I was always confused about that. Like she ONLY wants her son to be academically best but becoming the president doesn't only need academics it needs other qualities too. But the most important one is that people should vote for you 😅 so idk why she was dreaming of her so to be that.
@@jensenjorshina9945 Most jobs require other qualities, Asian parents don't care about the specifics and how you get there, just title. The decent med schools like Harvard look at your volunteer work, extracurricular, and personality.
@IamtheMan1111 He was excited to hear there was no summer vacation and was willing to say goodbye to his family for 6 months..... Like hell he'll do fail... Unless and most likely due to him getting beaten up by bullies.
@IamtheMan1111 if you can't keep a student to respect you or attention in the topic, isn't that a skill issue? As i said they aren't teachers but consultants, they're pretty much like private tutors if your kid grades don't improve do you keep the tutor?
@IamtheMan1111 no one said about pleasing the student, am talking about the results, if you need to please the student for them to respect you, i think you shouldn't be teaching anyone.
@@Catherine.Dorian.I took it as if a teacher does something the parent didn't like, they COULD be fired like any Karen wishes they could fire teachers. More often than not there is a good teacher. Less than 10% of teacher's are actually bad in my experience. And with the exception of 3 teachers their teaching styles were bad but had a good personality. And a few had bad personalities but weren't terrible as a teacher
Non-working class Asians think about Ivy League schools. The working class think public universities and JC’s. With almost everything made in China and Asia, shows Asia has a huge working class. The model minority stereotype is used to pit races against each other to divide and conquer the working class.
I knew a Chinese family. All the kids had to graduate from medical school. After that, they were free to pursue whatever career they wanted. None of them became MD's.
fyi You earn an MD (Medical Degree or Doctor of Medicine) when you graduate from medical school. Practicing physicians are those who choose a career in medicine after medical school with their MD. That's why when doctors in the hospital meet for the first time they usually ask "What's your practice / specialty / field?" And while most medical school graduates continue with a career in medicine, I've known people who attended just to further gain knowledge in the field, find a spouse, or was forced to like the Chinese family you know.
I sure hope the consultants have a teaching degree cause if university has taught me anything, just being a professional in your field does not mean you can be teaching people.
As a matter of fact many first year teachers quit, and never return to teaching. I used to coach new teachers in classroom management, at least half of my year one teachers could never get their students to pay attention or just behave in class. Good teachers are few and far between, add in all the violence now in schools... disaster.
@@01Noemi Yeah plenty of my professors are like they. They’re there so the university will pay for their research but in exchange they have to teach so they’re just shitty at it cause they don’t want to do it and don’t have a teaching degree.
Consultants are not the same than teachers, you can know a lot about your field, but you also can't be capable of transmiting your knoledge to others. I see this a lot with engineers going to teaching.
I'm an engineer, I went into teaching. I'm fairly new, I struggle with this but it's easier when is one on one teaching the problem is teaching an entire class and keeping up with everyone's learning styles.
@@monica15326 i had an engineer in highschool as a teacher. IT IS THE MOST FUN SUBJECT of all time for us who enjoy studying. The teacher made mathematics a game and he casually informed us that he go to a bookstore to read math game problems and then make us do them in a fun way. Never in my life have i failed exams with math - trigo, algeb, etc. cause our foundation is so slick
I attended an elite bosrding school. I hated every minute of it, as it was so far from 'real life' & the warmth of a home. My impression is that private schools are just plain 'marketing' to parents. My daughter went to public & ended up in a top college anyway. She has real world experience, is happy & well rounded, knows how to handle herself.
I like in an area with a large Asian population with a large number of so called academic academies thar promise their students will get into an Ivy League university. However, in reality, they are all located on strip malls. They hired part tutors at very low wages. So more like college students or teachers looking for an extra income. So, more like marketing to desperate parents who thinks their kids getting into a Ivy League university is a bragging right. Yes, they called their tutors consultants.
This reminded me of my mother, enrolling me to a school that has higher standard than the rest of the school in my place, and has the best teachers. The school itself fosters competition between students, so we have the motivation to become highest among others. Otherwise, we'd be looked down. My mom wasn't proud when I was placed on the 4th class, but since the teachers taught me too well, my class just get higher and higher until I reached the smartest group of students. But it was hell, and it added when my mother enrolled me to kumon for a math tutor just so i could catch up with others. Considered one of the smartest now in college, so I can't complain. Except, I moved on from all the math because they're really hell. I'm in med school rn. There's still math, but at least it's full of science and biology and chemistry, rather than math.
@@drjones6567 Of course he is happy, he chose an easier path with the MedSchool. But i believe everything depends on how loving his Family is while he is fighting for his brains. If his Mother is compassionate and proud he is happy. If his Mother is strict and nagging all the time he would be a bit bitter but still thankful. At the end of it, the smart kid will understand eventually.. The stupid kid can't even start to do anything, too stupid to understand why studying matters
I actually want to commend you on your writing. I dont normally read the longer comments but the way you presented your story was very well done. Something to consider in the future if you enjoy it. I wish you the best in Med School. 2 sides to every coin. Your parents high standards can be your advantage though having a life of constant need to achieve and competition can be its own burden. Never forget your value and finding what makes life worth living for you. I wish you the very best in life, thank you for sharing your story.
