5 Types Of Men You Should AVOID!

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  • @meridanikole
    @meridanikole 5 лет назад +4929

    When you said "we're not desperate on this channel" I felt that

  • @badawimohd2945
    @badawimohd2945 5 лет назад +3851

    6. Married man

    • @julia9557
      @julia9557 5 лет назад +228

      Hopefully that is an obvious one 😂😂

    • @sarahbarabe8470
      @sarahbarabe8470 5 лет назад +194

      It should be obvious but some married men look for a side chick and some women look for married men

    • @19Hollisterchick90
      @19Hollisterchick90 5 лет назад +115

      I try to explain this to so many women looking to date up. It is pointless and damaging, not just for the wife and kids, but the mistress as well. Those men have a revolving door of mistresses.

    • @mfstarr1
      @mfstarr1 5 лет назад +11

      Shay they trade up usually too!

    • @anelisajustanelisa236
      @anelisajustanelisa236 5 лет назад +4

      😂😂😂😂

  • @mc4057
    @mc4057 5 лет назад +2311

    You should make a video how to say "no" to a man in elegant way.

    • @conexos2007
      @conexos2007 5 лет назад +123

      How to say no without excuses

    • @emebreul2434
      @emebreul2434 5 лет назад +211

      There is no such thing really. Males who are predators and violators are set out to disregard what you think should be a straightforward and simple process. Beware those who are counting on your “nice girl” training to bully you.

    • @kamalashila3549
      @kamalashila3549 5 лет назад +68

      Just say no lol

    • @JennyP17
      @JennyP17 5 лет назад +42

      How about no thank you darling

    • @saraitrejo9378
      @saraitrejo9378 5 лет назад +12

      @@ingeschipper_ LOL!
      to the point

  • @dorotaverkarro2583
    @dorotaverkarro2583 5 лет назад +2153

    Woman who date playboys "I will be the one who change him!"

    • @girlfromrioo
      @girlfromrioo 5 лет назад +86

      Dorota Verkarro exactly! That was me wasting my time last year 😭

    • @elianedelporte7176
      @elianedelporte7176 5 лет назад +5

      Ahahah

    • @Mas0808
      @Mas0808 5 лет назад +46

      Rich ir not. They're not worth it

    • @snokalo208
      @snokalo208 5 лет назад +10

      I mean it worked in Gossip Girl lmao

    • @AnaRocio2001
      @AnaRocio2001 5 лет назад +10

      Naive

  • @ohdear2275
    @ohdear2275 5 лет назад +1824

    Men who cannot control their anger or temper. Be careful. Watch for signs. They WILL show signs.
    Anger in traffic. Blowing up at or ranting to you about others. And my favorite: Telling you they "used to" have an anger problem. Once you are no longer in the honeymoon phase of first love, you will feel the anger, too, that from which at first you were magically exempt.

    • @DollyDomDom
      @DollyDomDom 5 лет назад +11

      Thanks for the tip 💞

    • @kerynl.sanchez9891
      @kerynl.sanchez9891 5 лет назад +63

      Thank you, I recently experienced this with someone seemingly quiet and calm and suddenly boom, he exploded in anger, pace around and scared the hell out of me. Don’t trust the silent waters...

    • @ohdear2275
      @ohdear2275 5 лет назад +43

      @@kerynl.sanchez9891 I know from experience, too. Once he started letting it out, it just kept getting worse. And it was directed at me. No rational reason behind it, either. Run away as fast as you can, don't waste another minute. It will escalate.

    • @cad2465
      @cad2465 4 года назад +21

      She covered that with narcissism she did however say they're not dangerous but yes they are. There are a few narcacssistic personailty disorders.

    • @cad2465
      @cad2465 4 года назад +17

      @@kerynl.sanchez9891 you went through the love bombing stage and when you slightly tick them off or they devalue you the true personality reveal itself. They will go back and forth to love bombing to suck you back in. Stay clear and focus on you. When I say ticking them off it can be anything from being more successful than them or even small thing as your birthday. All attention should be on them.

  • @chunchun8076
    @chunchun8076 4 года назад +782

    *Old money
    *Party play boy
    *Married men
    * Different religion
    *Narcissistic men (no emotions)
    * Ungenerous men
    * Workaholic

    • @97898
      @97898 4 года назад +38

      Chun Chun thank u so much I love these comments, saves so much time

    • @dalcloud8873
      @dalcloud8873 4 года назад +5

      Thank you. Scary list

    • @paula8384
      @paula8384 3 года назад +16

      Workaholic are good if you are a workaholic too

    • @payalkundu1936
      @payalkundu1936 3 года назад +12

      Pretty much every man....!!!😄

    • @NyakzOTSD
      @NyakzOTSD 2 года назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂🤢

  • @uglaegilsdottir
    @uglaegilsdottir 5 лет назад +400

    "We are not desperate on this channel. We want high-caliber men." - Absolutely love it and agree with you! Thanks for the videos.

  • @kimjohnson8471
    @kimjohnson8471 5 лет назад +405

    Men with any type of substance abuse issues (ESPECIALLY ALCOHOL)!

