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the reason why this guy gives off a pretty bad and fake vibe, even though i see and know he means it all well, is that he translates the process pretty badly. You are not supposed to believe in a fake reality of having something you dont have yet, because your vibe will feel unauthentic, just as this guy every time he gets insecure, asks intimidatingly if somebody has questions. The thing is: you are supposed to be happy with what you ALREADY have, that is the only thing that will authenticate you in front of anyone. Being happy with yourself, your achievements that you already did. So that you are able to tell yourself and others: you know despite everything, it was a pretty though ride getting at this point already but im glad i got myself here, and im working on it to get better. Because if you are not, you are presenting your achievements as if they were worth nothing. And ive seen people being happy with themself while just being an ugly old construction worker, their vibe is most of the time pretty careless and happy, not because they are faking it or because they are stupid, but because they are genuinely happy with themselves and get their confidence from a real sense of self. That is just an example that you dont even need much achievements to be happy with yourself, you can also be that with just being happy to be alive, to be in the experience, to be grateful. I myself did gain much achievements, and i got out of a really abusive parental household, but a sunny day can still rock my world sometimes. That is really the only guide on how to love and respect yourself and your journey, to find joy in the things you already have and to really appreciate it and others will feel that vibe. Otherwise you will hate your life no matter what woman you get, it will never be enough, its just a bad habit that really takes quite some practice to stop.
frostsnow.com/brent-smith-reveals-how-his-girlfriend-teresa-and-his-son-lyric-santana-smith-changed-his-life proves even the father's book is full of shit. people like Brent Smith and others just use lies to push book sells and they dont even live by what they preach i bet i will get reply's back saying i am wrong and all of that but go read that article i posted nothing about his book or nothing from the article "Smith himself said, I'll never forget the day my girlfriend, Teresa, sat me down on the first of November last year and said, "Listen to me, I love you and I'm not going anywhere, but this lifestyle that you're leading is not going to work." She found me a trainer near our house and on Nov 6, I remember walking into that gym with a bit of a hangover. He further added; It was a different feeling because I was in really bad shape. I'm 5 foot 8 and weighed 222. Teresa had told me it was time to get my life back. I felt like I'd been in a death spiral, and I realized I needed to be healthy and strong for my family. I have a 4-year-old boy, and he was a huge motivation, and so were the fans. I had an epiphany working out with my trainer that day, and I haven't had a drink since." now WHERE IS THE BOOK in that main part because that is all u need to read to get mainly all the info about it, and my i point out it seems like the girlfriend did not want a fat boyfriend and he "HAD TO LOSE WEIGHT" or she prob would of left him lol because read this part over n over again if u think i am so wrong " Teresa sat me down on the first of November last year and said to me i love you and im not going anywhere but this lifestyle that you're leading is not going to work" IMPLYING he has to work or she is going to leave him. she says she wont well we all know that is bullshit. ALSO what if it was the other way around hmm and the boyfriend was telling the girlfriend what to do would that be "sexist" hmmmmm.
If you don't have time to watch the entire video, the technique exercise starts at 26:33. Dear friends, this is working out for me (slowly but surely).
Get Rich, Dress Nice, smell nice, Drive a nice car, own a nice Houses in a up and coming area, have a High paying Job, be hung and great in bed, work long hard hours, Buy them nice Things, take them on vacations, and then you Win..... then get divorced lose half of all your assets and pay her for the rest of your life, congratulations you're winning!
James Mathison unfortunately for us western culture is dominated by postmodernism ☔. Look to the non western cultures Asia , Africa , middle eastern countrys .
Yes--- and you can get all of that by just telling yourself and believing it IN YOUR HEAD.... if you do that and still don't get those things, it is YOUR FAULT still for not believing hard enough. What would my life be dating six women?..... Hell. No time for work. Lots of buying shit for them, decreasing my resources. Better buy a straight professional whore and be done with it, one of those that actually pretend to be your girlfriend... the "real" girlfriend does that too anyhow. She's with you because of all that other shit you have, no woman is lining up or competing to get the homeless guys.
"What's the most important thing I could be doing right now?" If you struggle w/ procrastination, anxiety, decision fatigue and not knowing where to start you can try asking yourself- "What steps can I take to accomplish the most impactful results right now?" Create a small steps process, knock out a bunch of bullet points and work your way up to the bigger tasks. Remember 5,280 ft equal a mile. Focus on one foot in front of the other, just one step at a time. Eventually you'll have covered a lot of distance and that's a mile(stone) worth celebrating. Taking this approach helps me to snowball the initial momentum to steamroll larger obstacles with greater ease and consistent discipline because each day I challenge myself to find ways to increase my efficiency which is a way of game-ifying the workload into bite-sized chunks.
This is pretty cool. Rings a bell. On a dmt trip maybe a decade ago, I was floating in space. I passed through golden arches and suddenly, a familiar voice that I’ve never heard before said to me “To want is to not have, to have is to not want”. It was the most powerful quote I’ve ever heard, and it can from my own mind.
I followed his advice but the unlimited amount of women I attracted created a critical mass from which no light could escape, how do I escape this singularity?
This may all sound crazy to the average person. But it is all real and does work. The biblical principle says " the power of life and death are in the tongue." Also " as a man think of how is in his heart so is he". Be careful what you call into fruition. This is where you need wisdom or you may get what you ask for.
@@shemajonathan3898 Don't matter. There is no science behind any of it. There is however science behind Dunninga-Kruger effect where people that don't know nothing will convince themselves that they are a pro and it will diminish their progress. And you can see that constantly in people in sales with their crazy eyes and mantra without any real progress backing it up.
