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  • Опубликовано: 24 апр 2024
  • 24 Hours in A&E - S16 E17
    Watch the remarkable journey of Adam, who faced a life-threatening accident after falling from a tree. Follow his story of resilience and recovery as doctors work tirelessly to ensure his well-being. Witness the unwavering support of his family and the strength he finds within in this gripping episode of 24 Hours in A&E.
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Комментарии • 160

  • @blthtm
    @blthtm Месяц назад +174

    I LOVE Adam! What a great kid with a practical outlook on what he'd done to himself. He's far beyond 11 in sensible years.

    • @elaineridgwell7413
      @elaineridgwell7413 Месяц назад +11

      Adam you are amazing

    • @catherinebrady2640
      @catherinebrady2640 Месяц назад +16

      Adam, go on to enjoy your best life and exercise all your talents to their maximum. You are an exceptionsl young man:)

    • @jeannedennis5863
      @jeannedennis5863 Месяц назад +4

      No honey, you didn't evolve from a monkey.

    • @persephoneblack888
      @persephoneblack888 Месяц назад

      ​@jeannedennis5863 ew a creationist.

  • @vonjess9
    @vonjess9 Месяц назад +82

    "Can you comfort me, please, Mum?" He is darling and smart.

  • @arneciachatmon9757
    @arneciachatmon9757 Месяц назад +114

    Adam has a beautiful soul and is a sweetheart. If anyone who’s watching this and knows Adam, please let him know it’s their loss for not being friends with him. Don’t worry Adam you have friends from all around the world now. You’re an amazing person and you will go far in life. Praying for you and your family. Stay strong 💪 young man. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @carolcarol3938
    @carolcarol3938 Месяц назад +115

    Adam (and his mum) are an absolute delight. Mum is very levelheaded and Adam, obviously, very bright. I wish them both the very best for the future.

    • @griz063
      @griz063 Месяц назад +1

      Yes, the two greatest assets Adam has are his intelligence (which is obviously high) and a mom amazing enough to NOT try to wrap him in "cotton wool". It is so wonderful in this day and age to see a mother who recognizes her children, and especially boys, need to explore and take risks in the real world and test their boundaries -- even unto crossing a few. Without this they will always be weak and looking for some mommy-substitute.

  • @Sharon181818
    @Sharon181818 Месяц назад +45

    Adam, if you see these messages, remember them if anyone tries to give you a hard time again- you are an awesome young man, you have a fabulous Mum and you can and will do anything in life that you set your mind to! Harriet- you are a rock star! Shirley- you are a super woman!

  • @racheld7528
    @racheld7528 Месяц назад +19

    My heart hurts that Adam is being bullied. He is such a lovely and smart kid. His mom is such a great support for him.
    So Adam if you ever check the comments please know that there is a tribe of people that are cheering you on!!! We can’t wait to see what you decide to do when you grow up. Whatever it is…I’m sure it will be amazing!!! 💕

  • @dreamcatcher3861
    @dreamcatcher3861 Месяц назад +53

    What a beautiful soul Adam is. I’m so sorry he went through so much bullying, it’s horrendous what that does to a child. My son was in the same position and it was heartbreaking. I hope Adam’s secondary school years are much happier, he’s so lovely.

  • @deblepley7755
    @deblepley7755 Месяц назад +44

    What a lovely Mom and Adam is delightful. Why is it the sweet, intelligent children are always bullied? I pray he has a bright and joyful future 🎉❤

    • @searchtech
      @searchtech Месяц назад +7

      Because the bullies are jealous and bullying feeds their ego.

    • @griz063
      @griz063 Месяц назад +2

      Their obvious intelligence registers as a threat. Strangely, the bully is both threatened by it, but also wishing they had more of it. Bullying is trying to tie a psychological anchor to slow the bullied kid down so they don't pass them too quickly.
      BTW, it's not enough that the bully is "lower intelligence". Something else has to happen in their life to make them insecure. Perhaps someone at home -- perhaps even a parent -- is psychologically abusing them.

