@@@enlightenedmcgee We can only hope. Unfortunately their are people that absolutely don't recognize what they do, or say that is negative, and need a harsh reality hit. I agree time has passed now, hopefully she grew
I lived in an area populated with Julies and “Karen’s” and their families. In 2019 my son graduated from high school alongside active members of the KKK and a young man whose first and middle names are “Nathan Bedford Forrest”. (If you don’t recognize that name he’s the founder of the Klan.) My neurodiverse, lgbtq+ family fit right in. (Sarc) It was a nightmare.
Yes they do and they're actually much nicer then the other family. I am straight but I don't have any problem with lesbian actually they're very nice and respectful not like the other family
@Wolf4077 no one came out of a swamp, bring back your lil ego on earth and get some therapy, your parents did a shit job at raising you and your life is so boring that you spend your time showing how homophobic you are to the world! You know it doesn't make you cool kido. Grow up
Being anti-social, narcissistic, self-centred and stupid at the same time makes it really deadly combination. But honestlly, that whole family is screwed.Big respect for Pepper that she sis not punch her in her face.
I commend Julie on her realization that her behavior needed change. You can visually see the change as it is happening inside her. You can see that she is becoming aware of her ridiculous behavior and by the end of the episode had prompted her family to change their behavior. This episode brought me to tears!
I think she was missing peppa point when she had the party she was trying to show her not all Mexicans or people with disabilities are normal like everyone else it's not a bad thing julie totally missed the point
@@prettymartin7140 bs pepper was proving her point, her opinion mattered more than julies, and only way she could do that was with group mentality, at least julie had the balls to stand by what she believed in regardless of how uncomfortable that situation was. I dont like the woman but that was a nasty thing to do just to prove a point and only showed how weak pepper was, she couldnt convince her otherwise with words or kindness so she basically shame her into submission. Bloody disgusting!!
WelshWitch THATS not true. Julie went to San Diego. San Diego is not a small town and is very diverse. Going to the party of a lesbian woman in San Diego with the views that Julie has will obviously not be very fun for you
@@Yolandae662 my husband is from san diego im well aware of its diversity, ive also had great fun at parties held by lesbian women so im afraid i dont see the point your trying to make!! If you really watched this you would see that im correct in my assumption the way this was handled was awful, now it may have been a production thing to make it more 'watchable' but whatever the reason, this was done spitefully. sorry if you dont agree!!
I love how Julie talked so much crap, and made it clear how she didn't care who she offended. When Pepper called her on it, at the party, however, she was so upset and said Pepper was wrong. Pepper hit the nail on the head: "you can dish it, but you can't take it". Ugh, and then Julie's fake ass tears and meltdown when she got home. What a waste of a person! Disgusting! 😡
I wasn’t sold on her being completely a narcissist until I saw the fake breakdown at the end. Emotionally manipulating her family to get out of well deserved criticism.
"Id die before I'd eat leftovers" yes because you SOOOO upper class Julie 😂 Then the husband trying to rile things up with his remarks to the daughters about "ask her what her husband does" "ask her what her husbands name is" I REALLY wanted to smack that smirk off his face. Too bad Abasi couldn't have gotten Julie instead of the God warrior. Now THAT would have been fun 😂
She's still a low rent loser, ignorant and lame! She also has an arrogance that she hasn't/could not have ever come close to earning or deserving... Living in Central Florida, I know many Mexicans that work in orange Groves and Ferneries... they have pride, respect, they're clean the clothes are nice , they feed their families and take pride in their cars. They're always clean as well as your homes and clothes. I say this, really, because they don't like to take anything from the government. They work hard and long hours make a lot of money doing that work that they do and they'll spend it. Anyway just my observation ever many years having many of them work for me and everything else
Lets all clap for Judy. She changed people's lives during that week stay. Then in one conversation she got through to Julie and made full circle for that family. We are blessed to have people like her on this planet.
Pepper is a SAINT for being able to deal with her! When Julie said ‘there’s more people like me out there’ I would of replied ‘ya that’s the scary part’ what a horrible human being
this isn't about a gay family and a straight family... this is about a happy, loving, balanced family, and a family that is hateful to others and each other.
Exactly. Because that family has so many other problems. That daughters seem to hate each other. The father truly treats his daughters terribly all on the pretense of not being like his father.
I have no idea how Pepper dealt with Julie for an entire week. I would have had to ask her to leave and quit the show. I couldn’t deal with that in my house.
“What if I’m a monster? What if my family doesn’t want me to come home?” Glad she finally asks herself these questions! She’s so terrible she really needed that reality check.
Dear Judy, the love between you and Pep will always exist - regardless of physical time and space. She's always with you and you are both a shining inspiration to humanity. Love, gratitude, blessings and strength to you. One of the most valuable spices :)
So, I'm in NO WAY condoning Julie's beliefs, BUT, I do believe this episode was taped/aired back in the EARLY 2000's (hence the "partners" & not "wife" status). Back then, there WERE A LOT more people with Julie's views than what we have today... BUT BEFORE YOU BASH MY COMMENT, I am in NO WAY saying that makes it ok!! People like that make me sick, and the fact Julie & her husband are teaching their KIDS that's ok &/or funny is just gross.
There's plenty of racist, white, backwoods small town jackasses who were raised by toxic alcoholics out that way to this day. But yeah, don't judge the entire state.
I think the party left her suddenly having to think about how she was coming across on TV. The vindictive comments about the money and implication she was going to screw them over were how she'd have done it if not for thinking about how she would be viewed. The thoughtful spending and even her comment to her kids about change at the end were all, imo, her trying to save face and all bad acting in the same way as her shaking hysterics when she got home.
Pepper held herself together so well considering she had a hateful, homophobic, bigot of a woman stay in her home. This was a tough one to watch. I hope somewhere, in this woman’s horrible mind, she took something positive away from this experience. The world has enough vile people in it.
Rest in nothing but love and peace Pepper! I love how your family made even the tiniest impact on that family and that awful human Julie. I hope she turned a new leaf and isn’t such a waste space.
@@tinaehrob384She had a liver transplant, but a lung problem took her away from us all. I know, that she is in Heaven, because she was ALL about love, kindness, respect, and understanding. 😢
My heart breaks for Pepper's family as they listen to Julie's incessant bullshit. Playing the victim while being toxic is not a good thing especially when you are in another person's home. I am utterly flabbergasted by Julie and her sanctimonious attitude! God bless you Pepper.
