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I lost my mom on July 2 my dad on July 12 and my husband on July 25, 2021. All in the same month. I’m only strong because what other choice do I have. The sun will come up tomorrow and I am gonna be here. So when “He” just cut me off recently it makes me smile and carry on because I have been through far worse….
With strength comes grace. I found that for myself I feel so strong. I have a big family and have lost so many over the years. I have noticed that the older I get the wisdom comes and I listen.
Ignore them too Focus on your life and self respect Don’t react emotionally Remove them from mind Demonstrate your value Cut off contact Prove them wrong Go out and have fun Build your social status Act as if they don’t exist Give them silent treatment Maintain your dignity Don’t beg for attention Be kind but emotionally distant Don’t reveal your struggle
Wife of 15 years just told me tonight "I'm no longer in love with you...I want you to move out". So yeah, I'm falling the fuck apart right now...and can't stop crying...and feeling dark... But, deep inside, I'm relieved it's over. I don't gotta be a victim of her addiction anymore. I don't gotta be manipulated and lied to anymore. I'm free to give my faithful commitment to a woman who wants the same, not a 35 year old addict who still wants to act 22. One day I'll be grateful it's over. Right now, it hurts like hell tho. This cut is by far the deepest I've ever had to endure
These videos are so fucking crucial to my mental well being right now and being stoic is having quite the impact on how SHE'S treating me, almost feeling my absence before Ive even finished packing my shit
Get out there. You deserve better. After all of this bs you will feel relieved and happy. You are free now. I know u can't see it atm but she did u a favor. Focus on yourself and friends. Step by step. Make smart decisions. Take care of your energy. With every day it is going to be better. You will feel like yourself again . Many of us had to go through this. You're not alone. I'm thinking of u and wish u well ❤️🩹
Self Respect Self Love, Self Worth Self Sufficiency Self Invest ...A few things you need to have, know and do. I always live by these..for example, if you have Self Respect, you will not allow anyone to disrespect you or put your self in a situation to be disrespected
I really needed this today. My husband walked out on our marriage and I recently found out he is involved with someone much younger from his work. I have been here at home with kids while they are all watching me cry almost everyday for the past year. My husband knows I’m struggling which he says he feels bad about, but what it comes down to is this new person is giving him all the attention and praise that was missing from our marriage while I was severely depressed myself. I have learnt when I am hurt I react in a very disregulated way and often say things that I regret later which often leaves me looking unstable and immature. These sort of messages really helps me to refocus and helps me remember that I am responsible for my own feelings and how I chose to react to them and sometimes the best thing I can do when feeling hurt and rejected is to take a step back and focus inwards instead of allowing other people’s actions to determine my emotional state and behaviour which often is completely out of alignment with my own virtues and morals which is generally quite solid and strong. Sorry for the rant, I’m clearly not used to commenting in places like this, but thank you.
My husband wanted out after 40 years of marriage. We got along great, so I was shocked. It was not another woman, he wanted to be alone and move near his son across the country. I told him go, I didn’t show my emotions. I told him I will move forward and make a great life for myself. I never let him see my hurt, I wouldn’t give him the satisfaction. I went no contact even though he wanted to FaceTime me and call all the time. Nope. It’s hard being alone for the first time in my life. No friends or family. But I’m determined. I’m going to start dating and make a good life for myself. You can do it too!
Thankyou very much for being open about it. I am 60 and look back at mistakes i made, and would like to say to you, that the very best thing you can do, is to follow the advice from the video.. And that your kids need you to do this too. They need to see their mum recover snd live in a positive environmrnt because your emotions will affect theirs. Its really best to be the strong stable one, be their anchor, and be grateful you have these kids and let them feel safe at home.. And lived. Yiur husband leaving you has shaken the safety of your home badly enough, and you must rise above it, closing doors will open new ones and the mental health of kids relies on a stable home environment,, so in a way, its our job as mothers to do this, with the knowledge that what a mother projects.. The kids absorb this, so.. What i do is... Clean the house, pit a, warm meal on and be there for them, as positive and stable as you can be.. And do things together which bond yiu and place memories in the bank, so to say...crucial for their inner selves.. Cant be underestimated.. Years csn go by with allowing our own emotions to cripple us... Tbis is wasting time.. By that i mean, that the kids need to see you strong and leading the family and doing things together with laughter and gratitude for the sun rises and falls. And it can be a beautiful world.. It deoends on how we create that Be strong, mental health is reliant on the home generating trust, safety and love.
You are a strong woman❤ Your kids will watch u overcome these unfortunate outcomes and also become strong like their momma and handle anything that comes their way with grace. Anyone who doesn't value and respect how much work it takes to keep the home flowing as smoothly as possible, they do not deserve to be there. You deserve better and God will bring u what u deserve as long as u put ur faith in God and what he has planned for u. Don't let anyone under value u ever, especially when all ur effort goes into taking care of ur family at home. ❤ God bless you, and I want u to know everything will get better. Stay strong💪and keep up the great work, The Lord, the one who matters, sees u, and that's all that matters. ❤
Im the little girl whos parents didnt want her. They didnt put me for adoption though, they just left me alone as if i didnt exist. I remember trying to thaw frozen food in my mouth because i was starving... At 8. Now im a year 3 law student and a mommy. My pain never defined me. My parents maltreatment didnt define me. I refuse to allow anyone to take my peace.
If you ever listen to anything while reading comments, let it be this - go to borlest and read the book whispers of manifestation, then come back and thank me!
1.Ignore them too 2.Don't react emotionally 3.Remove them from your mind 4.Demonstrat your value 5. Cut off contact 6. Prove them wrong 7.Go out and have fun 8.Build your social status 9.Act as if they doesn't exist 10.Give them silent treatment 11.Don't beg for attention 12.Be kind but emotionally distant 13.Don't reveal your struggle
Literally 0% stocism lol. To be stoic is to not need to act a certain way in reaction to a certain perceivable negative stimuli. Everything listed is sigmi culture/pop psychology bs.
@@ginaqc78 research stoicism. The wiki is actually a great starting point. Read philosophy books. These videos are disguising themselves as stoic teachings but they’re mostly toxic af anti social behaviors
Yes, this is my daughter! I practically was a slave to her! And she treats me with such disrespect! She doesn't like it when I say no! She attacks me! but she can hurt me all she wants always!😢
"Flip the script, regain your power." Remember you don't need anyone's approval. You are the one that creates your happiness. No one else. Be true to yourself! Peace and love to everyone from the Olympic Peninsula in Washington State!♥️🙏🇺🇲
I live in Victoria and marvel at the beauty of the Olympic Peninsula Withey Olympic mountains! What a backdrop for us to have. Thank you and God bless you and God bless your beautiful country.
@@klausroethel5961 I look across the Strait of Juan de Fuca from my front porch and wave HI to my Canadian neighbors on a clear day. I enjoyed watching your fireworks on New Year's Eve. God bless you and your beautiful country too!🙏♥️🇺🇲🇨🇦
13 years here too man, but I was trained by her leaving so much coming back before I knew this,I improved, therapy, Bible study, mushroom 🍄🍄 music art 🎭 walking on a energy playlist,the prodigy -naranaja song, Beck-- -cellphones dead, song was and is my superhero vigilante theme song. The video will make you 🤣😊 karaoke 🎤 weeeed, the Sopranos, the Ozarks, breaking had, movies take your mind out off your body when set up theater style, but pick movies 🍿 upward 👆⬆️ as in horror movies would be down 👎👎 rocky instead of nightmare on elm St, tales of underdogs overcoming massive odds, action heros and cartoons from goodtimes of youth if any i pray, 🙏 love yourself and hear me when you say to yourself, i was and am superior to them, they mirrored you to simulate connection or giving you opportunities to be professor to her student learning about your favorite things faking interest to gas you up to stab your tire the next day after Shakespeare deep 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 ,bottom falls out like gallows,and your swinging from the neck and shes pulling on your leg., her loss they never think ahead and shes getting played settling in the same position you have been FREED from sir. Pray for whoever has her now and become the best version of yourself gradually you will hurt less and less . BOOOM a new REAL love ❤️ a JOY UNEXPECTED. you are able to watch that narc in a xxx, pain free , u wont even feel sorry for her, and your goodness wouldn't even let you chuckle when humor gut checked ya funny bone 🤭 at your NEW bachelor party 🎉🎉😂❤ 🥳🎉gooseass high a smiling, with me DJing ... the song playing??? Rick James -hard to get ironically 🎉🎉🎉❤ check out that video. Must be a frequency. I love you as a brother in the human Race. Fellow earthling I ate too many 🍄🍄🍄🍄
A chick I had deep feelings for ghosted me for no apparent reason. I don’t think I did anything wrong. I wanted to reach out to her closure but this video made me come back to my senses. Thank you.
