2:20 it's not just about positive thinking 4:20 we have a better chance at controlling our actions 6:44 diary study: negative effect of a setback was more than twice as strong as the positive effect of a success 8:00 negativity bias 9:20 happiness is a skill that we all can work on 10:58 exercise: [send] appreciative gratitude text to someone that you care for 12:24 harvard study: happiness doesn't come from wealth, fame or working hard [but] relationships
It is the people in these Ted Talks videos that have got me through the past 5 years. I do not have anyone in my life to sit and share who i am with, but i know if i was to talk to these people they would understand. That is good enough for me . xx
To anyone who searched this video up hoping to be happier with the life you're currently living I wish you the best days of your life after watching this. Smile and be rest assured that the happiness that you've been looking for has always been within you and it will take time to master the habit of truly being satisfied with where you are in life. You watching this video already proves you're willing to try to be better and that alone deserves an applause. I'm proud of you❤
Two things: first, happiness is inner, is not a destination, but how you walk along the way. Second , replacing bad habits with good ones takes time and discipline and focus on only one at a time. And don’t forget to celebrate all the tiny achievements.
@@marcingruszka4414 when u let them then they affect you. otherwise it's not possible cus they don't have how to access inside of u, ur soul just u and God knows.
@@TheMcRicker even if they're our parents we can go through this storm and leave on the other side completely recovered. I dunno exactly how it would be like cos my patents were nice with me long my life. However, if they didn't,i would have probably leave my home earlier and lived on my own cos in that case death would be kindness!
Thanks to her I know I'm happy though I'm single, unemployed for almost one year. Because I have family, friends always ready to back me up. Thank you so much.
Wow amazing speech!👏🏻 I think this video is so suitable for young people in their 20s, including myself, who are in the early stages of quarter life crisis. In this phase we begin to question what goals and achievements we should get in our life. One of them is happiness. We wonder "where can I find happiness?", "how to find happiness?". It's all about "finding happiness". Whereas happiness is a skill that we all can work on. I’ve heard many people say that "happiness is created from ourselves, not be sought", I never believed that sentence until I finally did it myself. We should control our action not just about our positive thinking to create happiness, because if we only worrying our thought about how to be happy, it won't change anything. Let’s start an action to creating happiness by ourselves for a better life.
I will feel happiness only when you will perceive the meaning og life for what you have been created and what you should do and then..... Follow the order of tje creator.
It’s better to control our action, rather than our thoughts. The quality of relationship matters more. Really amazing speech! To create happiness from now on. Let’s begin!
Controlling our action rather than our thoughts is better, and it also is easier! So it suits us. Let's begin to create happiness from ourselves and we will all live better.
she brings a lot of positivity in her talk and how beautifully and calmly connected as evident in the second time exercise of clapping..it makes us realise how even in such short interval we could connect and make people believe in you...
Happiness is a skill that we all can train and work on. I was afraid of uncertainty even I knew that the situation would not be improved nevertheless I kept on worrying. After watching this powerful speech, I learnt that happiness can be created because it comes within. It is true that positive thinking bring us a better life. Therefore, all of us should cultivate happiness by befriending our brain.
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I learn to improve my English while watching ted talk. And. After one year, im able to speak fluently in english,i guess if i retake my muet exam, i could possibly get band 4. That's what i called systematic 😎
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"you can turn this talk into action" by being more understanding and caring not just towards others, but also towards yourself ,i think that others will follow your example. 👏👏
I try to nurture my friendships. I try to let my friends know how grateful I am for them. But the sad thing about recent years it's not a given take I never hear anything nice in return nobody is putting the effort in anymore to building and keeping friendships. I believe that is a big key to happiness is friendships.
You must be my soulmate. I have the same problem. I hold friendship in highest regard but no one else seems to feel the same. I'm prepared to give my life for my friends but when I lost my father I didn't receive as much support from my friends as I had hoped. Everyone seems to be preoccupied with themselves and their monotonous life.
I'm personally valuing friendship a lot. However, chance are I won't always say/demonstrate-it "actively" (I say a lot of positive things thought when I think about it, but I can also be isolated for long, not talking to some people I value because I just have nothing to say, etc. and they might "feel X" without knowing or forgetting how much I care about them... some others have no issues with that and we can not talk for 1+ year and next time we talk it is like 10 years ago when we were talking daily, same acquired respect... but I can also just not say all I think or feel awkward or whatever... and that won't mean I don't care even if someone might feel like it). I am not saying everyone care, far from this, some don't give a F... But we should not assume something we don't know that easily. We, humans, are very good to create negative scenarios in our head. Don't conclude on them too easily. It is OK to wonder, but if you can have multiple hypothesis, don't conclude on them, like, you can think people don't care or they care AND just don't say it. Who know? That being said, don't stop to being a good person! There are a lot of good people that care out there too. :)
The way the speaker gave the talk so clearly allowed me to understand it well. This video helped me realize that in order to achieve happiness, it is also necessary to act not only with positive thoughts. I also still have trouble controlling my thoughts and emotions which makes me sometimes uncontrollable and makes my mood messy. The speaker also informed about the idea of a "psychological gym" introduced to train happiness skills. This video highlights the importance of building good habits, especially in relationships, for lasting happiness. I am very grateful to the speaker for sharing information that can be useful for all of us to create our own happiness. Thank you
When we succeed, we must not forget our past. When we fail, we must remember there is still tomorrow. When the path leads to nowhere, we can always take another path. We can make a diversion.
