The Family Channel Who Prank Their Kids For Clout |
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- Опубликовано: 9 июн 2024
- The Bramfam have come under fire recently for a controversial 'prank' that they did on one of their kids for Tiktok. And the deeper I dig, the more concerned I become about this channel, and family channels in general.
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“She’s not physically hurting them” so that commenter is basically saying that they are totally fine with psychological abuse
A lot of people refuse to even believe in psychological/emotional abuse smh
Ikr my dad never hit me, but I still needed a psych 🤷🤷🤷 such a fucked mindset
Crazy how people seem to need something to directly be horrible physical or psychological abuse in order for it not to be okay…literally every single thing you do or say to a child will have gigantic consequences and intentionally making a child cry even once will have *devastating* effects forever. This right here? This is trauma being formed in real time. And they find it *funny*
Exactly. Even in a “healthy” ish environment it can have detrimental effects. They are clearly ignoring their children and their boundaries. They need to listen to the comments and to their children. Cuz I guarantee that if this keeps up, their children won’t want to speak to them anymore.
It can’t even be faked, kids that young don’t know how to fake stuff like that without giggling or smiling. What awful parents
Family channels get away with way too much…
Gamer says f-word they are demonetised but if a family channel exploits a minors which is 10000x worse -no problem! How is that fair?
Exactly, great point!
@@gpgp1841 And one of the worst part is their( family channel) minor fans are always like “stop hitting you are jealous mean me me me me”….
You tube is messed up. I watch true crime. When someone is murdered some channels won't say murdered. Make it make sense.🤪🤪
It’s literally emotional abuse, I’m not going to mince words here. My mother did this stuff regularly and never took ownership over the effect it had on me.
It’s been over 12 years since I’ve spoken to my mother because I realized through therapy that letting people who disrespect your feelings and boundaries isn’t something I have to do.
Pretending their very real feelings don’t matter does lead to damage. I was lucky enough to realize I needed help and had access to it, that doesn’t happen for everything.
My mom just minimizing my feelings and being nonchalant af about my distress was pretty damaging, even affects me now as a fully grown aduld woman in her 30s. Things that seem trivial aren't often trivial. It's frustrating that parents get more concerned with some kids movies being "too scary" more than the shit that's actually gonna affect them.
Watching parents laugh at children when they're crying or distressed in any was is so hard, I had some trouble getting through this video. I really wish that platforms would take action against creators like this
That guy was right for calling her out for spraying her son like that. That was goofy as hell. That was an exact example of learned helplessness. I’m glad he is on a trash can app like tic toc.
My abusive ex used to intentionally hurt my feelings, then force a hug on me and call it a joke. It messed me up for a while, what the heck would growing up with that all the time do?
In my experience, it leads to multiple abusive exes and over a dozen years of therapy and counting 😕
It teaches you not to trust your own feelings and that you don’t get to have boundaries.
@@sourgreendolly7685 Those kids deserve better than these parents and so did you. I'm sorry you went through that. 🌺
I don't understand how parents can continually terrorise their kids emotionally and justify it by saying they're 'pranks' without feeling extremely guilty for continually upsetting them and making them cry...
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as someone who has dealt with divorced parents, my heart almost broke when she started to cry.
its not funny joking to ur kids about you and your partner having a divorce as it can give your child trauma and trust issues
I'm 100% sure in 10-15 years we will start seeing countless of these vlog family children completely cutting ties with their parents and calling them out for this shit. I just hope they all make it that far considering the harm this lifestyle will do to a developing mind. Using your kids to make money by humiliating them in front of millions of their peers is legitimately one of the most disgusting, vile things you could possibly do. It makes my skin crawl.
I liked how the little girl was like nope I’m not saying hi to anyone and she just sillily jumped around I hope she keeps up that fight
The little girl crying into her arm and covering the rest of her face with her hand in the new dad bit, how could you not read that as she doesn’t want to be filmed crying? My mother used to do the same thing and I hated cameras until I was around 18 and started taking photos of myself, not just stuff around me. At 24 I don’t speak to my mother anymore. These are terrible parents and I hope their kids get help
This is so fucked up man. I feel so bad for the children that go through this.