Are unbearable regrets but having freedom at the same time more painful than life in prison when it comes to people who only have 1 or 2 years left to live and then they die or pass away in 3 years?
I know a guy who ghosts all the time. Sees me & wants to unite but never talks about needs or wants; Doesnt stay around long enough to get close or personal or just flat out get to know. you ..then he's gone 👻 Odd... ghosting. See you in another 2 or 10 years of Im around! 👀
@@DesertlizzyThe Are unbearable regrets but having freedom at the same time more painful than life in prison when it comes to people who only have 1 or 2 years left to live and then they die or pass away in 3 years?
I asked a girl out and she said yes but it turned out that her friend was on the phone and said yes for her. Her friend did t even tell her I was dating her now until a few days later and since she wasn’t ready to date me we broke up. That would’ve been fine except it was so awkward for her that she said now she just wants to be friends and now she hasn’t texted me in weeks. I wanted to reach out but this video made me focus on myself
@@ArchiedArcher Are unbearable regrets but having freedom at the same time more painful than permanent punishment in prison when it comes to people who only have 1 or 2 years left to live and then they die or pass away in 3 years?
That's the point fool. U don't need to be accepted by anyone... You must make space in the desired person's eyes er chase or show them weakness attract them
@@Micosprincessgoldenera90sgirl althought it's just a stupid saying? And why do you all use those emotes like youre shy or embarrassed? I really don't get it... most of you people on this earth are fully blown weirdos
This was food for my soul, I’m going to listen to this again and again, I’ve been rejected several times this last year by my own family and I needed so much to hear this. The pain was incredible because I’ve nothing whatsoever to provoke the rejection. Now I feel with these gems of wisdom I can overcome the pain with dignity . Thank you! ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I'm truly glad to hear that the content resonated with you and provided some comfort during a difficult time.
I’ve been through this too. I’ve cried a river over rejection without reason by the ones I love. Now I’m stronger and more resilient. You can be too. Know your worth discover your greatness and be free.
Thank you for your post. I also have had these painful & bewildering experiences. My best understanding is that this apparent irrational hatred is due to the perpetrators' jealousy of your goodness, your genuine ability to connect with others and your empathy. The darkness is always attracted to the light and can't bear it.
Rejection is GOD'S protection!!! 11:11 peace and blessings to you and your family as well Happy New Years Highest energies Thank you Beautiful Universe and brother for the message! Wisdom is the key!
You relate this to men. Like this doesn't relate to women also. This relates to anyone who has experienced things mentioned. Women can also have irrational behaviors when rejected by men.
@@justhilariousignoranceisav3243 I never seen it. I never seen a woman threaten a man’s life or put hands on them for rejecting them. This is way more common behavior that men display. Men come a dime a dozen so that’s probably why it’s not common for women to do this
Self respect is what keeps me “silent” and introspection is my pleasure to be my best self. I will to not be devalued by someone’s attempt to control me.
I dont feel rejected anymore ,i feel blessed , i realized the God and his universe has been working for my good afterall. Whoever i am whatever i am , i feel blessed , and i will keep believing that i am God's creation, his poet ,his song , and above all his masterpiece. I have nothing but gratefulness for the people who were kind and generous to me , forgiveness to those who wronged me . And i praying they 2 will move on someday. GOD HAVE KEPT HIS LOWLY SERVANT SAFE .
You have to except things for what they are knowing you can't change what happens on the out side. But focus the things you can change on the inside. As within so without as above so below. From the macrocosm to the microcosm we are all just energy in that respect we are all one .
One year since my husband to whom l gave the world told me that he didn't want to be with me. The hurt it caused me was undescribable but thanks to messages and positivity from videos like this one, l quickly found my inner strength and, l am here to say, l am stronger than I've been in all senses of the word. I have improved so many aspects of my life because I became my priority and decided that nobody will take my self-worth and strength away from me. Thank you for this message ❤
@@IsjahhSharifff l'm sorry you are going through this. All l can say is allow yourself to grieve and keep listening to all these positive messages. There is a light at the end of it. Although I still love him, I don't feel mad at him anymore. I feel empowered. Take it easy, let your emotions flow but focus on you getting stronger and not on getting him back. Life is good one year since our divorce. Believe me.
I'm thankful because it's been 44 years for me now I'm ready leave my childhood🥲 trauma behind lil girl I love u but bye I must mature into adulthood time to grow up😂
Reading comments alone makes me feel i am not alone in this world, that alone uplifts my spirit, especially when i read stories those who have overcome diversities, defrayals, and disappointments. Time heals. Thank you. God bless you all and live to share your happy ending stories
I don't let what other people do, make me angry, but I'm going to be assertive when I need to be, because people will walk all over you, if you continue to be silent.
My love rejected me the other day because I told him I was sick. I walked away with grace and chose Silence and thought this was preparing me for something Greater than I am. And then this video shows up today on top of my feed. And I am so Grateful because that is exactly the path I chose - stoic! And I studied Marcus Aurelius as a child, drew even his portrait with a finger in the air. What a remarkable reminder. Thank you from the bottom of my soul, this confirmed my strength like a mirror.
You know who your friends are when you are ill because they will show some level of concern for you. Narcissist's are easy to spot because they will treat you as if you are an inconvenience when you are ill or injured. Some narcissist's may not show this callous side of themselves straight away but in due time they will. I hope the person you love has your best interest at heart.
I allowed my ex back into my life, he made so many promises, he had changed, he realised the pain and hurt he had caused. Now, I found out that he is still behaving badly, having multiple affairs. I feel hurt, but better after listening to this wisdom and the wonderful voice of the narrator. Thank you.
I have been rebuilding a relationship with my ex. He made me believe he was serious in working things out and has suddenly gone silent. I'm struggling with this big time but have backed off and not tried to contact him. Trying to see the situation for what it is and put my energy back into myself
Thats how I feel. I lost my only child. I lost 2, 18 yr old loving cats, my sister, my brother all in just a few months. And I've been a widow for several years, so whoever leaves me now, that's just fine. Ive lost the closest thing to me, my son, and I will never feel that level of pain again, so have a good life and I'm glad you are out of mine.
"Your value doesn't dectease on someone's inability to see your worth..". I needed that. I was 'played' and I felt angry. I couldn't just sit and be calm. So instead of reacting i rode my bike all night to get rid of that toxic energy. Also, block and delete. Not out of spite, but to preserve my inner peace. ❤️
So, you already knew what youve been told here. Only useful experience comes from "I DID IT MYSELF". Every other experience is debatable. You dont need these sites and clips to improve. Trust me.
@@APOLON-bm7ym I raised my child ALL by myself working 2 jobs not a penny for child support from the father. The father became physically abusive towards me when she was 6 months old. I left everything behind (except my baby and a backpack) and didn't look back. My love for her inspired me to better myself and go back to school to make a decent life for us. Thank you for the kindness in your words. 💗
DEAR Bunny Bless you're ❤️ I hope you're doing well Hun.may God Grant you your Hearts desires and may Your Dreams come TRUE Sweetheart in JESUS NAME With MUCH LOVE 💕 From Somewhere in OKLAHOMA 🙏🌹🙏 be strong in the LORD LOVE 💕
@@BillyHendricks-wm1yq DEAR BILLY from somewhere in OKLAHOMA!🤗💕 Thank you for your kindness, your thoughts and for taking the time for your prayers! ✝️🤍 I just came to Jesus a year and a half ago after 2 friends whom I love very much died suddenly and unexpectedly. The seed that was planted long ago blossomed into belief in Jesus. I feel so blessed to receive your reply. 💕 This has been my social life since my friend passed. I take your kind words to my heart. ~From me, out here on Canada's West Coast ✝️🕊️🤍💕👍🏻 I hope my reply finds you blessed as well ✝️🕊️🤍
@@ankitrana306 I totally understand it's not easy. Especially when uour heart is hurting. Sometimes it's the only way to allow yourself to heal. I block so that I can't hear or see any messages or phone calls he may or may not have made to me.. I'd rather not know. Just sharing this in hopes that it'll help you 🤗🤍.
My rejection was not act of hostility against me. It was only one possible reaction to my stupid and unfair messages, i sent to one of a kindest persons I met in my life. I don't have the comfort to hate her, she was even so kind to me she just wrote "I need a pause, thank you for understanding...". It was a lesson which I will remember to end of my time. A real wake up call. I wasted my life in a very stupid way. Now I have a lot of work to do. I don't know how long it will hurt me so much, but I know that I will not be the same person again anymore.
Just for the fact that you have so much self-awareness and are willing to take accountability, you will heal and blossom into an amazing person for the other relationships in your life. Strength to you. ❤
I've recently gone through a breakup, and it's my first one ever. She's a lot more mature than me, a lot more experienced in self love, and its seems like she's been through this scenario plenty of times before. I've received a whole ton of advice similar to what this video is trying to accomplish, but I couldn't get past the first hump of rejection. I've been making good progress, but I still couldn't get past the thought of her still possibly caring about me. This video has helped me solidify my thought process, the advice that I've been receiving, and my healing progression. Thank you to the person that made this video, and I am so grateful for seeing this video at a time where it was most needed in my life. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm glad to hear that the video has been helpful for you during this difficult time. Take care and keep focusing on your healing journey.
Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm glad to hear that the video has been helpful for you during this difficult time. Take care and keep focusing on your healing journey.
I feel like I am in the twilight zone. I was getting ready to sell my homes so I could move to New Jersey and get married to my childhood sweetheart. Everything was great. He expressed his feelings openly, very romantic. Came to California for a week. I was hoping to just enjoy time together. He decided to work all week cleaning up my yard and garage. Very sweet that he wanted to do that. I told him he is amazing and so sweet to do so. But please take it easy, because he was hurting his back. We both are in our 60’s. I took him to the airport, everything was still great. Once arriving, he kept saying pull over here, I was. He jumped out so fast, I said you must want to get home. That’s when he was screaming. Seriously, why? Still not sure. He slammed the door didn’t say goodbye, no kiss nothing. I was dumbfounded. After three days of silence, I texted him asking what was wrong. Why did you get so upset? He called back that night still screaming and complains about the week, how he worked so hard and I had the nerve to say that to him at the airport. Guessing after all we talked about, it’s now over? Wtf? So confused over the whole thing. I would like an answer to what happened. I feel I need closer, and guessing what flipped that switch to make him lose his mind. I know I don’t deserve this. Everything he said before all this happened, was he lying? I am not going to contact him any further. I am thanking God I didn’t sell my homes or move in with him.
Be happy that you saw the situation in time. Maybe he understood that he not really want you and could not say it and tried to make you look quilty. That is a narsistic style of behaviour.
25:38 "your kindness is a gift, not a transaction" ... this is just a tiny piece of all of the wonderful advice given and explained in this video. Love the content!
I forwarded this video to my own email. The words are so reassuring and soothing! They wash all the pain and sadness away, and fill me with joy for today. Let's go! I love to swim in the powerful Pacific surf. Rejection and loss sometimes feels like a wave cresting and washing over you. The hardest losses are like the waves that pin you to the ocean's floor. If you can hold on long enough, and get back to the surface, you will have survived and know the measure of your own strength, when faced with adversity. Love life, whatever it brings, and stay strong!
YES!!! I was heartbroken when I was not the chosen candidate for my dream job. Thank goodness. I later learned that the person who got that position was miserable and abused. I’ve dodged the bullet more than once but this experience has never been forgotten
"In a world where instant responses are expected, your silence can be intriguing. Even attractive. It shows you're not easily shaken. That you have a life full of interests and priorities beyond this rejection!" SOOOOOOOLD! Sign me tf in! Im a stoic student rn!!!!
Thank you for your insightful comment. It's great to see that you resonate with the concept of stoicism. Looking forward to having you as a part of our community.
this popped up for me to see just when I needed it. I just got rejected hard today, and was feeling super down. this reminded me of how so many times when I didnt get the outcome that I wanted, and was feeling devastated, down the road something happened or came a long that was so much better for me. It made me remember that I am so glad that the universe didnt give me what I wanted, and what I got was so much more than I could have dreamed. this video really saved me today.
This is my daughter , I'm 66 and she is 49, it's has always been a one way street always about her and her life and everything, does not care about mine or my feelings or my thoughts or nothing i want to talk about, she only wants to talk about her and what she's going through and doing and wants to do, ive been in the wrong of chasing her with messages and talking through messages which she never clearly answers back or acknowledges them. I really needed to hear this, time to break loose from her rejection and silence and ignoring me, i thought she was my best friend and i do love her but it's time to step back and move forward into a new direction and opened doors. Thank you so much for this wisdom !!!
My husband walked out on me after I made a police complain on domestic violence. That time my daughter supported me. In fact she was happy to see him go. But I kept grieving how my life has been wasted. I was 55 then. Slowly I pulled myself out of it. Now I m happy with myself. I go to my job, do house hold chores, shop for myself and daughter. But strangely I now find that my daughter doesn't care about me. In fact she has become very rude and also verbally abusive. Yet she expects me do all her cooking, provide for all her expenses. She has made it amply clear that she doesn't need my company.. only my contribution. I think I should let her live her life her way. I really cannot find a solution to this. She is nearly twenty now.
Yes it's kinda frustrating when you beg for attention and seeking someone's approval. Now, I realized that I'm stoic by nature. All that have been mentioned here are exact and true based on my experience.Rejection is not easy to handle but don't let it over rule your emotion and reactions. This is great!! 💪
Holy cow ! I just resigned at 3 am and I feel absolutely no regret , especially after watching this video . Things had been brewing for too long . I am super confident with my decision and am willing to face any number of challenges for a new beginning! Thanks much !
Stoicism has, in addition to my Christian faith, uplifted my heart and spirit... I am so grateful for its wisdom. I've just been through a particularly tough patch. Rejection is one of the toughest journeys I've made. Thank God He's carried me through it. Thank YOU for availing this beautiful philosophy in this easily digested format. #Strengthinadversity.
Rejection is just one of the Best Teachings that Make us understand the Way our Strenght of Never Give up yo achieve your greatest Passion that you know .
Sometimes people make you feel worthless but remember your true value there is only one of you in this whole entire universe make the most of what you have just be grateful go with the flow of life❤
I’m dealing with rejection right now and I let my emotions run wild and I acted out now I’m regretting it but it’s all lessons to learn from I’m grateful for this I pray we all grow for the better and learn from our experiences
It may be funny, but I met someone about 2 years ago. I believed and was convinced that it was her. All this time I was trying to get closer to her, I gave her gifts, beautiful bouquets of flowers, I tried to invite her to a wonderful evening... and I received compliments from her. She told me that she had no one and didn't want anyone, but that she would definitely think about me, and then she changed her mind several times. I truly fell in love with her like never before in my life. We work together and it's hard for me to look her way and talk to her after rejection. This is a really strange feeling. But this short material allowed me to understand that I am worth more than just having fun with her and ultimately... rejection. I love and respect her very much, and I will act in the manner outlined in this video, which has certainly opened my eyes. Because you have to love and respect yourself. Thank you
Never chase a girl. Never agree with a girl. Girls don’t even know what they actually want. They are addicted to drama and the emotional roller coaster, not good feelings. Be abrasive in getting and being what you want and setting boundaries. Be agreeable on the most meaningful things to her at the right time. We get bad habits from shows and movie scripts written by women. Thankfully the pendulum is swinging back to sanity - patriarchy.
Wow. Everything you mentioned is spot on. I know my worth and even though people daily do everything to put me down, they will never succeed in making me feel bad about myself. I love and respect myself and that no one, I repeat NO ONE can change or take away from me. They try, but they fail miserably every single time. 😂 You have a new sub now. Thank you ! ❤🙂
I just wanted to share how this helped me so much. I've been rejected by 14 different romantic interests of mine in the past few years. It had really destroyed my self esteem and how I view myself. This video helped me to stand tall and not be overcome with despair. That and another quote I read recently. "Strong women scare weak men" As a woman who has had to be strong just due to life's traumas, it's an honor that I am strong and resilient. I can stand by myself and though I still wish I had a partner to lean on sometimes, I know that I am capable within myself
That is the dumbest, most pandering quote I've seen. "Strong" women do not scare men, men do not value "strength" in women, they value femininity. Do weak men scare women? Why do you hate weak men if you're so strong? This is something feminists tell themselves, that men are "scared" of their "strength". Y'all are not strong, y'all are just untolerable and loudmouths.
@@zoh2023 By watching videos that blame men for not finding her attractive? Apparently men are weak because they don't find masculinity attractive, go figure. This is not how stoics think. She's supposed to have introspection and realise why she's undesirable, instead of blaming others for being undesirable.
Struggled after my divorce. I wasn't a present husband of step dad. Long story after 16 years she asked for a divorce & I said yes. Didn't fight for it which is bad on me. I understand what she means now & as she has loved all communication I have felt strength in listening to these & now finding my self for me so I can become the man with true love for myself thank you.
I've been raised to be an independent , resilient individual by my parents - they both are passed and I couldn't thank them enough for what they have given me - however ,this is absolutely one of the most influential , educational " sessions " so to speak , I've attended. I take it as an affirmation to what I believe and act upon .
These principles are very similar to how I've interracted to the neurotypical world. They don't like it. It put a target on my back. It made me angry. But now, thanks to your videos, I see I did just fine on my own. Thank you for your videos.