Hope that you are well and happy! My experience with that kind of parenting has not been great, but I hope that you are happy in achieving something great! 😊
my dad is an expert in his field, he can lay asphalt by hand and have it flat as a mirror but he is terrible at teaching, he is also educated as a mechanic, again same thing, you want a good teacher they need passion most of all, a bachelor in history could teach better than the most acomplished historian.
Only the good schools in Australia (not necessarily private) have teachers with bachelor's in the thing they teach. You're not going to see a lot of PhDs. You *do* see schools that barely scraped together enough nerd or Asian kids for an advanced year 11/12 math class, and have one person on faculty who actually knows the material. I never got to have a programming class, the people my age who *did* report knowing more than the teacher.
Here in Germany. A colleague at work had the problem that her daughter had made friends with a girl at school who was bad company, and her grades plummeted to such an extent that even her promotions were jeopardised. After ‘talks’ and appeals to the girl's rationality that a good education is important didn't help, the whole family moved to another town. Far enough that contact was lost (Facebook didn't exist back then). For both parents, the journey to work had doubled and the rent was also higher. But the daughter became one of the best again and was later able to start a good apprenticeship thanks to her good grades.
Parents will sacrifice to save their children. It was better than her daughter ending up on the streets like a lot did in that time. I know I watched a lot of my friends end up drug addicts because it was just becoming too easy. The one you thought would end up graduating with honors ends up hooked and a dropout. Oh did they become a Bill Gates No they weren't that intelligent.
I don't think the quote above is being given enough credit, the saying 孟母三迁 (Mencius' mother moved thrice) is a particularly apt Chinese saying here because it refers to a famous Chinese philosopher. "In order to find her son a better living environment, Mencius' mother moved to three different locations. The expression "Mencius' mother moved house three times" was later used to describe a mother who always strives to do the best for her children"
That is so true Chinese parents will pay upfront in cash, my friend who is Chinese his parents bought their house upfront full in cash and they paid off their house and that first day when they bought the house they don’t like to owe anything he said😂😂
@@funtecstudiovideos4102 that's because chinese parents are extremely frugal, they don't eat out, don't travel or go to vacations, don't buy new clothe, don't buy make up, don't buy jewelry, don't do their hair, don't do their nails, don't buy bags, don't buy alcohol/cigarettes, don't buy gifts (they gift people the gifts they got from others), don't have/pay for hobbies, only buy used cars, make their kids take school bus to save gas, etc
@dian277 - You forgot the last part they both work 80 hours a week and most likely own their own business. As adults working for others for 5 years get the experience and start their own business.
That's frugal to a fault. Keep a mortgage if it's interest rate is lower than inflation. Put the money you actually "owe" on the house in a high yield account, to grow faster than the interest rate of the mortgage. You can do the same with a car, student loans, furniture. If the interest rate is below 5% and you have the cash to pay for it twice anyway- Take the loan np. Grandaddy showed me this.😂😂😂
@@tumbleweed7283 dude thats clearly late 90s maybe even early 2000s. the 70s and 80s looked nothing like that. im guessing you were born no later than like 2005?
Just goes to show how utterly expensive schools are, especially ones that are actually good. I go to a wonderful high school with a great community, great teachers, and a great learning experience! But it costs my parents a fortune each year so they can’t let my little brother go with me. (My school does middle school as well) Yeah sure, good schools with good quality need money to retain that good quality, but they really shouldn’t be so expensive. Education is for all, and it’s disheartening to see so many private schools be so expensive. On another note this school offering seems like a scam if they offering that much 💀 Edit: A lot of people have been explaining in the replies that “Maybe I should instead use ebooks” or “Just don’t got to school. It’s not worth it.” Or “Private school is a sham. Public works way better trust me bro” I do really like hearing all the different ways people love to learn, but please don’t try and make me feel bad for going to my private school. I like my school, I adore my little brother, we both are doing very well in our environments, and I don’t want random internet strangers assuming otherwise. It’s fine to say which learning strategy works for you, and I’d genuinely love having a conversation with you in the replies, but I really don’t want anyone telling me to do this or that instead of what I’m already doing. Thank you for hopefully respecting this. Edit 2: I misinterpreted what some of the replies were saying and that is 100% my bad. My general point still stands though. I’m so sorry to those who felt like I wasn’t reading what they were saying. Genuinely.
@@eliasnaef9796 NOOOO DO NOT- I demand attention from them enough, I don’t wanna start feeling bad about it 🥲 It does make sense logically tho, because we have different types of ADHD. He just functions better in a cheaper school. Really. He doesn’t stress too hard on th homework to my knowledge, treats other right, doesn’t get bullied, and seems to enjoy his school. I don’t know every little detail but he seems to like his arrangement, as do I. He has ADHD, but doesn’t really need the kind of handicap like I do that is a special private school that’s a 20-minute drive away.
We don't call our teachers teachers. We can fire people but we don't because that would make you think we made a mistake hiring them in the first place and we don't like to appear to make mistakes.
@raycasta10 can attest..in case I know the 2 kids wound up with great jobs but both have real emotional problems..one an alcoholic but has a medical research wing of hospital/ teaching school named after him and other lost all rights to children and court ordered no contact.
