@@5MinuteCatholicApologetics Since you have asked, I’ll contribute my perspective. First, your timeline is too recent. The change started before the feminist movement in the 60’s. I say this as a child of parents born in 38. It is clear, as you noted, before WW2, women and nem had to collaborate to survive, raise a family and prosper. After WW!, that started to change, but crashed at the depression. Societal lack of wealth. WW2 fixed that. By the early 60’s, a significant amount of people were doing better than just getting along. The feminist movement started, with the proclamation of freeing women. What it has done is destroy the value of women and femininity. Most men, and to generalize, incels, want to have a relationship with a woman who will be loyal and help raise a family. Feminism has destroyed this as a reality for most men, around the world. By making money the desirable goal, not family. Men are largely reactive, as so, have dropped the ideal of marriage, family, stability and loyalty. Women have degraded themselves to being laborers and sexual objects. If women didn’t make porn, have OF pages, show T&A not just on digital media, the beach/pool, but at work and just walking around, men wouldn’t be so lustful. I’m suggesting Muslims have it right, but flashing the puppies all the time isn’t right either. As far as a solution. The way I see it, our society is so wealthy that we’re very spoiled children, especially women. There could be a long explanation, but I’ll leave it at that. The primary reason ppl change is because where they are at now is worse than the unknown of where they could go. This being true, the only way that feminism will stoop is when women need men again. For that to happen, most of our societal wealth. Not a pretty picture. I would like to hear back from you.
The common lament among women are: 'Where are all the good men?' with the reality check being, "you rejected them all". I understand that things are far more complex than that, but men are logical creatures. If men aren't approaching women, it's because either they have been constantly rejected, or they have buddies who have been constantly rejected, and they do a cost-benefit analysis and come to the conclusion that their time and money can be put to better use engaging in hobbies, projects, stacking bread and as horrible as it may seem, rubbing one out to the um.... "online entertainment of the Interwebs". People may not like it, but we are forced to live in reality.
This is a staggering problem that is only starting to get talked about. In the wider population, the dating world is a wasteland of either hooking up or people just not connecting. It doesn’t bode well for already diminishing birth rates. At least in the Catholic sphere, a young man and woman can unite around the Faith, as it should be. But even within that there’s a ton of rifting, most poignantly that young men today are trending very conservative and young women are trending very progressive. Also I’ve seen people be really too picky or scrupulous about needing the other to be absolutely perfect; like, my man, if she wears jeans sometimes that doesn’t mean she’s a “feminist,” and ladies, being asked to coffee isn’t a marriage proposal; a first date is just a first date. Hanging out in groups of friends is a great way to get to know people across the way. Host a board game night at your apartment
I'm 41 and I don't know anyone who things girls wearing jeans is code for being a feminist. As for the Catholic Sphere goes, when I did date around 10 years ago, most of the people I knew weren't well versed in their own beliefs in terms of hard theology and their orthodoxy was highly dubious. It's not about 'being conservative' or 'being progressive'; rather it is about ensuring that should a union produce children, mommy and daddy are on the same page and not espousing crazy heresies and God knows whatever filth that has been made popular in contemporary culture.
There are just so many truths here. I think the porn epidemic has destroyed so many men. And now it’s destroying women now that porn has been normalized.
From the female perspective, I can totally understand. My daughter complains all the time how guys in high school never ask out girls. They are two inward and shy.
I’m 33 and never asked out girls in high school. I just wasn’t interested in that stuff, I wanted to go hang out with my friends after school or play video games. Looks like I was ahead of the curve. Women are just not what they once were, men are realizing this either consciously or subconsciously.
Fee males complained for the last decade that men approaching them was basically a crime. Men listened. Wait until she gets into the work force. Men get fired for approaching there, so they have completely stopped. Fee males (like you) demanded this, and men listened. And why don't you teach your "strong/independent/don't need no man" daughter to say hello, is that too much work? Pathetic.
From my experience, the girls don't seem to act in ways that signal they want to be approached. Maybe they do want to be asked out but it doesn't look that way at all since they don't act welcoming to guys. Can't blame guys for picking up on these hostile signals or lack of interest.
When women find 8 out of 10 men undatable what do you expect? When women say “where are all the men” that’s chick code for why doesn’t Chad want me? The average woman is not interested in the average man. Women are the gatekeepers to relationships/sex. They do the initial choosing. Then if the relationship is worth it to the man, he will commit to her. It’s up to the women to right this ship. I dare say only 1 out of 10 women in this day and age are worth committing to.
Certainly, there are women who have high standards. But let’s be real, if men were in shape, and had prospects, and we’re not super awkward and introverted, they would have better chances. You can’t blame everything on women when there’s a major problem with men today. Gregory is right.
@@TeamistressTX When every 4/10 fee male demands an 8/10+ man who is a 6 foot + millionaire...you still blame men. Comical. Of course you have no husband/father in your child's life.
As. traditional Catholic woman, I am disheartened that the few Catholic men in their 30's and 40's in my parish have long time protestant or other faith girlfriends, but are coming to the TLM to find a Catholic woman to marry. What is that? It annoys me a lot! Especially as the women I know at my parish, have been chaste and celibate for decades...
@@5MinuteCatholicApologeticsPart of the problem is the secularization of marriage into a monetary transaction thus defiling it’s sacredness where women feel like the can divorce and move on without respect for their husband or God.
Like the video and post a comment. I would love to hear from you.
@@5MinuteCatholicApologetics Since you have asked, I’ll contribute my perspective.