While I’ve been putting these lessons into practice, this vid was recommended to me by the Google algo and has served as an affirmation to continue practicing these on my journey. Strength in adversity, indeed. 🙏🏼💪🏼✌🏼
Love it! I often feel rejected. But everything turned into blessings when I focus on my self improvement and self respect. Silence is the best strategy. 😊
YES, Lord I have to seek first the kingdom and all other things will be added unto me. Help me God cause I am ready to serve you with my whole heart ❤️ Amennnnnn and Amennnnnn.
This is highly correct applies in my life before i was looking. A decent job everyone rejected me which i just want a job but i dont even understand why im always rejected until what i am today is blessed and thankfu theyl rejected me because i am in a great place in work now
This is the natural way of my being these days, since experiencing challenges abroad and learning to adapt to people whose morals are completely different from my own.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It's always interesting to hear how different cultures can shape our perspectives. I can relate to the challenge of adapting to new morals and values. It's definitely a learning experience.
My wife of 30 years left me with my children to go and start her own life.She left me after I gave her some money to start a small business so that we could help raising our children.I'am a born again christian.She told me that she will make shure she ashame my salvation.Since she left l have never heard sex out of marriage.Most of the day when I'am not at work l stay at home reading my Bible and praying for my children.God haven't left me nor forsaken me.He's got a better plans for me...❤
Well it’s not by depriving yourself from the pleasure will bring her back… she belongs to street you focus on yours and children happiness and enjoy every vacation together
When I needed this the most,it just appeared on my screen,thank you universal forces of life, for giving me courage,wisdom and temperance. I am emerging far stronger and wiser than I could have ever imagined in the face of a marriage breakdown that has been an arena of insults,disrespect,one sided vitriol,fights,destruction of household items,damage to vehicle and threats of repeat of same and virtually a prison for both of us
People are going through a lot these days. My story is very long and i am trying to use these moments to grow. Thanks for sharing these powerful words of wisdom❤
Thank you for this upload, the timing couldn’t be more perfect. I was using silence as a response to a rejection. But I was beginning to doubt myself until I watched this. The synchronicity is awesome. Happy new year.
a strong title that immediately resonates with anyone who has faced setbacks. The phrase "to Your Favor" reframes rejection as an opportunity, which feels empowering and motivating. It promises practical insights, positioning rejection as a tool for growth rather than a setback, which is likely to attract viewers looking to turn challenges into advantages. Overall, it's concise, actionable, and appealing for personal development.
A really Good friend of mine sent me this link. She said it made her think of me. It took me many years of insecurity to find myself and I live my life much like this video suggests. I'm still growing but obviously, well on my way. I found value in this video and will watch more in this series, now that I know of them. 😊😊😊😊😊😊
I PRACTICE THESE WAYS IN MY LIFE TO OVERCOME THE REJECTION I FEEL AND IT WORKS !!! I JUST FOCUS ON MYSELF AND FIND HAPPINESS IN MY HEART AND HEALTH BY RAKING IT ALL AS A GRAND LESSON IN LEARNING AMD ATTAINING MORE WISDOM AND POSITIVITY IN MY LIFE AND THE LIVES OF THOSE I INTERACT WITH 🤠❤️😊🙏🏿🌈
Dealing with this issue as my mother has dismissed me from her life. I’ve been prepping for this day my whole life and here we are. I’m very pleased that I have these techniques under my belt from previous life experience but the video is very helpful in staying the course!
This happened with my Mum and I…I stopped trying after disagreements…I had to stop bcs I’ve had to look after injur£d loved ones. Mum returned to me 9 Months later…we have an even better relationship now. ❤️🧡
@@caroleyre9144 I’m so glad for you. Weird but I walked away on Dec 18th and came home to find my friend with cancer I care for in worsening condition. We ended up in ICU this week and are at the ❤️ Dr now. He really needs all my attention right now. Idk if we will ever mend the rift but for now I know I’m where I supposed to be. Best wishes for your futures!
When I was growing up I got a lot of rejection. I used my lonely time to complete my educational goals. Since then I have turned to educational goals, and self reflections. I learned that being rejected isn't as lonely as it seems. The time that is allowed can be used wisely. I'm very greatful that I had choices. I accomplished many tasks since then.
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Strength in adversity
My gggg
Amen we will!
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Strength in adversity.
4:43 " Your power lies in how you respond , not in how others treat you "
Married to it
Exactly. Like ts
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I lost my mom on July 2 my dad on July 12 and my husband on July 25, 2021. All in the same month. I’m only strong because what other choice do I have. The sun will come up tomorrow and I am gonna be here. So when “He” just cut me off recently it makes me smile and carry on because I have been through far worse….
You are one powerful woman .
Your strength will give you the life you deserve. ❤
Wow I lost 3 family in three consecutive years and thought it's tough,after reading your story,I feel for you
With strength comes grace. I found that for myself I feel so strong. I have a big family and have lost so many over the years. I have noticed that the older I get the wisdom comes and I listen.
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Ignore them too
Focus on your life and self respect
Don’t react emotionally
Remove them from mind
Demonstrate your value
Cut off contact
Prove them wrong
Go out and have fun
Build your social status
Act as if they don’t exist
Give them silent treatment
Maintain your dignity
Don’t beg for attention
Be kind but emotionally distant
Don’t reveal your struggle
Thank you😊😊😊😊
Awesome Helpful Words Friend, Needed Them Today!🙏🏽 8:15 pm
I needed this thank you!!❤❤
Appreciate this! Thank you very much❤
Make alot of money.
Sometimes the algorithm really does suggest the exact video you need at the exact moment you need it.
Couldn't agree more! 💙
it's google stalking you actually
@@chriscs9080. Yes , except they use robots and not people, much faster .
I totally agree @wololo4761
Ai man, we are doomed or saved .
Wife of 15 years just told me tonight "I'm no longer in love with you...I want you to move out".
So yeah, I'm falling the fuck apart right now...and can't stop crying...and feeling dark...
But, deep inside, I'm relieved it's over. I don't gotta be a victim of her addiction anymore. I don't gotta be manipulated and lied to anymore.
I'm free to give my faithful commitment to a woman who wants the same, not a 35 year old addict who still wants to act 22.
One day I'll be grateful it's over.
Right now, it hurts like hell tho. This cut is by far the deepest I've ever had to endure
These videos are so fucking crucial to my mental well being right now and being stoic is having quite the impact on how SHE'S treating me, almost feeling my absence before Ive even finished packing my shit
Am sorry it's not easy may God grant you peace
Get out there. You deserve better. After all of this bs you will feel relieved and happy. You are free now. I know u can't see it atm but she did u a favor. Focus on yourself and friends. Step by step. Make smart decisions. Take care of your energy. With every day it is going to be better. You will feel like yourself again . Many of us had to go through this. You're not alone. I'm thinking of u and wish u well ❤️🩹
GET THRU THIS MAN❤
Kick her out. You’re not moving.
"Build a fortress of self-respect.
Words that i will try to live by.
Absolutely
You WILLL say tha
Look to make a life more complete then be sure you will not feel obsolete
Suzanne XOXO @@MerlotWateringHisGrass
Incredible
Self Respect Self Love, Self Worth Self Sufficiency Self Invest ...A few things you need to have, know and do. I always live by these..for example, if you have Self Respect, you will not allow anyone to disrespect you or put your self in a situation to be disrespected
The message just confirmed that I’m on the right right path.
Same here
Same
I really needed this today. My husband walked out on our marriage and I recently found out he is involved with someone much younger from his work. I have been here at home with kids while they are all watching me cry almost everyday for the past year. My husband knows I’m struggling which he says he feels bad about, but what it comes down to is this new person is giving him all the attention and praise that was missing from our marriage while I was severely depressed myself. I have learnt when I am hurt I react in a very disregulated way and often say things that I regret later which often leaves me looking unstable and immature. These sort of messages really helps me to refocus and helps me remember that I am responsible for my own feelings and how I chose to react to them and sometimes the best thing I can do when feeling hurt and rejected is to take a step back and focus inwards instead of allowing other people’s actions to determine my emotional state and behaviour which often is completely out of alignment with my own virtues and morals which is generally quite solid and strong. Sorry for the rant, I’m clearly not used to commenting in places like this, but thank you.
My husband wanted out after 40 years of marriage. We got along great, so I was shocked. It was not another woman, he wanted to be alone and move near his son across the country. I told him go, I didn’t show my emotions. I told him I will move forward and make a great life for myself. I never let him see my hurt, I wouldn’t give him the satisfaction. I went no contact even though he wanted to FaceTime me and call all the time. Nope. It’s hard being alone for the first time in my life. No friends or family. But I’m determined. I’m going to start dating and make a good life for myself. You can do it too!