@@shemajonathan3898 Well everything you see feels touch goes though unconscious. Where are the studies that show 10 people listened to this dudes advice and now they are crushing it? They don't exist.
Maybe cause they don't have the balls to try it. How many people do you think watch this and seriously tries it, am pretty sure the number is really low
The science is in: Social affirmations actually work. Due to psychology. It makes you a more likable person. And likable people get more opportunities.
For the people who call bullshit. What's the alternative to always walk around negative, and always in a shitty mood? Fuck that. Think highly of yourself and put out good vibes cause the alternative sucks.
This is great content. I use these techniques everyday. I create my story and add the words “always” and “as usual” and say the story everyday. Things just happen and I notice things that happen in my life that are in my story that I have said to myself in my story. It feels really good.
Brent Smith is just one of those guys that i can hear them speak all day and never enough. He is great person and i like his message which is to start giving instead of wanting all the time. :)
Audience member: "Can you please explain how to give me the energy to be disciplined to carry out my goals in an effective manner which will provide the most efficient way to succeed in my dreams but overall being consistent towards my goals and end results" Brent: ...what?
Best way to change your story in my opinion and experience is meditation. This has allowed me to realize my shadow personality types, build my confident and charisma.
Being, Doing, Having !!! If you want to have a body of an athlete, first thing is for you to BE an athlete. By Being an athlete by default, you will start Doing exercise and athletic body work. By Doing this work you will naturally HAVE a body of an athlete. It is contraintuitive , because you have to start from the final result or the thing you want to achieve and actually BE this result in your mind from the beginning in order to start DOING the action which will lead you to your desired outcome :')
But what about if you want to BE a particular character (SMOOTH OPERATOR :) You must ask yourself: what characteristics does this type of man has ? If you adopt this type of non attachment no outcome driven attitude, you will naturally start DOING things the way a smooth operator does and you will naturally BEcome this type of character. It is a mindset, it is the way you choose to perceive reality around you. Simple but soooo contraintuitive !
If memory serves, things actually didn't turn out well for the guy. His wife was onto something when she said that they were in fact losers who made no significant contribution to humanity. There are several problems that we can tease out from your quotation. The first is that money is no real foundation, since it's possible to lose it; money is subject to all sorts of circumstances. So the woman who winds up with you (if you're rich) will not love you; she'll just be attached to the money. The so-called relationship, therefore, has no foundation to begin with. It's on shaky ground from the start. A truly powerful male is self-reliant, has a sense of mission or purpose; his strength emanates from within him, and the less he's dependent on circumstances, the better he's off. Even the question as to how to attract quality women is already beginning in the wrong direction. Develop your character, become mentally strong, be excellent at what you do - and you'll attract all kinds of blessings, one of them being quality women. My primary objection to your quotation is that money and power (as Tony understood "power") are only external, and therefore can be taken away... It's still superficial thinking - which tends to attract superficial and untrustworthy (or hollow) women.
Peace bros.. Great knowledge. Any and every successful person who is willing to divulge their methods explain much of what was said in this conversation.. we can do it! The bible says "life and death r in the power of the tongue" And " For we all stumble in many ways, and if anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle his whole body".. control how we speak to ourselves and view ourselves.. peace!
Time To Thrive these times we live in calls for unlimited to avoid drought. Keyword is hypergamy. The one or two you have now is just for now till they think they found better. No matter who you are, a woman of today will always find someone better
This is pretty good, but I am missing the separation between internal and external outcomes. You can definitely identify as someone who takes great steps towards riches, but you can’t just identify as someone who has a million dollars. So, make this about your own behaviors, and let go of any external outcomes that you desired. Not just because you won’t be able to control the external outcomes, only your behavior, but also because you don’t want to limit yourself to the external outcomes that you have envisioned.
This is good. This man and Zan Perrion are the only two I've seen on 21 convention that speak as if they have balls and the people they're talking to have balls. Most of the men are so goddamn sweet and soft. Great information delivered as if they're talking to a bunch of poor, mistreated little 12 year old girls. "Its not your fault you poor little things." Just invite this guy and Zan next year and tell the rest to go find their manhood then come back.
There is a biblical story about the badest of badasses at that time Nathan. For all his success he had a problem, an incurable skin disease. Long story short he comes in contact with a man of God who tells him through a servant simply- "Go bathe in the Jordan river and be made well". To which he immediately refused to do. The cure was too simple and was delivered to him without his accustomed fanfare. While in his rage about the situation, his servant calmed him down by saying "If you were asked to do something extremely difficult- you would have done it. What is the harm of doing this simple thing in order to be made well?"- I am sure you know the rest of the story. Spoiler alert- he followed directions and was cured. I think sometimes we allow our current story (accumulated percieved valor) to prevent us from writing a new one. It is always easier for good normal human beings to criticize a cure rather than to commit to it- especially when its simple. Thanks to those who posted this video and the speaker.
I think he's focusing too much on self talk. Self talk is very important but it has its limitations. It has to be accompanied by an honest assessment of your own skills/strengths, and then taking realistic, attainable steps towards your goal. There is no quick trick anyone can learn to turn their life around, but saying that wouldn't make a great video. Everyone wants to learn a quick technique that's going to solve their problems, and that doesn't exist.
This sounds the same as the Secret. If you just lied to yourself you'd start becoming delusional and in denial. Sure negativity and rumination can cripple you but you need to take action to create a new story. Can't just lie to yourself that you have a lot of women and money energy etc Having said that Brent's manner is very nice and gentlemanly.
