How to DETACH FROM PEOPLE and SITUATIONS | STOICISM
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- How to DETACH FROM PEOPLE and SITUATIONS STOICISM
Discover the essence of Stoicism and learn how to detach yourself from people and situations with our insightful guide, inspired by the profound teachings of Marcus Aurelius and his 'Meditations'. Our comprehensive approach delves into the art of how to emotionally detach from someone, particularly someone you love, by embracing the principles of Marcus Aurelius' Stoicism. We provide practical tips on how to become more Stoic, how to stop obsessively thinking about someone, and how to improve emotional intelligence. Our content is enriched with stoic quotes for a strong mind and highlights Stoic rules for life, offering a pathway to mastering self-discipline. Whether you're seeking to practice Stoicism in daily life or looking to deepen your understanding, our guide is a pivotal resource for anyone aiming to cultivate a Stoic mindset and achieve mental tranquility
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00:00 - INTRO
01:34 - Step 1: Step Away from That Person for a While
03:35 - Step 2: Consider the Rationality of Distancing Yourself
06:11 - Step 3: Have a Chat with Someone You Can Rely On
08:48 - Step 4: Establish Limits for Your Feelings
11:11 - Step 5: Thoughtfully Consider the Potential Consequences of Distancing Yourself
13:25 - Step 6: Give Yourself a Break from Social Media
16:13 - Step 7: Focus Deliberately on Your Fundamental Needs
19:13- CONCLUSION
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Sir, if you don't mind me asking something
I would like to have your opinion on something that takes a while to explain
If I can give you my email to send to I feel bad asking for yours is that ok.
I understand and respect if not,
Either way I still thank you for your patience and time
I'm learning thanks to what you have shared
This is good to listen to... wisdom is always needed!
WHY do these stoic teachers or speakers think they need a background of music? Most of that music is very annoying , some times disturbing, overbearing, and much too loud. We want to listen to the speaker, we can listen to music of our choice on our own time! THANK YOU
Other people are not here to complete us, they are here to add to our experience of life
Thats right. We are here to complement one another and not “complete”
@@thestoiccommunity We know what "we" are here to do, but "other people" might not see it quite that way at all.
Every interaction we choose to participate in, is a + or a -. I guess 98-99% is a -, so its preferable to not participate in them. We can choose to decline the 98-99% ,though it reqiures a lot of focus, ressisting them.
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When you are not whole, completion is what you seek.
Everyone lights up a room; some, when they enter, others, when they leave.
Nice, love it! ❤
Don’t be intimidated, feel obligated, or guilty if you feel the need to quietly & peacefully step away from any group of people if the mindset, teachings or whatever get repetitive, & are no longer serving you. Spiritual growth, new discoveries, perceptions …are precious gifts, & must be protected even if few understand.
That is so true. Thanks for sharing your opinion
Thank you for this! I needed this!
It's spiritually exhausting
I walked away from people and society altogether many years ago,
it was the best decision of my life,
and I have been much happier, and more importantly, content ever since.
Society is just a bunch of empty people who have such a deep need and desire to fit in, be liked, and be "trendy" that they will actually trick/train themselves to do, think, speak, behave in ways they don't actually like, just to be part of society/whichever clique they decide they want to be part of and accepted into.
The entertainment industry, meaning all of it, movies, tv shows, music, sports, etc... and social media are the most effective efficient and powerful tools used to steer society and each of its "groups"
Every time I have to be out among population it's like I'm surrounded by programmed robots,
I did this with a language exchange group I was attending recently. Then, I started my own instead! Best decision I have made in a long time 😅
Im going thru a separation, which may result in a divorce. It was during this time that I came across this channel, and am a relatively new subscriber. But to all who are going thru similar challenges, I say this to you; find that inner strength and stand on it. Even in the darkest parts, stand on your core values. Trust what you know. Rember that you can only control your response, you cannot control what's outside of you. Don't seek to repay hurt for hurt, but stand by your moral plumline. Its not the end of the road, just the end of a chapter in your life.
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I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time, but I'm glad you found this channel. Thank you for sharing your words of encouragement and strength with others who may be facing similar challenges. Remember that you are not alone, and it's important to stand firm in your core values during difficult times. Stay strong, trust yourself, and focus on what you can control. Wishing you strength and resilience as you navigate through this difficult period.