    • @contr4dixion
      @contr4dixion 4 года назад +35

      Or gambling addiction.
      My ancestors was from old money. And it took one generation to squander it all away. Through gambling.

    • @acfatemi
      @acfatemi 4 года назад +2

      Yes!!!! I was also waiting for this on the list....

    • @dalcloud8873
      @dalcloud8873 4 года назад +4

      /insane mental health issues

    • @lifehelpexpress9504
      @lifehelpexpress9504 4 года назад +10

      I am going to add not being with someone who smokes weed. I cannot be with someone who smoke weed. I am sorry, but I cannot take the smell. Also, I believe drugs like that stun your growth mentally. There is a guy in my town who is 40 years old but acts like a teenager and gets high in his garage all the time. Then, there was a guy who was a street walker I knew who smoked after he had clients(He catered to LGBT clients, btw), and you can tell that he did not grow mentally.

  • @ilovesquishys1
    @ilovesquishys1 5 лет назад +896

    The party playboy is very true ladies stay away! My uncle is 60 years old, has been married and divorced, and still can’t be serious in a relationship! My grandma is constantly looking for him to finally settle but it just goes to show you ladies that even at 60 years old some men still can’t stop playing women.

    • @rozaispanovic3496
      @rozaispanovic3496 5 лет назад +17

      My grandpa was like that to. Till the end 70

    • @analisamaxime5528
      @analisamaxime5528 5 лет назад +58

      my ex is also 60+ and a complete womanizer and narcissist... and this will never ever change. i´m celebrating every day of my life that i got rid of him 7y ago.

    • @lunamaria4669
      @lunamaria4669 5 лет назад +6

      Lol that’s my uncle too.

    • @mykahaislinirizarry-alvera9504
      @mykahaislinirizarry-alvera9504 5 лет назад +7

      My father as well 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @tkangel6362
      @tkangel6362 5 лет назад +1

      @@mykahaislinirizarry-alvera9504 😫😫😫😫

  • @brookeb7646
    @brookeb7646 5 лет назад +1623

    Dont date ex footballers or athletes. They think they are the best and have a god complex. NEVER AGAIN. I dated an ex footballer that was horrible!

    • @ladyx1707
      @ladyx1707 5 лет назад +38

      Me too and I have the same experience

    • @Misana
      @Misana 5 лет назад +12

      How long did that go on for?

    • @vivianapetrasova1586
      @vivianapetrasova1586 5 лет назад +25

      Me too😂 never again!!!!🤦‍♀️

    • @allam7828
      @allam7828 5 лет назад +92

      They’re also chronic cheaters

    • @H37P5kY57
      @H37P5kY57 5 лет назад +31

      Oh my dad was an athlete... he so not at all that type. But maybe that's why Canadians are notorious considered as nice folks. My dad went from rags to riches so maybe that's what has always kept him humble.

  • @metalliclav9289
    @metalliclav9289 5 лет назад +1022

    "I'm talking about a 99% cheating rate." I couldn't help but laugh. I'm not surprised lmao.

    • @auraandrei7252
      @auraandrei7252 5 лет назад +4

      Lol!

    • @santap9332
      @santap9332 5 лет назад +5

      It is so true my friend is one of them and hea 37 and not married yet

    • @jaysmith3448
      @jaysmith3448 4 года назад +1

      @Cindy Lou lol you women are super upset on this channel.

    • @melaniejaunet361
      @melaniejaunet361 3 года назад +1

      What she is saying is 100 percent true..believe her...don't come crying

    • @jasg771
      @jasg771 Год назад +1

      Have anyone dated that 1%?

  • @LeanzyPeterson
    @LeanzyPeterson 5 лет назад +193

    Dang, learned my lesson the hard way by dating all 5 of these types of men 😂💀

    • @nnennajoyenekwizu1698
      @nnennajoyenekwizu1698 5 лет назад +19

      Well, the good thing is, you have experience😁. I hope you made money from them.

  • @MA7-6585
    @MA7-6585 5 лет назад +727

    Never date stingy! Big red flag.

    • @blessall8856
      @blessall8856 4 года назад +64

      The worst and most disgusting is Mr. Stingy! He is AND will always be STINGY all-around with everything: money, love, compliments, moral support, etc. He will NEVER give/share willingly and will make you miserable. Stingy can also be a female friend or relative who is totally non-giving and you do not want them around either. I had a single female friend who earned $95,000/yr and she would not buy a coffee at Starbucks; always eat at McDonald's; wear thrift store clothes; live with roommates at age 60.....a joyless life of TOTAL deprivation and misery!

    • @USNBLUE
      @USNBLUE 4 года назад +6

      Bless All the absolute truth

    • @blessall8856
      @blessall8856 4 года назад +4

      @@adrianavargova The bank manager boy was very stingy like my friend and he clearly took advantage of the weekend invites at your home! Curious....where did he live Mon-Fri and what car did he drive?

