Charlene Fulton omg yes!! We were flying to Hawaii and this child in front of me kept trying to stick his hand in my food when we were eating and his parents didn’t care. So very sternly I said sit down because it was just ridiculous.
@AEM musiclover Yeah me too, too bad after her miscarriage she let the fear of having another miscarriage and pain she suffered prevent her from having another child.
If a child is destroying my house, I don't give a damn whose child it is, they will be stopped. If I have to scold (not hit) a child for messing up my things and his mom gets mad at me for doing it, the kid AND his mama can both get the hell out!
As a parent, you know your child. If you're not going to be persistent and consistent disciplining your child, keep 'em at home where they can run around, tear up 'ish, and cause all kinds of problems. Some mothers can be just as annoying as their child with that constant, "stop it!"
@@ttrinhity GIRL OMG SAME.I have a great friend I met in a Mommy Club... But that child is a handful. I get stressed because I have to take care of my son first. Anyways, I pray for the both of them and you too. God bless you.
Yes!! Well said zheahra!! Keep 'em at home. If they have to tear up something, then go ruin the park!!! What gives the parents and their darn kids right to tear up somebody else's home??? I say absolutely no rights!!
I don’t think it’s okay for anyone to touch someone else’s child but then the parent needs to have a backbone to speak up and reprimanded the child! Don’t just stand there all embarrassed 🙄🙄
Lavonne Peterson not touch, but another person should be able to say something to the kid personally when it comes to them messing up your stuff then yes.
A lot of times parents have a diff approach to dealing with their child than you might envision them to. Sometimes a parent will wait until the excitement settles down and reprimand them in private, because it's more effective (you wouldn't want someone to scream at you in public, would you?) or sometimes they are choosing to pick their battles. You really can't judge,
Yes. Your house your rules if my kids disrespected your home which they wouldn’t I never would tolerate it! I would let you tell them so they learn concequences
In my native West Africa, it literally takes a WHOLE village to raise a well-adjusted child. Which, means everybody disciplining you...your parents, older siblings, extended family, teachers, pastors, neighbors, shopkeepers, random elders on the street! We don't play and for the most part, the kids know not to try it. 🙄🤷🏾😅
Any mother who gets deeply offended over their child rightly being disciplined by someone else is one who places her ego above what's best for the child.
Angelina Cee right like how you slapping somebody's kid... the parents has every right to defend THEIR child... Tell the parent first.. if they do anything approach the parent how you like
The worst thing is when a random kid is running around you and hurting you like hitting you with a toy or waving their arms around hitting you and the parents just stand there and do nothing so you tell the kid to stop after about 5 times of it happening and then the parents get mad because you told their kid to stop and then they say "my kid didn't even touch you" OHHHHH THE NERVE
Absolutely so true. Some ppl overly spoil their kids and act like they don't do anything wrong. That's so frustrating. When the parents don't do anything then what? I would just have to leave or walk away b4 i lose my mind. Hate when parents act like they don't know why you're mad. They know.
Exactly!! It's called disrespectful, entitled parents teaching their brats to be also entitled/disrespectful!! Ugghhh!! Who the hell do these parents think they are?? I hate Tamera's attitude!! Think about your kids being strangers to everybody else. Kids are not always innocent. Some are too damn smart. They know how to play a parent and get away from punishment.
Heck no! Happened to Me and I told the kid in front of the father “Don’t you ever touch me again “ and be did it again and I grabbed his hand to stop him from hitting me and I raised my voice higher “I said, don’t you ever do you not understand? And the dad was like, it’s ok your ok I said, no I’m not ok! And you need to tell him one, I don’t like to be disrespected and two life doesn’t work that way you can’t go along in life hitting people. And he stopped omg I then talked to the dad after and was like, I’m sorry I yelled but, your child was so disrespectful and in my space
@@adrianasandoval2959 that sucks. People believe because little kids are so small and can't hit hard as teens or adults that it's funny or acceptable. Then they do it as they get older.. it's not so funny or cute anymore and hard to stop them. Letting them be monsters until it's not cute anymore is too long to wait. I would've grabbed that child and flipped him upside down and held him by his ankles until the dad took him away lol. They can't say I'm hurting them because I wouldn't be.. some kids actually like it. But their stuck lol
Betty White not usually-- cousin jeannie's method is very effective, i use it all the time😂 worst comes to worst, you just say the kid made it up, and you have no clue what they're talking about lol
Tamera: I WISH A BISH WOULD. *Audience and the other cohosts erupt into applause and laughter* Tamara: I said “BISH” not the other word *Everyone gets disappointed* IM WEAK😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Arielle Renae Thank you 🙏🏻 for repeating. Wasn’t sure what she said and how the audience reacted. You should be a show interpreter. Describe everything in detail So people like myself with functional eyes and ears can go straight to your comment instead of viewing the clip.🙄
I AM Cousin Jeannie! And I'm so glad she kept it real and mentioned that on here!! Everyone looks at me funny if they catch me giving the kids a look or if I let out the occasional growl if the "look" doesn't work (they don't understand why a grown woman is growling at them, and that ALWAYS makes them fix their actions/attitude/whatever it may have been). BUT, I have never seen anything wrong with this. I'm not being mean to them, I'm literally usually just confusing them because they're not used to someone doing that... And it's never NOT worked. So, hey, I don't care! If you're kids gonna act a fool, I may growl at them.
I swear tamera gets a twinkle in her eye every time they talk about kids or parenthood, she just loves it lol Tamera- “yay I get to talk about my 2 kids” Producer- “damn why we pick this topic again” Loni- “let me get a tissue” Us- “we know you have 2 kids” 😂😂😂
Any friend of mine come to my house and let their kids mash up my things and not doing anything I will or I'll tell them to replace it or when they visit back don't bring their child if u can't control them
Crystal Morrison Friend of mine came to my house with her son and got upset with me because her son to stop jumping on my furniture, so I told her not to bring him to my house anymore.
My friends kid was running wild at a wedding, going around to all the tables and stealing chocolates meant for the guests..... I stood up, pointed at him, locked eyes and gave him a Jeannie look. He put it back and sat right down at his table. IT WORKS lmao
Sometimes thats all it takes. Theyre used to getting away with it so when a stranger looks at them lime theyre a menace they get it. Infants even know how to respond to body language. Lol. I think ive scared a couple. They shut up real quick and hid behind their moms legs. Kinda side eyeing me cause they were afraid id snap. 😂😂😂
I bet your ass WOULDNT DO that facial expression in the back of a police car with your hands handcuffed behind your back at a cop, Now Would you?! Didn't think so!
