U wrong lomama. She betrayed his son . The 1st person she should have consulted is her son about this. If akavumi no go ahead, unless uyavuma. Nala mfazi wakhetha umamazala ngaphezulu kwalomntu azengaye
I love this mamazala, so courageous. I feel sorry for my brother, kodwa ke I hope he will calm down and look at it on the bright side. He mustn't feel ashamed. If it happened to me, I would have accepted it.
First of all the guy must blame himself before he point fingers to those people.because he hide his fertility problems to his family and worse part to his wife knowing that one day the wife will start having questions about not having children and ekugqibeleni she will stand up and look for solution or answer.
@@noluthandolimaphi1719 uqinisile. I was wondering why he took a wife and hid that he was infertile. Did he want to see her crying and in pain when eventually she couldn't get pregnant? Was he going to pretend and blame her? I think they should have used artificial insemination though 😕
Mother of the nation......siyabonga ukumela qiniso wakhe umzi wabantwana.......xola bhuti u not the only one kwesisimo....kudala kusenzeka nakweminye imindeni
Am one of them and happy with my beautiful daughter and my hubby .my hubby nephew is married naye .it’s a secret between me and my mother in law and umzukulu kaHubby
Ngiyaphikisana nani umama uwrong as much as this guy didn’t tell the truth umama ingane yakhelena kwakufanene akhulume naye angamuthatheli isinqumo iqiniso angisabuboni ubuhlelwane nomfowabo nothando luphelile kumfazi
This is helpful it is helping us ti grow knowledge wise. This torie it is afr7cen style and there is nothing wrong with it. Umakoti wahlonioha umamezala of which that is what is lacking tio omakoti banamhlanje. Ngibonga umama nomakoti, ng8bonga imbokodo ngokumisa umuzi womyeni wakhe. Yobe bhuti ashadelwe kodwa vele awutshelwa mawakhelwa umuzi xola bhuti umuzi wakho wavikelwa umama wakho nomakoti. Ngakhonje imibuzo yokuhlanganisa umndeni ayidingeki ngokwami. If uhlangana nomama nonkosikazi wakho niludingide loludaba ubuzoshesha ukwelapheka emoyeni. Manje mase kuhlangene umndenu kukhina abazokhuluma bdengwana kuwe kukukhube kakhulu. Angisho ukuthi umndeni wakho unochuku, but omunye angasho ukuthi kuwe uyazi wena ngaba uyabinga ngobuyazi awunayi inzalo. STUFUZA khuphuka lapho❤ iyagqilaza imibuzo yakho kanti mihle futhi uyakwazi ukucisha umlilo makunesidingo syabonga blaqlife tv BLAQLIFE TV ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yabona lomama, she is a real imbokodo. Iphutha nje la laba lincane elokuthi lomfo wayesazi uqiniso. Bt lucky umama usaphila, n uzoylungisa kamnandi kanjan. Le meeting nje mele kube eyokuthi baqhelelana kanja umakoti nobhuti omncane tht it. Okunye nokunye kwenzeka ngendlela erite kakhuuulu 100% rite. This woman deserve this 🏆👑👑
@@SiphiweSiduli-cq8jdmina ngibonga khona nje ukuthi akakhulumanga. Phela kwakyobanzima ukuthi umakoti avume yenziwe lento esemtshelile. Yoonke into irite la. Ned nje sekumele kuqhelelane umakoti nobhuti omncane. Syabonga mama, she is a real Rock.
Heyi wena brother, don’t play a victim. Why didn’t you tell your wife about your situation. What if she wanted children? You were selfish in your doing ❤
Exactly 😂. He should see it as karma and keep it moving. He couldn't sit down with his wife to explain even after marriage and chose to go on camera to expose his wife only to expose his own mother lol
Uqinisile but mawubheka kahle bonke ba-wrong. 1.He should have told his wife 2. When his wife found out, she should have bought this up as a concern that they have not been able to conceive and suggest they go find out ikuphi inkinga from ko doctor. By doing so uzobe esebeka ugogo eceleni kungaveli ukuthi uzwe ngaye. 3. Communication is vital whether niyajola, niyathandana or nishadile 9:33
It was unfair for him not to tell the wife......and ugogo wenze into eryt. Ngiyamthanda ugogo, abanye bayazibulala izingane ngoba bengafuni kwakhiwe umuzi. ❤
I see lot of ppl say mother in law is a hero, culture will be death of us kahle kahle this thing it should have done in clinics than traditional to contain peace nd respect in the family. But guys lets be fair imagine your brother sleeps with ur wife without you knowing!! do even think about a trauma of this guy nd kids if the find out.
@@nomzuzomadonda9010if you heard correctly he went to doctors to confirm that he can't have kids so surely the doctor could've given him a solution to the problem, that can give him kids without the wife sleeping with his younger brother. 😊
@@vuyodominic1116 even the 1st one it's not his, it's for the same younger brother slept with his wife without him knowing so that's when he took a decision to know who is the father of those 2 kids.😢
No one is talking about how his wife made this sacrifice for his honor . She did it for him, so that people don't laugh at them ..If it was another woman she would have said No, I believe it was not easy for her but she became a submisive makoti .. This guy is ungrateful, after keeping such a big secret he should be understanding..