I really don't think these parents understand that to the kids, the pranks hit a lot harder emotionally and can even become foundational memories that shape their ability to trust others. It's not "just a prank" it's repeated harassment from your parents bc they treat you like props. All for some views. shameful
this family is essentially the yassified version of daddyofive. they look like they're mostly clean, someone helped style their home, they look like they have some amount of wealth, so ppl are treating bramty like a girlboss for bullying her kids for gain.
I had to look up 'yassified' but now that I have: that is spot on
Children deserve respect!! These parents are giving their children emotional whiplash. Everyone has their own parenting style, but I know that if my parents had pranked me and exploited my emotions for RUclips this much as a kid, I would have a hard time trusting them.
Child victims from family channels will suffer the same fates that child actors do.
I absolutely agree, I just think it might be even worse for these children, because there's no clear distinction between everyday life and the stage for them.
It’s difficult for kids to differentiate sarcasm and jokes with real, serious statements so this honestly just makes it even harder for them.
Imagine aspiring to be The Ace Family 🥴 I’m going to encourage my young daughter to pursue a career in counselling people who were once passive influencers on how to integrate themselves into reality
Governments need to do so much more when it comes to regulating internet content. Those huge social media companies aren't going to enforce their guidelines properly unless governments start holding them accountable for the kind of content they allow on their platforms. Something many people don't understand is that deplatforming is not silencing people. It's removing their ability to make money on content that violates basic human rights (content that goes against community guidelines). it's incredibly frustrating how little governments care about this or even know about it. The real world impact is very much real.
Completely agree, it's honestly so frustrating to keep seeing a new family channel making money off their kids every few months knowing they will likely face no repercussions until their kids grow up and call out the parents themselves.
I grew up without a voice. I grew up in a highly dysfunctional and abusive household. My abuse extended to adulthood. It's incredibly damaging. Adults tend to feel children voices are irrelevant. It's painful... especially when irrelevant as an adult.
I don't understand how parents can claim to love their children and then derive joy out of consistently making them cry and feel helpless.
As someone who was emotionally abused grewing up, I cannot imagine the DAMAGE being filmed during it would have caused. There was one incident where that happened and I still stress about it a decade later. It's disgusting behaviour, especially when they're setting her up to cry on purpose. How is she supposed to regulate her emotions and feel valid in her feelings after years of this??
I will never have enough words to describe how disgusted I am with family channels and the kind of behavior they put online to make money. Kids will have PROOF that their parents are using them and how they care about numbers more than the feelings of their children. These types of parents make my blood boil.
My parents were EXACTLY like this. They just thought it was really funny and cute that I was dumb enough to believe anything they said no matter how tragic or good. It’s a cruel and discrete abuse that took a decade to work through. Still working on it too
Damn I can’t finish this video. I’m deeply saddened by this. I have a 10 month old and this breaks my heart.
I also want to say it’s easy to feel bad for kids but remember that the bullies you meet in your life probably deal or dealt with this kind of shit at home. Be kind to people and show each other how to love and set boundaries with compassion.❤️🤘🏾
I think sometimes parents don’t get that things that wouldn’t make an adult cry are still devastating to children. It may be silly for an adult to cry about getting their hair sprayed for an uncomfortable amount of time, but kids are small. Their lives have been short and they’ve literally just not had these experienced these things before. If they cry and are upset about something that seems silly to you, it’s probably very serious to them and it should be treated as such.
I don't know how old these parents are (I'm guessing in their 20s?) or how old the people sticking up for them are, but they have no idea the damage they're doing. I finally got the guts to disconnect from my family in 2008 because of things like this. Gotta love when emotional abuse is "just a joke"!
Love your videos but couldn't finish this one, so hard to watch the mom laughing making fun of her distressed kids. Why would you make your own child cry, what's funny about that? My parents used to casually joke about divorce when I was a kid and I would get so upset they had to stop completely because guess what they had fucking empathy. There were still plenty of situations where my distress wasn't taken seriously but at the very least it wasn't broadcasted to a huge audience. I feel so much for her poor lovely children.
