nhi eska matlab ye nhi ki duniya gol nhi 🔥
First part- Problem
Second part- Solution. Why dont u look at it that way....
Hina Ansari hope i said it the right way..... maturity what they refer to is a mentality they have borrowed from someone..... they havent analysed it from a broader perspective....... cant expect from all..
Come on guys , take it easy . Stop blaming me . My comment is real . Such things happen . We can't just ignore looking at them . Many people still feels that accepting religion of groom should be done by bride . But I doesn't . Stop being judgemental here . Actually na , your comment seems that you don't wanna accept that such things happen in our society . That's harsh reality which I wanted to to show through my comment . And Hina you , plz stop dragging the name of Arijit sir in bw . Wash your eyes and then tell did I mentioned Arijit Singh in my comment ?
No !! Being arijitian doesn't mean I don't have my views and my way of expressing reality . At first I ignored comments of you guys but now I felt to clear things out . ..
Accept the mishapping of our society first then only we can correct it ... Hope you are "mature" enough to understand what I was trying to tell .
The first part is actually the reality and the second part is the expectation 😔
A cousin of mine had experienced this before
She was forced to convert from Hinduism to Islam after marriage by her husband's family
Thankfully her husband is very supportive and both of them are still fighting with his family
I just hope everyone gets someone so supportive like him no matter which religion 😌
In Islam Muslim can only marry with other Muslim this can't be possible if she z Hindo after marriage.
Very true
@@KhadeejaAlvi but in islam they can't force her to change the religion.
@@KhadeejaAlvi but when Hindu Boy Tries to marry Muslim girl They get Beheaded and Chopped ...why is that so?
@@KhadeejaAlvi they shouldn't fall in love with people of other religions then. If you can't even accept your lovers religion, you can't accept shit.
Am frm Tamilnadu. My husband is frm Kerala. I know malayalam. My husband is trying to speak in tamil to communicate with my family. Culture language everything is different. He behaves like a second half because of love ❤ he understood my feelings.
Awwww😍😍that’s so sweet. Same here😇
For yr kind information yr marriage is not an inter realigion marrige
Not ok nterreligiion it's neighbors marriage ha ha
Bmb
I believe u shd be thankful to ur husband
I like how they show the both sides of a coin.
Me too
Its a job of the boys to be mature!
Boys Understand!!
And girls don't date immature boys blindly. The maturity matters more than beauty
(Girl and Boy, both should be mature enough for a healthy relationship)
Right 😄
True!💯
💯💯
True and most of the boys are immature .
@@namratadubey4832 there are some, but girls don't see maturity as a factor in boys.....and even boys don't see it as a factor.everyone just want to be coooool
Thanks Nijo for the episode.
I was one of the lucky wife, daughter in law as in flip side of this story..
My husband, my laws were very supportive
My hubby supportive ❤
It doesn't matter whether it is intercaste love marriage or an arranged one.The only important thing is to accept and respect each others belief.Even arranged marriage also have many adjustments.But if you genuinely love your partner,you will happily be a part of his/her religion and culture.
It has to be “accept it “ instead of “expect it” ... good message
For a being a girl to live or survive in their law's house is to get the support from her husband.... Her husband is the only one whom she can trust and share all her problems... He should co operate and the girl should also co operate to ignore each other flaws.. Otherwise it will not be less than a hell for her..
So true.😣
But most men are too lazy to even listen to her problems...much less understand them. Idiotic elements.
Yes, hopefully more people will be in a good financial position so they don't need to live with their in-laws. It's important for a couple to have their own space; but when that's not possible, the spouse needs to have their partner's back and always advocate for them to their parents.
True
@THE ZOLDICS what is this, the 1950's?
Yes understanding means everything...even iam being a Christian telugu speaking ❤️ married to a bhuddist speaking Marathi... I'm happy they have accepted me..even they talk in telugu rather in marathi..I'm blessed I've found my love and a great family..
Lucky. Be blessed.
Congrats
Stay blessed dear.
