MC Lyte Reveals Her Father Was the Hardest Person She Had to Forgive
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
- Who was the hardest person for you to forgive? Plus, IBM is facing an uphill legal battle with its former employees. We weigh in with guest co-host MC Lyte.
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Why, MC doesnt even feel like a guest host. She's a natural for the Real!😄
I was thinking the same thing!! She should be added on as a 5th host
MC is a title, not a first name. So, MC Lyte, or Lyte if you're gonna shorten it, but not MC.
Yes she is
LISTEN!! Forgot she hasn't been here from the jump
Girl yes! She was a great fit
I agree with Garcelle. Forgiving yourself is tough.
I agree with corcel is very hard with forgiving yourself you harder on yourself than anybody can be on you but let's not forget some people's have trauma and when you have Trauma from a relationship or whatever you that always there and about the situation with the company MC Lyte is the money more important than the people's is the company making money more than the people's
Extremely
@@honeymoney23 thank you thank you very much and take care
Yes it is
I’m digging MC lyte being a host more than any other host they’ve had
Yes! She needs to be a permanent addition
@@eneobande7433????? Who said that? You messy
I love her
@@eneobande7433 she’s probably not going to be a permanent host but they added Amanda to the show when they already had 4 great cohosts. So nobody needs to lose their job so someone else can be hired
@@kennywright2934 thank you! Ole girl just wanna be loud and wrong for no reason
I love MC Lyte and it's been great watching her on here.
And she looks amazing! She's a good fit.
I love MC Lyte as well. I cried when she got married because of the story she shared about preparing herself was inspirational. When it all came full circle I was happy for her. I wish she didn’t have to go through this divorce.
@@kikilicious99 I was thinking the same thing.
grown woman conversations, I am here for this 🙌
Come through Garcelle...forgiving myself is way harder than forgiving somebody else
I'm really shocked but happy to learn so much about Mc Lyte she's always be so private 💛
Ooo Garcelle took the words out of my mouth !! Forgiveness towards oneself is the hardest because we don’t realize that we have parts of ourself that we don’t recognize or have come yet to master or be truly in touch with ! And when things happen where we’re not in the best light… let’s say a situation where you fall out with a friend over something and you’re stubborn and feel like you’re right int be moment ! But then days , weeks , maybe even months go by and you regret making the decision to leave without having closure or things were said that shouldn’t have been ! And because you feel guilty of how you behaved in that instance you become hard on yourself! When I tell you God has a way of allowing your heart and mind to be open when you come to the realization and are able to have emotional intelligence and put pride aside to not only apologize to yourself but love on yourself and give yourself grace and also OWN your part and your wrongdoing ! Forgiveness to one’s self is the hardest for many people no matter the situation
I forgave and apologized and when they didn't apologize to me I felt worse like eff them! I then had to forgive them anyway and that ish was very hard and I still don't like them.
Yes and I like the way mc Lyte puts it ~ take the charge out of it
Beautifully said 🤍💫
Preach it Aunty Lonnie, companies never have loyalty for their workers.
Garcelle is on fire with her comeback, "I think we're having an episode today."🤣🤣🤣🤣
McLyte is a DEFINITE keeper!!!
MC voice is so soothing.
i have a hard time forgiving my dad as well for the way he treated my mom.. i've developed a lot of trauma and trust issues because of him
Does your father have remorse? Did he apologize?
Don’t forget to forgive your Mom for subjecting you to that.
My friends parents were married 50+ years. Her father was an alcoholic and had tons of outside children. Her Mom prayed every day for the Lord to deliver him. She was totally blinded by religion and love. She died of a massive heart attack and her Daddy married his long time girlfriend immediately after.
When she expressed her disdain for her Daddy, I said your Mother chose to stay and remained married to him until she passed….long after you left home. SHE LOVED HIM AS HER HUSBAND. Him being your Daddy is a whole nother relationship.
Daddy/Husband 2 separate roles.
I’m so glad The Real is on air. It’s try stood the test of time in a era when shows go as quickly as they come. And I absolutely ADORE the set.
This happened at my husband’s job, it was so devastating to the employees who had been there !
My husband who is an excellent worker, was also fired years after this happened!
