Here's some resources for gender non-conforming and non-binary folks, and for those who want to learn more! transcaresite.org/?page_id=988 Don't forget, Cut is for everyone. :)
I dont want to be mean but u cant fucking choose what gender u have/want, there are male and female if u were a man and now are a woman then ur a female if u were a woman and now have a dick ur a male now. Thats IT. Thinking that gay or binarie is a gender is retarded its your sexual orientation and thats what u wanna Fuck but its Not a gender.
idk but my boyfriend is a Gemini and he’s honestly probably a better person than I am. I can see the duality in the personality at times and it can be good or bad but that’s honestly any sign. Good or bad. Geminis are alright by me
Jes - I don't know if you'll see this but I understand where you're coming from... Not "passing" can be scary even when you are proud of who you are. I think you pass; I think this situation made people think harder about your gender than they would've in another given situation. So don't feel bad! Us trans folks need to be easier on ourselves when it comes to these things because we are our biggest advocates! Much love
jesn9 I thought this exact thing during the video. The only reason they questioned was the nature of the video, the cut wouldn't line up a bunch of cis males and females. You beyond pass, not to invalidate those that aren't at that stage or don't necessarily care about passing, but you mentioned being at a certain stage in your life and I don't think your identity would've been questioned otherwise, for what it's worth. I was honestly kind of waiting for you to be like um nope you got me wrong lol
Ephy I totally thought the same thing, you pass! I just knew because I jealously follow so many other trans guys on Instagram and see them as they transition. But at first glance I just thought you were cis.
I was thinking the exact same thing!!!!!! I would never have second quested Jes being male if I saw him in the streets and I really believe it was only because it was in the context of the video that the possibility of him being trans came to mind. I was looking if somebody else had made a comment about it cause if not I would have💁🏼♀️
Like the other comments here the only reason I think the guests guessed you were trans is the whole thematic here. I personally thought you were a dude and without the question asked I don't think this would have been a question for you. Cheers
thank you for this. it answered some questions for me...or at least started too. recently i cut my hair short because it's just a style i always liked and wanted to try. a few days after i posted the picture of my new cut a friend came to me very offended. Not because I cut it, but because someone had asked her if I was gay. I told her no and laughed and tried to explain how I really don't think that's not even something to offended about, although she still thought I had been insulted. I didn't lie to my friend. I'm not gay, although as a young teen I thought I might be because I was so different from my peers. I was born a female and very much prefer guys. The whole situation got me thinking more than ever about my gender vs my younger self's thoughts about sexuality. I've never really felt like a 'girl.' or a 'woman.' Never really have. And kinda how I found myself here is that I don't feel like a guy either. It's not that I'm transgender...or gay...or i don't even know. it's that i don't want to be just female. I like a lot of steryotypically masculine things and looks...I also like stereotypically female things. I feel like i'm niether and both and sometimes it just depends on the day. I still identify as straight cis gender. maybe that will change? maybe that will stay and i'm just going through a weird headspace. Honestly I don't even have the vocabulary to talk about this topic so if for nothing else, thank you for educating me a bit. I kinda only thought there was trans, cis, or like androgynous? Now i guess I need to learn the more specific definition of androgynous. But also really like how the one girl said gender is bullshit and it's hard to label bullshit. Maybe that's me? just tired of bullshit labels that make me think i shouldn't feel certain ways or shouldn't do certain things just because of some chromosomes.
Things like "genders" are only vague concepts made by human beings that can be kind of understood when we're making some noise to understand those concepts (talking) to each others. It simply doesn't exist, just like money doesn't really exists. It's interpretation of concepts that we've learned since we're young. We think it's real because a vast majority of people think that way and well, if masses think that way, the majority will start thinking that way. If people argue on this kind of matter, it simply means that there's no certainties about the concept. There's a big clash about this and whether there's 2 genders, or multiple, or even infinite genders, no one can prove it because it was created by the human mind. There will always be arguments trying to prove that multiple genders exists, or not, depending on how you personally interpret those concepts... I hope I was clear, I find it hard to explain my thoughts on this, and English is not my first tongue. Feel free to share what you think!
It isn't a idea that humans come up with, it does exist. I understand what you are trying to say because I can relate that to other things I know. But there are only 2 genders male and female, if you believe you are anything else then that's fine, but one way or another you are either a male or female
Jes is amazing. My boyfriend is trans man (best relationship ever), so I know It is not easy because some people are just stupid... Sending all my love to all trans sweethearts there. :3
@@stevenl5006 EWWW f offf, transphobe. People just want to be comfortable in this world. Why is it your concern how "impure" other people are? Like it literally has no affect on you. So go on with your pathetic life and let people be happy. Have a good day.
Please don’t flood this comment section trying to judge or mistreatment these people. Identify and be who you’re comfortable with. People like, feel, grow and navigate the world differently. Like why are you guys so pressed. No one is the same, similar, but never the same.
There's only two genders, male and female, that's it. Not..agender, binary, genderqueer whatever that was. I'm ok with them "identifying" with whatever they come up with but that's not a gender. And gender is social constructed..what in the hell? No, you have a gender at birth...trans people is a different case obviously, they have gender dysphoria(aka born in the wrong body). But a gender is socially constructed...no, it's not.. Boy some people need to stop attending gender studies classes.
I'm 19 and over the last year I've come to question my gender identity, my sexuality and my sexual preferences. It's been very confusing and being that I live in a strict Christian family and no one is openly non-conforming to that idea so it's hard to know these things when you grow up only seeing one thing. My research and journey is greatly affected by these videos and they teach me so much more and in a non-stressing way. I greatly appreciate it.
