Turning Childhood Loss & Trauma into a Superpower | Emma McSkelly | TEDxDoncaster

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  • Опубликовано: 2 дек 2024

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  • @daehyeonchu74
    @daehyeonchu74 5 дней назад +1

    Was a really sweet moment to see Emma reconnect with her dad and have the space in her heart to forgive him and acknowledge the beautiful aspects of her dad.

  • @jxblack34
    @jxblack34 Месяц назад +7

    Emma, i don’t know you but i love this talk !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Месяц назад +1

      Thank you, I’m glad you like!

  • @nayeongbae40
    @nayeongbae40 15 дней назад +2

    Tremendous talk Emma, i’m sure you are a true inspiration to many and especially people in your circle . You’ve overcome a lot .

  • @jaehyeonaebm
    @jaehyeonaebm 15 дней назад +2

    I cant fathom how you could see and experience such things and be the person you are today . Sharing this 💯

  • @kiara9312
    @kiara9312 28 дней назад +4

    Love this , leading the way for us all !

  • @ncmauctions3810
    @ncmauctions3810 3 месяца назад +8

    A phenomenal and though-provoking talk! You are an inspiration to us all. Thank you - The NCM Team

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 месяца назад +1

      Legend team.

  • @fatebeats203
    @fatebeats203 28 дней назад +6

    So good Emma, thank you 🙏

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 16 дней назад +1

      Thank you dude! ❤

    • @fatebeats203
      @fatebeats203 14 дней назад +1

      @@emalarue Welcome!

  • @goyungi
    @goyungi 25 дней назад +2

    Super talk and you’ve overcome so much to be the success you are today. You deserve every accolade. Motivating beyond belief !

  • @imminho32
    @imminho32 15 дней назад +2

    Really enjoyed your talk. It took me back to my childhood and made me emotional. But in a good way. Thanks Emma , great talk.

  • @DongGa-d3y
    @DongGa-d3y 25 дней назад +2

    Love the entrepreneurial part !! Worth waiting for and truly inspiring.

  • @JORDANCullen-z9z
    @JORDANCullen-z9z Месяц назад +4

    Excellent talk and we are all battling something aren’t we. No one is unscathed and it’s very inspiring to see you’ve used your adversity as a catalyst to success. Resilience. ❤️

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Месяц назад

      You are so right and Thank you ❤

  • @baeksasing65
    @baeksasing65 25 дней назад +2

    I appreciate you taking the time to share this with us all Emma.

  • @sweetsquasher
    @sweetsquasher 3 месяца назад +12

    Never cried listening to a TED talk before but it was very moving, you spoke with such emotion. Thank you and you can tell you're a wonderful and inspiring mother to your daughter.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 месяца назад +2

      Thank you so much, it’s lovely to get such touching comments from people you do not know.❤

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 2 месяца назад +1

      I was in the room and saw how moved everyone was, and the standing ovation at the end was memorable

  • @RobinBrown-gq6ve
    @RobinBrown-gq6ve 28 дней назад +2

    One of the best ted talks i’ve heard in a while

  • @suebailey2117
    @suebailey2117 28 дней назад +9

    Empowering lady !

  • @misocho04
    @misocho04 25 дней назад +1

    Took alot from this one , especially about our childhood trauma not defining us . Inspirational

  • @소진sojinrpwd
    @소진sojinrpwd 5 дней назад +1

    Emmas story had me from the very start you should be proud of this talk.

  • @ChelseaTrinh-yh5cs
    @ChelseaTrinh-yh5cs 25 дней назад +2

    Love ambitious entrepreneurs like you !

  • @anthonyworth9292
    @anthonyworth9292 3 месяца назад +10

    I had the absolute privilege of attending this event and listening to Emma's story which was both heartbreaking and heartwarming in equal measure. It is a true story of how you can't change the cards that life has dealt you, but you can change your outlook and approach and face down your fears to turn them into your secret weapon. Amazing story Emma, wonderfully told. Thanks for sharing

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you❤

    • @JodieHide
      @JodieHide 2 месяца назад +1

      Beautiful words Ant - I also felt privileged to hear Emma’s story at this TedX event and feel incredibly inspired by her approach to facing fears.

  • @gemmapeebles
    @gemmapeebles 3 месяца назад +6

    Incredible story and an inspiration to so many battling with their greatest fear!

  • @JaniceGoad
    @JaniceGoad 25 дней назад +2

    Appreciate the authenticity in this.

  • @MariaPointing-q1t
    @MariaPointing-q1t 3 месяца назад +8

    Incredible story . So proud of you Emma 🌸

  • @shivram3848
    @shivram3848 2 месяца назад +2

    You are an example to many Emma McSkelly !!!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @ketanparmar6064
    @ketanparmar6064 Месяц назад +2

    Had never thought about trauma in this way before !!! How it can be turned into a super power. Love it !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Месяц назад +1

      Love this ❤

  • @jang2y7h
    @jang2y7h 25 дней назад +2

    Loved this i watched it twice and shared it with my network Emma .