for just talking about happiness, that makes me smile throughout watching video, along our psychological study, we've learned that positive thinking is the main source of happiness and achievement, but indeed positive actions more logical and practical to gain happiness, due to more easy to control our behaviors than our thoughts. katarina you're the best psychology talker I've ever heard
Upset that she didn’t mention meditation, a lot of people are uncomfortable with sitting with themselves but I promise when you get over the uncomfortable feelings meditation is the biggest thing to do to learn to live in the moment. ❤️
Meditation is only beneficial to refresh & to escape from reality. If you really want an ever lasting peace, you should live every moment mindful of surrounding and of your interactions with the world.
Thank you Only in the stillness of the mind do we come to realize True Happiness. Happiness is the center of All.Happiness is feeling without difference, feeling before the search for Happiness
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Read the Power of Now by Ekkhert Tolle. It goes deep into this. WE are not our brains. Your brain often works against you. It's fascinating stuff really
This is really good i often feel so sick sick to my stomach from past mistakes please pray for me ❤️🙏if u r reading this to forgive myself and have success
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I am praying for you. Also know that every moment is an opportunity for a new beginning. I took on being the kindest most compassionate person I am able to be about 8 years ago. I am far from perfect though I have so much forgiveness for myself and others now. I believe that every thought, action and feeling we have has a huge impact on ourselves and the world we live in. Taking this into account I strive to create a world worth living into. Obviously this may be a bit extreme for some people. Still just loving yourself enough to forgive yourself is so valuable to who you are being to yourself and others. It is powerful and you deserve forgiveness, we all do. Forgiveness will permeate into your words and actions. You will more than make up for any regret you are currently suffering. Please consider you are a valuable contribution to this planet and move forward with certainty 💗
We would have done better, if we knew better. And what we knew, was inherited to us, educated to us, given to us, by our parents, society, and our DNA. So these are the things to blame, if any, not ourselves.
Katarina Blom is a stunning psychologist for sure with wonderful study and teaching on the most need of all humankind; happiness! Listen, Love and Live with happiness! God Almighty Bless her and all seeking inspiration and Practicng to be flourishing all around our active zones, places, people with happiness and gifting it to generations that follow. Sorry!
When school was open our form class would listen to one of these every Wednesday and I never realized that me surrounded by all those people would bring me happiness and now I realise how much I really miss and appreciate their smiles, laughs and personalities just been feeling a bit down lately 😔
Couldn’t agree more with this video! Happiness isn’t something that just happens; it’s built through small, intentional steps. Sometimes, talking to someone who gets it can make all the difference. If offline doesn’t work for you, look online, there are platforms like Unikon and others that make it easier to connect.
Whenever, I feel exhausted I come here for listening these types of speech to grow up my spirit and inner strength. Really, it makes me happy and refresh my mind Love so much❤️❤️❤️
Other times, I face an unbearable situation. I begin thinking ‘It won't work anyway.’ ‘They will all hate me.’ ‘I will only be humiliated.’ Then I think about the situations I have been avoiding. Meeting with people that make me feel uncomfortable. Work that stresses me out. Things I have been procrastinating for a while. Try to identify the actions that you have been resisting.
🎯 Key points for quick navigation: 00:51 *🤔 Our behavior often mirrors others rather than following advice, highlighting the importance of modeling positive actions.* 02:14 *🧠 Happiness is a skill that requires positive action, not just positive thinking, as our minds naturally wander and struggle with control.* 05:39 *🔄 Cognitive biases shape our perception more than rationality, affecting how we process and prioritize information in life.* 06:16 *📉 Our brains prioritize negative feedback over positive, a phenomenon studied in how setbacks affect us more deeply than successes.* 09:32 *🎭 Happiness is not found externally but cultivated as a skill through consistent action and habits, emphasizing the need for psychological training akin to physical exercise.* 13:00 *💖 The quality of relationships, characterized by vulnerability and sharing, significantly impacts our happiness and well-being, more than the quantity of relationships.* Made with HARPA AI
I totally agree with her standpoint. Happiness is all around you, you just need to adopt the right vision to see it. I also recommend Eisner Fjord's book "Simple ways to find happiness", he has similar approach there.
Thank you so much Katarina..... I'll cultivate happiness and spread around....I think your speech will change my life because I'm a Moody person who often expect happiness outside instead cultivating it..... Thank you so much once again....
I don't think it's codependency. She pointed out that it's the quality of relationships, not just having them. I don't have the best friends and this Tedtalk made me realize I need to get rid of the people who don't care for me.