There Is a lot I can say here as much as it is complicated but the fact that umakoti usahleli kwakhe I am happy. Umama wayefanele umbizile unyanakhe babonisane kuqala bobabini ave ukuba uzakuthini . I wonder akazokudelelwa na ngulo umncinci. How I so wish angohlukani nomkakhe. I like the way umamazala abold ngakhona and the fact that usaphila. Abantwana ngabalapha ekhaya. Oh umntu ongumama ndisizela lo makoti ungaphumliyo. Uthi evuka kubaba wakwakhe abe efunwa ngumninawe ematrasini oh yini kanti ufelani umakoti. Oh Stufuza I like your questions baby you are a good presenter👋👋👋👋👋.
My brother, you're a strong man.....forgive your wife bhuti - she's not an adulterer but she took an order from an elder, which is your mother. What i like is that those kinds belong to that household and you promised to take care of them. Lapheka qhawe noma kunzima and don't forget that isalukazi (your mother) loves you and also forgive your younger brother because it wasn't his decision to disrespect you but he also took orders from isalukazi - PEACE
These are the kind of mamezala every family must have. i am proud of this mbokodo, she makes me cry, i love women who stand up for the family, big up mama
This guy should have been honest from the onset. This is the result of laying a foundation of lies for your marriage, there will be more lies. The true victim here is the wife - by not disclosing, you took away her right to decide if she wants to continue with you or not and you opened her up to this mess. What did you expect her to do? Haibo, be a man, that woman loves you and has sacrificed a lot for you. Do you think it was easy for her? If I were you, I would apologise to her and continue with my family. She did all of this for you
I think the guy was waiting the right time to tell his wife about his problem and lomama she doesn't have any right or power to put her nose in this marriage! I wish I was this guy ubezongifunda angiqonde lomama bengizomfundisa iTheku nendodana yakhe
That is rubbish excuse you can't getting married you keep quiet with big secrets like this at the end he will shift the blame to his wife that uyinyumba
Stufuza, u worked so hard today, I love the fact that u did distract them, I'm sorry for the gentleman, it's not like she cheated your mother did sit down with her in order for u to have indlalifa, at least the children r your blood instead of raising amavezandlebe, ey this episode is not easy to comment on it on my point of view, sorry brother forgive your wife your brother and your mother, try to find a place in your heart to forgive them bhuti, thank you very much Stufuza I see a ring in your finger wish u everything of the BEST in your marriage if u married or engage.
Please also advise him to go to fertility clinic Mans clinic he really does need help Guys please before you comment put your self in this guys shoes this matter is serious
Ayikho yonke lento oyikhulumayo first the guy is wrong to keep a big secret like this aze ashade not telling umakoti wakhe kube umama wakhe nomakoti abazange bendze le plan kusasa ebezothi umakoti uyinyumba he was going to shift the blame to his wife
Ukube nje ubhuti akabanga nemfihlo ,ngabe asikho la...yena uma eshada ubazi ukuthi kuyosolwa umfazi....u girl u right angeke ahlale engabi nomntwana ngenxa yomuntu o selfish....ingane ka bhuti wakho eyakho nawe...
The hunter is now the hunted!!!😮uthi uzokhipha imfihlo kanti uzokhitshelwa enzima kuleyakhe!!! Dankie mamezala ulothando kumakoti wakho....the sisterhood approves❤
I feel like this episode has been an act just to teach us about our culture. Umama wavele wakhipha zonke iyindaba engazwanga neVoice yeNdodana yakhe noMakoti wakwakhe...😮
I feel for Makoti cause kaloku uqambe amanga mos naye uBhuti however ndithanda nomama ngeqiniso,ingathi angaxola lobhuti.I respect the guy usezobakhulisa abantwana🙏
Into ekwaku mele ayenze umakoti uk qala akhulumisane nendoda yakhe if inqaba angaqhubeki neplan yabo coz aksizi uk jabulisa abanye abantu ngokuty uhlukumeze indoda yakho.
Lolu hilo usiko lwethu nje ngabantu amanyama iyenzwa nakumanye amazwe and iba ifihlo ubuthi akafanele ayazi loludhaba. Mara umamazala wethu is very wise hands up for her💯
Shamee khona kubuhlungu ngoba Kodwa ubungazi kodwa let it go my brother ayiphele nje kwaziwe Yibo labo kuphela mfowethu I'm very that's lyf kuyatholakala.
Sisi, you are a great presenter. You don't interfere, and allow the conversation to flow. Great work and great show. Keep it up.
Indeed she is a great presenter. Big up Stufuza👍
Bhuti intenziwayo Le akudlalw ngaw cha bebesiza wen ukt kungathiw awuzali emndenini
Umuhle stufuza yhoo
Unenhlanhla lomakoti ukuthandwa umamezala kanje.syabonga gogo❤
Mhhh bakithi
ubuhlanya bonke lobu
Impela
Kusizani ngoba usubhidlikile lomshado manje
@@KhulekaniGumede-l7rungidlile vele soze aphinde amthembe
Ngaze ngamthanda umamezala emela iqiniso emela umuzi wakhe🤝
Ngyamhlonipha lomama uNkulunkulu abenayo nethongo lakhe limsingathe
I love her for loving her family
Amen did the same thing am happily married with my hubby nephew child with me .a very beautiful girl using my hubby surname
This great mother is so brave
U wrong lomama. She betrayed his son . The 1st person she should have consulted is her son about this. If akavumi no go ahead, unless uyavuma. Nala mfazi wakhetha umamazala ngaphezulu kwalomntu azengaye
What a great mother in law🥰🥰wow
I love this mother. She took all responsibility. These are the mothers we need
Never
Good answers gogo ,coz bekuzothiwa uqwayizile
The mother inlaw deserves a Bells.So honest and was bold and clear no beating about the bush.Siyabonga Great Mamazala!
I love this mother in law❤
She is the great African woman
.lo gogo.
