Why You Should Not Chase LOVE (STOIC GUIDE)

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  • Опубликовано: 18 янв 2025

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  • @Omar31587
    @Omar31587 6 месяцев назад +42

    Never chase love, affection and attention. If it's not reciprocated, it's not worth having.

    • @powerfulstoichabits
      @powerfulstoichabits  6 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly

    • @tipoftheweek7034
      @tipoftheweek7034 6 месяцев назад +1

      😮

    • @amiewoodson5854
      @amiewoodson5854 6 месяцев назад +5

      I appreciate your comment I keep reading it . I'm in a situation that I know I should walk away from . And I haven't made contact since Tuesday. And I feel I'm on the right track . Cause our interactions are one sided my efforts are not reciprocated .

    • @Omar31587
      @Omar31587 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@amiewoodson5854 I'm glad my words are of inspiration to you☺. Once you realize your true worth, you won't bother with that person anymore. It's their loss, not yours.

    • @rhea7911
      @rhea7911 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@Omar31587, hope he feels it. I am in this situation now.

  • @lovestoic101
    @lovestoic101 17 дней назад

    Chasing love often leads to losing ourselves. Thank you for reminding us to prioritize self-respect and inner peace.

  • @NorinneWong
    @NorinneWong 6 месяцев назад +22

    No Need To Chase Love
    1.the illusion of control
    2.the value of self-sufficiency
    3. the danger of attachments
    4.finding love by letting go
    5.understanding true emotional freedom
    6.the role of fate in relationships
    7.the power of mindfulness in love
    8.cultivating self-love (virtue)
    9.the misunderstanding of passionate love
    10.building relationships on virtue ( wisdom, temperance, justice,courage)
    11.

  • @stoicharmonyus
    @stoicharmonyus Месяц назад

    This message hit hard. Sometimes, letting go is the only way to find something real. Thank you for the wisdom.

  • @MatthewSands-e3g
    @MatthewSands-e3g 5 месяцев назад +2

    Everyday love comes to me, it's in the little things, a smile, a dog, even talking with people

  • @stoickingdom2024
    @stoickingdom2024 6 месяцев назад +17

    *Love is a beautiful and profound experience, but chasing it can often lead to unnecessary heartache and disappointment. Instead, focus on becoming the best version of yourself, cultivating inner peace and strength. True love will find you when you least expect it, drawn to your authenticity and self-assuredness. Embrace the wisdom of the Stoics: live virtuously, find contentment within, and love will naturally gravitate towards you. Remember, the most meaningful relationships are built on mutual respect and genuine connection, not on the desperation of pursuit.*

    • @powerfulstoichabits
      @powerfulstoichabits  6 месяцев назад

      That's a wonderfully wise perspective! Focusing on self-improvement and inner peace does seem to attract healthier, more meaningful relationships. It's refreshing to hear someone advocate for self-growth rather than relentless pursuit. The idea that "love will find you when you least expect it" really highlights the beauty of authenticity in life's journey. Thanks for sharing such a thoughtful view!

    • @stoickingdom2024
      @stoickingdom2024 6 месяцев назад

      @@powerfulstoichabits What a beautifully insightful comment! Embracing self-improvement and inner peace truly does pave the way for healthier, more meaningful relationships. It's refreshing to see the emphasis on self-growth rather than the relentless pursuit of love. The notion that "love will find you when you least expect it" captures the essence of authenticity and the serendipity of life's journey. Thank you for sharing such a profound perspective! Have you found any particular Stoic practices especially helpful in fostering this mindset?

  • @pathwaytogod123_offical
    @pathwaytogod123_offical 6 месяцев назад +6

    Fantastic video!
    1. Self-Sufficiency
    2. Focus on Virtue
    Thank you for this valuable content!

  • @elvirasimmons9112
    @elvirasimmons9112 6 месяцев назад +4

    This is the best way to knowing themselve it took me awhile to get it because i was to busy looking for love outside myself when i had realized it was already in me.

    • @powerfulstoichabits
      @powerfulstoichabits  6 месяцев назад

      That's a powerful realization! True love and understanding start within ourselves. 🌟

  • @KingOfStoic-q3k
    @KingOfStoic-q3k 4 месяца назад

    Marcus Aurelius said: "Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one."

  • @StoicTellYou
    @StoicTellYou 6 месяцев назад +6

    I am 100 percent here to enjoy my life in the present moment. Much Love.

  • @li..A9982
    @li..A9982 6 месяцев назад +4

    Love is something cosmic,ethereal and protectable.When it comes,it gives inner and outer strenght!
    When it leaves,the foundations dissapear under feet.
    The only feeling that gives the strongest range of emotions.

    • @powerfulstoichabits
      @powerfulstoichabits  6 месяцев назад +1

      Beautifully said! Love indeed transcends and transforms, bringing both strength and vulnerability. It truly is the most powerful and profound emotion.

    • @li..A9982
      @li..A9982 6 месяцев назад

      @@powerfulstoichabits I just talk about my feelings.
      Thanks🤝

  • @luckysol7486
    @luckysol7486 6 месяцев назад +3

    I never did, as a woman, I let men do that, I sensed men want a woman who shows Self respect.
    My husband was the One who pursued me and because I felt the same, I accepted.
    Thank you, dear Sir, for helping Humanity with your great wisdom we all need.

    • @powerfulstoichabits
      @powerfulstoichabits  6 месяцев назад

      Thank you for your kind words and for sharing your experience! It's wonderful to hear how you've navigated your relationship with dignity and mutual respect. Your insight adds valuable perspective to the conversation on personal values and respect in relationships.

