Should a Kid Hit Back If They Get Hit?

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  • Опубликовано: 24 окт 2019
  • Real fam, if your kid is being physically bullied, would you tell them to hit back?
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  • @luomanfei
    @luomanfei 4 года назад +2155

    Tamera is so naturally funny and she doesn’t even know it.

  • @ms.beautiful
    @ms.beautiful 4 года назад +5030

    🗣🗣🗣You will get in trouble for STARTING a Fight but you will NEVER get in trouble for FINISHING it!!!!
    PREACH TAMERA 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @stoneghana4171
      @stoneghana4171 4 года назад +179

      That’s not true. They both get in trouble.

    • @bw2020
      @bw2020 4 года назад +76

      Yeah...not true. And unfortunately often the opposite is true.

    • @frenchrose3752
      @frenchrose3752 4 года назад +6

      That 's so true my mother friend told my that and i grow up strong women

    • @tiaraw872
      @tiaraw872 4 года назад +19

      Amber Awusah if it’s self defense then yes most likely your not going to get in trouble

    • @Sssssssslf
      @Sssssssslf 4 года назад +20

      So wrong and _definitely_ not true ..It only takes one punch to kill a person and whether it was in self defence or not you're going to jail ..that's something I certainly won't be preaching to my children. Stand up and defend yourself- yes but finish a fight, nah

  • @daisyjasmin23
    @daisyjasmin23 4 года назад +4386

    “I don’t have any kids but I do have two cats and I tell them to stick up for themselves!” 💀🤣

    • @Deshanae825
      @Deshanae825 4 года назад +36

      daisyjasmin23 best comment lol 😭😭😭

    • @baggergurl16
      @baggergurl16 4 года назад +59

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣they got the advantage them claws

    • @sugarspice3797
      @sugarspice3797 4 года назад +9

      daisyjasmin23 Hahahaha

    • @RLoz-no2jd
      @RLoz-no2jd 4 года назад +9

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @TenchiMuyoTMU
      @TenchiMuyoTMU 4 года назад +41

      I straight up tell my cat the same thing.

  • @ericacooley7721
    @ericacooley7721 4 года назад +2848

    I’m still laughing at Mama Mai putting 3 hoodies and chicken grease on Jeanie sending her to war🤣🤣🤣

    • @simplymonica6888
      @simplymonica6888 4 года назад +57

      Erica Cooley. That was too funny 😂 😂

    • @gigachadyuumi
      @gigachadyuumi 4 года назад +91

      I wish it were in a movie I just died 😭

    • @SLEEVEASMR
      @SLEEVEASMR 4 года назад +15

      LMFAOOOOO

    • @sarbahomejia6473
      @sarbahomejia6473 4 года назад +20

      That's how you do it

    • @dvonmeadows323
      @dvonmeadows323 4 года назад +47

      Lmbo sent her straight to war 😂😂😂❗️

  • @Tariqisathug
    @Tariqisathug 4 года назад +2806

    Tam is on a roll in this clip! “COME ON TIA” 😂😂😭😭

    • @kayaluko4525
      @kayaluko4525 4 года назад +74

      I burst out laughing! 😭😭😭

    • @Tariqisathug
      @Tariqisathug 4 года назад +43

      Kanyin Aluko she is a comedian today 😂😭

    • @CeceMack
      @CeceMack 4 года назад +31

      I Couldn't Believe Tam Said That! I Was Dying 💀😂

    • @toriannalanam5341
      @toriannalanam5341 4 года назад +43

      Freaking Twins. I always grab a knife when I hear a noise and go look around ready to stab a ghost! 🤣

    • @Isntitwonderful98
      @Isntitwonderful98 4 года назад +5

      😂😂😂

  • @mayasquaw2254
    @mayasquaw2254 4 года назад +4291

    My African household If you don’t hit back, you best believe you’re gonna get the worse hitting at home. 😭

    • @sisy2546
      @sisy2546 4 года назад +122

      mAya SquAw absolutely ! As an African I can relate girrrrl 100 percent right

    • @shaythareal2382
      @shaythareal2382 4 года назад +114

      mAya SquAw Jamaican household too 😂😂

    • @bw2020
      @bw2020 4 года назад +74

      Sounds pretty abusive

    • @sisy2546
      @sisy2546 4 года назад +122

      bw I’m sure you are an American. Don’t get it Not abusive at all 🙄 You should stand for yourself this has nothing to do with being violent . That’s why we respect more our elders .

    • @caramelcocoa234
      @caramelcocoa234 4 года назад +89

      Lmao “what were you looking at when they beat you”

  • @terrancekeith6888
    @terrancekeith6888 4 года назад +1608

    “C’MON Tia” SENT me 😂😭😭

    • @cindyluwho2767
      @cindyluwho2767 4 года назад +13

      Lol same!!!