I understand this method to be using the self talk to help you get over the hump and take action, and get that good feedback loop going. Not just sitting back and expecting happy thoughts to bring things to you.
Why not try it? I believe the idea is to create good habits instead of bad. Of course action is number 1# but saying you have this in you already can maybe get people to go out and act upon on it. I love this advice from Brent. Create your own story
That's an awesome idea why didn't I think of that myself? Just stroll into the club and drop your sack ( of dope) and the women come to you like moths to a flame. Do you know where to get some shit for bait?
What if you actually are the things that you tell yourself. What if you put in consistent effort to change this but are limited by certain factors outside of your control? This video seems to be suggesting that every action is dependent on mindset. Though I have a hard time agreeing with that. What makes the mind so powerful for this to be possible? Considering the large amount of other factors that influence your day to day experience.
About energy: I had really great energy after going home from a party. It was already mid-day. I was buzzed and smiled to the world on the main street in Oslo, Karl Johan. I caught the eye of a cute girl on the other side of the quite busy street. She came straight over and gave me a kiss.
ACTION! Haha. The answer to all of their questions is get up and make a list of what you want and what you need to do to get it. THEN YOU TAKE THE NECESSARY STEPS TO GET IT! ACTION! one foot in front of the other
Some comments are focusing on other people's stories, and making their stuff a part of your experience. There are women out there for each of us. Here's a story: I attract the type of woman I want, all others are not in my life. Abundance. It doesn't mean being sucked into another's stupidity. Instead, like he said, your story is good at filtering out the undesireables. My Story: I'm MGTOW, RED PILLED, and I have plenty of fun along the way, with all the beautiful women that are good for me :-)
Amazing this video does not teach how to pick up women but be a guy women Pickup on.SO thrilling.THe knowledge is very valuable.NO further words to say.
Whenever an introvert gimme-gimme drops the conversation, just smile and say whatever comes to your mind and have fun with the shit surrounding you. And DO NOT BACK DOWN.
31:25 just imagine sh!t and it will magically manifest! all those kids starving in Africa just don't have a good enough imagination, they need to think about cheeseburgers.
Haha everyone in here looking for someone to give them a magic pill to solve their problems. Your internal paradigms shape your reality, this guy is 100% correct. But I guess it's much easier just to sit in comfort 🤷♂️
The one superpower women posses is the ability to rationalize themselves into believing anything. If you are wealthy, stand to provide her security and treat her/and or your children well, you can look like a toad and she'll convince herself that you're prince charming. Thank god women don't go almost entirely off of looks like we men do, or no one would get laid except Chris Hemsworth.
i've got to stop you already and say that unless you want to be satisfied with a story about how you can't have what you want because you procrastinate, WHY is a terrible question. Next time try this... What do you want? How will you know when you have it? What stops you from having it already? What resources do you have to help you achieve it? & If you had it already what would you be doing differently?
The man who dreams of attracting multiple women in his life while those men who tried the same life path warned future generations of the danger of such undertaking, is a lost man.
Don Oldwell - I been watching mgtow vids then these pickup coaches, it’s a nice dose of conflicting information to digest and come up with what truly make sense for myself.
Good stuff. There comes a point in a man’s life when he just gets tired of chasing and pursuing women all the time. The amount of energy you use to chase women is crazy!. For 2 years now Iv been at the point to where if she don’t pursue me then fine we won’t talk. I live my life enjoying time with close friends and family. I refuse to be a quote on quote salve to women. I’m the prize. Plus this means I get to keep my money 😉. No more dates, of a girl wants to see me I just invite her over and we Netflix and chill. No more wasting time and energy
The pursuit of the grail, where the reality is that you realize at some point, its not what you really want. And another expert, in the field of personal relationships. An external voice, at an (over) price?
idk if im too stupid but i dont see how all this talkis related to girls should i use my head talk to get to what i want or think that i already have it even if i dont
The Guy fails to mention that NoFAP or no masturbation is what gives you the boost in energy that you need. Masturbation takes away sucks away that energy. That energy needs to be overcome to use that energy to create and do and make things happen. Discipline comes from that. Without that lesson you can get to the other stuff but your always wasting away the very first part of the discipline. Not to mention that once you start noFAP woman automatically sense that energy and that is what calls them to you without you doing anything.
I realize this guy is trying to make a very simple point, once put into practice can be powerful. Same guy who said he is lazy in another talk. Anyways I like the idea!
John Scott you can't trust or depend on any woman. Not even my own daughter. I'm not badmouthing my only child, a 33 year old woman but she like her mother is a woman. You can keep one around but you are just taking your turn. My 38 year mairrage is over due to my own good treatment of the mother of my daughter. Experience is a cruel teacher
The Q’n at 34 minutes I can help with that. I coach consciousness and that question is about resistance. There is so much value in this talk. But sometimes positive thoughts doesn’t get deep enough to break the negative self talk. Get in touch and we can do some 1-2-1 coaching: comment below if you want to know more. Or just message me direct.
self hypnosis might seem good but it will not transform you.. to who your are telling your own story to? yourself or others inside yourself.. one cannot strive in constant state of self brainwashing because of fear of not being adequate. only courage, honesty and emptying the mind(silence) is needed.. start with this and the state it will put you will help you master and decipher the rest easily..