Valenzia Jones Non-binary (gender queer is an synonym) means outside of the binary. The binary, male and female, being what many consider the main identities (I personally don't agree but it's fine). Non-binary is really an umbrella term that covers a majority of the identities excluding male (trans or cis), female (trans or cis), and gender-nonconforming. Agender, as in one without gender (while non-conforming means that to them gender isn't even a thing at all), could also be considered non-binary. Sexuality is pretty similar in terms of the spectrum and certain terminology, but sex is completely different from gender which is completely different from sexuality. Three completely separate and different aspects of everyone. Did this help at all? Let me know if you have any other questions or if I got anything wrong. I personally identify as "lost and confused" so I don't have an actual identity I go with. Other than the non-binary/gender queer umbrellas, I have no idea. Because of that, though, I feel I've done somewhat extensive research so feel free to ask and I try to answer as best I can. :)
Thanks so much guys! Such an important topic and you just rected so naturally and i hope a lot of people can relate or better understand why the discourse is so important!
Thank you for being open minded. We need more people like you. Doing research from reliable sites and resources such as people who experience things firsthand is a really good way to educate yourself.💖
I’ve always been quite open minded about gender identity but these videos have made me understand it so much more and I loved every single one of these people
These people are all so lovely and I want to be friends with all of them 💛💛💛 to those in this video thank you for sharing your stories you’re all beautiful.
Thank you. Coming from a very conservative area, I have never personally met someone who doesn't fall into male/female/trans... So this entire series is a bit of an eye opener/interesting start to a conversation for me. I feel like gender is a spectrum (like those big color wheels) the individual falls on and I understand why someone might decide to just throw the whole pronoun thing out the window, but it can be very confusing for those who never considered doing so. And I know people get defensive about it, but all of this just seems so overwhelming to me. Like if I meet someone from a more progressive area, how do I go about determining their preferred pronouns? 🤔
How many genders r actually there i mean not insulting anyone here or something but is it anything new these days...I m just confused don't get me wrong.
Lets say, if im not wrong, they say that gender is based on ones experience, and each and everyones experience is unique. sooo... I guess the more well-known are the ones people can relate to
I'm curious about this myself. I'm so uneducated. Oh and btw, Froge Hops? I'm wondering what your thoughts on people who are born with both sets of sex organs?
This is why when I'm talking to someone I don't know I try to be as gender neutral as possible so I don't hurt somebody with the wrong gender or assigning a gender in the first place.
Omg this means everything to me to hear you both say this!!! I'm trans/nonbinary and I understand that it can be difficult and sometimes feel awkward to use neutral language around strangers, but doing it anyways makes myself and other trans people have a much safer and easier experience when interacting with you and others, and it's appreciated so so much!!! Being misgendered constantly wears people down and can make people feel really invalidated when it happens so often... so, just knowing that there are people out there who care enough not to assume, and people who aren't trying to misgender us carelessly, means everything! (Especially because it normalizes our existence, making it less likely for people to harass/hurt/attack/kill us... which happens to a terrifying amount of trans people and makes it really scary to be trans in public). Sending all of the hearts and love to you both!
im sorry,im sure you are a good person...im just getting sick of people trying to tell me what to call all of you..you are either a man or a woman and thats what im gonna call you,no law is ever going to make me say anything different
I think it’s interesting what people consider “biological sex”. Because chromosomes only mean so much, like for individuals who are XY but have androgen insensitivity syndrome. They are “biologically” male but have all of the phenotypic characteristics and neural organization of a “biologically female” individual. Additionally, during development masculinity and femininity are on a spectrum, and the organization of the brain reflects that. So even in science there isn’t really a set rule for what is male and female. The “biological sex” of an individual is a combination of chromosomes, prenatal hormones, how the brain develops (through genetics), and other environmental factors.
@@onedollarbleach6891 many intersex people can reproduce, though invasive surgeries performed on them as infants often make this more difficult. And the majority of intersex people experience zero medical complications related to it, so how is it a disorder? Something has to cause measurable problems to count as a disorder, not fitting into expectations doesn't count as a medical problem
Corbinite maybe through surgery but not inherently which says something. If it was actually a separate gender then why can’t they reproduce like females and males? And where did you hear that “most” of them don’t experience any medical complications? A lot of people born with intersex conditions have pretty bad complications. Like for example, people who have kinefelter syndrome can experience osteoporosis, developmental and learning disabilities, lung, heart, and blood vessel disease, and a slew of others issues that can arise due to low testosterone. Intersex is a condition, abnormality, or whatever you want to call it, but as evidenced It’s not a gender
@@onedollarbleach6891 ... did you actually read? I feel like you didn't and there's way more ways people can be intersex than from chromosomal differences, when you're using kinfelter sydrome as your entire frame of reference you're gonna be missing a lot
Corbinite I did read your comment but excuse me, I misread the first part. I thought u meant they can reproduce with surgery. That is my fault, though there’s an even bigger problem with your actual statement. Most of them can’t reproduce and it isn’t due to surgery or any external factors, it’s solely based on their condition. Where did you hear that only some can’t reproduce? From what I know its most intersex people have only 1 set of fully formed sex organs and a set of partially formed sex organs that both can’t reproduce. In very rare cases there are “truly intersex” people that have both fully formed sets of sex organs but one set is only fertile. Also I did not use kinfelter syndrome as my main point, I just simply brought it up. But lets use adrenal hyperplasia as an example, aka the most common instance of intersex conditions. It can be life threatening and overall messes with your development. Most people have to be treated to live normal lives
@@onedollarbleach6891 I never said anything about people having two sets of developed sex organs??? Why would intersex people only be able to reproduce if they had two? Intersex is a very broad category and it sounds like the main reason you're putting restrictions on what makes a person "truly" intersex because that makes your point easier
the comments on this video are so much better than the other one!!!!! positivity is so much better than negativity i dont understand why people feel the need to police other people on how they feel.
Sophia has it figured out. She knows who she is so it doesn't matter how other people "gender" her. Everyone could learn from her. Getting caught up with how others see you is a dark hole.
I've been on a journey learning about LGBTQ+ and gender identities for a little while. I identity as cisgender female and as of late I've been wanting to learn more so I can use the proper pronouns. It's not that hard to respect people and their lives, it's just sad that people refuse to.