His bosses were crying after firing him, he understood and he actually knew it was coming.
Thank God for severance pay!
Thats right Loni. Give yourself props!!
Ive thought this before, about how Loni hasnt missed 1 show. It shows she is appreciative of her opportunity on this show and her amazing work ethic
Nah, it's ego. She's pretaped segments in order to miss a day in the past. The ladies dry snitched on her when she pulled that utterly tacky "I haven't missed one show in all 1,000 episodes" mess before.
@@OneLoveRSR you need Jesus
@@adimfavourmaris4578 OK.
Wow, Loni!! I didn't think of there being counseling services offered by soon-to-be former employers for fired employees. That's something I wish to implement into my future practices. There's a lot of grievance and mental health that is compromised after being fired, and I loved that you advised employers to encourage their employees that there is still light at the end of the tunnel. Case in point, the husband who committed suicide. But unfortunately, far too many employers are selfish and uncompassionate😥🥺
Really? It's America. There's counseling and therapy for everything! It shocks me why they don't come when needed the most.
@@aAQEeprov BC n reality, they don't care. Once people understand that, they will take these jobs with a bigger plan n motion. Being complacent @ a job does not work as a whole. These jobs will suck u dry & dispose of u when they r done. When I come across vets @ jobs who they think they own the place bc of the time they put n, I feel sorry 4 them. They have no clue the plan n place 2 do them dirty. It's not necessarily if, but when. I c it n health care all the time.
The reality is these companies do not want to pay retirement packages. That’s why they fire older employees especially before they can retire. They say it’s due to education or technology but it comes down to money.
💯💯💯
Exactly. Corporate greed.
Wait but why is MC Lyte the perfect fit!!!
My grandmother told me, forgiveness is important for your own health.Then I got saved,and the Bible takes about forgiveness,and it was easier for me to forgive but not forget😌
Loved that Lonnie finally addressed the comments on how she has “perfect” attendance. I completely understand her point.
Also, can we talk about how lovely it is having Garcelle, she really carries her own very well along with everyone. 🥰She makes it feel that the panel is complete and I can’t wait till ALL the girls are back together, even more so with an audience (if the time comes) .
I live for Garcelle on this show. She's my favorite, so sensible
Loni and Garcelle work so well together. They really complement eachother and make eachother belly laugh too.
@@theoneandonly0099 Facts! Gonna suck when Jeannie comes back, because I really like the current cast, with MC Lyte.
@@PODCASTTEN ow come off it
Jeannie is extremely happy rite now. Just be happy. God sent her a gift.
@@SorbetthekindUbuyina2ndhandsto oh wow, you need to calm down lol. All I said was I dont favor her. Have a seat.
Real grown woman ish right here.... love it
I really enjoy MC Lyte’s perspective. She’s an excellent addition…
I really like what Lonie said at the end. I don't think it's all the company fault, but counseling is super important. You don't what keeps that person working that hard.
I totally agree with Loni give the employees some respect
MC Lyte can be a really good daytime tv host
Lmfaoo Garcelle said I think we’re having an episode today 😂😂 love you Loni😂😘
“I think we having an episode right now” 😂😂😂
Voting for MC Lyte to permanently be part of The Real.
This show is blooming with the guest host selection! It makes The Real feel so much more mature! I’m loving this refresh! 💛💛💛
I really like this dynamic with the three of them! MC Lyte should just stay and be a regular on the show.
Forgive but never FORGET! Remember who hurt you so they don't hurt you again.
Garcelle, you are so correct. Forgiving self is the hardest
I’m happy with these three as the permanent host group.
I grew up with both my parents and everytime I hear people talk about a parent not being there for them when they were children, I always think I couldn't forgive it, personally. Granted, I have never had the experience or know the need someone may have for a parent missed. But to not be there when I needed you most, I can't imagine how I would ever as an adult put that behind me.
It makes me angry when a parent isn't there for child but then want a relationship when child is grown.
I agree but others think I somehow owe him when he never felt as if he owed me. I chose to move forward with my life and not entertain the opportunity for him to not be available again.
its very difficult, but when you havent moved on, its like you are literally stuck in a loop emotionally.