    • @BellaTVTalk
      @BellaTVTalk 4 года назад +1

      I came across this Chanel by accident but I really love it and subscribed now. “Stingy man 😭 stingy and very jealous also break. I really love this channel. Thank you for your videos

    • @itsBenzie
      @itsBenzie 3 года назад +1

      And guys who don’t leave a tip. No matter how big or small the bill total is. Huge 🚩

  • @bbybee
    @bbybee 5 лет назад +1914

    Honestly the workaholic one doesn’t seem to bad...I like my alone time. As long as he’s taking care of everything else, I’m good 😂😂

    • @ninaanwamane8967
      @ninaanwamane8967 5 лет назад +231

      B I agree to a point. Time to yourself is fantastic but believe me, if it’s for years and years and you have kids and family, lots of women end up realising it’s not worth it to be with a man who works too much. It can get quite frustrating. Obviously you know yourself better but it’s not all it’s cracked up to be.

    • @pattig1166
      @pattig1166 5 лет назад +26

      Nina Anwamane ☝🏼this couldn’t have been more true

    • @ivychow2832
      @ivychow2832 5 лет назад +99

      Probably not everyone, my ex was very workaholic too and he keeps checking his work messages and even answer the call during sex, it was terrible.

    • @nikamaq899
      @nikamaq899 5 лет назад +7

      Nina Anwamane that’s so true

    • @mikerlinedor
      @mikerlinedor 5 лет назад +4

      EXACTLY!

  • @jennichristian2543
    @jennichristian2543 5 лет назад +99

    We aren't desperate in this channel. AMEN

  • @Natie777j
    @Natie777j 5 лет назад +704

    True. A girl i know dated and actually married a party playboy from a very different religion and extremely wealthy family. Didnt end up well....of course. His parents liked her before...they got married, she suddenly didnt want to even travel to his country because she had to cover her face and hair...and he didnt even treated her that well in the end. So if some girls here think that love can overcome everything and they can handle anything as long as they get to shop in Monaco...think again. Ultimately we want to be happy....shopping in Monaco gets old. Feeling happy is a rare treat.

    • @KatMarie1992
      @KatMarie1992 5 лет назад +9

      SO true and very well said.

    • @Audriavbruna
      @Audriavbruna 5 лет назад

      AMEN

    • @unaa9380
      @unaa9380 5 лет назад +26

      @@lavish_1717 confusing culture with religion because anyone can be a Muslim...so you mean any man? Islam doesn't teach men these behaviours maybe their specific cultures/ethnicities do

    • @s.a.8548
      @s.a.8548 5 лет назад +31

      @@lavish_1717 Sis if you're really Muslim than stop being soooo stereotypical of your own people. Culture is different than religion. As a Malaysian Muslim I've never seen anyone covering their face nor does someone cover their hair if they don't want to. Geez. You should know better seeing you don't cover yourself but still a Muslim girl.

    • @truffaut650truffaut6
      @truffaut650truffaut6 5 лет назад +5

      And...I am sure some caged and tortured daughters of sheik makthoum would like to change life with you dangeriously naive girlies who want to meet an arab prince. The big exception saudi mr. Nice boy who loves equality between men and women.

  • @inspiredbyploy
    @inspiredbyploy 5 лет назад +153

    I dated an Old Money before, the parents were not so happy about me. It might because my family isn't well-known rich enough for them once I compared my social status with their son/daughter in law. Plus my gut feeling told me they afraid that I would take advantage of their child. .... At the end I couldn't stand being looked down. I left the relationship.

  • @Wandertheworldwithme
    @Wandertheworldwithme 5 лет назад +71

    Soooo true about narcissists!!! I’m a therapist and it’s true that narcissistic men are so egocentric, they have no capability of feeling empathy for others, and cannot put themselves in another persons shoes 👞 awesome video, on point 👌🏼

  • @claraharmonson2181
    @claraharmonson2181 4 года назад +187

    Happily married to a definitely non millionaire hard working man who loves me . 13 years together and counting. Love watching your videos because I want to be a more elegant and high caliber wife , I also love your accent ( maybe bcs I have an accent too), the things you say are spot on, and I would say very true in all relationships high society or not. My advice for single ladies, marry someone who is hard working; honest and who respects you. And don’t forget that you can also build wealth and find success with someone, building something with the one you love is in my opinion very elegant too. Love your channel!

    • @marcusaureliusfilius3955
      @marcusaureliusfilius3955 3 года назад +8

      Great message. Yes, a woman can also build wealth, it is not all about looking good, behaving well, expecting to receive everything, and not having wealth or income of your own doing.

    • @ntmn8444
      @ntmn8444 2 года назад +2

      Omg I love Anna’s accent. I swear I’m getting the Anna accent these days.

  • @linaspieth5985
    @linaspieth5985 5 лет назад +45

    SO TRUE!!!
    I had the same experience of the last type you’ve mentioned. When a man takes you everywhere but he is not connecting with you AT ALL, it’s a brutal nightmare. Life feels completely empty then. No money, no presents, no trips can buy the true presence and engagement of another human.

  • @binboda
    @binboda 5 лет назад +32

    I snapped my fingers when you reached the 'narcissistic' category bc damn I had that - he was rich, successful, articulate, interesting but he made me cry even before we had our first date. He threw me from one emotional extreme to the other and he completely lacked empathy. He was the one to eventually reject me on selfish and superficial grounds but after it happened I was relieved bc I had dodged a bullet with him.

