1000 percent agree. Men say that they don't like makeup either. ..but what they really mean is that they don't like overdone makeup. Keep it natural looking and they have no idea.
Even overdone make up is fine by them as look as it's well done. I can pull very colourful looks with very unnatural colours like purples and neon greens or glitter (I'm quite skilled because I've been practicing for years) and somehow when they see me they smile with their eyes all lite up and compliment me "you look like a blooming flower/your eyes are like butterflies/you look like a mermaid" . So I figured out that again the problem is not even the natural/unnatural but the technique.
Bakerygo that’s why I don’t listen to men when they say they don’t like a b or c. They are very contradictory! I ve also experienced that a lot and normally they go for the opposite of natural lol 😆 so make up dress up to the nines and all.....
I don't pay attention to a man's words I pay attention to their actions. Men are visual creatures as long as you look beautiful they will always make an exception.
Some women look older after getting surgery in the face. A fuller face and nose is actually more youthful, especially when getting older. You want to keep volume in the face and avoid a too thin nose as this ages a woman. Most of the time it's better to do surgery on the body than the face.
A rich man friend of mine told me that as long as it looks natural and it seems like u got it for urself and not for the usual excessive social media attention then no problem
Haha, men are clueless, yet it's funny they always put their nose in our business (aka women's things that we do to enhance our appearance)... they just overhear a little detail about something and then go around talking about it as if they are experts, but have no idea in reality.
Right as a always Anna! Plus, men also say they don't like a woman who wears makeup but that too is a lie. They like a woman with makeup that looks like there isn't any.
@@WilliamsPinch yes lol and for them "natural makeup" is larger in definition than women. I'm surprised when I get complimented on my "natural beauty" with foundation on and cat eye makeup.
I think that men generally prefer it when women do things to enhance their natural beauty rather than completely change their appearance, whether that's through subtle cosmetic procedures, makeup or fashion. As long as you still feel and look like you, but are expressing the enhanced version of yourself, that's when it's most attractive. Feeling good makes you look good! I absolutely love your videos Anna ❤️👑💎
Guys are honestly so odd. They say they like girls with no makeup, but then they show you a girl with a neutral smoky eye on lmao if it looks good I’m sure they won’t mind
Thank goodness this comment section wasn't like your last plastic surgery video. I almost lost my mind on how they listened to dusty men telling them they looked fine natural. Yeah, of course he would say that, so he would have no competition. This video is spot on. You're supposed to judge men by their actions. And they're actions tell me that they like good looking women (natural or not).
Men don't look at other men as competition. That's what you gals do and you're now projecting it on us. It always amuses me to see how women are just as clueless about men as men are about women.
My experience when men say I do not like this or that on women. They wind up dating the women that have this or that done. What ever a women decides do it only if it will improve YOU.
In my experience, the same goes for women. I have seen many examples of women ending up with guys that fit their description of what they don't like very well.
Men like natural women as in J.LO on red carpet , Kim K on instagram etc , i heard so many men saying they want one type of women and end up with the opposite
I have girlfriends who have done breast augmentation and most guys who know them think their breasts are real, even when they said they are against these surgeries, men are clueless. Same story I've seen with lips, even hair extensions! My friend's boyfriend always touched her hair and head as a caring gesture and she told me he even felt those bits of extensions with his hands and didn't know she had them! Yet he was against them
I totally agree. Always go for natural look even if it's through plastic surgery. Some women just over do it. End up looking as if they had a stroke where their face look frozen or paralyzed.
I think it also depends on the man’s preferences as well. I know a lot men don’t like big lips, prefer smaller breast, and like petite women instead of curvy women. So getting surgery to enhance any of these may make you less attractive to some men. At the end of the day, I think women should decide how they want to look according to their own preferences, and what makes them feel sexy, because a confident sexy woman is appealing to pretty much everyone.
I met a wealthy man in 1976 who I really liked. We had fun with his group traveling for a few years internationally. I went another direction until 2001 when I decided to look for him again. Because I am bilingual and confident, I found him and he was pleased. He invited me for a weekend on his yacht but told me he’d be bringing his girlfriend. That was fine with me since I wasn’t interested in sex during that trip. I just wanted to see if he had changed and to experience his boat and his lifestyle. I offered to teach his girlfriend the Egyptian dance art with finger cymbals that I taught women way back when I first met him. I arrived at the the yacht first in the Bahamas, and an hour later he walked in with the girlfriend and some companions. Secretly I was shocked at how completely plastic she was. She looked completely like a petite Barbie doll from head to toe. Cute but very demure and very quiet. She looked 30 and we were 50. I couldn’t get a conversation going with her. I observed her for three days on the yacht. Every aspect of her had been under surgery. She was my age. I got a “compliment from my host that I was very “well preserved “. In the 30 years since I had seen him, I had only a chem peel and a blephero. I also don’t drink or smoke and I eat greens a lot. He didn’t look as good as I did. He was 5 years older. He had those man boobs tanned rich men get. Ewww. Later we all went ashore to do some gambling. After that I saw him take his girlfriend shopping for fancy handbags. It was obvious that he had bought her, her silence, and paid for all her surgery so she could represent him as the perfect cutesy young thing and always be available for him and his travels. It was a fake life. An empty experience on a rich mans prize pinnacle of achievement- his yacht. But the man had changed and I couldn’t get interested in this false, plastic lifestyle. He had changed. Big time.
@@CoKiEsAnDcReAm07 wow I'm 40+ but most people are shocked and say I look half my age and I have not done anything to my body except lay out in the sun a handful of times when I want to get tan, consume a lot greens like you and exercise and try to live as healthy as I can. Oh I do dye my hair whixh zi know isn't really healthy but I feel like I wouldn't have those greys if I didn't have to work like a slave for two decades to stay with a man who has not done anything to help me in return to be successful in life in the ways that really matter. Im not talking about being just wealthy or rich. But having the mindset and drive/ambition to make our lives as best quality to our abilities. I have fought to do just that and he has held himself back. I held myself back by staying with and trying for so long So here I am watxhing these videos to learn from this woman on her channel (in addition to many other things Im doing to "level up" myself).