    • @daniellax334
      @daniellax334 4 года назад +26

      sammeeeee i went straight to the comments to see if anyone related

    • @gabbynaughty1
      @gabbynaughty1 4 года назад +11

      I dropped a tear when i heard that. Lmao

    • @GETYOUREDUCATION
      @GETYOUREDUCATION 4 года назад +4

      Nostalgia

    • @sarawebley
      @sarawebley 4 года назад +3

      SENT!!! 🤣😂🤣😂

  • @gracegriffin7289
    @gracegriffin7289 4 года назад +1438

    I love how nobody took Tamera seriously when she said she knows how to brawl😂😂

    • @jadehoskins2320
      @jadehoskins2320 4 года назад +15

      bsbgirl85 OMG 😂😂😂😂😂💀💀

    • @RoyalMasterpiece
      @RoyalMasterpiece 4 года назад +210

      Don’t under estimate Tamera. I believe she can whoop some.....

    • @lotionbottlehead
      @lotionbottlehead 4 года назад +225

      Bruh the quiet, shy ones be the craziest 🤣

    • @lexieB713
      @lexieB713 4 года назад +194

      Both parents were in the army....yea she fight.. she take boxing when she was younger

    • @faycoleman9023
      @faycoleman9023 4 года назад +148

      @@bsbgirl85 her parents were both in the military she's definitely got hands lol

  • @roxana4136
    @roxana4136 4 года назад +1295

    My mom said: dont ever start a fight, but be sure to finish it. She taught me how to punch

    • @DivinevirgoFeminine
      @DivinevirgoFeminine 4 года назад +16

      That's a good mama that's the mama I want to be matter of fact I'm showing my kids

    • @DavidLee-vp3nr
      @DavidLee-vp3nr 4 года назад +2

      and to get on your knees!!!

    • @joyfullifestyle2665
      @joyfullifestyle2665 4 года назад +3

      Roxana Romero my dad taught me that..!❤️✊🏿never lost a fight thanks to him

    • @roxana4136
      @roxana4136 4 года назад +7

      @@DavidLee-vp3nr theres always that one douchey comment. Congrats.

    • @DIVASFORTRESS
      @DIVASFORTRESS 4 года назад +4

      Roxana Romero you shouldn’t have even responded to her

  • @fireesaphh9918
    @fireesaphh9918 4 года назад +770

    LMFAOOOO IM WEAK THE END WHEN TAMERA SAID “you guys i can brawl no for real” 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂 “i was the first one with the knife in my hand & said “COME ON TIAA” LMAOOOOOOOO😭😭😂😂😂😂

    • @missondo4887
      @missondo4887 4 года назад +10

      Firee Saphh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭 I died there

    • @jayejaye8152
      @jayejaye8152 4 года назад +6

      Firee Saphh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @tycurry351
      @tycurry351 4 года назад +5

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @chanelbags1023
      @chanelbags1023 4 года назад +5

      Lmbo

    • @mylittlething2557
      @mylittlething2557 4 года назад +4

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @dennishaedwards4017
    @dennishaedwards4017 4 года назад +944

    I died when loni said she looked like one of the substitute teachers

    • @simplymonica6888
      @simplymonica6888 4 года назад +5

      Dennisha Edwards. Me too 😂 😂

    • @danielles5230
      @danielles5230 4 года назад +5

      Me 2 😂😂😂😂

    • @dianacortes5848
      @dianacortes5848 4 года назад +3

      I love loni 😭

    • @user-FBA-1
      @user-FBA-1 4 года назад +1

      Dennisha Edwards 🤣🤣🤣😂😂

    • @NeonHelix20
      @NeonHelix20 4 года назад +4

      Dennisha Edwards Im actually over her always self deprecating. Its kind of sad. Like girl just be you and stop highlighting your weight all the time. Ive seen too many clips of her calling herself fat etc... and I dont like it. Shes the only full blk woman on panel and she should be nicer to herself

  • @juliapineda13
    @juliapineda13 4 года назад +249

    Loni did not just say she looked like a substitute teacher in preschool LMAOO

  • @bpadilla7893
    @bpadilla7893 4 года назад +1500

    The lady who posted that was probably the bullys mom and doesnt want him to get a taste of his own medicine smh....

    • @Chloeeezyyy
      @Chloeeezyyy 4 года назад +9

      B Padilla it was a man who posted it.

    • @cwchris_
      @cwchris_ 4 года назад +143

      He was probably mad his kid hit someone first & then got his ass beat.

    • @bnwo
      @bnwo 4 года назад +4

      Probably.

    • @Ariaraee
      @Ariaraee 4 года назад +3

      I gave you 666 likes

    • @alphaomega55
      @alphaomega55 4 года назад +9

      My thoughts exactly... I'm not teaching hit back, I enrolled my 2nd grader in martial arts, my advice to her is roundhouse kick their ass!