This used to happen A LOT to me and all my boys back in high school (before internet/social media) whenever we’d go through a dry spell of not having a girl it felt like it was impossible to get one. Then when we’d FINALLY bag a chick and start dating that’s when girls would start flocking to us everywhere we went. It felt like a cruel game the world was playing on us 😂
Given that dating and finding a job are now the same process.....is this video just gonna tell me to lie like all the job advice videos do? Also.....what do you do if you just fundamentally hate everything, are bored by everything, or dont care and have no passion?. Sure I'm guilty of getting in my own way and make excuses and stuff. Problem is the reason I dont do stuff is because I severely dislike the process of doing those things. And I dont want my life to be one nonstop obligatory chore that I have to keep forcing myself to repeat. Also, the opportunity cost of making certain big choices is just so high that its paralyzing.
I guess the biggest question would be: do you actually care? Why should you care? What do you have in your life right now that makes you even want to keep on going with the bullshit? Why not kill yourself? Not advocating for actually killing yourself, but questioning why you're driven to even carry on can help you find some value to build upon. I had my own depression to go through and for a long time I really didn't give a shit about anything. I decided to stay alive because I was curious to see how bad the story got for this world. That's all. I wanted to know if the world would end in ice or fire. From there, I kept learning to stop from being bored and because I've always enjoyed reading and figuring things out. Eventually I made that into something I could be hired for, and right now I'm looking to go independent. Along the way I found I actually cared for a few parts of the world and I'm willing to take a shot at changing it. Figure out why you're here, even if it isn't some lovey dove fluffy bullshit.
UGh. This is not complicated. Have an athletic build. Work on that. Focus on career. Something that will make you plenty of money to live a middle to upper middle class life style. After that? Socialize.
I understand that, you're trying to make people understand & educate with your whole heart. I appreciate that. But if you can skip that thing ( "Is that make any sense" ) every now & then, it be better coz that doesn't make any sense. In other words, you're thinking that your words doesn't make any sense to others. Change that, change you're story & think, it really does make a great sense to others. You'll be amazed by the results.
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the reason why this guy gives off a pretty bad and fake vibe, even though i see and know he means it all well, is that he translates the process pretty badly. You are not supposed to believe in a fake reality of having something you dont have yet, because your vibe will feel unauthentic, just as this guy every time he gets insecure, asks intimidatingly if somebody has questions. The thing is: you are supposed to be happy with what you ALREADY have, that is the only thing that will authenticate you in front of anyone. Being happy with yourself, your achievements that you already did. So that you are able to tell yourself and others: you know despite everything, it was a pretty though ride getting at this point already but im glad i got myself here, and im working on it to get better. Because if you are not, you are presenting your achievements as if they were worth nothing. And ive seen people being happy with themself while just being an ugly old construction worker, their vibe is most of the time pretty careless and happy, not because they are faking it or because they are stupid, but because they are genuinely happy with themselves and get their confidence from a real sense of self. That is just an example that you dont even need much achievements to be happy with yourself, you can also be that with just being happy to be alive, to be in the experience, to be grateful. I myself did gain much achievements, and i got out of a really abusive parental household, but a sunny day can still rock my world sometimes. That is really the only guide on how to love and respect yourself and your journey, to find joy in the things you already have and to really appreciate it and others will feel that vibe. Otherwise you will hate your life no matter what woman you get, it will never be enough, its just a bad habit that really takes quite some practice to stop.
frostsnow.com/brent-smith-reveals-how-his-girlfriend-teresa-and-his-son-lyric-santana-smith-changed-his-life
proves even the father's book is full of shit. people like Brent Smith and others just use lies to push book sells and they dont even live by what they preach i bet i will get reply's back saying i am wrong and all of that but go read that article i posted nothing about his book or nothing
from the article "Smith himself said,
I'll never forget the day my girlfriend, Teresa, sat me down on the first of November last year and said, "Listen to me, I love you and I'm not going anywhere, but this lifestyle that you're leading is not going to work." She found me a trainer near our house and on Nov 6, I remember walking into that gym with a bit of a hangover.
He further added;
It was a different feeling because I was in really bad shape. I'm 5 foot 8 and weighed 222. Teresa had told me it was time to get my life back. I felt like I'd been in a death spiral, and I realized I needed to be healthy and strong for my family.
I have a 4-year-old boy, and he was a huge motivation, and so were the fans. I had an epiphany working out with my trainer that day, and I haven't had a drink since."
now WHERE IS THE BOOK in that main part because that is all u need to read to get mainly all the info about it, and my i point out it seems like the girlfriend did not want a fat boyfriend and he "HAD TO LOSE WEIGHT" or she prob would of left him lol because read this part over n over again if u think i am so wrong " Teresa sat me down on the first of November last year and said to me i love you and im not going anywhere but this lifestyle that you're leading is not going to work" IMPLYING he has to work or she is going to leave him. she says she wont well we all know that is bullshit. ALSO what if it was the other way around hmm and the boyfriend was telling the girlfriend what to do would that be "sexist" hmmmmm.
Have money and things that cost a lot of money. Youre welcome.
The Count of Monte Christo
If you don't have time to watch the entire video, the technique exercise starts at 26:33. Dear friends, this is working out for me (slowly but surely).
Thanks bud
Lol its fake it till u make it ffs
"Pretend for 24 hours that excuses don't exist" that's brilliant
Sounds like a fucking Facebook post lol
Literally the plot of "Yes Man" with Jim Carry.
Get Rich, Dress Nice, smell nice, Drive a nice car, own a nice Houses in a up and coming area, have a High paying Job, be hung and great in bed, work long hard hours, Buy them nice Things, take them on vacations, and then you Win..... then get divorced lose half of all your assets and pay her for the rest of your life, congratulations you're winning!
Don Lyons DAFAQ that come from? !
Or just get married to a 10 in a country that Favors men problem solved .