@@gabbysambienceofrivers4813 um...ok Gabby...chill girl. Lmao! What is the relevance here? Are you a racist?...do you just attack people with your schizophrenic or turret style outbursts? Did you watch the video? 😂😂😂😂😂
@@gabbysambienceofrivers4813 and I have...actually. I have given several looks to several different people. Makes no difference. Body language and facial expressions are universal communication strategies...geeze.
I once spoke to a friend about her child who I was babysitting on a regular basis. In this scenario the person listened but made no real effort to discipline her child. Not only did I stop keeping the child, but eventually it got to the point where I didn't even want to hang out with the mother because her child was too unruly.
Yes! And if my kid did that I would encourage you to tell them firmly how disrespected you feel then that kid is getting punished heck no! We should not feed into it
Shondrel Hinton She full of shyt..that's not the approach she uses..that's tv banter..she got irritated when Adam told her not to handle too Aiden too much because he was full off his milk. Kids breaking her expensive things? She will not be that respectful.
When my friends child disrespects her or misbehaves in my house I speak up, period. The problem is parents getting sensitive when someone tries disciplining their kid when they refuse to.
Not in Africa! There's a saying here that during pregnancy, the baby is yours but once they're out is ours! So they go wrong,they're getting spanked by any elderly person around and your mama will still spank you for misbehaving once she's told. Any elder in your neighbourhood can discipline you,send you,care for you ( food,shelter ) when your mama isn't around and protect you! Proudly African!
@@aniscarkusi9360 From your last name I'm guessing you're Ghanaian. Little girl , learn some sense ok. You are a disgrace to your mother. Acting like u hv no training at home. Don't let social media train you. You'll end up alone and depressed. What was that about though, the silly tantrum of "Shut up"
Nyce Queen Oohh yes, i remember those days, the good old days. Where the children actually respected their elders: THEIR PARENTS,their neighbors, their teachers... it's hard to find them nowadays, u still do but it's very rare. 💞💞💞💞
destinie farris uhm no, not if it cost you, you need to talk to the parent, let them discipline their child and replace whatever destroyed items, and if needs be you could explain to the child that what they are doing is not right, and ask them how they would feel if you did the same to them... But do avoid any physical discipline
Sajola sash I only said that because I am awkward as hell, hate confrontation and do everything in my power to avoid confronting someone. But I’m also 20 so I’m sure it’s going to change.
Hell..to.the..no..no..no! Tam acting too nice! I'm not about to sit back and watch Dennis The Menace tear up my house. 2 for 1 specials will be handed out...
Or just talk to the child and say, “no no sweetie get down you may hurt yourself “ ... I don’t see any harm in addressing the child in a nice and respectful way .. most of the time when parents hear that you’re having to address their child they will step in and rectify their kids behavior.
We cannot be friends if I can’t reprimand your kid when they misbehave. And if the parent isn’t disciplining their kid. The momma is getting reprimanded too
I feel like if a friend or family is babysitting my kids, I have no problem with them disciplining them because discipline keeps the child safe, and lets the child know that they have to follow rules. As long as the discipline fits. If I'm out in public and my child does something that I didn't catch, it's perfectly fine for a stranger to let me know. A stranger is not allowed to talk to my child in any manner because I taught them not to talk to strangers. But let me know and I'll rectify the situation. If you invite someone over, and their child is recking your house, and they are not doing anything, you have every right to ask them to leave and send a bill to the parent. People have to respect other people's property. My daughter is on the lower autism spectrum, so when we go out to other's people house, I'm watching her like a hawk and make sure that she isn't doing anything to hurt herself or others. Same in public.
If the parent is sitting there watching their child destroy someone else home then their being worst then the child because they know better get your child under control and apologize to the person help them re straighten up and leave
"Kids will be kids..."?! No ma'am. If you allow your toddler to go around hitting people don't be surprised if someone hits them back. ESPECIALLY if you my little cousin/sibling etc, you will get popped back.
Ok disciplining is a big word but I'm sorry if your kid is breaking things in my house I will say something to the child I'm sorry it's your kid but it's my house
This exactly, and I am a parent. I will handle your child if you refuse to. I dont understand how a parent can sit back and watch... either i wouldnt have a friend anymore or we will only hang out at her house or without the child.
i work at a daycare, i deal with other people’s children 40+ hrs a week… i will most definitely tell the parent, friend or not, and if a kid was doing something to me, someone i care about or something i own… you can bet i won’t just sit there and watch em disrespect anything/anyone i care for. i’ll tell him nicely the first few times to stop and if they continue imma tell their parent and physically move the kid away. this is what i do for a living
I feel they wouldn't tell her what they really think. Loni's facial expressions says quite a bit although she's not verbally saying anything!! Tamera comes across as one of those people who feels like her kids can do no wrong at times. I'm sure she's not as annoying as she comes across. (I'm sorry fans)
I'm not gonna lie some parents let their kids do what they want. and don't control them. Like I will be on the bus and the kid will be kicking me and the parent is just sitting there. Like I understand that it is hard to control kids sometimes, because kids are kids. What annoys me is when parents don't try to control their kids when they know they're misbehaving.
in that situation it's absolutely ok to turn around and say, excuse me your kid is kicking me. Or directly to the child, hey it hurts me when you are kicking me, please stop.
when it is physical, you absolutely, positively, have a right to say something to the child...it can be done in a gentle, calm way, but you have every right to speak up in that situation.
A is stupid! Ain't no way I would let a "friend's" child tear up much ish (no matter how nice or not) and not say nothing to the child. The mother was ignoring the behavior so obviously she wanted A to handle the situation. Some parents are too worried about being their child's friend. That's the problem.
I know I’m not on “The Real”, I like the show and everything, and I love Tamera, but wrong. I disagree with every single one of them except Jeannie. All of that niceness that Tamera was saying when a child could be breaking crap at your house... Number one. If a child is breaking stuff at someone’s house, (breaking. Not broke. As in repeatedly, not stopping) then that obviously means this is allowed by their guardian which suggests that they don’t care. I don’t care whose kid it is, if you’re breaking my crap, I’m saying something. It’s the parent’s fault for bringing the kid over and not having a talk with them in the car beforehand if they allow such insanity at their house. Number 2. Loni said about Aden hitting her, his punishment was a hug??? That’s wild to me. She said she knew he would do it again, so is hitting allowed??? That’s confusing to me. For most kids, all it takes is a serious “NO.” Listening to how Tamera’s mom is, I bet not a single one of them ever hit their mom. Bet. 🤔 I know people’s parenting styles are different and I’ve learn to respect that but hitting, no. Tearing stuff up??? Wrong. And I can’t see how anyone is okay or allows their kids to do that. You do that in my house, you gotta go. And if you have a problem with it, whatever relationship we have can go too.