  • @charmaineblake5020
    @charmaineblake5020 4 года назад +509

    People should not sleep on Tamera. I can tell she will get fiesty and “about it” if she has to.

    • @ParisAntoinette
      @ParisAntoinette 4 года назад +6

      Charmaine Blake Yasss

    • @MultiSassy84
      @MultiSassy84 4 года назад +29

      I think the stereotype that Tia is more hood and Tamera is the good girl isn't necessarily accurate. People forget that while twins are two different people, and while they may be different they have similarities too.

    • @quinnmorgendorffer8435
      @quinnmorgendorffer8435 4 года назад +1

      Yes, a mom is a mom.

  • @finabibi
    @finabibi 4 года назад +172

    Why they always so shocked when Tamera says she can brawl, like y’all don’t understand that ya quiet and nice people when we unleash the beast of anger, it’s poppin off !! Watch out.

    • @NellieKAdaba
      @NellieKAdaba 4 года назад +3

      Exactly

    • @karenjackson7807
      @karenjackson7807 4 года назад +7

      And her dad was a cop. Pretty sure he would have taught them self defense.😁😉

    • @NellieKAdaba
      @NellieKAdaba 4 года назад

      @@karenjackson7807 Excellent.

    • @tjaspire
      @tjaspire 4 года назад

      Er. Not always LOL

    • @DoomSlayer-gj8qb
      @DoomSlayer-gj8qb 3 года назад +1

      As a nice and quiet person I can confirm this.

  • @ericacooley7721
    @ericacooley7721 4 года назад +303

    Mama Mai: Jeanie Why you scared? Why you hide??
    Me as Jeanie: Bc mama Mai THEY here to fight ME & not you😩🤣🤣💀

  • @tibo3211
    @tibo3211 4 года назад +457

    People love to mess with quiet people. She got cussed out though.😂😂

    • @Jadedyxy
      @Jadedyxy 4 года назад +2

      Ty Kin For real😂😂

    • @babyfaze1
      @babyfaze1 4 года назад +51

      What they fail to realize is the quiet ones you gotta watch out for 😁😁😁

    • @izzy350
      @izzy350 4 года назад +14

      Exactly. Don’t underestimate shyness

    • @classicstorm
      @classicstorm 4 года назад +1

      If I don't relate to this statement...and then they wonder why you are quiet...

    • @KelliM
      @KelliM 4 года назад +2

      @@izzy350 quiet doesnt mean shy...it means keeping peace

  • @seriousblakk
    @seriousblakk 4 года назад +537

    Lol that "com on Tia" !was so sister sister bro. Hahaha

    • @carameldoll96
      @carameldoll96 4 года назад +8

      Lol, that was the exact thought i had

  • @Calandr28
    @Calandr28 4 года назад +42

    Lol, when Tamera said "brawl."
    She's so sweet. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Blackdove0421
    @Blackdove0421 4 года назад +155

    Some teachers don't care depending on the child!

    • @mixedmamiiD
      @mixedmamiiD 4 года назад +11

      Sad truth

    • @BriLoveMusic
      @BriLoveMusic 4 года назад +1

      What do you mean? I'm so scared to send my daughters (latinas) to a predominantly all white school. I dont want to be so naive.

    • @Jay-jb2vr
      @Jay-jb2vr 4 года назад +7

      @@BriLoveMusic why send them to an *all white* school???

    • @Pure3eduction
      @Pure3eduction 4 года назад +13

      It’s very true! Especially if they have a bias against the child, they will not be protected.

    • @qwonstv1
      @qwonstv1 4 года назад +2

      Absolutely true

  • @madmann1000
    @madmann1000 4 года назад +452

    My momma always told me knock they ass out one good time and they’ll leave you alone lol

    • @kkahin3557
      @kkahin3557 4 года назад +9

      100%

    • @sumeya1923
      @sumeya1923 4 года назад +23

      True tho.Always defend yourself or people will walk all over you‼️‼️

    • @JohnneseP
      @JohnneseP 4 года назад +5

      Yass! You know one out and they all will leave you alone and try to be your friend lol

    • @Marie-1990
      @Marie-1990 4 года назад

      😂

    • @deliac.8508
      @deliac.8508 4 года назад +1

      madmann1000 girl your momma was right!