My cousin went to a Swiss private school. Literally half her class failed the baccalauréat exam on final year because all they got was a burn out from stupid assignments instead of an actual education. Such a complete waste a money.
Coming from someone who attended a college that hired "people in their field", those people were awful teachers. Sure they knew their stuff, but they had not a damn clue how to teach it.
As someone that was able to attend an Ivy (Cornell and Columbia) from a no-name public school with no extravagant household income (~$50,000/year), so can any other kid. You have to do all sorts of things that makes you stand out though.
Yeah but you came from a middle class family not a poor family. Its far more difficult from a poor family. Being middle class and above gives enough of a boost for most kids to have a shot at an ivy league school.
I know a chinese kid who's parents had rlly high expectations for him, to the point where hed get mad when he underperformed and had a fragile ego. At some point he finally broke and became suicidal and a shut-in, parents and grandparents gave up on him and labeled him a failure, a disappointment. Asian parenting is honestly one way to make your kids into ticking time bombs. There's no point in forcing a kid into becoming XYZ if they're gonna kill themselves before that.
@@dodo5257-v3f I think most Chinese households do experience it, but those who survive into adulthood w this mentality carry it forward to their children as well.
That's why having high expectations on a child is problematic..coz one day the child will have to want to be human ...and when that happens the Parent's will be shocked. Funny thing is some Parent's when they were younger were not even high performing students..its like the Parent's ( not all) want to live vicariously through their children. Children should not be pressured to be their Parent's second chance in life at the expense of their child. Why do you think adult children decide to go no contact or not want to have a relationship with their Parent's or it becomes weird in family reunion. However if the child is pressured in a healthy way, is nurtured to understand shxt happens and not to give up..only give up when you want to give up( or try another aproach if you think you can reach the sane result, if not celebrate the curiosity n the small milestones coz they lead to greater milestones)..then there is nothing wrong with that applied pressure😅..you know the saying ' pressure makes diamonds" "pressure also implodes"..
And he is the expertise in dealing with Asian parents.🤣 Just 10 seconds he almost make her pull her purse out with consultant 🤣. Shut up and take her money I'm impressed
There is a local school here that prides itself on having the students with the highest average grades. But I found out what that really meant. It doesn't really mean they're teaching any better. It just means that if a child does any worse than an A, they would get a B. Teachers are instructed to never write anything lower than a B-. Afterwards parents are informed of the "real grade" and threatened that if the kid doesn't get it together, they'll get kicked out. You wouldn't believe the stress on the kid every day that they'd lose all their friends if they have to move and all the money that goes towards private tutors after school.
No, this happens. My school (pre-uni) was known in my country for having the highest grade retention rate, i.e. forcing the most students to retake a school year. Naturally people would think it was incompetent teachers + poor students. It was the opposite: we had some pretty damn good teachers, who refused to lower their standards for a handful of students to barely scrape by, which forced us to work harder AND prepared us for the merciless crush of national exams the following year. It was a public school that took average-low tier students and made them ace national exams with flying colours. I got accepted to arguably the best university in the region, thanks to my loving, disciplined, supportive teachers :)
in my school we just had prep, prep, daily practice and night coaching. if you fail to comply you get one round of punishment, primitive farm duty included. you score below average in the test, you plant a field of corn, you till the soil with your hoe and plant the old fashioned way........well we all did well in the final exam sha
Has pros and cons. Like, a guy I know went to a "free up front, but 7% of your first year's salary, if you land a tech job", bootcamp. But, if you got anything less than 90% in any week across the entire 3 months, you were kicked out of the program. "Most stressful 3 months of his life". And a new career that paid almost $100K from the get go in Silicon Valley. - Of course, schools... Typically exist to waste your life with mostly meaningless education.
“Experts in their field”. They still need to know how to teach though! Teachers go through multiple years of higher education to learn how to effectively convey information to students! As well as how to do public speaking, lesson planning, controlling a classroom and all these other skills that they renew with classes every couple of summers. Also, private schools are notoriously known for taking bribes from parents and if the teacher refuses to take the bribe they’re fired for “underperforming”. I absolutely HATE that they keep trying to take funding away from public schools to give to private/charter schools. They don’t need the money.
You sound like the President of the Teachers Union!😡 Talk to a few successful HS coaches if you want to get ideas for improving public schools. 😊✨❤️🇺🇸 The lousy coaches are usually lousy teachers too! ☠️ Tenure and Union clout let them fail while working towards a fat pension!😡
You are the first person I know of to actually make a real case against the voucher system. Next I want to hear how you would fix the monopoly system of public education.
This is an underrated comment. You can be as good or ass smart as you want to be, but if you do not know how to communicate and teach the subject you’re just training good test takers.
@@xthene that makes my point even better, 4k was a percentage increase. Nowadays the price would be even more expensive. (BTW I think we are wasting our time)
"The first step to doctor president" 😂😂😂😂
I mean , there are actors who became presidents/ senators , it's entirely feasible
I was always confused about that. Like she ONLY wants her son to be academically best but becoming the president doesn't only need academics it needs other qualities too. But the most important one is that people should vote for you 😅 so idk why she was dreaming of her so to be that.