  • @SelmaBouley
    @SelmaBouley 25 дней назад +2

    I love inspiring speakers like you !

  • @kristineflorescunanan
    @kristineflorescunanan 2 месяца назад +3

    Emma’s talk makes you rethink fear as a powerful ally rather than an enemy, empowering us to turn our deepest challenges into catalysts for growth and success. Truly inspiring!😊

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 месяца назад +1

      Love this!

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 2 месяца назад +2

      You could feel the fear leaving Emma even as she delivered her talk - incredible

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 месяца назад +1

      @@anthonyworth9292 💜

  • @WandaHatch
    @WandaHatch 11 дней назад +2

    Love the story telling and tips Emma. Great!

  • @ross.g1
    @ross.g1 3 месяца назад +7

    A captivating watch... well done, Emma!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you!

  • @BradleyLawson-f8r
    @BradleyLawson-f8r 2 месяца назад +2

    Emma McSkelly thank you for being you, a courageous , brave and resilient lady. Thank you

  • @cjarvis0903
    @cjarvis0903 Месяц назад +2

    Emma - you’re a courageous and special soul. What a true 🦒 you are, sticking your neck out to inspire and help others.
    I appreciate your message and your willingness to be so open.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Месяц назад +1

      This a lovely comment to read thank you @cjarvis0903 I appreciate you writing this!

  • @IreneHouse-bg1we
    @IreneHouse-bg1we 25 дней назад +2

    One of the talks of the year 👏

  • @StanleyRichards-z5v
    @StanleyRichards-z5v 2 месяца назад +4

    The bit i loved most Emma was the bit you reconnected with your father in your 30’s plus who isn’t without fault eh. Beautiful ❤️

  • @Fabio-dp2ue
    @Fabio-dp2ue Месяц назад +5

    Amazing speaker Emma McSkelly !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Месяц назад +1

      Thank you!! 🙏🏼

  • @chaqjbx
    @chaqjbx 25 дней назад +1

    You are resilience Emma !!! The ability to bounce back and keep going !! Love what you stand for !

  • @BarbaraPerry-mu1qm
    @BarbaraPerry-mu1qm 28 дней назад +2

    One of the best talks i’ve heard. ❤

  • @สุประนอมดวงสุวรรณ

    Love female entrepreneurs who are so empowering Emma !

  • @peodijeong
    @peodijeong 25 дней назад +2

    Confidence and belief can be developed over time with the right people and the right self talk but it’s a process . You are proof !

  • @KatherineHarper-v3v
    @KatherineHarper-v3v 2 месяца назад +3

    Emma , your story really resonates where me personally and is see alignment with the quote ‘ships are safe at harbour’ but that isn’t where they are supposed to be

  • @RajuPaw-rd7dj
    @RajuPaw-rd7dj Месяц назад +3

    I accepted a job i didn’t feel good enough to do Emma and overcame my fear. It was a life changing decision and i’ve went on to achieve so much since. GREAT SHARE !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Месяц назад +1

      Wonderful, Love this! Well done you 💪🏼

  • @YeopMyung
    @YeopMyung 25 дней назад +1

    My childhood was AMAZING, my parents weren’t perfect but i had alot of joy and happiness and feel sad you went through this Emma.

  • @KaileySingleton
    @KaileySingleton 2 месяца назад +3

    I use fear as fuel, as fuel for motivation to actually do something about it . make moves, take action, go for it !!

  • @DeopMyunyungsangahn
    @DeopMyunyungsangahn 25 дней назад +1

    Agree !!!!! Our past doesn’t have to define our future

  • @MaryMurphyinp9oh
    @MaryMurphyinp9oh 25 дней назад +2

    Fascinating talk , well done all !

  • @oksazo6j79
    @oksazo6j79 25 дней назад +1

    Norway, Australia , Sweden, Thailand , so well travelled !!!!

  • @LorieMcCoy
    @LorieMcCoy 25 дней назад +2

    I agree it can be turned into a superpower!

  • @DilwarSk-l5e
    @DilwarSk-l5e Месяц назад +2

    Inspirational talk , speaker, lady, entrepreneur, daughter, mum !!!!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Месяц назад +1

      Thank you!

  • @MohdUmar-gd4gj
    @MohdUmar-gd4gj Месяц назад +2

    A tail of pure inspiration and how you turned your life around is remarkable. Hugely inspiring.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for your words!

  • @JinSol-v4g
    @JinSol-v4g 25 дней назад +2

    Congrats you’ve done a great job here Emma and should be very proud of it . Well done to all concerned, great effort !