  • @carms7438
    @carms7438 4 года назад +147

    “Believe it or not you guys.. 👀”
    😂

    • @simplymonica6888
      @simplymonica6888 4 года назад +3

      c g. I’m laughing that you put the side eyes in quotes 😂 but that comment had me weak too 😂

    • @kailyn7895
      @kailyn7895 4 года назад +1

      “Oh here we go 😣”

  • @hbk6042
    @hbk6042 4 года назад +100

    I was bullied when I was 5-7 years old school did nothing so my dad told me to break the kids nose....l did and she didn’t touch me again. So actually sometimes it needs to be done

    • @zinhlemalinga5354
      @zinhlemalinga5354 4 года назад

      U really broke the kids nose???😂😂😂😂😂

    • @hbk6042
      @hbk6042 4 года назад +1

      Zinhle Malinga yes I used to wear dr martens to primary school so booted her in the face. Then my dad came to school and said, you didn’t sort it so we told her to and I was left alone 👌🏻😎 this girl bullied everyone........

  • @ThePrincesspickle88
    @ThePrincesspickle88 4 года назад +41

    Literally, every time Jeannie speaks...I listen.

    • @Sonicxis4ever
      @Sonicxis4ever 4 года назад +2

      Yes!!! There’s something about her that I love . She has so much wisdom and she’s very well spoken!

    • @ThePrincesspickle88
      @ThePrincesspickle88 4 года назад +2

      @@Sonicxis4ever I completely agree!! There's something very rare about her insight, her knowledge, her wisdom, her charisma..etc, I could go on about it 🤩

  • @satelahthomas7675
    @satelahthomas7675 4 года назад +127

    Mama Mai is me as a mom....you don't run and hide you stand up and defend yourself

    • @MultiSassy84
      @MultiSassy84 4 года назад +2

      Periodt. You see this first hand on "reality" TV. Those chicks know who they can and cannot throw drinks and turn up on. They don't try it with everyone. If a person knows you prepared to go to war, generally they will not f*ck with you. The may try you and that's the time to let them know. bet they won't try it again.

  • @abbyguitron6530
    @abbyguitron6530 4 года назад +332

    Well my daughter got hit by a boy today and she gave him a shove and a right hook (he always picked on her) i am the same i dont believe in violence but you got to let them know they have to stand up for themselves

    • @wynterariah258
      @wynterariah258 4 года назад +11

      Abby Guitron he probably likes her. A dude used to call me names and mess with me when i was younger just for me to find out he had a crush the whole time🤣

    • @Chloeeezyyy
      @Chloeeezyyy 4 года назад +57

      Wynter Ariah well I hope he likes her “hands”

    • @MrsHarder08
      @MrsHarder08 4 года назад +84

      We gotta stop teaching our kids, "if a person is picking on you and hitting you they probably like you." That is how we breed adults that stays in abusive relationships, "because, well, it must be love."

    • @wynterariah258
      @wynterariah258 4 года назад +9

      Dion Harder woah i never said it was okay. I was just giving one possibility as to why the boy might be picking on her for a no apparent reason. Once again, never said it was okay. Which it isn’t.

    • @MrsHarder08
      @MrsHarder08 4 года назад +37

      I didn't say you said it was okay but many people think this way. A person calling you names or hitting and shoving you does not equate to having a crush. That is abusive behavior. I used to think the same way as a child. You don't hit to show affection.

  • @mariamjah6051
    @mariamjah6051 4 года назад +26

    Adrienne looks like a disney princess.periodttttt. She is so gorgeous

  • @Lola_Monroe
    @Lola_Monroe 4 года назад +32

    "I could actually brawl."
    Yessssssss TamTam. You betta let 'em know!!!
    😂😂😂😂

    • @yeseniaodeh6768
      @yeseniaodeh6768 4 года назад +1

      Lola N lmfaoo that was so funny I love her

  • @lovegod7383
    @lovegod7383 4 года назад +203

    It was funny when Tamara said when her and tia used to live together and they used to hear noise she be the first one that grabbed a knife talking about come on Tia
    Lol

    • @LarryOfilms
      @LarryOfilms 4 года назад +13

      Love God it’s funny cuz she acts like a Disney princess that it’s hard to imagine her being so assertive and let alone grab a weapon, would’ve thought Tia would be the one and Tamera going “omg what are we going to Tia?”

    • @lovegod7383
      @lovegod7383 4 года назад +3

      @@LarryOfilms to me both the twins seem Hood to me like Tia was finna fight Keke Palmer about her husband before and and Tamera was right there
      Meaning they'll fight your ass
      Lol

    • @fallenroses13
      @fallenroses13 4 года назад +9

      Haha I love tam she's a lot like myself

    • @haleemah2434
      @haleemah2434 4 года назад +6

      🤣🤣🤣💞😂🤦🏾‍♀️😂💞😂😂😂
      Can the real Tamera plz stand up🥰🥰
      I adore Tamera.... she was hilariously amusing with her brawl presentation
      But, she will cut you deep🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @naturallyray3646
      @naturallyray3646 4 года назад +3

      Omg I died lmao

  • @Dayamyg
    @Dayamyg 4 года назад +104

    My mom used to say IF SOMEONE HITS YOU HIT IT BACK OR I'LL BEAT UP WHEN YOU GET HOME lol... I'm totally against violence but teach your kids to defend themselves! If someone's lookin for a fight defiantly will find!

