MONEY vs HEIGHT | Women Pick Men After Finding Out Income, Height And Looks
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- Опубликовано: 31 дек 2022
- Destiny reacts to women choosing what types of men they would like to date based on height, age, income and attractiveness...
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About your intro, I wouldn't categorise blckpill like that.
From personal experience of exploring blackpill.
Level 0 would be guys finding some aspects of blackpill in the wild and not realising they already started getting blackpilled. Tons of men on TikTok are slowly realising how brutal heightpill is and may start to google/explore.
First level is just acknowledging how underplayed looks are in dating (specifically dating) most people are still blue or redpill in this level.
Level 2 is you placing looks at number 1 indicator of getting genuine love or its in competition with confidence, money, status.
Level 3 is placing looks at number 1 in importance, money and status can be 2 and 3, and confidence starts loosing importance quickly (there are some rare cases like Wheat Waffles who's more blackpilled but still highly values confidence, or VantaBlackPill who is also pretty blckpilled but he also believes being neurotypical helps in dating a lot and being neurodivergent hurts your chances a ton)
Level 4 is getting to "it's over" or "br00tal" territory, looks are becoming even more important and while guys on this level acknowledge that money, status and confidence helps, it's negligible.
Level 5 is brutal, this is where depression sinks in. This is where it's just Looks, Looks, Looks. Levels below are getting into dangerous rope territory. This is where blackpiller starts to think even average looking guys don't have any hope.
Level 6 is... It's over tier. This is where blackpiller genuinely thinks average guys don't have a chance and hypergamy will unironically make dating impossible for average guys, let alone below average.
Level 7 is near rope or near guaranteed depression, sadness, etc. This is where blackpiller starts to think even Chad Lite struggles in dating and for High Tier Normie and below it's over...
And finally Level 8
Saint Hamudi level, it's... *it's just over, it's really over* tier. This is where or even lower resides Saint Hamudi in blackpill lore, he and very very small number of blackpillers believe soon or ALREADY even CHADS struggle in dating, literally any imperfection and you gonna hear it's ovah from them for 24/7. Sadly Saint Hamudi deleted his channel but Incel TV still has a video about him to check out and some reuploads exist on YT. This level is also called *Hiroshima Nagasaki Blackpill* coined by Saint Hamudi since blackpill wasn't too radical for him, now it's Hiroshima Nagasaki.
Hope this is helpful I'm still not sure if it's perfect categorization of the blackpillers, this is just form my observations.
@@danielsurvivor1372 saint hamudi level 💀💀 i can hear his voice in my head just saying its over
Explain the difference between Hassan being a socialist in a 3mil home and you in an open relationship spurting relationship dynamics. Seriously bro... I respect you but if you are blind on 1 you're blind to everything. Address it, maybe I'm wrong.
Lol and Destiny had to make a point about how the Saint and the Sinner guy was wrong when he said Destiny was all about the money...
Yo McD's is paying $20 an hour in places that aren't even massive cities. I live in a "city", because it's not really big enough to qualify as a city, and they are hiring at 15-20/hr. Then again our minimum wage is like $15/hr (small but progressive city).
Joke's on Destiny. I'm short AND poor 😎
Br00tally ovah for you :( Unless you have some other characteristics idk
man is the whole package.
Damn, no sense of humor either. It's over. 😔
Chad
its tuff out here for us short kings
Destiny is 100% right about the number of hours you get schedule for when you're working in the customer service industry. I worked two part-time jobs for a while and job #1 pulls me aside and asks me when I'll be leaving the other job so I can have "full availability." I told them when they start scheduling me 40 hours a week, that's when I'll leave my other job. They were NOT happy about this. The absolute stupidity and delusion of some of these companies that think they own you and will only give you 24 hours a week and expect you NOT to get another job JUST so you can afford a roof over your head and food on the table.
I wouldn't have even asked for 40 hours. I would've asked for however much money you can live off of with 24 hours. Less time and More money is the optimal decision.
Buuutt, they'll promise you $20 per hour and try to wait until you quit, then act like it never happened. That's why you get it in writing so that you can take it to a lawyer and sue them.
They don't want to give you more, but I have no idea why they would want you to have "full availability" but not give you 40 hours.