Good answer...Men tend to stigmatize everything to the extreme, if it's discussed, they'll object. I don't like to talk to men about anything that involves cosmetics..that's the 'old school' way. If a man tells me my hair looks nice, all I say is 'thank you' and immediately change the subject. I don't tell him I spent half a day on hair-care! Then, being a man he'll think, 'well what kind of nightmare is her hair really about?' We don't want to bombard them with this kind of info...they need those braincells involved in accomplishing more prosperity! Shalom.
That's so true. If I tell a man that I spent an hour doing my make up and hair, he'll say knight in shining armor things like "you don't need make up" blah blah blah. They all want to be righteous saviors
Yes absolutely. Save the hair talk for the girlfriends. Men will just make fun of you and ridicule you if you tell them how long you've spent on your hair and makeup. And if you don't style your hair they also make fun of your unstyled hair. They are so contradicting.
I always get so confused when men say they don’t like women with makeup but those same men praise me when “I look good” like what ?? So you do like women with makeup
My daughter has had a Breast Augmentation after losing 60 kg. She had alot of excess/loose skin due to going through that physical trauma. She also had Reconstructive surgery to get rid of the excess skin on her abdomen, inner thighs and upper arms. It made a world of a diference with her self confidence. BTW: You are Stunning. Best regards from Serbia.
But if you dont have surgery , no one looks at you anyway so... i don't see what is so bad at improving your look , specially if you need it , instead of being bitter your whole life cuz you dont like what you see in the mirror , like so many do.. men and women .
Ms. Perfectly Imperfect No, i wanted to make it short and didn't express myself very fair . I was thinking about women who feel plain/ugly and know they need an improvement or would be happy to make it , but doesnt cuz of the prejudices and the superficial and contradictory opinion of men . And there are alot of people, men and women who feels stuck in life cuz of their appearance and they have the ability in this century to change.. why not ? Build yourself and become what you want and have the potential .
I wish men did more to themselves cosmetically, more facials, skin rejuvenations, Botox and facelifts and Lipo for the dad bod stomach please haha. More aging like Andersen Cooper...that’d be fabulous
This coming from a woman that's clearly had a lot of plastic surgery. I have nothing against it but she is hardly an unbiased opinion. Be very careful with the overdone surgery look, men will notice it for sure but not in the way you are hoping. It reeks of insecurity and attracts the wrong kind of attention. I'm not saying don't do it, but you need to know when to stop.
You’re correct. Most men prefer the natural look and if a woman has enhancements men don’t like them Overdone. Very few men love the very plastic look.
It’s a pity to do something that painful and dangerous just to get men. Love yourself first. If you wanna do a surgery then don’t care about what men think. If you love yourself and don’t wanna do surgery, don’t care about what men think neither !
I once read a blog of a woman who developed breast cancer while having implants. Her husband didn't like her unattractive breasts, so she got an augmentation. Because it's harder to detect cancers when you have implants, it went undetected until it got so bad she only had a few months left to live. Her and her husband split up anyway, and she had to spend the rest of her life on regret she put herself in danger just to please her man because he didn't like her breasts. I don't have anything against surgey, I plan to get botox and maybe one day fillers, but when you're going to such an extent to please your man that you botch yourself, or put your health at risk, there's a problem. Not to mention the autoimmune diseases that can derive from silicone implants. My mother in law has breast implant illness.
Breast implant illness is 40 different chronic mystery illnesses caused by the 40 different toxic chemicals that make the saline/silicone implants. One of them is a rare and horriffic cancer in the lymph nodes, mold and pathogenic extravaganza around the implants, hair loss and intolerance to any chemicals like alcohol. Glad men like us natural. All men do ❤️
I think some rich men don't like plastic surgery, because they want a 'naturally beautiful' girlfriend who is effortlessly like that. So, if the plastic surgery is natural it's okay. Also, if they are looking for WIFE material!!! they want natural beauty (as well as intelligence) as they want their future kids to be pretty. It happened to many men that they married a plastic queen and their children are just not good looking. Unfortunate situation. Of course, here you can't count in any surgeries related to breasts, etc. That they don't mind. But anything to do with the face is a big no-no.
Wow! I was thinking the same exact thing when it comes to facial plastic surgery . When the kids are growing up and don't have the same good looks as parents, because the mother had surgical augmentation. 😳
I come from the Joan Rivers school of thought on this subject, but we didn't have subtle maintenance when I was a young woman. We had face lifts, brow lifts and nose jobs. That's what we did. I may look overdone to some, but I just remember that I'm 81 years old. Most woman I see that are my age are riding mobility scooters and wearing Velcro strap sneakers. I'm wearing heels and trying to stay youthful, out with people half my age and fitting in. If you're young, then most likely you don't need much, but I would say If you have the means go for it and do it a little at a time so that you never see a drastic change. I feel I have looked better over the years. When I see pictures from 20 years ago I tell people that those pictures were from years ago when I was fatter and older! LOL
I love your channel SO MUCH. This is really interesting stuff. I already have a wonderful partner but I want to understand what men find attractive in a woman.
2 videos in 3 days, thank you Anna! For the plastic surgery, I think men are just afraid the results won't be good, but if you're better after, they don't really care. Please talk about treatments for the face to make it shine, not just a routine with random products.
You have a point! They say they prefer natural but I think they will rather wife a natural woman and have a side chick who is unnatural. Well if its subtle like you say then i think thats better
Well the standard for a wife is higher so why would you be surprised by this? For millions of years (rightly or wrongly) highly successful men have had women who were wives and concubine types who were purely for smashing. If that’s the category you want to be in, go ahead.