    • @AvgJane19
      @AvgJane19 4 года назад +1

      Wait, your mom said if you don't hit them... she'll hit you?

    • @roxana4136
      @roxana4136 4 года назад +6

      @@AvgJane19 not trynna be funny but thats a black household. Just like "I'll smack tf outta you if you dont do these dishes"

    • @randomlivestbh1340
      @randomlivestbh1340 4 года назад +4

      Javier Ruiz lol😂😂 ok.. you’ll survive

    • @shaythareal2382
      @shaythareal2382 4 года назад

      Right😂😂😂 my Jamaican mom says that

    • @MultiSassy84
      @MultiSassy84 4 года назад

      I'm against violence too... as in I'm not out here putting hands on anyone....But I will tell anyone if someone puts they hands on you, then it's go time.

  • @kaykayw347
    @kaykayw347 4 года назад +244

    “CMON TIA” lol 😂

  • @enjinks
    @enjinks 4 года назад +40

    You're a real one if you know who said "Mama Mai was the promoter ?" 😂

  • @shayslay3416
    @shayslay3416 4 года назад +56

    My mom told me exactly what tamera said. I'd get in trouble for starting a fight but not for finishing one. I was that kid walking away from arguments and being the better person until someone put their hands on me. Once that happened, no one made it passed 2 hits.

    • @bohlalenchabeleng1370
      @bohlalenchabeleng1370 3 года назад +1

      Same thing always happened to me in primary school. You put your hands on me, you will NEVER repeat it again.

  • @Camii0496
    @Camii0496 4 года назад +48

    I actually agree with Amanda on this one!
    And that cat comment, as a cat mama, I can relate 🤣🤣🤣

    • @simplymonica6888
      @simplymonica6888 4 года назад +1

      Cam H. Same 😂

    • @QueenChastity
      @QueenChastity 4 года назад +5

      Lmao I be like this to My cat “don’t let him do that to you!” 😆

  • @1000ricorocks
    @1000ricorocks 4 года назад +48

    Adrienne's look tho!

  • @Kiyah4uanme
    @Kiyah4uanme 4 года назад +57

    I swear Tamera is soooooo funnnnnyyy 😂😂😂 and Loni covering her face just made it 10x hilarious 😂😭

  • @karrissawebbe3488
    @karrissawebbe3488 4 года назад +68

    I was once told if I came home saying anyone beat me up, I would get a home beating. Best blv I learnt to defend myself😂
    I'm from the Caribbean btw 🤣

    • @imanipatrice9492
      @imanipatrice9492 4 года назад +2

      SAME!😭

    • @rickiwalker3790
      @rickiwalker3790 4 года назад +7

      Kay W girl that’s me. My moms Jamaican and I remember her saying ‘don’t start anything, but knock them out after.’

  • @Sam-ss6by
    @Sam-ss6by 4 года назад +12

    When she said “come on Tam, Knuck if you buck” I DIED ☠️😭😭☠️

  • @favouradebayo7597
    @favouradebayo7597 4 года назад +27

    She said “I had that knife in my hand” yoo I was dead

  • @uploadedbyrobyn
    @uploadedbyrobyn 4 года назад +16

    “Believe it or not you guys, I could actually... brawl.” I love this show 😂

  • @rebeccamolina3822
    @rebeccamolina3822 4 года назад +14

    I went to school with my five brothers and my mom used to always say if someone messes with one of you guys then they mess with all of you guys. It’s safe to say everyone left us alone. I agree with don’t ever throw the first punch but definitely finish that fight!

  • @RemindMeToRead
    @RemindMeToRead 4 года назад +8

    "C'MON, TIA!" LMAOOOOOOO I believe Tamera. She definitely can fight. I just know she's never fought anyone though. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @nayana5511
    @nayana5511 4 года назад +23

    at my school. if someone hits you, both people get suspended even if you didn’t do anything

  • @blesseddiscovered6196
    @blesseddiscovered6196 4 года назад +6

    The depression am going through, these ladies have no idea how I laugh just watching them.. They make me feel better always. Thank you the real

  • @evanperilstein5308
    @evanperilstein5308 4 года назад +355

    Amanda is so wrong about teasing and harassment being helpful. There’s nothing helpful about making someone question their self worth. It can lead to a lifetime of insecurities and low self-esteem.

    • @nikkib5753
      @nikkib5753 4 года назад +36

      Thank you for saying that. She may feel that way because she is a celebrity. Her life is fine. Us regular people can be affected by that in far worse ways.