For now I am going through the same process and situation after 19 years of relationship and 15 years of marriage with 2 kids. At least I don’t feel anymore alone going through such things. 2 years ago we decided to move completely from Romania to Denmark. After 2 years of living here, danish school, kids school and tremendous physical effort, wife broke down to ask separation, pushing me away. That kinda of “thanks for all sucker” type of approach, saying that she has no more feeling for me.😮Anyway, here I try to find some inspiration and some wisdom for continuing my life journey.
Thank you for this. I'm really struggling right now and almost on the verge of shattering. I hate this feeling of being so weak. But I'm trying and trying. It's a lot of effort and I want to believe that soon this will all be behind me. Knowing others have done so helps.
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16 yrs ago Neville Goddard (long departed) helped me in my darkest hour.
Following his principle my life changed beyond all recognition.
He was just what i needed.
May you be blessed on your sojourn through this realm💜🙏🏻💜
"The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts." - Marcus Aurelius
Completely True
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Ohhhh yesss ❤
Be careful who you vent to,a listening ear can be a running mouth.-unknown-
Yeah that’s a hard lesson
I learnt this the hard way.couldnt agree more
Yep learned this the hard way
Remember to..."Choose your confidant wisely.", from the Stoic Community. Thank you for this wisdom.♥️
Thank you for your positive feedback. And glad that line resonated with you
Happiness does not lie in possessing much, but rather in being content with little
My cuz used say when you are happy with nothing, all else is gravy
Being around some people, is like hugging a cactus.
Finding this channel has been a fruitful blessing to my life in 2024.
Thank you for this positive feedback. And glad it has been a fruitful blessing for you
The mere fact that I am hurt and going through a breakup, this is the advice that I needed. Distancing myself from toxic people and sitiuations who disturb my inner peace, brings me peace.
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a breakup, but I'm glad to hear that the advice resonated with you. It's important to prioritize your inner peace and distance yourself from toxic people and situations. Taking care of yourself is crucial during difficult times. Stay strong and take the time you need to heal.
@@thestoiccommunity will do, sir. Thank you.
Same here. Much needed.
It's a great video my friend....
Me too suffering from great 💔
this is what i really want at this moment.. crying while watching! hope this will give me courage to step back... it hurts a lot... but i need to, to save myself from shattering
In today's society, when millions of all ages suffer with anxiety, the wisdom of the ancients echos as loudly as ever.
Absolutely
Trying to be stoic and step away from my husband who almost killed me and our unborn child for trying to expose him to police after catching him with an underage mentally challenged girl who he would get drunk. It almost cost me my life. I’ve been with him since I was 13 yrs old and it’s been hard. But the restraining order is helping me. I have to do it for self preservation ❤
I'm so sorry to hear about what you've been through. It takes incredible strength to step away from such a dangerous situation, especially after being with someone for so long. It's important to prioritize your safety and well-being, and it's great to hear that the restraining order is helping you. You are incredibly brave, and I hope you continue to prioritize your self-preservation.
Move away. This man shows serious capabilities of harm towards you. Change your job, email, social media . Disappear without a trace. This sounds like Narcissistic Personality disorder. RUN…….For your life. And never look back.
That is horrific. God bless you for standing for what is right. I pray for you and your beautiful child. Stay strong
@@thestoiccommunity thank you, we have to do what is right. Pray for me, I now have to go to physical therapy because of the blows and kicks to my head, spine and back. It gives me headaches, neck and back pain so bad that if I stand up or sit up for a few minutes I start having trouble breathing and feel like I’m going to faint. We have 4 other children and it’s been taking a toll on our daily lives. I can’t work due to the pains that I get. They already did CT scan and x-rays but they can’t do anymore because of the high amount of radiation. Pray for my baby and my children. Thank you.
@@splash-qi5kn thank you 🙏🏼
I had a really dificult time removing a few negative, complaining, whiney people from my life.
once I did, I felt free, renewed and empowered.