  • @CatEyeGem
    @CatEyeGem 5 лет назад +168

    Excellent introduction...."We are not desperate on this channel"......I 😍 it!!!!

  • @happytrails699
    @happytrails699 5 лет назад +252

    I'm not looking for anyone, already married, but still love listening to your videos.

    • @lindsb3541
      @lindsb3541 5 лет назад +9

      Completely agree ! Also happily spoused, but I find these videos practical and oddly validating. As someone who was very into independence (and trying to 'do it all') when I was younger, I became startlingly aware of the many structural and social double standards and traps (financially and social mores etc.). Anna makes some excellent points about how it is perfectly acceptable for a man to desire an attractive woman but not acceptable for a woman to appreciate being 'comfortable' - which is a wash and does conflict with our biological inclinations. As women, we are shamed for so many things in overt and subtle ways - from our appearance, whether we have gained a few pounds or have scraggly hair etc. to our life choices or education, lack of education, relationship/marriage status, and the list goes on. It's too much. And it is one thing to be opportunistic and singularly focused solely on financially gain or leverage, but another to have standards.

    • @parism5212
      @parism5212 5 лет назад +2

      Me too

    • @miamanning7871
      @miamanning7871 4 года назад +1

      Marla Robinson me too

    • @imagicarolinavlogs
      @imagicarolinavlogs 4 года назад +1

      Marla Robinson True, even if we don’t have a rich man, we dream with thinks like this, off course a rich and a good man.

    • @revlaird6979
      @revlaird6979 4 года назад

      Dear Miss Marla I wish you well and looking for a beautiful husband and I hope you get one but just the way you worded make you appear desperate and lonely that's a key thing you never want to come across to a man is that you is desperate and lonely because above all things you can do bad by yourself and that's for all women on the planet we don't have to settle for less regardless of the age regardless of where you live at you don't have to settle for less🤔🤔🤔🤔💸💎💎💎😇😇😇💆🏻💟🖤💙💜💛🖤💙💖🖤💲💲💲💸

  • @MeesterGonzalez
    @MeesterGonzalez 4 года назад +32

    (Totally not breaking the "bro code") There are actually variations on the "party guy/playboy" type. One is the guy who wants to be with as many women as he can, because he feels insecure and can't convince himself that he can keep one woman romantically and sexually satisfied in a monogamous relationship. The other is the guy described in this video, who just seems psychologically incapable of commitment. The latter usually hops from job to job, too. That could be another red flag to watch for.

  • @sherinsherin5172
    @sherinsherin5172 5 лет назад +350

    I'm 19 years old and I get realy a lot of important information from you I'm so thankful to find you channel I love you ❤

  • @AnimalsEtc
    @AnimalsEtc 3 года назад +6

    My mother was a narcissist. She left and divorced my father, but because my little sister was still too young to decide where to live, he's still forced to communicate with her. I have learned firsthand to look for the signs of narcissism and RUN. Once you're seriously involved they will not let go without a struggle.

  • @irisioannou2763
    @irisioannou2763 5 лет назад +42

    I've been with a rich narcissist..... it was a nightmare and left many emotional scars....
    Stay away from them!!

  • @briannarios1301
    @briannarios1301 5 лет назад +34

    “We want high caliber men”

  • @VibeWithVida
    @VibeWithVida 5 лет назад +44

    This is wonderful! Most women are just thinking about being lavished upon, but a lot of the time it can come with consequences or compromises.
    Thank you

  • @blessall8856
    @blessall8856 4 года назад +16

    "I need the Real Deal: love, romance, caring....." You have summed it up nicely!

  • @girlpowerbutmakeitblack2655
    @girlpowerbutmakeitblack2655 5 лет назад +174

    I love how you listen to our requests!

  • @noraq8794
    @noraq8794 5 лет назад +162

    School Of Affluence thank you so much for al your videos, this is golden information. I used to feel hopeless that I could ever be a classy elegant woman. You give me hope and tips and tricks into slowly changing, I’ve changed the types of shoes, the quality of the clothes I wear and even the way I speak. I started losing weight too (I’m overweight) All because you inspire me that it’s not impossible to “level up” as you would call it. Thank you.

  • @elenasophia2246
    @elenasophia2246 5 лет назад +255

    That's a great video Anna, although I'm happily married I still love watching your video's and I especially love your tips on how to level up and be more elegant. I really need to point out that narcissistic people ( both men and women) are extremely dangerous. I have been educating myself on narcissistic personality disorder for the last three years. I have unfortunately experienced the negative impact of a narcissistic relationship myself. It took me years to get back on my feet after narcissistic abuse within a friendship ( which is a very uncommon form of emotional abuse, yet a very real and dangerous one).Narcissists can destroy your self confidence, self worth and damage your mental and emotional health to a very high degree.. I love waching your video's and they are helping me a lot during my selfconfidence recovery journey! Thank you!

    • @MaynightMemory
      @MaynightMemory 5 лет назад +17

      Thank you for pointing this out - yes, they are (or at least can be) very dangerous. They are in the same cluster of disorders as the psychopaths (antisocial PD), that pretty much says it all.