Thankyou very much for being open about it. I am 60 and look back at mistakes i made, and would like to say to you, that the very best thing you can do, is to follow the advice from the video.. And that your kids need you to do this too. They need to see their mum recover snd live in a positive environmrnt because your emotions will affect theirs. Its really best to be the strong stable one, be their anchor, and be grateful you have these kids and let them feel safe at home.. And lived. Yiur husband leaving you has shaken the safety of your home badly enough, and you must rise above it, closing doors will open new ones and the mental health of kids relies on a stable home environment,, so in a way, its our job as mothers to do this, with the knowledge that what a mother projects.. The kids absorb this, so.. What i do is... Clean the house, pit a, warm meal on and be there for them, as positive and stable as you can be.. And do things together which bond yiu and place memories in the bank, so to say...crucial for their inner selves.. Cant be underestimated.. Years csn go by with allowing our own emotions to cripple us... Tbis is wasting time.. By that i mean, that the kids need to see you strong and leading the family and doing things together with laughter and gratitude for the sun rises and falls. And it can be a beautiful world.. It deoends on how we create that Be strong, mental health is reliant on the home generating trust, safety and love.
It takes time you will be ok silence is best
Try to stay busy take the children to the park daily or for a walk. Take a deep breath it's going to be okay 🙏
You are a strong woman❤
Your kids will watch u overcome these unfortunate outcomes and also become strong like their momma and handle anything that comes their way with grace. Anyone who doesn't value and respect how much work it takes to keep the home flowing as smoothly as possible, they do not deserve to be there. You deserve better and God will bring u what u deserve as long as u put ur faith in God and what he has planned for u. Don't let anyone under value u ever, especially when all ur effort goes into taking care of ur family at home. ❤
God bless you, and I want u to know everything will get better. Stay strong💪and keep up the great work, The Lord, the one who matters, sees u, and that's all that matters. ❤
Im the little girl whos parents didnt want her. They didnt put me for adoption though, they just left me alone as if i didnt exist. I remember trying to thaw frozen food in my mouth because i was starving... At 8. Now im a year 3 law student and a mommy. My pain never defined me. My parents maltreatment didnt define me. I refuse to allow anyone to take my peace.
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Hi, please keep challenging yourself to make healthy choices. We all have these certain weak spots ….only you know yours . Keep shining 💥
Best Wishes ❤
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I salute you. You are brave and courageous.
“Every setback is a setup for a comeback” 💪🏻
If you ever listen to anything while reading comments, let it be this - go to borlest and read the book whispers of manifestation, then come back and thank me!
1.Ignore them too
2.Don't react emotionally
3.Remove them from your mind
4.Demonstrat your value
5. Cut off contact
6. Prove them wrong
7.Go out and have fun
8.Build your social status
9.Act as if they doesn't exist
10.Give them silent treatment
11.Don't beg for attention
12.Be kind but emotionally distant
13.Don't reveal your struggle
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Literally 0% stocism lol. To be stoic is to not need to act a certain way in reaction to a certain perceivable negative stimuli. Everything listed is sigmi culture/pop psychology bs.
@@pgman5416🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
@@ginaqc78 research stoicism. The wiki is actually a great starting point. Read philosophy books. These videos are disguising themselves as stoic teachings but they’re mostly toxic af anti social behaviors
Number #3 is so hard and difficult for me especially when you had love them
Rejection by someone you love is debilitating. I need to listen to this a few more times to make sure it sinks in
You are exactly right. It’s extremely hard to think about anything else. It’s all-consuming.
It's also takes time to overcome, go easy on yourself 🙂🙌
It hurts so much.
Me too
Yes, this is my daughter! I practically was a slave to her! And she treats me with such disrespect! She doesn't like it when I say no! She attacks me! but she can hurt me all she wants always!😢
"Flip the script, regain your power." Remember you don't need anyone's approval. You are the one that creates your happiness. No one else. Be true to yourself! Peace and love to everyone from the Olympic Peninsula in Washington State!♥️🙏🇺🇲
Thanks for sharing this
I live in Victoria and marvel at the beauty of the Olympic Peninsula Withey Olympic mountains! What a backdrop for us to have. Thank you and God bless you and God bless your beautiful country.
Strength in adversity💝
Port Townsend
@@klausroethel5961 I look across the Strait of Juan de Fuca from my front porch and wave HI to my Canadian neighbors on a clear day. I enjoyed watching your fireworks on New Year's Eve. God bless you and your beautiful country too!🙏♥️🇺🇲🇨🇦
Someone should please like my comment so that i can always find my way back here to soak in these great words of wisdom 🙏
Just save the Video
Cheeky 😆
@@crislanvilla28always looking for likes. fools
It’s about internal validation - not external. You don’t need likes. Are were you kidding?
@@miriamreeves9437 you are apparently ignorant of why I made that comment.
I wish I had come across this 13 years ago. However, I believe the universe sends you some messages when its the right time to receive it. Thank you.
13 years here too man, but I was trained by her leaving so much coming back before I knew this,I improved, therapy, Bible study, mushroom 🍄🍄 music art 🎭 walking on a energy playlist,the prodigy -naranaja song, Beck-- -cellphones dead, song was and is my superhero vigilante theme song. The video will make you 🤣😊 karaoke 🎤 weeeed, the Sopranos, the Ozarks, breaking had, movies take your mind out off your body when set up theater style, but pick movies 🍿 upward 👆⬆️ as in horror movies would be down 👎👎 rocky instead of nightmare on elm St, tales of underdogs overcoming massive odds, action heros and cartoons from goodtimes of youth if any i pray, 🙏 love yourself and hear me when you say to yourself, i was and am superior to them, they mirrored you to simulate connection or giving you opportunities to be professor to her student learning about your favorite things faking interest to gas you up to stab your tire the next day after Shakespeare deep 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 ,bottom falls out like gallows,and your swinging from the neck and shes pulling on your leg., her loss they never think ahead and shes getting played settling in the same position you have been FREED from sir. Pray for whoever has her now and become the best version of yourself gradually you will hurt less and less . BOOOM a new REAL love ❤️ a JOY UNEXPECTED. you are able to watch that narc in a xxx, pain free , u wont even feel sorry for her, and your goodness wouldn't even let you chuckle when humor gut checked ya funny bone 🤭 at your NEW bachelor party 🎉🎉😂❤ 🥳🎉gooseass high a smiling, with me DJing ... the song playing??? Rick James -hard to get ironically 🎉🎉🎉❤ check out that video. Must be a frequency. I love you as a brother in the human Race. Fellow earthling I ate too many 🍄🍄🍄🍄
A chick I had deep feelings for ghosted me for no apparent reason. I don’t think I did anything wrong. I wanted to reach out to her closure but this video made me come back to my senses. Thank you.
Are unbearable regrets but having freedom at the same time more painful than life in prison when it comes to people who only have 1 or 2 years left to live and then they die or pass away in 3 years?
I know a guy who ghosts all the time. Sees me & wants to unite but never talks about needs or wants;
Doesnt stay around long enough to get close or personal or just flat out get to know.
you ..then he's gone 👻 Odd... ghosting. See you in another 2 or 10 years of Im around! 👀
@@DesertlizzyThe Are unbearable regrets but having freedom at the same time more painful than life in prison when it comes to people who only have 1 or 2 years left to live and then they die or pass away in 3 years?
I asked a girl out and she said yes but it turned out that her friend was on the phone and said yes for her. Her friend did t even tell her I was dating her now until a few days later and since she wasn’t ready to date me we broke up. That would’ve been fine except it was so awkward for her that she said now she just wants to be friends and now she hasn’t texted me in weeks. I wanted to reach out but this video made me focus on myself
@@ArchiedArcher Are unbearable regrets but having freedom at the same time more painful than permanent punishment in prison when it comes to people who only have 1 or 2 years left to live and then they die or pass away in 3 years?
Don't care about rejections,There is always someone who accepts you and cherishes you,
That's the point fool.
U don't need to be accepted by anyone... You must make space in the desired person's eyes er chase or show them weakness attract them
Exactly ✅💖
@@x-senradam9009 🙏
Funny that one like is probably you liking your own post 😂@@KungFuPANDA-e6z
True
Rejection at a high level means you will receive something even higher and Greater ❤❤❤!
Thank you for your perspective!
Amen
Well I'm still waiting
I love this 😊
@@Micosprincessgoldenera90sgirl althought it's just a stupid saying? And why do you all use those emotes like youre shy or embarrassed? I really don't get it... most of you people on this earth are fully blown weirdos
4:43 " Your power lies in how you respond , not in how others treat you " love it
This was food for my soul, I’m going to listen to this again and again, I’ve been rejected several times this last year by my own family and I needed so much to hear this. The pain was incredible because I’ve nothing whatsoever to provoke the rejection. Now I feel with these gems of wisdom I can overcome the pain with dignity . Thank you! ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I'm truly glad to hear that the content resonated with you and provided some comfort during a difficult time.
Lovely comment
I’ve been through this too. I’ve cried a river over rejection without reason by the ones I love.
Now I’m stronger and more resilient. You can be too. Know your worth discover your greatness and be free.