@@jensenjorshina9945 Most jobs require other qualities, Asian parents don't care about the specifics and how you get there, just title. The decent med schools like Harvard look at your volunteer work, extracurricular, and personality.
There’s a veteran , doctor , astronaut in real life now … Korean American 🇺🇸 ❤ Jonny Kim sounds presidential material to me
Was the kid born before or after they moved to the US?
That’s dirty talk for Chinese parents 😂😂😂
You can see she's getting "excited" 😂
😂😂😂
I'm surprised she didnt... finish when he said the part of med school
@@fader1240totally 😂
@@ianesgrecia8568she was so close to it 😂
If my son doesn't get to Harvard, I want a full refund. 😂😂
@IamtheMan1111They have consultants not teachers if he's underperforming doesn't that mean the consultant failed?
@IamtheMan1111 He was excited to hear there was no summer vacation and was willing to say goodbye to his family for 6 months.....
Like hell he'll do fail...
Unless and most likely due to him getting beaten up by bullies.
@IamtheMan1111 if you can't keep a student to respect you or attention in the topic, isn't that a skill issue? As i said they aren't teachers but consultants, they're pretty much like private tutors if your kid grades don't improve do you keep the tutor?
That's sounds right
@IamtheMan1111 no one said about pleasing the student, am talking about the results, if you need to please the student for them to respect you, i think you shouldn't be teaching anyone.
Child: "Dad, I became Doctor-President Supreme"
Dad: "WELL YOUR COUSIN JIMMY BECAME EMPEROR OF THE GALAXY!"
Why can’t you be like your cousin Roger, he became Godemperor of Mankind!
His cousin Is The EMPEROR of the imperium?
These hurt. Mexicans do this too 😞
I sold my soul to Yog-sothoh and all of the multi-verse is under my control. Puny god emperor, bow before me.
@@robertgu8551 Well... I am the sleeping Deity Azathoth
She came when he said they fired underperforming consultants...
She was incapacitated for a split second
hahahahahah
Honestly, it’s how public schools should be. Ridiculous they keep teachers that aren’t succeeding
@@Catherine.Dorian.I took it as if a teacher does something the parent didn't like, they COULD be fired like any Karen wishes they could fire teachers. More often than not there is a good teacher. Less than 10% of teacher's are actually bad in my experience. And with the exception of 3 teachers their teaching styles were bad but had a good personality. And a few had bad personalities but weren't terrible as a teacher
I was thinking that she was gratified to have found a place that understood what she sought in an education.
I like your idea more. 👍
Chinese parents would sell their house to send their kids to a private school IF that would guarantee their som gets into Harvard Medical School
not just chinese but asian
@@Dijah-wg5kr all Asians
@@Dijah-wg5krnope, not all Asians, BTW I'm assuming that u are talking about all countries included in Asia.
Non-working class Asians think about Ivy League schools. The working class think public universities and JC’s. With almost everything made in China and Asia, shows Asia has a huge working class. The model minority stereotype is used to pit races against each other to divide and conquer the working class.
Indian parents would buy a motel8 chain and golden shirt instead, damn patels got my money still
I knew a Chinese family. All the kids had to graduate from medical school. After that, they were free to pursue whatever career they wanted. None of them became MD's.
Wasting the parents money.
They asked for it.
Edit. For all of you that don't get it.
The Parents asked for it.
The Parents wasted their own money.
@@matthewk6731 if they have the money to pay for it then it doesn't matter.
it's also called a back up career...
@ybg15 with all the continuing education requirements would they have to keep up with it really wouldn't work as a back up career.
fyi You earn an MD (Medical Degree or Doctor of Medicine) when you graduate from medical school. Practicing physicians are those who choose a career in medicine after medical school with their MD. That's why when doctors in the hospital meet for the first time they usually ask "What's your practice / specialty / field?" And while most medical school graduates continue with a career in medicine, I've known people who attended just to further gain knowledge in the field, find a spouse, or was forced to like the Chinese family you know.
young sheldon would love this "no summer vacation school"!!!
No, it would be too easy for him
In Germany they don't have summer vacation, but they also get out at noon
My exact thought. 🙃🤭🙃🤭
@@spencegameI‘m from germany and we do have Summer vacation lol what the hell are you talking about? 💀
wouldnt have money for this school
I sure hope the consultants have a teaching degree cause if university has taught me anything, just being a professional in your field does not mean you can be teaching people.
As a matter of fact many first year teachers quit, and never return to teaching. I used to coach new teachers in classroom management, at least half of my year one teachers could never get their students to pay attention or just behave in class. Good teachers are few and far between, add in all the violence now in schools... disaster.
Neither does graduating from a 'teaching' program.
Also, how many professors with a tenure have no clue how to actually teach, but now they are untouchable 😕
@@01Noemi Yeah plenty of my professors are like they. They’re there so the university will pay for their research but in exchange they have to teach so they’re just shitty at it cause they don’t want to do it and don’t have a teaching degree.
@@peachtea1318 They are sponsored by communist countries to not teach.
"One tuition, please!" 😂😂😂
" see you 6 months later " child was ready 😂
Great catch on the 1%. An Asian parent ain't gonna let that slide.
Some Canadians Teachers with a "Bachelors of Education Degree" teach in China & they❤it.
