Scottish comedian and talk show host, Craig Ferguson said it best: What to ask yourself when reacting to something you didn’t like in an argument or situation. 1. Does it need to be said? 2. Does it need to be said by me? 3. Does it need to be said by me right now?
My wife rarely gets like that thankfully. When she does I'll say something like 'Yes mom.' and she gets the message. If I'm stressed and she does it that can create an unpleasant situation.
Step one is to ask: “What am I in fear of which is driving my impulse to try to control other people?” Answer that honestly and then ask: “What will I do about that thing, since I can only control myself, not others.” Do all that work first, then, instead of presenting all of this with resentment, deliver all of this to him as a gift, as a show and tell. A good man, when presented with an issue that’s already had all the things not within him worked on, if not fixed, values this.
I personally find it quite annoying when my wife tries to control me like I'm a kid. I used to let it go, but now I immediately remind her that I am 30 years old and don't need a second mother. I have also become more and more aggressive (in my tone of voice) in my response every time she does that. The good news is that she's doing it less and less.
@@SilviaLampa Men have a more linear and easier understanding of control in comparison to their Wives. Wives control with Emotion, Men do the exact opposite. If your Husband doesn’t check you for your behavior then he is in the wrong. I’m not saying being controlling is the way to go for Men, but what I am saying that Men can do it logically and are better suited for that. But it all depends on the Men you choose to be with, especially if he is disciplined and taught by his Father to be more of a Leader. Those that lead are in the frontlines taking the brunt of the hits, those that follows take much less of it. If you do those things, you’re the follower, and thats completely okay. Its better for the Husbands to keep their wives on check than to leave them unchecked, too many stories out there of unchecked wives destroying families because no one has checked their behavior and to keep them accountable.
@@westleyramirez3036 wives are not children ,we dont need to be checked. Also ,this whole sexist idea that women are not logical is not scientific, STOP IT. It's people like this woman who wants us to live in a society like the Handmaid's Tale. Women are logical too and make good leaders. The worse people in history were men
@@SilviaLampa Lady, you say wives are not children, and yet their behavior displays otherwise, and they are not being checked by anyone. Not just Husbands. I can tell you by statistics that divorce rates are high in the U.S. due to women initiating it. Not because of the issues of marriage, but because of A. They believe they can do better. And B. They are bored and would want excitement. Children do those things, and the ones that does it the most are Women, and no one checks them. Those that do check them are logical, because they cared enough for them to get better, not to get worse. Husbands do that so that their wives should see what they are displaying, but due to Women being more attuned to their own emotions and not listening to their spouse, they just simply walk away. Nobody likes a contentious woman, and they do not make good leaders. Give me a list of good leading women and I’ll give you a list of thousand more men in history who has displayed more leadership qualities than the ones we got today. Exceptions don’t make the rule, and they do not last, simply because they are not suited for that role, not because it is sexist. If it is sexist, show me a source, and I’ll back it up with statistics and proof that more often than not, the women lead with emotions more, and thats by nature.
I wouldn’t try to control my husband, nor would I allow him to control me. We are fully equal partners. This is merely treating others how we wish to be treated, which I hoped we would have learned in kindergarten.
Your husband isn’t the Emergency Room. He isn’t 911. You do not get to act reckless, get destroyed then show up at will and without having done your own homework. You’re an adult. Prove it.
I really needed this right now because I’m dealing with this now! My husband gave a ride to a lady at work and just the thought of them working together makes me feel bad. And it shouldn’t be this way. It has cause me to start nagging a little and just asking so many questions. I don’t want to feel like this. 😪
You can effectively communicate that to him without going crazy about it. Present an example of the opposite situation, you doing that for a male co-worker. Hopefully he gets it.
Even as a single divorced man, I would not give a female coworker a ride in this current society. All she has to do is make false allegations to human resources and as a man, you have an uphill battle. I've seen how vindictive women can be, I'm divorced because my ex-wife cheated.
@@darthvader1793 that’s not always the case. We talked about it, I met her in a Christmas party from his job, she has a significant other and kids plus we don’t even live in the same state anymore we moved about a month ago.
Great video, I learned this the hard way and I have caused sooo many issues between us. And he was always more receptive when I suggested ideas instead of being a b**** and telling him what to do. And as time has gone on he has shown me he knows exactly what hes doing to make a good future for us and our future babies. Thanks again Rebecca!
Girl! I have learned this the hard way too. My husband does not respond at all to me yelling. He just walks away. I've learned that just saying what I need to say and dropping it has had the best results.