This is why workers need more rights than corporations and CEOs. So they can be safe from corruption like this. Or there should be a law that says if you don't pay someone enough, then the corporation needs to pay half of your bills.
Corporations have far too many rights and privilege. Shut them down.
I think this must be in cities? I worked at mcdonalds during the summers while I was at uni, so from 2010-2014 I think, and I worked basically 40 hours.
@@Tangerinian same they were begging me to do 40 hours, because they did not have enough staff
Idk if things r different now bc covid aftermath or maybe my job is just an outlier bc its a 24 he gas station, but we’ve got like 9 staff members at a 24 hour store, everyone is working at LEAST 40 hours a week, most of us do 45-60 hours a week
stop the cap
As a 5'2 Latino guy sharing my experience I have had white/Asian/black woman ask me out the difference was they were always shorter or my size It seems like a woman just wants someone taller than them, it's just harder for me because I have a smaller pool of partners I can attract but it's not impossible thanks for reading.
Being shorter is much less of a handicap in the gay world as long as the guy is cute/attractive.
I'm a woman who's 5'4 & my bf is 5'7
Height only matters in so long as you are just taller than your girl even if only by a couple inches or so
@@ubuu7 unless you're a short top
@@thefutureisnowoldman7653 just accept being a power bttm
Things could be worse, you could've been a 5'2 Indian guy in the West.
Gotta love the girl who REALLY needs to make sure you know she's not superficial.
Oh the one that said she doesn't care about looks or money but would date a 3 that has a yacht and an ocean-front condo over the 8 who lives at home with his parents? lol
Very cringe I agree.
@@JB-mh5xy this was one of the weaker comparison, you could've said a 4 who has his own house and makes 60k a year and women would still tend to choose this person as opposed to someone who lives with their parents, unless they're able to obtain information on whether or not the parents are ill or elderly etc
AND I'm black 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎
Basically every woman is answering based on how she thinks it will make her look. The responses would have been meaningful only if they were anonymized.
Women (all people, but _especially_ women) are known to be _highly_ concious of how they come across in these interviews. You'll get drastically different answers if you give them a paper to fill out and tell them it will be private. They've done studies on this.
They will often say they would do something publicly but do something else in actuality, and simply removing the interviewer and camera will sometimes let them be honest with themselves.
Exactly. It's like in virtually every interview where they ask someone (boy and girl) what's more important, looks, money, or personality, everyone says personality because they're on camera. When you know that's not how everyone feels.
yeah secret ballot their asses and they will admit to wanting to F the chads but marry the betas
looks tend to correlate to personality too because of prior treatment from society. the hottest women ive known tended to be on the nicer side and the big fat ones had a multitude of nacho chips on their shoulder
Many people forget about this and take the answers at face value.
@@thekingofsting9929 maybe she was just hangry🤣
Destiny: DAMN 5’4 she’s going to the extreme!!
Me at 5’4: 👁👄👁
Bruh I'm 5'3 I need to stop watching these kinds of videos my confidence takes hit after hit 😆
It’s extreme because you’re at the 4th percentile of height for men. 5’3” is at the 2nd percentile, so 98% of men are taller than you. Unfortunately we have to play with the cards we’re dealt in life, improve yourselves in other areas.
@@casebased8391 thanks Casanova
@@PandaBrrr me and you both. Its a rough world of neck pain out here for us.
@@goose2tat2 I only get neck pain in stores
man the short guy who makes 200k getting rejected is such a US thing.
No it’s reality thing
@@thedarkestknight8381 height is not that big of a deal here than it is in US
@@amirmirzaei3940maybe because on average the women are shorter than USA women? What country are you talking about?
@@Joe-fj6dj No one cares about height in europe.
@@thedarkestknight8381 Tbf the West is only like what, 10-15% of the population of the entire world. I mean that shit doesn't help when you live in the West and I'm not gonna say SEAmaxx or ''just move to Thailand bro", but it does kinda highlight how wacky the standard is
Like the average height for guys in a majority of the world is legitimately like 5'7, 5ft 8? Japan it's 5'7 for guys, similar in South Korea maybe an inch taller, or all the way to Brazil, all the way to India well, we won't go there, but basically anywhere that isn't the West the short guy is not being rejected if you adjust the salaries to their local equivalent
Guess it shows just how much culture influences this when even 5ft flat girls in the West are claiming they want a foot taller than them without any irony
LOL Destiny just can't get behind the idea of loyalty being a dealbreaker.