  • @kimglover6968
    @kimglover6968 Месяц назад +23

    I hope all of these messages reach Adam. He is a remarkable kid, probably young man now. He is so much more than those names that other kid's called him. He has a great spirit, is very intelligent, and he has a good heart.

  • @lindafriedlander5228
    @lindafriedlander5228 Месяц назад +37

    Shirley and her daughter is a representation of me and my mother, God rest her soul. We two were wicked together and never shied away from noticing a handsome man. We always laughed and giggled. I miss that. Treasure your mother and father. You never know when they will go away. ❤

  • @jennifergranter5174
    @jennifergranter5174 Месяц назад +44

    this one really pulled at my heartstrings, especially Adam

  • @leattaslone1800
    @leattaslone1800 Месяц назад +9

    Adam is incredibly smart. He's above average in his abilities. He's adorable. Kids that he went to school with are just jealous of his above average smartness. God Bless you all. Being a bully is an ugly thing.

  • @persephoneblack888
    @persephoneblack888 Месяц назад +23

    My teacher heart adores Adam and his mom. He seems like a brilliant boy, and he's so insightful and well-spoken for his age. I feel bad he went through so much. You're a great kid Adam!

  • @mw7937
    @mw7937 Месяц назад +14

    That 84 year old lady is precious!

    • @Sacheen81
      @Sacheen81 День назад

      She reminds me of my aunt, who is 87 and just as funny with her risky sense of humor. 🙂

  • @hufflepunkslitherclaw7436
    @hufflepunkslitherclaw7436 Месяц назад +31

    Oh Adam! What a lovely boy! Keep climbing those trees sweetheart ❤

  • @brendabidois1264
    @brendabidois1264 Месяц назад +27

    Adam you are one bright spark

  • @pamcollins1651
    @pamcollins1651 Месяц назад +9

    Adam is a beautiful boy who will reach much higher heights than any other bully he’s come across! His mum is lovely and so level headed! What a wonderful group of people in this episode. I’m a retired nurse and these stories make me wish I could go back to work!

  • @deecal1021
    @deecal1021 Месяц назад +23

    Shirley is too much, 84 yrs old and full of life, love it.

    • @CantonDem13
      @CantonDem13 Месяц назад +2

      She looks younger than her years, too! A lot of that is definitely her personality.

    • @TeanmaResanaria-ls9eu
      @TeanmaResanaria-ls9eu Месяц назад +2

      She is very impressive. So loving and soft with such a hard and sad childhood. So sorry for the loss of her husband though. 😢

  • @maryscott9430
    @maryscott9430 Месяц назад +13

    Adam is so sweet and smart. His parents did a great job with him. My heart breaks that hes being bullied.

  • @Beepinsqueekin
    @Beepinsqueekin Месяц назад +16

    Adam is quite the guy!! He's a wonderfully smart kid, and I wish the best for him!

  • @staceyroberts3468
    @staceyroberts3468 Месяц назад +17

    God bless Adam ❤️. He stole my heart. I can’t imagine why kids would bully him 😢. He’s such an awesome young man!!!!

  • @indica113
    @indica113 Месяц назад +16

    Adam has a bright future!!

  • @karinvasquez3956
    @karinvasquez3956 Месяц назад +20

    Well, I was a teacher...and it is heartbreaking, when children are suffering mobbing. I tried very hard to look after my teenager pupils. School authorities must be aware of this problem and confront it.

    • @sarahsnowe
      @sarahsnowe Месяц назад +1

      It wouldn't be so bad if schools actually taught anything useful. Once kids are taught the basics of English and math and IF they're bright and inquisitive, they should be allowed to stay home and educate themselves by reading, reading, reading. I'd be a whole lot more knowledgeable today if I'd been allowed to do that. People say about home-schooling, what about the socialization? Hell's bells, some socialization! Bullying and cyber-bullying and being "taught" a lot of stuff that's totally irrelevant to your life and that you forget as soon as you leave school. And when in the development of human beings was it thought normal to spend most of the daylight hours with people just of your own age with maybe one or two adults? Seriously weird. Doesn't prepare you for life.

  • @doriswestfall7164
    @doriswestfall7164 Месяц назад +6

    Adam is a wonderful, precocious, and funny young man. He is absolutely delightful, as is his mother.