If you dnt mind can I know , what will ur children choose ??? Coz the same issue I'm now 🥺 , feeling a bit confused .. please help me out from this
@@raajikalyani2065 Whats ur problem.can u please share
"One is loved because one is loved. No reason is needed for loving". - Paulo Coelho
As a Turkish Muslim married to an Indian Hindu, this video really struck a chord. I hope everyone gets acceptance and love from their family and friends like we did on our journey :)
Bless you with happiness. :)
@@nijojonsons ok if you really love your wife then your childern should have kaur surname even jonson surname exist in america and european country not india
@@nijojonsons i know your children will have jonson surname so stop your drama
@Siddardha Pedada nijo jonson will not give kaur surname to his children because this will hurt his ego
@Siddardha Pedada That's beautiful. Though we live in Turkey, we make it a point to celebrate most Hindu festivals. The rest is easy anyways :)
This is something every relation in this society needs .. little patience and proper communication .... Respecting each other and that's it .. and they can live happily forever ...❤️❤️
This is how people change after marriage...
Aajkal Jo log khud religion follow Nahi karte vo dusro ko Bolte hain convert ho jao...
Ekdam sahi ekdam sahi. Man karta hai wahi pee goli Mar du aise logo ko.
See Devi at its best.
Exactly Like the force conversions that are conducted by Christians and Muslims
Ahaha dekho kaun bol raha hai arre mulle jab hindu sikh dharm ke ladkiyo ko mulle luv jihad karke unse shaadi karte hai aur unka jabran dharm parivartan karte hai tab kyu kuch nehi bolta
@@ajaypaul394 Vahi toh... Jo log Yani Jo Muslim ldka khud Islam Nahi follow karta Vahi force conversion Karwa sakta HAI... Kiuki ki forceful conversion is haram in Islam... Tum reverts Ka Kya bologe Jo khud apni marzi SE Islam qabool kare... İslam ko Jan k zabardasti İslam follow karwana kişi SE is wrong
Happy to see someone come out with this common but undercover issue so openly. Sincerely pray that your endeavor succeeds.
Best part was no religion was targeted and no religion was shown as a victim religion. Not even a religion or language's name was taken.
Perfect message
Yes thata a very good thing
Mostly people portray the problems
But here you showed both the problems and its solutions
Nice work
Loved watching it
Thank you so much 😀
@@nijojonsons By the way which religion are you going to fill in your kid's form?😅
Really want to know this .
@@akankshaojha9184 you are just like our maid who is way too interested in our life then her own husband and kids😂
LOVED THE SECOND PART. 😘 PEOPLE SHOULD RESPECT EACH OTHER'S BELIEF.
There are a few who gangs who would kill a person who has marriage with people of another religion.
We have to first get beyond that.
My husband is 100 percent supportive in every manner .we both follow our cultures and beliefs .it is happening because he respects me and my beliefs.
What about him and his believe
Respecting each one views & religion is the essence of unity in diversity. This is called ANEKAANTAWADA in Jainism.
And none of the Jain people around me follow it. They think others are of lower caste and take a bath if they even touch you. 😂
@@Simplyme007 really even to this day...😐 , And then some hindus will come defending about that there is no such practices , great.
Don't agree at all, Jain's are the who discriminate the most, I'm saying this because I'm married to a Jain, who made me convert my religion name language everything... Irony...
@@jasminc1993 that even muslims do a lot!!
Tht's the issue in inter-religion!.. Most don't want to lose our identity but some religions can't accept it!
Wow what a thought.😍😍😍
I married cross religion, my sister married cross religion, even my parents married cross religion!!!! No issues. It's all great! All you need is to grow beyond the set expectations of the society and care about what really matters, the love and understanding between the two.
Great
If you parents had cross religion
Then you must be an atheist
The best part of this video is that it is religion agnostic. No Hindu, no muslim it's inclusive of all others
Exactly otherwise they turn everything into Hindi vs muslim
The irony is that the second part doesn't exist in reality 😅
no its now true... i have 4 friends in reality and they are living happily...
@@careforanimals60 that's great!
@@careforanimals60 let them live for some years like that and truth will come out.
@@chandrayeedey7462 sure man... although one from them is living together for 6 years... others are new... so let us see
as far I see... it's just that if the intention of a person doesn't change... things go very good...
@@careforanimals60 Feels great to listen❤️
But second part is Dream atleast for some specific religion they actually do for converting there is no love 😭😭
Sed
Right👍
Ya very true👍👍
Don't be sad make yourself strong
Yes true..without conversion there is no love for them..
