How To Be More Disciplined - 4 Ways To Master Self-Discipline and Achieve Your Goals
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You know how they say, “discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishments.” Discipline keeps you going when motivation and inspiration fail to. I believe that self-discipline is the ultimate key to any success. In this video, I share my personal tips that have helped me become a more self-disciplined person. These tips have worked for me and I am sure they will work for you too.
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Great advice!
Summary - 5 ways to be disciplined:
1. Set goals in paper
2. Start from small tasks
3. Optimize your life
4. Don't compare self discipline to others
5. Not to wait for perfect moment day
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The whole "waiting for the perfect day" was something I was definitely doing subconsciously. Thank you for calling me out on it- perhaps I can get more done efficiently
I used to be that person who waited for the perfect moment. It just never comes. You make the moment perfect ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva "Don't wait for the perfect time, the perfect time does not exist, You create the perfect time ! ! ! " - Eric Thomas
Your simple setting allows viewers to focus on you. Well done! Discipline should never waiver in retirement. It is so important for senior brains to not sleep in, not take naps, try to exercise throughout the day as one's body can, meditate, have hobbies, read, socialize, and learn new things constantly. I see too many people do none or very few of these activities and their health deteriorates. Discipline and being kind and positive always matter! Thank you!
Absolutely! Could not agree more with you on that ☺️
Love that. My grandma will be 92 in three weeks and for most of her life has volunteered and gone on walks. Not so much walking the past few years, but we attribute her habit of active lifestyle to her ongoing health!
*Jamila, you come across as one of the most organised and put together people.*
I know we only see a small glimpse into your life and who you're, but I think the fact that you juggle so many things at once, means you must be quite self-disciplined and well organised.
I love having images to keep me on track. Always feels so satisfying when I'm able to create something in my life that once used to be just a shiny image I cut from a magazine.
Thank you so much. I do have my low days too. It is not always as perfectly organized as it seems on camera. And yes, I also love seeing how I can turn my life into the images I aspired once ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva it's very reassuring to hear that you have your low and less organised days. Love all the work you put in your videos 💕
Do you offer any online certified courses for skills?
These tips are so practical and real because I practice some of them myself. I have been slacking off working out these days and this video is perfect.
Thank you so much 🙏🏻
A quote I heard on one of my favorite childhood shows relates to the tip where we don't wait for the perfect time, "Don't put off until tomorrow, what can be done today." I have stuck with this quote for a while, and life feels great.
Discipline is absolutely essential to the success of any endeavour.
Indeed 😊
Rule 4 11:57. Very important. Comparison in an unhealthy amount breeds envy and jealousy.
I do look up to you Miss Jamila in a good way. You inspire me 🤍🤍🤍
Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you for the video Jamila! I kept telling myself before that I should start practicing on self-discipline, but most of the time I just find it too difficult. But I met this one classmate of mine of who overflows so much elegance and self-discipline on her aura and made me want to be like her. When I happened to be in group with her, I kept on observing her action and how she talks. Then lately started to establish an action for myself to be like her. Inspiration really does it's magic to block you from mental obstacles that made you think it's impossible for you to do it. Lately I started to feel good about myself practicing self-discipline, until it slowly became a part of my personality. Though I'm not that highly self-disciplined as others, or like that classmate of mine, I could still say thanks to those habit, I tend to get things done before the deadline and often have time for myself. Also looking at my list of tasks slowly getting done drives me to work harder till I finished everything the whole day. Makes me feel like I'm finishing daily side quests in a game and feel not materially, but mentally rewarding.
Your channel also helps me so much on developing myself as I want to become a finer woman before I reached my 20s. Hehehe.
Thank you for your kind words!
Last point is really eye opening for me, I also learned one similarly important thing some years ago that is you don't also wait for person or situation to help you, like dont think that a miracle or one "hero" will come to your life to take you out of any unwanted situation you are in or any difficult phase of your life you are in.
You are your own hero ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva yess
Perfect topic, came at the right time!
Happy to hear ☺️
I was so down and lost for past few days. I ran out of inspiration and self discipline, consequently could see my dream drifting away from me. But you uploading this video on such time feels like a way of God saying that i should pick myself up and be disciplined. Thank you so much Jamila
I am so happy to hear it came at the right time to you 🥰
Your calmness and boldness is out of this world. I appreciate your timeless content ma'am.