I just saw on Facebook where Pepper passed away...how sad, but yet Julie is truly the most beautiful if not amazing woman through it all. RIP Pepper Lane
My incredible 9-year-old son has Down syndrome, but that's not what he is. With our Isaac, after a brief period of "fear of the unknown," we felt like we hit the baby lottery! He is perfect in every way and blesses everyone who is lucky enough to meet him and receive one of his famous hugs. My biggest fear is not having a child with a disability, it's having a child who would bully a child with a disability! My head pounded and tears pricked my eyes with each word Julie spewed next. Thanks for cleaning me out of tissues Julie. At least the world can now see what an insensitive, intolerable, rude and uncouth woman I've ever seen, and I'm a conservative Christian/Jesus Freak!!! The Lane's are a lovely, gracious family. I'll pray for you, Julie.
your child is perfect in the eyes of the Creator. we are created to be who we are just like our Creator intended. never let someone who is a spawn of evil ever let you shed a tear because they don't understand the beauty in your child. blessings, light and love from a stranger across the world.
Julie has no redeeming qualities. her bullying isn't tolerated by today's society. especially behavior like this from adults. I'm sure she's been ostracized, living with her miserable family.. your son sounds amazing! wishing you and your son the best!
Judy is such a wise, patient and kind woman. Such strength dealing with mean ignorance. She has made this people's life better in many ways. Thank You Judy for showing how to deal with bullies.
@@kathymyers7279 I'm gay or whatever, and I want people to not even look at me, I'm happy with my family, I could care less on anyone else's opinions on me as long as they're not effecting my life. So shove your gold star (:
@@kathymyers7279 Particularly I just want to exist without suffering prejudice, bullying, getting weird stares, not being able to donate blood on my country (Brazil), eventual death threats... But a gold star would be cool too!
I know this is old but I was saddened to hear of Pepper's passing. She seemed to be a nice, caring, empathetic human being. I hope the family are doing well. Reading about them it seems they were truly inlove💔😔
I would love for Julie and her husbands money to be half for them to get counselling for the years of therapy they desperately need and the. Other half to be given to charity
I wouldn't donate it to charity id use it to help people though. People donated MILLIONS to charities in Australia for the bush fires which destroyed lives and homes, and they kept it. There's news reports about it
how does she verbally attack this poor woman everyday, then go home and say "i was like a hostage it was awful" omg. people like here need to be on medication
I wish they showed more of what Judy said that made such a change in Julie - and I hope that Julie continued to grow away from that place of pain/hate.
What a horrible family(Chase)! I feel so bad for the youngest daughter!! The partner couple was so sweet & accepting, the kind of family you want to see.
Sara R The wife is a horrible sociopath ,a narcissistic ,closed minded woman and crazy. While the husband is no better he is a bully,extra-competitive,selfish and closed-minded as well. The oldest daughter is a copy of her parents. The youngest is the weakest and saddest. While in the lesbian family the whole family is open-minded and caring. The one staying at home is like a saint and the one who went to the swap moms house was good and very observant. The kids are adorable specially the daughter. The son is cute and smart
This is sooo hard to watch - not sure I'll make it to the end....never in my life have I seen such cold, callous, uneducated, blatant, lack of care or respect for others - such a bully!
notice how when julie is alone she is so strong on her views. as soon as she is out numbered by people who don’t agree with her she doesn’t want her views shared and called out. she knows she’s wrong.
Julie leaves her house, and none of her kids care or tell her bye. New mom gets hugs and the kids don't want her to go....But Julie thinks she is perfect.
I think she was just trying to make conversation with the kid, since some kids love to talk about the teeth they lost and the money they got from the tooth fairy and all. Hard to tell since editing cut off right after she asked
Elena Coda Nunziante unless a child is conversing with an adult about loosing teeth it shouldn’t be conversed about. It would be different if the question was “did the tooth fairy visit”
The way Julie acts like such a wounded child! Running into her daughters arms for them to comfort her! She should be comforting them! She’s a sick individual! This episode was really hard to watch! I hope Karma gets her good!
Everyones getting offended by julie's 'beliefs' but she just seems so unintelligent i cant take her seriously 😂😂 i feel like calling her karen but thatd be insulting to even karens
as a gay person i immediately stopped getting offended as soon as she asked why ‘don’t homeless people just get a job’....why get offended over someone whose so stupid.
Ikr, I had suspicion she was just an idiot. But her little breakdown at the end on the car ride when she believed her family would no long love her proved it for me. She's just an ignorant moron masquerading as "tough"
I did some facebook stalking and found that Pepper has recently passed away. They looked to be very happily in love until the very end. I would love for them to be my moms too!
At the end when Julie breaks down and wonders if she's a monster and if her family will want her back- that's a good moment for self-reflection. It's never too late to see we're on the wrong path and change our view, opinions, behaviors. I pray that her self-reflection led to genuine positive change for her and her family.
Julie being so apologetic to her family when she got home is subconsciously her way of saying sorry for the person she was to pepper. And meeting Judy and realizing she was also wonderful and her family being around a wonderful person made her realize how terrible she is
That was a ploy and a bug act for the Narcissist to garner supply from her helpless captive audience establishing herself as the victim in this situation.
Julie is the embodiment of the phrase "Hurt people, hurt people". Watching her breakdown after some alone-time when travelling home was very difficult to watch. I pray that she and her family are in a much better place mentally/relationally now xx
I have no words. This woman is VILE. Her heart is cold, she's soulless and ignorant to the point she has created a different reality for herself. She needs psychiatric help. I feel sorry for her, it must suck to have literally no love about anyone in your soul.
Julie’s a textbook narcissist. The way she desperately tried to rewrite what happened after being confronted over her ignorant views, putting all the blame on Pepper for “bringing up what she said” when she broached the topic of their disagreements completely unprompted. Claimed Pepper wasn’t listening whenever she pointed out that was what she was doing, and then when she did get the opportunity to speak, just repeated herself over and over until Pepper got exhausted. Picking fights and acting bewildered when anyone bites back. Must be a nightmare for her daughters.
Pepper is an angel. The strength she has is out of this world. 💕 I remember the first time I saw this. The relationship she has with her partner is what we all long for.