  • @scaredsowhat
    @scaredsowhat 29 дней назад +2

    Congratulations Emma. Such an empowering talk and message to share with the world. You should be very proud! Way to go! From Dr Grant and the Scared So What team.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 29 дней назад +1

      Thank you for your encouragement and kind words.

  • @shyamgaming0011
    @shyamgaming0011 2 месяца назад +2

    Who doesn’t have a hang up or hang ups or trauma that has followed them through life. Really inspiring how you have used it almost as fuel to be better and do more. Really loved your talk. ❤️

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 месяца назад +2

      Love this ❤

  • @sarabell5757
    @sarabell5757 2 месяца назад +2

    Emma I cried all the way through this ... I'm incredibly proud of you and the fire you have in that belly of yours. You are a true survivor and I will always have the highest regard for you as a truly beautiful human. Well done lass !!!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 месяца назад +3

      Ahh thank you ❤

  • @praladpraladsingh1106
    @praladpraladsingh1106 Месяц назад +1

    Felt sadness thinking about you being homeless at one point. That’s another full talk on its own Emma ! Such an issue for many and you are a true inspiration!!!!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Месяц назад +1

      Thank you! You’re right, each minute is a whole separate talk on its own, but had to be brutal and cut it down / fit just the highlights and lowlights in.

  • @bindaasnikhil334
    @bindaasnikhil334 2 месяца назад +3

    I encourage anyone to speak to someone, there’s always help , always a way out, always light at the end of the tunnel. Emma is proof .

  • @changbeotda45
    @changbeotda45 24 дня назад +2

    A mixture of beautiful story telling and advice too .

  • @yeeuntl82
    @yeeuntl82 24 дня назад +2

    Really enjoyed this Emma. Thank you 🙏

  • @RobinBrown-gq6ve
    @RobinBrown-gq6ve 9 дней назад +2

    Listened twice now to this Emma

  • @BridgetHayes-mb1rh
    @BridgetHayes-mb1rh 28 дней назад +2

    Beautifully delivered, all the feels

  • @BridgetHayes-mb1rh
    @BridgetHayes-mb1rh 25 дней назад +2

    Amazing , all the feels !!!!!!!!!

  • @KathySmith-fh2gr
    @KathySmith-fh2gr 25 дней назад +2

    One of the best i’ve heard !!

  • @shinyoonjae
    @shinyoonjae 5 дней назад +1

    Love how she described using fear as a superpower <3

  • @JulieDaniel-yt1sl
    @JulieDaniel-yt1sl 28 дней назад +1

    Tough times never last. Inspirational !!!!

  • @DipenderJoiya
    @DipenderJoiya 2 месяца назад +1

    Life is one BIG journey and too many people don’t enjoy it enough, too many don’t be present and happy in the moment. 😊

  • @HardikRathvaRathva
    @HardikRathvaRathva 2 месяца назад +2

    Emma I found this very relatable , my family has had its fair share of problems and some of us have decided to go one way and others another way. Inspirational work. Appreciate the share

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 месяца назад +1

      I agree with this wholeheartedly it’s either one extreme or the other. I often find in families plagued by addiction there is no invetween. It’s either use it as fuel for growth or go the other way as you say.

  • @RebeccaLowe-ci6bs
    @RebeccaLowe-ci6bs 9 дней назад +2

    Love your message Emma !!!!!!

  • @MarinaCarita
    @MarinaCarita 2 месяца назад +2

    I always have let other peoples opinions hold me back Emma for years , trauma that i never set free , appreciate your talk very much !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you

  • @jeongami49
    @jeongami49 24 дня назад +2

    Congrats to all, fab ted talk.

  • @RhaelynCharles
    @RhaelynCharles 2 месяца назад +2

    Fantastic talk. Emma you are such an inspiring lady and entrepreneur!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @raphaelskitchen
    @raphaelskitchen 3 месяца назад +9

    You’re a phenomenal force of nature Emma. People like you change the world and I think you’ve changed my world a little during the process of this talk. Thank you so much for being a local inspiration and making yourself available to the people of Doncaster who really need role models like yourself.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 месяца назад +2

      What an amazing comment to make ❤

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 2 месяца назад +1

      What a lovely comment x

  • @amydoherty3682
    @amydoherty3682 Месяц назад +2

    Emma you are such an inspiration! My dad showed me this talk and it’s incredible what you’ve achieved. I loved it!😊

  • @NovaGurrola
    @NovaGurrola 2 месяца назад +2

    Amazing talk, amazing woman, Doncaster should be very proud of you and i’m sure they all are !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 месяца назад +1

      Ahh thank you ❤

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 2 месяца назад

      Doncaster is truly proud of her!

  • @Mimi-zl7sm
    @Mimi-zl7sm 11 дней назад +1

    I think a lot of people can relate to Emma's fear as a child of grown ups and the world.