I agree with you Anna! 100% Man doesn't know if you done any plastic surgery as long as it looks natural! I did a boob job couple years ago and people always question it if its real or fake because it has a natural look. Also, I think its very important to find a good doctor. I have a friend I was begging for not to do her breast surgery in an other country just because it is cheap but she didn't listen! After the surgery she got infection and she had to remove one of her implant. It took her a year to recover. Bad surgery sometimes its not even fixable so its better to save money and find the right doctor to do it.
I'm a big fan of yours. I learn a lot from you. Keep posting. You are helping out here, especially me. I learnt how to dress and take care and love myself.
They also say orange foundation and pale neck is too much make up. They obviously haven’t heard of oxidation or the fact that some people just don’t know how to apply make up.
You know what's funny?? My boyfriend has said he loves how fit I am (and how skinny I am, how pretty I am, and how soft my skin feels, and he loves my hair). I said I love the same thing in men!!! He didn't get the hint... He is overweight with bad acne, and he still eats like crap ½ the time ... We do discuss health, and that I'd love him to be healthy so we can live longer together. But he still keeps his bad habits, while I struggle to keep UP with my healthy habits. Men really don't know!!! But they need to maintain themselves, too!!
If a man won't maintain his looks for me, I move on. It's a two-way street. There's an element of him taking you for granted in his thinking he doesn't have to do anything.
I spend a lot of time around well off men and several have paid for a girlfriend or wife to get work done. I wouldn't call it unusual at all. I rarely, if ever, hear men talking badly about a woman having work done but have heard many, many positive comments.
I stand on this the same way I stand on the weave, wigs, clip-ins argument. No man in his right mind can tell the difference on sight. They are not wired that way as you mentioned in the beginning. What they say and what they do are completely different. Good video hope nobody missed your point.
I love you though Anna for having the courage to be upfront about your genuine thoughts and opinions . I'm not bashing you though anna. We live in a shitty superficial world with uneven resources and restrictions to access.And even though I'm not fond of your approach, the fractal is similar in almost all environments. And you are being honest. So respect to that buddy.
Women come in all shapes, types, forms, colors, shades. Men are like a baby in a candy factory. It's hard to choose just one with so many different options. Woman A is the type of woman he marries, but woman B attracts him sexually & fulfills his fantasies. It's hard to get everything you want in one person.
Maya Cdp I really have a hard time saying this because as a former Hair Stylist I love ALL hair. Most men prefer hair that they can run their hands through. As long as it is shiny and healthy and well kept it shouldn’t matter but I’m going to have to say the preferred look is straight/wavy. Don’t hate me. I would also love to hear what Anna thinks on this one.
Straight... I heard so many relationship gurus say it... the lady who owns Millionaire Matchmaker always said it too. I’m obviously naturally curly/coily but I usually wear a natural looking wavy weave or blowout my natural hair. When I wear my hair in its natural curly/coily way, only women and broke/dusty men compliment me😁
In the US, class is superficially dictated by cultural acceptance and appearance of WASP values. So traditionally wealthy white men tend to go for women who reflect this- partners for them are objects to signify wealth and tend to be thin, white, straight hair, etc. The people in their circles also reflect those values. Men who who have managed to become wealthy by dominating in their industry and men who aren’t white, tend to have more varied taste in women. They will typically go for either the women who are also dominating in their field (Rihanna & Hassan Jameel, Beyoncé & Jay-z, Serena Williams & Alexis Ohanian) and/or they will go for women who represents the standard of beauty in their culture/time. Of course, those listed above aren’t necessarily considered “high society,” just extremely wealthy. So if you just want to be a part of high society- straight hair. But if you have a skill that can be leveraged into wealth, then you have more freedom in how you present yourself.
All I see is a bunch of cope in these comments. Men, in general, will and has always preferred natural over fake beauty. Just because there are plastic women out that men desire (only to fuck, to be honest) does not mean men prefer it. Keep coping and being single, ladies.
I always watch your videos as soon as they come out. Love your confidence and genuine views. Im only 5.0 and very average looking. In my 30s im getting deep lines and wrinkles. I feel unattractive and just dont like to look at mirror. But i love dating high class men. I am picky with men. In past year i only liked onw man. He just literally went on two dates with me and stopped responding me al together. He was a tall and good looking arab man from my dreams. I dont know if he was rich or not but from his appearance he looked a million bucks. He was 10 years older than me and it broke my heart that he thought i was too old for him. Since then i lost all my confidence and i am with limited income don't know how to improve my look. Just any tip an average looking or not good looking woman can attract the man of our dreams.
I don't know how old are you exactly. If you are 31,32 or maybe 37 or so. It's a difference. What I can suggest you is to work out and take care of your figure and health. It's free. Take care of your skin, you don't need much money to have good, natural skin care. Sleep well, eat healthy ( not necessarily vegan), drink a lot of water and the most important - don't tan. Sun will damage your skin even more. And you can try also massage your face. Take care of your hair too. Make it longer, healthy and shiny. That will help.
Make sure to do thorough research before doing any procedure esp. those involving general anesthesia. I personally had two good gen. anesthesia experiences and one that was way off.
Wow where do I begin..... I hated them from the moment I saw them. They were huge. The scarring was terrible. Something broke inside me and my psyche was even more insecure and self-hating. Depression and anxiety worsened and I felt soooo regretful. Then the money went away and life was just crappy with plastic bags in my chest. Thanks for asking me. Nowadays I’m researching and preparing for removal. Not to be happy but to rid my body of these bags of saline toxifying my body and mind for over fifteen years. Ladies..... natural is way more beautiful. And in your own mind you will actually feel less womanly, less sexy, less yourself after cosmetic surgery, especially if it’s to please someone else. Just like anything it’s a temporary high, soon to end in disappointment.