Katarina Blom is a stunning psychologist for sure with wonderful study and teaching on the most need of all humankind; happiness! Listen, Love and Live with happiness! God Almighty Bless her and all seeking inspiration and Practicng to be flourishing all around our active zones, places, people with happiness and gifting it to generations that follow.
After 63 years running and achiving many things inlife When i look back we were so happy when we were 8 children stay together with parents withoot any luxries of life
Happiness is a skill that a person should work on . That' s true. .quality of relationships,having peace with yourself, turning knowledge into actions, modesty and satisfaction, doing things that please you , music .phsical training, avoiding all what cause negative energy . So amazing and peacful speech . Thank you so much .
I believe that happiness needs reasons, & its temporary. What lasts is our satisfaction. & all it needs is fully appreciating what's good in our lives while accepting the unchangable things we don't like. 🌺
Happiness is a state of mind...."being positive and satisfied with life without having any ego with whatever you have" makes you happy from inner heart.
This video shows that having happiness mentally can really help with controlling your actions and adding to them so you can feel happy inside and out. It’ll make you realize that we stress over somethings that don’t need to be stressed over but we aren’t conscious enough to notice
This talk was incredibly insightful and inspiring. Katarina Blom's personal story of overcoming adversity and her practical advice on cultivating happiness resonated deeply with me. I particularly appreciated the emphasis on the power of positive action over positive thinking. It's a powerful reminder that true happiness comes from intentional choices and consistent effort. I'm motivated to implement the strategies she shared, such as practicing gratitude and investing in relationships. Thank you for sharing this valuable message!
Happiness is indeed a choice. You can see the blessings God has given. The beauty of every single thing, of the nature, of your relationships, the sounds of the water. You just have to have the willingness to pursue these little things to see them as blessing. You have to be open to see the magic of life. The goodness, the power of the goodness. Appreciate whatever created this all, whatever caused you. Whatever power it was, that caused you to be here. Caused you to be alive,along with so many blessings. Thank that power, appreciate it. We didn't ask for anything, we got everything as a gift. So everything is a gift, WE are a gift.
Mee too, you are same me, happiness comes when I can understand what they say without sub. I wanna improve my E and iam finding a friend to learn with me, so do you want to practice E with me? Iam a Vietnam girl, tq
@@nguyenthibinh7467 it such a nice opportunity to talk with you .I'm a second year undergraduate and i'm struggling to get a 800 toeic score .my level now is about 600 .i'm on my go but it's boring . would you like to care ?
If you really want to be happy in life, Keep the company of positive people Spend more time with family and friends Do random acts of kindness Invest in experience, not in objects --Love You All Lifecoachkulveer !!
I can easily describe this video as live changing. Taking happiness from a mental prospective and acquiring it in action. This amazing. I am so glad and happy that i watch this video.
Thank you TEDx Talks for organizing this and Katarina for sharing interesting studies on happiness and your recommendation of building quality relationships. Let us not find but create happiness together as a human race in spite of the challenges brought by the current pandemic. BE (VERY) BLESSED!
Such truly words about our thoughts. This is always hard to control them, and we can’t just get over our negative and obsessive thoughts, but we can overcome our desire to do nothing. We are all human and our main goal is to create meaningful connections between each other, to create trusting relationships, sharing our love, emotions and feelings with each other, because happiness doesn’t exist if it isn’t shared. I wish everyone to find the right person with whom you will truly happy and with whom this amazing feeling will be shared
I really got goosebumps by watching this woman speaking peacefully.. I am gonna create my happiness from now on to stay calm and collective on each good and bad moments..
Thank you so much for your insight on happiness! This really does make a lot of sense and is definitley something for us to keep focusing on: Our relationships with one another. Humility. Thank you🙏
Wow... out of the blue I text friends to tell them how much I love them and what they mean to me. I am constantly building bonds between me and some 10-15 friends. I have always had an amazing circle of friends who I appreciate and care for. I have always thought of myself as someone who is always upbeat and happy and people often tell me that. But I still appreciated this talk.
1. Take positive action as its difficult to most times have positive thoughts 2. Happiness is created. U are responsible for your own happiness. 3. Celebrate your wins. Try not to focus so much on the negative that happens each day 4. Create good relationships with your loved ones. They help to make you a happier person. Start by texting someone you care about each day until it becomes a habit
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:51 🧘♀️ We often face problems and crises in life, but we also long for meaning, connection, and happiness. 03:21 🧠 Positive thinking alone is challenging; our minds wander frequently, and we have cognitive biases affecting our perception. 08:27 😓 Evolution has given us a negativity bias, making us more attuned to negative information, impacting how we perceive life and ourselves. 12:45 💑 Happiness is deeply tied to the quality of relationships, and forming healthy psychological habits in this context is crucial. 15:09 🤝 Taking positive actions, being understanding, and caring not only for others but also for yourself can lead to positive change and inspire others to do the same. Made with HARPA AI
Every morning we were born again. learning how to improve our personal lives, our skills. so Happiness comes from inner, positive thoughts is the main key
sometimes you create it, sometimes it creates you, sometimes you find it, sometimes it finds you, and sometimes it is not about happiness at all but rather Joy which is comprised of happy and sad moments over time which leads to higher sense of being and giving
She s got a really warm touching voice and her speech is like from the bottom of her heart for better lives to happen and thereby a better world. My sincere thanks.
