I'm almost 40 never dated and my dad viciously and violently beat me for 30 years, and l absolutely hated his guts, and when he finally died two years ago, l didn't shed a tear now l chose to forgive him because l didn't want that dark cloud always hanging over my head and let it go and doing so l was able to grow closer to God.
I wish I've had the words to comfort you. I'm almost 60 years old and by now I know to be careful with words. It is amazing that you can talk about this wrong doings of your father. I've made peace with all I've had to endure so far. It made me healed and being free. God bless
All this 'stoic' content is propaganda. They want you quiet, unengaged, passive so they can dominate in the sphere of public opinion! Its a fact that when someone makes a false assertion that goes unopposed, then its interpreted as fact or truthful. When someone lies... call them out immediately every time!
Absolutely, taking a moment to pause and reflect instead of reacting in anger can save us so much emotional energy. A smile can transform the situation and our mindset. Great reminder.
You can feel free in. A inhumane cage, I found that 5ooo hours in lock up almost broke me, The holy Spirit saved me from myself, Thankyou for listening in ❤
All this 'stoic' content is propaganda. They want you quiet, unengaged, passive so they can dominate in the sphere of public opinion! Its a fact that when someone makes a false assertion that goes unopposed, then its interpreted as fact or truthful. When someone lies... call them out immediately every time!
Anger is an emotion just like happiness is. Its what you do when you are angry that matters. Remove toxic people from your circle and you won't be angry.
I disagree If someone makes you angry, you need to look at it, study it and learn why It might be your own trauma I am reconciling with my x girlfriend When she makes me angry I catch it now and express it in a way that is helpful to her and me You can shift it and grow Sometimes you have to leave though you’re right But it’s a half truth
If you’re reading this comment, it’s too late, you’ve already been immensely blessed with an abundance of love, wealth, luck, health, joy, and whatever else your heart desires!! I’m so proud of you for surviving everything you’ve been through. This is your sign to go after what your heart most desires for the highest good, it’s your time....
My father was a middle weight boxer in the 40s.And he told me a man is more of a man.If he can walk away from a fight then get into it. Because it takes a lot of self control Not to react but to step away. And you think about it, it's so easy to react.It's so easy to lash out and get angry and lose your sense of control.But how much hardor is it to be in control. The more you practice the better you get at it
My character not my things is what made me who I'm Wow am happy to hear that I need to remind myself all the time Thank you so much I want to live a happy and meaningful life and am leaning every day God bless you 🙏🙏
Wow the truth in these words. I'm happy today because I have been using some of these words in my life. Thank you for the teachings I will sure share with others!
My ex wife divorced and left me 10 years ago. God told me about achieving my MBA in Organizational Leadership online. My aunt Jeanette told me the divorce was a great blessing. Earned my MBA and volunteering for non-profit organizations.
I thought my mane problem and focus was Money when all in actuality it was my Anger. Which it took for me to get closer to God to really understand and be more aware. It makes me sad to be more aware of my anger in my late 30s knowing all the people i hurt in the past because of my short temper. The good thing is that im aware of my anger more and when im aware im better at controlling it. Being wrongly accused or spreading false rumors is when i lose control but im working on it day by day.
Stoicism and Christianity have so many components alike and can work together so well, for me, it's refreshingly uncanny. Except for the indifference stoicism possesses and the overly/endless niceness Christianity many times has, they marry quite well and puts you in the right mindset of thinking to deal with the every day occurrences of a life. A GREAT COMBO PLATE OF PHILOSOPHIES for everyone on earth!!!
That's an interesting take! I totally agree that there are many parallels between Stoicism and Christianity, especially when it comes to focusing on virtues, self-discipline, and finding peace amidst challenges. The differences, like Stoicism's emotional indifference and Christianity's emphasis on compassion, can actually complement each other when balanced well. Together, they offer a holistic approach to living a meaningful and grounded life. Definitely a combo worth exploring.