  • @SpaSparkles
    @SpaSparkles 3 месяца назад +3

    Emma, a good friend of yours recommended your Tedtalk and all I can say is, I find your journey truly motivating.
    You are so influential and I admire you.Thanks❤

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 месяца назад +2

      Thank you ❤

  • @lim1mmv
    @lim1mmv 25 дней назад +1

    What a harrowing experience that must have been for you and your brother Emma. ❤️

  • @JazzraDixon
    @JazzraDixon 2 месяца назад +2

    I was in tears at one point in this Emma, thanks for sharing this and being so open .

  • @songpv26
    @songpv26 25 дней назад +1

    I am my passport to freedom , thanks for the reminder ! I appreciate you !

  • @MurielKennedy-it6xy
    @MurielKennedy-it6xy 25 дней назад +2

    Great tedx talk ! Thank you

  • @thebrettdscott
    @thebrettdscott Месяц назад +2

    Embracing fear is important, great speech Emma 🎉

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Месяц назад +1

      Thank you!

  • @Mumbai_che_aaple_utsav_34vlog
    @Mumbai_che_aaple_utsav_34vlog Месяц назад +2

    Well done on a great talk Emma. Thoroughly enjoyed it. A mixture of story telling, real passion and useful advice. Thank you 🙏

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Месяц назад +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @CatherinerDoe
    @CatherinerDoe 25 дней назад +1

    Totally agree you can turn it into a superpower

  • @baehuimyeong
    @baehuimyeong 15 дней назад +1

    Thank you , you have really have me hope Emma. I was homeless for along time and now i’m not and the future is brighter , thank God !

  • @ทวีธรรมเชียงมัง

    I can hear the emotion in your voice in parts , very authentic!

  • @BridgetHayes-mb1rh
    @BridgetHayes-mb1rh 9 дней назад +2

    Grateful for this one !

  • @AngelCunningham-dv3eu
    @AngelCunningham-dv3eu 9 дней назад +2

    Super confident speaker

  • @Aniket.Gaming83
    @Aniket.Gaming83 Месяц назад +2

    Really enjoyed this speech Emma. Thank you for sharing so courageously i might add. Well done 👏

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Месяц назад +1

      Ahh thank you

  • @magdalenagocyla7688
    @magdalenagocyla7688 3 месяца назад +4

    You are so inspiring Emma. You left me in tears. Thank you for sharing your story🎉❤this was such a brave thing to do. 🎉

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you!

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 2 месяца назад

      The fear of public speaking has now also been overcome!

  • @KiranDhule-tz3si
    @KiranDhule-tz3si Месяц назад +2

    Well done Emma McSkelly and all at TEDxDoncaster. ❤️

  • @AngelCunningham-dv3eu
    @AngelCunningham-dv3eu 28 дней назад +2

    Wonderful talk , well articulated

  • @SudhakarSakala
    @SudhakarSakala Месяц назад +4

    Courage is a word that springs to mind about you Emma, jumping on a plane to Aus , surviving adversity , entrepreneurial journey etc . Hugely inspiring , love this so much. ❤️

  • @MAKSI-z3g
    @MAKSI-z3g Месяц назад +2

    Fear can work one of two ways. It can paralyse us and hold us back from achieving our full potential or we can face it and overcome it and truly grow !!!

  • @PatriciaBroom
    @PatriciaBroom 2 месяца назад +2

    Emma you are a real thought leader and it’s amazing to see someone from the UK do this

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you

  • @darveshranga9592
    @darveshranga9592 2 месяца назад +1

    Hugely inspiring Emma !! The power of fear , so so true and a wonderful talk. 🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @toriwqxm
    @toriwqxm 25 дней назад +1

    Really good talk , loved the story telling and advice , thank you very much !

  • @MaxineMacphe
    @MaxineMacphe 25 дней назад +2

    Amazing , took lots from this !!!!

  • @DalianaClay
    @DalianaClay 2 месяца назад +2

    I agree channelling them the right way can be transformative

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 месяца назад +1

      Equally can so easily go the other way too. So being mindful of it is so important

  • @thinknetwork3614
    @thinknetwork3614 28 дней назад +2

    I don’t know if i’ll ever feel good enough as parent Emma , i beat myself up when i fail or fall below standards i set for myself .

  • @MurielKennedy-it6xy
    @MurielKennedy-it6xy 9 дней назад +2

    Congratulations on this speech

  • @aurora2928
    @aurora2928 28 дней назад +4

    Brilliant Emma !!

  • @梶四郎
    @梶四郎 Месяц назад +1

    Absolutely brilliant talk Emma, very inspiring!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Месяц назад +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @NovaGurrola
    @NovaGurrola 2 месяца назад +2

    I truly believe we can overcome anything and thanks for this timely reminder Emma.