People's capacity to get so worked up over something that really doesn't concern them will never cease to amaze me. Have all you people yelling in the comments about "only 2!!!" taken a moment to sit down and consider why it's so important to you to police the way people identify themselves? Why not try to have a little empathy and actually listen to people's own experiences instead? I promise you the world is so infinitely much more than your own personal experience and opening yourself up to understanding others is the best way to grow as a person.
frabjuosity it's almost as if people forget that just because they don't experience a certain thing it doesn't exist. Just because you're _____ race doesn't mean racism doesn't exist. Just because you're ________ sexuality, doesn't mean homophobia doesn't exist. Just because you feel comfortable in the body you were born in, doesn't mean that everyone around you does, you're just being close minded. You can't say for sure how people should feel when you haven't gone through the things they have, so its not logical for you to have the choice to decide those kinds of choices. Sorry if this made no sense, English isn't my first language.
It's bullshit. I used to be part of the whole "am uber rational superior skeptic" group but got sick of their shit. It's like, so you can mentally masturbate to fancy theoretical science concepts like string theory and alternate dimensions, which the average person will probably never truly grasp the math behind, because you "love science" but can't accept even the bare basic EASY TO UNDERSTAND AND SOURCE FACT that there are more than two BIOLOGICAL manifestations of chromosomes? Lol k. And when you're talking about gender bringing up 2 biological sexes hurr durrrr doesn't even make sense. Go read a fucking book, please.
@@anyu Any other chromosome manifestations other than XX and XY is a birth defect, not a gender. Saying it is is like considering a person with autism as a new species of human.
The people posting comments here claiming there are only two genders clearly have put no effort into understanding what gender is. Find your nearest genderqueer friend and talk to them about it, please. If you think no one in your life is genderqueer we have reached problem number one. I promise you do. Most of us "pass" as cis on the regular. It always amazes me how most cis persons don't get how much of gender is a proformance.
HotToddy7711 No, gender identity is one thing, gender is another. Identify as whatever the fuck you want, but there are only two genders and accidental chromosome mutations in between
Well said savannah! I always thought it was odd that people felt like they had to create a label to tell the world that they're not always 100% masculine or feminine. No person ever is. So now why do we suddenly have all these different gender identities? Just because some people said that "a man is this, a woman is that." It's all BS! The only qualification for being male or female is having the required genitals. A woman who is sometimes masculine isn't suddenly "gender-fluid". She's just a woman...
Pedro Cruz I don't think it's something to be stressed out about. If you have questions, then ask. Most trans and non-binary people don't mind talking about their experiences. :)
If it's something that you're stressed out about that means you care about it! Which is good. Ask questions to people who can answer them and are open to it.💖 It's okay to not know. I feel that being ignorant is more about not caring to educate oneself but you seem so open to it and that's great💖💖💖
Cut is doing a really cool thing by bringing gender diversity to the public eye! It'll attract a lot of resistance, sure, but it'll also inevitably introduce concepts to those who really need it - like people who are sad and/or questioning, people of all ages!
“These people don’t want to be misgendered, but there are so many genders. Why can’t I assume?” BECAUSE ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS USE THEIR NAME, OR IF THEY ARE IMPORTANT TO YOU, ASK
If somebody is in a hurry in a crowded place they might say sorry sir/ma'am. So what? Deal with it, they don't care about what you identify as, it's not they're business, they're trying to be polite and are in a rush, and they're saying it to be polite, not to be rude, and they might not have time to ask about whatever pronouns you use and they certainly don't care anyway. Why is it really so offensive? It seems you're just too sensitive.
Im a server at a bar and when i say goodbye to tables i used to always say "bye guys have a goodnight" or something along those lines. I never mean "guys" as in I'm referring to you as male because I say it to my girl friends, its just part of my vocabulary, i say it to everyone. But I've been trying really hard to stop saying "guys" when I'm talking to any group of people because I realized I never know who I might offend or hurt by mindlessly saying that. A lot of the terms in this video were new to me and i was a little confused but that just shows i need to educate myself A LOT more. Im a cis straight women but I will always fight for everyones rights, safety and freedom and the best way to do that is to be educated. This video was very interesting and educational, Im glad things like this exist.
Mika B. Their are two genders male and female. A biological male isn’t “non binary” if he wears red lipstick. He is simply a man wearing red lipstick. A biological female isn’t “gender fluid” because she likes to dress more feminine on some days and more masculine on others. And trans people literally disprove the “more than two theory”
the guy at 1:25 says gender doesn't exist yet all the others are naming 50 other 'genders' that they apparently are.. like which one is it does it exist or does it not lmao
Sorry I guess it was edited a bit, but what i said/meant is gender doesnt exist for me. Gender norms and social roles have no impact on how I live my life so I dont identify or acknowledge gender personally.
I work in reservations at a hotel and I’ve stopped asking for titles such as Mr & Mrs because I don’t think it’s relevant anymore, I just need their name. I think the older generation find that rude though. My sister gets her gender mistaken all the time and people are so unbelievably rude when you correct them. She never corrects them anymore.
I don’t see why people get rude if they are corrected after misgendering someone. How hard is it to use someone’s preferred pronoun? It’s not like they would get mad at someone named Thomas who prefers to go by Tom instead. So why is using they/them instead of she/her or what have you so different? It takes no extra effort to not be an asshole.
tbh, i love learning about gender because there really is a lot of terms now and sometimes it can get confusing and it sucks to misgender someone and overall its really interesting that so many people can have a proper identity that they are comfortable using. the line up and this post interview was great. also Jes is kinda cute lol
One thing I don't understand is why there is a gender distinction between trans-women and cisgender females. Same goes voor trans-men and cisgender males. Isn't a transgender person simply born into the wrong body? Why isn't it that as soon as they realize that they are trans, they can simply say they identify as female or male? Why isn't a male who (fully or partially) transistioned into female simply a woman? Why does being trans make you a different gender than people who are not? Isn't 'trans' and 'cis' more related to biological sex? Sorry if I'm being rude, I just genuinely want to understand. Also, I'm not a native English speaker, so sorry for any mistakes.
flufpolitie it doesn't make you a different gender. Trans men are men. Trans women are women. Trans is used for distinction usually, mostly when having a discussion about gender
Gender can get so confusing but it’s so intriguing. I remain a cis female but I like to be sensitive to other people’s preferences, identities and pronouns and sometimes that means being open to correction and not assuming.
it's not a ''need to be hurtful'' it's a need to express your opinion JUST like these people thinking they have to be special and be trated like they are made from glass. simple.