Lo bafo akalwazi usiko lwamazulu. Akehlise umoya
@@Smojeroleso sperm donation sibiza ama thousands of rands.
Nina abavumelana nokukunya kwesiko aninayo ingqondo,xa bekukwenzeke Kuni oku benizakuthini?
I am happy that the mother is still alive if she was no more the wife was gonna be in trouble
True hey
Kakhulu
Yebo
Makoti waba desperate ukbamba umendo but wangamcabangela umyeni wakhe, kwakmele amvikele
Vele bekwenziwa kanjalo kudala
This is the Mother of the land ❤ I love her ngempela kwenziwa kanjalo mama
Kukunya konke oko Wena ubuza kuthini xa bekwenzeke kuwe?
@@GHOST-km3fg6yp9kKodwa yenziwa njalo ngabantu abadala umntu enzelwe abantwana ngumntu kwifamily noxa ingekho ntle kuba xa sele ivelile kuba kubi kakhulu ibuhlungu yona ayamkeleki
I love this mamazala, so courageous.
I feel sorry for my brother, kodwa ke I hope he will calm down and look at it on the bright side. He mustn't feel ashamed. If it happened to me, I would have accepted it.
U started the marriage with the liar
First of all the guy must blame himself before he point fingers to those people.because he hide his fertility problems to his family and worse part to his wife knowing that one day the wife will start having questions about not having children and ekugqibeleni she will stand up and look for solution or answer.
@@noluthandolimaphi1719 uqinisile. I was wondering why he took a wife and hid that he was infertile. Did he want to see her crying and in pain when eventually she couldn't get pregnant? Was he going to pretend and blame her? I think they should have used artificial insemination though 😕
@@noluthandolimaphi1719 njengokuba uthetha ngoluhlobo ukuba Wena ubungazali kwagqitywa ekubeni indoda yakho imithise udade wenu ubuza kuvuya?
@@GHOST-km3fg6yp9k Uthini kanyekanye? Andikuva mna. Loluphi uhlobo endithetha ngalo?
I love the mother in law for being honest angafaki umakoti enkingeni. ❤❤❤
Uyz ngiyayithanda lena iqondile akaphumang ngaphandle kulula umuzi
Sbonga ukut ingane ezandawonye bakit...umama wacabangela umndeni wakhe nkosyam ❤ehlisa umoya bhuti...kodwa lomama into engibonayo ubafukamele bonke abantwana bakhe including umakoti❤❤❤...imbokodwe engathathi maside🎉🎉🎉🎉lomama uyayimela into yakhe...ngaze ngamthanda uMama sengat uNkulunkulu engamupha amandla ayinqobe lento ngoba ubhuti ngat ukwatile ncese brother kodwa ukuvusele umuz wakho ubhuti wakho
Mother of the nation......siyabonga ukumela qiniso wakhe umzi wabantwana.......xola bhuti u not the only one kwesisimo....kudala kusenzeka nakweminye imindeni
I luv this mama hope ngambona face to face uneqiniso nomqolo makaxole ubuti nguyena ozibethile ngongazange athethe nyani kwasekuqaleni kumfazi wakhe
Waba nesizalo okanye akabi naso oko akuthethi ukuba makaqhelwe ingquza uqhelwa kakubi.Wena ubungeva njani ungafumani sizalo kuthiwe indoda yakho mayimithise udade wenu ubuza kuvuya?
Ubhudi uzwa ubuhlungu but ukube wayengenamfihlo yena ukube akekho lana,,I love this mother❤❤
Lp
Kodwa naye ubhuti uwrong , ungena kanjani emshadweni nemfihlo enjena, unkosikazi bekumele enzenjani , kugcina sekuthukeka owesifazane ngabe uhlambulukile ubhuti bese bethatha isinqumo ndawonye. Yaze yangikhumbuza imbewu indaba.
Isiyoyoyo Sendoda Uyalayeka nje Angimuzweli sengathi bangabhebha naye ngoba iSiphukuphuku😡😡😡😡😡😡😊
Kwakufanele wenze njalo nje kwasekqaleni
Wathula wena kweyokqala
Wawumfihlelelani umfaz wakho
Kodwa iphutha.likuwe mfe2
The moment ethi umamezala uyazi, useqedile. Umakoti akanacala
Qinisile mfwethu lobhuti unenhlanhla bamthandile abakubo uyobe ulahliwe Ume engala umkakhe
Kwakumel azise indoda yakhe ngoba yamthatha yazi ukuthi ayinanzalo ayi kuthi ithathele umfowabo umfazi isaphila
It's clear and loud xola bhuti kuzolunga bhuti wam
Yehlisa umoya Ndodana yamukela isimo bafo noma kunzima lezinto zyenzeka empilweni ..what a lovely mother 🎉🎉
Am one of them and happy with my beautiful daughter and my hubby .my hubby nephew is married naye .it’s a secret between me and my mother in law and umzukulu kaHubby
Bhuti yena waba ngephutha lokuthi angene emshadweni engakhulumanga iqiniso why. Ufihle lani
Ngiyaphikisana nani umama uwrong as much as this guy didn’t tell the truth umama ingane yakhelena kwakufanene akhulume naye angamuthatheli isinqumo iqiniso angisabuboni ubuhlelwane nomfowabo nothando luphelile kumfazi
Unesbindi lomama futh mubheka ngabe kube worse ukube lento ayenzekanga ngalendlela gogo ayenze ngayo
Kwakuvelwe kwenziwa njalo, umama uyibambe ngomthetho omdala ka Mose
Omalume bazokwenzani, sebezoveza amahlazo. Mele baxoxe bodwa nje. Ayeke noyokuqhakambisa ubunkosana. I love mamezala, she is the best.