I feel you ❤
Something similar happened with me. Toxic people will just drag you down with them
"Know, first, who you are, and then adorn yourself accordingly." - Epictetus
True 💯
" Sometimes even life is an act of courage." - Seneca
Well, I must admit that I have always been a very emotional person, very empathetic, wanting justice for all. And it nearly destroyed me. Walking away wasn't possible for me. Instead, I was fighting all my life against windmills. And it made me tired and bitter. Now is time for change. I heard these advice before - not from people known as stoic.
Anyway, it was definitely worth watching the video. I suppose I will watch it again.
Im an empath & this is helping me. Make sure to listen to it everyday so it can register in ur subconcious mind
Me too. But actually nothing wrong with that. Where this world population are busy with their own greediness, we still have a place in our heart for compassion and universal love. Isn't it beautiful?
I’m always taking a step back from certain people until I realize that I should just leave them alone permanently and by taking that step back, I always learn something and appreciate it to the fullest!!
Your video is certainly providing some very wise counsel!! 💯💯💯💯
Thank you, for your Wisdom & guidance. We all need Stoicism. Blessings &Lov
#7 is the step I am going to focus on. I've been dealing with loss and depression for a long time. The ways I use to get back my peace and recharge don't work now. This was an encouragement for me to focus on this issue for myself. Since I no longer have a support person for this personal growth encouragement, THANK YOU!
I needed this one so bad today. Thankyou from the bottom of my heart. Thankyou.
You are most welcome. Glad it was valuable to you. And thank you for your feedback
This is like much/ needed self-help therapy, thank you.
Glad it is helpful to you. Thank you for your positive feedback
Today is the day I detached from this whole problem thanks 👍
Best wishes
Today is the day , and forever.
The clarity of self-love, removing myself from people who do not enhance my life. I feel there’s a lot of benefits to this.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's great to hear that you're prioritizing your own well-being. Keep focusing on what enhances your life.
Social media break. Reflect ok previous detachments and their outcomes( which always ended up being positive in the long run)😊
Thank you for sharing this
I never get attached to anyone emotional, mentally & materially. Once you have the Lord & The Church, walah! You have everything. Amen. Octogenarian.
Voilà***
I'll go back and watch this again, thank you! I might need this again one of these days
Thank you so much for your comment! I'm glad you found the video helpful. Feel free to come back and watch it again anytime you need to.
I let a woman treat me like garbage and I keep going back we have kids is my reason I must fully detatch for survival
Right now I am taking my break from Social media and working on my goals checklist. I am gyming 5 days a week weight training and 3x a week for my boxing of 12-3 min rds. Looking at increasing financial literacy and clearing up debt. I’ve been practicing Stoicism about 1.5 to 2 yrs now and it has strengthened my Emotional Intelligence, my ability to prefer isolation and solitude on my 24 acre Ranch and capability to cut off none beneficial relationships that are non conducive to my Life. Love the channel and the Knowledge that is Always Shared. Blessings and Respect.
If one is generous in spirit, words and deeds, unless deep appreciation is coming towards one, it’s time to walk.
Yeah you right!
This is educative and the more I listen, the stronger I am becoming to attack my situations
Step 1 2 3 and 4 Have to master these to move on.
🎉🎉🎉 thank u have been suffering from a broken heart. Returning to myself. scary place never acknowledged me really. am working to get to a better version of me for Me.
Hey there! I'm sorry to hear that you've been going through a tough time with a broken heart. It's great to see that you're focusing on returning to yourself and working towards becoming a better version of you. Remember, self-improvement is a journey, and it's important to be kind to yourself along the way. Keep moving forward!
Stepping back, not necessarily completely away, from social media for quiet time and reassessing what serves my higher good versus the frenetic activity of social media. Not worded well, but I know what brings me peace and clarity. Now more than ever during a painful and difficult time in my life.
Fear of lose, not anymore. Sometimes i feel "love" is a mistake and I'm no longer doing that shit again in the end you never win 👎
Thanks for sharing your opinion. However, I think there are people who have experienced something different
@@thestoiccommunity true, however I don't give a shit about the people I'm only speaking about my experiences 👈
@@kratoscraken5614it took me a Great Deal time to from my shock to Learn how building the number of experiences that were good, pleasant or just had a kind of understanding of how it over time I understand was something that I understood it does get to make it manage easier. But hey I will definitely admit I felt despair and a deep sense of loneliness and no way to explain or seemed i could communicate what I was feeling, experiencing or the shift in how much it had in how much difference in how I perceived many things I couldn't ever begin to image how it seemed then
It's hard to perceive any joy or hope closer to when the lose occurring
Discovering Stoicism helped me a lot to realize what’s wrong with me , it helps me to see through my mistakes and flaw’s through out my relationship , My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago this helped me to see things clearly.