@@FSVR54 it took time because we started dating while we were children and we grew up together and yes it took time for me to see him turning into a responsible man. Yes I know men don't want second mother's wtf is your point?
@@FSVR54 I'm growing as a woman, I'm learning how to treat a man since my parents have a terrible relationship and I knew nothing else. How about don't knock people down that are trying to better and have a healthy relationship.
@@oliviasmith5347 no reason to be mad and aggressive. I'm simply pointing out the fact that it should be glaringly obvious to anyone that men don't like being nagged. it's like learning to breathe
Nice ominous music. You would be amazed how often the remote control for the tv is the source of control issues, like women will freak out if she cant hold it , , or gets irritated if you usevit to change the channel on a commercial break, ( and believe me i have a sixth sense for time) i know when the commercial is coming and exactly how long it is . You can feel the anxiety and the relief when you go back to her channel and , how ypu put it down and count how long it takes for her to pick it up , when she thinks your not looking, , its a red flag for control issues. ( fyi not talking about a disagreement on what to watch, il watch her shows, just not commercials)
@@RebeccaBarrett really you would be amazed. Some people cant let go , or another one driving, some people cant stand being a passenger in a car they need to drive , it gives them anxiety. ( back seat drivers) i i prefer having the remote, but it doesn't bother me , but even my sister, oh the drama when were were kids , eventually our mother got us a separate television, , 30 years later she is still a control freak , believe me her husband does not hold the remote. Lol . She will change the channel, but she needs to hold it , lol , for me its an early relationship battle i must win , and then be magnanimous about. But i will watch her shows even if they are stupid, or record things i know she will enjoy , the only thing that really bores me is advertising. It gets on my nerves, ( tv advertising)
Can I say as a man that a humble feminine woman can calm me sooooooo quick even if I’m upset with her. My wife has made me a better man because of her beautiful nature. Just remember that humility is the foundation of every Christian walk and every relationship
The other side of this is gratitude and praise when your guy does something better. Just being grateful is a huge motivation for the next time you drop a hint that you want something. It takes deliberate attention to even notice something to praise. It also takes self-control. If someone takes too long to do something you feel a right to; you're tempted to punish (criticize, etc) them one more time when they do it. That's the difference between your man wanting to make you happy or dreading to interact with you.
My is a big helper and selfless. Almost to a fault. Sometimes I just don’t want her help with certain things, especially if it’s something that I’ve done before and I know exactly what I’m doing. For instance driving in inclement weather or watching out for traffic lights and signs. This happened when we’re returning home along a certain route, which is a route I’m very familiar with. I told her I know what I’m doing and I don’t need her to tell me anything. She used some choice words and told me to show some appreciation. Completely unnecessary, but it’s a small example of the types of conflict we have. I’m trying to help her understand, that as a man, I don’t always need her help. Especially with something small as driving. And it’s not being unappreciative or unwilling to accept help.
When I first met my boyfriend I loved everything about him for who he was as a person, however he chewed tobacco just like my dad did. When my dad would chew tobacco it was disgusting, the bottles he spat in were nasty and smelled horrid and he'd even spit on the floor in public or at stores, it was gross. I never wanted anyone like that and I told my boyfriend that if he wanted to be with me, that was something he'd have to kick, especially if we were to have kids one day as I wouldn't want my potential kids to see that. We're about to hit our 1 year anniversary in February and we may have had bumps in the road (he was addicted to it because of the nicotine, I know kicking it wasn't gonna happen overnight) but I feel like I helped him kick this addiction. He said he always wanted to kick it but never saw a reason as to why he should until I came along. He chews smokey mountain, an alternative to chewing tobacco with no nicotine and I'm proud he did that just for me. I will cherish him forever because he did that just for me. You can help change someone for the better without being naggy.
If the women have to do all of the things that they're nagging their husbands to do, why even be in that relationship? Cut the stress out. Its not worth it. BUT women doing it all themselves does make them resentful and made to feel like their husband's mother, which isn't sexy or attractive.