Why ecasuke mabemfihlela ngoba naye bekuyimfihlo yakhe ukuthi akazali.
Wawakha umuzi mama akukho nje nokuncane owakona.kunokuthi aphumele ngaphandle.❤❤❤
Njeee iqiniso
Nithetha nje into enukayo kuba nina ningekho sezihlangwini zakhe aniyazi nento eniyithethayo ukuba benisezihlangwini zakhe nina benizakuvuya?
That the mom we need in south africa. Imbokodo iyohlezi inesisombululo
Imbokodo yobufebe eskhathini samanje kunoadoption futhi bafundile abantu manje mina bengizoqotha ngenhlamvu kwasani lithethwe ligcwele😂
Yeka umndeni bhuti. Hlala phansi noma nomakoti nobhuti kuphela. Izingane zokhula kahle bafo pls. Bangazi abanye abantu.... Uma akekho wrong...❤❤❤️
@@MfanafuthiBanda ayikho lento uyithethayo
Mother in law of the year🎉❤❤sidinga abafana nawe
Ngamupha yena umfowethu ngeke😭😭😭😢💔💔💔
😂nje coz masingazali siyathukwa
Impela sis simethulela isigqoko lomama ubekwe yidlozi kulomuzi
Mina ngingabulala kwamama nomfowe2 cause wukudakelwana lokhu sengolithetha ligcwele ngingabaqotha ngenhlamvu bonke🤣
Great mother inlaw she's very wise ❤
Yindodenjani wena
Mama mnikeyena umfowethu
Bhuti wena iphutha lakho laba sekutheni ungakhulumi iqiniso, kwakungamele uhlale nemfihlo enjena. Kumuntu omthandayo. Izinfihlo ziyabulala emotional
Cheating is cheating, worse is she is not even using protection
Nothing wrong done by mother in-law...it has always been done that way ukukhulisa umuzi💚💚
Mother did wrong by not following the right channels. We can't say uright at all. Usiko luright but ulu-handlisher in a wrong way.
Akekho wrong umamezala,ubhuti ubethuleleni yena nemfihlo engaka,ngoba nomakoti ubezophatheka kabi ngoba nabantu bebezothi akazali,umama uyabathanda bonke nje wazama ukukhusela noNdodana enkongeni yakhe noma yena engeke abone ngaleyondlela kdw umamakhe uyamthanda shame,wenze kahle nje akhulume ubezothula kuze kube nini?
Nd ubengeke avume ukuthi kuhlalwe phansi kukhulunywe atshelwe ukuthi umfowabo angene ekamereni lakhe,kshuthi nomakoti beyoze abe mdala anganangane ebe eyifisa,wenze kahle umamezala noma kungekho mnandi ke
@@noluthandolimaphi1719They should have informed him before cause his younger brother will disrespect him
@@mbali.sithole22this is totally wrong 😭
Mamezala uyakha ngokwesintu sasendulo best mamezala
Niyambhedela lomfana
What a great mother a builder of the nation
😂
This is helpful it is helping us ti grow knowledge wise. This torie it is afr7cen style and there is nothing wrong with it. Umakoti wahlonioha umamezala of which that is what is lacking tio omakoti banamhlanje. Ngibonga umama nomakoti, ng8bonga imbokodo ngokumisa umuzi womyeni wakhe. Yobe bhuti ashadelwe kodwa vele awutshelwa mawakhelwa umuzi xola bhuti umuzi wakho wavikelwa umama wakho nomakoti. Ngakhonje imibuzo yokuhlanganisa umndeni ayidingeki ngokwami. If uhlangana nomama nonkosikazi wakho niludingide loludaba ubuzoshesha ukwelapheka emoyeni. Manje mase kuhlangene umndenu kukhina abazokhuluma bdengwana kuwe kukukhube kakhulu. Angisho ukuthi umndeni wakho unochuku, but omunye angasho ukuthi kuwe uyazi wena ngaba uyabinga ngobuyazi awunayi inzalo. STUFUZA khuphuka lapho❤ iyagqilaza imibuzo yakho kanti mihle futhi uyakwazi ukucisha umlilo makunesidingo syabonga blaqlife tv BLAQLIFE TV ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Siblings Brother's 'children no problem ❤ same ancestors 💖
Yabona lomama, she is a real imbokodo. Iphutha nje la laba lincane elokuthi lomfo wayesazi uqiniso. Bt lucky umama usaphila, n uzoylungisa kamnandi kanjan. Le meeting nje mele kube eyokuthi baqhelelana kanja umakoti nobhuti omncane tht it. Okunye nokunye kwenzeka ngendlela erite kakhuuulu 100% rite. This woman deserve this 🏆👑👑
Ubuzakuvuma wamkele ukuba le nto ngeyenzeke kuwe?
SKhula ku senziwa kanje, haamba qhawekazi.! Wakhe umuzi wendodana yakho , kuphela lo mfana omdala siyancenga angaxabani nomkakhe naye ubethobela uninazala, kanti naye uyazidinga iingane, nomyeni wakhe akamtshelanga iqiniso kwasekuqaleni
Kodwa nawe ukube awufihlanga nje ukuthi awunanzalo ngabe akunje uthin ngalengane yabantu ibizothukwa ukuthi yashada kodwa ayizali kanti inkinga ikuwe, wavele washadela emangeni ikona kunje
Dankoooo
Imagine the insults she would be getting 😢
Qina baba zodlula ncono ngoba mfowenu kube washo before ungene emshadweni ngabe akunjena thethelela Bhuti
The wife cheated without knowing that the husband is infertile and the guy is blamed for not telling. Hai impilo.