Completely understand I'm so sorry you had to go through that 💙
The kids on these channels are like the 21st century version of chimney sweeps.
my parents used to do "pranks" on me for home videos and i still vividly remember them and how much some of them would scare me. thankfully i'm now 26 so it was all VHS that no one ever saw other than my own family but i always thought it was messed up and i was a very anxious child who is now an anxious adult...wonder why. not saying my parents are the worst in the world either but i would absolutely classify it as emotional damage. i can't imagine all of that ON TOP of it being uploaded for millions to see. disgusting behavior imo
There is, imo, no counter-argument in defense of family channels. They are exploiting their children. Period.
And that 'prank' video where the mother sprays her child's hair until it's dripping wet and the child is crying is awful. That is a definite boundary violation to say the very least.
Yup, I’ve yet to see one that doesn’t just devolve into this nightmare
What I don't understand is who watches family channels and why?!
I was about to do something but Uncle Herman posts a video? gotta stop and watch!!!
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Oh hearing that child broke my heart. Like when I hear a joke I made hasn’t landed I immediately switch to comfort mode, I change the mood so we can change the subject. I don’t keep bringing the topic up at the first sign of distress. Her way of “comfort” sounds like she’s talking with an adult not with a child.
Ok so here’s the thing, my dad actually used to make the same jokes when I was little. My parents would be playing with me or doing a puzzle and my dad would jokingly say “you know I’m not your real dad?” Or “you know you’re getting a new dad next week?” Or even things like “we’re going to sell you to the circus one day” and every single time I would get so upset and tear up but then my mom would hug me and tell me he’s just joking. This was when I was really little and gullible like 4 and 5. Eventually when I got older and understood it was a joke he stopped.
If you ask me, it didn’t have any affect on me whatsoever and my dad and I have a great relationship until this day. I’m not saying it was right but y’all can form your own opinions.
I think the difference here is that it wasn’t filmed for millions to see. They ARE exploiting their kids whether it’s intentional or not.
RUclips trying to be 'kid friendly' yet they let this go on
Family channels are so exploitative. These people use their children for money. They might claim creaye content to offer their children more than a regular job would sustain, but then can't you create content by yourself and not have the children as the focus? There are plenty of parent content creators that don't need to use their children in their videos, with the same benefits such as working from home, having more time for the kids and content creating money. Anyway, these people must be really uninteresting to resort to filming their kids crying rather than talking or doing literally anything themselves. Children cannot consent. The "anyone parents however they want" or "they are not YOUR children, it is not YOUR family" comments fall flat because this is why children get abused and exploited. Child abusers will also say "it is not your business what I do, don't interfere woth others' families". Absolute non sense. Even though it is not my family and I am not a parent, I have eyes and a brain 💀
There should be a ban on family channels. I’m a mom of 2. I just can’t imagine doing this to my kiddos.
I'm personally not good with children, I just don't get them tbh but even I would have alarm bells ringing if my niece showed a reaction like any shown here in the video. How can you be so dense to not see that this is literally emotional damage, especially as the parent?!
These prank videos really piss me off because a lot of our anxieties form before we turn three and this is definitely affecting them. Like, regardless of whether or not the parents are kidding, the kids think it's real and react with real emotion. There are things that are seemingly harmless that can cause emotional damage; like, when I was a year old, my mom left me every day at a tiny apartment with a woman and her four kids bc my mom had to work and couldn't afford legit childcare, and I think that's where my attachment disorder developed. And this was my mom doing that out of necessity; imagine your parents regularly doing shit to make you cry on camera and then laughing about it 🙄
I'm 30 years old and I have to do every holiday alone because I grew up in a household like this. I want to point out to my family that the way that they treated us kids, and how they taught us to treat each other was not okay, I met with "at least you weren't beaten like we were when we were kids."
There's some people who should not be parents. There are some people who will continue to exploit those who are in their care and lack the empathy to change even after they have been taught better.
Just because their bones aren't being broken doesn't mean their spirits aren't.
How do they think we'd find their content funny? Why would we find it funny that a kid is asking you to stop and starts crying because you won't? wow
Some people don’t deserve kids and pets
So fucked that COPPA isn't actually enforced. I could never put money ahead of my own children and then straight out deny that I'm exploiting them and filming key moments of their lives for strangers on the internet.
An Alpha male who posts legit trigger warnings before the vid?
Thank you my King.