It was so hard watching Julie try to gaslight Pepper and pretend that SHE was the victim. This is a classic abuser tactic. I am so happy that Pepper was strong and secure enough to see this head game for what it was and protect herself. BUT, I am sorry that she was in a position where she had to do that in the first place.
The name calling from the dad really bothers me! I can't imagine ever talking to my child that way!!!I really feel for the daughters!! Where is the love and caring parent..... they don't even have one, never mind two!!! My heart breaks for them! It was really nice to see the change he made! Good for him!!
Can't believe her family missed he,.Julie is so selfish,rude, full of hate, how can her daughters miss that a mean mom like that..hard to believe anyone would want a family with something like that..
If I was a guest at the dinner party when Julie asked the guest if there were any more questions I would have asked her if I could help her pack and call a cab.
As of 2021.... Pepper passed away around 2019/2020, I'm not sure how. She and Judy were still together until the end. It was a very sad situation and everyone could tell they were very close. As for the bigot, Julie Chase is trying to get a photography business together, but is always reminded of how she behaved on the show.
I know when Julie first came back everyone was really angry with how she behaved and that people around here still remember it and talk about her, so I'm honestly not surprised if she is still having trouble. X.x My ex worked at a grocery store she went to at the time and even just when she'd go to get groceries people would recognize and avoid her when this first happened. 😔 Sad to hear about Pepper, her and her family seemed so nice. I hope the rest of her family is doing okay ❤
I have been looking for this episode for quite some time. The Hate Family was just so vile to one another and some of the things that the Hate woman said were just so awful. I don't know if they were told to say certain things by the producers, but it was hard to watch. Furthermore, the couple was so lovely and nice and even adopted a child. It upsets me to know that they face hostility but look at them! They are beautiful, they are loving, they provide a safe home to children. So many children grow up in awful homes and I hate it when innocent people are pikced on - those two Mothers are wonderful.
@@tylerlavoie9132 Just watch it, you can always fast forward some parts. As it is a reality show, I do not know how much was "contrived." But the things that came out of Julie's mouth were so hard to hear and nowadays the concept of a lesbian couple is not even that unusual.
Julie's fears and crying at the end could have been justified if she actually realized that she was "a monster" but it was really clear that she was just doing it to justify her own actions and fish for validation. What a pitiful woman.
When Julie told her girls "We're not going to do that anymore" (when they started the negativity & bickering), I teared up.... Some good really came out of the exchanged family week. I hope she kept it up.
I think Julie has never been in a situation that challenged her beliefs and when exposed to this challenge, she believed she was in the right. But when she had that meeting to explain how she was not treated very nicely because she had very hateful views and they were brought up, I think it hit her that she might actually be wrong. So the trip home, she was doubting herself and realizing that maybe she was the monster in all this. I hope she wasn't tracked down and hated on for her backwards views after being on tv where they were exposed and instead just became more accepting over time.
Yeah she wasn't even really challenged hard or pushed. She really just volunteered her beliefs and pushed pepper to discuss it and then didn't like how it felt when not a single person was with her. The awkwardness and tension must have been unbearable. Their whole family (chase family) has a miserable existence.
I love that no one ever called her a monster.. but she knew she was hence why she called herself that over and over. She recognizes her views are negative, but doesn’t desire to educate herself. I really wish there was an update on these families.
Tinsel! Thank you so much for uploading these in full and so nicely...they are truly a joy to watch...again as I saw them waaaaay back when the commercials in particular are such a throw back!:) Thank you and stay safe and stay kind everyone!:)
Both of the women (of the lesbian couple) were very kind in their feedback to the husband and wife who they were each spending the week with. They were both such good models to me, because I may have been more confrontational and judgemental, which would have been me acting just like the straight couple's family dynamics. Instead, the women gave their feedback in a way that DEMONSTRATED kindness, empathy, compassion, acceptance, etc., which of course, is much more effective.
Julie is just a thoroughly unpleasant person. In the name of honesty she tells everybody exactly what she sees and does not care that she hurts them because "she told the truth"
...yet she reflects what's inside of her...when we judge another we are really reflecting ourselves...she carries SO much shame and hate for herself...something really bad happened to her...
@@Joesfosterdogs that's what flabbergasted me, this is likely her "toned down" version, yet is the most hateful and unkind person I've ever seen. Crazy to think about :(
As a lesbian i thank you for supporting the rainbow family. Its disgusting the way the woman was. Anti everything but the bible. Lesbians can like religion too and god wouldnt like such disgusting comments im sure of that. What about not judging others? Clearly this lady missed that line in the bible. Glad your nit judgemental. Were all tthe same no matter what race . religion or colour or where your from or where your family is from . treat people as you like to be treated.
@@memorialled_zeppelin-warew1346 so true. I taught my kids never to judge they are now 19 and 32( boy and girl) I work for a dentist and he is gay and Hispanic. Our office is probably 50% gay. I never had any problems with that. He’s the BEST employer I ever had. I love him and respect him so much and his partner! Love is love.
I’m proud of Julie for her allowing her insecurities to show at the last minute and recognizing the need for a change. That had to be the hardest thing she ever did and she did it on tv
Honestly the most satisfying part was julies fear of someone showing her family real respect and that shed be pushed out to the curb like she truely deserved. I hope shes changed some of her views since this show.
I hope Julie was able to watch herself, and see how miserable, difficult, and mean she really is
charm jorman I think she seen that well before the episode aired. I bet her lifestyle is a lot different now.
@@@enlightenedmcgee We can only hope. Unfortunately their are people that absolutely don't recognize what they do, or say that is negative, and need a harsh reality hit. I agree time has passed now, hopefully she grew
Something that corse sometimes sees no faults in its own doings even if its at the expense of others feelings
@@cosmicearthian4260 🙌🏾
last person who said that to me got curb stomped
It's scary that people like Julie actually exist.
A certain political candidate made it his mission to collect all the Julies and get their votes.
I lived in an area populated with Julies and “Karen’s” and their families.
In 2019 my son graduated from high school alongside active members of the KKK and a young man whose first and middle names are “Nathan Bedford Forrest”. (If you don’t recognize that name he’s the founder of the Klan.)
My neurodiverse, lgbtq+ family fit right in. (Sarc)
It was a nightmare.
@@gurutruecrimeguru1405 She probably has a zillion tin foil red caps.....
@@cstars1255 Relatable. You in AL by chance lol? it's terrible here
@@cstars1255 And Forrest Gump
Pepper and Judy have beautiful souls. Amazing people. We need more people like them in the world, seriously.