Open relationship is just blind cucking
Which is embarrassing as hell for him. It’s not rocket science
You wanna know why not? Bc I’m theory they say that. But I assure you they would be all knees and elbows when it boils down to the HUGE difference in lifestyle.
@@renebetancourtiii1456 No? Some people genuinely want monogamous love. Not hard to understand
Destiny missed the fact the girl in red was preaching she didn’t care about money, then later she said she doesn’t want to be the breadwinner and believes the man is supposed to!
Anyone who says they dont care about money is a liar or already has money
It's like adding free time to your lifespan, you work less and more time to live.
she was the most pretentious and fake holy crap
@@amazin7006 "i don't care about money" isn't the same as "i don't care about money"
yes everybody cares about money because people care about food and food costs money but what people mean is "does being low class effect your love?"
even if you have more time for yourself that's still worth less than time spent in true love
but that doesn't even necessarily mean less or more time, might be the reason said people are poor are because they choose to work less, a minimum amount to get by for what is really needed and not much more
She’s also the chick that chose the yacht and second house option lol
3:09 Destiny you may not understand this because you're in a open relationship but for some people the cost of loyalty is priceless...
very ego centric people
lmao
Also some of those women could already make a lot/ or enough money. Where it would not matter
@@praisemidir It's ego-centric to want someone to not cheat on you? Delusional.
true, he doesnt realize that hes biased in things like that. this is not a rational problem to figure out but an emotional issue.
As a 5' 4" guy I'm dying on the inside
Do not be, I’m a 5’1 girl and my ideal height range for a guy is 5’4-5’5 and I know plenty of girls around my height range who would say the same. Believe it or not but not every girl wants to date a guy who looks like a fucking giant next to them. Best height difference is when guy is just tall enough to reach the higher shelves but not so tall that you look more like their child than a partner when walking next to each other.
Plus hugs and kisses are super awkward with guys who’re too tall, so feel confident in your height, there’s plenty of girls who’d love that unless you’re into super tall girls yourself.
Just workout your height bro
I’m 5’4 too
@@luciddoggo5094 lol
Just go for a feminist, they're against traditional male determined asthetics... Kidding! Most of them shamelessly go for tall dudes and pretend to think all short guys have neopolean syndrome (cope).
4:30 Ofcourse you undervalue loyalty destiny you havent known it with melina💀
Damn
Damm 💀💀🔥💀🔥🔥💀
But all the lefties in RUclips comment sections who are also self admittedly lonely and horribly depressed told me that polyamorous relationships are completely fine, and healthy, and that I just need to do my research because I'm uneducated. They wouldn't lie to me.
You arent wrong
Tell this swinger💀😎
Unsurprising answer coming from Destiny, but loyalty and *trust* is a big thing in a relationship, especially if you plan to spend the rest of your life with that person. If you know they cheated on you twice in your relationship, of course you're always going to feel paranoid that they will do it again and won't be honest about it. But come on, he has to be able to conceptualize this even if he can't empathize with it.
I mean… what can you expect from someone who has cheated on multiple monogamous relationships.
hes got a whack ass take here no cap
Copium. People will put up with a lot more shit when the "leverage" is very heavily in favour of the perpetrator. The question also limits the amount of times it happens to twice. So after a certain point, the paranoia wouldn't be a factor.
Cheating is different for men vs women
40k is basically broke. You’re telling me these girls would rather live their whole lives with a loyal man who can’t afford to be a provider in any capacity? Despite showing that they do in fact prefer a man that can provide later in the video? Sounds like bs to me.
This blue haired woman seemed very angry that most of them chose being a house wife if they could
Blackpill is 100% real.