The song Simply Irresistible by Robert Palmer sums it up so does a video! The line goes " she's so fine there's no telling where the money went". In other words he didn't care he can't tell where she's spend her money on plastic surgery she was just fine and that's all he cared about love that song.
Even tho I do agree a woman is more beautiful natural I do still think a lot of men out here are too harsh on women who had work done it’s kindof annoying and it makes those people seem like less of a man too like these people could be 25 years old and they will come off sounding like a 12 year old making plastic surgery jokes on the internet
As a man if the plastic surgery was done in a subtle way, yes it could increase the chances of me becoming attracted to a woman. But once I find out that there was a significant amount of surgery done in order to achieve the looks, then its a turnoff. Yes I will still sexually find her attractive but only for short term relationships. For longterm relationships I prefer someone who is mentally more stable, who doesnt suffer much from insecurities or lets her get influenced from the media as much and those are the type of people who do less plastic surgery. Its also normal to look for natural beauties because thats a good indicator of genetic health for our future offspring. Plastic surgery doesnt change the DNA of someone.
Ladies, the biggest problem is it's a warning sign that the girls has internal issues. If I know a girl disliked something about herself so much that she had someone cut her open to change it, that says something about her. Especially if she's getting butt implants or liposuction when she could just be living a healthier lifestyle and doing squats. Of course guys can look past that for a hookup, but you might run into more skepticism when guys start looking for something deeper. But nothing is set in stone.
Maybe rich men are different, but most men are simple, they mean what they say. Men prefer natural beauties. And almost all plastic surgeries are very noticeable.
I feel if women embraced those enhancements meditate did her research. I never went under the knife but if that what makes women happy that her embracing some may do. Many of us are incarnated need are enhancing are makeup and are beauty of magic. Men love women busy and good personality in her sexiness. I took a makeup artist class 2 years ago I wear my makeup very light i can make it look like I am not wearing none I feel that educating your self or enhancing being graceful about it is a wonderful thing. He does have to be the most wealthy but secure and protect and guide that all that matters.
1000 percent agree. Men say that they don't like makeup either. ..but what they really mean is that they don't like overdone makeup. Keep it natural looking and they have no idea.
Even overdone make up is fine by them as look as it's well done. I can pull very colourful looks with very unnatural colours like purples and neon greens or glitter (I'm quite skilled because I've been practicing for years) and somehow when they see me they smile with their eyes all lite up and compliment me "you look like a blooming flower/your eyes are like butterflies/you look like a mermaid" . So I figured out that again the problem is not even the natural/unnatural but the technique.
Bakerygo that’s why I don’t listen to men when they say they don’t like a b or c. They are very contradictory! I ve also experienced that a lot and normally they go for the opposite of natural lol 😆 so make up dress up to the nines and all.....
@@user-nv3sh5jh3p I think it's very common to have breast implants, I would tell if asked.
Which men say they don't like makeup. You have men say they don't like too much makeup to the point that it looks unnatural.
Amen
I don't pay attention to a man's words I pay attention to their actions. Men are visual creatures as long as you look beautiful they will always make an exception.
morasinlove - whenever a man tells me he’s “visual” I tell him that I’m even more visual !😁
Men are visual is a shallow excuse! Women are visual as well!
@@brittneylamar9864 I agree with you on that.
Whores ,regardless of gender get attention.
Some women look older after getting surgery in the face. A fuller face and nose is actually more youthful, especially when getting older. You want to keep volume in the face and avoid a too thin nose as this ages a woman. Most of the time it's better to do surgery on the body than the face.
They don’t like the IDEA of it. They want to enjoy the results of it. Men are funny.
👆 you said it!
great words of wisdom!
Yes! It’s a “don’t ask, don’t tell situation”
You are correct!!!! Don't Tell them you got it done just get it done.. disappear and come back even Better!!!
I told my bf that I had laser hair removal on my chin and he thought it was so silly. I don't see him checking out any bearded ladies though 🐐.
A rich man friend of mine told me that as long as it looks natural and it seems like u got it for urself and not for the usual excessive social media attention then no problem
I got lip injections one time and my then boyfriend thought I had on a new lipstick 😑
Jajajjajaj men are so funny lol
Lol!
Haha, men are clueless, yet it's funny they always put their nose in our business (aka women's things that we do to enhance our appearance)... they just overhear a little detail about something and then go around talking about it as if they are experts, but have no idea in reality.
@@KarinaSwan lol yes thats soo true jajajaj 🤗
Karina Swan right!!! In my experience men are worse than women when it comes to gossip it’s like they live for the drama! Lol
as long as you look natural, it shouldn't be a problem.
True
yes, however most of it looks scary
@@donaharjung5192 those are the ones who horribly gone wrong. We're talking about the good results that looks natural and people won't notice.
Right as a always Anna! Plus, men also say they don't like a woman who wears makeup but that too is a lie. They like a woman with makeup that looks like there isn't any.
grand theft ana lol exactly!!!!
@@WilliamsPinch yes lol and for them "natural makeup" is larger in definition than women. I'm surprised when I get complimented on my "natural beauty" with foundation on and cat eye makeup.
No
True. Personal experience
I think that men generally prefer it when women do things to enhance their natural beauty rather than completely change their appearance, whether that's through subtle cosmetic procedures, makeup or fashion. As long as you still feel and look like you, but are expressing the enhanced version of yourself, that's when it's most attractive. Feeling good makes you look good!
I absolutely love your videos Anna ❤️👑💎
No disagreement
As long as she don’t put butt implants that she eventually need to take out when she’s old. That will make her really saggy and stuff.