ThE BeSt ! Where are these magical places of which you speak? ;-)
James Mathison unfortunately for us western culture is dominated by postmodernism ☔. Look to the non western cultures Asia , Africa , middle eastern countrys .
Yes--- and you can get all of that by just telling yourself and believing it IN YOUR HEAD.... if you do that and still don't get those things, it is YOUR FAULT still for not believing hard enough. What would my life be dating six women?..... Hell.
No time for work. Lots of buying shit for them, decreasing my resources.
Better buy a straight professional whore and be done with it, one of those that actually pretend to be your girlfriend... the "real" girlfriend does that too anyhow. She's with you because of all that other shit you have, no woman is lining up or competing to get the homeless guys.
"What's the most important thing I could be doing right now?"
If you struggle w/ procrastination, anxiety, decision fatigue and not knowing where to start you can try asking yourself-
"What steps can I take to accomplish the most impactful results right now?"
Create a small steps process, knock out a bunch of bullet points and work your way up to the bigger tasks. Remember 5,280 ft equal a mile.
Focus on one foot in front of the other, just one step at a time.
Eventually you'll have covered a lot of distance and that's a mile(stone) worth celebrating.
Taking this approach helps me to snowball the initial momentum to steamroll larger obstacles with greater ease and consistent discipline because each day I challenge myself to find ways to increase my efficiency which is a way of game-ifying the workload into bite-sized chunks.
Whatever story takes up the most space in your mind throughout the day is the one you're going to live. I like that, that's an awesome quote.
Very powerful
Nice
This is pretty cool. Rings a bell. On a dmt trip maybe a decade ago, I was floating in space. I passed through golden arches and suddenly, a familiar voice that I’ve never heard before said to me “To want is to not have, to have is to not want”. It was the most powerful quote I’ve ever heard, and it can from my own mind.
Nice!
I followed his advice but the unlimited amount of women I attracted created a critical mass from which no light could escape, how do I escape this singularity?
decentradical exist simultaneously in an equally plausible singularity where you’re forever alone.
Hawking radiation, but it hasn't been proved yet
Better than attracting unlimited death.
Gold Experience requiem? Is that a JoJoke?
@ULTRA BOBO Incorrect sir! Many women have created a critical mass in my pants.
This may all sound crazy to the average person. But it is all real and does work. The biblical principle says " the power of life and death are in the tongue." Also " as a man think of how is in his heart so is he". Be careful what you call into fruition. This is where you need wisdom or you may get what you ask for.
preach brother. The bible is the only book that has never been wrong
Is that why Anthony curses so much...?
@@StrengthShack1 oh yeah, especially when it ripped off the Epic of Gilgamesh and Greek mythology, normalized slavery and called for killing gays
Child in Africa: I want food. I'm hungry.
Brent Smith: Well that is just a story your telling yourself. Just start saying I have a lot of food.
He is mostly talking about flirting
@@shemajonathan3898 Don't matter. There is no science behind any of it. There is however science behind Dunninga-Kruger effect where people that don't know nothing will convince themselves that they are a pro and it will diminish their progress. And you can see that constantly in people in sales with their crazy eyes and mantra without any real progress backing it up.
It is scientifically proven. What you say goes into your unconscious mind
@@shemajonathan3898 Well everything you see feels touch goes though unconscious. Where are the studies that show 10 people listened to this dudes advice and now they are crushing it? They don't exist.
Maybe cause they don't have the balls to try it. How many people do you think watch this and seriously tries it, am pretty sure the number is really low
I'm so happy for RUclips. This is so much Gold.
The science is in: Social affirmations actually work. Due to psychology. It makes you a more likable person. And likable people get more opportunities.
@@kebman cope
For the people who call bullshit. What's the alternative to always walk around negative, and always in a shitty mood? Fuck that. Think highly of yourself and put out good vibes cause the alternative sucks.
This is great content. I use these techniques everyday. I create my story and add the words “always” and “as usual” and say the story everyday. Things just happen and I notice things that happen in my life that are in my story that I have said to myself in my story. It feels really good.
Man was created in the image of God. How did God create the universe? He spoke things into existence before they were.
@@tmpnz3 is that from the bible?
Attitude is so crucial.
Brent Smith is just one of those guys that i can hear them speak all day and never enough. He is great person and i like his message which is to start giving instead of wanting all the time. :)
Audience member: "Can you please explain how to give me the energy to be disciplined to carry out my goals in an effective manner which will provide the most efficient way to succeed in my dreams but overall being consistent towards my goals and end results"
Brent: ...what?
Stop being simp/beta, ignore women, live a great life!
Wenn du Frauen ignorierst, denken sie das du schwul bist
Any tips on how to restrict unlimited women in your life?
NICE ONE
@@thapelontongwana179 Hola
If you want to keep women away from you just be respectful.
Best way to change your story in my opinion and experience is meditation. This has allowed me to realize my shadow personality types, build my confident and charisma.
@@johnandrewcameron1 People who say cringe are cringe themselves.
Being, Doing, Having !!!
If you want to have a body of an athlete, first thing is for you to BE an athlete.
By Being an athlete by default, you will start Doing exercise and athletic body work. By Doing this work you will naturally HAVE a body of an athlete.
It is contraintuitive , because you have to start from the final result or the thing you want to achieve and actually BE this result in your mind from the beginning in order to start DOING the action which will lead you to your desired outcome :')
But what about if you want to BE a particular character (SMOOTH OPERATOR :)
You must ask yourself: what characteristics does this type of man has ?
If you adopt this type of non attachment no outcome driven attitude, you will naturally start DOING things the way a smooth operator does and you will naturally BEcome this type of character. It is a mindset, it is the way you choose to perceive reality around you.