Wow Julie makes The God Warrior look nice.......
Kaysee Coward but with bad taste in my month
Kaysee Coward yap
god warrior is an absolute pussycat compared to katie Hopkins and julie especially julie
George Meller the god warrior actually wasn’t that bad the second time around
Omg lmao
I wish I could meet Julie to reassure her that she definitely is a monster
Same. She's vile
I’m saying cause I have no patience for that...: I would not be responsible for how I reacted...... I got anger issues and yo amo mi mexicanos
Yes! She's a prejudice idiot.
Something tells me she’d laugh and say it’s not her fault. She’s got more than a few screws lose! Unbelievable.
Agreed
You know Pepper is an incredible person and strong minded because she was able to stay so calm and had an abundance of patience!!!
The lesbian couple have a lovely family
Yes they do and they're actually much nicer then the other family. I am straight but I don't have any problem with lesbian actually they're very nice and respectful not like the other family
@Wolf4077 tf you're gross
@Wolf4077 no one came out of a swamp, bring back your lil ego on earth and get some therapy, your parents did a shit job at raising you and your life is so boring that you spend your time showing how homophobic you are to the world! You know it doesn't make you cool kido. Grow up
@Wolf4077 SHUT THE FUCK UP
Wolf4077 I bet you’re like 11
Being anti-social, narcissistic, self-centred and stupid at the same time makes it really deadly combination. But honestlly, that whole family is screwed.Big respect for Pepper that she sis not punch her in her face.
Ikr. And that poor girl at 50 min in was crying in pain. 😭😭😭
Bang on !!!! Miserable family ...
I commend Julie on her realization that her behavior needed change. You can visually see the change as it is happening inside her. You can see that she is becoming aware of her ridiculous behavior and by the end of the episode had prompted her family to change their behavior. This episode brought me to tears!
Jana Lejčková exactly
I felt so badly for the kids. I could not imagine growing up in that sort of environment. That woman was mean to her whole family.
Pepper was incredibly progressive and kind, I cannot imagine living in a better family!!! I want to give her and her family a huge hug
RIP Pepper ❤️
@@morgan3368what? She passed away 😢oh man that sucks
When did pepper die
What?
@@morgan3368
Julie shows a lot of teeth for someone who never smiles
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣
I just wrote that down in my note book of awesome quotes :)
@@BattleAngel-jj9hd 😂😂😂💕
@@BattleAngel-jj9hd Im usually good for one. 😉
Pepper should be nominated for sainthood after dealing with Julie.
I think she was missing peppa point when she had the party she was trying to show her not all Mexicans or people with disabilities are normal like everyone else it's not a bad thing julie totally missed the point
I shouldn't say this, however that is a very funny comment, and I mean that in the best.
@@prettymartin7140 bs pepper was proving her point, her opinion mattered more than julies, and only way she could do that was with group mentality, at least julie had the balls to stand by what she believed in regardless of how uncomfortable that situation was. I dont like the woman but that was a nasty thing to do just to prove a point and only showed how weak pepper was, she couldnt convince her otherwise with words or kindness so she basically shame her into submission. Bloody disgusting!!
WelshWitch THATS not true. Julie went to San Diego. San Diego is not a small town and is very diverse. Going to the party of a lesbian woman in San Diego with the views that Julie has will obviously not be very fun for you
@@Yolandae662 my husband is from san diego im well aware of its diversity, ive also had great fun at parties held by lesbian women so im afraid i dont see the point your trying to make!! If you really watched this you would see that im correct in my assumption the way this was handled was awful, now it may have been a production thing to make it more 'watchable' but whatever the reason, this was done spitefully. sorry if you dont agree!!
Judy's son crying & saying "wait mom you don't have to leave for 1 more minute" vs Julie's 2 girls not caring if she leave says it all.
By the way Julie acts can u blame her kids for NOT caring?🤔
@@amynichols6602 That's my point, the kids say it all
If I had to share that house I'd be happy to see her with a packed suitcase too
Announces shes straight, like someone would be attracted to her - she can't tell a dinner party from a sexparty?!
and then cries when people don't like her
I'm pretty sure nobody would be attracted to her once she opened her mouth! She's ugly from the inside out.
She screams I NEED LAID PROPERLY FOR ONCE IN MY LIFE
When you’re that physically unattractive you’re personality shouldn’t match
Wolf4077 idiots attract idiots
I love how Julie talked so much crap, and made it clear how she didn't care who she offended. When Pepper called her on it, at the party, however, she was so upset and said Pepper was wrong. Pepper hit the nail on the head: "you can dish it, but you can't take it". Ugh, and then Julie's fake ass tears and meltdown when she got home. What a waste of a person! Disgusting! 😡
Bitch= Julie
I wasn’t sold on her being completely a narcissist until I saw the fake breakdown at the end. Emotionally manipulating her family to get out of well deserved criticism.
Usually people like that can't usually take it. They are very insecure. They raise insecure human beings with the same mean and hateful spirit.
@@dazanii agree
Truly, an absolute waste of a human and that waste created 2 more of herself. Such a sad and pathetic life they have.
Rest In Peace pepper glad she was able to see Corey graduate UCLA before passing. Such a loving family.
I just heard that she passed away. She sure was an incredible human being… the family will be feeling her loss every second of every day. 💜
Oh no that's so sad. Rest in peace pepper
Im sorry beautiful person xxx
Huh?????
How & When?????
💔😢💔😢💔😢💔😢
Just read about Pepper passing
What a wonderful kind woman
Rest in peace darling
You raised a beautiful family 💔 💫
Lord I pray to have Pepper's strength one day. I would NOT have been able to hold my tongue. Nope.
I know right! Lord bless her!! I would only be able to handle so much b4 I went off
@@cielomcmeekin7296 I would've sabotaged her, sorry not sorry.
It’s a weakness, not a strength. She should’ve put her in her place. There’s no reason to let someone be that disgusting and not say anything.
@@MH-yj4qq I couldn't help it I would have beat her ass right is right an saying she would abort a child that has disabilities she's pathetic
Amanda Phillips Totally agree with you, to murder an innocent child is awful and evil, disabled or not !
Julie is such a rude person so cold towards her kids. The way she treated the other family member was disgusting.
I agree! She can dish it out putting down so many, yet can't handle someone speaking the truth about her!