I think Tamera said that because she also stated she doesn't want people saying anything to her kid so she is doing what she wouldn't want someone else to do....
okay so if you're just sitting back and watching ur child acting a fool and you do nothing to discipline the child im sorry but I would have 2 say something to that child. i couldn't see myself getting disrespected i dont care if the parent do get mad.
I also believe that you shouldnt discipline other people kids. If you have the courage to confront a child, have the same energy and confront the parent first.
If the child is messing up my house. I'm going to tell them to stop and tell the parent what I did. I'm not going to go find the parent while the child continues to make a mess just so the parent can come to the child and tell them to stop.
I come from an African family where everybody hits you. You have relatives, you have friends, you have teachers, everybody be beating when you’re bad. And you LEARN to behave.
I went to a private catholic school so you already know they believe in hitting kids. and @Peace my dad never hit me but my mom would beat my ass 2 @Grape Monster!
My grandmother and I had a conversation about how life was when we was young. Families was never bothered about others all around treated the children. If you went over to the friends home and got out of hand you got chastised and parents or mom/ grandma was told. The question I have about "I will go to jail about my child" is the same thing someone feels about their oneself, their home and whatever belongs to them. God Bless. We need to be truly praying.
I'm 16 and I have learned so much about life and other things I need to know from this show and let me tell you it works. I got advice on talking to my parents, talking to my brother, making good food for a party or just hanging out with friends. And to be honest this show has helped me get out of my comfort zone and start to express myself, they even helped me talk again after I was bullied for the way I talked from when I was 10 to 15 so I say thank you ladies.
I'm agreeing with Jeannie, I have to be like that some times,but not to a stranger or people who just don't want you to talk to their child. Anyone I really know,I can talk to their child and to the parent. Always keep a low teaching tone to a child,not an aggressive tone. I want every child who knows me to respect me,so I'm correcting them in a loving way.
I always speak up if a kid starts messing with me or messes any of my stuff up, friend or not idc. Ive gotten in fights before with other mothers because of it but if your not gonna control your child someone else will period
If my kid is tearing up someone’s HOUSE????????? That sounds mortifying. Me as a parent would be embarrassed my child felt comfortable enough to destroy someone else’s things.
Discipline and redirecting a child is two different things. If my child is doing anything that she should not be going I wouldn't get offended if a complete stranger says, No u shouldn't touch that. I would in return, smile and say, "Thank you". Now that's different than saying, "don't touch that, go stand in the corner for 5 minutes. You should do that..... but your child will be redirected the entire time he/she touching, hitting, biting on things that he/she shouldn't. I will be damn if we both just sit there and allow a child to run MY house. Hell No!!! Offended or not! Kids need directions. WTH
I work at a clothing store for babies and kids, and boy I must say SOME parents do not know how to discipline or watch their children! Kids will tear up the store, boss around parents, run outside the door (literally we've had to stop people's kids from almost getting hit by a car bc the parent ain't watching). And still the parents won't do anything.
Call cps next time that happens, report the punk ass parents for not watching their own kids, you’re already at work, watching a strangers kids is not your job! Just report the parents!
I tell my nieces and nephews that Santa is watching when they don’t listen to their parents. Then I’ll tell them I am good friends with Santa and right now it looks like they’re on the naughty list. Instant Angels every time. The look on their faces 😂😂
Why is everyone cheering Tamera on? Uh hello, if your child is bullying my child and you aren't doing something about it, I will say something. Again I would give you a chance to fix your child but if you don't I will :) and if my child is bullying your child go ahead & tell my child to back off and be nice. Two way street. As long as the intention is to teach. Also I wouldn't touch the child o.o she said if anyone touched her child.... Ya don't touch other people's kids lol.
I get where she is coming frim... If youra stanger go to the parent first and if they dont do nothing then take ypur child somewhere else. If the parent never discipline, then you are wasting your time saying something to the child he wont understand if he never been taught right from wrong..
It depends on how well the person knows the parent... I know for me my sister says i can discipline her children... Like i think its different between family and friends... And then there's when strangers try to discipline ur kid and that is a NO-NO
ya’ll don’t even know how right adrienne was when she said drop kick a kid. literally one of my coworkers said “i’m going to drop kick _____” cuz she had enough of the 4 yr olds bs (we are preschool/daycare workers)
"Kids will be kids".. God Tamera, I love you but its been MULTIPLE times where things have been said about Aiden in which he misbehaves. He BIT loni. I dont think that's well behaved, but look, I'm not anyone to tell anyone ANYTHING about their child. JS
Personally, I’d excuse it if they were doing something that didn’t affect my child-they’re not my child, so it’s not my place to discipline. But if they were doing something that was (hitting, biting, throwing things, name-calling, etc.) I’d definitely intervene and tell them what they did wrong, why it’s wrong and what they can do instead.
Yesss friends or family members should NEVER touch those kids but rather talk to their parents about how they feel. Kids are kids not grown ups or teenagers. Everyday is a new day to learn for them. As parents we teach our kids daily on how to behave.
I got whopped from my friends dad when i was a kid. He was like family and I pretty sure my mom never gave him permission but she was like "what did you do, oh well, don't do it no more" lol old school days 80 babies
How about talk to the kid...I met parents who let they kids mess your stuff up and they get mad at YOU for saying something or they say "kids will be kids" or he/ she doesn't know any better now what lol how do you approach THAT?
Kick them and their kids out of your house. I'm sorry but just because you decided to have a child doesn't mean that when I'm kind enough to open my home up to you, that I somehow have to deal with the consequences of having children as well... that's just incredibly inconsiderate and if you feel like you're being rude for kicking them out, just keep reminding yourself that your feelings and belongings are your concerns, not them or their child. If they're not being considerate towards you, no matter how kind and hospitable and polite you are, you have absolutely every right to let them know and end the exchange if it gets out of hand. A lot of people will take full advantage of another person's kindness and aversion to confrontation and the one who suffers is the one who didn't ask for the situation to begin with, you're completely justified and within your right to set boundaries and limits.
I told a mom who said kids will be kids while the kids were running at a restaurant I responded, no not all kids behave that way it’s not a kid thing it’s a misbehaved kid thing
Being a Pediatric nurse there are times that I have had to deal with things when mom and dad came in. Only when the parents are not at home and I had to follow the parent's plan. I have to say that I have spoken to one child that I didn't know in some way. We had just gotten off the train at The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier. It was Veterans day and a group was having a program for Veterans whom had fought with. So we stopped to give respect when they began to play taps. While this was happening this child of around 3 to 5yr old, comes running down the sidewalk while screaming, just normal playing outside! He was going to the Tomb. The parents were way back behind him pushing a stroller. I knew if that kid got the Tomb running and screaming(not a temper tantrum), I knew that the Guard would whip around, holding his weapon, and would scream at the boy for not being respectful. They don't care if it is a child or adult they aren't going to allow someone to run around screaming. So I nelt down and told him that he has to be quiet or you will be yelled at by the soldier. Well here comes mom and dad, I said to them that I didn't want him to get yelled at by the soldier, it doesn't matter if they are children or adults. . They said thanks, and then kept him with them the rest of the time. Frankly, I think the child was way to young to be taken to Arlington. They don't have the knowledge of how to behave and aren't going to understand why they need to be quiet! Not a good place for young children.