There are 7 emotions including anger. Anger is a sign that something is wrong in your life. It helps you to grow and protect yourself. It's normal and OK to be angry. It's not dirty or negative or bad. You don't know why that person is angry or what's going on in their life either. They could have lost every member of their family and could be in a stage of grief.
''fear has made the world's problems worse, but it has not fixed any of them yet.'' This is all said in one wow. I was listening, reading and much practiced and still shape myself but this one is big. you really help but like getting a man out of hell and agony. Appreciate the time.
I am still occasional feeling angry to what happened to me in my last relationship. I had been blind of believing and giving all and help as much 😢and once I was all empty in the bank, that evil woman left. I picked myself up and being angry really had done more damaged than making my life move forward . It was poison and toxic to us if we dont control our anger, now ive learned to control my anger more and those past were just a cloud that went past or just a story that I ve read. Thank you for more wisdom, Ijust wish I had come across with STOICISM before. You are really a good guidance to all🙏🙏🙏👌👍👍👍🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
This video not only helps me better understand the dangers of anger but also reminds me that calmness and patience are the keys to peaceful living. 'You are the first person your anger hurts' - such a truthful statement!
Stoic values have helped me the most, to date, I have been having various bouts with conflicting interests, and what I perceive as a synchronicity in just about every calculated move I make in society, and it has been the stoic values of blissful ignorance of whatever it is that is going on around me, remaining calm in any circumstance is the goal, and it is attainable....
I'm threw no plan of my own. Am a Heyoka Empath. I spent More years than i Care to count. Obsorbing every pain Hurt Mental maddness of my crippled Dad Transmitted on to me. Loved my dad. I Gained A mental hardness. When My Dad Died. I Knew to the Minute when He Slipped. He Was in Gresham i Was in Eastern Oregon.
I listened to this entire message while out ridimg my mountain bike through the woods in light rain. The most powerful quote in the entire message is @ 13:32 "if someone is good, they are free, even id they are a ensleaved. If someone is bad, they are a slave, even if they are a king"
The wisdom shared in this video resonates deeply, reminding us that true strength lies in mastering our emotions, particularly anger. Learning to cultivate patience and resilience amidst life's storms is a valuable lesson we can all benefit from.
Ohh my my my I so wish I ran into this long time ago , 😮 I don't really hate anyone at all , but I've got a lot of anger in me , or lot of hurt inside of me from all the abuse I've 💔 🎶 😔 suffered , hard to get 💔 🎶 over 💔 💯 % TRUTH
Its a choice. Wayne Dyer an others say you can change your past. Getting rid of or beyond the results you first choose is about changing your own thoughts. You CAN "fix" the state you put yourself in, letting go of what is distressing, harmful, useless.
Everytime I listened to your speech you thought a lot of Wisdom words, and it's very touching and powerful with thoughtful words, keep it up and stay blessed.
Many times through adversity we actually learn valuble lessons which makes us grow so staying angry when reprimanded or insulted is not wise as it only hurts you in the end robbing you of your peace and joy
Anger is the worst.wate of energy,hatred is inferiority problem,emotional intelligence,one can be judged by anger,focus on problems and not on people,to love the world,anger poison your system,how to handle problems?do not angry today,anger is not a good feeling,knowledge is peace,simplicity,patience and kindness,change is an art,self consciousness,act of kindness,bravery inside will live,big ideas fill one's heart,don't do what is wrong,keep promises,anger is a killer,love is better,tears heal the heart and soul,leave the things we can not control,happiness is up to you,detache 39:5039:52 from.happiness can be achieved through virtue,death is a part of life,
There are so many gold nuggets in THIS video. Anyone ever heard of "Coach Corey Wayne" and his "How to Become a 3% Man"? Like he insists, you need to read his book multiple times in order to thoroughly internalize all of the concepts contained in his book. THIS video would be a good one to listen to on a daily basis. Forget all the other videos on stoicism - ANGER is the biggest problem most people will ever have, and by far the biggest roadblock to them reaching their goals.