Exactly
Guys are honestly so odd. They say they like girls with no makeup, but then they show you a girl with a neutral smoky eye on lmao if it looks good I’m sure they won’t mind
Thank goodness this comment section wasn't like your last plastic surgery video. I almost lost my mind on how they listened to dusty men telling them they looked fine natural. Yeah, of course he would say that, so he would have no competition. This video is spot on. You're supposed to judge men by their actions. And they're actions tell me that they like good looking women (natural or not).
Cherryblos9 spot on comment
Period.
Yep.
Men don't look at other men as competition. That's what you gals do and you're now projecting it on us. It always amuses me to see how women are just as clueless about men as men are about women.
Please do a skincare routine ✨ skin looks flawless
Shreya G Yes!
My experience when men say I do not like this or that on women. They wind up dating the women that have this or that done. What ever a women decides do it only if it will improve YOU.
In my experience, the same goes for women. I have seen many examples of women ending up with guys that fit their description of what they don't like very well.
Men like natural women as in J.LO on red carpet , Kim K on instagram etc , i heard so many men saying they want one type of women and end up with the opposite
True.
There's almost nothing natural about Kim K.
I have girlfriends who have done breast augmentation and most guys who know them think their breasts are real, even when they said they are against these surgeries, men are clueless. Same story I've seen with lips, even hair extensions! My friend's boyfriend always touched her hair and head as a caring gesture and she told me he even felt those bits of extensions with his hands and didn't know she had them! Yet he was against them
Yea men are clueless about cosmetic stuff
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I totally agree. Always go for natural look even if it's through plastic surgery. Some women just over do it. End up looking as if they had a stroke where their face look frozen or paralyzed.
I think it also depends on the man’s preferences as well. I know a lot men don’t like big lips, prefer smaller breast, and like petite women instead of curvy women. So getting surgery to enhance any of these may make you less attractive to some men. At the end of the day, I think women should decide how they want to look according to their own preferences, and what makes them feel sexy, because a confident sexy woman is appealing to pretty much everyone.
I met a wealthy man in 1976 who I really liked. We had fun with his group traveling for a few years internationally. I went another direction until 2001 when I decided to look for him again. Because I am bilingual and confident, I found him and he was pleased. He invited me for a weekend on his yacht but told me he’d be bringing his girlfriend. That was fine with me since I wasn’t interested in sex during that trip. I just wanted to see if he had changed and to experience his boat and his lifestyle. I offered to teach his girlfriend the Egyptian dance art with finger cymbals that I taught women way back when I first met him.
I arrived at the the yacht first in the Bahamas, and an hour later he walked in with the girlfriend and some companions. Secretly I was shocked at how completely plastic she was. She looked completely like a petite Barbie doll from head to toe. Cute but very demure and very quiet. She looked 30 and we were 50. I couldn’t get a conversation going with her. I observed her for three days on the yacht. Every aspect of her had been under surgery. She was my age. I got a “compliment from my host that I was very “well preserved “. In the 30 years since I had seen him, I had only a chem peel and a blephero. I also don’t drink or smoke and I eat greens a lot. He didn’t look as good as I did. He was 5 years older. He had those man boobs tanned rich men get. Ewww. Later we all went ashore to do some gambling. After that I saw him take his girlfriend shopping for fancy handbags. It was obvious that he had bought her, her silence, and paid for all her surgery so she could represent him as the perfect cutesy young thing and always be available for him and his travels. It was a fake life. An empty experience on a rich mans prize pinnacle of achievement- his yacht. But the man had changed and I couldn’t get interested in this false, plastic lifestyle. He had changed. Big time.
I love stories like this!
So, she was 50 but looked like 30? Wow
Anisa Lila no the girlfriend was 30 whereas the commenter and her former flame were both 50
@@CoKiEsAnDcReAm07 wow
I'm 40+ but most people are shocked and say I look half my age and I have not done anything to my body except lay out in the sun a handful of times when I want to get tan, consume a lot greens like you and exercise and try to live as healthy as I can. Oh I do dye my hair whixh zi know isn't really healthy but I feel like I wouldn't have those greys if I didn't have to work like a slave for two decades to stay with a man who has not done anything to help me in return to be successful in life in the ways that really matter. Im not talking about being just wealthy or rich. But having the mindset and drive/ambition to make our lives as best quality to our abilities. I have fought to do just that and he has held himself back. I held myself back by staying with and trying for so long So here I am watxhing these videos to learn from this woman on her channel (in addition to many other things Im doing to "level up" myself).
You mean he had moobs aka man boobs!? Lol!
Most men appreciate natural beauty but what they don’t know won’t hurt them. ;)
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Good answer...Men tend to stigmatize everything to the extreme, if it's discussed, they'll object. I don't like to talk to men about anything that involves cosmetics..that's the 'old school' way. If a man tells me my hair looks nice, all I say is 'thank you' and immediately change the subject. I don't tell him I spent half a day on hair-care! Then, being a man he'll think, 'well what kind of nightmare is her hair really about?' We don't want to bombard them with this kind of info...they need those braincells involved in accomplishing more prosperity! Shalom.
That's so true. If I tell a man that I spent an hour doing my make up and hair, he'll say knight in shining armor things like "you don't need make up" blah blah blah. They all want to be righteous saviors
I so agree.
Yes absolutely. Save the hair talk for the girlfriends. Men will just make fun of you and ridicule you if you tell them how long you've spent on your hair and makeup. And if you don't style your hair they also make fun of your unstyled hair. They are so contradicting.
I always get so confused when men say they don’t like women with makeup but those same men praise me when “I look good” like what ?? So you do like women with makeup
Just pay attention to what looks get good results and your gut feelings on what looks best on you.
My daughter has had a Breast Augmentation after losing 60 kg.
She had alot of excess/loose skin due to going through that physical trauma.
She also had Reconstructive surgery to get rid of the excess skin on her abdomen, inner thighs and upper arms.