I'm with cousin Jeanie lol. sometimes the parents just don't care.
Charlene Fulton omg yes!! We were flying to Hawaii and this child in front of me kept trying to stick his hand in my food when we were eating and his parents didn’t care. So very sternly I said sit down because it was just ridiculous.
For real.
Loni has excellent maternal skills in order to know Aiden hitting her just means he wants attention. She really is a great auntie
@AEM musiclover Yeah me too, too bad after her miscarriage she let the fear of having another miscarriage and pain she suffered prevent her from having another child.
If a child is destroying my house, I don't give a damn whose child it is, they will be stopped. If I have to scold (not hit) a child for messing up my things and his mom gets mad at me for doing it, the kid AND his mama can both get the hell out!
Let the church say Amen! Amen again!
Cynthia Willis I’d kick them all out and charge them for the damages
I'll beat Tamera with her KID if he disrespects me and my house Tamera relax
You guys have me dying with these comments 😂 thank you so much, I haven’t laughed all week. Thank uuuuuu
When I see a misbehaving kid at a store, I would look at him for a long time till they feel too embarrassed to keep fake crying in public.
Tam caught me off guard "I wish a bish would." lmao!
Nesha Britwood IKR
Frr im ROLLING😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Nesha Britwood the black side came out 😂
Ikr, it's bc we never expect it frm Tam
"I could drop kick the kid??" 😂😂 I'm the Adrienne of the group
I'm low key cousin Jeanie 😂 I once whispered into a kids ear that if he kept screaming, he was basically calling the Annabelle doll into the house 😂
Freshtaa R Hahahhahahah!!!!!
Lmao
deadass is Cousin Jeannie. I do that to those kids.
Freshtaa R 😂😂🤣👏👍
LMFAO me af
“no i just watched him tear my house up” lmaoo i am screaming!!!😭
chazzworld right😂😂😂
She’s so cute. Lmao hell no
IKR I had to keep rewinding 😂😂
the way she said it had me with her facial expression😂
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Yeah I'm not letting any kid tear my house up..😅 ain't nobody got time fo that
If you're going to sit and watch your. kid tear up my home. we don't need to be friends anymore. Id ask them both to leave. BYE.
Ava S. Or money lol.
Jae Ehm lol right
You Nice exactly. No need to add another bill on top of the bills that already need to be paid
if a friend's kid tear up my home, I'm never inviting them over again. We gonn have to be hangin' out at the mall,at the park or something.
The parent can watch her child destroying my house and I can't say anything to her or the child? Better not come to my house then.
My house, my rules
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It happened before my friend kids was terrible and I told her she had to leave with her bad ass kids
@@MeganAllen1738 I agree with you
Yup. I agree
As a parent, you know your child. If you're not going to be persistent and consistent disciplining your child, keep 'em at home where they can run around, tear up 'ish, and cause all kinds of problems. Some mothers can be just as annoying as their child with that constant, "stop it!"
I felt this in my soul. I just reunited with my brothers kids and i love them to death but i still have nightmares.
zheahra lmaooo yep i agree dont nobody else want to deal with them bad ass kids 😒
or when they just nonchalantly say "stop it" once and then shrug it off when the kid doesnt listen 🙄
@@ttrinhity GIRL OMG SAME.I have a great friend I met in a Mommy Club... But that child is a handful. I get stressed because I have to take care of my son first. Anyways, I pray for the both of them and you too. God bless you.
Yes!! Well said zheahra!! Keep 'em at home. If they have to tear up something, then go ruin the park!!! What gives the parents and their darn kids right to tear up somebody else's home??? I say absolutely no rights!!
"Hide your kids, hide your wife, cousin Jeanie is in town"
I don’t think it’s okay for anyone to touch someone else’s child but then the parent needs to have a backbone to speak up and reprimanded the child! Don’t just stand there all embarrassed 🙄🙄
Lavonne Peterson exactly! So many people “don’t want anybody to touch their child!” But they won’t either. They won’t correct them or anything.
Lavonne Peterson not touch, but another person should be able to say something to the kid personally when it comes to them messing up your stuff then yes.
Lavonne Peterson no child could come to my house and tear it up, oh hell no
A lot of times parents have a diff approach to dealing with their child than you might envision them to. Sometimes a parent will wait until the excitement settles down and reprimand them in private, because it's more effective (you wouldn't want someone to scream at you in public, would you?) or sometimes they are choosing to pick their battles. You really can't judge,
Lavonne Peterson fr bc I will get my kid I don’t want no one touching my kids period
Cousin Jeannie!!!😂
Like bishhhh Jeanie too old to be a cousin!!!
96bonnieandclyde stupid comment
96bonnieandclyde you’re never too old to be someone’s cousin🙄
xoAngelicaF Jeanie is like 40 , she’s too old to be a cousin..Jeanie really thinks she’s 20 something... she ain’t
Do cousins stop being cousins when they reach 40?
The parent needs to discipline. A monster child is NOT OKAY
Agreed
Yea!!!!
If the parents don't discipline their child in my house, then that means I will!
Well said
Agreed
Yes. Your house your rules if my kids disrespected your home which they wouldn’t I never would tolerate it! I would let you tell them so they learn concequences
No one is touching my kid or else we're both going to jail or someone's going to end up dead
C O well then make sure your kids behaved
*"I can drop kick the kid?"* LMAOOOOO Adrienne wants to fight Aden because he's taller than her 💀
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I'm crying 💀💀💀😂😂😂
I think she wanted to drop kick the kid who messed up her house not Adian😄😄
CHRISTINE MATHEWS shhhh let me be messy real quick 🤣🤣
Hafsa Hussein dont make fun of heights
In my native West Africa, it literally takes a WHOLE village to raise a well-adjusted child. Which, means everybody disciplining you...your parents, older siblings, extended family, teachers, pastors, neighbors, shopkeepers, random elders on the street! We don't play and for the most part, the kids know not to try it. 🙄🤷🏾😅
and YOU get what a village REALLY is. teach her sis!
Right !
That’s so true tho
Patricia Boateng same thing in most of east Africa as well
Same in East Africa!