Thank you 🙏🏻
Learning to tell myself, "Do it (the habit), because YOU MATTER", helps a lot.
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Dear Jamila, thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. You're an inspiration. You're such an elegant lady, would love to see your suggestions (video) on how to dress elegantly for college, please. 💕
Thank you very much ☺️
You should really know how much you affect me! I was feeling super down and doubting myself ..and then your video poped up in my notifications💖💖 Thanks a loot for making me feel better 💙 also for your team💝💝 pls never stop posting💕💕 Sevgiler 🌸🌺🌼
Thank you so much for saying it! It means a lot to me to be able to inspire people across miles ✨
Hi, Jamila! Since i started following your chanel i accidentally started doing all of the tricks and tips you talked about on this video, its amazing how even without actually saying something you were able to convey the message, and it's working really good for me, thank you so much!
I am so happy to hear it !
Jamila your encouraging advice is a welcome breath of hopefulness in this chaotic world. You help us to believe that by working hard towards developing ourselves fully in positive ways that the world can be better! Thank you for your optimism and for consistently representing your advice with grace, integrity and authenticity. 🌸
Thank you so much for such a kind message 🙏🏻
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my RUclips channel 6 months ago about self development. Now I have 581 subs and > 100 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
So happy to hear that! Congratulations and good luck!
@@JamilaMusayeva I sincerely appreciate such kind words! When I was a kid, all I wanted was to have a career that pays well so I can buy whatever I want but now that I’m grown up and went through tons of setbacks from losing tons of people in my life, getting lost in the world with full of life traps, being ridiculed for pursuing my dreams, and so on, I can say that long-lasting happiness can’t be bought or earned because it comes from within us.
Continue to grow as a person and I’m so glad that you’re part of this journey! I’m hoping to upload my next one this month, which is more than an hr long. I’ve been working hard for many months now to present it in the best way I can while keeping in mind that I can never make it perfect. I hope that you’ll enjoy it! Thanks so much for your support!
Your content is really amazing 👏 😍 and practical,im on my journey to self improvement and this video is perfect.
Thank you! I am glad it helps you ☺️
Hello Jamila, I genuinely appreciate your content. Thank you. I also want to ask if it’s possible for you to do a video on hair like if it’s long/medium/short, curly/straight, pulled up/opened down, color, and things like that. What is more elegant and feminine?
Hi Jamila 👋 I saw that you commented on Blake lively 's video where she breaks her met gala looks . I always admired Blake she is a wonderful woman , whether it's her career or marriage she is thriving in it . Not only is she a strong independent woman but also has a amazing style that people always talk about .she is so charming and always able to capture very one 's heart . I request you to make a video on these type of woman ..like how to be so put together .please consider my request 🙏😊
Thank you! I admire her too! I think she is a great model in Hollywood for young generation: decent, well-spoken and elegant
I love this quote “the master once was a disaster”
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This is a very good video .staying busy reading and your facts on taking notes .Your English is getting better Everytime I hear you speaking .So clear.I also heard you speaking Arabic. And Russian. I'm very glad your so caring .
Thank you very much for taking suggestions on video topics .
Thank you so much, Jamila! You gave me some inspiration I lost. You remind me who I really am. I need to hear right words to move forward and to achieve all the exciting goals I want to achieve in my life
You go, Kamila ✊🏻
I can not thank you enough, Ms Jamila. I really appreciate your video. Moreover I see you put tremendous effort. Good luck
Thank you 🙏🏻
Dear Jamila,
Thank you so much for this video. A long time ago I fell in love with your channel and I subscribed. At the moment I am going through a very challenging part of my life and your advice is helping me not to lose myself and the direction where I want to be.
Thank you so much! i am so happy to hear it ❤️
Thank you so much Jamila for doing this video! I realized that you are one of my role models and I really admire you so much! Thank you for another wonderful video. Lots of love
Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you! This motivated me a lot and I'm going back to do my tasks. And I really want you to make more motivating videos. You are my Role Model 🙂.