Thank you for your post. I also have had these painful & bewildering experiences. My best understanding is that this apparent irrational hatred is due to the perpetrators' jealousy of your goodness, your genuine ability to connect with others and your empathy. The darkness is always attracted to the light and can't bear it.
I have this with 2 family members and one that lives with me 😊
We're all gonna make it brahs
Thank you
Not only make it but thrive,grow& become even more resilient 🎉
Yes we are!❤
And invincible ✨🤯
I didn't realize Stoic's were fortune tellers. This is way eastern philosophy is better. Results aren't based on outcomes.
Rejection is GOD'S protection!!! 11:11 peace and blessings to you and your family as well Happy New Years Highest energies Thank you Beautiful Universe and brother for the message! Wisdom is the key!
Happy New Year. Thank you
I'm so grateful I don't worship your god.
@@GoddessBlessYou
Oh, so you actually worship Satan then huh? 🤔 😂 🤷
Jesus is Key
You have 111 likes too…I don’t want to spoil it but I like 👍 lol
Happy New Year, Warm Blessings for 2024. ❤️🧡
A lot of men need to hear this. As of late, some of them have been acting like a child over being rejected by a woman
You relate this to men. Like this doesn't relate to women also. This relates to anyone who has experienced things mentioned. Women can also have irrational behaviors when rejected by men.
@@justhilariousignoranceisav3243 I never seen it. I never seen a woman threaten a man’s life or put hands on them for rejecting them. This is way more common behavior that men display. Men come a dime a dozen so that’s probably why it’s not common for women to do this
Women need this too
Women act like children if they don’t get their validation
My family pet needs to hear this to 😆
Self respect is what keeps me “silent” and introspection is my pleasure to be my best self. I will to not be devalued by someone’s attempt to control me.
This comment is everything
I dont feel rejected anymore ,i feel blessed , i realized the God and his universe has been working for my good afterall. Whoever i am whatever i am , i feel blessed , and i will keep believing that i am God's creation, his poet ,his song , and above all his masterpiece. I have nothing but gratefulness for the people who were kind and generous to me , forgiveness to those who wronged me . And i praying they 2 will move on someday. GOD HAVE KEPT HIS LOWLY SERVANT SAFE .
Gratitude, forgiveness, and a surrendering to the Power that holds everything together.
Shalom
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This message was right on time. So many good points I am definitely going to implement in my daily life.
You have to except things for what they are knowing you can't change what happens on the out side. But focus the things you can change on the inside. As within so without as above so below. From the macrocosm to the microcosm we are all just energy in that respect we are all one .
@@godvibeonlywkimberlyl9916it's not as easy as you think...
One year since my husband to whom l gave the world told me that he didn't want to be with me. The hurt it caused me was undescribable but thanks to messages and positivity from videos like this one, l quickly found my inner strength and, l am here to say, l am stronger than I've been in all senses of the word. I have improved so many aspects of my life because I became my priority and decided that nobody will take my self-worth and strength away from me. Thank you for this message ❤
Brave woman, the world needs honest people like yourself, it was just a tunnel with bright future ahead . Keep it , keep shining .
Wow! I’m dealing with this right now. So hurt, unable to breathe
@@IsjahhSharifff l'm sorry you are going through this. All l can say is allow yourself to grieve and keep listening to all these positive messages. There is a light at the end of it. Although I still love him, I don't feel mad at him anymore. I feel empowered. Take it easy, let your emotions flow but focus on you getting stronger and not on getting him back. Life is good one year since our divorce. Believe me.
Breathe,It will pass ,Everything does❤@@IsjahhSharifff
I'm thankful because it's been 44 years for me now I'm ready leave my childhood🥲 trauma behind lil girl I love u but bye I must mature into adulthood time to grow up😂
As a kid, rejection was devastating. As a young professional, rejection was a favor. As an adult,rejection is a blessing!
"As a yong professional, rejection was a favor" HOW DO U KNOW
if i get rejected i wouldn't even be mad but happy
@@TheRealSutairu favors usually do make us happy, don’t they?
@@TheRealSutairu I wasn’t speaking for you, thank you very much!
@@Diogenes425 where did u got this from?
@@Diogenes425 anyway im gonna steal that comment.. i mean permantly borrow it
Reading comments alone makes me feel i am not alone in this world, that alone uplifts my spirit, especially when i read stories those who have overcome diversities, defrayals, and disappointments. Time heals. Thank you. God bless you all and live to share your happy ending stories
"if one door closed Another Opens"👍👍
I listened from Thailand❤ Thank you.
Thanks for listening
Just watched I’ll be back with results 💪🏽😉☺️ today is 3-23-24 pray 🙏🏽 for me and wish me luck I feel sooo I’m powerful from this video 💪🏽😊💃🏾
I don't let what other people do, make me angry, but I'm going to be assertive when I need to be, because people will walk all over you, if you continue to be silent.
I was gaslight by a guy who said he and his ex are getting back together. Ok. I. Here for me and my well bring.
@@acheeksgaming4849 I feel that is going on in my situation
It’s tough, it hurt, now I feel like the rebound
Stoicism is definitely a "Superpower!!" I like that!
My love rejected me the other day because I told him I was sick. I walked away with grace and chose Silence and thought this was preparing me for something Greater than I am. And then this video shows up today on top of my feed. And I am so Grateful because that is exactly the path I chose - stoic! And I studied Marcus Aurelius as a child, drew even his portrait with a finger in the air. What a remarkable reminder. Thank you from the bottom of my soul, this confirmed my strength like a mirror.
You know who your friends are when you are ill because they will show some level of concern for you. Narcissist's are easy to spot because they will treat you as if you are an inconvenience when you are ill or injured. Some narcissist's may not show this callous side of themselves straight away but in due time they will. I hope the person you love has your best interest at heart.
@@lindelaedmonds4595 🕊🌹
Take the high road and trust in God. He's bigger than this and will get you through this. God bless you 🙏.
@@unebonnevie you are right. He doesn't deserve one single thought let alone such a noble title.
This qoaut really remains me of who I'm, the king is here
I allowed my ex back into my life, he made so many promises, he had changed, he realised the pain and hurt he had caused. Now, I found out that he is still behaving badly, having multiple affairs.
I feel hurt, but better after listening to this wisdom and the wonderful voice of the narrator. Thank you.
Been there.....they never change
Run
Mine came back I have him a change and he was the same, so I ended it. He's back again and now I'm silent forever.
I have been rebuilding a relationship with my ex. He made me believe he was serious in working things out and has suddenly gone silent. I'm struggling with this big time but have backed off and not tried to contact him. Trying to see the situation for what it is and put my energy back into myself
Thats how I feel. I lost my only child. I lost 2, 18 yr old loving cats, my sister, my brother all in just a few months. And I've been a widow for several years, so whoever leaves me now, that's just fine. Ive lost the closest thing to me, my son, and I will never feel that level of pain again, so have a good life and I'm glad you are out of mine.
"Receive without conceit, release without struggle." - Marcus Aurelius
Love this 👌
@@luxemindsetofficial Great wisdom to unpack with this profound quote by Marcus Aurelius
"Your value doesn't dectease on someone's inability to see your worth..". I needed that.
I was 'played' and I felt angry. I couldn't just sit and be calm. So instead of reacting i rode my bike all night to get rid of that toxic energy.
Also, block and delete. Not out of spite, but to preserve my inner peace. ❤️
So, you already knew what youve been told here. Only useful experience comes from "I DID IT MYSELF". Every other experience is debatable. You dont need these sites and clips to improve. Trust me.
@@APOLON-bm7ym I raised my child ALL by myself working 2 jobs not a penny for child support from the father.
The father became physically abusive towards me when she was 6 months old. I left everything behind (except my baby and a backpack) and didn't look back. My love for her inspired me to better myself and go back to school to make a decent life for us. Thank you for the kindness in your words. 💗
DEAR Bunny
Bless you're ❤️ I hope you're doing well Hun.may God Grant you your Hearts desires and may Your Dreams come TRUE Sweetheart in JESUS NAME With MUCH LOVE 💕 From Somewhere in OKLAHOMA 🙏🌹🙏 be strong in the LORD LOVE 💕
@@BillyHendricks-wm1yq
DEAR BILLY from somewhere in OKLAHOMA!🤗💕
Thank you for your kindness, your thoughts and for taking the time for your prayers! ✝️🤍
I just came to Jesus a year and a half ago after 2 friends whom I love very much died suddenly and unexpectedly. The seed that was planted long ago blossomed into belief in Jesus. I feel so blessed to receive your reply. 💕
This has been my social life since my friend passed. I take your kind words to my heart.
~From me, out here on Canada's West Coast ✝️🕊️🤍💕👍🏻
I hope my reply finds you blessed as well ✝️🕊️🤍
@@ankitrana306 I totally understand it's not easy. Especially when uour heart is hurting. Sometimes it's the only way to allow yourself to heal. I block so that I can't hear or see any messages or phone calls he may or may not have made to me.. I'd rather not know. Just sharing this in hopes that it'll help you 🤗🤍.