I am 28 6'2'' loser with literally 200$ to my name, I barely do anything. Yet I've never had to go out approach a girl, cause they come to me instead.
this ☝
I do not care. This shit is too tedious I'd rather be single than think about it any longer
cope
@@taketheblackpillneo3940 What's wrong with coping though? That's why society is extra cruel -- they push the standard of this dating market yet want people to suffer it by being against them if they try cope. Both from other incels AND normies.
If someone can genuinely cope I say 100% more power to them, I won't highlight it. Life is short af, so do anything else and don't bother with this kinda content, forums or trying to date. They'll be much happier, and tbh probably happier than people who are in relationships, considering even high status, rich af athletes aren't immune from being cucked, and a lot of relationships aren't even that fulfilling at a certain point, being 100% happy and invested almost feels like the exception these days
Nobody is safe. Finding ways to cope is probably the right idea and ahead of the curve. I got out of a LTR recently and I'm so happy i can do ''coping'' activities and I'm not obligated to do relationship shit anymore, and we have a kid so we still talk every day with 50/50 custody and are great friends, so the relationship wasn't even bad. She just wanted me to be more invested in the relationship and I simply couldn't -- the "coping" activities was more important than spending an afternoon watching movies or visiting her family or friends over going for a bike ride, making music or gaming.
TL;DR if you can cope, cope, and even if you find someone you'll end up coping anyway and doing the same shit even in a relationship
Not everyone can handle an affair, Destiny... The question boils down to happiness or money. So, most people as long as there's some money being made would rather be happy in a relationship than miserable with a dude who's had two affairs. They're not assuming forgiveness for the affairs. Trust is everyhting in a relationship (monogamous or poly)
Yeah I found his take on the affair question to be kinda baffling tbh. You could equally rephrase it as getting paid to be cheated on really. Idk whotf would want that.
The women were split between an ugly rich guy vs a handsome broke guy. Actually very fair. But when the height thing was brought in (5'4 rich vs 6'2) every single one chose 6'2. That is actually so brutal and proof that height is way more important than anything else for attraction. It goes beyond looks, race, and personality, and i'd even argue its more important than all 3 combined.
True
I would disagree face and race is still more important than height. 5’4 man is an extreme example, most men are around an average height of 5’9. While I’m not denying height plays a role and being taller is always better it is not the most important, many numerous of example of handsome men (psl gods) who are below 6ft and do just fine in attracting women. Height is a nice bonus and there’s no denying tall good looking is at the very top of the hierarchy however it would be cope to say height is the most important, race and face is a lot more important than height.
@@LooksmaxxingLMSheight is something I always see wm want and have in a guy they are with rarely I see short guys with wm unless they are very young or Hispanic foreign or she is settling for what he can do for her ie money status
Listening to this shit is depressing for more reasons than I can type right now
Let's hear it
Yo Louis
Can you elaborate?
Louis eyebagcel
now we NEED to hear it
TL DW: height >> looks >= wealth
Why is being with family such a bad thing here in America? I still do this understand the way people look down on family oriented people.
Sense of community is pretty much dead in many Western cities.
The main reason for it is if you still live with your family it shows that you aren't successful enough to live on your own. Obviously this isn't the only reason people live with their parents but that's the most likely rationale imo.
America is an ultra individualistic country.
America's longstanding obsession with rugged individualism and the belief that you're a loser if you needhelp/live with your parents. "dead in many Western cities." I'd swap western with US. We're the worst offender by far, considering our country is far newer and built for cars and suburbs.
@@ispear6337 Is that really the most likely explanation though? I am 28, single and have been working as in-house legal counsel for 4 years. I still live with my parents to cut costs and simply because it is more convenient, even though I make enough to afford my own place. I have been able to save a ton of money this way
Looks are 70%-87% of the battle in dating. The rest is other.
Wrong. It's 70%-85.6% actually.
More like personality is 80 looks 20
According to my magic 8ball, it's actually 63-84%, but the second time I asked it said "maybe". So it's one of those 2 things.
But I thought it was personality was 100%
@@markzuckergecko621 😂
I worked at Arby’s and got OT sometimes. The hours were so inconsistent. 30-42hrs a week. Then they got mad at me because THEY scheduled me overtime lol
Courty making more incels than tate ever could
"I'm an independent woman
but..."