Being stoic in a nutshell is actually being able to control every single emotion we have in a neutral fashion, we all need hate anger happiness sadness depression indifference it’s what makes us human, being able to identify those and handle them is stoic, emotions are inevitable so is the outcome the thing we have control over is us, how we react, once you understand that about YOU, you’ll be on your way to your version of stoicism
From now on i will also live in peace with everyone... before I also get angry of small things that upset 😔 me but now it's better to not to get angry 😊😊
when i do work and i know what i done was wrong and done a crappy job i get mad at my self too do a perfect job so i make the person happy the work is more than exspected .
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I'm almost 40 never dated and my dad viciously and violently beat me for 30 years, and l absolutely hated his guts, and when he finally died two years ago, l didn't shed a tear now l chose to forgive him because l didn't want that dark cloud always hanging over my head and let it go and doing so l was able to grow closer to God.
Good for you letting go
I wish I've had the words to comfort you. I'm almost 60 years old and by now I know to be careful with words.
It is amazing that you can talk about this wrong doings of your father.
I've made peace with all I've had to endure so far.
It made me healed and being free.
God bless
God bless you on your journey to healing! 🎉💪🏾😎
Me too
Your father beat you for 30 years? Once you turn 18 there are no more spanking/beatings 😮
Anger destroys everything
wrong. Without anger there is no justice. Sheep are not angry
Anger is expensive, so pause, silence, and smile
All this 'stoic' content is propaganda. They want you quiet, unengaged, passive so they can dominate in the sphere of public opinion!
Its a fact that when someone makes a false assertion that goes unopposed, then its interpreted as fact or truthful.
When someone lies... call them out immediately every time!
Absolutely, taking a moment to pause and reflect instead of reacting in anger can save us so much emotional energy. A smile can transform the situation and our mindset. Great reminder.
Don't let anger rob you of Peace and love, wisdom of the old man 😢❤❤❤
You can feel free in. A inhumane cage, I found that 5ooo hours in lock up almost broke me, The holy Spirit saved me from myself, Thankyou for listening in ❤
"Put a D before anger,and you get danger".. Such wisdom,thank you..
There's some WISDOM I've have NOT heard yet. Thanks. ,seriously .
D always works well.
All this 'stoic' content is propaganda. They want you quiet, unengaged, passive so they can dominate in the sphere of public opinion!
Its a fact that when someone makes a false assertion that goes unopposed, then its interpreted as fact or truthful.
When someone lies... call them out immediately every time!
Anger is an emotion just like happiness is. Its what you do when you are angry that matters. Remove toxic people from your circle and you won't be angry.
I disagree
If someone makes you angry, you need to look at it, study it and learn why
It might be your own trauma
I am reconciling with my x girlfriend
When she makes me angry I catch it now and express it in a way that is helpful to her and me
You can shift it and grow
Sometimes you have to leave though you’re right
But it’s a half truth
As Johnny Rotten says Anger is an energy!
@@Daneiladams555I wish you two the very best and I hope God blesses you both for doing the hard work ❤🙏🏼!
Ye what about the spouse you are with. Easier said than done
When I was extremely angry I was glad I didn't have any guns handy. Those I was angry with probably have no idea how lucky we were!
Anger makes you a prisoner of the offender. Overcome evil with good. That makes you strong💪 .
I hope I have no negative bad encounters, and relationships. I hope every one finds joy and love, and live happy safe and calm. Peace be with you
A moment of patience, in a moment of anger will save you a million moments of misery.
Led to my divorce by not controlling my tongue
True, we have to train the mind to be stronger than emotions 🙏
Inspired xtheresa the poet
Yes I need to strengthen my mental muscle emotions get me nowhere in the family I'm in.💪
I like having a place where I can yell once in awhile. It’s a relief. Anger is an energy!
Anger has destroyed every relationship I’ve been in
It’s necessary to deal with it wisely
If you are in a relationship that causes you to be angry all the time then you are in the wrong relationship.