The wife's intention was not to cheat, this is mother in law's thought. @@mashadiyvonne456
Ukube akafihlanga ziningi izindlela zokuthola abantwana wayengacela sona isperm sabhuti wakhe. Kukabili umakoti wayengamshiya noma ayolanda amalogwe. Ngiyamncoma umama ngobuhlakali bakhe vele iyona ndlela le yesintu nedlozi liyayemukela. Ubhuti akemukele ngoba uvukile umuzi wakhe.
Wow waze waneqiniso umama . Thank God kuvele lento umama asaphila
How i wish ukuthola uMakoti ofana naloMakoti okhuluma iqiniso njengalona abandile abantu abafana naye❤❤❤
Angabhoki ngolaka lo bhuti bekusizwa yena la ngiyamthanda ugogo wenze usiko lwasemandulo Dankie gogo
Kusizwa yena emithiselwa never
Ukube uyim nje ngabe uyabonga. Kule meeting bengabizwa abantu abaningi. Kume nje umama, ubafo, nomfwabo nomakoti kuphela. Kwakhiwe indlela yokuqinisekisa ukuthi umakoti nomfwabo omnane abaqhubeki ngokuganga, ngoba kobe sekuwubufebe uma bengaqhubeka.
Wena Themba ayikho yonke le nto uyithethayo uthetha inyongo,xa ubuqiniselwe umzi ubungsoze uyithethe into enukayo
Uzaphola bhuti, yisintu lesi wena nje usho ukuthi ababili sebanele ngoba I support inzima futhi naye ubhuti omncane asize uku support ingane lezi
Akaphole ubhuti yini engcono ukuthi umakoti aphumele ngaphandle nokuthi alalele abasemzini ukuvusa umuzi .
Ngivumelana lawe.
Kwakumele abikele mkwkhe ngabe akaze nje amfunze ngengane azi ukuthi uyazazi ukuthi akazali@@SiphiweSiduli-cq8jd
@@SiphiweSiduli-cq8jdmina ngibonga khona nje ukuthi akakhulumanga. Phela kwakyobanzima ukuthi umakoti avume yenziwe lento esemtshelile. Yoonke into irite la. Ned nje sekumele kuqhelelane umakoti nobhuti omncane. Syabonga mama, she is a real Rock.
Kukunya kwesiko,beliphi xa umntu elobole nzima ezisa umfazi laliphi elosiko lokunya?
Yaze yavuthwa intombi endala ikhipheni ebhodweni bafana suuuuuukaaa 🔥🔥🔥
Heyi wena brother, don’t play a victim. Why didn’t you tell your wife about your situation. What if she wanted children? You were selfish in your doing ❤
Exactly 😂. He should see it as karma and keep it moving. He couldn't sit down with his wife to explain even after marriage and chose to go on camera to expose his wife only to expose his own mother lol
So true
Uqinisile but mawubheka kahle bonke ba-wrong.
1.He should have told his wife
2. When his wife found out, she should have bought this up as a concern that they have not been able to conceive and suggest they go find out ikuphi inkinga from ko doctor.
By doing so uzobe esebeka ugogo eceleni kungaveli ukuthi uzwe ngaye.
3. Communication is vital whether niyajola, niyathandana or nishadile 9:33
Kubuhlungu kodwa either way umuzi uvukile ayibongwe inkosi
It was unfair for him not to tell the wife......and ugogo wenze into eryt. Ngiyamthanda ugogo, abanye bayazibulala izingane ngoba bengafuni kwakhiwe umuzi. ❤
Nami I did the same thing very happy with my hubby and 1 kid from his nephew .my Mamazala played the big role for me and my hubby
Sies
Sorry for that ❤️❤️❤️I have beautiful daughter she is 12 yrs .
Nephew kanjan manje. Ingane kamfowabo noma. Ku wrong ke lapho ngoba kufana nokuthi wazaliswa ingane yakho. Kumele kube umfowabo sisi. N kumele uphinde futhi uze uthole eyomfana. Ned kumele umithisww umfowabo not ingane yakhe thank you.
Umshana not umfowabo?
I see lot of ppl say mother in law is a hero, culture will be death of us kahle kahle this thing it should have done in clinics than traditional to contain peace nd respect in the family.
But guys lets be fair imagine your brother sleeps with ur wife without you knowing!! do even think about a trauma of this guy nd kids if the find out.
If ebengazi ukuthi akazali bebengasoze bamxelele, I would divorce her, there will never be I trust omnye komnye. People like that bangakubulala
Yenzama DNA Bhuti
Ayelaphi ama clinic kdala
@@nomzuzomadonda9010if you heard correctly he went to doctors to confirm that he can't have kids so surely the doctor could've given him a solution to the problem, that can give him kids without the wife sleeping with his younger brother. 😊
@@vuyodominic1116 even the 1st one it's not his, it's for the same younger brother slept with his wife without him knowing so that's when he took a decision to know who is the father of those 2 kids.😢
No one is talking about how his wife made this sacrifice for his honor . She did it for him, so that people don't laugh at them ..If it was another woman she would have said No, I believe it was not easy for her but she became a submisive makoti .. This guy is ungrateful, after keeping such a big secret he should be understanding..