Any mother who gets deeply offended over their child rightly being disciplined by someone else is one who places her ego above what's best for the child.
THANK YOU Yasmin. Words to the wise and foolish!
You can’t just discipline a stranger’s child without letting the mother know that’s just flat out disrespectful it’s not your child.
I get where you're coming from.
Angelina Cee right like how you slapping somebody's kid... the parents has every right to defend THEIR child... Tell the parent first.. if they do anything approach the parent how you like
You don't feed or clothe someone else's child. What gives you the right to overstep boundries like that?
The worst thing is when a random kid is running around you and hurting you like hitting you with a toy or waving their arms around hitting you and the parents just stand there and do nothing so you tell the kid to stop after about 5 times of it happening and then the parents get mad because you told their kid to stop and then they say "my kid didn't even touch you" OHHHHH THE NERVE
aydogan .b04 I hate ppl like that oh my gosh
Absolutely so true. Some ppl overly spoil their kids and act like they don't do anything wrong. That's so frustrating. When the parents don't do anything then what? I would just have to leave or walk away b4 i lose my mind. Hate when parents act like they don't know why you're mad. They know.
Exactly!! It's called disrespectful, entitled parents teaching their brats to be also entitled/disrespectful!! Ugghhh!! Who the hell do these parents think they are?? I hate Tamera's attitude!! Think about your kids being strangers to everybody else. Kids are not always innocent. Some are too damn smart. They know how to play a parent and get away from punishment.
Heck no! Happened to
Me and I told the kid in front of the father “Don’t you ever touch me again “ and be did it again and I grabbed his hand to stop him from hitting me and I raised my voice higher “I said, don’t you ever do you not understand? And the dad was like, it’s ok your ok I said, no I’m not ok! And you need to tell him one, I don’t like to be disrespected and two life doesn’t work that way you can’t go along in life hitting people. And he stopped omg I then talked to the dad after and was like, I’m sorry I yelled but, your child was so disrespectful and in my space
@@adrianasandoval2959 that sucks. People believe because little kids are so small and can't hit hard as teens or adults that it's funny or acceptable. Then they do it as they get older.. it's not so funny or cute anymore and hard to stop them. Letting them be monsters until it's not cute anymore is too long to wait. I would've grabbed that child and flipped him upside down and held him by his ankles until the dad took him away lol. They can't say I'm hurting them because I wouldn't be.. some kids actually like it. But their stuck lol
Please... here in Trinidad everyone diciplines everone elses child if need be verbally (most times).. but there is a line🇹🇹😏
Sain Burke True true
🙋😖 Trini here !
Trini to the bone
I know right! 🇹🇹
In Guyana as well
Let 'em know, Cousin Jeannie! lol
Noodlecour - What she said doesn't work. If you do that to a kid they'll start crying and tell on you to their mother.
Betty White not usually-- cousin jeannie's method is very effective, i use it all the time😂 worst comes to worst, you just say the kid made it up, and you have no clue what they're talking about lol
I so do what jeannie does, that face HAHAH
Keeks Keeks she is the best
Me too
Ima Shang u fool from madea
Haha same!
@1:22 I need to mark it. It’s soo funny 😂😂😂
Tamera: I WISH A BISH WOULD.
*Audience and the other cohosts erupt into applause and laughter*
Tamara: I said “BISH” not the other word
*Everyone gets disappointed*
IM WEAK😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Arielle Renae Thank you 🙏🏻 for repeating. Wasn’t sure what she said and how the audience reacted. You should be a show interpreter. Describe everything in detail So people like myself with functional eyes and ears can go straight to your comment instead of viewing the clip.🙄
Dawg I’m deadv😂😂😂
What is it mean ? Is it bitch ?
Shirley Candra yah
how you spell tamera right the first time but not the second one lmao
I like cousin jeannie
I'm definately like cousin Jeannie
Loni is like that lit auntie that let you take a sip of her beer🤣
🤣🤣🤣 big facts!
I AM Cousin Jeannie! And I'm so glad she kept it real and mentioned that on here!! Everyone looks at me funny if they catch me giving the kids a look or if I let out the occasional growl if the "look" doesn't work (they don't understand why a grown woman is growling at them, and that ALWAYS makes them fix their actions/attitude/whatever it may have been). BUT, I have never seen anything wrong with this. I'm not being mean to them, I'm literally usually just confusing them because they're not used to someone doing that... And it's never NOT worked. So, hey, I don't care! If you're kids gonna act a fool, I may growl at them.
Wow perfect!!
I swear tamera gets a twinkle in her eye every time they talk about kids or parenthood, she just loves it lol
Tamera- “yay I get to talk about my 2 kids”
Producer- “damn why we pick this topic again”
Loni- “let me get a tissue”
Us- “we know you have 2 kids” 😂😂😂
Sh-sh-ade ! Lol
Any friend of mine come to my house and let their kids mash up my things and not doing anything I will or I'll tell them to replace it or when they visit back don't bring their child if u can't control them
Crystal Morrison sound like my Jamaican mama
Amen sista
Crystal Morrison Friend of mine came to my house with her son and got upset with me because her son to stop jumping on my furniture, so I told her not to bring him to my house anymore.
Yes gyal I toatlly agree. I would tell them come get your pickney lol
Exactly Tamera talking bout she’ll go to jail for her child. If your child tear up my ish were gonna have words
If they’re in my house, tearing my stuff up, I’m putting that kid in check.
“I wish a bish would” 😂😂 tamera be surprising me
My friends kid was running wild at a wedding, going around to all the tables and stealing chocolates meant for the guests..... I stood up, pointed at him, locked eyes and gave him a Jeannie look. He put it back and sat right down at his table. IT WORKS lmao
I know what you mean... that's my super power! I've been known to silence toddler tantrums and kids acting a fool with my 5 sec 'mean muggin'.
Sometimes that’s all it takes! Lmao, I’m a mom and I wish that worked on my son!
Kids dont enter my home.
Problem solved.
lol!!!!
😂😂😂
Carlos Salas 🤣🤣🤣
She looked like Jackeé when she said "I wish a bish would" 😂
Tamera got me fucked up. Get your child when they cut up so I won't have to disciple them especially when it's in my house.
🤣🤣🤣
Head bob down and EVERYTHING!
😂😂😂
Nicole Thomas fa real!
I do jenni facial expression all the time to kids LOL
Sometimes thats all it takes. Theyre used to getting away with it so when a stranger looks at them lime theyre a menace they get it. Infants even know how to respond to body language. Lol. I think ive scared a couple. They shut up real quick and hid behind their moms legs. Kinda side eyeing me cause they were afraid id snap. 😂😂😂
I bet your ass WOULDNT DO that facial expression in the back of a police car with your hands handcuffed behind your back at a cop, Now Would you?! Didn't think so!