Tall Man I’m not, people who are offended about another persons gender or non gender are not aware of the fact that everything we know we have been socialized to believe. Furthermore, what does someone else’s identity have to do with you? Let people live and be happy! This video at least introduces others to terms they wouldn’t have known which is a slow start but a start nonetheless
lillydowning I do not understand, I'm genuinely interested to see someone (with a brain free from mental ilnesses, which seems to be the case) argue that gender, a scientific term, does not exist. Please explain.
Here's some resources for gender non-conforming and non-binary folks, and for those who want to learn more!
transcaresite.org/?page_id=988
Don't forget, Cut is for everyone. :)
DiabolicNick well said
I dont want to be mean but u cant fucking choose what gender u have/want, there are male and female if u were a man and now are a woman then ur a female if u were a woman and now have a dick ur a male now. Thats IT. Thinking that gay or binarie is a gender is retarded its your sexual orientation and thats what u wanna Fuck but its Not a gender.
Cut As someone who identifies as Queen and uses Your Majesty/Goddess pronouns, I feel very un-represented
+DiabolicNick OOF so edgy that shadman got a heart attack
Ur mom triple gay
Jes is so so sweet, I’d love to see an update on him to see him grow more and more confident as a man!
whats all that gemini stuff at cut about haha
Right. Like I never really cared about astrology until everyone started talking about how terrible Gemini's are!
Hannah Schobert I know right we’re sooo horrible 😂😂😂😂
GEMINI
because gemini are a pain in the ass
idk but my boyfriend is a Gemini and he’s honestly probably a better person than I am. I can see the duality in the personality at times and it can be good or bad but that’s honestly any sign. Good or bad. Geminis are alright by me
Sofia is a ray of sunshine
redwoodcc so much ♥️
*Sophia. And yes, she is.
redwoodcc she literally gives me life. So does Xya😍
Honestly i love her
SHE’S 38?!? Omg girl you look good
Evan Weaver that's what I was thinking, her skin looks like she is in her 20s lol
38 isnt old lol
Saying girl is offensive for them😂
I feel bad for Jes, he looked kind of uncomfortable and I hope he can feel comfortable one day.
thank you so much! i'm feeling much better already
Jes - I don't know if you'll see this but I understand where you're coming from... Not "passing" can be scary even when you are proud of who you are. I think you pass; I think this situation made people think harder about your gender than they would've in another given situation. So don't feel bad! Us trans folks need to be easier on ourselves when it comes to these things because we are our biggest advocates! Much love
Thank you so much for your kind words! It really means a lot
jesn9 I thought this exact thing during the video. The only reason they questioned was the nature of the video, the cut wouldn't line up a bunch of cis males and females. You beyond pass, not to invalidate those that aren't at that stage or don't necessarily care about passing, but you mentioned being at a certain stage in your life and I don't think your identity would've been questioned otherwise, for what it's worth. I was honestly kind of waiting for you to be like um nope you got me wrong lol
Ephy I totally thought the same thing, you pass! I just knew because I jealously follow so many other trans guys on Instagram and see them as they transition. But at first glance I just thought you were cis.
I was thinking the exact same thing!!!!!! I would never have second quested Jes being male if I saw him in the streets and I really believe it was only because it was in the context of the video that the possibility of him being trans came to mind.
I was looking if somebody else had made a comment about it cause if not I would have💁🏼♀️
Like the other comments here the only reason I think the guests guessed you were trans is the whole thematic here. I personally thought you were a dude and without the question asked I don't think this would have been a question for you.
Cheers
Who they identify as literally doesn't affect us at all, why all the hate? Just leave them alone, they're people too.
It does though. Some people go to court and have their businesses closed down because they were called a wrong pronoun. Or do you not know that?
Xiao-Xiao Kingham It's when they want everyone to live in their fairytale is when it's a problem.
Xiao-Xiao Kingham it affects me if they are forcing me to accept non-factual information.
Agreed 100%
+DiabolicNick than don't??? Like we get it, you don't believe it so what.
Dalhe is literally perfect
I feel bad for the girl who was outted :( she’s not in the post interview , I hope that she was okay
Oh who was it?? Like did something bad come of it? Bc that's really sad.
thank you for this. it answered some questions for me...or at least started too.
recently i cut my hair short because it's just a style i always liked and wanted to try. a few days after i posted the picture of my new cut a friend came to me very offended. Not because I cut it, but because someone had asked her if I was gay. I told her no and laughed and tried to explain how I really don't think that's not even something to offended about, although she still thought I had been insulted. I didn't lie to my friend. I'm not gay, although as a young teen I thought I might be because I was so different from my peers. I was born a female and very much prefer guys. The whole situation got me thinking more than ever about my gender vs my younger self's thoughts about sexuality. I've never really felt like a 'girl.' or a 'woman.' Never really have. And kinda how I found myself here is that I don't feel like a guy either. It's not that I'm transgender...or gay...or i don't even know. it's that i don't want to be just female. I like a lot of steryotypically masculine things and looks...I also like stereotypically female things.
I feel like i'm niether and both and sometimes it just depends on the day. I still identify as straight cis gender. maybe that will change? maybe that will stay and i'm just going through a weird headspace. Honestly I don't even have the vocabulary to talk about this topic so if for nothing else, thank you for educating me a bit. I kinda only thought there was trans, cis, or like androgynous? Now i guess I need to learn the more specific definition of androgynous. But also really like how the one girl said gender is bullshit and it's hard to label bullshit. Maybe that's me? just tired of bullshit labels that make me think i shouldn't feel certain ways or shouldn't do certain things just because of some chromosomes.