  • @TeanmaResanaria-ls9eu
    @TeanmaResanaria-ls9eu Месяц назад +6

    Adam is wonderful. He seems extremely smart both from intelligence and from an emotional viewpoint. How great he is able to express his feeling and also reflect on the situation. I am so so so sorry for him being bullied. I so much hope his senior years in high school and his general future hold much better times for him. You go Adam! ❤

  • @Mrs.LadeyBug
    @Mrs.LadeyBug Месяц назад +13

    Adam is so tough! What a real dude! So kind, so positive, so real. He’s got a great future. Keep looking up!

  • @carristeichen7403
    @carristeichen7403 Месяц назад +5

    Adam is such a great young man. Kids can be mean! I would love to give him a big hug.

  • @joycealgood8418
    @joycealgood8418 Месяц назад +12

    He is a precious lad. He is very bright and loves his mum❤

  • @searchtech
    @searchtech Месяц назад +8

    I forsee an amazingly bright future for Adam. There is something extraordinary about him.

  • @helenbalabanoff1409
    @helenbalabanoff1409 Месяц назад +8

    What a lovely boy Adam is! Such an intelligent and brave boy! He has an amazing future! Ignore the haters Adam!

  • @daisi4925
    @daisi4925 Месяц назад +10

    Adam you are wonderful, your mom is a very bright woman. Listen to her on everything. Shirley is a breath of fresh air

  • @ruthbaird1646
    @ruthbaird1646 Месяц назад +5

    Adam is a very articulated and highly intelligent young man, and will go far in his life and chosen career.
    Adam will undoubtedly become a successful entrepreneur especially since he can converse in many languages. All the best Adam!

  • @Gods4Horsemen
    @Gods4Horsemen Месяц назад +11

    Poor kid, he is very advanced for his age and has been bullied because of it.

  • @janbarber7807
    @janbarber7807 Месяц назад +10

    Adam,I rarely wonder where patients are now,but in your case ,I do!I know you got through it all,and have found a happy way!

  • @louiseleonard1992
    @louiseleonard1992 Месяц назад +7

    Adam is a beautiful boy so gorgeous and kind hearted

  • @lindawitherspoon446
    @lindawitherspoon446 Месяц назад +8

    Adam is adorable. So smart. I love hearing each persons personal stories. So interesting.

  • @Ro.Mother-of-Pearl
    @Ro.Mother-of-Pearl Месяц назад +8

    Adam, you are one of those beautiful, pure souls who only attract the very best people. I love that you sang Three Little Birds by Bob Marley.
    ❤🐦🐦🐦❤

  • @hollybiegel4345
    @hollybiegel4345 Месяц назад +9

    I hate that Adam has been bullied at school. Kids can be so mean. Probably, because he’s a very smart child. Other kids don’t know what to make of that. Not saying that it’s right!! Best wishes for his new school….he will do great things, as he grows 💕

  • @friscosmom4358
    @friscosmom4358 Месяц назад +8

    Adam know u r loved

  • @t.ellevision
    @t.ellevision Месяц назад +4

    What a darling little boy. How c ould anyone bully Adam? He is an absolute delight. I hope anyone who has bullied Adam reads this. That young man is going to be your boss one day he's going to be the popular one and you'll wish you would have been nicer to him.

  • @leahcompositor5944
    @leahcompositor5944 Месяц назад +9

    Adam,,, Dont worry!! Everything little thing, is gonna be alright. Great song young man,, your a great kid!! Be strong and keep smiling 🥰

    • @t.ellevision
      @t.ellevision Месяц назад +1

      That literally made me cry!

  • @loriorourke2154
    @loriorourke2154 Месяц назад +7

    I love Adam!! Hw is perfect. Why fit in when you are above them all Adam.

  • @mermaidstears4897
    @mermaidstears4897 Месяц назад +2

    Adam just breaks my heart. Wickedly smart, funny and charming, yet his experience mirrors Shirley’s own experience as an evacuee. Someday, some lucky person is going to appreciate Adam, like Shirley found with her Alan

  • @deborahdawson6091
    @deborahdawson6091 Месяц назад +13

    This show puts me in such a good mood. Another way health care helps me! Thanks to the people who make this show!