Simple but soooo contraintuitive !
It's all about Story and Vibe!
"You gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women." ~ Scarface
Bbbbbbrrrrraaaaaaiinnnnwaaaasssshhh
Oh God please not another scarface quote
If memory serves, things actually didn't turn out well for the guy. His wife was onto something when she said that they were in fact losers who made no significant contribution to humanity. There are several problems that we can tease out from your quotation. The first is that money is no real foundation, since it's possible to lose it; money is subject to all sorts of circumstances. So the woman who winds up with you (if you're rich) will not love you; she'll just be attached to the money. The so-called relationship, therefore, has no foundation to begin with. It's on shaky ground from the start. A truly powerful male is self-reliant, has a sense of mission or purpose; his strength emanates from within him, and the less he's dependent on circumstances, the better he's off. Even the question as to how to attract quality women is already beginning in the wrong direction. Develop your character, become mentally strong, be excellent at what you do - and you'll attract all kinds of blessings, one of them being quality women. My primary objection to your quotation is that money and power (as Tony understood "power") are only external, and therefore can be taken away... It's still superficial thinking - which tends to attract superficial and untrustworthy (or hollow) women.
Sage advice way back in the early 80s....Antonio Montana knew exactly what the truth is.....
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"Then you get divorced and lose everything, the balls inclusive“
~ me😉
Had to reread the title 4 more times. This is a very powerful/informative video.💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
purpose, plan, action, follow up, actualization
I don't want it. Too much drama. You contacting my past makes me want to be single forever
brent thank you you changed my life just now🎉
so in other words
Change your mindset = Change your life
Phenomenal lecture! The concept of want vs have is also well addressed by Aaron doughtry too, highly recommend!
This is a gold mine
Brent Smith and Coach Corey Wayne are the best in my opinion!
Javier Campos my only 2 coaches for years
@WhatsHappening783402
Corey Wayne's been doing this dating material for at least 9 or 10 years on youtube, alone.
Boom !!
It's more like: How to Attract Unlimited Drama, Bullshit, and Trouble into Your Life
You have made that decision
Que viagem é essa mano? Tu deve estar atraindo essas coisas aí, credo. Uma coisa tão boa e tu vem e mete o pau. 🥺
Peace bros.. Great knowledge. Any and every successful person who is willing to divulge their methods explain much of what was said in this conversation.. we can do it! The bible says "life and death r in the power of the tongue"
And " For we all stumble in many ways, and if anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle his whole body".. control how we speak to ourselves and view ourselves.. peace!
Unlimited women!? That's a scary concept! One or two is enough Lol
Time To Thrive lol scary concept! 😂😂
More options to choose from!
Time To Thrive these times we live in calls for unlimited to avoid drought. Keyword is hypergamy. The one or two you have now is just for now till they think they found better. No matter who you are, a woman of today will always find someone better
King Solomon had 1,000 wives.
One is too many,ten is not enough
This is pretty good, but I am missing the separation between internal and external outcomes. You can definitely identify as someone who takes great steps towards riches, but you can’t just identify as someone who has a million dollars. So, make this about your own behaviors, and let go of any external outcomes that you desired. Not just because you won’t be able to control the external outcomes, only your behavior, but also because you don’t want to limit yourself to the external outcomes that you have envisioned.
How about some tips on how to attract unlimited money into your life ?
Unlimited stress and unlimited emotional tampon
Exactly, no thank you.
00:31:00
The way you state it, is the way it will happen.
This method got me so many women...
I became one
Haha
This is good. This man and Zan Perrion are the only two I've seen on 21 convention that speak as if they have balls and the people they're talking to have balls. Most of the men are so goddamn sweet and soft. Great information delivered as if they're talking to a bunch of poor, mistreated little 12 year old girls. "Its not your fault you poor little things." Just invite this guy and Zan next year and tell the rest to go find their manhood then come back.
Men need videos like this.
There is a biblical story about the badest of badasses at that time Nathan. For all his success he had a problem, an incurable skin disease. Long story short he comes in contact with a man of God who tells him through a servant simply- "Go bathe in the Jordan river and be made well". To which he immediately refused to do. The cure was too simple and was delivered to him without his accustomed fanfare. While in his rage about the situation, his servant calmed him down by saying "If you were asked to do something extremely difficult- you would have done it. What is the harm of doing this simple thing in order to be made well?"- I am sure you know the rest of the story. Spoiler alert- he followed directions and was cured. I think sometimes we allow our current story (accumulated percieved valor) to prevent us from writing a new one. It is always easier for good normal human beings to criticize a cure rather than to commit to it- especially when its simple. Thanks to those who posted this video and the speaker.
You are right and that's what so many of the commentors on this video are being caught by
Well said Jay, I appreciate your wisdom, insight, and introspective ability
The Bible is false
Funny how I just read this dude's book on Amazon now a vid of him popped up!
whats the name of his book?
Omg! After watching this I have only attracted women without limits! Now I'm broke!
LOL so true!!
😂 😂 😂
How could you be broke? If you were that good they would be buying you things like they do me.
Hookers can do that to man
this dude is a master at wasting people's time WOW
Thank you for saving my time! Went right to the comments.
Just be yourself and follow your dreams. Don’t give up cuz they WILL give up in you-then you’ll see their fickle true colors
So....."mindfulness" and "fake it till you make it". Got it. But what do you do when you have faith or beleif?
I always check the comments section to see what the experts have to say
if two men both attracted "unlimited" number of women into their lives
and the population is finite
would that cause a black hole to emerge?