As an adult who has been in pain because if a absent parent we are quick to forgive so we can stop the bleeding.
The parent never deserves it tho.
You forgive because you want peace and to grow. TD Jakes as a quote about forgiveness “ I think the first step is to understand that forgiveness does not exonerate the perpetrator. Forgiveness liberates the victim. It’s a gift you give yourself”. Don’t black your blessings holding on the grief, anger, animosity, hatred. And remember others are people too. And no one is exempt from hurting someone else and needing them to forgive you.
I love MC Lyte she adds flavor to the show and very well spoken.
Age discrimination has always been an issue. I highly doubt it will get better.
Loved this conversation and all of diverse perspectives on this nuanced topic! I always love hearing more about Loni's perspective coming from more of a corporate background. One of my favorite conversations ever.
I can watch this if MC Lyte is a part of the show!!!
MC Lyte is a great addition. She needs to be permanent.
I like this Trio, and I think MC Lyte brings a beautiful dynamic to the show. Please keep her!! And congrats to Loni for her committment to the show! Throw her a party guys lol!
Loni attendance is Magnificent 🤍
"the older one" G money got jokes 🤣
"Well said, Ms. Love, the older one!!!" LMAO Garcelle!!!!
It happened to me after 25yrs and it was devastating.
I'm so sorry!
MC Lyte is stunning!
Lyte and Jada Pickett reminds me so much of each other, especially both of them now having short hair. Very gorgeous, well spoken women.
Ladies I agree. When I watched the show I indicated that McLyte and Jada favor alot. Moreover, I saw a special some years ago regarding Will and Jada and it was indicated that they are good friends with McLyte.
@Mahogony Love Jones Yeah, they are very good friends, but don’t live together.
I love this combo of hosts. They bring a wisdom and maturity to the topics.
I’m with Mc Lyte I had a hard time forgiving my father for a lot of things. I did. Was not to close to him but now that’s he’s gone I have no guilt. Forgiveness is for the individual and I strive for it
MC Lyte is so beautiful.
Jobs have no loyalty! Preach Loni.
This is awful. My job laid off my entire dept, but they kept us on payroll for an additional 2 months and we didn't have to do any work at all. I don' t believe it's because they care so much about us, but they care about their reputation. If you only care about making money, lay offs with humanity will go a long way in assisting with longevity and public/consumer opinion.
I'm loving this outfit MC Lyte rocking 😍
The corporations should be sued, and I hope the people win. These companies sell you this evil scheme of working until you are too old to work, then cut you off just before you can collect retirement. So, what was that money put aside for? It should be illegal. That man felt so hopeless that he took his life at 57. Company loyalty is the real dinosaur in need of extinction. Put yourself first before they put you last.
I am SO IMPRESSED with Lyte! She's so measured and eloquent in her delivery! An absolute gem!
I think it's best to try to forgive when holding on can be bad on heart and mind
100% agree. Forgiveness of yourself is absolutely the hardest.
Every time Mc Lyte talks, I'm like "Who rock the party, that rock the body..!"
I think MC Lyte would be great for the show
The reality is is that Mc Lyte's daddy wanted her momma back and since the momma didn't want him then he didn't see a need to force the relationship with Mc Lyte
@@izealliaeldridge1901 we kinda are saying the same thing. If your daddy will only see you with your mother around then he had more interest in building something with her momma than he did his daughter. We really have to call it what it is. Some men will only have relationships with their children if they can get something from the children's mother. If momma ain't around then they see no need for to have to be around their child. It's sad but it happens so often which isn't right.
I agree 100 with what you said here and in your reply. In my opinion, if the biological parent doesn't need to to have a relationship with their child that has done nothing wrong and is not the product of something heinous, there's no excuse for that. Period. And if the child decided NOT to have a relationship with the father as a result of finding out that the parent only wanted a relationship with the other parent, then folks need to keep they trap shut about that. Forgiving does not equate to a relationship moving forward or having any further relationship at all, as if nothing happened and there's been no repense.
Now I can't help wondering if he is relating to her because she's his daughter or is it because she's MC Lyte, who happens to be his daughter?