I adore Dalhe!! Would love to see more videos with them!
any social media we can follow of them?
Meleny95 dalhelama
Does anyone know the IG of Axel as well?
Xya’s MAKE UP IS ON FLEEK🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
omg thank you!
Xya Rachel you’re welcomee x
Maybe need to take xya out for some beers and talk to your parents m8
Things like "genders" are only vague concepts made by human beings that can be kind of understood when we're making some noise to understand those concepts (talking) to each others. It simply doesn't exist, just like money doesn't really exists. It's interpretation of concepts that we've learned since we're young. We think it's real because a vast majority of people think that way and well, if masses think that way, the majority will start thinking that way. If people argue on this kind of matter, it simply means that there's no certainties about the concept. There's a big clash about this and whether there's 2 genders, or multiple, or even infinite genders, no one can prove it because it was created by the human mind. There will always be arguments trying to prove that multiple genders exists, or not, depending on how you personally interpret those concepts...
I hope I was clear, I find it hard to explain my thoughts on this, and English is not my first tongue. Feel free to share what you think!
Shinzu Music you're looking so deep into things you're losing sight of what they really are.
Shinzu Music Kind of like religion.
LazorFangs I like the way you put it. :D
Thank you :)
It isn't a idea that humans come up with, it does exist. I understand what you are trying to say because I can relate that to other things I know. But there are only 2 genders male and female, if you believe you are anything else then that's fine, but one way or another you are either a male or female
Jes is amazing. My boyfriend is trans man (best relationship ever), so I know It is not easy because some people are just stupid... Sending all my love to all trans sweethearts there. :3
@@stevenl5006 EWWW f offf, transphobe. People just want to be comfortable in this world. Why is it your concern how "impure" other people are? Like it literally has no affect on you. So go on with your pathetic life and let people be happy. Have a good day.
So it's a girlfriend
@@ellarisamusic8116 Thank you!!! 🙏
Thank you to all of you for participating in this. You’re all so beautiful and i wish you all the best!
these videos have literally taught me so many things that i wasn't aware of and i'm just amazed by all these beautiful people
Dalhe is AMAZING 😍😍
I want to learn so much more about this, I've always felt like I'm both genders but never knew what it meant
Yes! Research and self reflection is such a good way to learn more about yourself and what you're feeling.
Please don’t flood this comment section trying to judge or mistreatment these people. Identify and be who you’re comfortable with. People like, feel, grow and navigate the world differently. Like why are you guys so pressed. No one is the same, similar, but never the same.
Lovehategravity
TRUUUU
Depressed Penis how someone can take things seriously from a guy who called himself depressed penis
There's only two genders, male and female, that's it. Not..agender, binary, genderqueer whatever that was. I'm ok with them "identifying" with whatever they come up with but that's not a gender.
And gender is social constructed..what in the hell? No, you have a gender at birth...trans people is a different case obviously, they have gender dysphoria(aka born in the wrong body). But a gender is socially constructed...no, it's not..
Boy some people need to stop attending gender studies classes.
Does gender not mean shit any more
I identify as the Queen of England, but I was arrested when i tried to walk into Buckingham palace. Can you please tell me why that happened?
Xya is cute af.
Hi, Xya! ;)
Well hey! thank you
OMG! You are welcome!
Xya Rachel do you have instagram? I really wanna follow you, you're gorgeous! 😍
@rachelxya
Fagner Macedo thanks!
Love this video! It's always great to have a conversation and push people to see past our own perspective.
I'm 19 and over the last year I've come to question my gender identity, my sexuality and my sexual preferences. It's been very confusing and being that I live in a strict Christian family and no one is openly non-conforming to that idea so it's hard to know these things when you grow up only seeing one thing. My research and journey is greatly affected by these videos and they teach me so much more and in a non-stressing way. I greatly appreciate it.
You've come so far and I'm so proud of you! Wishing you the best in your journey!
I love Jes, he seems so sweet
omg thank you so much
I felt really uncomfortable about her questioning you about top surgery. Hope she learned that's not okay
die
No.
Im a little confused, but willing to learn more
Sylvi Is Watching You
what is nonbinary?
Valenzia Jones
Non-binary (gender queer is an synonym) means outside of the binary. The binary, male and female, being what many consider the main identities (I personally don't agree but it's fine). Non-binary is really an umbrella term that covers a majority of the identities excluding male (trans or cis), female (trans or cis), and gender-nonconforming. Agender, as in one without gender (while non-conforming means that to them gender isn't even a thing at all), could also be considered non-binary. Sexuality is pretty similar in terms of the spectrum and certain terminology, but sex is completely different from gender which is completely different from sexuality. Three completely separate and different aspects of everyone. Did this help at all? Let me know if you have any other questions or if I got anything wrong. I personally identify as "lost and confused" so I don't have an actual identity I go with. Other than the non-binary/gender queer umbrellas, I have no idea. Because of that, though, I feel I've done somewhat extensive research so feel free to ask and I try to answer as best I can. :)
We need more people like you
Males have XY chromosomes, Females have XX Chromosomes. This is 5th grade science people.
Hi, I know this comment is quiet old, but I can try to answer any questions you have about gender and the like if you have any :)
The video starts with someone bashing geminis, we've had enough of that c'amon lmao
Thanks so much guys! Such an important topic and you just rected so naturally and i hope a lot of people can relate or better understand why the discourse is so important!
Xya is SLAYINN
(they all do)
"you could have just said thank you though" for real
This gender thing is kind of confusing but I’m willing to learn
Thank you for being open minded. We need more people like you. Doing research from reliable sites and resources such as people who experience things firsthand is a really good way to educate yourself.💖
I’ve always been quite open minded about gender identity but these videos have made me understand it so much more and I loved every single one of these people
These people are all so lovely and I want to be friends with all of them 💛💛💛 to those in this video thank you for sharing your stories you’re all beautiful.