Nobody needs to go through this. Just leave if there's no understanding
Honestly the first one seems like a "fell in love instantly and we'll marry within a year of being together because we're cool" kinda relationship. Many successful inter religious marriages take place after years sometimes almost a decade of being together, where they have already discussed such things.
Yupp...there must b unity in Diversity but onlyy from darkness towards the light....Jai Shree Ram🙏
But sadly the second part of the video won't happen in real life!😔
Maybe the second part does happen
True. That's why after seeing all this happening to my close ones. I don't feel like getting married but we all need a partner/a friend to spend life with.
@@shivanijha801 no u don't, you can spent your life without anyone if you want to, anyone can :)
Yes, it does happen 😁
Right. ☹️☹️
this is the final solution for all the problems .........salute u sir..
The main problem in inter cast, inter religion marriage is our elders. Who don't want to leave there children different life. There are just pressing there way of life on us.
And the biggest two question what religion will your child follow and what caste system will you follow to give the final rituals to your departed spouse. One question I don't know always what to answer. Second question once must answer like who the hell cares how my spouse will burry me.
@@avionserrao7943 first we have to live and think about burrying they think about after death but what about our today. And the child will follow one religion that is humanity which is not followed by any1
Elders say everything will be of your choice but only the partner will be of our choice. They dnt realize that materialistic thing will not b forever.
Very true.
In my family all the elders are dead, except for one lonely dadi
Too good Nijo. I wish your message spreads far and wide at the earliest so that we have a more sensible and tolerant society. Go ahead with such messages. Good luck.
I have also faced this language problem after marriage. I also had the same expectations but it still continues. The second part is far from reality. Hope everyone realizes how a simple gesture like these can change their lives in a better way!!
The actual problem in reality in inter religious marriages is the husband itself who flips his character n behaviour for the sake of his side family members 😔until n unless husband stands n supports his wife in evry situation against his family members itz impossible for a wife to sustain in such a house together, saying wit experience bcoz am sufferring NW😔NVR go for inter caste n inter religious marriages if ur husband is nt on ur side to support in any situation
I agree, I am experiencing the same in my marriage
@@bincysimon8973 yess itz Love Arranged Marriage bro,better to get alert before dan to cry later,Just go for the partner brought by ur parents dat wl be gud ,bcoz if we go ahead on our wish tmrw parents also wl nt support us ,dey wl say u hv done as ur wish so we r nt responsible for anything
Why the world ahowing these relations as if husband is on his wife's side its pretty okay with wife. But if the husband takes the side of the parents, he has no respect to his wife. Isn't it strange?
@@ankitsaxenaversionunknown so ur the person who NVR value ur wife if married n only care n value ur parents ,so y ur here to gv rply in dis context to my comment without any sense
@@bincysimon8973 yes itz our responsibility to bear n care for evrything ,so all the best bro hope the best one comes to u👍🏻💐
Flip only 1% people like that else everyone is first side
I dont think so
My parents have an inter religion marriage but they re super fine
@@khushislays2305 is anyone in your parent a Muslim
@@tharabhai1794 no
@@khushislays2305 that's why
I think you are an atheist
@@khushislays2305 as mostly if interfaith mairrages don't have Muslims chances of conversion is low . it's still present but comparatively very very low .
And childrens have greater chance of athiesism
Lemme guess one is hindu and other one is Sikh or Christian
When u realize she is his real wife❤️❤️
His
@@friendshiprocks8673 sry for that😅
@@christnchimchim39 😊👍
Ikrrrr
After 10 years of being together, my husband finally revealed that he married me so that he could convert me to Islam. That way he could go to heaven. He pressured me for 1 year with a condition of divorce. I tried to compromise. When I failed, he tried slandering me to my family and sent divorce letter. Now he is my ex. He remarried 3 months later. He later sent me a letter about how he still loves me and wants me to go back. How much hypocrite humans can be!!! Before marriage I had told him, I don't do religion.
P.S: I am born in a muslim family. Instead of convert, the word should be "revert"
All muzlims are same. Atleast you are safe and not in suitcase dead like other girls who married them like you!
Mer power to you. You did the right thing. More power to you
Muslim man can marry other religious women
But women in islam can't marry other religious man
Why like that anybody tell me about this
Jahanum naseeb hoga bhaijaan ko ab.🤔
Thank heavens, you got a divorce.
Move on.