Thank you ❤️
Miss Jamila, I am very motivated and inspired by you. I hope to be like you when I grow up. Thank you for your videos, you are my role model. 😊❤️
I just wanna say that u r my role model like u r such a calm and composed personality....just by looking at the way u speak makes me relaxed...thank u♥️♥️🙏🙏
Thank you 🙏🏻
dear Jamila,i hope you make more videos about education of children. By the way,Jamila means "beautiful" in arabic and and it's so true for you ^^
Thank you ❤️
This video was very well needed. Couldn't have been a better timing! Thank You so much!
Thank you 🙏🏻
Thanks dear Jamila for sharing with us these important recommendations.
You are welcome!
Sister i have learned a lot of table manner and applying them now many ppl compliments me i enjoy this a lot! Take love 😍
I am glad to hear that!
Hi, Jamila! I love your videos! I have good posture now and your sitting, eating, and picking up something on the floor etiquette really helped me! Thank you so much for posting. You inspire me. ♡
I am happy to hear that!
Thank you so much for this video! Yes, starting now! To put things down as soon as the idea is there. As someone who always waits for the “perfect moment”, this is the first thing that I’m going to change. I’m looking forward to this journey of self-discipline 😊 Thank you so much for all the videos that you make. They’re really helpful! 💖 Wishing you all the best ✨⭐️🌟
Thank you for your kind words ✨
Great tips! I would love more inspiration on how to be authoritarian at work without seeming like a pushover and make your colleagues dislike you.
Good idea. Since I work mainly alone with a small number of people in my team it is a bit different in my case. We are small and each does what is required of him/her.
Hey Jamila all though you are busy thanks for your efforts this have inspired me a lot
Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you very much. I appreciate you again and again.Thıs video helped me to be motivated and start my plans with small tasks. You are right we should start with small steps I have done that and it really works . Again thank you for giving us more knowledge about it. I really appreciate ❤you and wish you to achieve all your future ambitions .
Thank you for your kind feedback ❤️
Thank you--this is great. I would also add that a good technique is to learn how to negotiate with oneself. By that I mean we should tell ourselves that there'll be a small reward if we complete an arduous task. An example would be: 'if I do X work task, I'll reward myself by checking Facebook for a few minutes or making a tea'.
Sis... ♡Your voice is so sweet ♡
Oh thank you
Great Video ... Your voice feels like therapy
Thank you 🙏🏻
Hii...
Your videos always inspire me alot it gives me motivation and lot more energy and i feel really happy when i see your video. Thank you soo much... 😊😊
Thank you for your kind words ✨
This is great .Thank you for creating this video .All these steps are simple you define it very well and you let interests know very fully .You conduct your words and orchestration, so very well.
Would love to see tips on motivation, goals, productivity, etc. as an ongoing series!
Thank you.
Wow! I wonder how would this apply to my diet. I have discipline some days and others I’m terrible 🤷🏻♀️
Thank you for your videos! They have really helped me in my daily life! Can you please do a video about opera and theatre etiquette because I feel like I'm lacking a bit in that department and I also had a situation when I was wearing a nice but not vulgar short-sleeved dress and my mother wanted to give me her jacket because she thought I would be cold. I told her several times that I was not cold and would not need a jacket, but she insisted until I became uncomfortable and accepted her jacket so as not to attract attention.
Thank you! I will note it down ☺️
Thank you Jamila for making this 💕 I have been watching you since your dining etiquette video and you have always been a teacher and a mentor to me and you specially made this video on my request.....I am really glad....Thank you once again 💕
You are welcome! 🙏🏻
I gain so much even just by looking at a self disciplined person through a video😊 Thank you
Thank you!
Would love a video on etiquette on dressing and clothing!
Noted ☺️
Hi I can understand this very well THANK YOU VERY MUCH. for taking suggestions on videos .Also applying the ideas in these videos ,this is very well explained .
Much needed video✨thank you Jamila 🌹
You are welcome 🙏🏻
Love Jamila here since the beginning ❤
Thank you 🙏🏻
Gracias, realmente necesitaba este video, últimamente he estado procrastinando mis estudios, pero quiero tener más autodisciplina 🤗
De nada ☺️
Hello there Miss Jamila, I wanted to thank you for creating contents like this. You are a very elegant and well mannered person and I've always admired you for that. And I'm glad i found your channel. Your videos always inspire me and motivates me to be a better person. This video is perfect for my situation right now. I used to be a disciplined person back then, but something happened that made Me lose my progress. That's why I'm thanking you for this because now I'm motivated to get back on that progress again and to be more disciplined.