Well my opinion is happiness come from both of that. First of all, we have to seek happiness, pursuit happiness to know what make us happy and satisfied. Which way? Test, expriences, operate,... After all, we literally know what is our happiness so that we possibly create it.
Thank you TEDx Talks for organizing like this dire event I watched the video more than once. we need to hear that we have to understanding the reality of happiness !!
TED Talks is a great place for people learning English , for listening skill. Thanks
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Exactly, its a such kind of platform that anyone can easily learn English language.
Hà Hoàng you read m'y mind
I listen only for this
Plus u will get a lesson about life and other things.
2:20 it's not just about positive thinking
4:20 we have a better chance at controlling our actions
6:44 diary study: negative effect of a setback was more than twice as strong as the positive effect of a success
8:00 negativity bias
9:20 happiness is a skill that we all can work on
10:58 exercise: [send] appreciative gratitude text to someone that you care for
12:24 harvard study: happiness doesn't come from wealth, fame or working hard [but] relationships
THANK YOU I HAVE TO WATCH THIS FOR SCHOOL AND ANSWER QUESTIONS YOU ARE AMAZING
Thank you for the summary 🙏🏿
Yeah, Thanks a lot! This can come in handy for my project.
Thank you so much.
thanks buddy
It is the people in these Ted Talks videos that have got me through the past 5 years. I do not have anyone in my life to sit and share who i am with, but i know if i was to talk to these people they would understand. That is good enough for me . xx
I’m sending you lots of love and light ✨❤️
Be my friend if you want,I'll be around
Sending you love and prayers ❤️❤️🙏
@@simplyme166 Hey 👋😊
@@samramajeed5315 X
To anyone who searched this video up hoping to be happier with the life you're currently living I wish you the best days of your life after watching this.
Smile and be rest assured that the happiness that you've been looking for has always been within you and it will take time to master the habit of truly being satisfied with where you are in life.
You watching this video already proves you're willing to try to be better and that alone deserves an applause. I'm proud of you❤
Had me in tears towards the end.
For whoever needs to hear this, just hang in there, this too shall pass
Everything will pass. You'll be dead at the end. Don't take it too seriously and watch your own life like a movie.
who has come here to boost their English like me?
Me
I am trying:)) Did you boost your English?
@@FirdevsErsin of course
It takes time with constancy commitment hardworking
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How long does it take?
"your brain is concerned that you survive throughout this day, it's less concerned that you're a happy survivor".
This stuck out to me the most.
Wow
Two things: first, happiness is inner, is not a destination, but how you walk along the way. Second , replacing bad habits with good ones takes time and discipline and focus on only one at a time. And don’t forget to celebrate all the tiny achievements.
Happiness is inner but there are always people around you who have a huge impact on your life and sometimes they destroy your good feelings.
@@marcingruszka4414 when u let them then they affect you. otherwise it's not possible cus they don't have how to access inside of u, ur soul just u and God knows.
@@bentorodrigues4397 how can you not.let them if they are your mother and father which you have learned the bad behaviors from birth
@@TheMcRicker even if they're our parents we can go through this storm and leave on the other side completely recovered. I dunno exactly how it would be like cos my patents were nice with me long my life. However, if they didn't,i would have probably leave my home earlier and lived on my own cos in that case death would be kindness!
you seem enlightened!!
Thanks to her I know I'm happy though I'm single, unemployed for almost one year. Because I have family, friends always ready to back me up. Thank you so much.
She is amazing! She speaks so peacefully and helpful! I would love spend a lot of time talking to her! Great TedTalks!
Wow amazing speech!👏🏻 I think this video is so suitable for young people in their 20s, including myself, who are in the early stages of quarter life crisis. In this phase we begin to question what goals and achievements we should get in our life. One of them is happiness. We wonder "where can I find happiness?", "how to find happiness?". It's all about "finding happiness". Whereas happiness is a skill that we all can work on. I’ve heard many people say that "happiness is created from ourselves, not be sought", I never believed that sentence until I finally did it myself. We should control our action not just about our positive thinking to create happiness, because if we only worrying our thought about how to be happy, it won't change anything. Let’s start an action to creating happiness by ourselves for a better life.
Wow 😳 amazing 😉 talked about happiness ❤❤
I will feel happiness only when you will perceive the meaning og life for what you have been created and what you should do and then..... Follow the order of tje creator.
It’s better to control our action, rather than our thoughts. The quality of relationship matters more. Really amazing speech! To create happiness from now on. Let’s begin!
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Happiness to be own life ❤❤❤❤❤ happiness to same your mom happiness Allah to be❤❤happiness ❤❤
Controlling our action rather than our thoughts is better, and it also is easier! So it suits us. Let's begin to create happiness from ourselves and we will all live better.