    • @hairbabe2u
      @hairbabe2u Месяц назад +1

      Same here, good mood after watching.

  • @dellahicks7231
    @dellahicks7231 Месяц назад +8

    That look Adam shoots his mom at 13:27, oooh he is not happy mom shared that information!
    Even though he got hurt, its good to hear he was outside playing, as opposed to being glued to a device!

  • @jilllawrence5174
    @jilllawrence5174 Месяц назад +6

    Oh Shirley!,, 🤣🤣what a lovely character! Don’t change ☺️☺️

  • @sandrahorton7540
    @sandrahorton7540 Месяц назад +6

    Adam is so dang adorable ❤

  • @anthonyfallon2
    @anthonyfallon2 Месяц назад +2

    What a kid! He will go far in life - love this matter of factness

  • @justmemimi7338
    @justmemimi7338 25 дней назад +1

    Adam is a champ, and a smart lad.
    His mother has a beautiful smile.
    And Shirley is a legend.

  • @Elizabeth-rh1hl
    @Elizabeth-rh1hl Месяц назад +2

    Adam is a such a bright and good natured young man with a wonderful Mom. Best wishes for your future Adam!

  • @maryreynolds5310
    @maryreynolds5310 Месяц назад +5

    Love your channel, I hate that you have people who have stolen your videos now a channel using your hard work!

  • @erinmoriarity4775
    @erinmoriarity4775 Месяц назад +1

    Oh lord when Adam started singing Bob Marley I melted....that sweet sweet child

  • @maryreynolds5310
    @maryreynolds5310 Месяц назад +6

    How I love Shirley! LMBO

  • @ironclad10727
    @ironclad10727 5 дней назад

    Adam is the definition of a precocious boy.

  • @TheThriftyGma
    @TheThriftyGma Месяц назад +2

    Gotta love Adam.. what a delightful young boy he is..

  • @Tocsin-Bang
    @Tocsin-Bang Месяц назад +1

    Adam is a really special boy with a very special mother. He is incredibly bright. The bullies are the failures as people.

  • @soniahagenberger5837
    @soniahagenberger5837 27 дней назад +1

    Adam is INCREDIBLE! What wonderful kid!

  • @lucilledaub5991
    @lucilledaub5991 Месяц назад +5

    I love all hospital videos. Their very informative n interesting.

  • @dellahicks7231
    @dellahicks7231 Месяц назад +4

    Why does Harriet remind me of Princess Anne?
    Perhaps it is her stoic resolve, what a beautiful young lady, she will go far in life.

  • @cynthiamateo9450
    @cynthiamateo9450 Месяц назад +2

    I love that little boy Adam, sooooo brave, much love to him

  • @deloreslomonaco570
    @deloreslomonaco570 24 дня назад +1

    Adam is so sweet ,I hope he makes lots of friends being so smart❤

  • @jilllawrence5174
    @jilllawrence5174 Месяц назад +6

    Lovely Adam and his mum! Hope all is well now, and no more climbing trees!, 🙈🙈

  • @Yoongiwifie
    @Yoongiwifie Месяц назад +2

    I hope everyone recovers well! Thank you staff for always taking care of everyone ima fan from Canada! I look up to people like you guys❤

    • @arizonasunflowers5226
      @arizonasunflowers5226 Месяц назад

      If you wait, at the end they usually tell you what happened to each patient.

  • @debrabolton9372
    @debrabolton9372 6 дней назад

    Adam is a sweetheart. He's had a tough time of it and trying hard to deal. He has a wonderful mother.

  • @maureenhiggins9147
    @maureenhiggins9147 Месяц назад +5

    ❤ Thank you!!

  • @PablaMMoore
    @PablaMMoore Месяц назад +2

    May God heal, give health, protect and provide for all of this patients.❤

  • @firephoto213
    @firephoto213 Месяц назад +1

    Awe Adam... My now 14 y/o son was the same when all through elementary and middle school. He is in 9th grade now and he has a small group of friends and he is having fun for the first time in school. It is so hard to watch them struggle..