    • @e.s.1114
      @e.s.1114 5 лет назад +12

      They can also be physically dangerous

    • @Yola386
      @Yola386 5 лет назад +3

      Run for the hills! Avoid a narcissist at all cost.

    • @perthfanny3017
      @perthfanny3017 5 лет назад +6

      Exactly! When she said they weren't dangerous I was like "yes they are"... and they can be physically, not only mentally 😥

    • @themango9644
      @themango9644 5 лет назад

      How do you know someone is narcissistic?

  • @bellebella783
    @bellebella783 3 года назад +7

    Biggest relationship failure for me was with a rich narcissist who was always busy, on his phone all the time (even had headphones in his ears while we were having dinner in nice restaurants, so embarrassing), i have never felt more disrespected in my life (he was also very stingy, but since I wasn’t after his money I didn’t mind - big mistake)

  • @AnabethalightASMR
    @AnabethalightASMR 5 лет назад +55

    Just wanted to let you know that at 2:09 you said “ it could be hard for a regular girl to be accepted by a blue collar family” I think you meant “blue-blooded”, not blue collar. Blue-collar is mostly menial labor, working low to middle class.

    • @MissBanks777
      @MissBanks777 5 лет назад +11

      joiedevivre90 I thought I was the only one who noticed that

  • @615BlackBarbie
    @615BlackBarbie 3 года назад +46

    When she said " old money" I gave the video a like. She knows what she's talking about. 🖤

  • @sharont2877
    @sharont2877 5 лет назад +35

    When you mention narcissistic men not being dangerous, that may be true, but men who have "Narcissistic Personality Disorder" are much worse and very dangerous. There is a difference. Be careful ladies.

  • @Arcachonforever
    @Arcachonforever 4 года назад +6

    Thank you so much for mentioning narcissistic men, it's so important and more common than people think, but it's rarely talked about.

  • @RinaHendriks
    @RinaHendriks 5 лет назад +246

    This has become my new favourite RUclips channel ❤️ You give great advice

    • @saraitrejo9378
      @saraitrejo9378 5 лет назад +3

      I don't watch tv, I feel like I am wasting my time .... not here; you u get life lessons :)

  • @robioavion
    @robioavion 5 лет назад +150

    I’m a guy and I love your channel 😂😂. I now know what women really need in a guy. Thank you!

  • @sanskrutibarot9796
    @sanskrutibarot9796 5 лет назад +12

    I love how you have so much clarity about what you want AND you're not desperate. It's very good to have that kind of confidence.

  • @hannahmichaels9992
    @hannahmichaels9992 5 лет назад +293

    This entire channel is big Capricorn energy

    • @hannahmichaels9992
      @hannahmichaels9992 5 лет назад +10

      School Of Affluence wow! guess I was nearly spot on hahah

    • @YourFavoriteCuzzo
      @YourFavoriteCuzzo 5 лет назад +18

      I agree, I feel right at home! #TeamCapricorn

    • @krissy7342
      @krissy7342 5 лет назад +7

      Here! 🙋🏻‍♀️ with Aquarius ♒️ ascending

    • @nikki_cousin
      @nikki_cousin 4 года назад +1

      @@AnnaBeyOfficial what's your sun sign?

    • @dreamaboutsuccess
      @dreamaboutsuccess 4 года назад +4

      @@nikki_cousin she has Aries Sun. If you're interested in her birth chart, go look it up on her Instagram.

  • @jillarchbold2987
    @jillarchbold2987 5 лет назад +57

    This ist a reaaaally usefull video... not only richmen are like that, this types of mens are in all social class! Excelent video!

  • @jaymillymills
    @jaymillymills 3 года назад +8

    3. I keep trying to tell you ladies, some guys will act like they are not religious when they date you, but the MOMENT your child is born, religion becomes super important. Although I hate the bias from this movie as well, the movie "Not without my daughter" really happens.

  • @ME-rr6uh
    @ME-rr6uh 4 года назад +13

    I absolutely love who you are and what you are teaching/reminding woman here on your channel. This is the epitome of style and grace. You are a saint for loving woman as a true motherly archetype! Thank you for sharing your grand experience.

  • @mariyablondie12
    @mariyablondie12 4 года назад +7

    I've been with a workaholic, but currently in the process of leaving him... although it may seem great because they are successful and are a go-getter, there needs to be a balance. I remember there was a time when he "had" to take a work call while we were intimate and it just left me in am absolute shock. The list goes on, but that one stands out the most.

  • @Villanelle007
    @Villanelle007 3 года назад +8

    Love your videos, Anna! Years ago I read a headline in an article about you and I had a judgmental initial reaction, but after watching a number of your videos, I really like you. You are intelligent and you mean well. You are not superficial; in fact, I think you are one of the more genuine people and you tell it like it is. I have new found respect for you. Keep up the good work - you’re providing help to many women across the world. Kudos to you.

  • @e.s.1114
    @e.s.1114 5 лет назад +103

    7:40 Narcissists ARE dangerous.

    • @ohdear2275
      @ohdear2275 5 лет назад +9

      Yes, they are. All sociopaths are narcissists. However, all narcissists are not sociopaths.
      I think of a sociopath as a narcissist all grown up. Or to put it another way, a narcissist is a baby brother to a sociopath.
      Both are very dangerous.