Thank you for your kind words! I truly appreciate them ❤️ good luck to you!
Really Helpful! Also I love your voice so much🥺❤
Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you Jamila, your videos are very insightful; I found this one in particular very inspiring for me.
I am glad to hear that!
Thank you so much! I’ve been eager for a video like this. All of these tips are so practical and definitely help as a graduating student and young professional, having been burnt out lately!
You are welcome
You are my mentor now i hope if you would like to share with us how you start your morning routine, books you read , affirmations that you use ,how you use film your videos how you can remember your scripts without a mistake
You are gorgeous god bless u
Noted ☺️
Video Suggestions:
Proper dating etiquette for women
I think you should make a podcast
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Please share lipliner combo used today☺️
Can you please do a video on how to be more mature in everything? ( Behavior, thinking , manners , appearance, responsibility ) And how to create your own style & carry it smartly ?
By style you mean lookwise?
@@JamilaMusayeva yes
Oh yes! Please make a video on
1)How to be more mature and
2)How to create your own style( both lookwise and personality wise).
this is really great and helpful😊❤
I'm so glad!
Wow, thank you so much Jamila, I really need to hear this. I look up to you as an inspiration you are a great role model! Thank you!
Thank you 🙏🏻
I really needed this! Will try to follow this from now , thank you so much ♥️
You are welcome!
Thank you so so much for Jamila for this video because it is very very important for us and I really really love your videos a lot and I wish you reach 700K Subscribers very very soon!♥️☺️✨
Thank you! 🙏🏻
Ur voice is so soothing. It’s so feminine .
Thank you!
Another inspiring video, thank you Jamila! I would love a video on how to be an engaging public speaker. I also LOVED your video on parenting, and another suggestion is another video on parenting. Also, perhaps a video on your own personal aesthetic and what it means to you.
Thank you ❤️
Thanx you 😊
Really a very much informative, knowledgable, encouraging, inspirational and motivational session. 🙂😊.
Thank you 🙏🏻
@@JamilaMusayeva most welcome ☺😊.
Very good tips
Thanks!
This is a great video, thank you Jamila. Would be nice to know your tips on healthy eating!
Thank you 🙏🏻
Daily Laws!! Oh wow, it seems you are the whole package! You are awesome
Thanks 🙏🏻
You're a blessing
Really helpful and valuable video, thank you, Jamila! Would like to hear your opinion and thoughts on topics Iike "Learning to say No when you have too much on your plate", "People-pleaser phenomenon and how to stop this habit" - all in the area of work attitude and building a good relationship with your clients, manager, friends, etc. 🙂💛
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Cox sag olun 🙏🏻
Please make a few videos on etiquettes for men
U r my second to none motivation☺️❤️
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Thank you for sharing . 🇬🇧💛🤍
Your vedios are helpful and effective. Thank you Jamila.
Thank you!
Thank you!
You are welcome ☺️
A very clear n easy explanation, thanks dear♥️
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I love this!
Thanks!
exam season......perfect timing as always lol. Never regretted subscribing :)
Thank you
Such a helpful video ❤❤
Wow great video and so well described. Thank you very much 🙏🏼 🌸
You are welcome
Great video! Too much learning.
Thank you!
Greetings Lady Jamila,
Ok.. Thanks.. Good.. Take Care..
With regards,
RanjithJoseph (R.J)
Thanks
That first is so me, i always do
Thank you so much ❤️🥰
You are welcome ✨
You are my role model! Thank you for these videos! Especially this one. How do you manage to incorporate looking put together every day? I'm interested in that kind of disciple as well. It is so time-consuming to keep on top looking like a lady when there are other important tasks to be done. Have you found a good way to maintain your clothes, hair, nails, etc? What is your beauty discipline? Thank you so much for your help! 🥰
Thank you very much 🙏🏻✨
Great work thanx 😊
Thanks!
Great video !
Thank you!
Can someone summarize the tips?
Best one 🎀
Thank you!
9:00 that's my biggest mistake, I keep forgetting that I am a human and I have limits..