My rejection was not act of hostility against me. It was only one possible reaction to my stupid and unfair messages, i sent to one of a kindest persons I met in my life.
I don't have the comfort to hate her, she was even so kind to me she just wrote "I need a pause, thank you for understanding...".
It was a lesson which I will remember to end of my time. A real wake up call.
I wasted my life in a very stupid way. Now I have a lot of work to do.
I don't know how long it will hurt me so much, but I know that I will not be the same person again anymore.
Just for the fact that you have so much self-awareness and are willing to take accountability, you will heal and blossom into an amazing person for the other relationships in your life. Strength to you. ❤
This guys voice calms me. Like a heavenly father giving wise words to a son
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AI is calming
GOD
... or daughter
@@robzilla730 nope. Im definately 100% male
All thanks to god and these community for crossing these video ❤
I've recently gone through a breakup, and it's my first one ever. She's a lot more mature than me, a lot more experienced in self love, and its seems like she's been through this scenario plenty of times before. I've received a whole ton of advice similar to what this video is trying to accomplish, but I couldn't get past the first hump of rejection. I've been making good progress, but I still couldn't get past the thought of her still possibly caring about me. This video has helped me solidify my thought process, the advice that I've been receiving, and my healing progression. Thank you to the person that made this video, and I am so grateful for seeing this video at a time where it was most needed in my life. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm glad to hear that the video has been helpful for you during this difficult time. Take care and keep focusing on your healing journey.
Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm glad to hear that the video has been helpful for you during this difficult time. Take care and keep focusing on your healing journey.
Yes everyone can listen but having the mindset to put this wisdom into practice is a tremendous skill in itself
Women are not mature... so you must be so immature for her to ve more "mature" than you. You sound like beta male baby right now
Someday u will see it as a blessing in disguise..keep going.. more strength to u
I feel like I am in the twilight zone. I was getting ready to sell my homes so I could move to New Jersey and get married to my childhood sweetheart. Everything was great. He expressed his feelings openly, very romantic. Came to California for a week. I was hoping to just enjoy time together. He decided to work all week cleaning up my yard and garage. Very sweet that he wanted to do that. I told him he is amazing and so sweet to do so. But please take it easy, because he was hurting his back. We both are in our 60’s. I took him to the airport, everything was still great. Once arriving, he kept saying pull over here, I was. He jumped out so fast, I said you must want to get home. That’s when he was screaming. Seriously, why? Still not sure. He slammed the door didn’t say goodbye, no kiss nothing. I was dumbfounded. After three days of silence, I texted him asking what was wrong. Why did you get so upset? He called back that night still screaming and complains about the week, how he worked so hard and I had the nerve to say that to him at the airport. Guessing after all we talked about, it’s now over? Wtf?
So confused over the whole thing. I would like an answer to what happened. I feel I need closer, and guessing what flipped that switch to make him lose his mind. I know I don’t deserve this. Everything he said before all this happened, was he lying?
I am not going to contact him any further. I am thanking God I didn’t sell my homes or move in with him.
Maybe he thought u didnt really appreciate his efforts at the yard.
Be happy that you saw the situation in time. Maybe he understood that he not really want you and could not say it and tried to make you look quilty. That is a narsistic style of behaviour.
Amen. Oh Lord please give me strength and others too broken hearted. 🙏
25:38 "your kindness is a gift, not a transaction" ... this is just a tiny piece of all of the wonderful advice given and explained in this video. Love the content!
I forwarded this video to my own email. The words are so reassuring and soothing! They wash all the pain and sadness away, and fill me with joy for today. Let's go!
I love to swim in the powerful Pacific surf. Rejection and loss sometimes feels like a wave cresting and washing over you. The hardest losses are like the waves that pin you to the ocean's floor. If you can hold on long enough, and get back to the surface, you will have survived and know the measure of your own strength, when faced with adversity. Love life, whatever it brings, and stay strong!
The timing couldn't be more perfect...
Me too ❤
Same
YES!!! I was heartbroken when I was not the chosen candidate for my dream job. Thank goodness. I later learned that the person who got that position was miserable and abused. I’ve dodged the bullet more than once but this experience has never been forgotten
"In a world where instant responses are expected, your silence can be intriguing. Even attractive. It shows you're not easily shaken. That you have a life full of interests and priorities beyond this rejection!" SOOOOOOOLD! Sign me tf in! Im a stoic student rn!!!!
Thank you for your insightful comment. It's great to see that you resonate with the concept of stoicism. Looking forward to having you as a part of our community.
Your kindness is a gift not a transaction. I need this!
Yes, I Concur!
Me too.
this popped up for me to see just when I needed it. I just got rejected hard today, and was feeling super down. this reminded me of how so many times when I didnt get the outcome that I wanted, and was feeling devastated, down the road something happened or came a long that was so much better for me. It made me remember that I am so glad that the universe didnt give me what I wanted, and what I got was so much more than I could have dreamed. this video really saved me today.
Thanks for sharing this with us. Glad it helped you remember that rejection can be a redirection to something better
Rejection is divine protection.
Pfft this doesent happen for everyone. Sounds like your fairy tale came true though😂
This message is something I needed at this moment. It is God sent.
13. Don't Reveal Your Struggle
"To every man Death smiles, all a man should do is smile back." - Marcus Aurelius
Our life is short. It’s but a rain drop in a thunderstorm- Alan Watts
I like this quote 🎉
This is my daughter , I'm 66 and she is 49, it's has always been a one way street always about her and her life and everything, does not care about mine or my feelings or my thoughts or nothing i want to talk about, she only wants to talk about her and what she's going through and doing and wants to do, ive been in the wrong of chasing her with messages and talking through messages which she never clearly answers back or acknowledges them. I really needed to hear this, time to break loose from her rejection and silence and ignoring me, i thought she was my best friend and i do love her but it's time to step back and move forward into a new direction and opened doors. Thank you so much for this wisdom !!!
As a daughter with an elder mother, I'll do better. Thank you for the reminder.
Yes. Same with me too.
My husband walked out on me after I made a police complain on domestic violence. That time my daughter supported me. In fact she was happy to see him go. But I kept grieving how my life has been wasted. I was 55 then. Slowly I pulled myself out of it. Now I m happy with myself. I go to my job, do house hold chores, shop for myself and daughter. But strangely I now find that my daughter doesn't care about me. In fact she has become very rude and also verbally abusive. Yet she expects me do all her cooking, provide for all her expenses. She has made it amply clear that she doesn't need my company.. only my contribution. I think I should let her live her life her way. I really cannot find a solution to this. She is nearly twenty now.
@@sunandasengupta8113 madam. Let everyone go. Be happy.
@@l.h8249aaawww this made me feel exactly the same way.
Yes it's kinda frustrating when you beg for attention and seeking someone's approval. Now, I realized that I'm stoic by nature. All that have been mentioned here are exact and true based on my experience.Rejection is not easy to handle but don't let it over rule your emotion and reactions. This is great!! 💪
So true
Yes rejection is really hard to handle
Tomorrow's going to be a brighter day.
Amen
AMEN
Yes 😁😁😁
I am so immune with rejection as it happened countless time 😌
Holy cow ! I just resigned at 3 am and I feel absolutely no regret , especially after watching this video . Things had been brewing for too long . I am super confident with my decision and am willing to face any number of challenges for a new beginning! Thanks much !
The tapestry of a life well lived❤ 😂
Stoicism has, in addition to my Christian faith, uplifted my heart and spirit... I am so grateful for its wisdom. I've just been through a particularly tough patch. Rejection is one of the toughest journeys I've made. Thank God He's carried me through it. Thank YOU for availing this beautiful philosophy in this easily digested format. #Strengthinadversity.
Grace is a beautiful thing
Your power lies in how you respond 🎉
Enemies inspire me to be great , don't get mad , get even , be great , you're EVEN !!!
Strength through adversity. Through these words, I have come out the other side stronger.
Great
Yes …me too…feels good…now but it hadn’t for so long lol warm blessings ❤️🧡
Rejection is just one of the Best Teachings that Make us understand the Way our Strenght of Never Give up yo achieve your greatest Passion that you know .
I will listen to this many times til it is second nature to me
Thank you!
Me too!