Whow
I'm worried that one of the women could literally be stretched into spaghetti, as she's simultaneously attracted in two opposite directions
There is a very fine line between being a successful, positive person and someone who is completely full of it. Just make up a story? idk man...
MidKnightblue0013 - the whole time he never said write a realistic story. Some stories aren’t as possible when you try it. So failure will pile up.
I think he's focusing too much on self talk. Self talk is very important but it has its limitations. It has to be accompanied by an honest assessment of your own skills/strengths, and then taking realistic, attainable steps towards your goal. There is no quick trick anyone can learn to turn their life around, but saying that wouldn't make a great video. Everyone wants to learn a quick technique that's going to solve their problems, and that doesn't exist.
This sounds the same as the Secret. If you just lied to yourself you'd start becoming delusional and in denial. Sure negativity and rumination can cripple you but you need to take action to create a new story. Can't just lie to yourself that you have a lot of women and money energy etc Having said that Brent's manner is very nice and gentlemanly.
Man, I think the same. Sounds like the Secret, or Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich.
But you lie to yourself anyway on a daily basis
I understand this method to be using the self talk to help you get over the hump and take action, and get that good feedback loop going. Not just sitting back and expecting happy thoughts to bring things to you.
Why not try it? I believe the idea is to create good habits instead of bad. Of course action is number 1# but saying you have this in you already can maybe get people to go out and act upon on it. I love this advice from Brent. Create your own story
Everything starts in your mind first.
"Having what you want..."
Good discussion.
That was one of the best talks on positive masculinity that I've ever seen
Man....you just blew my mind!!
my 5 quid says the dude is high as a kite
his mantra is "need more cocaine to keep my energy levels bursting"
That's an awesome idea why didn't I think of that myself?
Just stroll into the club and drop your sack ( of dope) and the women come to you like moths to a flame.
Do you know where to get some shit for bait?
This man Is correct. Create In your mind and it will happen
Nope, life doesn´t work like that.
What if you actually are the things that you tell yourself. What if you put in consistent effort to change this but are limited by certain factors outside of your control?
This video seems to be suggesting that every action is dependent on mindset. Though I have a hard time agreeing with that. What makes the mind so powerful for this to be possible? Considering the large amount of other factors that influence your day to day experience.
About energy: I had really great energy after going home from a party. It was already mid-day. I was buzzed and smiled to the world on the main street in Oslo, Karl Johan. I caught the eye of a cute girl on the other side of the quite busy street. She came straight over and gave me a kiss.
12:08 the speaker says "why don't you have it.." and follow it with "because those things are really easy to get." How so? Please elaborate.
Answer: be over 6' tall, handsome, and rich.
Washington Consultants cannot be. Its impossible
hah, no. You are doing exactly what he said not to.. whining in your victim story. Pay attention or fuck off loser
that's the threshold. then be a great active listener, funny and great in sex. starter pack of success donnnne
@@SherrickDuncan Men like fixing things. Women like fixing people.
@@SherrickDuncan Gospel Preaching!! Most of the young church women are busy hookin up with bad boys
ACTION! Haha. The answer to all of their questions is get up and make a list of what you want and what you need to do to get it. THEN YOU TAKE THE NECESSARY STEPS TO GET IT!
ACTION! one foot in front of the other
Some comments are focusing on other people's stories, and making their stuff a part of your experience. There are women out there for each of us. Here's a story: I attract the type of woman I want, all others are not in my life. Abundance. It doesn't mean being sucked into another's stupidity. Instead, like he said, your story is good at filtering out the undesireables. My Story: I'm MGTOW, RED PILLED, and I have plenty of fun along the way, with all the beautiful women that are good for me :-)
Amazing this video does not teach how to pick up women but be a guy women Pickup on.SO thrilling.THe knowledge is very valuable.NO further words to say.
@21 Studios Hi Guys, love this lecture. The only thing I wanted to ask is if Brent can share his own personal mantras because I've got curious.
Whenever an introvert gimme-gimme drops the conversation, just smile and say whatever comes to your mind and have fun with the shit surrounding you. And DO NOT BACK DOWN.
Does the method work as well with the acquisition of bacon?
Great vid Actionable is trackable Objective over Subjective always gets the win.
31:25 just imagine sh!t and it will magically manifest! all those kids starving in Africa just don't have a good enough imagination, they need to think about cheeseburgers.
Lol
"How To Attract Unlimited Women In Your Life" is like saying "How To Attract Unlimited Vampires In Your Life".
Coming soon, my next DVD set : "How to Attract Unlimited Mice Into Your Home"
Interesting, I'm gonna try this on my next day off
Bro u should have no days off
I hear a lot of people keep on talking about Episoketren System. But Im not sure if it's good. Have you ever try this popular training course?
Oh, you mean the annoying bot advertisement scam "system"?
Haha everyone in here looking for someone to give them a magic pill to solve their problems.
Your internal paradigms shape your reality, this guy is 100% correct. But I guess it's much easier just to sit in comfort 🤷♂️
Unlimited women = Harem
Women willing to live in a Harem= Golddiggers
You are attracting a problem
Not only could you have a steady supply of beautiful women, they would also be buying you things.
Great guy.👍
I uploaded a single pic into online dating platforms and guess what? The accounts were reported and removed because they were declared scam.
I stopped the video TWICE to change my story!.....
The one superpower women posses is the ability to rationalize themselves into believing anything. If you are wealthy, stand to provide her security and treat her/and or your children well, you can look like a toad and she'll convince herself that you're prince charming. Thank god women don't go almost entirely off of looks like we men do, or no one would get laid except Chris Hemsworth.