@@jawharagaas7434 I left islam. Im alt happier now
I'm a Psychologist, too. And, of all the talks on happiness I've listened to, this is probably the best one yet. At least for my high school students.
You are psychologist. What if the mention happiness i don't find it? i just want to eat and sleep.
@@patrickjayerum2259me too 🥺
@@patrickjayerum2259 What? That makes no sense what you wrote. Please explain.
Wow...She places her words so beautifully...
Yep, Scandinavian diction with British English pronunciation is a great combination :-)
I know right? I find her accent quite beautiful actually.
she brings a lot of positivity in her talk and how beautifully and calmly connected as evident in the second time exercise of clapping..it makes us realise how even in such short interval we could connect and make people believe in you...
Happiness is a skill that we all can train and work on. I was afraid of uncertainty even I knew that the situation would not be improved nevertheless I kept on worrying. After watching this powerful speech, I learnt that happiness can be created because it comes within. It is true that positive thinking bring us a better life. Therefore, all of us should cultivate happiness by befriending our brain.
*Online Meditation and Breath Workshop with Bawa, Dinesh and their Team*
De stress | Energize | Shine
We are pleased to announce that Bawa, Dinesh and their team will be teaching an Online Meditation and Breath Workshop starting this Thursday evening.
Have you noticed that when you react - say something or do something when you are feeling frustrated, tired or angry, you typically regret whatever you said or did? Life can become a series of regrettable incidents when the mind is not ok.
Rational, intelligent decisions and actions in all areas of life are a function of a calm, peaceful mind.
Learn the secrets of creating that elusive peace, along with razor-sharp focus through Art of Living’s Online Meditation and Breath Workshop taught by BnD.
Bawa n Dinesh are best-selling authors, prolific speakers and personal coaches and have been teaching the Art of Living courses for the last 27 years.
Their online workshop is a smooth blend of live and recorded sessions - Yoga, pranayama, Sudarshan Kriya, guided meditations, group processes and an interactive QnA session await you from this Thursday evening.
Come and experience Bawa n Dinesh weave their magic to bring about a relaxed, energized, stress-free, shining You.
*For any enquiries, please call +91-97112 02128 or +91-98803 19658*
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I learn to improve my English while watching ted talk. And. After one year, im able to speak fluently in english,i guess if i retake my muet exam, i could possibly get band 4.
That's what i called systematic 😎
MandakSabahanVlog how did you do that? I really love learning English from Tedtalk videos.
Naiematus Sakinah how is you in the English now
Idola. If it doesn't bother you, mind sharing your tips along the way. Coz I'm trying to do this method for months and felt like overwhelmed.
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One of the way how get happiness is talk like this lady, speaking peacefully. It creates softness in listening too.
9:44 her expression just amazing.
Thanks for these ted.
I try to make my self more pricious as i can. Thanx to katarina for such wonderfull thoughts 👍
"you can turn this talk into action"
by being more understanding and caring not just towards others, but also towards yourself ,i think that others will follow your example. 👏👏
Yes you must your love yourself first
I try to nurture my friendships. I try to let my friends know how grateful I am for them. But the sad thing about recent years it's not a given take I never hear anything nice in return nobody is putting the effort in anymore to building and keeping friendships. I believe that is a big key to happiness is friendships.
Which country belong to you
Weil said. I feel the Same. People are so Cold. They don't appreciate your friendship.
well you should tell them straight foward how you feel that's what real friendships are about, being able to be vulnerable in front each other
You must be my soulmate. I have the same problem. I hold friendship in highest regard but no one else seems to feel the same. I'm prepared to give my life for my friends but when I lost my father I didn't receive as much support from my friends as I had hoped. Everyone seems to be preoccupied with themselves and their monotonous life.
I'm personally valuing friendship a lot. However, chance are I won't always say/demonstrate-it "actively" (I say a lot of positive things thought when I think about it, but I can also be isolated for long, not talking to some people I value because I just have nothing to say, etc. and they might "feel X" without knowing or forgetting how much I care about them... some others have no issues with that and we can not talk for 1+ year and next time we talk it is like 10 years ago when we were talking daily, same acquired respect... but I can also just not say all I think or feel awkward or whatever... and that won't mean I don't care even if someone might feel like it).
I am not saying everyone care, far from this, some don't give a F... But we should not assume something we don't know that easily. We, humans, are very good to create negative scenarios in our head. Don't conclude on them too easily. It is OK to wonder, but if you can have multiple hypothesis, don't conclude on them, like, you can think people don't care or they care AND just don't say it. Who know?
That being said, don't stop to being a good person! There are a lot of good people that care out there too. :)
Everyday, i watch Ted talk for improve my english, especially listening skill, and increase my vocab. Great talk
Great idea! I am going to start doing this.
The best Ted talk I’ve ever watched.
Yeah, me too
Fratisha Day x
I think there are different levels of happiness and the highest level is to make peace with your mind and the rest of the world.
I do agree with you..