Consultants are not the same than teachers, you can know a lot about your field, but you also can't be capable of transmiting your knoledge to others. I see this a lot with engineers going to teaching.
I'm an engineer, I went into teaching. I'm fairly new, I struggle with this but it's easier when is one on one teaching the problem is teaching an entire class and keeping up with everyone's learning styles.
Those would be the "underperforming" ones at that school.
@@monica15326 i had an engineer in highschool as a teacher. IT IS THE MOST FUN SUBJECT of all time for us who enjoy studying. The teacher made mathematics a game and he casually informed us that he go to a bookstore to read math game problems and then make us do them in a fun way.
Never in my life have i failed exams with math - trigo, algeb, etc. cause our foundation is so slick
and what do you do exactly that you get to see that ?
*knowledge
“So I have to earn the privilege to pay your ridiculous tuition?”
Good lord wait til she figures out how college works
Name 1 good lord. I hope you aren´t thinking about the god of war from Asia that wiped out the whole planet.
@@PROVOCATEURSK Sauron. :)
African parents would love this school. Anything that can keep their kids busy and stressed out, is a blessing, no matter the price.😭😭😭
Not the broke Parent's 😅maybe the Rich ones.
Even the broke ones in Lagos would do anything to keep their kids busy😂
What the great secret to wanting them so occupied?@@Chioma.Malife
😂😂😂 aswr, i have tried dropping out several times and always got treated like am mad
Dropout how?😂😂 The busier the school keeps you, the happier your parents will be.😭😭
Constance Wu was really brilliant in this role….⭐️👍🏼👏🏼
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I attended an elite bosrding school. I hated every minute of it, as it was so far from 'real life' & the warmth of a home. My impression is that private schools are just plain 'marketing' to parents. My daughter went to public & ended up in a top college anyway. She has real world experience, is happy & well rounded, knows how to handle herself.
That is awesome for your daughter.. Tell her CONGRATULATIONS !!!😃
Boarding schools are for parents who don't want to take care of their kids.
100% did my last 2 years boarding, legit waste.
also funny how the food went from prision quality to decent whenever there was a parent/open day
I like in an area with a large Asian population with a large number of so called academic academies thar promise their students will get into an Ivy League university.
However, in reality, they are all located on strip malls. They hired part tutors at very low wages. So more like college students or teachers looking for an extra income. So, more like marketing to desperate parents who thinks their kids getting into a Ivy League university is a bragging right. Yes, they called their tutors consultants.
Public school kids graduate illiterate these days
“Goodbye mummy, tell the family I’d see them in 6 months” had me rolling in laughter..😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Was looking for this comment 😂😂😂
The mom is so pretty !
Constance Wu is her name
Stop simping on moms now 💀
She was in crazy rich Asians
Crazy Rich Asians(2018)
😂@@owlspider62
she ordered the tuition like it was a chow mein
I love her expression when she said "continue"😂😂😂
This reminded me of my mother, enrolling me to a school that has higher standard than the rest of the school in my place, and has the best teachers. The school itself fosters competition between students, so we have the motivation to become highest among others. Otherwise, we'd be looked down. My mom wasn't proud when I was placed on the 4th class, but since the teachers taught me too well, my class just get higher and higher until I reached the smartest group of students. But it was hell, and it added when my mother enrolled me to kumon for a math tutor just so i could catch up with others.
Considered one of the smartest now in college, so I can't complain. Except, I moved on from all the math because they're really hell.
I'm in med school rn. There's still math, but at least it's full of science and biology and chemistry, rather than math.
Was it worth it in the end? Are you happy with how your life has been? Just curious about your thoughts.
@@drjones6567 Of course he is happy, he chose an easier path with the MedSchool.
But i believe everything depends on how loving his Family is while he is fighting for his brains. If his Mother is compassionate and proud he is happy. If his Mother is strict and nagging all the time he would be a bit bitter but still thankful.
At the end of it, the smart kid will understand eventually.. The stupid kid can't even start to do anything, too stupid to understand why studying matters
I actually want to commend you on your writing. I dont normally read the longer comments but the way you presented your story was very well done. Something to consider in the future if you enjoy it. I wish you the best in Med School. 2 sides to every coin. Your parents high standards can be your advantage though having a life of constant need to achieve and competition can be its own burden. Never forget your value and finding what makes life worth living for you. I wish you the very best in life, thank you for sharing your story.
Are you happy? I hope so. I know your parents so they worked hard to make it all happen but I’m sure it was a lot of pressure as well for you.
Hope that you are well and happy! My experience with that kind of parenting has not been great, but I hope that you are happy in achieving something great! 😊
Jessica shown excitement, that's when they knew they got her xD
my dad is an expert in his field, he can lay asphalt by hand and have it flat as a mirror but he is terrible at teaching, he is also educated as a mechanic, again same thing,
you want a good teacher they need passion most of all, a bachelor in history could teach better than the most acomplished historian.
That’s a skill that gets paid very well in Japan
Then your dad would be fired for underperforming. It is possible for other people to know things and are able to teach.
Only the good schools in Australia (not necessarily private) have teachers with bachelor's in the thing they teach. You're not going to see a lot of PhDs. You *do* see schools that barely scraped together enough nerd or Asian kids for an advanced year 11/12 math class, and have one person on faculty who actually knows the material. I never got to have a programming class, the people my age who *did* report knowing more than the teacher.