  • @raufsaintbony-rf1xv
    @raufsaintbony-rf1xv 6 месяцев назад +9

    Silence is power

    • @powerfulstoichabits
      @powerfulstoichabits  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words. Best of Luck on this Transformative journey👍
      Stay Connected for more useful & life-changing Stoic Lessons.

  • @JZlatino4
    @JZlatino4 6 месяцев назад +3

    Epic Teeters is my favorite philosopher

    • @powerfulstoichabits
      @powerfulstoichabits  6 месяцев назад

      Great choice! Epictetus has so much wisdom to share. His teachings are timeless!

  • @LinhNguyen-sp3il
    @LinhNguyen-sp3il 6 месяцев назад

    I just love all of your videos. I feel that you’re the mordent proffete !

  • @traceylennon1204
    @traceylennon1204 5 месяцев назад +1

    Not a plea to fulfill a void...bars!!!

  • @Franfreshstartchiangmai
    @Franfreshstartchiangmai 6 месяцев назад

    I totally agree with this philosophy. I talked about this on my RUclips channel too. Just focus on self development and self love and love will appear without chasing or expecting it. ❤

  • @Stoic_Infinity
    @Stoic_Infinity 6 месяцев назад +3

    Desperation to find love can push you into toxic relationships. It's important to be patient and wait for the right person

    • @powerfulstoichabits
      @powerfulstoichabits  6 месяцев назад

      Patience is key, and waiting for the right person helps avoid toxic relationships. Your wisdom is appreciated!

  • @ResilientLifee
    @ResilientLifee 5 месяцев назад

    This video on embracing stoic principles to navigate life's challenges is incredibly insightful. The emphasis on resilience, mindfulness, and personal growth really resonated with me. For those interested in exploring more about stoicism and self-improvement, I've shared related ideas in my own videos. Thanks for sharing such valuable content!

  • @marlonpeters5052
    @marlonpeters5052 6 месяцев назад +6

    Very insightful!

  • @irenebeda2980
    @irenebeda2980 6 месяцев назад +1

    I need to do this , I’m tired of seeking his attention

  • @yanabojanic6615
    @yanabojanic6615 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you
    🙏🌺

  • @jenhogman
    @jenhogman 5 месяцев назад +1

    Love is full of selfishness jealousy miserable complicated obsession
    Make your life bullies emotional spiritual physical
    And distraction 🖤

    • @powerfulstoichabits
      @powerfulstoichabits  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Love can indeed be complex and sometimes bring challenges like jealousy and obsession. It's important to strive for healthy relationships that nurture emotional, spiritual, and physical well-being. Addressing and overcoming these difficulties can lead to growth and deeper connections. 🖤

  • @maureenaongola696
    @maureenaongola696 6 месяцев назад

    Very insightful, the content 👌👌

  • @StoicStud
    @StoicStud 6 месяцев назад +2

    Self LOVE❤

    • @powerfulstoichabits
      @powerfulstoichabits  6 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for your kind words. Best of Luck on this Transformative journey👍
      Stay Connected for more useful & life-changing Stoic Lessons.

  • @Lynny1651
    @Lynny1651 5 месяцев назад

    I’m trying to let go of a one sided love

  • @sonyajoy777
    @sonyajoy777 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you 😊

  • @RandyThomas-mr6ev
    @RandyThomas-mr6ev 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hey i am storic , how do we know when someone does not love you but like what your hands brings such as money and time wasted in a relationship where you can never have her

  • @posttenebraslux7571
    @posttenebraslux7571 Месяц назад +1

    Don't chase love if you're a Woman, it's a turn OFF for men.
    Chase love of you're a Man, because it's a turn ON for women. So sexy and masculine.
    Men like to pursue because it elevates their testosterone, women love being pursued because it elevates their estrogen.
    It's exciting!
    The sexes are different and that difference must be understood and respected.

    • @powerfulstoichabits
      @powerfulstoichabits  Месяц назад

      This perspective highlights an interesting dynamic, but Stoicism teaches us to approach relationships with self-respect and balance. Instead of chasing or being chased, focus on mutual growth and genuine connection; true attraction stems from authenticity, not strategy.

  • @sylviaidowu4435
    @sylviaidowu4435 5 месяцев назад +1

    Don't force your will on the world

  • @belindathompspn3329
    @belindathompspn3329 6 месяцев назад +1

    Do I have to say I love you back to

  • @michaelwright3125
    @michaelwright3125 6 месяцев назад +3

    A narcissist is hell

  • @joedrennan8625
    @joedrennan8625 6 месяцев назад +4

    Please leave out the music

    • @powerfulstoichabits
      @powerfulstoichabits  6 месяцев назад

      Thanks for the feedback! We’ll consider this for our future videos to make sure everyone’s viewing experience is as enjoyable as possible.

  • @floritashelby
    @floritashelby 6 месяцев назад +2

    Agree ❤️🇨🇦🌹

  • @mooganstooker2419
    @mooganstooker2419 6 месяцев назад

    I disagree that our body is part of what is not in our control.

    • @powerfulstoichabits
      @powerfulstoichabits  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your perspective! While we can influence our health through choices and actions, many aspects of our body, like aging and genetics, remain beyond our control. It's a balance between what we can change and what we must accept.

  • @大原ひろみ-p4m
    @大原ひろみ-p4m 6 месяцев назад +1

    もう面倒くさい

  • @joaofontes1282
    @joaofontes1282 Месяц назад

    Great advice!