@@beastly.warner AND YOU'D BE SCARED AS THEY DRAG YOUR ASS AROUND WITH THEM SHACKLES CHAINS!
@@gabbysambienceofrivers4813 um...ok Gabby...chill girl. Lmao! What is the relevance here? Are you a racist?...do you just attack people with your schizophrenic or turret style outbursts?
Did you watch the video? 😂😂😂😂😂
@@gabbysambienceofrivers4813 and I have...actually. I have given several looks to several different people. Makes no difference. Body language and facial expressions are universal communication strategies...geeze.
I once spoke to a friend about her child who I was babysitting on a regular basis. In this scenario the person listened but made no real effort to discipline her child. Not only did I stop keeping the child, but eventually it got to the point where I didn't even want to hang out with the mother because her child was too unruly.
In public, I ignore the kid. But in MY house, best believe I will be telling that parent to please handle you kid. My house is not a playground Sorry
Faith Faithe Thank you!! Im the Queen in my kingdom. If you dont like it take you and your child home.
Completely agree! Cuz sometimes the parents just ignore the kids misbehavior
@@nawalbaswedan well said
@@nawalbaswedan that's very true
Yes! And if my kid did that I would encourage you to tell them firmly how disrespected you feel then that kid is getting punished heck no! We should not feed into it
Tam is being so nice. I would've be like "Girl come get your child! Tearing my house up" lol
Shondrel Hinton She full of shyt..that's not the approach she uses..that's tv banter..she got irritated when Adam told her not to handle too Aiden too much because he was full off his milk. Kids breaking her expensive things? She will not be that respectful.
You mean Adrienne
Lol straight up. "Girl, Come get your child before he/she get a whoopin' nie" lil joker better go sit down somewhere.
I would say something to the parent. I will not allow kids to mess up my house
When my friends child disrespects her or misbehaves in my house I speak up, period. The problem is parents getting sensitive when someone tries disciplining their kid when they refuse to.
Not in Africa! There's a saying here that during pregnancy, the baby is yours but once they're out is ours! So they go wrong,they're getting spanked by any elderly person around and your mama will still spank you for misbehaving once she's told.
Any elder in your neighbourhood can discipline you,send you,care for you ( food,shelter ) when your mama isn't around and protect you! Proudly African!
!!!!!
Shut up . There's a saying blalalalalal proudly African Blablabla shut up
@@aniscarkusi9360 From your last name I'm guessing you're Ghanaian. Little girl , learn some sense ok. You are a disgrace to your mother. Acting like u hv no training at home. Don't let social media train you. You'll end up alone and depressed.
What was that about though, the silly tantrum of "Shut up"
Nyce Queen Oohh yes, i remember those days, the good old days. Where the children actually respected their elders: THEIR PARENTS,their neighbors, their teachers... it's hard to find them nowadays, u still do but it's very rare.
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@@diamondsparkle9967 Word darling. Gone are the days! It was a great era. Not these days. These children and teenagers hv zero respect! Sad.
“I just watched him tear my house up.” 😂😂😂 SAME!!!
destinie farris me af recently
destinie farris uhm no, not if it cost you, you need to talk to the parent, let them discipline their child and replace whatever destroyed items, and if needs be you could explain to the child that what they are doing is not right, and ask them how they would feel if you did the same to them... But do avoid any physical discipline
Sajola sash I only said that because I am awkward as hell, hate confrontation and do everything in my power to avoid confronting someone. But I’m also 20 so I’m sure it’s going to change.
destinie farris okay girl, all the best
It won't change unless you make it change. Adrienne is in her early 30's I believe and it hasn't changed for her.
We all need a cousin Jeannie in our lives
Farhani I wouldn't trust her to watch kids.
Hell..to.the..no..no..no! Tam acting too nice! I'm not about to sit back and watch Dennis The Menace tear up my house. 2 for 1 specials will be handed out...
Exactly.
Or just talk to the child and say, “no no sweetie get down you may hurt yourself “ ... I don’t see any harm in addressing the child in a nice and respectful way .. most of the time when parents hear that you’re having to address their child they will step in and rectify their kids behavior.
Agreed
authentik ok so true
Yes!!!!!
“I could drop kick the kid?” 😭🤣
Cousin Jeannie lmfao
kelsi ruffolo Did you hear Tam after J said it the second time? Tam was like uh uh I'll go to jail for my kids. Lol 3:54
"I can drop kick the kid?" Me low-key when a parent tells me to babysit and gives me permission to "discipline" the child lmaoo 😂
We cannot be friends if I can’t reprimand your kid when they misbehave. And if the parent isn’t disciplining their kid. The momma is getting reprimanded too
I feel like if a friend or family is babysitting my kids, I have no problem with them disciplining them because discipline keeps the child safe, and lets the child know that they have to follow rules. As long as the discipline fits. If I'm out in public and my child does something that I didn't catch, it's perfectly fine for a stranger to let me know. A stranger is not allowed to talk to my child in any manner because I taught them not to talk to strangers. But let me know and I'll rectify the situation.
If you invite someone over, and their child is recking your house, and they are not doing anything, you have every right to ask them to leave and send a bill to the parent. People have to respect other people's property.
My daughter is on the lower autism spectrum, so when we go out to other's people house, I'm watching her like a hawk and make sure that she isn't doing anything to hurt herself or others. Same in public.
Agreed
If the parent is sitting there watching their child destroy someone else home then their being worst then the child because they know better get your child under control and apologize to the person help them re straighten up and leave
Yes And leave!!! Well said!!!
Im sorry if a little kid is tearing up my house and the mother is watching I will politely tell the both of them to get the hell out of my house
"Kids will be kids..."?! No ma'am. If you allow your toddler to go around hitting people don't be surprised if someone hits them back. ESPECIALLY if you my little cousin/sibling etc, you will get popped back.
Ok disciplining is a big word but I'm sorry if your kid is breaking things in my house I will say something to the child I'm sorry it's your kid but it's my house
Exactly! Tamera was getting so defensive here lol
Amen
This exactly, and I am a parent. I will handle your child if you refuse to. I dont understand how a parent can sit back and watch... either i wouldnt have a friend anymore or we will only hang out at her house or without the child.
LOL "IM SORRY IT'S YOUR KID"
@@BizzzyBee well said
i work at a daycare, i deal with other people’s children 40+ hrs a week… i will most definitely tell the parent, friend or not, and if a kid was doing something to me, someone i care about or something i own… you can bet i won’t just sit there and watch em disrespect anything/anyone i care for. i’ll tell him nicely the first few times to stop and if they continue imma tell their parent and physically move the kid away. this is what i do for a living
Jeannie finished me when she did the "look"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm crying!