Love this 👌
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Sometimes people make you feel worthless but remember your true value there is only one of you in this whole entire universe make the most of what you have just be grateful go with the flow of life❤
Strength in Adversity 👑🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟Will one day be Crowning Glory 🎉🌹💖👍
I’m dealing with rejection right now and I let my emotions run wild and I acted out now I’m regretting it but it’s all lessons to learn from I’m grateful for this I pray we all grow for the better and learn from our experiences
It may be funny, but I met someone about 2 years ago. I believed and was convinced that it was her. All this time I was trying to get closer to her, I gave her gifts, beautiful bouquets of flowers,
I tried to invite her to a wonderful evening... and I received compliments from her. She told me that she had no one and didn't want anyone, but that she would definitely think about me, and then she changed her mind several times. I truly fell in love with her like never before in my life. We work together and it's hard for me to look her way and talk to her after rejection. This is a really strange feeling. But this short material allowed me to understand that I am worth more than just having fun with her and ultimately... rejection. I love and respect her very much, and I will act in the manner outlined in this video, which has certainly opened my eyes. Because you have to love and respect yourself. Thank you
Never chase a girl. Never agree with a girl. Girls don’t even know what they actually want. They are addicted to drama and the emotional roller coaster, not good feelings. Be abrasive in getting and being what you want and setting boundaries. Be agreeable on the most meaningful things to her at the right time. We get bad habits from shows and movie scripts written by women. Thankfully the pendulum is swinging back to sanity - patriarchy.
Don't date work mate
I feel like stoicism gives us permission to return to self in a world that demands we endlessly give in order to be considered a "good person".
I need to listen to this EVVVVVVVVaraday! (everyday)
Strength and unity and understanding self-love to all my brothers and sisters who are in the movement
Wow. Everything you mentioned is spot on.
I know my worth and even though people daily do everything to put me down, they will never succeed in making me feel bad about myself. I love and respect myself and that no one, I repeat NO ONE can change or take away from me. They try, but they fail miserably every single time. 😂 You have a new sub now. Thank you ! ❤🙂
I just wanted to share how this helped me so much. I've been rejected by 14 different romantic interests of mine in the past few years. It had really destroyed my self esteem and how I view myself. This video helped me to stand tall and not be overcome with despair. That and another quote I read recently. "Strong women scare weak men"
As a woman who has had to be strong just due to life's traumas, it's an honor that I am strong and resilient. I can stand by myself and though I still wish I had a partner to lean on sometimes, I know that I am capable within myself
Really glad it has helped you a lot. Keep being the strong woman you are!
That is the dumbest, most pandering quote I've seen. "Strong" women do not scare men, men do not value "strength" in women, they value femininity. Do weak men scare women? Why do you hate weak men if you're so strong?
This is something feminists tell themselves, that men are "scared" of their "strength". Y'all are not strong, y'all are just untolerable and loudmouths.
Your soul mate will come when you least expect it.
@@zoh2023 By watching videos that blame men for not finding her attractive?
Apparently men are weak because they don't find masculinity attractive, go figure.
This is not how stoics think. She's supposed to have introspection and realise why she's undesirable, instead of blaming others for being undesirable.
Struggled after my divorce. I wasn't a present husband of step dad. Long story after 16 years she asked for a divorce & I said yes. Didn't fight for it which is bad on me. I understand what she means now & as she has loved all communication I have felt strength in listening to these & now finding my self for me so I can become the man with true love for myself thank you.
Beta male Brad. You sound like a lazy wimp
My battleground is my workplace, rejection and mistreatment has been the norm. But this year, I will turn all that around
I've been raised to be an independent , resilient individual by my parents - they both are passed and I couldn't thank them enough for what they have given me - however ,this is absolutely one of the most influential , educational
" sessions " so to speak , I've attended. I take it as an affirmation to what I believe and act upon .
Reinvent myself..... Yes!
Even if rejection is not an issue personally, there was quite a lot of wisdom to absorb in the time spent listening to this lesson. Thank you
Thanks for taking the time to listen and for your thoughtful feedback! I'm glad you found wisdom in the lesson.
These principles are very similar to how I've interracted to the neurotypical world. They don't like it. It put a target on my back. It made me angry. But now, thanks to your videos, I see I did just fine on my own. Thank you for your videos.
While I’ve been putting these lessons into practice, this vid was recommended to me by the Google algo and has served as an affirmation to continue practicing these on my journey. Strength in adversity, indeed. 🙏🏼💪🏼✌🏼
Love it! I often feel rejected. But everything turned into blessings when I focus on my self improvement and self respect. Silence is the best strategy. 😊
YES, Lord I have to seek first the kingdom and all other things will be added unto me. Help me God cause I am ready to serve you with my whole heart ❤️ Amennnnnn and Amennnnnn.
This is highly correct applies in my life before i was looking. A decent job everyone rejected me which i just want a job but i dont even understand why im always rejected until what i am today is blessed and thankfu theyl rejected me because i am in a great place in work now
This is the natural way of my being these days, since experiencing challenges abroad and learning to adapt to people whose morals are completely different from my own.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It's always interesting to hear how different cultures can shape our perspectives. I can relate to the challenge of adapting to new morals and values. It's definitely a learning experience.
“You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” - Marcus Aurelius
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Long live the stoic community 🙌🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥♥️💪🏾🧠💪🏾
Thank you
Perfect timing as I'm going through rejection 😢
My wife of 30 years left me with my children to go and start her own life.She left me after I gave her some money to start a small business so that we could help raising our children.I'am a born again christian.She told me that she will make shure she ashame my salvation.Since she left l have never heard sex out of marriage.Most of the day when I'am not at work l stay at home reading my Bible and praying for my children.God haven't left me nor forsaken me.He's got a better plans for me...❤
Yes he does!!you’re on the right path stick with it!!!what we do for God is what will really matter in the end.
You better have better plan for youself😅
Well it’s not by depriving yourself from the pleasure will bring her back… she belongs to street you focus on yours and children happiness and enjoy every vacation together
Am looking for a husband can we connect??
@@lindaruth2423😂😅
I facing this at the moment the struggle is not easy but I believe the storm will pass
When I needed this the most,it just appeared on my screen,thank you universal forces of life, for giving me courage,wisdom and temperance. I am emerging far stronger and wiser than I could have ever imagined in the face of a marriage breakdown that has been an arena of insults,disrespect,one sided vitriol,fights,destruction of household items,damage to vehicle and threats of repeat of same and virtually a prison for both of us
*Using rejection as a stepping stone to improvement is a mindset hack that’s invaluable!*
People are going through a lot these days. My story is very long and i am trying to use these moments to grow.
Thanks for sharing these powerful words of wisdom❤
Thank you for this upload, the timing couldn’t be more perfect. I was using silence as a response to a rejection. But I was beginning to doubt myself until I watched this. The synchronicity is awesome. Happy new year.
I've also used silence as a tool for a loud voice and the art of silence works for me
Whatever doesn't kill you DOES make you stronger!
a strong title that immediately resonates with anyone who has faced setbacks. The phrase "to Your Favor" reframes rejection as an opportunity, which feels empowering and motivating. It promises practical insights, positioning rejection as a tool for growth rather than a setback, which is likely to attract viewers looking to turn challenges into advantages. Overall, it's concise, actionable, and appealing for personal development.
A really Good friend of mine sent me this link. She said it made her think of me. It took me many years of insecurity to find myself and I live my life much like this video suggests. I'm still growing but obviously, well on my way. I found value in this video and will watch more in this series, now that I know of them. 😊😊😊😊😊😊
I PRACTICE THESE WAYS IN MY LIFE TO OVERCOME THE REJECTION I FEEL AND IT WORKS !!! I JUST FOCUS ON MYSELF AND FIND HAPPINESS IN MY HEART AND HEALTH BY RAKING IT ALL AS A GRAND LESSON IN LEARNING AMD ATTAINING MORE WISDOM AND POSITIVITY IN MY LIFE AND THE LIVES OF THOSE I INTERACT WITH 🤠❤️😊🙏🏿🌈
Dealing with this issue as my mother has dismissed me from her life. I’ve been prepping for this day my whole life and here we are. I’m very pleased that I have these techniques under my belt from previous life experience but the video is very helpful in staying the course!
This happened with my Mum and I…I stopped trying after disagreements…I had to stop bcs I’ve had to look after injur£d loved ones.
Mum returned to me 9 Months later…we have an even better relationship now. ❤️🧡
@@caroleyre9144 I’m so glad for you. Weird but I walked away on Dec 18th and came home to find my friend with cancer I care for in worsening condition. We ended up in ICU this week and are at the ❤️ Dr now. He really needs all
my attention right now. Idk if we will ever mend the rift but for now I know I’m where I supposed to be. Best wishes for your futures!
@@caroleyre9144 delighted for you but I know this won’t happen in my case😭. Makes me feel less than human.
When I was growing up I got a lot of rejection. I used my lonely time to complete my educational goals. Since then I have turned to educational goals, and self reflections. I learned that being rejected isn't as lonely as it seems. The time that is allowed can be used wisely. I'm very greatful that I had choices. I accomplished many tasks since then.
Thank you for sharing your story! It's amazing how you turned rejection into an opportunity for personal growth and achievement.
Strength in adversity. Thank you