She is a good actress.
Here in Germany.
A colleague at work had the problem that her daughter had made friends with a girl at school who was bad company, and her grades plummeted to such an extent that even her promotions were jeopardised.
After ‘talks’ and appeals to the girl's rationality that a good education is important didn't help, the whole family moved to another town. Far enough that contact was lost (Facebook didn't exist back then). For both parents, the journey to work had doubled and the rent was also higher. But the daughter became one of the best again and was later able to start a good apprenticeship thanks to her good grades.
孟母三迁
In the 'olden' days, families would take their wayward teens on a trip to Europe to distract them and expand their vision.
Parents will sacrifice to save their children. It was better than her daughter ending up on the streets like a lot did in that time. I know I watched a lot of my friends end up drug addicts because it was just becoming too easy. The one you thought would end up graduating with honors ends up hooked and a dropout. Oh did they become a Bill Gates No they weren't that intelligent.
I don't think the quote above is being given enough credit, the saying 孟母三迁 (Mencius' mother moved thrice) is a particularly apt Chinese saying here because it refers to a famous Chinese philosopher. "In order to find her son a better living environment, Mencius' mother moved to three different locations. The expression "Mencius' mother moved house three times" was later used to describe a mother who always strives to do the best for her children"
Thank you for sharing ☺️ @@souvra
That is so true Chinese parents will pay upfront in cash, my friend who is Chinese his parents bought their house upfront full in cash and they paid off their house and that first day when they bought the house they don’t like to owe anything he said😂😂
Impresive, in my country with Average salary it would take decades to Save for house 😂
@@funtecstudiovideos4102 that's because chinese parents are extremely frugal, they don't eat out, don't travel or go to vacations, don't buy new clothe, don't buy make up, don't buy jewelry, don't do their hair, don't do their nails, don't buy bags, don't buy alcohol/cigarettes, don't buy gifts (they gift people the gifts they got from others), don't have/pay for hobbies, only buy used cars, make their kids take school bus to save gas, etc
@dian277 - You forgot the last part they both work 80 hours a week and most likely own their own business. As adults working for others for 5 years get the experience and start their own business.
That's frugal to a fault. Keep a mortgage if it's interest rate is lower than inflation. Put the money you actually "owe" on the house in a high yield account, to grow faster than the interest rate of the mortgage. You can do the same with a car, student loans, furniture. If the interest rate is below 5% and you have the cash to pay for it twice anyway- Take the loan np. Grandaddy showed me this.😂😂😂
@@jamera8223in today's world?
Never seen a child more eager to go to school full-time
the bargain 😂 No Harvard = full refund
Her voice is so beautiful
$4000 per year is the cheapest school I ever heard of. X10 and you're getting there.
An EXTRA $4000/year.
Tv show also set in 70s or 80s
@@tumbleweed7283 eddie huang is only 42. This is set in the 90's
Extra 4k
@@tumbleweed7283 dude thats clearly late 90s maybe even early 2000s. the 70s and 80s looked nothing like that. im guessing you were born no later than like 2005?
She had an "Oh Jesus!" moment with that underperforming consultant part 😂
Call it “Ah ah ah” as she came 😂
OMG! OP actually listed the TV show the season and the episode in his description!! Kudos OP!
"no summer vacation?" 😁😁😁
😭✋🏻
"One tuition, please!"
That one got me, lol!
What's the name of this movie?
Series: Fresh off the boat en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fresh_Off_the_Boat
@@johnvick5132
"My private school education on my resume got me my dream job" said no adult ever.
This Chinese woman is so beautiful ❤️
She was so different in Crazy Rich Asians!!
What's her name? I dint remember seeing her in crazy ruch, but saw her in marvel agent tho @@claudialyon2342
Just goes to show how utterly expensive schools are, especially ones that are actually good. I go to a wonderful high school with a great community, great teachers, and a great learning experience! But it costs my parents a fortune each year so they can’t let my little brother go with me. (My school does middle school as well) Yeah sure, good schools with good quality need money to retain that good quality, but they really shouldn’t be so expensive. Education is for all, and it’s disheartening to see so many private schools be so expensive.
On another note this school offering seems like a scam if they offering that much 💀
Edit: A lot of people have been explaining in the replies that “Maybe I should instead use ebooks” or “Just don’t got to school. It’s not worth it.” Or “Private school is a sham. Public works way better trust me bro”
I do really like hearing all the different ways people love to learn, but please don’t try and make me feel bad for going to my private school. I like my school, I adore my little brother, we both are doing very well in our environments, and I don’t want random internet strangers assuming otherwise. It’s fine to say which learning strategy works for you, and I’d genuinely love having a conversation with you in the replies, but I really don’t want anyone telling me to do this or that instead of what I’m already doing.
Thank you for hopefully respecting this.