The awkward silence when Tamara said my kids are well behaved.
I feel they wouldn't tell her what they really think. Loni's facial expressions says quite a bit although she's not verbally saying anything!! Tamera comes across as one of those people who feels like her kids can do no wrong at times. I'm sure she's not as annoying as she comes across. (I'm sorry fans)
I'm not gonna lie some parents let their kids do what they want. and don't control them. Like I will be on the bus and the kid will be kicking me and the parent is just sitting there. Like I understand that it is hard to control kids sometimes, because kids are kids. What annoys me is when parents don't try to control their kids when they know they're misbehaving.
in that situation it's absolutely ok to turn around and say, excuse me your kid is kicking me. Or directly to the child, hey it hurts me when you are kicking me, please stop.
when it is physical, you absolutely, positively, have a right to say something to the child...it can be done in a gentle, calm way, but you have every right to speak up in that situation.
The parents that let their kids act wild reminds me of the mother from Grown Ups who breast fed her 4 yr old kid
A is stupid! Ain't no way I would let a "friend's" child tear up much ish (no matter how nice or not) and not say nothing to the child. The mother was ignoring the behavior so obviously she wanted A to handle the situation. Some parents are too worried about being their child's friend. That's the problem.
Diva Dinett * Dealz & More Yes!
Lol when you’ve got so much monies that you patiently wait till your guest leaves to replace the stuff you watched get destroyed..
Diva Dinett * Dealz & More i’m always the 100th like under these videos
Being the childs friend isnt true most likely they are referring to toddlers.
She’s so dumb! I would never admit to letting a kid ruin my house while i allow it. Makes her look stupid
"Did you stop the kid?"
"No I just watched him tear my house up." 🤣🤣🤣🤣
When the parent isn't looking I'd say: "You STOP THAT right now!" In my fiercest whisper. Works ever time.
I know I’m not on “The Real”, I like the show and everything, and I love Tamera, but wrong. I disagree with every single one of them except Jeannie. All of that niceness that Tamera was saying when a child could be breaking crap at your house... Number one. If a child is breaking stuff at someone’s house, (breaking. Not broke. As in repeatedly, not stopping) then that obviously means this is allowed by their guardian which suggests that they don’t care. I don’t care whose kid it is, if you’re breaking my crap, I’m saying something. It’s the parent’s fault for bringing the kid over and not having a talk with them in the car beforehand if they allow such insanity at their house. Number 2. Loni said about Aden hitting her, his punishment was a hug??? That’s wild to me. She said she knew he would do it again, so is hitting allowed??? That’s confusing to me. For most kids, all it takes is a serious “NO.” Listening to how Tamera’s mom is, I bet not a single one of them ever hit their mom. Bet. 🤔 I know people’s parenting styles are different and I’ve learn to respect that but hitting, no. Tearing stuff up??? Wrong. And I can’t see how anyone is okay or allows their kids to do that. You do that in my house, you gotta go. And if you have a problem with it, whatever relationship we have can go too.
I think Tamera said that because she also stated she doesn't want people saying anything to her kid so she is doing what she wouldn't want someone else to do....
Facts!!! 👏👏👏
okay so if you're just sitting back and watching ur child acting a fool and you do nothing to discipline the child im sorry but I would have 2 say something to that child. i couldn't see myself getting disrespected i dont care if the parent do get mad.
Lynnette Parkz I totally agree wit you on that !
We need more women like you in the world, maybe if there were kids wouldn’t be so messed up and entitled these days!
Jeanie killed me twice lololol
Loni's face after Tamera said, "I wish a bish would".... OMG I'm dead! LOL! 😂
"No I just watched them tear my house up" cracks me up all the time omg 😂😂😂
Oh, I'm for sure "cousin Jeanie" but I will say something to the child, and then I'll tell the mama!
You don’t have to be a parent to know when someone’s child is misbehaving.
I also believe that you shouldnt discipline other people kids. If you have the courage to confront a child, have the same energy and confront the parent first.
True. But, if that parent out the room...chile, I got to handle the situation right then and there.
If the child is messing up my house. I'm going to tell them to stop and tell the parent what I did. I'm not going to go find the parent while the child continues to make a mess just so the parent can come to the child and tell them to stop.
Adrienne's face when she said "No, I just watched him tear my house up"... ROTFLMAO!
Not "him", but "them" ... that's even worse 😪
😂 Kids or no kids.. jeanie had the right idea. Some times kids need to see a different reaction to understand, dont do that.
Jeannie is hilarious I love her
I wish a bish would okayyyyyy tam tam 😂💓
I come from an African family where everybody hits you. You have relatives, you have friends, you have teachers, everybody be beating when you’re bad. And you LEARN to behave.
Yeah, I'm Mexican, and pretty much you get hit by everyone.
This tbh my teacher slapped me when I was in 5th grade and called my mother. My mom beat my ass even more.
h Bag
omg😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 im from east africa, but i wasnt hit by anyone but my father ..
I went to a private catholic school so you already know they believe in hitting kids. and @Peace my dad never hit me but my mom would beat my ass 2 @Grape Monster!
h Bag omg it was a catholic boarding school. I hate it some of the punishments they used to gave us were just disgusting.
My grandmother and I had a conversation about how life was when we was young. Families was never bothered about others all around treated the children. If you went over to the friends home and got out of hand you got chastised and parents or mom/ grandma was told. The question I have about "I will go to jail about my child" is the same thing someone feels about their oneself, their home and whatever belongs to them. God Bless. We need to be truly praying.
I'm 16 and I have learned so much about life and other things I need to know from this show and let me tell you it works. I got advice on talking to my parents, talking to my brother, making good food for a party or just hanging out with friends. And to be honest this show has helped me get out of my comfort zone and start to express myself, they even helped me talk again after I was bullied for the way I talked from when I was 10 to 15 so I say thank you ladies.
I love Jeannie.
I'm agreeing with Jeannie, I have to be like that some times,but not to a stranger or people who just don't want you to talk to their child. Anyone I really know,I can talk to their child and to the parent. Always keep a low teaching tone to a child,not an aggressive tone. I want every child who knows me to respect me,so I'm correcting them in a loving way.
I always speak up if a kid starts messing with me or messes any of my stuff up, friend or not idc. Ive gotten in fights before with other mothers because of it but if your not gonna control your child someone else will period
If anyone touches my kid, I'll literally bash their skull in.
@@CO-ig3yw
What if it's another child or if someone is trying to stop them from going into the street or getting kidnapped?