Girls absolutely do choose men on feeling like he’s strong/aggressive/violent enough to protect them and intimidate others. Destiny doesn’t know what he’s talking about because he avoids the type of environments those couples would be in like the plague.
Wide bodied enough to hide behind when the bullets start flying. "Time to go start some shit."
@@TheLifesentence2278 ong
Good he avoids them
One of those words is not like the others. Strong doesn’t mean aggressive or violent. Any woman who is self-aware, has dealt with any issues she had growing up (etc), and is smart, isn’t going to want a man who is aggressive or violent. That’s the same as equating confidence and arrogance.
The “stop the cap” clips were killing me 😂
Imagine choosing your partner based on wanting to wear specific shoes.
That girl legit said she doesn't care about money but would date a rich old man over a normal young guy.
Kinda makes the interview pointless if you lie.
they suck at lying too lol
So short guy with money = no
tall guy with much less = yes
but 10/10 guy without money = no
but 4/10 guy with money = YES
They were essentially the same question just reworded and they all changed their fucking answers.
It isn't. Short is just height. 4/10 is talking height and looks (face). Two different questions.
@@EvolianTiger So EVERY short guy in existence is under 4/10 by that logic. I was giving them the benefit of answering stupidly, rather than pointing that absolute retardation out.
i think they imagined like an average height 4/10 guy, but once she told them the exact height they switched it up.
Congratulations you just found out that they're lying and they were indeed superficial or materialistic.
@@doublestarships646 gee thanks for congratulating me in something I pointed out before you even watched the video.
I like how "struggle with infidelity" was equal to "1 to 2 affairs"
It would’ve been more realistic if they would’ve added “per year” 😂😅
If you’re a dude with 200k income and you’re a sex addict, you’re cheating waaaaaay more that.
I never believe the people in these interviews are ever being honest.
doesn't that mean they are even MORE shallow than what they said?
that's really bad considering they were already pretty shallow lol
With the breadwinner question, I honestly thought they'd pick the 2nd one because that doesn't mean he doesn't make any money just not as much as you and if he's a 10 that literally means everything else about him is perfect from looks to personality
Dude, I will work out & stay at home.
I've never seen a woman who would agree to that.
Maybe to date a guy, sure.
But imagine her working 10-14 hours a day & you going to the gym & having time of your life, even if you make like $35,000 like a gym trainer working part-time.
I guarantee, any woman will dump you.
Breadwinner means the only person earning money in the family. Otherwise the term wouldn't mean anything since many couples have different incomes.
@@bestdjaf7499 It's definitely not "any/every" women. I know a couple who's been married for 20+ years. The woman is the breadwinner and the guy's barely worked a day in his life/spends a lot of time with his "boys". They're still a very stable/happy couple, far more so than other traditional couples I've seen.
@@waleedabbas4996
I don't know their situation.
He might have a rich family/own assets, and/or he is famous/have connections.
I doubt that she bought him a house & he was doing nothing all his life (it's seems what you are trying to imply).
*
May I ask you, is he a professional musician?
@@bestdjaf7499 That is what I'm implying. Yes, she actually owns the house and the car (he has it most of the time).
Mate, I know their situation. She even buys him quality cigarettes with her own money. 😂
Lastly, he isn't a musician. He was a security guard/minimum wage when they first met but hasn't worked for decades now.
When the euphoric feeling wears off, then it got you hooked. You're basically holding its inverted pocket.
I would ABSOLUTELY choose the more loyal guy. That’s ridiculous, anyone who has ever been cheated on knows how painful it is. We can always make more money. Can’t ever get your dignity or your trust back after being cheated on.
This is why we men created the patriarchy.
Based Newton.
Chicken or egg?
@@ethanstapley7018 obv egg.
Just adding my experience with Adderall, I took a low, prescribed amount for about 6 weeks. It was life changing for me. I'd become super mellow and was able to focus and was extremely efficient at work. That said, I had to stop taking Adderall after about 6 weeks because I felt as if I started going crazy. I began to feel manic and unable to feel as though I was in control of my emotions.
interesting. I've been considering them. Hope you feel better now OP
@Jesse Jackson 100%. It's definitely worth a try imo. I know a couple people who have taken it for a couple years and it's really helped them. I felt back to normal once I weined off of the medication.
mellow? for me it felt like i was on meth bruh.