Edit 2: I misinterpreted what some of the replies were saying and that is 100% my bad. My general point still stands though. I’m so sorry to those who felt like I wasn’t reading what they were saying. Genuinely.
no way they giving favoritism to u over ur younger brother lol
@@eliasnaef9796 NOOOO DO NOT-
I demand attention from them enough, I don’t wanna start feeling bad about it 🥲
It does make sense logically tho, because we have different types of ADHD. He just functions better in a cheaper school. Really. He doesn’t stress too hard on th homework to my knowledge, treats other right, doesn’t get bullied, and seems to enjoy his school. I don’t know every little detail but he seems to like his arrangement, as do I. He has ADHD, but doesn’t really need the kind of handicap like I do that is a special private school that’s a 20-minute drive away.
@@ConceptOfCreat10n ok
Why not just go to a good public school… they r just as good. Tbf those r also priced in. The homes there are expensive basically.
@@dencentbeatz794
Because ADHD is both a blessing and a curse lol
And also just because I like the school I’m at a lot and don’t wanna leave
So unlicensed educators.
Yeah because our educators are so good nowadays
I don't know why that sounds so much better.
As an Orlando parent I can tell you the good private schools here aren’t 4k they are 40k 😢
This was in the 90s so prolly it was 4K..idk I’m just assuming
she said "extra 4k"... over other schools... was not the yearly / term price.
1990's
40 years ago 4k was an expensive school
She said extra
Remove the wax from your ears
She damn near came on herself
We don't call our teachers teachers. We can fire people but we don't because that would make you think we made a mistake hiring them in the first place and we don't like to appear to make mistakes.
This person knows what's real about the culture of many private schools.
That was her aphrodisiac 😂😂😂😂😂
I truly fell in love this lady when she says the first step to doctor-president😂
I LOVED AND MISSED THIS SHOW!!! 🤭🤗😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🥰🥰
Damn this is such a good case study for negotiation techniques XD as expected from Jessica
Pvt schools dont guarantee good for ur kids. Especially when the kids have very absentee parents emotionally.
@raycasta10 can attest..in case I know the 2 kids wound up with great jobs but both have real emotional problems..one an alcoholic but has a medical research wing of hospital/ teaching school named after him and other lost all rights to children and court ordered no contact.
My cousin went to a Swiss private school. Literally half her class failed the baccalauréat exam on final year because all they got was a burn out from stupid assignments instead of an actual education. Such a complete waste a money.
Coming from someone who attended a college that hired "people in their field", those people were awful teachers. Sure they knew their stuff, but they had not a damn clue how to teach it.
The embroidery looks so pretty 🤩
You had me at Med School 😂❤
Thats definitely the mom of the Jonny Kim type
As someone that was able to attend an Ivy (Cornell and Columbia) from a no-name public school with no extravagant household income (~$50,000/year), so can any other kid.
You have to do all sorts of things that makes you stand out though.
Yeah but you came from a middle class family not a poor family. Its far more difficult from a poor family. Being middle class and above gives enough of a boost for most kids to have a shot at an ivy league school.
How did you stand out?
The doctor president face 😭😭😭
It's how her son is always excited 😂
I LOVE THIS AD.
I actually had mini shivers down to spine hearing this BS..
Song 15 years later: Emotional Damage
I know a chinese kid who's parents had rlly high expectations for him, to the point where hed get mad when he underperformed and had a fragile ego.
At some point he finally broke and became suicidal and a shut-in, parents and grandparents gave up on him and labeled him a failure, a disappointment.
Asian parenting is honestly one way to make your kids into ticking time bombs.
There's no point in forcing a kid into becoming XYZ if they're gonna kill themselves before that.
It's because the parents didn't have to go through it so they don't know the pain. They're just looking at the end result
@@dodo5257-v3f I think most Chinese households do experience it, but those who survive into adulthood w this mentality carry it forward to their children as well.
That os the real problem. I think these sitcoms are npt tackling this issue, are they?
@@susanaaragorn8606 Note that she is only enrolling her smart and highly motivated kid but not her "average" kid.
That's why having high expectations on a child is problematic..coz one day the child will have to want to be human ...and when that happens the Parent's will be shocked. Funny thing is some Parent's when they were younger were not even high performing students..its like the Parent's ( not all) want to live vicariously through their children. Children should not be pressured to be their Parent's second chance in life at the expense of their child. Why do you think adult children decide to go no contact or not want to have a relationship with their Parent's or it becomes weird in family reunion. However if the child is pressured in a healthy way, is nurtured to understand shxt happens and not to give up..only give up when you want to give up( or try another aproach if you think you can reach the sane result, if not celebrate the curiosity n the small milestones coz they lead to greater milestones)..then there is nothing wrong with that applied pressure😅..you know the saying ' pressure makes diamonds" "pressure also implodes"..
Jessica and Evan are joy ❤
I just love the refund demand at the end!
lol
Harvard, everything you need to know is online, I have a PDF of Fiemen's lectures on Quantum mechanics...
Feynman taught at Stanford and his famous lecture series is available on several channels on RUclips.
That’s the Dr. Johnny Fever! RIP Howard Hesseman.
He was also the Head of the Class...Charlie Moore!
What is this series called and where can I watch it?
Fresh off the Boat
I love Jessica LOL 😊
the first step to doctor president is so real
Name of movie?
Is a show. Fresh of the Boat.
Read the frickin title of the video you just watched😭😭
Where is it available and where can I watch it?
The fact that an astronaut went there says enough. Don’t spend your money
Me in med school right now as someone that went to a VERY public school 👁️👄👁️
I loved this show it was awesome 😎
I MISS that show, it was so good!