It made a world of a diference with her self confidence.
BTW: You are Stunning.
Best regards from Serbia.
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"Men don't really know what is what". LOL!! I love it!! So true.
to sum it up in one sentence; Men like beautiful women, they don’t care how they get there
Yes it's so simple
I am so happy that you are posting a lot of videos. As always its a pleasure to listen to you.
But if you dont have surgery , no one looks at you anyway so... i don't see what is so bad at improving your look , specially if you need it , instead of being bitter your whole life cuz you dont like what you see in the mirror , like so many do.. men and women .
"If you don't have surgery, no one looks at you anyway" Hunh?? So you're saying that only women with surgery get attention? 👀
Ms. Perfectly Imperfect No, i wanted to make it short and didn't express myself very fair . I was thinking about women who feel plain/ugly and know they need an improvement or would be happy to make it , but doesnt cuz of the prejudices and the superficial and contradictory opinion of men .
And there are alot of people, men and women who feels stuck in life cuz of their appearance and they have the ability in this century to change.. why not ? Build yourself and become what you want and have the potential .
I wish men did more to themselves cosmetically, more facials, skin rejuvenations, Botox and facelifts and Lipo for the dad bod stomach please haha. More aging like Andersen Cooper...that’d be fabulous
Yes, and then they would realize just how expensive it is!
They probably would if they were more insecure and had less self respect. It’s more fulfilling to achieve things through being authentic though.
I wish walking plastic bags stayed out of my field of view.
Funny you mentioned Anderson Cooper and not Ralph Macchio or William Zabka
They are all against it until they see a great pair of 360cc's lol
Right
Right or 485cc
free woman It’s an amazing feeling to be naturally blessed with big.... everything. O:)
free woman
More like 500 cc’s
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Men don't like *noticeable* plastic surgery
This coming from a woman that's clearly had a lot of plastic surgery. I have nothing against it but she is hardly an unbiased opinion.
Be very careful with the overdone surgery look, men will notice it for sure but not in the way you are hoping. It reeks of insecurity and attracts the wrong kind of attention. I'm not saying don't do it, but you need to know when to stop.
You’re correct. Most men prefer the natural look and if a woman has enhancements men don’t like them
Overdone. Very few men love the very plastic look.
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Seriously... her lips cover half her face 😂😂
Georgina Sandnes She showed childhood photos and they were still like that.
She had only had a nose job.
“As long as men approve”??? We shouldn’t live our lives based on men’s approval but on what feels right to a woman!
I love how real and straightforward you are. Love it! Keep the content coming!
True! Men don't really know what it takes to look beautiful 😍
A few do, but most rich men don’t mind it. They love when you look beautiful and natural,
It’s a pity to do something that painful and dangerous just to get men. Love yourself first. If you wanna do a surgery then don’t care about what men think. If you love yourself and don’t wanna do surgery, don’t care about what men think neither !
I once read a blog of a woman who developed breast cancer while having implants. Her husband didn't like her unattractive breasts, so she got an augmentation. Because it's harder to detect cancers when you have implants, it went undetected until it got so bad she only had a few months left to live. Her and her husband split up anyway, and she had to spend the rest of her life on regret she put herself in danger just to please her man because he didn't like her breasts.
I don't have anything against surgey, I plan to get botox and maybe one day fillers, but when you're going to such an extent to please your man that you botch yourself, or put your health at risk, there's a problem.
Not to mention the autoimmune diseases that can derive from silicone implants. My mother in law has breast implant illness.
So true, they hate the idea of it but if your results look natural and beautiful they won’t even notice or know and they’ll like you better
I agree with you. I’m in aesthetic, men don’t notice it especially if it’s in good taste.
Breast implant illness is 40 different chronic mystery illnesses caused by the 40 different toxic chemicals that make the saline/silicone implants. One of them is a rare and horriffic cancer in the lymph nodes, mold and pathogenic extravaganza around the implants, hair loss and intolerance to any chemicals like alcohol.
Glad men like us natural. All men do ❤️
I would love to have larger breasts, but until they come up with a procedure without all the risks, he can be happy with my cute butt!
I think some rich men don't like plastic surgery, because they want a 'naturally beautiful' girlfriend who is effortlessly like that. So, if the plastic surgery is natural it's okay.
Also, if they are looking for WIFE material!!! they want natural beauty (as well as intelligence) as they want their future kids to be pretty. It happened to many men that they married a plastic queen and their children are just not good looking. Unfortunate situation. Of course, here you can't count in any surgeries related to breasts, etc. That they don't mind. But anything to do with the face is a big no-no.
Lucia Baranyi well if we can tell that is truth after seen Demi Moore children then yes I will say you’re right!
Wow! I was thinking the same exact thing when it comes to facial plastic surgery . When the kids are growing up and don't have the same good looks as parents, because the mother had surgical augmentation. 😳
I come from the Joan Rivers school of thought on this subject, but we didn't have subtle maintenance when I was a young woman. We had face lifts, brow lifts and nose jobs. That's what we did. I may look overdone to some, but I just remember that I'm 81 years old. Most woman I see that are my age are riding mobility scooters and wearing Velcro strap sneakers. I'm wearing heels and trying to stay youthful, out with people half my age and fitting in. If you're young, then most likely you don't need much, but I would say If you have the means go for it and do it a little at a time so that you never see a drastic change. I feel I have looked better over the years. When I see pictures from 20 years ago I tell people that those pictures were from years ago when I was fatter and older! LOL
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I love your channel SO MUCH. This is really interesting stuff. I already have a wonderful partner but I want to understand what men find attractive in a woman.
Probably the same way us woman find men attractive! I mean it's a human thing
2 videos in 3 days, thank you Anna! For the plastic surgery, I think men are just afraid the results won't be good, but if you're better after, they don't really care. Please talk about treatments for the face to make it shine, not just a routine with random products.