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Have a great day.
Trusting Uncle Herman, like a real family member, to inform me of all the messed up people in the world
That video of her spraying the child's hair is fucking heartbreaking to watch, what kind of parent can do something like that and laugh as your child breaks down into tears? Definitely something not right with these people man.
It's a good day when Uncle Herman posts😌
It’s so infuriating that some parents just treat their kids like a toy. Kids are just tiny humans who are learning to process things. How awful to have your emotions mocked by one of the most important adults in your life…
the fact that I KNOW I'm not mother material and still would be a better mother then her makes me mad af. this poor children.
This is awful. I grew up in a household with abuse but atleast it wasn't on camera !! Jeez.
And wow. Since when did "she's not hitting them" become to the guidelines for abuse.
not even two mins in and wow, what cruelty. and honestly what a clear and sobering look at what youtuber family channels are essentially about. exploiting children for gain.
I relate for the oldest girl. My parents would do things to upset me then tease me about it, my stepdad would make me cry just to laugh about ut in my face. At some point all this lead to me getting to the point where I wouldn’t let myself be emotional. I had put up walls to never allow anyone to see me venerable or show any emotion I felt. This might lead to those kids being this way and it’s a very very heard cycle to break. I hopefully they get a environment that allows them to grow, rather than be put the down.
Use me as evidence..I had so much emotional abuse as a child and I have 3 mental illnesses, don't know how to respect my own boundaries, and can't show my emotions in a healthy way..
lol "your not physicaly hurting your children, your a great mom, keep doing what your doing" no phyaicaly damage can be fix and heathed much easyer and physical abusce from a parent is more exspeted then mental and emotional abucse which is written off and "man up" or "grow up" emtional damage can hurt more then phyical and and last longer, parents like these are hurting there childrin more then they know and dont even relise it. they have no empathie for there childrin nor do they understand the long turn affects of this. i bet where gonna see a new wave of so called "disney stars" where all these kids are doing drugs, getting arested, lashing out and over all not knowing how to handle there emotions cause mommy and daddy showed then its cool to cause a scene if it meens your making money. these kids are over all doomed if they ever make it to adult hood
I swear your voice gets deeper every vid
So many people simply should not be parents.
Thought this might be abt Daddy Of Five
This totally reminded me of Do5
A lot of scary similarities for sure
I feel so bad for the children because holy crap this is awful. No parent should “prank” their child like this. When the daughter started crying because she thought she was getting a new dad she clearly said “stop” meaning to stop filming. If I was a parent I would never ever do this to my kids and if I did I would have at least stopped filming when she became distressed. It’s really not that hard. I don’t see why they need to include some of these clips or why the videos of them crying always get views. It honestly sickens me that the parents are claiming to be good parents but yet they continue to film their children in distress and clearly don’t listen to them or their boundaries. I hope some action is taken and I really want people to stop watching or following these kinds of people/content.
Of course the kid doesn’t believe the mum when she tries to assure her that they’re not getting a new dad; she’s brought them up knowing that she tricks them and lies to them. They’re going to have trust issues for life.
If uncle Herman uploads I drop everything and watch
Though not about family vlogging, I think this is worth sharing here:
I went to see a new horror movie called “X” last weekend, keep in mind this is a scary, gory, sexually explicit movie. As I walked in I noticed that 3 of the roughly 15 people in the theater were a young man, woman and their 2-3 year-old son in a stroller. I couldn’t believe it, they had the stroller facing the screen as the movie started. To the child’s credit he wasn’t making a fuss, talking or being distracting in any way for a while. Then there were jump scares, loud music stings, nudity and gore and the baby, still in the stroller watching the movie, started crying. The parents tried to shush him, but he was obviously distraught. Thank god they FINALLY had the decency to leave with him, but I couldn’t believe those parents would put their young child through that!
It’s really upsetting to see parents willfully ignore what could be severely negatively impacting their child psychologically.
family of five 2.0
Yess it's always a good day when my fave alpha male makes a new upload
I can´t wait for the kids that live in family like this to grow up and open up about their toxic vlog families.
This is horrendous. How can you put your kid through this?! Giving family channels a bad name
So glad ur back !