    • @justtogetpast
      @justtogetpast 4 года назад +105

      It’s subjective. I don’t think she was saying being bullied is beneficial so much as she was saying that it toughened her up, which was beneficial. She didn’t crumble under her harassment, she came out the other side fortified. That’s why she made the immune system comparison. Nobody thinks getting sick is fun or positive but if it doesn’t kill you, it literally makes you stronger. Your body knows how to handle that virus the next time it comes around and it doesn’t hit you as hard. There’s experience gained.

    • @Styl3Associt3
      @Styl3Associt3 4 года назад +32

      I get what you are saying but she holds a valid point. I grew up having to defend myself. The schools I went to any could be getting "blazed on" (making fun of) at any day of the week. When it was your turn you learned how to stand up for yourself.

    • @justtogetpast
      @justtogetpast 4 года назад +23

      FEARLESSly MIACAMICHELLE yes, learning to stand up for yourself is such a vital lesson and there’s no other way to learn it than to actually be put in positions to have to do it. You can talk to your kid all day but it’s theory until they put it into practice. And it’s best learned young. I’ve met people where they were somehow sheltered to the utmost capacity as a child and then when they left the nest the experience of being hated on was jarring to them. It’s unavoidable, you WILL experience it eventually. No one in the history of the world went their entire lives without confrontation or adversity. So it’s to their benefit that they learn how to handle it.

    • @asteven8
      @asteven8 4 года назад +14

      i took it to mean that today’s children are taught to go get help but not really what to do when confronted by a bully or being harassed and there is no teacher or parent around to help you. are we teaching kids to stand up for themselves when, sometimes, all they got is themselves in that moment?
      may not be exactly what she said but what i took away from it.

  • @notsobasicbecki658
    @notsobasicbecki658 4 года назад +6

    What Tamara says she says to her kids is the EXACT thing that I say to mine. They better never start anything physically but if they need to take up for themselves if they are hit first, they can. And I agree that we coddle our kids too much lately. There should be a healthy medium.

  • @madenaknight214
    @madenaknight214 4 года назад +11

    "Your mother was the promoter?"🤣🤣🤣🤣 3:14... Who remembers that line?
    - -
    Ade started to say four 4:34 🤣🤣🤣

  • @nicoleavery7238
    @nicoleavery7238 4 года назад +8

    Kids need to learn to defend themselves when they absolutely need to stop sheltering them.

  • @Gustavo-vk5nd
    @Gustavo-vk5nd 4 года назад +12

    I played that "C'mon Tia"part like 5 times😂😂

  • @sexindstylah8265
    @sexindstylah8265 4 года назад +5

    She said “ you can get in trouble for starting a fight but you can’t for finishing one” its always the people who finished the fight are seen as the bad ones

  • @JK-zu3lp
    @JK-zu3lp 4 года назад +2

    I love how you ladies share such constructive opinions on topics and also a lot of real humor! ❤️💯 Thanks for the laughs! 😆

  • @Dilenga23
    @Dilenga23 4 года назад +14

    Mama Mia is wild 😂💀

  • @chillbro6142
    @chillbro6142 4 года назад +16

    "You will get in trouble for starting a fight. You will never get in trouble for finishing one." Honestly, I don't know if that second sentence is true. It seems like you can still get in trouble in both situations

    • @ByteMwen
      @ByteMwen 4 года назад +5

      She meant get in trouble with his parents.

    • @chillbro6142
      @chillbro6142 4 года назад

      @@ByteMwen Ah ok. Thanks for the reply

  • @naomiblack21
    @naomiblack21 4 года назад +7

    I died when Adrienne said" i will climb someone for you Loni".

  • @ELIZA-wh6kw
    @ELIZA-wh6kw 4 года назад +3

    Tamera is hilarious! She said “I had a knife and was like c’mon Tia.” 😂😂😂😂

  • @tinyvialobos9483
    @tinyvialobos9483 4 года назад +7

    Did Tam say "wit a knife in my hand" 😂

  • @TheFeminineExperiencePodcast
    @TheFeminineExperiencePodcast 4 года назад +3

    My mom always told me “You better never start a fight, but you damn well better finish it.”

  • @yanacshell
    @yanacshell 4 года назад +9

    L.O.L!!!...I love Tamera.She is so cute and hilarious with her stories. The other ladies are like *side eye*😑 ..😂😂

  • @Rose-gv9ff
    @Rose-gv9ff 4 года назад +1

    Tamara is too funny!! She’s so down to earth, but I can see that feisty side to her. Lol

  • @Samantha-wo5pr
    @Samantha-wo5pr 4 года назад

    Adrienne has been looking so good lately! Makeup and outfits on point

  • @TheMusicalFeeling
    @TheMusicalFeeling 4 года назад +85

    Jeanie mom a G dangg lol

    • @dnicole4236
      @dnicole4236 4 года назад +13

      Javier Ruiz come on now

    • @ida5067
      @ida5067 4 года назад +10

      @@ShayMarie.00 lmfaooo right. out of pocket with that comment

    • @MySweetAriane
      @MySweetAriane 4 года назад +1

      @Javier Ruiz she was more in denial. You really need to stop judging people. She couldn't believe it because it was someone apart of their family. And now she is admitting that it happened