I like that
I love her voice and her way of speaking... So inspirational 💖
The way the speaker gave the talk so clearly allowed me to understand it well. This video helped me realize that in order to achieve happiness, it is also necessary to act not only with positive thoughts. I also still have trouble controlling my thoughts and emotions which makes me sometimes uncontrollable and makes my mood messy. The speaker also informed about the idea of a "psychological gym" introduced to train happiness skills. This video highlights the importance of building good habits, especially in relationships, for lasting happiness. I am very grateful to the speaker for sharing information that can be useful for all of us to create our own happiness. Thank you
When we succeed, we must not forget our past.
When we fail, we must remember
there is still tomorrow.
When the path leads to nowhere,
we can always take another path.
We can make a diversion.
Anybody watching in 2024 ??
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Of course
for just talking about happiness, that makes me smile throughout watching video, along our psychological study, we've learned that positive thinking is the main source of happiness and achievement, but indeed positive actions more logical and practical to gain happiness, due to more easy to control our behaviors than our thoughts.
katarina you're the best psychology talker I've ever heard
Happiness comes from within yourself, not from anybody or anything. So work on you and love yourself 💛
Upset that she didn’t mention meditation, a lot of people are uncomfortable with sitting with themselves but I promise when you get over the uncomfortable feelings meditation is the biggest thing to do to learn to live in the moment. ❤️
Meditation is only beneficial to refresh & to escape from reality. If you really want an ever lasting peace, you should live every moment mindful of surrounding and of your interactions with the world.
@@dr.sambudd3759 I respect your opinion and thanks for the comment, but I really believe meditation teaches us to be more mindful! Merry Christmas :)
Hello
Thank you Only in the stillness of the mind do we come to realize True Happiness. Happiness is the center of All.Happiness is feeling without difference, feeling before the search for Happiness
One of the best TED talks ever
İn türkish: " Gelmiş geçmiş en iyi TED konuşması" Thanks
You let me know my brain has it's own life. I've never thought like that. Thank you. From now l will make movements.
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Read the Power of Now by Ekkhert Tolle. It goes deep into this. WE are not our brains. Your brain often works against you. It's fascinating stuff really
One of the best speeches in Ted Talk!
May we all have a healthy new year and love for each other!
This is really good i often feel so sick sick to my stomach from past mistakes please pray for me ❤️🙏if u r reading this to forgive myself and have success
You’ll be fine dear. You’re definitely not alone.
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I am praying for you. Also know that every moment is an opportunity for a new beginning. I took on being the kindest most compassionate person I am able to be about 8 years ago. I am far from perfect though I have so much forgiveness for myself and others now. I believe that every thought, action and feeling we have has a huge impact on ourselves and the world we live in. Taking this into account I strive to create a world worth living into. Obviously this may be a bit extreme for some people. Still just loving yourself enough to forgive yourself is so valuable to who you are being to yourself and others. It is powerful and you deserve forgiveness, we all do. Forgiveness will permeate into your words and actions. You will more than make up for any regret you are currently suffering. Please consider you are a valuable contribution to this planet and move forward with certainty 💗
Me too
We would have done better, if we knew better. And what we knew, was inherited to us, educated to us, given to us, by our parents, society, and our DNA. So these are the things to blame, if any, not ourselves.
Katarina Blom is a stunning psychologist for sure with wonderful study and teaching on the most need of all humankind; happiness!
Listen, Love and Live with happiness!
God Almighty Bless her and all seeking inspiration and Practicng to be flourishing all around our active zones, places, people with happiness and gifting it to generations that follow.
Sorry!
Key to have a happiness life
-Investing sharing, caring to your close relationship nearby you
-Eating healthy food
And keep positive thinking
Самый лучший ted talk ,для меня и для всех 😊
I think one of the important aspect of happiness is to understand the purpose of us being here in this life.
and what's the purpose
But
Nobody knows the purpose
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When school was open our form class would listen to one of these every Wednesday and I never realized that me surrounded by all those people would bring me happiness and now I realise how much I really miss and appreciate their smiles, laughs and personalities just been feeling a bit down lately 😔
Happiness is when you understand who you are and your mission for this planet and be thankful for what you have
Wow happiness is a skill.
That means I can learn too
As long as you try, happiness runs away from you. Only honest acceptance is the beginning to happiness.
😮🎉🎉
Couldn’t agree more with this video! Happiness isn’t something that just happens; it’s built through small, intentional steps. Sometimes, talking to someone who gets it can make all the difference. If offline doesn’t work for you, look online, there are platforms like Unikon and others that make it easier to connect.
YES I AGREE!
Whenever, I feel exhausted I come here for listening these types of speech to grow up my spirit and inner strength.
Really, it makes me happy and refresh my mind
Love so much❤️❤️❤️
ted talk is one the organisation’s which are really helping the people and are making genuine efforts to make world a better place
Other times, I face an unbearable situation.
I begin thinking
‘It won't work anyway.’
‘They will all hate me.’
‘I will only be humiliated.’
Then I think about the situations I have been avoiding.