And he is the expertise in dealing with Asian parents.🤣
Just 10 seconds he almost make her pull her purse out with consultant 🤣. Shut up and take her money
I'm impressed
She just came after he mentioned fireing underperforming consultants.
There is a local school here that prides itself on having the students with the highest average grades. But I found out what that really meant. It doesn't really mean they're teaching any better. It just means that if a child does any worse than an A, they would get a B. Teachers are instructed to never write anything lower than a B-. Afterwards parents are informed of the "real grade" and threatened that if the kid doesn't get it together, they'll get kicked out. You wouldn't believe the stress on the kid every day that they'd lose all their friends if they have to move and all the money that goes towards private tutors after school.
Yeah, it called grading on a bell curve.
No, this happens. My school (pre-uni) was known in my country for having the highest grade retention rate, i.e. forcing the most students to retake a school year. Naturally people would think it was incompetent teachers + poor students. It was the opposite: we had some pretty damn good teachers, who refused to lower their standards for a handful of students to barely scrape by, which forced us to work harder AND prepared us for the merciless crush of national exams the following year. It was a public school that took average-low tier students and made them ace national exams with flying colours. I got accepted to arguably the best university in the region, thanks to my loving, disciplined, supportive teachers :)
in my school we just had prep, prep, daily practice and night coaching. if you fail to comply you get one round of punishment, primitive farm duty included. you score below average in the test, you plant a field of corn, you till the soil with your hoe and plant the old fashioned way........well we all did well in the final exam sha
Has pros and cons.
Like, a guy I know went to a "free up front, but 7% of your first year's salary, if you land a tech job", bootcamp.
But, if you got anything less than 90% in any week across the entire 3 months, you were kicked out of the program.
"Most stressful 3 months of his life".
And a new career that paid almost $100K from the get go in Silicon Valley.
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Of course, schools... Typically exist to waste your life with mostly meaningless education.
... surely that has to be some type of fraud
Hahaha!!!😂😂😂
Awesome results!😎👍👍👍
Super innovative!
The thing with the ivy league statistics is cause 90% have generational wealth to get there
Only because they subject Asians to quotas.
Lose that and Ivy League schools would have 90% students of Asian descent. 😁😁😁
Sheldon Cooper be like : You should ask for refund if he gets to Harvard, Caltech is better
“Experts in their field”. They still need to know how to teach though! Teachers go through multiple years of higher education to learn how to effectively convey information to students! As well as how to do public speaking, lesson planning, controlling a classroom and all these other skills that they renew with classes every couple of summers.
Also, private schools are notoriously known for taking bribes from parents and if the teacher refuses to take the bribe they’re fired for “underperforming”.
I absolutely HATE that they keep trying to take funding away from public schools to give to private/charter schools. They don’t need the money.
You sound like the President of the Teachers Union!😡
Talk to a few successful HS coaches if you want to get ideas for improving public schools. 😊✨❤️🇺🇸
The lousy coaches are usually lousy teachers too! ☠️ Tenure and Union clout let them fail while working towards a fat pension!😡
If the student isn't in the public school, then the public school doesn't need the money.
You are the first person I know of to actually make a real case against the voucher system. Next I want to hear how you would fix the monopoly system of public education.
This is an underrated comment. You can be as good or ass smart as you want to be, but if you do not know how to communicate and teach the subject you’re just training good test takers.
@@JulioMo You don’t have to send your kid to public school. Home School them.
👍🏽 like the refund suggestion 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯
She is so beautiful and role actractive
Only $4000 for an all-year private school? Nah, suspension of disbelief broken.
She said extra 4000.. We don't know in addition to how much
This show is set in the 90's
Dr. Johnny Fever
India parents exchange kidney for admission in such school.
Tough bargain, take my money 😂
Private high schools are now nearly $80,000 a year.
The amount really dates the video. You'd be lucky to pay $4k for daycare monthly.
Wtf... that's even more than annual college tuition fee
It's from 1990s
4 Grand for year round School?? I Wish!
The show is based in late 80s - early 90s. So make that 4k into 30-40l today.
that's not the fee. that 4 grand is "additional" ..
@@xthene that makes my point even better, 4k was a percentage increase. Nowadays the price would be even more expensive. (BTW I think we are wasting our time)
"You mean I have to earn the privilege to pay your ridiculous tuition?"
Welcome to Private School! 🤣
They need to bring this show back
what’s it called
Name of the show please
@@nessparadis6948 fresh off the boat
Shes so cute i love her
Um that’s my tuition from college!
Having a specialist in a field teach rather than a teacher is horrible
What do you think a college professor is
@@etheu9sby292 they are at least trained to teach
$4000 a year? This is an old show.
Best character EVER
And that's how education became another commodity in the market
For most of human history it WAS a commodity. Only in the last few centuries has it been viewed as a right.
She is so fking beautiful
She left that meeting pregnant from hearing all that.
One of the best actresses.
I love her so much.
I think she came after he said they could fire any under performing consultants...
Fresh Off the Boat S3E22. #shorts #film #tvshow
What is it on
@@A3504viation Hulu.
@@A3504viation Disney+
Actress name? Anyone?