Mother in law yenze kahle ukhulisa umndeni❤
Thank you
God bless you
My brother
You are Big
man
Mama zala shes brave still standing on her words,she admit that she's the course
Ai uyindoda yamadoda umamazala
Lomama shes being honest ❤❤ she's a good mother
Xola ndoda kwakukhona nasendulo kodwa ft izimanga sihlale sizibona ziyenzeka kuthiwe umuntu akazali kodwa omdala wezinsuku ayishintshe yonke lento ngiyajabula ukuthi kusekhona abantu abafana nalomama nomakoti osenenhlonipho njegalomakoti akukho okubi la thina siyajabula ukuthi isiko kukhona abantu abasalubambile yobe mtaka baba 🙏🙏🙏ilove this ❤❤
Lendaba idinga siwuthole u part2.
There Is a lot I can say here as much as it is complicated but the fact that umakoti usahleli kwakhe I am happy. Umama wayefanele umbizile unyanakhe babonisane kuqala bobabini ave ukuba uzakuthini . I wonder akazokudelelwa na ngulo umncinci. How I so wish angohlukani nomkakhe. I like the way umamazala abold ngakhona and the fact that usaphila. Abantwana ngabalapha ekhaya. Oh umntu ongumama ndisizela lo makoti ungaphumliyo. Uthi evuka kubaba wakwakhe abe efunwa ngumninawe ematrasini oh yini kanti ufelani umakoti. Oh Stufuza I like your questions baby you are a good presenter👋👋👋👋👋.
Hamba uye. esontweni kaSHEMBE eBUHLENI uzoyithola ingane noma uzoyithola inkinga ukuthi kubhajwephi
Ngiyafisa ukuya lapho nkosiyami kodwa angazi ngingahamba nabani
Nami ngiyayidinga ngisemshadweni ngiyafuna ukuya eBuhleni kodwa angikwazi
Kunjalo akaye kuShembe
Iyani bafethu uShembe uNyazilwezulu lulapha eGoli eZuuberkom emzini walo okuthiwa kus'Ekuthuthukeni kwamaNazaretha.
Ngaya mina w2022
Wow what great Mamezala i salute you 🙏🏼
Kuyahlanya lokhu, futhi kuyi bhimbi. Noma Kukhuluma uyezwa ukuthi ingqondo igcwele amanzi.
Kwalomhlangano ukuwufunayo kuyozibukanisa nomndeni.
Uhlanya impela kuvumeleni ukushandelwa kungenanzalo
Hhai ngane zakwethu kusadidekile. Kuzokwehlisa nje umoya yonke into ibe rite. Kumele nje abonge ukuthi uyise wabatholela umama hhai inganekwane nje kamama.
Ave eyibhimbi😂😂😂
Nasendulo kwakwenziwa njalo Uma umfana engazali.Ngisho ebhaybhelini liyavuma ukuthi uvuselwe umuzi umnewenu mama wenze kahle mxolele yehlisa umoya
This is what the mamazalas does. Bamisa ikhaya.Great decision Gogo.Ubhuti naye wabawrong ngobgakhulum iqiniso
Ngahlengezela inyembezi uyimbokodo khulu ngakhumbula owami umama. Abasekho abafana nawe 🙏🙏
Mamazala wuneqiniso siyabonga mama🙏
Great mother in-law ever.
My brother, you're a strong man.....forgive your wife bhuti - she's not an adulterer but she took an order from an elder, which is your mother. What i like is that those kinds belong to that household and you promised to take care of them. Lapheka qhawe noma kunzima and don't forget that isalukazi (your mother) loves you and also forgive your younger brother because it wasn't his decision to disrespect you but he also took orders from isalukazi - PEACE
O bua sbono.
I don't think he would be this hurt if they discussed the matter with him & they had agreement maybe on the other hand it's better like this.
You are right,makoti would have divorced if mamezala never came with a second option
Weeee upambene lomfana uzozihlaza yena nje uyamva mos umama
Mna bendizakubulala kwamntu obandakanyekileyo yindelelo engathethekiyo
These are the kind of mamezala every family must have. i am proud of this mbokodo, she makes me cry, i love women who stand up for the family, big up mama
This guy should have been honest from the onset. This is the result of laying a foundation of lies for your marriage, there will be more lies. The true victim here is the wife - by not disclosing, you took away her right to decide if she wants to continue with you or not and you opened her up to this mess. What did you expect her to do? Haibo, be a man, that woman loves you and has sacrificed a lot for you. Do you think it was easy for her? If I were you, I would apologise to her and continue with my family. She did all of this for you
Well articulated, there is no better way one can analyze and explain it that the way you did.
She is powerful this is a right thing for family to be honest
Siyabonga Mamazala vele kwakwenziwa njalo ukube ubengenaye umfowabo ngisho uyisezala ubengangena kwenzele ukumisa umuzi isiko leli ngabe uyambonga umawakho uyakthanda ubefihla ihlazo lakho
😢😢😢😢eyi
Uyisezala eeeh angyazike le. Atleast ubhuti wakwababomncane or wakwababomkhulu. Aslong nje kuwumfowabo. Ngoba ingane kamfowethu, ingane yam. Manje masekuzoba ekababa seyin leyo.