Meeting with people that make me feel uncomfortable.
Work that stresses me out.
Things I have been procrastinating for a while.
Try to identify the actions that you have been resisting.
🎯 Key points for quick navigation:
00:51 *🤔 Our behavior often mirrors others rather than following advice, highlighting the importance of modeling positive actions.*
02:14 *🧠 Happiness is a skill that requires positive action, not just positive thinking, as our minds naturally wander and struggle with control.*
05:39 *🔄 Cognitive biases shape our perception more than rationality, affecting how we process and prioritize information in life.*
06:16 *📉 Our brains prioritize negative feedback over positive, a phenomenon studied in how setbacks affect us more deeply than successes.*
09:32 *🎭 Happiness is not found externally but cultivated as a skill through consistent action and habits, emphasizing the need for psychological training akin to physical exercise.*
13:00 *💖 The quality of relationships, characterized by vulnerability and sharing, significantly impacts our happiness and well-being, more than the quantity of relationships.*
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I totally agree with her standpoint. Happiness is all around you, you just need to adopt the right vision to see it. I also recommend Eisner Fjord's book "Simple ways to find happiness", he has similar approach there.
The best Ted talk I've ever seen! Perfect presentation.
"Brain is not always on your side"
Can relate to that for sure
Thank you so much Katarina..... I'll cultivate happiness and spread around....I think your speech will change my life because I'm a Moody person who often expect happiness outside instead cultivating it..... Thank you so much once again....
One of the best speech I have ever seen :) Very inspiring and helpful. Thank you !
Pinny Chou hello
You are teaching codependency! I did this since so many years and yet I come here to find TRUE happiness.
I think for the most part people are social animals and are happier when they have some healthy relationships and frequent social interactions.
I don't think it's codependency. She pointed out that it's the quality of relationships, not just having them. I don't have the best friends and this Tedtalk made me realize I need to get rid of the people who don't care for me.
Katarina Blom is a stunning psychologist for sure with wonderful study and teaching on the most need of all humankind; happiness!
Listen, Love and Live with happiness!
God Almighty Bless her and all seeking inspiration and Practicng to be flourishing all around our active zones, places, people with happiness and gifting it to generations that follow.
“I am your God, the One teaching you to benefit yourself, the One guiding you in the way you should walk.”
After 63 years running and achiving many things inlife
When i look back we were so happy when we were 8 children stay together with parents withoot any luxries of life
Happiness is a skill that a person should work on . That' s true. .quality of relationships,having peace with yourself, turning knowledge into actions, modesty and satisfaction, doing things that please you , music .phsical training, avoiding all what cause negative energy . So amazing and peacful speech . Thank you so much .
I believe that happiness needs reasons, & its temporary. What lasts is our satisfaction. & all it needs is fully appreciating what's good in our lives while accepting the unchangable things we don't like. 🌺
Pleasure is temporary but happiness is parmanent.
Happiness is a state of mind...."being positive and satisfied with life without having any ego with whatever you have" makes you happy from inner heart.
So true!
This video shows that having happiness mentally can really help with controlling your actions and adding to them so you can feel happy inside and out. It’ll make you realize that we stress over somethings that don’t need to be stressed over but we aren’t conscious enough to notice
This talk was incredibly insightful and inspiring. Katarina Blom's personal story of overcoming adversity and her practical advice on cultivating happiness resonated deeply with me. I particularly appreciated the emphasis on the power of positive action over positive thinking. It's a powerful reminder that true happiness comes from intentional choices and consistent effort. I'm motivated to implement the strategies she shared, such as practicing gratitude and investing in relationships. Thank you for sharing this valuable message!
" how to be happy all life " made simple. Thank you Ma'am.
Happiness is indeed a choice. You can see the blessings God has given. The beauty of every single thing, of the nature, of your relationships, the sounds of the water. You just have to have the willingness to pursue these little things to see them as blessing. You have to be open to see the magic of life. The goodness, the power of the goodness. Appreciate whatever created this all, whatever caused you. Whatever power it was, that caused you to be here. Caused you to be alive,along with so many blessings. Thank that power, appreciate it. We didn't ask for anything, we got everything as a gift. So everything is a gift, WE are a gift.
The wisdom of this is vital to living a good life. Love it. Thank you❤️
If we make the person disappear inside us who asks for a good life, & happiness, then happiness will come to us and stay for ever.
Hello
i have learnt english for a year and my happiness comes when t understand what the people say
Mee too, you are same me, happiness comes when I can understand what they say without sub. I wanna improve my E and iam finding a friend to learn with me, so do you want to practice E with me? Iam a Vietnam girl, tq
@@nguyenthibinh7467 it such a nice opportunity to talk with you .I'm a second year undergraduate and i'm struggling to get a 800 toeic score .my level now is about 600 .i'm on my go but it's boring . would you like to care ?
Of course. I am so grateful.
Nice to know you!!
How can I contact with you?
And your love story begins
"Happiness comes from relationships"
I agree with that. Thank you for this talk. It helps me a lot.