My wishes to you
mutual understanding ,....no religion matters in relationship ❤️
Good one!! It has a deeper message. Its not just about religion it's about being there and accepting everything flaws and good
Yea
By knowing that you have yourself done inter-religion marriage, my respect for you has increased. 🙏🏻
Both of them didn't change religion itself is appreciative and being good example to their child 😃😃
@@Termsandconditions1234 Yes!
Believed me its very difficult to have this relationship every one will ended with stressed...
This is not just happen in inter-caste or inter-religion. The *boys-side* yeah the boys -side always being stubborn to change girl according to their family and atmosphere.
Correct 💯
so true
Boys in reality they never want to discuss this part of things.
I am proud to say that husband is really understanding and we have come across situations like this and he was really open minded.. I am totally blessed 😍
My best short film in my life.....I liked very much.I am a Christian,and my husband a Muslim
So how's your marriage life going on in a muslim house. How's ur in laws treating u ? Any pressure of conversion ? Jus askin out of curiosity.
Succesful Victim's of love jihad
@@billionaire6792 Love jihad was a concept invented by insecure Hindu men.
@@billionaire6792lol we we are abrahamic religion we have both similar faiths u don't need to think much .😂😂😂😂
I came here after watching Tanishq's ad. And no, this was not on my recommendation, I searched for inter-religion marriage and came across this beautiful video. My father is Hindu Kayastha, and my mother is Catholic. They have been married for 34 years now and our family friends always belonged to the circle of mixed religion and mixed caste uncles and aunties. We live so happily and face no problem- the reason is we respect each others' culture, religion. Life goes on and no one has any problem with anyone. If my great grandparents and grandparents had no problems, then why should others? It is sad that Tanishq ad titled "Ekatvam" (confluence) has been succumbed to online trolling and has been pulled down. Great work Nijo Johnson.
Eakatvam was not a issue sis!!
Problem is that all adds have targeted hindus only! & also if u marry muslim & continue to follow ur religion its just not acceptable!
U may see all the unity adds between hindu & muslims u will understand ... Why tht add was removed
@@krishnamehta4504 so don't marry a muslim💁♀️
@@maziarashid1971
Ha mere se shadi kar le toh
@@krishnamehta4504
Paheli baar hindu ladki ko aise baat karte dekha baaki ke dimag ke dhakan bandh hai 😂
Hey so being someone who wants to marry a Catholic boy. (I'm a Hindu) My in laws told me that if i don't convert my children won't be called as valid as I'm not ready to convert. Is there any loop hole where these church people accept my child without me having to get converted.
U tackled it again.. I used to bring these points in family but I always had been declared as reluctant but thanks for giving me confidence that I am right
Why the hell u married other religion?
In first part love is absent in second part there's love and understanding that's why reaction is different
Bro huge respect towards....its like seeing myself and my relationship right here....only thing left is to convince parents for marriage
how did it go..did get married?
116 dislikers wants forced conversion🙄
BTW such a great story with nice solution
Just stay within the religion and culture that you were born into so that you will not end up with this situation. This is so unless the other side is willing to accept who you are and where you came from. Its all about love, respect and living together in this world.
Don't marry a person who cannot support you and stand for you.....and religion has got nothing to do with this ....even in the same religion, family of in law's can be imposing and make your life hell
If you are lucky then God will break your relationship with such person before you get married
Currently m in the situation that i love my partner and also he loves me but religion.. He wants me to change my religion becoz he believes that due to religion it will create problems for me in his family but if he will support me everything will be fine as the time passes...whereas I believe in respecting both the religions and following then both with respect
Reality comes after marriage not at the time of courtship.
Thanks dear@Mohsina Tasneem - I agree with your point.
True.Whatevevr different religions or same religion,if someone can not accept or support who u are,that marriage will fail...
Family problems and relatives problems are already there ..it doesn't have to do with different religions.
Ppl only use the difference religion as an excuse for their bitterness and for them to get full control over us
@@SiddhiKatkar-qt1mc ur partner is muslim??