    • @michellemoffett9458
      @michellemoffett9458 3 года назад +1

      I agree.

    • @HealingIndigoMoon
      @HealingIndigoMoon 3 года назад

      Lord yes they are!!!

  • @isabelle.k8205
    @isabelle.k8205 5 лет назад +34

    I've never cared about money, but somehow I always ended up with the old money type. The thing is all the ones I met were old money, mixed with the 4 characteristics you mentioned. The worst one was the narcissistic old money type.

  • @anitaclemens2609
    @anitaclemens2609 5 лет назад +178

    I so agree with you. You do not have to be rich to be on the look out for those types. I was very aware of those types when I was dating. I went out with the girls but always went home with the girls. I could spot a playboy a mile away. I don't mind dancing and talking and laughing with these men at the clubs, but that is all. As far as old money... definitely. I live in the Boston, MA area and I know of some old money types who look like they belong in a homeless shelter. Also, if a man is deeply religious, that could mean he has some male chauvinist traits you may not like. What I married was a nice engineer, sort of like the guys in Big Bang Theory. They are fun to be with, adore you and make good husbands. They might not be the shiny object in the room and you may have to put up with a lot of Super hero movies, but other than that, my life is happy and my husband is sweet.

    • @Rosesandpearls_
      @Rosesandpearls_ 4 года назад +6

      So happy for you!

    • @LeeMajikija
      @LeeMajikija 4 года назад +7

      Super Hero movies. Hahaha!

    • @mrsflower125
      @mrsflower125 4 года назад +3

      Good for you 🤗 he sounds amazing

    • @poodlemynoodle2622
      @poodlemynoodle2622 3 года назад +1

      What’s his ethnicity?

    • @anitaclemens2609
      @anitaclemens2609 3 года назад

      @@poodlemynoodle2622 - We are Americans. His mother's family is English descent by way of Canada, they have been in the new world for a very long time. His Father's family is Irish descent from many generations ago, too long to count by now. My husband has no connection to the "old" country. He doesn't think like that, he could care less about his or anyone's else ethnicity. He is just plain vanilla. ;-)

  • @julieburck5712
    @julieburck5712 4 года назад +25

    I liked that she brought up religion. As someone who takes religion seriously, I wouldn’t date or marry outside my faith (I have many friends of different faiths, but marriage is different). The one troubling thing about Charlotte on SATC was that she had to give up her religaion for a guy and I think that is (for me) a big deal and definitely a dealbreaker though I realize not for everyone. I’d say that if religion is important to you, you are allowed to add it to your dealbreaker list just as if someone had intelligence or kindness on their list. Being empowered means understanding what is and is not important to you. Also know that many times when you think religion is not important, sometimes it shows up years later when you have children (ie baptisms, bar mitzvahs, etc.) I see that often and it wasn’t discussed before marriage and causes problems. Hey wait, another storyline with Steve and Miranda on SATC (he wanted the kid baptized). 😂

    • @Ash_Queen16
      @Ash_Queen16 3 года назад +4

      I agree! Religious beliefs should be a dealbreaker. It plays a role in what you do, eat, celebrate, and believe about life and the hereafter. Marriage and relationships bring a man and a woman together in order to work in a cohesive unit, especially when it comes to raising a family, so it’s best that they be on the same page about that and other important stances.

    • @sashenkadumerve3017
      @sashenkadumerve3017 2 года назад +2

      Ahh! I’m so glad there are religious people in the audience!! Religion comes before wealth and prestige any day of the week!!

  • @alisonhen9041
    @alisonhen9041 4 года назад +2

    Narcissists can be dangerous. Psychopaths and narcissists are so similar, there's often little behavioral difference.

  • @AmiraCelonOracle
    @AmiraCelonOracle 5 лет назад +108

    Party Play Boys can also be old as well, even 80+ and still going lol

  • @endlessobsessionboutique
    @endlessobsessionboutique 5 лет назад +3

    I’m living in Miami and I met all these kind of mans !I think the worst one are the players!Most of them good looking and rich!The worst combination!They know how to play games and get the girls!How ever I just can’t stand for them!When ever they try to talk to me I get very mean and send a clear message...I am not interested !!! Most women who fall for their games is the one who has low self esteem !!:( Insecure women unfortunately most likely more needy or I would say a little bit desperate for attention or love) Please Lady’s, respect and save yourself from the heart break! There are some type of man you won’t able to change it no matter what you do!This is the way they are and nothing wrong with you just because they don’t look at you more than as a challenge!

  • @violet807
    @violet807 4 года назад +5

    I was married to a rich man, not a billionaire but by local standards top level, if you want to be treated like an employee or one of the pets then fine. Personally I could not handle it I was jealous. The partying destroyed my health. We divorced and his second wife reached out to me because he was driving her crazy, she needed someone to talk to. and She is still crazy to this day but has plenty of money oh, but no peace of mind

  • @samkurz
    @samkurz 5 лет назад +27

    When your young and pretty who can think like this. but ladies you will get older and you will not
    be happy if you are focused on rich men. Look for someone that treats you great.

    • @AquariusBeam
      @AquariusBeam 5 лет назад +5

      Most definitely. Rich guys don't seek women who are beyond 30.