  • @cindiemoore2530
    @cindiemoore2530 29 дней назад

    The mother daughter duo were priceless. So funny and the banter shows how close they are❤❤

  • @chenawejamieson8628
    @chenawejamieson8628 Месяц назад +6

    Cudos to the children. Prayers to all❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @jeniphirtaylor-mcintire81
    @jeniphirtaylor-mcintire81 Месяц назад +1

    Oh, Adam. I hope he finds his way.

  • @dbwhite1507
    @dbwhite1507 Месяц назад +2

    The stories are so endearing.

  • @louisarichardson8392
    @louisarichardson8392 Месяц назад +1

    Adam is such a smart kid.

  • @PablaMMoore
    @PablaMMoore Месяц назад +1

    It is so scary to be in the hospital with serious health issues. Specially for those that have no relatives. A word of a nurse or a doctor assuring us that we
    are going to be ok, can make a big difference. Thanks God
    for all of those in the medical field that work 24/7 tirelessly to helps us in the journey to get healthy again. ❤

  • @tomvalveede6808
    @tomvalveede6808 25 дней назад +1

    Adam is such a Special person! Don't worry, you will have many, many good friends in your life!
    God bless you and your Mom! And best wishes for a wonderful future 🙏! ♥️🍀🇺🇸🌟🇬🇧💗🌷🌷🌷🎉

  • @brendariley1303
    @brendariley1303 Месяц назад +1

    You are a very brave young man Adam

  • @user-yz7po8wc1h
    @user-yz7po8wc1h 19 дней назад

    Adam is a very intelligent and lovable lad. I foresee him going on to do great things.

  • @smarcis2
    @smarcis2 Месяц назад +2

    Beautiful episode!! ❤

  • @missd369
    @missd369 Месяц назад +2

    I can relate to Adam's mom. My daughter is also very smart. For preschool graduation, they made a picture of what they wanted to be when they grew up. All the other kids wrote "a teacher" or "a mommy" or "a fireman," but mine, she wanted to be a paleontologist. At 5th grade, it had morphed to Historical Archeologist. She graduates high school in 6 weeks and plans to study biochemistry... to be a Forensic Pathologist.

    • @river8760
      @river8760 Месяц назад

      My son is very smart as well, but he’s incredibly humble and has a ton of friends. He’s extremely empathetic and kind, much more important than being smart.

  • @janwood2774
    @janwood2774 28 дней назад +1

    Adam you are such a wonderful lad,I know that I've only seen you for a short time here,but I think you are so brave.you are so clever, I wish you all the best in life,I'm sure you will go far in this world,children can be so cruel, I'm sorry that you have been bullied,my heart hurts for you mate. I think you are wonderful....from a fan from Australia 💖

  • @nikkikidd8428
    @nikkikidd8428 Месяц назад +2

    Ok Shirley looks absolutely amazing and I just don’t believe that she’s in her 80’s! I love her humour and I bet she is great fun in any situational. And Adam! Omgosh another hilarious little soul right there lol. The two could be related

  • @BunnyXproductions
    @BunnyXproductions Месяц назад

    Best episode ever.

  • @lisastanley7610
    @lisastanley7610 5 дней назад

    Adam I am your friend from the United States. You are smart and handsome. More boys should be more like you..Big hugs and feel better.

  • @corvettesbme
    @corvettesbme Месяц назад +1

    Good episode!

  • @queenkatherineofaragon513
    @queenkatherineofaragon513 5 дней назад

    Sending love to Adam.

  • @KatieGee37
    @KatieGee37 19 дней назад

    Adam is so cute and smart his mum has done a great job

  • @ironclad10727
    @ironclad10727 5 дней назад

    Aww Shirley is the absolute best

  • @Dragonild
    @Dragonild 23 дня назад

    I am amazed that Harriet walked out of the hospital the same day!