Thank you for all the research and thoughtfulness you put into your videos, I really enjoy them!
You have a point! They say they prefer natural but I think they will rather wife a natural woman and have a side chick who is unnatural. Well if its subtle like you say then i think thats better
Eclectic Niche as a plastic- I can say this is very true!!!
Well the standard for a wife is higher so why would you be surprised by this? For millions of years (rightly or wrongly) highly successful men have had women who were wives and concubine types who were purely for smashing. If that’s the category you want to be in, go ahead.
Loved the video, short but very insightful!
I agree with you Anna! 100% Man doesn't know if you done any plastic surgery as long as it looks natural! I did a boob job couple years ago and people always question it if its real or fake because it has a natural look. Also, I think its very important to find a good doctor. I have a friend I was begging for not to do her breast surgery in an other country just because it is cheap but she didn't listen! After the surgery she got infection and she had to remove one of her implant. It took her a year to recover. Bad surgery sometimes its not even fixable so its better to save money and find the right doctor to do it.
Yes, and in some cases, fatal.
Each guy is different in his tastes.
You are so right. I work in luxury industry, man will settle with type A, and then mistress with type BCD
I'm a big fan of yours. I learn a lot from you. Keep posting. You are helping out here, especially me. I learnt how to dress and take care and love myself.
They also say orange foundation and pale neck is too much make up. They obviously haven’t heard of oxidation or the fact that some people just don’t know how to apply make up.
Thank God liked everything about myself except for my weight.
I am working on IT, not longer breast feeding
lm absolutrly agree with you! When the think about botox they didnt know that maaany women have botox on their face.
Love this! Short and sweet ❤
I have never had anything done but this year I was a small B cup but then I started working out more now I'm a C cup. I'm happy about it. ;)
@CrazyBeautiful Really?? Cool lol. I've never heard of that..my boobs shrank😭
You know what's funny?? My boyfriend has said he loves how fit I am (and how skinny I am, how pretty I am, and how soft my skin feels, and he loves my hair). I said I love the same thing in men!!! He didn't get the hint... He is overweight with bad acne, and he still eats like crap ½ the time ... We do discuss health, and that I'd love him to be healthy so we can live longer together. But he still keeps his bad habits, while I struggle to keep UP with my healthy habits. Men really don't know!!! But they need to maintain themselves, too!!
If a man won't maintain his looks for me, I move on. It's a two-way street. There's an element of him taking you for granted in his thinking he doesn't have to do anything.
You are an absolute natural beauty and did some little ameliorations to level up, stunning !
What foundation do you use please? Looks flawless but also natural 💕
IT DOESN'T MATTER TO THEM AS LONG AS U LOOK SEXY AND ATTRACTIVE TO THEM
Please do a video on how to speak more elegantly!
I spend a lot of time around well off men and several have paid for a girlfriend or wife to get work done. I wouldn't call it unusual at all. I rarely, if ever, hear men talking badly about a woman having work done but have heard many, many positive comments.
Where are these men willing to pay? My latest makeover cost a out $4,000, and I can't keep doing this every 3 months or so.
Great insight, as always! Thanks Anna.
This comment section scares me.
Cináed why?
More disappointing than anything else really but the heads up will keep guys on guard and aware of the fuckery.
I stand on this the same way I stand on the weave, wigs, clip-ins argument. No man in his right mind can tell the difference on sight. They are not wired that way as you mentioned in the beginning. What they say and what they do are completely different. Good video hope nobody missed your point.
I love you though Anna for having the courage to be upfront about your genuine thoughts and opinions . I'm not bashing you though anna. We live in a shitty superficial world with uneven resources and restrictions to access.And even though I'm not fond of your approach, the fractal is similar in almost all environments. And you are being honest. So respect to that buddy.
Women come in all shapes, types, forms, colors, shades. Men are like a baby in a candy factory. It's hard to choose just one with so many different options. Woman A is the type of woman he marries, but woman B attracts him sexually & fulfills his fantasies. It's hard to get everything you want in one person.
Could you please do a video about what kind of sports an elegant lady should play?
Hahaha... I will heard all kind of non-sens in RUclips.. Go do the sport you like
Is the high society accepting towards natural curly hair or is straight hair preferred?
Maya Cdp I really have a hard time saying this because as a former Hair Stylist I love ALL hair. Most men prefer hair that they can run their hands through. As long as it is shiny and healthy and well kept it shouldn’t matter but I’m going to have to say the preferred look is straight/wavy. Don’t hate me. I would also love to hear what Anna thinks on this one.
Straight... I heard so many relationship gurus say it... the lady who owns Millionaire Matchmaker always said it too. I’m obviously naturally curly/coily but I usually wear a natural looking wavy weave or blowout my natural hair.
When I wear my hair in its natural curly/coily way, only women and broke/dusty men compliment me😁
In the US, class is superficially dictated by cultural acceptance and appearance of WASP values. So traditionally wealthy white men tend to go for women who reflect this- partners for them are objects to signify wealth and tend to be thin, white, straight hair, etc. The people in their circles also reflect those values.
Men who who have managed to become wealthy by dominating in their industry and men who aren’t white, tend to have more varied taste in women. They will typically go for either the women who are also dominating in their field (Rihanna & Hassan Jameel, Beyoncé & Jay-z, Serena Williams & Alexis Ohanian) and/or they will go for women who represents the standard of beauty in their culture/time. Of course, those listed above aren’t necessarily considered “high society,” just extremely wealthy.
So if you just want to be a part of high society- straight hair.
But if you have a skill that can be leveraged into wealth, then you have more freedom in how you present yourself.