That hits hard but very accurate
True that ❤
If you’re reading this comment, it’s too late, you’ve already been immensely blessed with an abundance of love, wealth, luck, health, joy, and whatever else your heart desires!! I’m so proud of you for surviving everything you’ve been through. This is your sign to go after what your heart most desires for the highest good, it’s your time....
What a beautiful comment, thank you and may our creator bless you and yours.
@@marybessknight5843 This is the sweetest sentence I've heard all day, wish you happiness
Why is she so flicker mind.
Be grateful and count your blessings is a great start
Gratitude is the secret natural drug that helps everything 🎉❤
We may deal with people who are toxic, however silence is the best way to fight back.
My father was a middle weight boxer in the 40s.And he told me a man is more of a man.If he can walk away from a fight then get into it. Because it takes a lot of self control Not to react but to step away.
And you think about it, it's so easy to react.It's so easy to lash out and get angry and lose your sense of control.But how much hardor is it to be in control.
The more you practice the better you get at it
I'm so sorry to hear that about your father and what he did to you. Stay safe, blessed, and walk in love, AMEN 🙏
your videos inspired me and changed me a lot ,I appreciate your all hard work for humanity❤️🙏
"I'm fascinated by Stoicism's insights into the nature of happiness and fulfillment."
Thank you universe 💚🙂
Anger is a teacher
Use it to grow
I’ve struggled w anger for so long. This has been so helpful. I keep listening over and over. Thank you.
Me too.
I hear that wise man say your anger is you punishing yourself for somebody else's behavior
Wise. Very wise.
Yes, it has also robbed me of joy
My character not my things is what made me who I'm
Wow am happy to hear that I need to remind myself all the time
Thank you so much I want to live a happy and meaningful life and am leaning every day God bless you 🙏🙏
Wow the truth in these words. I'm happy today because I have been using some of these words in my life. Thank you for the teachings I will sure share with others!
I don't know who or what you r. However...you are helping me so very much. I most certainly appreciate your videoes
My ex wife divorced and left me 10 years ago. God told me about achieving my MBA in Organizational Leadership online. My aunt Jeanette told me the divorce was a great blessing. Earned my MBA and volunteering for non-profit organizations.
Awesome Kevin!!
Anger steels from you ,robs peace of mind and brings away from the best emotional experience, Thankyou ❤
Best defense is to stay,composed. Thank you.
Knowledge is a state of utter peace
"I have a problem with my anger, and I wish I didn't, but I'm working to get better" ✨
Me too.
But it ain't easy, especially when we have a stupid President like we have 😡
As a professional angry individual.I wish you all the best if you figured out.Let me know.Thanks
Family doesn't help either 😡
Do you know that is possibly the greatest gift of love you could ever give yourself? ♾️
I thought my mane problem and focus was Money when all in actuality it was my Anger. Which it took for me to get closer to God to really understand and be more aware. It makes me sad to be more aware of my anger in my late 30s knowing all the people i hurt in the past because of my short temper. The good thing is that im aware of my anger more and when im aware im better at controlling it. Being wrongly accused or spreading false rumors is when i lose control but im working on it day by day.
Stoicism and Christianity have so many components alike and can work together so well, for me, it's refreshingly uncanny. Except for the indifference stoicism possesses and the overly/endless niceness Christianity many times has, they marry quite well and puts you in the right mindset of thinking to deal with the every day occurrences of a life. A GREAT COMBO PLATE OF PHILOSOPHIES for everyone on earth!!!
That's an interesting take! I totally agree that there are many parallels between Stoicism and Christianity, especially when it comes to focusing on virtues, self-discipline, and finding peace amidst challenges. The differences, like Stoicism's emotional indifference and Christianity's emphasis on compassion, can actually complement each other when balanced well. Together, they offer a holistic approach to living a meaningful and grounded life. Definitely a combo worth exploring.
Mind over body
Ephesians 4:26❤
In your anger do not sin:
Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.