@@lovinlife6941 so true she is very insecure. She really thought her way of thinking was justified.
I wonder what happen to them! The kids dont seem to corroborate within Julie’s ideas. So i hope!
@@nmmarquesm I'm guessing those girls ran for the hills.
@@lovinlife6941 Yep..when julie got called out by pepper all of the sudden it was too hot in the kitchen!!
I can’t express how it hurt me to hear him ask over and over about her “husband”. People were and ARE still like this. Just so sad
Unintelligent close-minded people are bullies
"Id die before I'd eat leftovers" yes because you SOOOO upper class Julie 😂
Then the husband trying to rile things up with his remarks to the daughters about "ask her what her husband does" "ask her what her husbands name is" I REALLY wanted to smack that smirk off his face.
Too bad Abasi couldn't have gotten Julie instead of the God warrior. Now THAT would have been fun 😂
Dee Rockman 😂 I’m loving these episodes.... what will I do when I get back to work🥺😂
She's still a low rent loser, ignorant and lame! She also has an arrogance that she hasn't/could not have ever come close to earning or deserving...
Living in Central Florida, I know many Mexicans that work in orange Groves and Ferneries... they have pride, respect, they're clean the clothes are nice , they feed their families and take pride in their cars. They're always clean as well as your homes and clothes.
I say this, really, because they don't like to take anything from the government. They work hard and long hours make a lot of money doing that work that they do and they'll spend it. Anyway just my observation ever many years having many of them work for me and everything else
Dee Rockman now that would’ve been a great episode!
@Twinkle Star ~ I knowwwww. It's the only thing that made Rona '20 quarantine bearable!!
I have laughed more at this programme than any comedy I can think of,the things Julie says and peppers reaction classic
Lets all clap for Judy. She changed people's lives during that week stay. Then in one conversation she got through to Julie and made full circle for that family. We are blessed to have people like her on this planet.
She’s amazing!
Yup….she kicked that narcissist demon out….love won👀🕊
Pepper is a SAINT for being able to deal with her! When Julie said ‘there’s more people like me out there’ I would of replied ‘ya that’s the scary part’ what a horrible human being
this isn't about a gay family and a straight family... this is about a happy, loving, balanced family, and a family that is hateful to others and each other.
True
Thank you. This is one way the media likes to keep us divided.
Exactly. Because that family has so many other problems. That daughters seem to hate each other. The father truly treats his daughters terribly all on the pretense of not being like his father.
Not even a hatefull family. Just a hatefull karen mom😂
“There’s a frustrated little dude who can’t keep up with men so he picks on little girls” 😂😂😂😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Exactly!
judy is the sweetest and most sane ive seen on these type of shows what in icon
I have no idea how Pepper dealt with Julie for an entire week. I would have had to ask her to leave and quit the show. I couldn’t deal with that in my house.
the money was the motivation
50k would not be enough to make me tolerate Julie's stupidity.
Yes I would've did the same thing after I slapped the crap out of her😠
I certainly might be wrong but does anyone else think that Julies husband looks like he has some Mexican blood???
Yup, you have a point!
ah don't we all lol 2 fold
Well he's not all snow white that's for sure
Thought so
I bet you that in her mind he’s just off white or white adjacent
“What if I’m a monster? What if my family doesn’t want me to come home?” Glad she finally asks herself these questions! She’s so terrible she really needed that reality check.
Wouldn't be shocked if one of Julie's daughter became a lesbian. How shook would Julie be? 😊👭👏👏
Kinda like what happened to Dick Cheney......
@@noraberger6259 🤣🤣
I wouldn’t be shocked if julies a lesbian mrs. hElLo iM sTrAIgHt like whatcha trying to prove
Or husband is a closet gay or like some straight guys say “ I’m just a man who has sex with men”
Ppl don’t « become » a lesbian.. they either are or aren’t..
I really hope the Chase parents aren’t surprised when their kids never talk to them again after they move out
Dear Judy, the love between you and Pep will always exist - regardless of physical time and space. She's always with you and you are both a shining inspiration to humanity. Love, gratitude, blessings and strength to you. One of the most valuable spices :)
I just wanted to say Oregon people are not like Julie she is in her own world 🤦🏽♀️❤️🌈
Ty
So, I'm in NO WAY condoning Julie's beliefs, BUT, I do believe this episode was taped/aired back in the EARLY 2000's (hence the "partners" & not "wife" status).
Back then, there WERE A LOT more people with Julie's views than what we have today...
BUT BEFORE YOU BASH MY COMMENT, I am in NO WAY saying that makes it ok!! People like that make me sick, and the fact Julie & her husband are teaching their KIDS that's ok &/or funny is just gross.
from Oregon here. I have 2 married gay neighbors, love love them. I love gay people. There.
Fuckin riiiiiight 😳😭
There's plenty of racist, white, backwoods small town jackasses who were raised by toxic alcoholics out that way to this day. But yeah, don't judge the entire state.
Hats off to Pepper for not reaching across that table and slapping the taste out of Julie's mouth.
That would have made my life
I have never heard that saying... now it's a favourite!
How anyone could go on national TV and present themselves in this way is just amazing to me. I hope this show haunts her the rest of her life
Julie literally hyped herself up in the way home to act traumatized! That's what a crazy villain would do
Haha 😂🤣🤣😂
WHAT A BAD ACTING JOB!!!!
I think the party left her suddenly having to think about how she was coming across on TV. The vindictive comments about the money and implication she was going to screw them over were how she'd have done it if not for thinking about how she would be viewed. The thoughtful spending and even her comment to her kids about change at the end were all, imo, her trying to save face and all bad acting in the same way as her shaking hysterics when she got home.
Sick individual
That’s what a narcissist would do
Pepper held herself together so well considering she had a hateful, homophobic, bigot of a woman stay in her home.
This was a tough one to watch.
I hope somewhere, in this woman’s horrible mind, she took something positive away from this experience.
The world has enough vile people in it.
My heart breaks for pepper….. i swear if i see that woman out in public its on sight!!!!!
@@jamieloud5741 So sad I read that she passed
Absolutely incredible how Peppers family is loving , kind and supportive of each other but Julie thinks that there’s something wrong with them !
How can anybody be that angry all the time??
Having half a brain will do that .
Lots of people, and it starts with intolerance and self hate.
I’m angry all the time myself but I actually try to be nice. And I’ve never seen THIS bullshit in my life.