I like Axel's vibe. Very chill and friendly
Is it just me or am I totally lost while watching this🤕
Could you say someone who is genderqueer is deciding on what they’d prefer to be called?
Sylvi Is Watching Oh wow! Thank you! I was super lost I'll refer back to your reply while watching 🤓😄
Thank you!
Thank you. Coming from a very conservative area, I have never personally met someone who doesn't fall into male/female/trans... So this entire series is a bit of an eye opener/interesting start to a conversation for me. I feel like gender is a spectrum (like those big color wheels) the individual falls on and I understand why someone might decide to just throw the whole pronoun thing out the window, but it can be very confusing for those who never considered doing so. And I know people get defensive about it, but all of this just seems so overwhelming to me. Like if I meet someone from a more progressive area, how do I go about determining their preferred pronouns? 🤔
nah you're just a normal person not buying into bullshit
Bryce Evans
No need because as the person above says it's all
BULLSHIT.
Axel is so funny and adorable; I love them. The thing about Geminis is the truest shit ever lmao
How many genders r actually there i mean not insulting anyone here or something but is it anything new these days...I m just confused don't get me wrong.
Lets say, if im not wrong, they say that gender is based on ones experience, and each and everyones experience is unique. sooo...
I guess the more well-known are the ones people can relate to
enbykenz so you state it as an infinite variable but you are not allowed to assume ??
I'm curious about this myself. I'm so uneducated.
Oh and btw, Froge Hops? I'm wondering what your thoughts on people who are born with both sets of sex organs?
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Gender is a very abstract concept that is only partly connected to social cathegories, so there's pretty much an infinite amount
This is why when I'm talking to someone I don't know I try to be as gender neutral as possible so I don't hurt somebody with the wrong gender or assigning a gender in the first place.
SuperKatherineKat i do the same everyone think it's weird but what if someone really feels "seen" one day because of it
Omg this means everything to me to hear you both say this!!! I'm trans/nonbinary and I understand that it can be difficult and sometimes feel awkward to use neutral language around strangers, but doing it anyways makes myself and other trans people have a much safer and easier experience when interacting with you and others, and it's appreciated so so much!!!
Being misgendered constantly wears people down and can make people feel really invalidated when it happens so often... so, just knowing that there are people out there who care enough not to assume, and people who aren't trying to misgender us carelessly, means everything! (Especially because it normalizes our existence, making it less likely for people to harass/hurt/attack/kill us... which happens to a terrifying amount of trans people and makes it really scary to be trans in public).
Sending all of the hearts and love to you both!
J Cat omg i would never want to make anyone want to feel not welcome my heart has been warmed to hear this sending you so much strength 😚
single batch23 yea actually im good person
im sorry,im sure you are a good person...im just getting sick of people trying to tell me what to call all of you..you are either a man or a woman and thats what im gonna call you,no law is ever going to make me say anything different
I think it’s interesting what people consider “biological sex”. Because chromosomes only mean so much, like for individuals who are XY but have androgen insensitivity syndrome. They are “biologically” male but have all of the phenotypic characteristics and neural organization of a “biologically female” individual. Additionally, during development masculinity and femininity are on a spectrum, and the organization of the brain reflects that. So even in science there isn’t really a set rule for what is male and female. The “biological sex” of an individual is a combination of chromosomes, prenatal hormones, how the brain develops (through genetics), and other environmental factors.
@@onedollarbleach6891 many intersex people can reproduce, though invasive surgeries performed on them as infants often make this more difficult. And the majority of intersex people experience zero medical complications related to it, so how is it a disorder? Something has to cause measurable problems to count as a disorder, not fitting into expectations doesn't count as a medical problem
Corbinite maybe through surgery but not inherently which says something. If it was actually a separate gender then why can’t they reproduce like females and males? And where did you hear that “most” of them don’t experience any medical complications? A lot of people born with intersex conditions have pretty bad complications. Like for example, people who have kinefelter syndrome can experience osteoporosis, developmental and learning disabilities, lung, heart, and blood vessel disease, and a slew of others issues that can arise due to low testosterone. Intersex is a condition, abnormality, or whatever you want to call it, but as evidenced It’s not a gender
@@onedollarbleach6891 ... did you actually read? I feel like you didn't
and there's way more ways people can be intersex than from chromosomal differences, when you're using kinfelter sydrome as your entire frame of reference you're gonna be missing a lot
Corbinite I did read your comment but excuse me, I misread the first part. I thought u meant they can reproduce with surgery. That is my fault, though there’s an even bigger problem with your actual statement. Most of them can’t reproduce and it isn’t due to surgery or any external factors, it’s solely based on their condition. Where did you hear that only some can’t reproduce? From what I know its most intersex people have only 1 set of fully formed sex organs and a set of partially formed sex organs that both can’t reproduce. In very rare cases there are “truly intersex” people that have both fully formed sets of sex organs but one set is only fertile. Also I did not use kinfelter syndrome as my main point, I just simply brought it up. But lets use adrenal hyperplasia as an example, aka the most common instance of intersex conditions. It can be life threatening and overall messes with your development. Most people have to be treated to live normal lives
@@onedollarbleach6891 I never said anything about people having two sets of developed sex organs??? Why would intersex people only be able to reproduce if they had two? Intersex is a very broad category and it sounds like the main reason you're putting restrictions on what makes a person "truly" intersex because that makes your point easier
the comments on this video are so much better than the other one!!!!! positivity is so much better than negativity i dont understand why people feel the need to police other people on how they feel.
as a gemini i am both irritated and proud...youre not wrong
Educate educate educate. More representation to get the conversation going. I love it.
ok but Xya is the most gorgeous human i’ve ever seen.
omg thank you!
so did your dad commit suicide yet because he was so ashamed of you?
I've been waiting for The Cut to upload a guess my gender video! I think those who guessed did very well at trying to remain respectful
these comments have me so riled up rn mdmdndndn
vashleywood sammmmeeee
me too. well, sadly, progression always comes with some retraction in communities that disagree :’)
Bet you won't give a counter argument though. Be mad, lil bitch.