Peace and love is the Way. ❤❤❤
Mercy goes along way too ❤😢😢😢❤❤❤
There are 7 emotions including anger. Anger is a sign that something is wrong in your life. It helps you to grow and protect yourself. It's normal and OK to be angry. It's not dirty or negative or bad. You don't know why that person is angry or what's going on in their life either. They could have lost every member of their family and could be in a stage of grief.
So true!
As an angry old man I endorse this post ❤❤
LOL
''fear has made the world's problems worse, but it has not fixed any of them yet.''
This is all said in one wow. I was listening, reading and much practiced and still shape myself but this one is big.
you really help but like getting a man out of hell and agony. Appreciate the time.
Lord please give me patience,
Because if you give me strength,
Ill need bail money 😊
I know someone who got 50 years before they can even come up on parole. Keep your bail money and live your best life
This is a medicine for me
I am still occasional feeling angry to what happened to me in my last relationship. I had been blind of believing and giving all and help as much 😢and once I was all empty in the bank, that evil woman left. I picked myself up and being angry really had done more damaged than making my life move forward . It was poison and toxic to us if we dont control our anger, now ive learned to control my anger more and those past were just a cloud that went past or just a story that I ve read. Thank you for more wisdom, Ijust wish I had come across with STOICISM before. You are really a good guidance to all🙏🙏🙏👌👍👍👍🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
Angre is our way of hurting ourselves
This video not only helps me better understand the dangers of anger but also reminds me that calmness and patience are the keys to peaceful living. 'You are the first person your anger hurts' - such a truthful statement!
Forgiveness represents wisdom and the way to feel better ❤❤❤
Stoic values have helped me the most, to date, I have been having various bouts with conflicting interests, and what I perceive as a synchronicity in just about every calculated move I make in society, and it has been the stoic values of blissful ignorance of whatever it is that is going on around me, remaining calm in any circumstance is the goal, and it is attainable....
Anger is a natural response to life's challenges, but it's important to overcome it for mental health and personal growth.
Thank you for this uplifting word. Wish to listen to this every day
I'm glad I don't get angry often and I'm calm. I forget all the reasons why I got angry insults and hurts I let it go
So intelligent
Amazing
“Difficulties strengthen the mind, as labor does the body.” - Seneca
Good message of growth and change.❤
I needed this.
Thank you 🙏
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The Stoic wisdom is timeless. Learning that anger only weakens us has motivated me to work on self-control and acceptance. Great insights, thank you.
Am so 🙏 grateful for the wisdom you shared 🙏 ❤ God bless you ❤ 🙏
May almighty God bless you with more wisdom I Listening this massage every day thanks
"أصعب ما قد يمر على الأنسان فى حياته هو معرفة الحقيقة والصواب ولكن بعد فوات الأوان"
The last few minutes of affirmations in this video were well thought out and very inspiring. Thank you 🙏🏽
There are times when you must confront, dismantle, and destroy evil.
Evil hates itself, but lies to itself, about this.
I'm threw no plan of my own. Am a Heyoka Empath. I spent More years than i Care to count. Obsorbing every pain Hurt Mental maddness of my crippled Dad Transmitted on to me.
Loved my dad. I Gained A mental hardness. When My Dad Died. I Knew to the Minute when He Slipped. He Was in Gresham i Was in Eastern Oregon.
Anger is a sign hatred and sign of weakness and inferiority
Be angry but not sin.
I listened to this entire message while out ridimg my mountain bike through the woods in light rain.
The most powerful quote in the entire message is @ 13:32 "if someone is good, they are free, even id they are a ensleaved. If someone is bad, they are a slave, even if they are a king"
Dear Sir, God has given you a blessed voice, I would say he is very pleased with what you are doing with it. Thank You
Thank you! I bought a tee-shirt. Could you please make one with a quote from Seneca???❤
The wisdom shared in this video resonates deeply, reminding us that true strength lies in mastering our emotions, particularly anger. Learning to cultivate patience and resilience amidst life's storms is a valuable lesson we can all benefit from.