I chanced upon this video and instantly loved it. Mine is an arranged marriage but we were born and brought up into 2 different states. Mine was Gujarat and my husband's is Punjab. Surely, patience and communication play a strong role in any type of marriage.
haha dont cry 90 percent marriages till now are arranged i think you never went out of delhi
@Lashiv b ikr this is the thing with third world countries. You must be from the west so you dont know our struggles..politics also play a part of this..most jobs of this generation dont pay much and so they are dependent on their parents. Most young women cannot handle the stress of private companies and duties of a daughter in law. So most of them quit their. You would meet someone who would say that they are in a private company and is earning decent but thats only 10% of the population and most will lie about their salaries. So kids even if they are almost 30 chime with their parents regressive thought process and do as they say. Its just the way of life in a third world country like india..and its a cycle. It will be very hard to break this cycle unless a new progressive government takes the lead.
Hi Nijo sir,
My marriage is happened with Christian guy name is Nijo Johny and I'm belongs from Hindu family. there were some issues in the starting in both the family.. but now things are going good. The best part is he never asked me to change my religion, beliefs and rituals. He is the best husband. I'm from Kerala.
Nice to hear this... Love from Bihar🥰😊
So how long is your relationship with him?
Your children's religion?
Because your childrens will be Christian that's why they didn't say anything 🤡
@@TheTradGuy may be athiest or agnostic
As mostly Hindu Christian mairrages make athiest agnostic childs
Loved the flip side and want all inter-faith relationships to transform into this reality. 👍
Wow
What a great video this is the thing which every woman needed....
This is not only applies for other religions but this is also needed for the same religion....
This guy is our future! We all need to be like him! Great job man appreciate your efforts 👌👍
I had inter religion marriage.. I am brahmin and my husband is muslim.. My husband and me equally respects our religion and celebrate every festival including christmas.. We are so happy and we are so neutral and both of us never forced others into anything even though our parents and relatives didnot understand us.. We are so lucky and also inspiring to both of us that whatever comes we should face it equally and also to society..
O mi god ..... that's unbelievable ❤
And Ur kid??
@@amritraj3601
Do you really need and answer for that. Marriage with a muslim or sikh will only end one way , hindu losing.
That's why I asked her ,this fakeness hampered me every time. Tell me about the kid which religion he/she is following?
Fake id
Wow sir u are indeed a great example of unity and diversity... 😘😘😘.. Often females are forced to convert her religion after marriage... But u didn't force ur partner ..Lots of love and respect to you sir... 🙏.. Jai Shree Ram ❤️❤️❤️....
Women* not females. But u r right
We were discussing this, today only. Nd I send him this..he is like the person as the previous story
His religion and yours ? Pls tell me .
@@simplesoul4374 main batata hu
Ladka muslim hai
Love is all about compromising .
This video says it all...
Bro i can see myself in u. I also see the world same way 👍🏻. I Appreciate for this beautiful expression.
I treat my wife the same way.
God bless u.
As first scene? xD
Learning all the good things from both religions from my inter religion parents is the best education u can get.
u from?
Such a beautiful message.
Not everyone does this, but I guess our generation is slowly crawling to the change😇❤
Nothing is changing in the current generation. So many girls from other religions are being converted to a particular religion, by men who pretend fake love. And it's happening among the present generation only..
Excellent. How the world would be if such a type of tolerance adjustments are followed by everyone.
I could have ever seen this type of fabulous English in RUclips 🙏🏻🙏🏻
So Simple and Perfect 👌👌
You guys are nailed it 😎😎🥰🥰
Outstanding
.great.. every 1 should learn from that story
You are doing an amazing task to bring some awareness for good in people. Finally someone is taking the initiative.Keep up the good work.All the best.
Isko dekh kr smjh me aata hai ki kaise dheere dheere emotional blackmail kiya jata hai pressurize kiya jata ki ek ladki apne dharm ko chhor kr husband ka dharm apnaye aur baad me jb vo iski complain kre to saaf saaf keh diya jata hai ye tumhara decision tha.. Well done ye sb dikhane ke liye..
Isiliye pehle se apne bande ko check kar lo
Ki voh koi phattu toh nahi hai
Round 2 was quite satisfying...👍🏻
In the first case just kick him and leave the house.
Ikrrrrrrr! she should have just left him
It's not so easily. If society see women with respect then some improvement will occur
It's not that easy in inter religion or intercast marraiges.
@@sharanyabisht1862 nothing is hard if u can pay off ur own needs...
@@priyadarshinighosh8786 its not a question of need. An independent woman can definitely quit marraige easily.
But if you see deep down in inter religion scenario... Families are involved.... Everything is on stake in such marraiges.