Thank you. Life circumstances have brought me the challenge of parenting a13 year old granddaughter, as her mother died two years ago.
This has been Incredibly difficult for both of us. I recently sent her to stay with a friend. She feels very rejected by my doing so. This helps me share with her why I needed that to happen. That is not a rejection of her, it is a clarification of my love my love for her. Now I can write her a letter of love instead of self defense.
Glad this video helped you in clarifying your love for your granddaughter. Thank you for sharing this with us
So important for me right now.
Im pleased i got to hear this today, at the right moment.
Interesting a simple logic philosophy can remind you.... Sometimes we do need reminding .
Stepping away from a person, I found the most effective. The mental and emotional space is what I need to be clear of a situation, and then I would know how to handle myself from being overwhelmed with hurt and lonely feelings.
Thank you for sharing your insight. Taking a step back can indeed provide the clarity needed to handle overwhelming emotions.
This is fantastic. Thanks so much for posting this. I've been going through the process of detaching from someone in my life and this is very helpful.
Glad you found the content helpful. Detaching from someone in your life can be a challenging process, but I'm glad to know that the information provided has been beneficial to you.
Your happiness depends upon you believe me I learned this well when I paid more attention to the peoples that was in my life they were there to take while I was the giver thank you
This video came at a time in my life where i needed it the most, it saved my life and it's making me remember what matters. I don't need a toxic individual in my life who causes conflict within me.
I'm so glad to hear that this video came into your life at the right time and had such a positive impact on you. Remembering what truly matters and recognizing toxic influences is an important step towards a healthier and happier life. Thank you for sharing your experience.
"You always own the option of having no opinion. There is never any need to get worked up or to trouble your soul about things you can't control. These things are not asking to be judged by you. Leave them alone." - Marcus Aurelius
Men and Women are the strengths of society. They need to be happy with the roles they fulfill for a fulfilled society.
Today is the day, now and forever, l will heal
I will grow
I wil be true to my values
I will find someone whom l trust
I will gain clarity and perspective of all good things in my life’s path.
Thank you.❤
Yes,
Development of skills and strategies in managing situations especially on interpersonal relationship counts.
I just stumbled upon this youtube channel yesterday, and I absolutely LOVE it! Sure could’ve used this wisdom several years ago…but I am never too old to learn!
Thank you for finding my channel! I'm glad you're enjoying the content. It's never too late to learn and I'm happy to have you on this journey with us.
Whoever you are, you articulate well the words that cannot be express. Very insightful!
Thank you for your feedback
Whao! All the steps are full of invaluable wisdoms, and non of the steps are dispensable.
Many good points of wisdom!!!!❤
Thank you
If you’re reading this comment, it’s too late, you’ve already been immensely blessed with an abundance of love, wealth, luck, health, joy, and whatever else your heart desires!! I’m so proud of you for surviving everything you’ve been through. This is your sign to go after what your heart most desires for the highest good, it’s your time....
Thank you for this message. It really hit home.❤
when feelings cloud our vision
a step back helps us observe them
like watching clouds drift across the sky
Well said
Trying them all!❤
Thank you for sharing this wisdom I’m grateful!
This is the Best channel for Men.
Thank you
Wonderful creation of wisdom peace integrity honesty respectability honorablity in our life is your stoic lessons that you are providing us like a super tasty meal that we must be mindful when we are eating. I cannot explain how much watch deserving your honest thoughts and contributions are worth in terms of peaceful life.
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A session while slowly using my elliptical. I feel like I am feeding my head while I exercise my body. Thank you for all of these gems 💎
EXCELLENT!! ❤
Thank you 🙏🏼
You are most welcome. Thank you for your feedback
I'm thankful for all these videos and messages they're very inspiring ❤
Thank you for your insightful feedback
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Thank you for this informative presentation. I enjoyed listening and learning new way of dealing with life emotional challenges.❤
It's important to know who you are before you adorn yourself.