If I had been spending that much time thinking over what rich men like or don’t like, I would have never had time to actually meet one :lol:
Have you met one and where if so
All I see is a bunch of cope in these comments. Men, in general, will and has always preferred natural over fake beauty. Just because there are plastic women out that men desire (only to fuck, to be honest) does not mean men prefer it. Keep coping and being single, ladies.
What do you think about lash extensions?
Why are your old live streams now private? They were great.
As soon as I save up enough I'm up for it.
bukie eze-echesi If that is you in the picture; don’t change a thing! You are gorge!
@@wendystjulien1957 thanks Julien 😂. It's somewhere else I'd like a little fuller. Thanks for the love. Nice when women support each other.💜💜💜
Bunke Eze your butt? Don’t go TOO big. Just fuller.
plastic surgery screams lack of self confidence
I always watch your videos as soon as they come out. Love your confidence and genuine views. Im only 5.0 and very average looking. In my 30s im getting deep lines and wrinkles. I feel unattractive and just dont like to look at mirror. But i love dating high class men. I am picky with men. In past year i only liked onw man. He just literally went on two dates with me and stopped responding me al together. He was a tall and good looking arab man from my dreams. I dont know if he was rich or not but from his appearance he looked a million bucks. He was 10 years older than me and it broke my heart that he thought i was too old for him. Since then i lost all my confidence and i am with limited income don't know how to improve my look. Just any tip an average looking or not good looking woman can attract the man of our dreams.
I don't know how old are you exactly. If you are 31,32 or maybe 37 or so. It's a difference. What I can suggest you is to work out and take care of your figure and health. It's free. Take care of your skin, you don't need much money to have good, natural skin care. Sleep well, eat healthy ( not necessarily vegan), drink a lot of water and the most important - don't tan. Sun will damage your skin even more. And you can try also massage your face. Take care of your hair too. Make it longer, healthy and shiny. That will help.
Make sure to do thorough research before doing any procedure esp. those involving general anesthesia. I personally had two good gen. anesthesia experiences and one that was way off.
Very informative! Thank you!🤩
First! I love your videos Anna.
I was not prepared for the psychological damage the implants would cause but at least I had a rich guy.
What psychological damage? Would you mind sharing?
Wow where do I begin..... I hated them from the moment I saw them. They were huge. The scarring was terrible. Something broke inside me and my psyche was even more insecure and self-hating. Depression and anxiety worsened and I felt soooo regretful. Then the money went away and life was just crappy with plastic bags in my chest. Thanks for asking me. Nowadays I’m researching and preparing for removal. Not to be happy but to rid my body of these bags of saline toxifying my body and mind for over fifteen years. Ladies..... natural is way more beautiful. And in your own mind you will actually feel less womanly, less sexy, less yourself after cosmetic surgery, especially if it’s to please someone else. Just like anything it’s a temporary high, soon to end in disappointment.
You are so awesome! Thank you!
This has got to be my favourite video of yours.
Do what ever makes u comfortable in ur skin
That was really interesting for sure. Thanks for uploading, you're beautiful! 😍
It gets weird when people claim that "they know" you have had cosmetic surgery when you haven't.
which lipstick are u wearing here please, its so good
The song Simply Irresistible by Robert Palmer sums it up so does a video! The line goes " she's so fine there's no telling where the money went". In other words he didn't care he can't tell where she's spend her money on plastic surgery she was just fine and that's all he cared about love that song.
Even tho I do agree a woman is more beautiful natural I do still think a lot of men out here are too harsh on women who had work done it’s kindof annoying and it makes those people seem like less of a man too like these people could be 25 years old and they will come off sounding like a 12 year old making plastic surgery jokes on the internet
Yep, Amen to that! Less is more!
Love your honesty thank you
Really good subject for a video
As a man if the plastic surgery was done in a subtle way, yes it could increase the chances of me becoming attracted to a woman. But once I find out that there was a significant amount of surgery done in order to achieve the looks, then its a turnoff. Yes I will still sexually find her attractive but only for short term relationships. For longterm relationships I prefer someone who is mentally more stable, who doesnt suffer much from insecurities or lets her get influenced from the media as much and those are the type of people who do less plastic surgery. Its also normal to look for natural beauties because thats a good indicator of genetic health for our future offspring. Plastic surgery doesnt change the DNA of someone.
exactly. a naturally beautiful woman has good genetics that women with plastic surgery do not have.
Sensible take.
Ladies, the biggest problem is it's a warning sign that the girls has internal issues. If I know a girl disliked something about herself so much that she had someone cut her open to change it, that says something about her. Especially if she's getting butt implants or liposuction when she could just be living a healthier lifestyle and doing squats.
Of course guys can look past that for a hookup, but you might run into more skepticism when guys start looking for something deeper. But nothing is set in stone.
can a classy lady have a tattoo? like one small one on the leg for eg, that isnt always on show. will a tattoo showing ruin an elegant outfit/look?
pup world nope, tattoos look trashy
Maybe rich men are different, but most men are simple, they mean what they say. Men prefer natural beauties. And almost all plastic surgeries are very noticeable.
I would keep money to buy food first in time like this.
Perfect explanation. 💕
What about tattoos and piercings? Rich men, do they like it?
for sex only
well said!!!!!!!
Most of them (man) can not tell if a woman had plastic surgery. They don’t even be able to tell if a woman eating a made-up or not.
Yes men like natural no make up
So true ! But I think if you want to change your face or body it should be for yourself not for a “rich man” taste.
I feel if women embraced those enhancements meditate did her research. I never went under the knife but if that what makes women happy that her embracing some may do. Many of us are incarnated need are enhancing are makeup and are beauty of magic. Men love women busy and good personality in her sexiness. I took a makeup artist class 2 years ago I wear my makeup very light i can make it look like I am not wearing none I feel that educating your self or enhancing being graceful about it is a wonderful thing. He does have to be the most wealthy but secure and protect and guide that all that matters.