    • @samkurz
      @samkurz 5 лет назад +2

      Who what's to be with a guy that anyways. Go make your own money.

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 4 года назад

      @@samkurz - I totally agree!

  • @s.6169
    @s.6169 5 лет назад +18

    I love your advice! I'm really considering purchasing your course.

  • @theshadow1160
    @theshadow1160 5 лет назад +211

    Can you make a video about which man woman should date?(so the opposide of this video)

    • @vivalachoba
      @vivalachoba 5 лет назад +22

      I went for smart and protective. Best choice ever😉

    • @Serenadesong
      @Serenadesong 4 года назад +12

      Between her video and the comment section, it would seem there are no men to date at all.

    • @imagicarolinavlogs
      @imagicarolinavlogs 4 года назад

      The Shadow Yes please!

    • @lisaariottiart
      @lisaariottiart 3 года назад +2

      Serenadesong there are not many left these days ... between internet porn and all the divorces a lot of men don't see point of risking their fortune on a woman who is just going to get old and cranky. Women really need to be special and bring something valuable to the table for a high quality man to spend his life with you.

  • @simplyfem
    @simplyfem 5 лет назад +5

    I was with a rich man from a completely different religion and everything you said about it was spot on for me. This is now one of my priorities when exploring compatibility.

  • @yourteacher_anna
    @yourteacher_anna 4 года назад +4

    Oh my, Anna is so young yet has brilliant analytical skills to detect such crucial details about these types of men. So true

  • @magdalenacarriedo8988
    @magdalenacarriedo8988 5 лет назад +9

    "We are not desperate on this channel" love it!!!!👏👏👏

  • @vcjones
    @vcjones 5 лет назад +19

    You are AWESOME! I wish I had known you when I was in my twenties. Thank you for bringing the feminine back to feminism! 😊

  • @vicinalucinda
    @vicinalucinda 5 лет назад +2

    Discovered your channel this week and it feels like I've found a new friend! Thanks for your inspiring content. Sending much love from The Netherlands 💖

  • @firstname6822
    @firstname6822 4 года назад +8

    "We are not desperate on this channel."

  • @ginalienn1112
    @ginalienn1112 5 лет назад +6

    You gave me a lot of insight about “old money” men. I always thought that those were the ones to go for but when you explained it, it makes so much sense!

    • @ntmn8444
      @ntmn8444 2 года назад

      No she’s right. It’s hard to marry into an old money family. Look at Meghan Markle. Honestly, marrying into the British Royal family is like marrying into an old money type of family. Plus I see it on my k-dramas all the time. Who knew? They’re so realistic. 😆

  • @TheBrickGuy7939
    @TheBrickGuy7939 4 года назад +8

    I'm a guy watching this just to make sure I'm not doing anything wrong in the future 😂😂😂

  • @heidifoss6788
    @heidifoss6788 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this information note to self

  • @yourfunsister
    @yourfunsister 5 лет назад

    This is one of your best videos. Very caring, honest and empowering.

  • @GlobalDesi131
    @GlobalDesi131 4 года назад +3

    You know dear your honesty and bravery is what makes you so beautiful. You have ventured into areas where it becomes controversial and subject to negative criticisms. But whatever you have said is with such grace and is hundred percent correct.

  • @Michelle-rq8vk
    @Michelle-rq8vk 5 лет назад +5

    omg i am surprised that narcs are in the category.. and yes everything you said it’s true “EVERYTHING IS ABOUT HIM” and i’ve been emotionally tormented too

  • @pippadaisychain7902
    @pippadaisychain7902 4 года назад +1

    Narcissists can be very dangerous. I've met lots. Definitely steer clear of them.

  • @jaxxie
    @jaxxie 5 лет назад +8

    Religion is a big one. You can marry a moderately religious one and they get extreme later, or get influenced by their family and friends.

    • @olgap1440
      @olgap1440 5 лет назад +6

      True. I've read about a Jewish man who married a non-Jewish woman and had a daughter with her. Later on, he began exploring Judaism, became religious and left his family for a Jewish woman with 5 kids.

  • @santamaria9094
    @santamaria9094 5 лет назад +51

    One of your best videos! This was so helpful

  • @theveganyogi_
    @theveganyogi_ 4 года назад +4

    I'm rewatching this and it's incredible how the narcissistic men you where describing is literally the guy I fell in love with. It's quite shocking to realise that he falls into that categorie.
    I love your channel and it always opens my eyes in a new way. So thank you Ana! I hope you're doing well in quarantine.
    Lot's of love from Germany

  • @SueEmmDee
    @SueEmmDee 5 лет назад +37

    This is the best of your videos that I have seen. IMO, the Blue Blood men and the religious men are insecure and their families are HORRIBLE.

    • @Screenplaywriter
      @Screenplaywriter 5 лет назад +2

      This reminds me of a video where the rich man says to his wife "Which of these multi-million dollar yachts can I buy you?" And she answered "I just want to have a nice dinner." Without him on tje PHONE!