Hawu ngaze ngamthanda lomama❤❤ingathi kungaba ngumamezala wami ngiyakuthanda bhuthi namama wakho nomakoti nibambane ningahlukani muhle lombono womndeni
I think the guy was waiting the right time to tell his wife about his problem and lomama she doesn't have any right or power to put her nose in this marriage! I wish I was this guy ubezongifunda angiqonde lomama bengizomfundisa iTheku nendodana yakhe
That is rubbish excuse you can't getting married you keep quiet with big secrets like this at the end he will shift the blame to his wife that uyinyumba
bekuyisiphi iskhathi esiryt ikukuthi besesiphelile kwa ngokuthi angene emshadweni ezazi ukuthi unenkinga,hayi ke okoqondisa umha wakho angikwazi
Makabulale kwanto lomfo kukunya kwesiko elichitha imizi
Uyabona ugogo wenze a great job, uwubambile umuzi wendodana yakhe,wemfowethu ehlisa umoya umama ukuthanda ngenhliziyo yakhe yonke ubengeke ayeke umuzi wendodana yakhe ubhidlika ebhekile.
Bhuti ukube awubanga nemfihlo kuMkakho kwasekuqaleni.ubengeke angene umama wakho phakathi kwenu..nawe ngyakusola kakhulu..okunye lokhu akwenzile umama wakho.indlela eyayenziwa ksuka emandulo..kunokuthi aphumele ngaphandle ayozalisa esinye isbongo.yebo kubuhlungu ft kunzima..ungayithatheli phezulu lendaba nawe zibuze kt kwakungani ube nemfihlo kumkakho ksuka ekuqaleni
Eyi yaze yabuhlungu lendaba yemfihlo yomndeni esizwakala emoyeni futhi ibhalwe phansi ku you tube seyaziwa izwe lonke nondodana lowo naye uyizwa Kanye nezwe lonke awu Uma uqonde ukwakha akwenziwa kanje ngobe lokhu ngishilo asingagijimisi ukuthanda imali kodwa ngenani ezicathulweni nasemizweni yabanye abantu kwasekuqaleni zombili izinhlangothi zinephutha undodana kwakufanele amtshele unina ukuthi unenkinga yokungabatholi abantwana nonkosikazi kwakufanele amtshele ukuthi unalenkinga bese beyixoxa kuzwakale ukuthi bavumelana ngani Kuma befaka ubhuti omncane sekwaziwa ukuthi uthini noma sithini isifiso sabashadikazi loluhlelo lwenu libukisiseni ukuthi niyakha noma niyabhidliza
Unobuhlakani u Sibisi.
Vele ngesintu awutshelwa wena olenkinga abadala bayakubonela umkakho angenwe uvuselwe umuzi
Akekho umuntu ongavuma uma etsheliwe
Ai umamezala weshaya zamaNdlovu wakwiMbewu the seed
Lento iyenziwa impela ngyavuma kdwa ibiyenziwa mangabe engasekho emhlabeni oyedwa wabo.Awumngeni unkosikazi kamfwenu Uma esaphila umama wenze icala iliyomvimba naphesheya kwethuna
Stufuza, u worked so hard today, I love the fact that u did distract them, I'm sorry for the gentleman, it's not like she cheated your mother did sit down with her in order for u to have indlalifa, at least the children r your blood instead of raising amavezandlebe, ey this episode is not easy to comment on it on my point of view, sorry brother forgive your wife your brother and your mother, try to find a place in your heart to forgive them bhuti, thank you very much Stufuza I see a ring in your finger wish u everything of the BEST in your marriage if u married or engage.
Great woman
Wena ufuna imeeting kanti wena nguwe umnikazi wezimfihlo kumanje uhlambalaza unkosikazi wakho😊
Exactly! Umnikazi wezimfihlo ngempela
Ku rong bekufanele bangamfihleli,ubukela njenge slima manje owakhipha amalobolo
Please also advise him to go to fertility clinic Mans clinic he really does need help
Guys please before you comment put your self in this guys shoes this matter is serious
Ayikho yonke lento oyikhulumayo first the guy is wrong to keep a big secret like this aze ashade not telling umakoti wakhe kube umama wakhe nomakoti abazange bendze le plan kusasa ebezothi umakoti uyinyumba he was going to shift the blame to his wife
Ngivumelana nawe ubhuti yena wabanephutha lokungaphumeli obala ngesimo sakhe ku nkosikazi wakhe @@mduduziMavundla7242
In his shoes yan yona leyo ngoba lomama urite kakhuuulu. Wenze into ebekumele ayenze umama. Umuzu umile manje 4ever.
Just make sure the man's clinic that helped, is not children from another man. My cousin has 3 children and has just found out 2 of them are not his.
Lomama uhlakaniphile umuzi uyavuswa akukho okubi akwenzile❤❤❤ phephisa bhuti kodwa namasiko siyawasebenzisa🎉🎉
Umuzi wawakhiwa kanjalo kwasemadulo ,kwakwenziwa kanjalo, syabonga kumama ngokwakha umuzi and Igazi lilodwa bafo
Yes mother of the nation this one
Silima wena Bhuti, ku yentiwa lentfo. Bebasita wena mfo. Bafuna lingafi ligama lakho. Bekakusita make wakho. Ngikhani usilima.
Silima wena Bhuti, ku yentiwa lentfo. Bebasita wena mfo. Bafuna lingafi ligama lakho. Bekakusita make wakho. Ngikhani usilima.
Yekela lentfo, uhloniphe make wakho
Nyalo lomfo wenu usebguye indlalifa, ngalobulima bekuya kubo black TV. They were stealing from your brother, restoring your birthright
I like the way u mama handled dis situation congratulations mama 👏
Ukube nje ubhuti akabanga nemfihlo ,ngabe asikho la...yena uma eshada ubazi ukuthi kuyosolwa umfazi....u girl u right angeke ahlale engabi nomntwana ngenxa yomuntu o selfish....ingane ka bhuti wakho eyakho nawe...