Ladies? Here's a scenario you don't want to put your husband in. For example? You can ask him, babe? You better Make sure you pick up the kid's from school on time! For one ? Don't tell your husband you better! 2 ? And my wife was so good at this? I could be late 1 time picking them up and she would fly off the handle and say stuff like? I told you you better pick them up on time! That's another tardy on there records! Next they'll be kicked out of school!!! Then they'll be home all day!! They'll get comfortable and never wanna go back to school!! They'll turn into criminals and end up in jail!! And it'll be all your fault!! I can tell most men feel bad when they mess up. But? The last thing we need is to be crucified for every single mistake
Pertaining to What @rebecca just said, I highly Recommend for every person in a relationship to also read the book called "It Takes One to Tango by Winifred M. Reilly ". This book helps you see that it is a 100/100 not 50/50. We do not have to be perfect, but we have be whole to give a 100.
This is a good message and I think you’ve made it as part of a larger discussion. If I’m not mistaken, this was advice that was given to you by a counselor, Gandalf the Grey I believe. You should add this. Someone gave you this pearl of wisdom and you saw the value.
we were hunter gatherers for most of our biological history. Famine was often at our door. The ability to nag probably meant survival. Men were also before the industrial revolution (so again all of our biological history) the principle caregivers for older toddlers from about age 4 a lot of the time. This was due to newborns. Just look in women's Facebook pages and you can see the posts from women wanting men to fulfil the provide and care role but due to how post industrial revolution workplace is its impossible for men to do this. I grew up on a farm so I can remember the vast amount of "helping," that I did with my Dad. This was in reality male caregiving
Hi Rebecca, my wife and I have been married for 47 years and she does not understand that I am not her child. We have been working on this for a while. She is a fantastic mom but not such a good wife. Respect is NOT treating your man like a child. My wife has bad ADD so she keeps repeating the same things over and over when I got it the first time. Per Myer Briggs test I am a high level Mastermind. As for personality I am a sigma male. Not exactly sure how to get her to be better at respect and honor as she does not care to work on herself as a person. Any ideas would be appreciated. Henry
Continue to work on yourself. Show yourself respect and she will see that through you. Set clear boundaries around that issue. Change needs to come from her. You can't change her with your words. You can only change yourself for the better, hopefully she gets with the program.
Wait.. are we married to the same person? LOL say it once... Gahhhh fine. I can't control the lessons he has to learn. I can be happy despite his choices. Need this to sink in very badly.
These clips are super. Need to add some content for the guys to mull over, react to, and learn from. It's not only the women making 'things' difficult.
Probably most men want (really need) admiration and respect from their wives. Criticism is often taking him down a notch, and he can be motivated to resist it to try to regain the respect and admiration you've withdrawn. If you've started to bully him (make him miserable to get what you want) will you even lose respect for him if he gives in?
Yes Rebecca women don't have the right to control a men's life!! Wife should be submissive and should submit to the will of husband . That's the natural order . Women and men are not equal . We're supposed to dominate women not them ! A women should not question her husband and should serve the men ! A wife should bear children and should be in kitchen cooking for us ! That's the way it was and it should be forever. That's how nature work But this days the modern women 🤦♂️ I wish I had a wife like u 🥰
Scottish comedian and talk show host, Craig Ferguson said it best:
What to ask yourself when reacting to something you didn’t like in an argument or situation.
1. Does it need to be said?
2. Does it need to be said by me?
3. Does it need to be said by me right now?
yes!! EXACTLY!
I use to be like this but now I have more patience and just accept my man who he is unless it’s something serious.
"We will talk about it later" is the magic sentence.
Keep your time, pick your words, and you'll be ... honored.
My wife rarely gets like that thankfully. When she does I'll say something like 'Yes mom.' and she gets the message. If I'm stressed and she does it that can create an unpleasant situation.
My husband does that to me too 😂 I lock it up real quick
Step one is to ask:
“What am I in fear of which is driving my impulse to try to control other people?”
Answer that honestly and then ask:
“What will I do about that thing, since I can only control myself, not others.”
Do all that work first, then, instead of presenting all of this with resentment, deliver all of this to him as a gift, as a show and tell.
A good man, when presented with an issue that’s already had all the things not within him worked on, if not fixed, values this.
I personally find it quite annoying when my wife tries to control me like I'm a kid. I used to let it go, but now I immediately remind her that I am 30 years old and don't need a second mother.
I have also become more and more aggressive (in my tone of voice) in my response every time she does that. The good news is that she's doing it less and less.