No. If your happiness depends on relationship, you handover the key to your happiness to others.
@@genjishinzuki yes thats the reality and thats how it is. its true that our happiness depends on relationships, health and many other things
One of the best Ted talks I’ve heard in my entire life!! Amazing
If you really want to be happy in life,
Keep the company of positive people
Spend more time with family and friends
Do random acts of kindness
Invest in experience, not in objects
--Love You All Lifecoachkulveer !!
Happiness is a skill we all can train and work on 🙌
I can easily describe this video as live changing. Taking happiness from a mental prospective and acquiring it in action. This amazing. I am so glad and happy that i watch this video.
2:22 nice
Tedx works fine for me, for developing my English listening skill and for a good motivational mind. 👌
Thank you TEDx Talks for organizing this and Katarina for sharing interesting studies on happiness and your recommendation of building quality relationships. Let us not find but create happiness together as a human race in spite of the challenges brought by the current pandemic. BE (VERY) BLESSED!
Such truly words about our thoughts. This is always hard to control them, and we can’t just get over our negative and obsessive thoughts, but we can overcome our desire to do nothing. We are all human and our main goal is to create meaningful connections between each other, to create trusting relationships, sharing our love, emotions and feelings with each other, because happiness doesn’t exist if it isn’t shared. I wish everyone to find the right person with whom you will truly happy and with whom this amazing feeling will be shared
I really got goosebumps by watching this woman speaking peacefully.. I am gonna create my happiness from now on to stay calm and collective on each good and bad moments..
I love her speech. I learn to English here but she teach what is happiness beyond English
Thank you so much for your insight on happiness! This really does make a lot of sense and is definitley something for us to keep focusing on: Our relationships with one another. Humility. Thank you🙏
I am learning English with this channel. A good channel to learn English.
The best talk for my current struggling situations. Thanks Katarina Blom and TEDx Talks for bringing a great talk 💕💕
The speech was outstanding. I impressed she's all talked.I am over the moon.
One of the best speech . It helps me to increase my listening band✨
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Wow... out of the blue I text friends to tell them how much I love them and what they mean to me. I am constantly building bonds between me and some 10-15 friends. I have always had an amazing circle of friends who I appreciate and care for. I have always thought of myself as someone who is always upbeat and happy and people often tell me that. But I still appreciated this talk.
It also doesn't mean how many friends you have or how many commitment with your partner, but it is about the quality of your relationship
1. Take positive action as its difficult to most times have positive thoughts
2. Happiness is created. U are responsible for your own happiness.
3. Celebrate your wins. Try not to focus so much on the negative that happens each day
4. Create good relationships with your loved ones. They help to make you a happier person. Start by texting someone you care about each day until it becomes a habit
This video deserves way more thumbs up!
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:51 🧘♀️ We often face problems and crises in life, but we also long for meaning, connection, and happiness.
03:21 🧠 Positive thinking alone is challenging; our minds wander frequently, and we have cognitive biases affecting our perception.
08:27 😓 Evolution has given us a negativity bias, making us more attuned to negative information, impacting how we perceive life and ourselves.
12:45 💑 Happiness is deeply tied to the quality of relationships, and forming healthy psychological habits in this context is crucial.
15:09 🤝 Taking positive actions, being understanding, and caring not only for others but also for yourself can lead to positive change and inspire others to do the same.
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Conclusion: Build good relations. They are the biggest contributors to happiness.
Every morning we were born again. learning how to improve our personal lives, our skills. so Happiness comes from inner, positive thoughts is the main key
sometimes you create it, sometimes it creates you, sometimes you find it, sometimes it finds you, and sometimes it is not about happiness at all but rather Joy which is comprised of happy and sad moments over time which leads to higher sense of being and giving
Marvellous. Happiness is subjective. Mind is complex and we are not designed to be happy all the time. Life needs expansion so need to be happy
She s got a really warm touching voice and her speech is like from the bottom of her heart for better lives to happen and thereby a better world. My sincere thanks.
This was absolutely incredible!!! Awesome job!!
Such a great presentation. I loved how she wasn't over enthusiastic with her gestures yet still kept you drawn in. She's such a great speaker!
really nice... we just work mentally by applying affirmative words than actions.
action of positive works is the best part in this speech
Well my opinion is happiness come from both of that. First of all, we have to seek happiness, pursuit happiness to know what make us happy and satisfied. Which way? Test, expriences, operate,...
After all, we literally know what is our happiness so that we possibly create it.
So wonderful speech! She explained not just words but with action! Great Job!
The best way to improve our English is watching a ted talk per day!
Yes, you are right. Ted talk is really improve my english.
Same but I need a partner
Thank you TEDx Talks for organizing like this dire event I watched the video more than once. we need to hear that we have to understanding the reality of happiness !!
Amazing, Psychological GYM! Thanks lady! Amazing concept!!
I'm learning English with you! I'm speak Arabic. thank you 💗💗
Wow, I’m sure I have not words enough to say what’s the meaning of this conference. And “awesome” still not enough. Thank you Katarina B!