First, your timeline is too recent. The change started before the feminist movement in the 60’s. I say this as a child of parents born in 38. It is clear, as you noted, before WW2, women and nem had to collaborate to survive, raise a family and prosper. After WW!, that started to change, but crashed at the depression. Societal lack of wealth. WW2 fixed that. By the early 60’s, a significant amount of people were doing better than just getting along. The feminist movement started, with the proclamation of freeing women. What it has done is destroy the value of women and femininity.
Most men, and to generalize, incels, want to have a relationship with a woman who will be loyal and help raise a family. Feminism has destroyed this as a reality for most men, around the world. By making money the desirable goal, not family. Men are largely reactive, as so, have dropped the ideal of marriage, family, stability and loyalty. Women have degraded themselves to being laborers and sexual objects. If women didn’t make porn, have OF pages, show T&A not just on digital media, the beach/pool, but at work and just walking around, men wouldn’t be so lustful. I’m suggesting Muslims have it right, but flashing the puppies all the time isn’t right either.
As far as a solution. The way I see it, our society is so wealthy that we’re very spoiled children, especially women. There could be a long explanation, but I’ll leave it at that. The primary reason ppl change is because where they are at now is worse than the unknown of where they could go. This being true, the only way that feminism will stoop is when women need men again. For that to happen, most of our societal wealth. Not a pretty picture.
I would like to hear back from you.
The common lament among women are: 'Where are all the good men?' with the reality check being, "you rejected them all". I understand that things are far more complex than that, but men are logical creatures. If men aren't approaching women, it's because either they have been constantly rejected, or they have buddies who have been constantly rejected, and they do a cost-benefit analysis and come to the conclusion that their time and money can be put to better use engaging in hobbies, projects, stacking bread and as horrible as it may seem, rubbing one out to the um.... "online entertainment of the Interwebs".
People may not like it, but we are forced to live in reality.
This is a staggering problem that is only starting to get talked about. In the wider population, the dating world is a wasteland of either hooking up or people just not connecting. It doesn’t bode well for already diminishing birth rates. At least in the Catholic sphere, a young man and woman can unite around the Faith, as it should be. But even within that there’s a ton of rifting, most poignantly that young men today are trending very conservative and young women are trending very progressive. Also I’ve seen people be really too picky or scrupulous about needing the other to be absolutely perfect; like, my man, if she wears jeans sometimes that doesn’t mean she’s a “feminist,” and ladies, being asked to coffee isn’t a marriage proposal; a first date is just a first date.
Hanging out in groups of friends is a great way to get to know people across the way. Host a board game night at your apartment
I'm 41 and I don't know anyone who things girls wearing jeans is code for being a feminist. As for the Catholic Sphere goes, when I did date around 10 years ago, most of the people I knew weren't well versed in their own beliefs in terms of hard theology and their orthodoxy was highly dubious. It's not about 'being conservative' or 'being progressive'; rather it is about ensuring that should a union produce children, mommy and daddy are on the same page and not espousing crazy heresies and God knows whatever filth that has been made popular in contemporary culture.
There are just so many truths here. I think the porn epidemic has destroyed so many men. And now it’s destroying women now that porn has been normalized.
From the female perspective, I can totally understand. My daughter complains all the time how guys in high school never ask out girls. They are two inward and shy.
I’m 33 and never asked out girls in high school. I just wasn’t interested in that stuff, I wanted to go hang out with my friends after school or play video games. Looks like I was ahead of the curve. Women are just not what they once were, men are realizing this either consciously or subconsciously.
Fee males complained for the last decade that men approaching them was basically a crime. Men listened. Wait until she gets into the work force. Men get fired for approaching there, so they have completely stopped. Fee males (like you) demanded this, and men listened. And why don't you teach your "strong/independent/don't need no man" daughter to say hello, is that too much work? Pathetic.
She can't ask out a boy? Maybe learn the difference between too and two as well.
From my experience, the girls don't seem to act in ways that signal they want to be approached. Maybe they do want to be asked out but it doesn't look that way at all since they don't act welcoming to guys. Can't blame guys for picking up on these hostile signals or lack of interest.
Men aren't avoiding marriage. They're avoiding a ruinous divorce.
When women find 8 out of 10 men undatable what do you expect? When women say “where are all the men” that’s chick code for why doesn’t Chad want me? The average woman is not interested in the average man. Women are the gatekeepers to relationships/sex. They do the initial choosing. Then if the relationship is worth it to the man, he will commit to her. It’s up to the women to right this ship. I dare say only 1 out of 10 women in this day and age are worth committing to.
Certainly, there are women who have high standards. But let’s be real, if men were in shape, and had prospects, and we’re not super awkward and introverted, they would have better chances. You can’t blame everything on women when there’s a major problem with men today. Gregory is right.
I was thinking 1 out of 100 to 1 out of 1000.
@@TeamistressTX When every 4/10 fee male demands an 8/10+ man who is a 6 foot + millionaire...you still blame men. Comical. Of course you have no husband/father in your child's life.
As. traditional Catholic woman, I am disheartened that the few Catholic men in their 30's and 40's in my parish have long time protestant or other faith girlfriends, but are coming to the TLM to find a Catholic woman to marry. What is that? It annoys me a lot! Especially as the women I know at my parish, have been chaste and celibate for decades...
Thanks for sharing. The problem is so complex right now.
@@5MinuteCatholicApologeticsPart of the problem is the secularization of marriage into a monetary transaction thus defiling it’s sacredness where women feel like the can divorce and move on without respect for their husband or God.
So true. Hits home
Some 20-29 women date 30+ years men, so 20-29 men need date 30+ women. This is math.
You used to make red pill content correct? Did you delete all those videos from the previous red pill channel?