Ngiyayizwa mina lento ubhuti kwakumele asho ukuthi akazali futhi umawakhe uyakwazi ukumela imndeni
Kunjalo nje akangabe esegubha umgodi azohluleka ukuwugqiba izingane zakhe lezi ngokwegazi. Akabacabangele nalaba abamenzele izingane ukuthi bebehlonipha umntomdala naye akenze okufanayo ahloniphe aphinde alivume naye icala thee unkosikazi isilima kanye nomndeni wonke.
Shuthi wayefuna ukubamba uMakoti ngomshado why engamtshela at first coz wayezobona umakoti ukuthi uyangena noma uyaphuma, ukhohlakele lomohwenyana
The hunter is now the hunted!!!😮uthi uzokhipha imfihlo kanti uzokhitshelwa enzima kuleyakhe!!! Dankie mamezala ulothando kumakoti wakho....the sisterhood approves❤
Siyabonga Mama😢😢😢akukho Lula kodwa mzi uwakhile
Indlondlo ka mamezala👏♥️🎉🌹
What a good Mother
I feel like this episode has been an act just to teach us about our culture.
Umama wavele wakhipha zonke iyindaba engazwanga neVoice yeNdodana yakhe noMakoti wakwakhe...😮
I feel for Makoti cause kaloku uqambe amanga mos naye uBhuti however ndithanda nomama ngeqiniso,ingathi angaxola lobhuti.I respect the guy usezobakhulisa abantwana🙏
Kodwa ngiyamthanda umamezala bakith wayezama
Oksalayo akuzona izingane zaHusband 💔🤕😭. Usiko zero. Iqiniso ilona elakha umuzi. Iqiniso!!!!
Enkosi sisi. We need to stop supporting these toxic customs. I mean what if lomjita starts abusing abantwana nalamfazi because ulimele emphefumlweni😢
yhooo hayshame they should not have slept together bandla maybe do those english things using sperm , ay ay i feel sorry for this husband.
❤ Abantwana abakho mnewethu kmele umbonge u Mama wakho uzalwa u Mfazi wangempela syabadinga Omama Abanjena, ungamlahli umkakho ubezama ukumisa umuzi kayihlo, kphela nje abagcine kungabe kusaqhubeka ziningi lezingane sekwanele
😂😂Ngeke bayeke sekuqalile kuqalile uyazitika nje umfowabo kumkakhe ay lesi ZULU😂😂😂simnandi ukoti unesthembu manje
Kodwa kuncono kunokuthi aphumele ngaphadle kwesinye isibongo , uright umamezala ,,,mbonge umamakho uyisilima wena mfana umamakho ukwakhelumuzi bonga boy
I applaud and respect this Lady 👏 🙌, she is a one in a million.
Cha bhut uwena nje onephutha elikhulu umshadeleni ungenanzalo or wawusaba ukuthi uzonqaba or uzophuma emshadeni
Ayikho le nto oyithethayo ukuba ibinguwe ongafumani abantwana udlelwe umfazi ligazi lakho ubuzakuthini?
The best mamezala❤ lobhuti ube selfish wafihlela umkakhe indaba enkulu kangaka,okuhle ukuthi ayphinganga lengane yabantu
Ukuba ibinguwe ongafumani batwana kumithiswe udade wenu ubuzakuvuya?
Doti ka mama lona mina ngingaba shiya bodwa ngibone ukuty ngibhekaphi..
Hhayi booo uMama uyasho wayazi ukuthi lona akazali angithi kwakuzothukwa umakoti abizwe nganyumba yikho lokho enikuthandayo
Into ekwaku mele ayenze umakoti uk qala akhulumisane nendoda yakhe if inqaba angaqhubeki neplan yabo coz aksizi uk jabulisa abanye abantu ngokuty uhlukumeze indoda yakho.
Ukhulumisana njani nomuntu ongakaze akutsheleimfihlo lenjana ubafo ungena kanjani emshadweni nezimfihlo kube abazange bathole kusasa bekuzobhekwa kabi lengane yabantu kuthiwe yinyumba ekubeni uyalazi iqiniso
Ayikho lento oyikhulumayo musa kubalekela liqiniso lisobala
Lolu hilo usiko lwethu nje ngabantu amanyama iyenzwa nakumanye amazwe and iba ifihlo ubuthi akafanele ayazi loludhaba. Mara umamazala wethu is very wise hands up for her💯
Ayy abany abantu, kwakuyin umshado um ubhidlika awbhidlike kunokondla amajazi...
Ngcon ngiyfele ngingenamfazi ngingenamntwana alikho elibi...
Wowwww mother in-law of the year ❤❤❤❤❤❤sidinga abanjengawe
Shamee khona kubuhlungu ngoba Kodwa ubungazi kodwa let it go my brother ayiphele nje kwaziwe Yibo labo kuphela mfowethu I'm very that's lyf kuyatholakala.
Kodwa nawe bhuti wabanephutha lokushada ungamtsheli nkosikazi wakho kuthi awunanzalo nawe unephutha
Siyabonga mama ngokwenza iqiniso
Ehlisa umoya Ndodana bungeke ukwazi ukuba nomfazi ube ungeke umzalise akuyona furniture le
Great mother in law❤❤❤
Kodwa bonga ukuthi akaphumelanga ngaphandle mfwethu ❤
😂😂😂😂ay u100 ka mamezala lona, yayvuswa kanjena ke imizi, ay ngyamthanda lo khulu❤❤
This is customary. Traditional. Cultural. Nothing amiss.
Wonderful Makezala. Wabheda kakhulu Malo Bhuti. Ufihlelani into enjena
Waaw lo mama bethuna kona akulula ngxesi buti ❤❤