  • @yeahhhyae7878
    @yeahhhyae7878 4 года назад +5

    When she said believe it or not I can actually brawl 🤣🤣

  • @Kiddofficial1
    @Kiddofficial1 4 года назад +1

    2:57 “ Wait, why you hide..What happeninnng? “!😂😂😂 Jeanie’s Mama Mai impressions yo 😂😂

  • @brooklynforever1990
    @brooklynforever1990 4 года назад +5

    "Don't start none won't be none!" 💅🏼 mommy will always have your back!

  • @victoriak1866
    @victoriak1866 4 года назад +28

    I just love Tamera😭

  • @jasminromero9121
    @jasminromero9121 4 года назад +3

    Tamera's "come on, Tia!" at the end was soo cute 😂 I love her lmao

  • @nakiebear9768
    @nakiebear9768 4 года назад +1

    I'm loving this Amanda ❤️❤️❤️❤️ loni "I could have been the substitute teacher" 😂😂😂😂

  • @mercedesharrison35
    @mercedesharrison35 4 года назад

    Yessss!! Tamera said it just like i tell my nieces and nephews & will tell my children you are to first tell the teacher and if nothing is done and that kid hits you again let em have it and teachers need to take it more seriously when the children come to them.

  • @DaughteroftheKING_7
    @DaughteroftheKING_7 4 года назад +20

    Jeannie LOVE your hairdo!!!!!! You look like a princess.👸❣

  • @ladeet1252
    @ladeet1252 4 года назад +60

    Some people, other parents I've spoken to, dont agree with it because some kids will hit their parents back when they are hit.
    We teach our kids to always hit back. They have every right to defend themselves.

    • @lovegod7383
      @lovegod7383 4 года назад +7

      If another kid hits a kid that kid is supposed to hit that kid back .
      Hopefully your kid has been raised to know better not to hit a adult back .

    • @sumeya1923
      @sumeya1923 4 года назад +4

      Marina Guajardo 😂

    • @fack1002
      @fack1002 4 года назад +3

      🤨😫 this is why lessons are important. When I was a child I will hit back one of my lil age mates but I knew better not to hit an adult...😫 but I did have a mouth on me. I would tell on an adult so quick.

    • @ladeet1252
      @ladeet1252 4 года назад

      @@lovegod7383
      Don't worry about my kids, worry about your own (if you have any).

    • @ladeet1252
      @ladeet1252 4 года назад

      @Marina Guajardo
      This true, some what. Some of the parents I've spoken too were black. It's as if some parents do not teach their children the difference from being attacked and being disciplined. Children who know the difference do not raise their hands to their parents. Children who do not know the difference and are spoiled tend to raise their hands to their parents with no consequences.

  • @twillybbe
    @twillybbe 4 года назад +1

    The funniest episode haha. I love these ladies.

  • @danishawilliams7204
    @danishawilliams7204 4 года назад +2

    Tamara just killed me with that come on Tia that's a meme right there🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @altertheskyy1
    @altertheskyy1 4 года назад +3

    Lmfao Tamera at the end hahahaa

  • @officialjasmineclarke
    @officialjasmineclarke 4 года назад +3

    Y'all dont understand how much I love Tamera! 😩😂😂😂😂💗

  • @kc836
    @kc836 4 года назад +1

    Tam had to get in there.lol😂😂😂
    But for real, stand up for yourself. Don't let others push you around.

  • @lifewithdania1810
    @lifewithdania1810 4 года назад +2

    I lost at “CMON TIA” I swear it had me rolling

  • @katpheonix
    @katpheonix 4 года назад +7

    Listen it’s always the quiet one don’t underestimate tam tam

  • @clarissasmith6767
    @clarissasmith6767 4 года назад +5

    Omg I love Tam Tam, I believe she can brawl, them sweet one and quiet and shy ones be having the hands forrealz, I'm the same myself, Don't condone violence either but defend and stand up for yourself Periodttt

  • @tanyamizell7684
    @tanyamizell7684 4 года назад +1

    I swear I love Tamera. "Believe it or not you guys, I actually know how to brawl."