So you’re training her like a Pavlovian dog 👍👍
Just like men should not try to control their wives
@@SilviaLampa Men have a more linear and easier understanding of control in comparison to their Wives. Wives control with Emotion, Men do the exact opposite. If your Husband doesn’t check you for your behavior then he is in the wrong. I’m not saying being controlling is the way to go for Men, but what I am saying that Men can do it logically and are better suited for that. But it all depends on the Men you choose to be with, especially if he is disciplined and taught by his Father to be more of a Leader. Those that lead are in the frontlines taking the brunt of the hits, those that follows take much less of it. If you do those things, you’re the follower, and thats completely okay. Its better for the Husbands to keep their wives on check than to leave them unchecked, too many stories out there of unchecked wives destroying families because no one has checked their behavior and to keep them accountable.
@@westleyramirez3036 wives are not children ,we dont need to be checked. Also ,this whole sexist idea that women are not logical is not scientific, STOP IT. It's people like this woman who wants us to live in a society like the Handmaid's Tale. Women are logical too and make good leaders. The worse people in history were men
@@SilviaLampa Lady, you say wives are not children, and yet their behavior displays otherwise, and they are not being checked by anyone. Not just Husbands. I can tell you by statistics that divorce rates are high in the U.S. due to women initiating it. Not because of the issues of marriage, but because of A. They believe they can do better. And B. They are bored and would want excitement. Children do those things, and the ones that does it the most are Women, and no one checks them. Those that do check them are logical, because they cared enough for them to get better, not to get worse. Husbands do that so that their wives should see what they are displaying, but due to Women being more attuned to their own emotions and not listening to their spouse, they just simply walk away. Nobody likes a contentious woman, and they do not make good leaders. Give me a list of good leading women and I’ll give you a list of thousand more men in history who has displayed more leadership qualities than the ones we got today. Exceptions don’t make the rule, and they do not last, simply because they are not suited for that role, not because it is sexist. If it is sexist, show me a source, and I’ll back it up with statistics and proof that more often than not, the women lead with emotions more, and thats by nature.
I'm picturing a woman listening to this while there is smoke coming out of her ears saying, "Does not compute! Does not compute!"
It’s probably the worst message to tell women, they absolutely hate it
I wouldn’t try to control my husband, nor would I allow him to control me. We are fully equal partners. This is merely treating others how we wish to be treated, which I hoped we would have learned in kindergarten.
Respect ✊🏾
A woman nagging her man is like a man spitting in his woman's face and smashing her phone. It should NEVER be tolerated!
Ok that's exaggerating a bit
Well that’s how men feel when they get nagged
Your husband isn’t the Emergency Room. He isn’t 911.
You do not get to act reckless, get destroyed then show up at will and without having done your own homework.
You’re an adult. Prove it.
I really needed this right now because I’m dealing with this now! My husband gave a ride to a lady at work and just the thought of them working together makes me feel bad. And it shouldn’t be this way. It has cause me to start nagging a little and just asking so many questions. I don’t want to feel like this. 😪
You can effectively communicate that to him without going crazy about it. Present an example of the opposite situation, you doing that for a male co-worker. Hopefully he gets it.
Even as a single divorced man, I would not give a female coworker a ride in this current society. All she has to do is make false allegations to human resources and as a man, you have an uphill battle. I've seen how vindictive women can be, I'm divorced because my ex-wife cheated.
@@RebeccaBarrett good idea
That’s a good idea
@@darthvader1793 that’s not always the case. We talked about it, I met her in a Christmas party from his job, she has a significant other and kids plus we don’t even live in the same state anymore we moved about a month ago.
Great video, I learned this the hard way and I have caused sooo many issues between us. And he was always more receptive when I suggested ideas instead of being a b**** and telling him what to do. And as time has gone on he has shown me he knows exactly what hes doing to make a good future for us and our future babies. Thanks again Rebecca!
Girl! I have learned this the hard way too. My husband does not respond at all to me yelling. He just walks away. I've learned that just saying what I need to say and dropping it has had the best results.
But why does it take time to figure that out? I don't understand why it isn't glaringly obvious that a man doesn't want a second mother.
@@FSVR54 it took time because we started dating while we were children and we grew up together and yes it took time for me to see him turning into a responsible man. Yes I know men don't want second mother's wtf is your point?
@@FSVR54 I'm growing as a woman, I'm learning how to treat a man since my parents have a terrible relationship and I knew nothing else. How about don't knock people down that are trying to better and have a healthy relationship.
@@oliviasmith5347 no reason to be mad and aggressive. I'm simply pointing out the fact that it should be glaringly obvious to anyone that men don't like being nagged. it's like learning to breathe
Love these types of videos!!