@@JohnDoe-nm5le yep, almost emotionless at times. Super super mellow. Like the most chilled out I've ever been in my life
@@davidbrantley6026 do you have ADHD? You should feel melowed out if you do.
omfg the "I moved home because of covid" is so funny I use that al the time. I finished my masters in london and had to move home because no job.
I missed my one chance to buy a house in 2019 and refuse to leave until I can find one at a good price. At 30 I'm starting to crack, but splitting rent with my parents is comfy as hell. I save an extra 2G a month splitting bills.
@@SkeleTonHammer I'm working on the angle of "don't tell them until they like me enough to want to understand."
I get living at home can be read flag, but in today's day an age there are a ton of reasons for it.
Don't crack. Especially if your parents are nice to be around. If it's causing issues to your well being, sure leave. If not, stay until you can buy a home AND still have money to be comfortable. No point having a house while you're broke, when you have the alternative to save your money.
Also, if you meet a woman you like, why not just budget some money away for her and your time with her? When I like someone, especially if I believe they are a good person, I don't want them to "tough it out" before I give them all the nice parts of me. Or be friends first (which is a risk if she's dating). Either way, if you want to commit to a women, feeling like she had to "struggle" before getting your love leaves such a bitter taste. Depends on the woman I guess, but it just sounds like a sucky situation.
All the best regardless, hope you get a beautiful home
@@SkeleTonHammer Maybe date women who are also living at home? Depending on your age, I'm sure that's a lot of people in the same boat. Or be really good at *asking for dates*. I think a lot of women deal with men who just want to "chill". That would set you apart, while also allowing the girl to know what you'd be like in a relationship. Make sure you meet a woman who really wants a solid commitment, then you can spoil someone who is more than deserving of that type of love. All the best!
If you got the money to pay a deposit for a townhouse, condo, etc, buy one. You can always rent it out and with negative gearing, the losses on rental income can be a tax deduction.
I am 28, single and have been working as in-house legal counsel for 4 years. I still live with my parents to cut costs and simply because it is more convenient, even though I make enough to afford my own place. I have been able to save a ton of money this way. If a woman writes me off just because I’m still living with my parents, I wouldn’t want to be with her anyways.
Destiny is right about Adderall from what I understand, and from personal experience. If you have ADHD, it levels you out and helps you focus, if you don't have ADHD, it's crystal meth.
From what I’ve read the thing that causes adhd is an underdeveloped prefrontal lobe relative to people who don’t have adhd. This results in you genuinely not having the ability to focus on things reliably. You literally lack executive functioning which you make up for by taking a stimulant
I figure I should I add I’ve been diagnosed with adhd
@@kennythawsh yea that seems to be pretty consistent with other people I've known with ADHD. I had a friend in HS that used to sell me his Adderall because he was a crazy person and liked being crazy, so I would take it and get all cracked out, because for some reason that was fun at the time. Staying up for 3 straight days playing Tekken. Lol. So I guess I was also a crazy person. The most dysfunctional symbiotic relationship of all time.
I have ADHD and OP is correct. Many people with ADHD report that before being diagnosed they used to use coffee to self medicate. To calm down and focus. I did that as well.
@@kennythawsh Yeah executive dysfunction is a bitch.
Isnt adderal just medical grade mdma ?
Women are much more shallow compared to men. Thats just reality. We just aren't allowed to say those things.
Sure, not every single woman for whatever circumstances. It could be that because they fought off their inner base instincts and therefore not shallow. But women, even under extreme patriarchy didn't have to settle. Because even under those circumstances; The men provided, the men were stronger, the men were older and the men were stronger. Everything every feminist and modern woman will argue against and then 10/10 will date.
Women love the patriarchy in actuality.
Destiny using slang is the funniest thing 😂🔥
Thank you for zooming in on the video. This is so much better.