  • @willh8682
    @willh8682 4 года назад +1

    This entire segment has me WEAK💀💀

  • @QuincyLavarus
    @QuincyLavarus 4 года назад +3

    i’m gonna be a guest on The Real one day mark my words.. and i’m gonna be on the girl chat segment and it’s gonna be real juicy lmao i literally sit here wanting to butt into the conversation and say my peace 😂

  • @allyshaw
    @allyshaw 4 года назад +57

    They should turn the other cheek, BUT... they only have two cheeks. So........ ☕️ 🐸

    • @nikkib5753
      @nikkib5753 4 года назад +3

      Right? I be like, you said turn the other cheek, but you didn't say turn both of em. We fightin'. It's on if you put your hands on me.😂🤣

    • @QueenChastity
      @QueenChastity 4 года назад

      Lmfaoo

  • @gabyperez7845
    @gabyperez7845 4 года назад +1

    Dude, Amanda is such an incredible guest co-host! I would not be mad if she became a permanent addition to the show, her energy is awesome and she's so well-spoken and funny

  • @creativecumber1015
    @creativecumber1015 4 года назад +1

    I really liked this segment, such perspective

  • @IAFoodReviews
    @IAFoodReviews 4 года назад +8

    Yes those 2 cats better stick up for themselves lol

  • @glorymosbyfloyd3878
    @glorymosbyfloyd3878 4 года назад +12

    I really liked this conversation
    Tamera said it best
    "You'll get in trouble for starting a fight but you won't get in trouble for finishing one
    Right there, always stand up for yourself, then let the adults sort it out

    • @glorymosbyfloyd3878
      @glorymosbyfloyd3878 4 года назад +1

      @Mandi Arena If the child is going to the adults and the adults aren't handling it, then the child has the right to defend themselves

    • @victoriaabbey3525
      @victoriaabbey3525 4 года назад +1

      For a black kid especially that’s not always true. Racism is often on the bully’s side

    • @glorymosbyfloyd3878
      @glorymosbyfloyd3878 4 года назад

      @@victoriaabbey3525 An unfortunate truth Indeed

  • @MrUnattainable
    @MrUnattainable 4 года назад

    “C‘mon Tia!!” 😂😂😂😂😭😭

  • @Mynameis.AdrienneNicole
    @Mynameis.AdrienneNicole 4 года назад +2

    I loved what Amanda said. I kinda want my kids to grow up like me. It’s developed me into the person I am and made me better

  • @CalyMichigan
    @CalyMichigan 4 года назад +18

    If someone hits you, you hit them back. PERIOD.

    • @camille98tt
      @camille98tt 4 года назад

      Not in every case but go off sis

  • @alattadikimahbut5270
    @alattadikimahbut5270 4 года назад +4

    I really want Adrienne to have her family but lord Jesus this BODY she’s serving rn

  • @alexisannaaguirre4365
    @alexisannaaguirre4365 4 года назад

    Tamera is straight up preaching, but Jeanie’s mom left me in tears! This is your house, she in your territory! She don’t know where we keep the knives & chicken grease LMAO! My grandfather taught me that, you don’t *EVER* go to someone else’s house to pick a fight. That’s their house so naturally, they have the advantage.

  • @petrina990
    @petrina990 4 года назад

    I love Amanda on this show !! She keeps it REAL, educate on black awareness, and she puts things in a different perspective. Love her.

  • @klove8726
    @klove8726 4 года назад +5

    I'm always fighting with these bills

  • @NaudiaLittle
    @NaudiaLittle 4 года назад +3

    Encourage ur kids to stand up for themselves verbally first. Eventually they start standing up for themselves physically without u having to tell them. I taught private pre-K & at that age, they tell the teacher everything. When they tell me a classmate hit them I tell them “stand up for ur self & tell them not to hit u again”...they don’t hesitate to go over to the classmate & use their voice & of course I back them up. Eventually their voice turns into actions. They go from “don’t hit me” to actually defending themselves physically without me having to tell them to “hit them back”...I’ve even witnessed other students encouraging one another to stand up for themselves & they do it. It’s not the traditional way, but I encourage children’s independence to help better prepare them for the real world. Not just to go around hitting others, but to instead defend themselves. Coddling is crippling.

  • @tresarobinson9
    @tresarobinson9 4 года назад

    Loni looks SO GOOD in this clip! Makeup, hair, outfit, YES 😍

  • @acaciasmith
    @acaciasmith 4 года назад

    😂😂😂😂tamera and Loni got me cracking up

  • @AyyRalphy
    @AyyRalphy 4 года назад +8

    The girl on the thumbnail is gorgeous af

  • @user.7257
    @user.7257 4 года назад +4

    Idk why people fighting is so common in America, I've only ever heard of one fight from friends of a friend lol

  • @charlottemakala2106
    @charlottemakala2106 4 года назад

    Loni looks amazing!!! This is the best I' ve seen her look!

  • @erica-bm1ke
    @erica-bm1ke 4 года назад

    This brings me back to the episodes with tay tay and I miss her all over again. When Jeannie told her fight story the first time it was such a great story but ESPECIALLY with Tamar's ad-libs lmao and then the first time Tamera said "we brawling," Tamar fell out laughing... Good times.