Women, take notes!
thank you Oscar
Nice ominous music. You would be amazed how often the remote control for the tv is the source of control issues, like women will freak out if she cant hold it , , or gets irritated if you usevit to change the channel on a commercial break, ( and believe me i have a sixth sense for time) i know when the commercial is coming and exactly how long it is . You can feel the anxiety and the relief when you go back to her channel and , how ypu put it down and count how long it takes for her to pick it up , when she thinks your not looking, , its a red flag for control issues. ( fyi not talking about a disagreement on what to watch, il watch her shows, just not commercials)
My editor is the best! Really the remote control?!
@@RebeccaBarrett really you would be amazed. Some people cant let go , or another one driving, some people cant stand being a passenger in a car they need to drive , it gives them anxiety. ( back seat drivers) i i prefer having the remote, but it doesn't bother me , but even my sister, oh the drama when were were kids , eventually our mother got us a separate television, , 30 years later she is still a control freak , believe me her husband does not hold the remote. Lol . She will change the channel, but she needs to hold it , lol , for me its an early relationship battle i must win , and then be magnanimous about.
But i will watch her shows even if they are stupid, or record things i know she will enjoy , the only thing that really bores me is advertising. It gets on my nerves, ( tv advertising)
I wouldn’t say it’s a red flag, just anxiety issues. I know a lot of people who do similar stuff like that
I’d love to see more of these types of videos on your channel! It’s beyond helpful and I am struggling with this so much 😞
Thank you so much! More to come
Can I say as a man that a humble feminine woman can calm me sooooooo quick even if I’m upset with her. My wife has made me a better man because of her beautiful nature.
Just remember that humility is the foundation of every Christian walk and every relationship
The other side of this is gratitude and praise when your guy does something better. Just being grateful is a huge motivation for the next time you drop a hint that you want something.
It takes deliberate attention to even notice something to praise.
It also takes self-control. If someone takes too long to do something you feel a right to; you're tempted to punish (criticize, etc) them one more time when they do it.
That's the difference between your man wanting to make you happy or dreading to interact with you.
Damn! The music is dramatic💔🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭 💀💀💀💀💀💀⚰⚰⚰⚰⚰⚰
Thanks for another great video 🙏🏾
Control is different from submission.
Imagine when the control is about finances. Like she wants to buy a chanel bag. 🤔
My is a big helper and selfless. Almost to a fault. Sometimes I just don’t want her help with certain things, especially if it’s something that I’ve done before and I know exactly what I’m doing. For instance driving in inclement weather or watching out for traffic lights and signs.
This happened when we’re returning home along a certain route, which is a route I’m very familiar with. I told her I know what I’m doing and I don’t need her to tell me anything. She used some choice words and told me to show some appreciation. Completely unnecessary, but it’s a small example of the types of conflict we have. I’m trying to help her understand, that as a man, I don’t always need her help. Especially with something small as driving. And it’s not being unappreciative or unwilling to accept help.
When I first met my boyfriend I loved everything about him for who he was as a person, however he chewed tobacco just like my dad did. When my dad would chew tobacco it was disgusting, the bottles he spat in were nasty and smelled horrid and he'd even spit on the floor in public or at stores, it was gross. I never wanted anyone like that and I told my boyfriend that if he wanted to be with me, that was something he'd have to kick, especially if we were to have kids one day as I wouldn't want my potential kids to see that. We're about to hit our 1 year anniversary in February and we may have had bumps in the road (he was addicted to it because of the nicotine, I know kicking it wasn't gonna happen overnight) but I feel like I helped him kick this addiction. He said he always wanted to kick it but never saw a reason as to why he should until I came along. He chews smokey mountain, an alternative to chewing tobacco with no nicotine and I'm proud he did that just for me. I will cherish him forever because he did that just for me. You can help change someone for the better without being naggy.
If the women have to do all of the things that they're nagging their husbands to do, why even be in that relationship? Cut the stress out. Its not worth it. BUT women doing it all themselves does make them resentful and made to feel like their husband's mother, which isn't sexy or attractive.
you nailed it
Thanks rebecca, welcome home . There's no place like home ( dorothy the wizard of oz )
There really isn’t! I’m so happy to be back
Needful. Concise and helpful. Thanks Rebecca
Ladies? Here's a scenario you don't want to put your husband in. For example? You can ask him, babe? You better Make sure you pick up the kid's from school on time! For one ? Don't tell your husband you better! 2 ? And my wife was so good at this? I could be late 1 time picking them up and she would fly off the handle and say stuff like? I told you you better pick them up on time! That's another tardy on there records! Next they'll be kicked out of school!!! Then they'll be home all day!! They'll get comfortable and never wanna go back to school!! They'll turn into criminals and end up in jail!! And it'll be all your fault!! I can tell most men feel bad when they mess up. But? The last thing we need is to be crucified for every single mistake
Pertaining to What @rebecca just said, I highly Recommend for every person in a relationship to also read the book called "It Takes One to Tango by Winifred M. Reilly ". This book helps you see that it is a 100/100 not 50/50. We do not have to be perfect, but we have be whole to give a 100.