  • @staceyroberts3468
    @staceyroberts3468 Месяц назад +3

    Shirley seems like a blast 😝

    • @river8760
      @river8760 Месяц назад

      She’s so hilarious! 😂❤

  • @ElizabethBarber-tu9ey
    @ElizabethBarber-tu9ey Месяц назад

    What precious patients, all 3!! Shirley looks so young!! I hope Adam finds his group of forever-friends. And Harriet!! What glorious hair!! I'm glad all went well for these 3.

  • @LittlePieceOfHeaven.
    @LittlePieceOfHeaven. 22 дня назад

    Wouldn't surprise me if we hear Adams name again in 15years finding a cure for cancer . Super smart Kiddo !

  • @river8760
    @river8760 Месяц назад +1

    Rhys is so awesome!

  • @jonseyz
    @jonseyz Месяц назад +1

    Adam you are awesome and such a trooper ❤. You are more advanced than the other kids your age and unfortunately they will tease and be mean. Been there and can say it will get better as you get older. Hang in there you are special kiddo

  • @bethmcright9731
    @bethmcright9731 Месяц назад +1

    Adam ...Such An Inteligent lil dude🎉❤

  • @catlyn777
    @catlyn777 Месяц назад

    The other children know Adam is brighter than the rest of them. It’s even worse when a teacher acts jealous because the child accurately corrected them. Gifted children sometimes do get bullied just for being too smart, especially if they’re pulled out for part of the day for “gifted classes”.

  • @mariacorrales6386
    @mariacorrales6386 Месяц назад

    Adam will become a very accomished professional. I can bet he has genius IQ. This show should follow up in ten years. 😊

  • @lynnfrost5244
    @lynnfrost5244 Месяц назад +1

    Kudos to all who keep st George's running

  • @marenawhite3322
    @marenawhite3322 Месяц назад +2

    Growing a Back Bone is such a negative way to speak of bullying.
    Getting Adam into advanced classes would do him a world of good.
    I was bullied for 10 yrs after moving from a different Canadian Province to another province.
    My life was so badly affected by the bullies which went from elementary to high school.
    I have always been a larger girl but living through that hell has badly affected even my adult life.
    “Growing a back bone,” was never a thing to just pull out of the air!!!!!😢

  • @robertmontgomery1310
    @robertmontgomery1310 Месяц назад +1

    Love love love ADAM

  • @vivienmcnaul109
    @vivienmcnaul109 Месяц назад +1

    Ironing is bad for your health. Love those ladies ...

  • @griz063
    @griz063 Месяц назад

    I found it very interesting to hear Adam go from a Polish accent to a British accent so effortlessly, so automatically. "Do not scare me mom [Polish accent]. Do not scare me! [British accent]". Thank you for agreeing to share this episode. You have an impressive soul.
    Here's some psychology on bullies. In cases like yours chances are something about your personality or intelligence registers as a threat to them. Not a physical threat, but a threat to their social status -- their feeling of self-worth. They fear you are smarter or better than them in some way but also strangely, wish they could have a bit more of what you have for themselves. Does that make sense?
    It's like an animal reaction where they fear that in time on a level playing field, you will prove better than them. You seem to have very high intelligence, and that will make you the odd man out in many settings. But never regret being smart. It may take time, but you will find other intelligent people to be friends with and it will be fabulous. Or you will find friends who are not intimidated by how smart you are. Both will be fabulous.
    I know you're only 11 but I think you have the intelligence to use this to better understand why this happens. Especially at the age you and the bullies are at, they WANT you to start believing what they say. It's like tying a psychological anchor to you, trying to slow you down so you won't overtake them too quickly. But something in their life has made them fragile and sensitive to losing their social status. Perhaps they don't have as awesome parents as you do. Yes, it's bad that they bully. But at some level they fear they are weak.
    Weaker than you. That is why they want to throw a stumbling block in front of you.
    BTW, this is just for you to better understand why this happens. It will probably not work out that well to try to use this as a weapon against them! They will likely regret that they don't have the intelligence level to understand it and that will make you seem like even more of a threat.
    I really hope this helps.
    BTW, your mother has uncommon wisdom in recognizing that this is something she cannot solve for you. You need to solve it inside yourself and then you will be a stronger person for the rest of your life.