@@purpp-esque1711 Omg you're so fucking rude get out
Sophia has it figured out. She knows who she is so it doesn't matter how other people "gender" her. Everyone could learn from her. Getting caught up with how others see you is a dark hole.
I've been on a journey learning about LGBTQ+ and gender identities for a little while. I identity as cisgender female and as of late I've been wanting to learn more so I can use the proper pronouns. It's not that hard to respect people and their lives, it's just sad that people refuse to.
Yes!! Thank you so much for educating yourself.
Can we talk about how freaking BOMB Xya’s makeup is?! They are giving me some strong cinna vibes ❤️
Thank you Kaitlyn
Xya Rachel so welcome ❤️
Ugh dahle is so gorgeous 💕💕💕
Does anyone have their social? i’d love to see their art :)
Saie Draws// @ dalhelama
Absolutely loved the red dressed person.
can marquis be my new best friend please
Xya's outfit/speech/make-up THIS HUMAN SLAY OMFG i love you
People's capacity to get so worked up over something that really doesn't concern them will never cease to amaze me. Have all you people yelling in the comments about "only 2!!!" taken a moment to sit down and consider why it's so important to you to police the way people identify themselves? Why not try to have a little empathy and actually listen to people's own experiences instead? I promise you the world is so infinitely much more than your own personal experience and opening yourself up to understanding others is the best way to grow as a person.
frabjuosity it's almost as if people forget that just because they don't experience a certain thing it doesn't exist. Just because you're _____ race doesn't mean racism doesn't exist. Just because you're ________ sexuality, doesn't mean homophobia doesn't exist. Just because you feel comfortable in the body you were born in, doesn't mean that everyone around you does, you're just being close minded. You can't say for sure how people should feel when you haven't gone through the things they have, so its not logical for you to have the choice to decide those kinds of choices. Sorry if this made no sense, English isn't my first language.
Because these people make it hard for actual dysphoric transsexuals to be taken seriously.
It's bullshit. I used to be part of the whole "am uber rational superior skeptic" group but got sick of their shit.
It's like, so you can mentally masturbate to fancy theoretical science concepts like string theory and alternate dimensions, which the average person will probably never truly grasp the math behind, because you "love science" but can't accept even the bare basic EASY TO UNDERSTAND AND SOURCE FACT that there are more than two BIOLOGICAL manifestations of chromosomes? Lol k.
And when you're talking about gender bringing up 2 biological sexes hurr durrrr doesn't even make sense. Go read a fucking book, please.
@@anyu Any other chromosome manifestations other than XX and XY is a birth defect, not a gender. Saying it is is like considering a person with autism as a new species of human.
this truely opened my eye's thank you
The people posting comments here claiming there are only two genders clearly have put no effort into understanding what gender is. Find your nearest genderqueer friend and talk to them about it, please. If you think no one in your life is genderqueer we have reached problem number one. I promise you do. Most of us "pass" as cis on the regular. It always amazes me how most cis persons don't get how much of gender is a proformance.
Amen
HotToddy7711 No, gender identity is one thing, gender is another. Identify as whatever the fuck you want, but there are only two genders and accidental chromosome mutations in between
I'm not sure why there's a line crossing out some words.
How can so many people be so stupid?
Well said savannah! I always thought it was odd that people felt like they had to create a label to tell the world that they're not always 100% masculine or feminine. No person ever is. So now why do we suddenly have all these different gender identities? Just because some people said that "a man is this, a woman is that."
It's all BS! The only qualification for being male or female is having the required genitals. A woman who is sometimes masculine isn't suddenly "gender-fluid". She's just a woman...
Ive nevwr felt so stressed out about my ignorance until i watched this video.
Pedro Cruz I don't think it's something to be stressed out about. If you have questions, then ask. Most trans and non-binary people don't mind talking about their experiences. :)
If it's something that you're stressed out about that means you care about it! Which is good. Ask questions to people who can answer them and are open to it.💖 It's okay to not know. I feel that being ignorant is more about not caring to educate oneself but you seem so open to it and that's great💖💖💖
These people are amazing, I admire their ability to put themselves out there to help those of us who don't understand, understand a little better.
when she said she was 38 years old I lost my mind she looks phenomenal
Dalhe is so cool!
"Or Ms Lucciani of you're naaaasty" 😂❤
Jes. A cutie.
Oh my god thank you!
Crushing on Jes ❤️❤️❤️
For the most part- done with respect. I had no idea. Such brave participants. Thank you.
I just want to send love to all of them they're so beautiful honestly
Xya's makeup is STUNNING
Cut is doing a really cool thing by bringing gender diversity to the public eye! It'll attract a lot of resistance, sure, but it'll also inevitably introduce concepts to those who really need it - like people who are sad and/or questioning, people of all ages!
XYA'S MAKEUP HOLY HELL MY GOOOOSSSSHHH
“These people don’t want to be misgendered, but there are so many genders. Why can’t I assume?”
BECAUSE ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS USE THEIR NAME, OR IF THEY ARE IMPORTANT TO YOU, ASK
Isaak you just said it. They/their/them.
In what instance would you need to call a person him/her that you can’t substitute with a genderless term?
Isaak all you have to do is say”excuse me what’s your name??”
If somebody is in a hurry in a crowded place they might say sorry sir/ma'am. So what? Deal with it, they don't care about what you identify as, it's not they're business, they're trying to be polite and are in a rush, and they're saying it to be polite, not to be rude, and they might not have time to ask about whatever pronouns you use and they certainly don't care anyway. Why is it really so offensive? It seems you're just too sensitive.