@@msfullroller I agree with everything you said from top to bottom. 👏👏👏👏 I'm sure he'll never admit if he came around only because she's Mc Lyte lol but that's probably the reason
Such an interesting topic. Forgiving starts with forgiving self and accepting whatever happen or even if things don't change you'll do just fine. I believe every act mirrors relationship with actualization toward how clear things are realized through a mental process and the quicker accountability about decisions are taken the better people are able to let go
🤔Forgiveness of SELF... THAT'S REAL💯
& MC Lyte➡️THAT PART‼️🤦for the 🚸
it's really sad that men use their children to get to their ex.
'Well said Miss Love, the older one' hilarious 😂
MC Lyte should be added permanently to this line up. I would definitely start watching with her on the show.
She has been the BEST guest host they've had thust far...
I love Loni so much! Good advice on taking a risk choosing your happiness!
It’s the all black goddesses on prime time for me 😍
Exactly
I absolutely love McLyte here. Please have her back sometime. And Garcelle is a grand stand. I love to see she and Loni bounce off of each other. Love you ladies
To tag onto the ladies, I believe that “forgiveness of self” speaks to ones character. It’s good to forgive others but we can consciously and unconsciously hold ourselves to a higher standard in this journey of life and a consistent practice to be a better person tomorrow than you were today. It can more so than not speak to who you are as a person and how you accept accountability.
I love MC LYTE. please make her permanent host!!
I really really would like mc lyte as a host
Great conversation! Informative!
Great conversation ladies!👏👏
I gotta agree with Loni on the corporations. I was 28 being laid off from a company and I had a full anxiety attack at home from being out of work for just 3 months so I couldn’t imagine what a senior would go through. MC Lyte is really good on this type of show!
MC Lyte is giving it up as a host fr🙌🏾
So true Garcelle!! Ourselves...self love is so important...forgive self.
Thanks so much.
Yes Loni!! Showing up is important 😅🙌🏽
MC Lyte is more stunning more than ever. I can watch her everyday! She’s just beautiful inside and out.
I love my Lyte
Mc lyte is gorgeous
I’m so glad that Lyte told this truth. That was the precise situation with my ex-husband. From the moment I made the hard-thought, yet necessary decision to exit the abuse, I KNEW that I’d never return. He however decided, no she, no me. Sadly, my exit was five years past it’s “best by” expiration. Unfortunately, it took him another 10+ years to catch up. Because of ego and hurt feelings, this generally meant for our three seeds, that despite continued promises, commitments were consistently made and rarely honored. It’s a blessing that Lyte was able to forgive her father and build a genuine relationship. Praying for the same healings and blessings, someday soon for my seeds.
I love MC LYTE not because she's an icon although it helped me to recognize her as a young person growing up to be so honest with the recent information that is being disclosed to the public to know the struggles in life are so real from the top ( financially) to the ones less fortunate in the areas of Love,divorce, forgiveness and
@therealdaytime PLLLLEEEAASSSEEE MAKE MC LYTE A PERMANENT COHOST!!!! I LOVE HER HERE!
MC lyte is one of my best rappers of all times.
It’s hard to forgive but you never forget.
Thanks
Great segment. Shout out to Loni, “the older one” 😆
Garcelle is actually older
And not being a failure in our own eyes because something didn't work in all of your efforts in doing the best you could and she's so pretty too.
Soo amazing love her ♥️♥️♥️ MC Lyte
Met MC Lyte when I was in high school over 10 years ago. She still looks good.
There just needs to be a balance. The older generation needs to plan for retirement, and the younger generation needs to build their lives. So.. the older generation needs to accept change and adapt more, while the younger generation needs to courteous towards their elders and accept that they need to learn and put the work in. Both generations are needed in the workplace.. but its gotta be an even playing field for all. Easier said than done though.
Exactly. It has to be a balance.
Love MCLyte on th a show.💕💕
That’s right loni it’s about dignity 💕
True facts 💯
lollol garcelle the older one lol
How do you push past a situation that's still very current?
Well done Loni 🔥🔥🔥
Really love MC speaks so well 😊 very professional and real
Generally agree, but in a corporate setting, it's disappointing to be young person working 3 times harder and knowing twice as much with technology, but getting paid a third of what the older people are getting paid while they're cruising and set in their ways