    • @unaa9380
      @unaa9380 5 лет назад

      @@Screenplaywriter 'generation wealth' documentary

  • @lorenaherreraaguilera6413
    @lorenaherreraaguilera6413 4 года назад

    I married a narcissist and now I am divorcing... It is a very damaging and hopeless personality disorder

  • @sarahh_moments6168
    @sarahh_moments6168 5 лет назад +3

    You’re FORMIDABLE, thanks for your efforts! We need more videos about etiquette ( in restaurants, in bars , coffees, how to eat and talk ...) !
    Please ASAP

  • @sarahgoddard2001
    @sarahgoddard2001 5 лет назад +10

    you should do a video on how women can also become worthy of these good mens' time! I feel like most of us have a good idea but still. I like your opinions.

  • @annaharman5600
    @annaharman5600 4 года назад +1

    I dated a few rich men - they were no good. My husband was not rich when I married him. He played sports in high school. We are not rich but we have a pretty good lifestyle. He’s the best - loving and very level-headed - married for 32 glorious years. All the bad traits described in the video apply to men of all economic classes.

  • @VeeVeeFreeFox
    @VeeVeeFreeFox 3 года назад +2

    I end up marrying a narcissist very wealthy man... had no idea what narcissist was until I filed for divorce.

  • @Bukurije_
    @Bukurije_ 5 лет назад +16

    Omg i met once a Party Playboy, they are really cheaters.

  • @sarahlassiter6061
    @sarahlassiter6061 5 лет назад +13

    I'm really glad that this channel is about women who are finding quality men and relationships who can provide, as opposed to sugar daddies

  • @aliciaunaryan4751
    @aliciaunaryan4751 5 лет назад

    Very interesting topic, pros & cons to each point of view.
    Greetings from South Africa

  • @ashleyfirst974
    @ashleyfirst974 4 года назад +3

    I learn New English word from each video I watch from this channel you’re impacting greatly. Thank you Anna

  • @lindseylee251
    @lindseylee251 5 лет назад +5

    "no no no they are not different. They are all the same." well said, VERY wel said...

  • @amandavalentine7611
    @amandavalentine7611 5 лет назад +8

    1 is very accurate. WHAT A WASTE OF TIME. Old rich men just like to string u along and I am done with them. Look at Meghan Markle, she's in headlines these days a lot and it ain't positive. This channel is amazing!

  • @Hair_goddess_nyc
    @Hair_goddess_nyc 4 года назад

    Very true!

  • @h.profile101
    @h.profile101 4 года назад +3

    Anna, you touched my heart with no 5!
    I wish that I knew this years ago! I learnt it the had way :(
    But I am out of it now busy building myself ❤️
    Thanks for the valuable information. I am certain it will absolutely guid all young ladies out there watching 😊

  • @fatemehb8585
    @fatemehb8585 4 года назад +12

    Im the daughter of one of those religious traditional men & I can tell that even living with such a man is awful , never date these types of men

  • @MoodusOperandi
    @MoodusOperandi 4 года назад +4

    "If you're just a regular girl, it'll be difficult to be welcomed by a blue collar family." Blue collar means working class, got nothing to do with old money but lack thereof, Anna. 😊

  • @lindanorris3226
    @lindanorris3226 5 лет назад

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING 💝🔥

  • @losyvideoheavens2999
    @losyvideoheavens2999 5 лет назад

    Anna thanks a lot for your work , God bless you in all ways, keep up girl

  • @jennichristian2543
    @jennichristian2543 5 лет назад +11

    You cannot change a person. Don't compromise, get the best, this means for yourself material and personality, psychology wise

  • @GoddessLulaBelle
    @GoddessLulaBelle 5 лет назад +7

    After narcissist my heart fell on the floor! That’s all of them in every society!😭 THEN you said the workaholic! As if it could be one more type! Who’s left? Will you speak on the 5 types to give interest to?

  • @zazamafra2145
    @zazamafra2145 5 лет назад

    Thank you, that's a great video.

  • @annawright4545
    @annawright4545 2 года назад +1

    I know from another VDO that you have reserves wearing pearls. I just bought a pearl necklace with the idea of "special occasions" and that VDO made me have second thoughts. However, I must declare that all my doubts were pulverized with this VDO. You wear the pearls with so much class, it actually feels like you are being "red-carpet-ready". Thank you - and it also match the message perfectly.😊

  • @TimeLapse54321
    @TimeLapse54321 4 года назад +13

    I'm a workaholic career woman, so for me the workaholic type is actually perfect. I also really value quality time too, so as long as the few minutes a day dedicated to me are 110% fully mine, I'm happy.

  • @Christian_Girl120
    @Christian_Girl120 4 года назад +3

    You are right about not meeting men in night clubs. Most of these guys are either "the walking wounded", playboys, married men looking to get laid or single guys looking to just get laid, and the list goes on and on. I dated a guy from a nightclub/dance hall and he had major head problems. The warning signs were all there but I was young and stupid and didn't pay attention. I sure do now. I'm older and can spot things I couldn't when I was younger. Who knows? There may be hope for me yet. I'm not over the hill yet at least! At least the a-holes don't approach me anymore. They must have picked up I know much more now than I did years ago.

  • @barfgreenrulz
    @barfgreenrulz 5 лет назад

    Thanks for the warning!