Kylea there are 2 genders
Im a server at a bar and when i say goodbye to tables i used to always say "bye guys have a goodnight" or something along those lines. I never mean "guys" as in I'm referring to you as male because I say it to my girl friends, its just part of my vocabulary, i say it to everyone. But I've been trying really hard to stop saying "guys" when I'm talking to any group of people because I realized I never know who I might offend or hurt by mindlessly saying that. A lot of the terms in this video were new to me and i was a little confused but that just shows i need to educate myself A LOT more. Im a cis straight women but I will always fight for everyones rights, safety and freedom and the best way to do that is to be educated. This video was very interesting and educational, Im glad things like this exist.
Thank you so much for being so thoughtful and open-minded, we need more people like you!! 💙
Where did they find such beautiful people? 😍😍
Am like crushing on that Jes guy. Literally could watch his cut on a loop. Plus he knows what he's saying!
thank you so much! you're so kind!
Jes and Dalhe are so attractive! wow I live for it
Jes Noparat !!! wow you responded. My life has been made.
This video makes me want to become more educated
The amount of comments disregarding gender identities makes me sad, especially on a positive video about the subject
Omg, they're all so beautiful.
xya is just all types of beautiful-the makeup, the fit, the voice
Wow so much love! Thank youu
Oh my fucking god I love Xya’s look !! They are soo gorgeous oml I wish
I identify as an attack helicopter
I love Sophia’s eyebrows
I tried to comprehend but got so lost
Xyas makeup is amazing btw!
Loved this video enjoy educating myself on changing views on gender construct ❤
Ezz.esme I love to hear stuff like this! It makes me so happy to hear about people working to accept gender identities
omg finally an intelligent person who accept "new" things :)))
GameBoy - OhMLOh no the old system is the best. If it ain’t broke don’t fix it.
it's been broken for a very long time. Too bad for you if you can't keep up !
Mika B. Their are two genders male and female. A biological male isn’t “non binary” if he wears red lipstick. He is simply a man wearing red lipstick. A biological female isn’t “gender fluid” because she likes to dress more feminine on some days and more masculine on others. And trans people literally disprove the “more than two theory”
I´m in love with Jes omg his smile melted me
Dalhe is so attractive omg 🤤
The black dude in the green sweatshirt was so cool and smart
the guy at 1:25 says gender doesn't exist yet all the others are naming 50 other 'genders' that they apparently are.. like which one is it does it exist or does it not lmao
Sorry I guess it was edited a bit, but what i said/meant is gender doesnt exist for me. Gender norms and social roles have no impact on how I live my life so I dont identify or acknowledge gender personally.
😂😂 the intro was sooo shady towards us Geminis 😂🙌
I work in reservations at a hotel and I’ve stopped asking for titles such as Mr & Mrs because I don’t think it’s relevant anymore, I just need their name. I think the older generation find that rude though. My sister gets her gender mistaken all the time and people are so unbelievably rude when you correct them. She never corrects them anymore.
Chloe Todd plus it's also awkward because of the whole Mrs. or Ms. You don't need that much information tbh
I don’t see why people get rude if they are corrected after misgendering someone. How hard is it to use someone’s preferred pronoun? It’s not like they would get mad at someone named Thomas who prefers to go by Tom instead. So why is using they/them instead of she/her or what have you so different? It takes no extra effort to not be an asshole.
tbh, i love learning about gender because there really is a lot of terms now and sometimes it can get confusing and it sucks to misgender someone and overall its really interesting that so many people can have a proper identity that they are comfortable using. the line up and this post interview was great. also Jes is kinda cute lol
One thing I don't understand is why there is a gender distinction between trans-women and cisgender females. Same goes voor trans-men and cisgender males. Isn't a transgender person simply born into the wrong body? Why isn't it that as soon as they realize that they are trans, they can simply say they identify as female or male? Why isn't a male who (fully or partially) transistioned into female simply a woman? Why does being trans make you a different gender than people who are not? Isn't 'trans' and 'cis' more related to biological sex?
Sorry if I'm being rude, I just genuinely want to understand. Also, I'm not a native English speaker, so sorry for any mistakes.
flufpolitie it doesn't make you a different gender. Trans men are men. Trans women are women. Trans is used for distinction usually, mostly when having a discussion about gender
Exactly my thoughts.
Because a female as a female reproductive system. A male has a male reproductive system.
Omg jes is such a cutie he’s so inspirational and I hope he’s doing well. He has an amazing life ahead of him ❤️
Can I just say they are all so cute
Allison Jimenez I knowwww, they're so attractive and they seem really sweet :)
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I think this is one of my favourite line ups yet!
Thank you Cut for doing this!! Keep making great videos, it helps a lot of people.
No this video is bad
This was a great video I learned so much!! Thank you! 💞💞
well done to cut for handling the topic with respect! on another note, anyone know jes's socials because damn, he cute.
omg thank you so much! I'm @jesnoparat almost everywhere on the internet!
Gender can get so confusing but it’s so intriguing. I remain a cis female but I like to be sensitive to other people’s preferences, identities and pronouns and sometimes that means being open to correction and not assuming.
Some of these comments are pitiful. Why do people feel the need to be hurtful or rude when they don’t understand something?
it's not a ''need to be hurtful'' it's a need to express your opinion JUST like these people thinking they have to be special and be trated like they are made from glass. simple.
Ok but Xya's eye look is absolutely slaying the game over here
What is gender?
“Idk because it doesn’t exist” I completely agree with them.
I dont understand. I am a woman. So what is now? What you called me?
I love the way jes is. He has an amazing point of view. I wish I could have more friends like him.
oh wow thank you let's be friends!
This is so important, gender is a social construct wake up people
lillydowning You must be joking
Fuck outta here with that bs
Tall Man I’m not, people who are offended about another persons gender or non gender are not aware of the fact that everything we know we have been socialized to believe. Furthermore, what does someone else’s identity have to do with you? Let people live and be happy! This video at least introduces others to terms they wouldn’t have known which is a slow start but a start nonetheless
lillydowning I do not understand, I'm genuinely interested to see someone (with a brain free from mental ilnesses, which seems to be the case) argue that gender, a scientific term, does not exist. Please explain.
lillydowning lol. please check the dictionary for the meaning of gender