@@CO-ig3yw here you go again
If my kid is tearing up someone’s HOUSE????????? That sounds mortifying. Me as a parent would be embarrassed my child felt comfortable enough to destroy someone else’s things.
I would never apologize for letting them know what they kids doing lmaooo
Discipline and redirecting a child is two different things. If my child is doing anything that she should not be going I wouldn't get offended if a complete stranger says, No u shouldn't touch that. I would in return, smile and say, "Thank you". Now that's different than saying, "don't touch that, go stand in the corner for 5 minutes. You should do that..... but your child will be redirected the entire time he/she touching, hitting, biting on things that he/she shouldn't. I will be damn if we both just sit there and allow a child to run MY house. Hell No!!! Offended or not! Kids need directions. WTH
sharon ray PREACH
I absolutely agree
sharon ray Well said!
100% agree - children need redirection.
I work at a clothing store for babies and kids, and boy I must say SOME parents do not know how to discipline or watch their children! Kids will tear up the store, boss around parents, run outside the door (literally we've had to stop people's kids from almost getting hit by a car bc the parent ain't watching). And still the parents won't do anything.
Brandy Let them run out.....
Call cps next time that happens, report the punk ass parents for not watching their own kids, you’re already at work, watching a strangers kids is not your job! Just report the parents!
@@Beaneabean Why
@@lexiearnold529 just why, lol
I cant wait for the Sister Sister reunion
I tell my nieces and nephews that Santa is watching when they don’t listen to their parents. Then I’ll tell them I am good friends with Santa and right now it looks like they’re on the naughty list. Instant Angels every time. The look on their faces 😂😂
Why is everyone cheering Tamera on?
Uh hello, if your child is bullying my child and you aren't doing something about it, I will say something.
Again I would give you a chance to fix your child but if you don't I will :) and if my child is bullying your child go ahead & tell my child to back off and be nice. Two way street. As long as the intention is to teach.
Also I wouldn't touch the child o.o she said if anyone touched her child.... Ya don't touch other people's kids lol.
I get where she is coming frim... If youra stanger go to the parent first and if they dont do nothing then take ypur child somewhere else. If the parent never discipline, then you are wasting your time saying something to the child he wont understand if he never been taught right from wrong..
It depends on how well the person knows the parent... I know for me my sister says i can discipline her children... Like i think its different between family and friends... And then there's when strangers try to discipline ur kid and that is a NO-NO
Hahahhahahaha Jeannie @1.21 lmao
If your child destroy in MY house then imma Disciple them in MY house.
I’m sorry for your loss.. 😘😘😢😢 sending you so much love
ya’ll don’t even know how right adrienne was when she said drop kick a kid. literally one of my coworkers said “i’m going to drop kick _____” cuz she had enough of the 4 yr olds bs (we are preschool/daycare workers)
"Kids will be kids".. God Tamera, I love you but its been MULTIPLE times where things have been said about Aiden in which he misbehaves. He BIT loni. I dont think that's well behaved, but look, I'm not anyone to tell anyone ANYTHING about their child. JS
HE BIT HER??? or hit her lol
No that doesn't sound well behaved. Kids will be kids is bs if they are being disrespectful to others.
Bit her? Wow. Even if he hot her that's not well behaved.
Hit not bit lmao
@@leesem6680 they aren't animals. You are suppose to teach them not to do that. Mean while also telling a loud mouthed friend to chill out.
Idk sounds like they need cousin jeannie to hang with aiden more
Personally, I’d excuse it if they were doing something that didn’t affect my child-they’re not my child, so it’s not my place to discipline. But if they were doing something that was (hitting, biting, throwing things, name-calling, etc.) I’d definitely intervene and tell them what they did wrong, why it’s wrong and what they can do instead.
Well then Tamara 👀
Yesss friends or family members should NEVER touch those kids but rather talk to their parents about how they feel. Kids are kids not grown ups or teenagers. Everyday is a new day to learn for them. As parents we teach our kids daily on how to behave.
I got whopped from my friends dad when i was a kid. He was like family and I pretty sure my mom never gave him permission but she was like "what did you do, oh well, don't do it no more" lol
old school days 80 babies
@Tamara
I agree old school all the way
You must of been doing something 😭😂
Yup. Good ol days.
Jeannie speaks to my soul lmao
they all look like they are in costume/disguise. lol fabolous lol
How about talk to the kid...I met parents who let they kids mess your stuff up and they get mad at YOU for saying something or they say "kids will be kids" or he/ she doesn't know any better now what lol how do you approach THAT?
Kick them and their kids out of your house. I'm sorry but just because you decided to have a child doesn't mean that when I'm kind enough to open my home up to you, that I somehow have to deal with the consequences of having children as well... that's just incredibly inconsiderate and if you feel like you're being rude for kicking them out, just keep reminding yourself that your feelings and belongings are your concerns, not them or their child. If they're not being considerate towards you, no matter how kind and hospitable and polite you are, you have absolutely every right to let them know and end the exchange if it gets out of hand. A lot of people will take full advantage of another person's kindness and aversion to confrontation and the one who suffers is the one who didn't ask for the situation to begin with, you're completely justified and within your right to set boundaries and limits.
lakindria shoemaker the worsttttt omgggg like control your kids!!!
lakindria shoemaker I hate parents like that. How the kid going to grow and learn if the parent don’t want them to be taught what is right.
Exactly!
I told a mom who said kids will be kids while the kids were running at a restaurant I responded, no not all kids behave that way it’s not a kid thing it’s a misbehaved kid thing
And the sneaky way she said it "I won't tell the parent but will scare the kid" TRY ME B***!
Being a Pediatric nurse there are times that I have had to deal with things when mom and dad came in. Only when the parents are not at home and I had to follow the parent's plan.
I have to say that I have spoken to one child that I didn't know in some way. We had just gotten off the train at The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier. It was Veterans day and a group was having a program for Veterans whom had fought with. So we stopped to give respect when they began to play taps. While this was happening this child of around 3 to 5yr old, comes running down the sidewalk while screaming, just normal playing outside! He was going to the Tomb. The parents were way back behind him pushing a stroller. I knew if that kid got the Tomb running and screaming(not a temper tantrum), I knew that the Guard would whip around, holding his weapon, and would scream at the boy for not being respectful. They don't care if it is a child or adult they aren't going to allow someone to run around screaming. So I nelt down and told him that he has to be quiet or you will be yelled at by the soldier. Well here comes mom and dad, I said to them that I didn't want him to get yelled at by the soldier, it doesn't matter if they are children or adults. . They said thanks, and then kept him with them the rest of the time. Frankly, I think the child was way to young to be taken to Arlington. They don't have the knowledge of how to behave and aren't going to understand why they need to be quiet! Not a good place for young children.