Family channels should be banned from RUclips. The damage they will cause to these generations of kids growing up in front of a camera without their consent
Unfortunately, as with Hollywood ala Jackie Coogan (California Child Actor's Bill) I'm terrified this won't be resolved until one of these kids has the inclination to introduce legislation to protect them. I'm not even sure how legislation to protect kids from labor exploitation online would work, but that's what this is-- labor exploitation via emotional distress. It's disgusting and disturbing. I would not associate with people like this, and I'd make sure they knew why.
PUPPY GETS HIS BY A CAR (warning: not for everyone to see) 🥴
Abusive parents is the genre of video content RUclips loves to keep monetized 🤑
Kudos to that preeschooltherapy guy. He is just right.
Can we go back to when family channels were just unwrapping surprise bags and vlogging about life as a new parent?
I know that this is a weird thing to focus on, but I just couldn't held but linger around the video title 'Our puppy got hit by a car.' It's almost been a year since my cat got hit and I still have trauma related to it. I get anxious when someone knocks on out front door too hard, watching my other cat still go outside is nerve racking. Down playing an animal's death in any way is just fucking disgusting.
I could barely get through the first video how does ANYONE watch that and not want to sob. Anyone defending them needs therapy cause obviously some shit happened in their life to think that’s ok
Some people have kids really just as accessories
Every person who uses their child or children for online content is a bad parent. You can't change my mind, it's just a fact.
Omg if you’re gonna do RUclips families PLS do the Saccone Jolys 💀💀
When you’ve messed with your kid SO much they can’t tell if you are being serious or not about getting a new father or not…
i genuinely was really triggered by that spraying video, how traumatic. i remember feeling voiceless, and parents are supposed to protect their children from that.
super late to comment but i hate this. Lots of parents think that since they have every right to do what they would like with their child, they abuse their power.
The new daddy was so cruel. These people don't deserve their children. WTF. 😱😱🤯🤯🤯
I love you uncle Herman
Omg I remember watching her like 6 years ago. She was a teen mom
And they say that having to take care of kids makes people mature... Not in this case.
Ohh this shit is so infuriating!! I hope they grow up and leave their mom in the old age home, alone
This is heartbreaking
she made him cry, thats just bullying, which is...... ABUSE. that clip was honestly so hard to watch, the poor kid was so distressed. it's clear people on social media nowadays only see kids or animals as a way for clout and money, and treat them like toys and objects
im so mad. even if this wasnt broadcast to millions kids dont get this "just a prank" bullshit where their parents just lie to scare them. it's fucked up
She has more videos of her kids crying than my kids have cried at all in the past three years. Jesus.
Have they never heard of daddy of 5?
Forever Mega Alpha.
children can’t comprehend and consent to things like that and it’s very unsettling to see parents film their children under distress and posting it on the internet for millions of people to see. the money and views and clout won’t mean anything in the long run when you exploit your kids. how you get money is how you lose it. nash grier is an excellent example of how family channels should be, he occasionally includes his child in his videos but his channel mainly focuses on him and his girlfriend. he does not shove a camera into his kid’s face all of the time just to get more views.
8:03 is the worst
The fuck?! How is this legal...
She did kick daddy out before thats why the girl cries
i blame Shay Carl for family exploitation
This is so damn gross
it's really stupid how people get so offended when you comment on their parenting. and i mean i get it, but in some cases like this YES these are bad parents, they're literally exploiting and using their kids for money by causing a ton of trauma to them.
Remember you've been framed?
That is your kids dont be mean Im not Joking!!😢
I have such a disdain for family vlogs and utter disappointment for the parents who display their childrens' lives for profit. Much like child stars, these children are left without choice or the understanding as to why their parents pushed them into a having the financial burden of maintaining their upper class lifestyles, without even realizing it. By forcing a camera in front of their face and humiliating them for all to see. To everyone who thinks what the parents are doing is "okay" or "funny", how would (genuinely) feel if that was you? If your parents recorded you and splashed your tantrum online for all to see? What if your classmates saw it? What about your future partners? Your job opportunities? Your children? The impact is there forever, even if it is deleted. If the parents want to document their own lives, they should do it because they have the understanding of the implications of what posting to the internet entails. The children do not. Something needs to change.