@Mima...same
It builds your immune system.
This episode needs more attention than the god warrior. The amount of jaw dropping moments are just phenomenal and sad
Came here for this comment.
In the name of Jesus I rebuke this COMMENT
This comment is dark siiidddeeed TOO!!!!!
😂😂
Rest in nothing but love and peace Pepper! I love how your family made even the tiniest impact on that family and that awful human Julie. I hope she turned a new leaf and isn’t such a waste space.
What happened to pepper?
@@tinaehrob384She had a liver transplant, but a lung problem took her away from us all.
I know, that she is in Heaven, because she was ALL about love, kindness, respect, and understanding. 😢
Also if I would have decided what to spend Julie's money on I would spend 10 grand on lgtbq charities
Fuck it, 45g and 5k on quality therapy for the whole damm family
Lol good thing u not on the show then
I'd give 25k to each daughter for them to move out that hospice
Lgbtxyze=mc2 don't need charities. Besides they can spend the money how they want. Not like the show producers check on them after
id do 40!and each girl 5
My heart breaks for Pepper's family as they listen to Julie's incessant bullshit. Playing the victim while being toxic is not a good thing especially when you are in another person's home. I am utterly flabbergasted by Julie and her sanctimonious attitude! God bless you Pepper.
I just saw on Facebook where Pepper passed away...how sad, but yet Julie is truly the most beautiful if not amazing woman through it all.
RIP Pepper Lane
How did she die and when
Julie and her hubby are exactly the kind of parents with whom their adult kids go no contact and they don't understand why...
My incredible 9-year-old son has Down syndrome, but that's not what he is. With our Isaac, after a brief period of "fear of the unknown," we felt like we hit the baby lottery! He is perfect in every way and blesses everyone who is lucky enough to meet him and receive one of his famous hugs. My biggest fear is not having a child with a disability, it's having a child who would bully a child with a disability! My head pounded and tears pricked my eyes with each word Julie spewed next. Thanks for cleaning me out of tissues Julie. At least the world can now see what an insensitive, intolerable, rude and uncouth woman I've ever seen, and I'm a conservative Christian/Jesus Freak!!! The Lane's are a lovely, gracious family. I'll pray for you, Julie.
your child is perfect in the eyes of the Creator. we are created to be who we are just like our Creator intended. never let someone who is a spawn of evil ever let you shed a tear because they don't understand the beauty in your child. blessings, light and love from a stranger across the world.
Yes your baby is perfect
OFFICIAL Heather Combs; †eardrღps †hat †angღ h Uni
Julie has no redeeming qualities. her bullying isn't tolerated by today's society. especially behavior like this from adults. I'm sure she's been ostracized, living with her miserable family..
your son sounds amazing! wishing you and your son the best!
Exactly. My biggest fear is having a child who turns out like Julie.
Pepper is an AWESOME wife. She took Julie a LOT better than I would have. In my home, Julie would have been put out the door within an hour.
Judy is such a wise, patient and kind woman. Such strength dealing with mean ignorance. She has made this people's life better in many ways. Thank You Judy for showing how to deal with bullies.
“Set me up to look like a monster” honey you ARE a MONSTER!
"I'm here as a straight person" what do you want lady a gold star ?
Ghost O homosexuals want those gold stars. From EVERYONE. sorry, I refuse to go along with this.
@@kathymyers7279 I'm gay or whatever, and I want people to not even look at me, I'm happy with my family, I could care less on anyone else's opinions on me as long as they're not effecting my life. So shove your gold star (:
@Wolf4077 thank God it's not you ;)
@@CudiNinja
Ur awesome
@@kathymyers7279 Particularly I just want to exist without suffering prejudice, bullying, getting weird stares, not being able to donate blood on my country (Brazil), eventual death threats... But a gold star would be cool too!
I know this is old but I was saddened to hear of Pepper's passing. She seemed to be a nice, caring, empathetic human being. I hope the family are doing well. Reading about them it seems they were truly inlove💔😔
I would love for Julie and her husbands money to be half for them to get counselling for the years of therapy they desperately need and the. Other half to be given to charity
Therapy for the kids!
Give the kids 1/2 and GLAAD gets the other 1/2!!
Yes, I totally agree
I wouldn't donate it to charity id use it to help people though. People donated MILLIONS to charities in Australia for the bush fires which destroyed lives and homes, and they kept it. There's news reports about it
Truth
how does she verbally attack this poor woman everyday, then go home and say "i was like a hostage it was awful" omg. people like here need to be on medication
I don’t think will help might shit her up for a bit.
Medication can't fix whatever is wrong with her!!!
@@amandamorris2213and he stay with this piece of crap for, this also said zillions about him.
@@amandamorris2213 Depends on the medication...I mean, if she was sedated 24/7 it would be an improvement lol :)
@@jessicataylor7174 😂
I wish they showed more of what Judy said that made such a change in Julie - and I hope that Julie continued to grow away from that place of pain/hate.
What a horrible family(Chase)! I feel so bad for the youngest daughter!!
The partner couple was so sweet & accepting, the kind of family you want to see.
Sara R partner couple that's cute great comment
Sara R The wife is a horrible sociopath ,a narcissistic ,closed minded woman and crazy. While the husband is no better he is a bully,extra-competitive,selfish and closed-minded as well. The oldest daughter is a copy of her parents. The youngest is the weakest and saddest.
While in the lesbian family the whole family is open-minded and caring. The one staying at home is like a saint and the one who went to the swap moms house was good and very observant. The kids are adorable specially the daughter. The son is cute and smart
This is sooo hard to watch - not sure I'll make it to the end....never in my life have I seen such cold, callous, uneducated, blatant, lack of care or respect for others - such a bully!
I never nu there was nasty people in this world like Julie she's horrible 😢😢
notice how when julie is alone she is so strong on her views. as soon as she is out numbered by people who don’t agree with her she doesn’t want her views shared and called out. she knows she’s wrong.
Julie leaves her house, and none of her kids care or tell her bye. New mom gets hugs and the kids don't want her to go....But Julie thinks she is perfect.
Did she really ask the toddler “what happened to your teeth?”
She is stupid.
Lemon Water I asked the same thing. She should know kids lose baby teeth for crying out loud. She has two kids.