Thank you for the book recommendation! That is correct.
TY!! Great info and kind delivery. Recently found out im not as helpful as i thought. Lol. I love my husband so im trying.
This is a good message and I think you’ve made it as part of a larger discussion. If I’m not mistaken, this was advice that was given to you by a counselor, Gandalf the Grey I believe. You should add this. Someone gave you this pearl of wisdom and you saw the value.
we were hunter gatherers for most of our biological history. Famine was often at our door. The ability to nag probably meant survival.
Men were also before the industrial revolution (so again all of our biological history) the principle caregivers for older toddlers from about age 4 a lot of the time. This was due to newborns.
Just look in women's Facebook pages and you can see the posts from women wanting men to fulfil the provide and care role but due to how post industrial revolution workplace is its impossible for men to do this.
I grew up on a farm so I can remember the vast amount of "helping," that I did with my Dad. This was in reality male caregiving
My STBX seems to be genetically incapable of understanding what you are saying.
Hi Rebecca, my wife and I have been married for 47 years and she does not understand that I am not her child. We have been working on this for a while. She is a fantastic mom but not such a good wife. Respect is NOT treating your man like a child. My wife has bad ADD so she keeps repeating the same things over and over when I got it the first time. Per Myer Briggs test I am a high level Mastermind. As for personality I am a sigma male. Not exactly sure how to get her to be better at respect and honor as she does not care to work on herself as a person. Any ideas would be appreciated.
Henry
Headphones for you.
Continue to work on yourself. Show yourself respect and she will see that through you. Set clear boundaries around that issue. Change needs to come from her. You can't change her with your words. You can only change yourself for the better, hopefully she gets with the program.
Thanks for this.
This advice is good for men.
Good job 👏🏼 you’re right!
Good morning to you all
the sex will stop, the nagging will not
the winning move is not to play, well it works for many of us.
Wait.. are we married to the same person? LOL say it once... Gahhhh fine. I can't control the lessons he has to learn. I can be happy despite his choices. Need this to sink in very badly.
These clips are super. Need to add some content for the guys to mull over, react to, and learn from. It's not only the women making 'things' difficult.
Every time I talk about men’s issues I get berated for speaking about them, so I stick to the women.
You gonna make the feminist wamen Butt Mad over this one.😆
I sure hope so
Meh, most of them don't even have a man, let alone a husband.
Lots of great points, many of them I've told my girlfriend myself - Women just really need to learn how to interact with men, they have no idea
This is a great video thank you.
Thank you 🙏
Calm 💜
Probably most men want (really need) admiration and respect from their wives. Criticism is often taking him down a notch, and he can be motivated to resist it to try to regain the respect and admiration you've withdrawn.
If you've started to bully him (make him miserable to get what you want) will you even lose respect for him if he gives in?
less is more sometimes
amen
Yes Rebecca women don't have the right to control a men's life!! Wife should be submissive and should submit to the will of husband . That's the natural order .
Women and men are not equal . We're supposed to dominate women not them ! A women should not question her husband and should serve the men ! A wife should bear children and should be in kitchen cooking for us ! That's the way it was and it should be forever. That's how nature work But this days the modern women 🤦♂️
I wish I had a wife like u 🥰
Women marry men hoping to change them, then complain and leave them when they get their way.
Yay nagging
Drop the link
Do you have a story of your own marriage and how it approoved?
wow
You control the kitchen, home and kids. That's it. Get used to it
No 😂😂
Ummm...ok??? Sure buddy 😂
Yikes...
Lol
Well got damn 🤣
So the message is to just accept the bad behavior and keep sweet 👍
You missed it sis. That’s ok
Basically. While you continue to be his mom
I didn’t miss it. We should debate.
@@brandehhh2023 or just leave
So, women, don't nag your husband directly, nag by proxy.
This is what women are hearing.
Thanks Rebecca.
You’re asking gurls to work rationally and not use their emotions. They always follow emotions. Did I hear you say Accountable?
You are dropping gems girl! Thank you!