Ohh my my my
I so wish I ran into this long time ago , 😮 I don't really hate anyone at all , but I've got a lot of anger in me , or lot of hurt inside of me from all the abuse I've 💔 🎶 😔 suffered , hard to get 💔 🎶 over 💔 💯 % TRUTH
Thank you for this new memo on me morning wall :
" If you hate someone , they've won over you " . . reverse applies i reason .
I like listening to positive sayings, and I try to live by it.
Lesson learnt. Anger puts you on fire. I've made up my mind to keep my cool .
Anger a gift if cultivated and channeled properly. The problem is blind and reckless anger.
There are no words for the knowledge and calm I wish to know greater then the words to hard to feel what it means...
Anger is your warning that something is wrong -- how you take action (calmly or angrily) will determine the outcome.
Great words of wisdom.
If you stop being angry, you give in❤
I am going to cling on to this channel.
My divorce was brutal. Wish I had seen this 5 years ago
Its a choice. Wayne Dyer an others say you can change your past. Getting rid of or beyond the results you first choose is about changing your own thoughts. You CAN "fix" the state you put yourself in, letting go of what is distressing, harmful, useless.
You have it now 😊
Are you happier divorced or disappointed with your decision in hindsight?
@@justadrum happier now
Brutal in what way?
Definitely Direct Conversations with the Supreme Being Absolutely Divine🎉🎉
Serenity now, serenity now.
Anger is a powerful wine. It's intoxicating while you're drinking it, but when the drunken haze goes away you'll weep at the devastation.
Thank you
Forgive and move towards new horizon of loving one's self.
What a great lesson and a great truth
It is far more profitable to treat your enemies with kindness. This is where new friendships are forged.
Everytime I listened to your speech you thought a lot of Wisdom words, and it's very touching and powerful with thoughtful words, keep it up and stay blessed.
Inner peace ❤
Many times through adversity we actually learn valuble lessons which makes us grow so staying angry when reprimanded or insulted is not wise as it only hurts you in the end robbing you of your peace and joy
Anger is the worst.wate of energy,hatred is inferiority problem,emotional intelligence,one can be judged by anger,focus on problems and not on people,to love the world,anger poison your system,how to handle problems?do not angry today,anger is not a good feeling,knowledge is peace,simplicity,patience and kindness,change is an art,self consciousness,act of kindness,bravery inside will live,big ideas fill one's heart,don't do what is wrong,keep promises,anger is a killer,love is better,tears heal the heart and soul,leave the things we can not control,happiness is up to you,detache 39:50 39:52 from.happiness can be achieved through virtue,death is a part of life,
Exactly right everybody has free will
yes, thanks you for sharing!
There are so many gold nuggets in THIS video. Anyone ever heard of "Coach Corey Wayne" and his "How to Become a 3% Man"? Like he insists, you need to read his book multiple times in order to thoroughly internalize all of the concepts contained in his book. THIS video would be a good one to listen to on a daily basis. Forget all the other videos on stoicism - ANGER is the biggest problem most people will ever have, and by far the biggest roadblock to them reaching their goals.
Being stoic in a nutshell is actually being able to control every single emotion we have in a neutral fashion, we all need hate anger happiness sadness depression indifference it’s what makes us human, being able to identify those and handle them is stoic, emotions are inevitable so is the outcome the thing we have control over is us, how we react, once you understand that about YOU, you’ll be on your way to your version of stoicism
Thanks Universe❤
the right words work ,because there true .i wish i had this information 50 years ago but its never to late . i need to have more faith in god .
From now on i will also live in peace with everyone... before I also get angry of small things that upset 😔 me but now it's better to not to get angry 😊😊
Thank you very useful for me I need it
Thank You.❤
Being Angry only hurts yourself.
when i do work and i know what i done was wrong and done a crappy job i get mad at my self too do a perfect job so i make the person happy the work is more than exspected .