Well said. We should know ourself first
Thank you
Thank you ❤
You're welcome. Thanks for watching
These videos are helping me so much
Thank you for taking the time to put them out for us, they are wonderful.
Glad they have been helpful
Briljante Video ek het baie geleer!
Very helpful
Glad it helped
Live intentionaly
True life to live by
Stoicism is a Bomshell
Safe house fr ones sanity.Avoiding stress
strain interuption.
I love this helps in giving me help for my answers🎉
I appreciate. Thank you.
You're very welcome. Glad it helped
Thank you so much 😊 I relate detached take a break so I can get clarity of what is about that person that eats my lunch and I get hurt 😞 love your wisdom 🖐️
Thank you
Put a note on it and warn him or her that I might kick his ass. 😂 Or maybe that person is so poor and can't afford food? Either way let us know.
I really enjoyed this, thank you
Glad you enjoyed it
Brilliant content!
I love this video....tanks fellow stoic
Thanks a lot for your feedback. Glad you love it
Thank you! It raises to a higher degree of our values...It is really a powerful lessons in a tool for our success..and..It's nice to apply in our daily lives. Thank you very much.🙏
Glad you found it applicable to your daily life. Stay tuned for more content like this
Thanks for the wonderful content. I think instead of rules based solutions, one should observe from a distance just to know the truth as it is. For example, instead of trying to understand why i became angry, i must remove the "anger" from my condition and see it as such, not as my or someone else's anger and only then the pure anger and its orgin and movement will be doubtlessly visible.
(Fortus Vida) strong life!
This is so helpful
2024, i am going to live and breath intentionally with stoic principles.
That's a great goal! Living and breathing intentionally with stoic principles can bring a lot of clarity and peace to your life. It's a powerful way to navigate the ups and downs that come our way. Best of luck on your journey
Thanks@@thestoiccommunity
Reading through the comments I know I'm not alone , I'm new subscriber and thanks for the video
Glad you found it helpful and welcome to our stoic community
Brilliant 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
Thank you
well said
Stoicism made the difference: this time was different.
Toxic people and situations should not be tolerated. You can't change them, so stop trying. Walk away.
Introspection is mandatory if one wants to have clarity of mind, heart, and spirit. As many philosophers have said in many ways - know yourself to the marrow of your being, all your faults, weaknesses, and hidden/secret places within your psyche as well as those parts of you that are positive and strong. How else will you know what needs to be addressed, healed, cut away, or changed for the better? That time alone, away from the crowd? Make it mandatory and regular. Meditation is important.
Integrity at all times in all things, and most especially with yourself. Any friend should also be a person of absolute integrity so that you have a confident and advisor.
Detachment from everyone and everything periodically is, in my estimation, a small piece of paradise available to us mere mortals if we discipline ourselves to partake of it.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on toxic people and the importance of introspection and integrity. It's so true that we can't change toxic people and situations, and it's important to walk away from them. Introspection and meditation are indeed crucial for clarity of mind, heart, and spirit. Detaching from everything periodically can truly feel like a piece of paradise. Your insights are valuable and I appreciate you taking the time to share them.
@@thestoiccommunity Thank you.
GOOD 👍
Star Wars is epic!
yes, I ve been there...possible the deepest pain known, it holds on everything you value, the world crumbles down.
Thank you for this valuable information. All of your videos inspire me to be my best person. Could you perhaps make a video on dealing with distancing oneself or complete removal from a hurtful Jekyel/ Hide parent? Thank you again for sharing your wisdom.
Thank you for sharing your request, and I appreciate your support. Stay tuned for the upcoming videos
Beautiful
Thank you
“The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.” - Marcus Aurelius
Sometimes you are stuck with some people that you just can’t discard but they add absolutely nothing to your life.
Rational Reality Readiness 😊
All of this makes sense, but it's very hard to do when it's your adult child you must distance yourself from...😢
I’m going thru the same. It’s HARD . . stay stoic, respect yourself!! ❤
I am going through the same thing...If it was anyone else it would be so much easier 💚💪✌️🙏
Sagacity 🔥
Yes 💯
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Thank you
This has been very helpful for me passing of my wife
Thank you for sharing. I'm glad I could help.