I think she was just trying to make conversation with the kid, since some kids love to talk about the teeth they lost and the money they got from the tooth fairy and all. Hard to tell since editing cut off right after she asked
Elena Coda Nunziante unless a child is conversing with an adult about loosing teeth it shouldn’t be conversed about. It would be different if the question was “did the tooth fairy visit”
@@just_lemon yea she definitely didnt go about it the right way lol, but i dont think she meant to be malicious. Still very awkward
The way Julie acts like such a wounded child! Running into her daughters arms for them to comfort her! She should be comforting them! She’s a sick individual! This episode was really hard to watch! I hope Karma gets her good!
Everyones getting offended by julie's 'beliefs' but she just seems so unintelligent i cant take her seriously 😂😂 i feel like calling her karen but thatd be insulting to even karens
fucking really, she has absolutely nothing to defend her beliefs and pussies out when they come under scrutiny
Right? Not just mean, but unintelligent as well.
as a gay person i immediately stopped getting offended as soon as she asked why ‘don’t homeless people just get a job’....why get offended over someone whose so stupid.
Ikr, I had suspicion she was just an idiot. But her little breakdown at the end on the car ride when she believed her family would no long love her proved it for me. She's just an ignorant moron masquerading as "tough"
@@blackswan1983 the means a subconcious defense for the stupid 🤣
The Lane family are so sweet and accepting, can they be my moms???
I did some facebook stalking and found that Pepper has recently passed away. They looked to be very happily in love until the very end. I would love for them to be my moms too!
@@diamondsaphire3444 omg nooo😭😭
@@diamondsaphire3444 Oh no! How sad. I really loved them. Judy was a true mensch. Now I feel sadly.
I would have loved to be friends and hang out with them. Love them both. Now I just saw that Pepper died.
@@diamondsaphire3444 please tell me they got to get married first 😭😭😭 they deserved it.
At the end when Julie breaks down and wonders if she's a monster and if her family will want her back- that's a good moment for self-reflection. It's never too late to see we're on the wrong path and change our view, opinions, behaviors. I pray that her self-reflection led to genuine positive change for her and her family.
I doubt it, she's so selfish that she probably went right back the acting the same afterwards
AND with that childish husband of hers, the toxicity will keep on existing.
yes, it was a bid over dramatic crying she did for herself, hoping idiot hubby will like her@@ratdog6317
Pepper needs an award for being so patient and strong
I don't think I have ever met anyone as mean as Julie. But I'm glad in the end there is hope.
I agree. I hope she realises how silly she was being and makes her life better.
Julie being so apologetic to her family when she got home is subconsciously her way of saying sorry for the person she was to pepper. And meeting Judy and realizing she was also wonderful and her family being around a wonderful person made her realize how terrible she is
That was a ploy and a bug act for the Narcissist to garner supply from her helpless captive audience establishing herself as the victim in this situation.
Julie is the embodiment of the phrase "Hurt people, hurt people". Watching her breakdown after some alone-time when travelling home was very difficult to watch. I pray that she and her family are in a much better place mentally/relationally now xx
I didn't see aby tears. I think, she was acting.
no. julie is the embodiment of bigots are losers and white women love to victimize themselves after being violent.
She doesn't need to breath any more O2 to be honest... Bring pepper back take her away
I have no words. This woman is VILE. Her heart is cold, she's soulless and ignorant to the point she has created a different reality for herself.
She needs psychiatric help. I feel sorry for her, it must suck to have literally no love about anyone in your soul.
I agree so much with so much, she's viler than vile , I'm terrified of people like those major manipulator
Julie’s a textbook narcissist. The way she desperately tried to rewrite what happened after being confronted over her ignorant views, putting all the blame on Pepper for “bringing up what she said” when she broached the topic of their disagreements completely unprompted. Claimed Pepper wasn’t listening whenever she pointed out that was what she was doing, and then when she did get the opportunity to speak, just repeated herself over and over until Pepper got exhausted. Picking fights and acting bewildered when anyone bites back. Must be a nightmare for her daughters.
Julie is a Final Boss Level Karen
Pepper is an angel. The strength she has is out of this world. 💕 I remember the first time I saw this.
The relationship she has with her partner is what we all long for.
It was so hard watching Julie try to gaslight Pepper and pretend that SHE was the victim. This is a classic abuser tactic. I am so happy that Pepper was strong and secure enough to see this head game for what it was and protect herself. BUT, I am sorry that she was in a position where she had to do that in the first place.
The name calling from the dad really bothers me! I can't imagine ever talking to my child that way!!!I really feel for the daughters!! Where is the love and caring parent..... they don't even have one, never mind two!!! My heart breaks for them!
It was really nice to see the change he made! Good for him!!
Can't believe her family missed he,.Julie is so selfish,rude, full of hate, how can her daughters miss that a mean mom like that..hard to believe anyone would want a family with something like that..
A lot of Julie rubbed off on him over the years.
@@Ace-ke7fq The apple don`t fall far from the tree....just like she trained her husband
@@Ace-ke7fq She is not a nice woman at all is she!!!! she has a very nasty streak in her!!!
@@rosemarydudley9954 exactly!!
This trick Julie came home playing a victim. SMH
Right. She said I dont know yall people I'm not gonna see yall again. So insensitive to all the people she was offending.
I'd be in prison
This husband is annoying... What does the name of the new mum's partner have to do with the visit. Making her uncomfortable
Right. Like stupid high school shenanigans 🙄🤦♀️ I feel so bad for those kids.
If I was a guest at the dinner party when Julie asked the guest if there were any more questions I would have asked her if I could help her pack and call a cab.
As of 2021.... Pepper passed away around 2019/2020, I'm not sure how. She and Judy were still together until the end. It was a very sad situation and everyone could tell they were very close.
As for the bigot, Julie Chase is trying to get a photography business together, but is always reminded of how she behaved on the show.
I know when Julie first came back everyone was really angry with how she behaved and that people around here still remember it and talk about her, so I'm honestly not surprised if she is still having trouble. X.x My ex worked at a grocery store she went to at the time and even just when she'd go to get groceries people would recognize and avoid her when this first happened. 😔 Sad to hear about Pepper, her and her family seemed so nice. I hope the rest of her family is doing okay ❤
@@robincharles7057karma came back at her in full circle...