Don't forget his brother Liam...
i've got to stop you already and say that unless you want to be satisfied with a story about how you can't have what you want because you procrastinate, WHY is a terrible question. Next time try this... What do you want? How will you know when you have it? What stops you from having it already? What resources do you have to help you achieve it? & If you had it already what would you be doing differently?
The man who dreams of attracting multiple women in his life while those men who tried the same life path warned future generations of the danger of such undertaking, is a lost man.
Don Oldwell - I been watching mgtow vids then these pickup coaches, it’s a nice dose of conflicting information to digest and come up with what truly make sense for myself.
Be careful what you wish for...
Good stuff. There comes a point in a man’s life when he just gets tired of chasing and pursuing women all the time. The amount of energy you use to chase women is crazy!. For 2 years now Iv been at the point to where if she don’t pursue me then fine we won’t talk. I live my life enjoying time with close friends and family. I refuse to be a quote on quote salve to women. I’m the prize. Plus this means I get to keep my money 😉. No more dates, of a girl wants to see me I just invite her over and we Netflix and chill. No more wasting time and energy
The pursuit of the grail, where the reality is that you realize at some point, its not what you really want.
And another expert, in the field of personal relationships. An external voice, at an (over) price?
There is no technique BE the man a woman would love to have!
Simple.
idk if im too stupid but i dont see how all this talkis related to girls
should i use my head talk to get to what i want or think that i already have it even if i dont
It's not even worth it !! Why ? So they can run a game on you and try to take all that you have years later ! No thanks!!
you never lied sir.
The Guy fails to mention that NoFAP or no masturbation is what gives you the boost in energy that you need. Masturbation takes away sucks away that energy. That energy needs to be overcome to use that energy to create and do and make things happen. Discipline comes from that. Without that lesson you can get to the other stuff but your always wasting away the very first part of the discipline. Not to mention that once you start noFAP woman automatically sense that energy and that is what calls them to you without you doing anything.
I realize this guy is trying to make a very simple point, once put into practice can be powerful. Same guy who said he is lazy in another talk. Anyways I like the idea!
I don't want to date multiple hot women. I only want one woman. One who can count on me and on whom I can depend.
John Scott you can't trust or depend on any woman. Not even my own daughter.
I'm not badmouthing my only child, a 33 year old woman but she like her mother is a woman.
You can keep one around but you are just taking your turn. My 38 year mairrage is over due to my own good treatment of the mother of my daughter.
Experience is a cruel teacher
The Q’n at 34 minutes I can help with that. I coach consciousness and that question is about resistance. There is so much value in this talk. But sometimes positive thoughts doesn’t get deep enough to break the negative self talk. Get in touch and we can do some 1-2-1 coaching: comment below if you want to know more. Or just message me direct.
self hypnosis might seem good but it will not transform you.. to who your are telling your own story to? yourself or others inside yourself.. one cannot strive in constant state of self brainwashing because of fear of not being adequate.
only courage, honesty and emptying the mind(silence) is needed.. start with this and the state it will put you will help you master and decipher the rest easily..
This used to happen A LOT to me and all my boys back in high school (before internet/social media) whenever we’d go through a dry spell of not having a girl it felt like it was impossible to get one. Then when we’d FINALLY bag a chick and start dating that’s when girls would start flocking to us everywhere we went. It felt like a cruel game the world was playing on us 😂
This was good stuff. I like how he opened the floor up to tailor it a bit instead of rambling about some bs for an hour...
Attract unlimited women into my life? Seriously? His next video: "How to get mugged every time you leave the house."
nice
NICK SPARKS 42:41
That's what I thought! 😃
This is the Law of Attraction reboxed. Just saved you the time and money of getting involved in another infomercial. You're welcome.
Given that dating and finding a job are now the same process.....is this video just gonna tell me to lie like all the job advice videos do?
Also.....what do you do if you just fundamentally hate everything, are bored by everything, or dont care and have no passion?. Sure I'm guilty of getting in my own way and make excuses and stuff. Problem is the reason I dont do stuff is because I severely dislike the process of doing those things. And I dont want my life to be one nonstop obligatory chore that I have to keep forcing myself to repeat. Also, the opportunity cost of making certain big choices is just so high that its paralyzing.
I guess the biggest question would be: do you actually care? Why should you care? What do you have in your life right now that makes you even want to keep on going with the bullshit? Why not kill yourself?
Not advocating for actually killing yourself, but questioning why you're driven to even carry on can help you find some value to build upon. I had my own depression to go through and for a long time I really didn't give a shit about anything. I decided to stay alive because I was curious to see how bad the story got for this world. That's all. I wanted to know if the world would end in ice or fire. From there, I kept learning to stop from being bored and because I've always enjoyed reading and figuring things out. Eventually I made that into something I could be hired for, and right now I'm looking to go independent. Along the way I found I actually cared for a few parts of the world and I'm willing to take a shot at changing it.
Figure out why you're here, even if it isn't some lovey dove fluffy bullshit.
UGh. This is not complicated. Have an athletic build. Work on that. Focus on career. Something that will make you plenty of money to live a middle to upper middle class life style. After that? Socialize.
I understand that, you're trying to make people understand & educate with your whole heart. I appreciate that. But if you can skip that thing ( "Is that make any sense" ) every now & then, it be better coz that doesn't make any sense. In other words, you're thinking that your words doesn't make any sense to others. Change that, change you're story & think, it really does make a great sense to others. You'll be amazed by the results.
Fuck all that, WIN THE LOTTERY! CASE CLOSED