I liked that second part ! ... Everyone should be like this....
Hi iam Christian and my husband is muslim we are nit changed our religion and we are together with very happy also our family too....... Religion is not a matter but love is a matter........ We have that love we respect eachother we care each other so our relation is sucessfully going
This is a very very important to discuss fully and settle this for ever before marriage.And specialty for the CHILDERN
Change of religion is a very severe case unless you are in that religion by namesake.. Don't fall in love with other faiths if you are not willing to change your religion.. Falling in love could be avoided but after marriage things change.
I closely relate to this story with myself 😔 it ruined our relationship..hope this message will change mindset of society 🙏 👌 very good effort 👏 👍
Hi
WHAT HAPPENED I WANNA KNOW THE STORY
@@imposter5716 Well clearly either she was dethrone by her bfs parents or
Didn't converted
Or may be something else
Really feel great to hear that two different religious person living in same house with maintaining their religion ❤️
It truly takes a lot to be open and accept people as they are. That too in case of a life partner. I hope the world soon realizes this and celebrates the variety of religions, cultures and traditions Hats off bro
My father is Hindu and my mother is Sikh. They equally understand eachother rituals and I am too following both the religion and respect them equally 😊
That’s so sweet of u as u are blend into both religion smoothly without any contradiction ❤️😊
Wow...having an understanding partner is a great asset...I'm going through the same and tensed.... to convince someone who will not change is so difficult.....but to convince someone so understanding is easy and lovely
By the people like Nijo sir, this society can easily develop......
It's really good and i really look forward to Friday watching your videos
M really glad n appreciate nijo that in your personal life you maintain this kindness n strong support eachother like this... Great...👍
I'm Muslim and my spouse is Christian but we are happy with our life
Flip side : when you accept the change.
I feel so blessed. My husband and I are from different religion and we respect and worship all Gods at my place. Not once we have ever discussed about changing religion or surname, and my in laws very supportive too. We have two kids and we have given them complete freedom to choose what religion they want and we strongly believe that there is no religion bigger than humanity.
Best part about your stories is the solution rather the "flip" side of the story...you actually let us see things in better light. Thank you for these stories
Best story this shows that it's a true love may "God always bless you "
Sharing thoughts and caring eachother makes life easy and beautiful
I'm Christian bro. I respect every religion ❤️
✋
Love love love u for this 😘😘😘😘😘😘awesome ! A great slap for those who oppose inter caste n inter religious marriages ‘ little adjustments === lots of love ‘👏👏👏👏
Wow this video got on her phone..coz of google algorithms.. as that’s what has been our topic lately...but I’m glad it did.. loved the positive attitude and acceptance Nijo do let us know how cane we are a part of this community amazing content
Thank you for making this. Love this.
In a Life Partnership, the element of 'losing' entails no space, even of a speck.
When we learn how to work together versus work against each other things would start getting better.
I like to make an observation;
This man married a girl who is of a different religion. He must’ve had courage to do that. Men who do this must be in love, for they wouldn’t do it otherwise. This often affords the girl a partner who cares, who does not gaslight and who will be broad minded.
But I like the sentiment this conveys.
RUclips should give a love button not just like button for this video
I’m Muslim and my fiancé is Sikh. We are getting married soon. I’m a revert to Islam and I was scared about getting married to him but honestly why does it matter to anyone?
Are you a girl or boy
It matters to the society if you’re a girl because ultimately all the prestige and izzat lies on women’s shoulder, if you’re a boy and trying to marry in a different relgion, your people won’t have any problem infact it will be a matter of pride as they will think ultimately you will convince your partner to change religion and all your kids will follow your religion, pathetic male dominating society.
Are you girl or boy
Bro , Extremely well explained real scenarios. Actually I didn’t handle the situation well , now I got to know . still more better if I handled, life is good . Hope my life would back . Tx Bro once again . Awaiting for next video . Highly appreciated entire team.
Its right, first of all we should respect each other and we should love them in there own way & congratulations bro for your life. Thank you
Hindus never marry to muslim and christian. Please 🥺🙏 hindutva ko bachaoo. Christian missionaries aakar hindusthan ko hindusthan nahi rehne diye. Their were 100 % Hindus in 18 century but now Hindus are 50% if this continues muslim will lead us.
Please do not convert yourself.