I have been looking for this episode for quite some time. The Hate Family was just so vile to one another and some of the things that the Hate woman said were just so awful. I don't know if they were told to say certain things by the producers, but it was hard to watch. Furthermore, the couple was so lovely and nice and even adopted a child. It upsets me to know that they face hostility but look at them! They are beautiful, they are loving, they provide a safe home to children. So many children grow up in awful homes and I hate it when innocent people are pikced on - those two Mothers are wonderful.
Ooof, don't know if I'm going to be able to watch this one
@@tylerlavoie9132 Just watch it, you can always fast forward some parts. As it is a reality show, I do not know how much was "contrived." But the things that came out of Julie's mouth were so hard to hear and nowadays the concept of a lesbian couple is not even that unusual.
@Gmoney 12 You are right. We don't know. In any case, I really liked The Good Mothers' Family.
I spent my life in foster care, I would have killed to have a mother like that, let alone two of them!
@1993 your name says it all. Archaic and stuck in the past.
Julie's fears and crying at the end could have been justified if she actually realized that she was "a monster" but it was really clear that she was just doing it to justify her own actions and fish for validation. What a pitiful woman.
I call that she gained self awareness and it won't let her go now.
Am sure it is
When Julie told her girls "We're not going to do that anymore" (when they started the negativity & bickering), I teared up.... Some good really came out of the exchanged family week. I hope she kept it up.
I think Julie has never been in a situation that challenged her beliefs and when exposed to this challenge, she believed she was in the right. But when she had that meeting to explain how she was not treated very nicely because she had very hateful views and they were brought up, I think it hit her that she might actually be wrong. So the trip home, she was doubting herself and realizing that maybe she was the monster in all this. I hope she wasn't tracked down and hated on for her backwards views after being on tv where they were exposed and instead just became more accepting over time.
YES!!! Exactly. I really hope this sparked true change for her
@@anneefreres3299 ... She will NEVER change.
Yeah she wasn't even really challenged hard or pushed. She really just volunteered her beliefs and pushed pepper to discuss it and then didn't like how it felt when not a single person was with her. The awkwardness and tension must have been unbearable. Their whole family (chase family) has a miserable existence.
Oh, Judy. I love you and how you communicated with that father about verbal and emotional abuse. RADICAL KINDNESS always wins.
Aww that's so cute how Judy ran up to the house and everyone ran to her. Home sweet home❤
I love that no one ever called her a monster.. but she knew she was hence why she called herself that over and over. She recognizes her views are negative, but doesn’t desire to educate herself. I really wish there was an update on these families.
Julie is insane. another minute watching her hate of Hispanics is almost driving me mad. and i thought the God Warrior was Insane.
Julie is the epitome of what means to be a 'Karen'!
Judy's Wizard of Oz analogy was so perfect and beautiful, she has such an amazing, loving family and home.
I almost cried when she said that
Charlie and his wife! Yucky people! Both are A$$holes who deserve each other. Their poor children.
Yes, yes, yes & yes, you are really a monster. I hope that you have changed by now.
Hitler reincarnated as a woman 😂
Both of them
Rest In Peace Pepper!!! You were a wonderful wife and mother to your family!!!
She died? Damn...
She died? Omg… she was wonderful. A very special human being whom everyone should aspire to be like. RIP Pepper. Awww
Oh no..!😢💔🕯✝️
Tinsel! Thank you so much for uploading these in full and so nicely...they are truly a joy to watch...again as I saw them waaaaay back when the commercials in particular are such a throw back!:) Thank you and stay safe and stay kind everyone!:)
The lesbian couple are so beautiful and seem so happy. I adore them
Pepper should use $15,000.00 of the money and send Julie to a trip to Mexico!
“Are you going to kiss me because I’m going to put lipstick on” 🥺 so so wholesome.
You’re so beautiful!
That damn woman up in here looking like Aileen Wuornos
Don't talk shit about Aileen
That's unfair to Aileen Wurnos. She was bisexual.
Both of the women (of the lesbian couple) were very kind in their feedback to the husband and wife who they were each spending the week with. They were both such good models to me, because I may have been more confrontational and judgemental, which would have been me acting just like the straight couple's family dynamics. Instead, the women gave their feedback in a way that DEMONSTRATED kindness, empathy, compassion, acceptance, etc., which of course, is much more effective.
Julie is just a thoroughly unpleasant person. In the name of honesty she tells everybody exactly what she sees and does not care that she hurts them because "she told the truth"
...yet she reflects what's inside of her...when we judge another we are really reflecting ourselves...she carries SO much shame and hate for herself...something really bad happened to her...
Apparently Julie is unaware that we have many opportunities to be quiet. In other words, ZIP IT!
@@dianedizayee5211 --what makes it even worse is she knew she was on a TV show...recorded...sent across the nation...and she STILL acted this way!
@@Joesfosterdogs that's what flabbergasted me, this is likely her "toned down" version, yet is the most hateful and unkind person I've ever seen. Crazy to think about :(
@@PM-of3fn She probably had front row seats at dftrump rallies and follow him fro city to city.
I’m so grateful that LGBT... have more rights now
No one should be treated like that
It pisses me off
Yeah the way Julie was acting was childish and immature
As a lesbian i thank you for supporting the rainbow family. Its disgusting the way the woman was. Anti everything but the bible. Lesbians can like religion too and god wouldnt like such disgusting comments im sure of that. What about not judging others? Clearly this lady missed that line in the bible. Glad your nit judgemental. Were all tthe same no matter what race . religion or colour or where your from or where your family is from . treat people as you like to be treated.
@@memorialled_zeppelin-warew1346 so true. I taught my kids never to judge they are now 19 and 32( boy and girl) I work for a dentist and he is gay and Hispanic. Our office is probably 50% gay. I never had any problems with that. He’s the BEST employer I ever had. I love him and respect him so much and his partner! Love is love.
@@tamibear7598 ... He probably loves you.alot too beecuase he knows you are so supportive. We need more supportive people in this world.
I’m proud of Julie for her allowing her insecurities to show at the last minute and recognizing the need for a change. That had to be the hardest thing she ever did and she did it on tv
“Why are you a woman?” I’m screaming
Honestly the most satisfying part was julies fear of someone showing her family real respect and that shed be pushed out to the curb like she truely deserved. I hope shes changed some of her views since this show.
Omg the Dairy Queen commercial at 44:33 had me cackling! 😂😂😂
Looks like Julie needs to toughen up 🤷🏽♀️
Pepper is a freaking angel. I don’t know how she managed to deal with that. Poor chick