The guy who pointed out Steven's non-monogamous status is correct. Steven already lives in a situation where his partner can sleep around, so the idea of them doing it 2 times without his knowledge/consent in return for 200k doesn't seem as bad to him, since that's basically his position now + 200k. For most monogamous people infidelity can be a major deal breaker, especially after marriage, it's not surprising at all that most women would trade 160k a year for loyalty and security in the most important relationship of their lives. Although I will acknowledge that in this hypothetical scenario where you know the infidelity will only happen 1-2 times might make the decision harder, since it would remove the aspect of losing trust in your partner, which is the real killer in situations of infidelity.
The red shirt girl said she doesn’t care how much they make, but later shared how she wants to be able to stay at home and pursue her hobbies while he works.
I smell some CAP!!!!
Hey when I was a shift leader we had to make schedules too, and I got most of them at around 30-35 hours a week. We had some really reliable folks who would get over 40. But they had to get GM approval. Usually picking up the shifts the others wouldn’t work and she was lazy and not willing to work the extra hours lol this was about 10 years ago.
The thing is that they don’t act on these preferences and we know this because the correlation between height in marriage partners is extremely low. Most guys want a super attractive partner but that doesn’t mean they will get one.
I feel like destiny can't go a single relationship topic without going "but guys the real truth pill here is that guys are way worse come on"
5 9 here and I've dated shorter guys. Yet you have 5 1 who insists on having tall guys. Weird.
the thing is for a lot of people being cheated on is a big hassle once you are already emotionally invested. Also, how long are these two affairs. Is it a tripple life or is he kissing some guy at a work party and is it hot.
Is this really how Gen Z operates? Or is this just how the US in general operates? It's dehumanising and just depressing. It's not how my dating experience ever panned out
its both a US thing and a social media thing
I don't think Gen Z and US are the only people who play would you rather.
yeah i sometimes see these videos and it just seems like a different reality from what i've experinced
@@yourgrammarisnotverygood1827 It's that the only factors being considered are purely looks and money, not just the game they're playing.
This is dating for 100 year now yes keep up.
I agree with destiny. I actually am 6'2'' and when I heard her say she thinks taller guys would protect her better? Umm against who? A middle schooler? I'm tall, I'm not a super hero. I'm not a vigilante stopping crime in street. I've been watching destiny for over 10 years and playing world of warcraft for 16 years now. I'm just a tall nerdy guy. I'm unlikely to save us from being mugged, but I can certainly reach stuff off the top shelf at the grocery store. That said, the employees there will also get items down for you at no additional cost. So, if you don't find a tall man, you'll still be okay.
4:30 The problem is you don’t know in advance if the guy is going to cheat unless you know he did it in his past relationships. That’s why 200k guy would win in the real world every single time.
That’s why it’s called a hypothetical.
@@albstare I find it to be a bad one.
Former 5 year Starbucks employee, you definitely don't get more than 30 hours a week as a barista ( entry level) and you typically get no more than 35 as a shift supervisor
with the lack of so many employees, there's a lot more places scheduling 30+ hours a week
A lot of people work full time in food service, especially with the recent worker shortages. I worked the summer at a food service job and did 40 hours basically every week and sometimes over 50.
Yeah lol, my family ran a restaurant the workers always had 40h a week so I don;t know what he is talking about.
I've never had a problem getting 40hrs at any job, I've more often had a problem with setting boundaries where they didn't work me 50 or more hours if I wanted some time off.
@@Kuroganemk2 You cant compare a family ran restaurant to a corporate restaurant chain which is what most are referring too.
@@zippo718 Yeah no. He didn't state the premise and even in chain restaurants people get 40h.
My personality MOGS the average man by a mile!
The fact anyone even entertains the idea of a fake transactional relationship for some guy with plenty of money over a genuine love-based relationship with some guy with plenty of money is insane to me
Destiny. When I worked fast food I was getting 40+ hours a week easy. They wanted me for OT because when you actually work, theyd rather keep you on than people that call out 3/4 days a week.
@Matthias I've worked more recently. Experience 20 years ago compared to today is different
As someone that took Adderall and Ritalin has a kid I can confirm this anecdote was true for me.
It would make me very calm. My teachers could tell if I hadn't "taken my medicine" because I would act goofy.
When I got older I didn't want to take it anymore so I would give it to my friends and it made them super wired and hyper. Had the opposite effect. I started using cannabis in highschool and Ive basically never stopped. Lately I've been considering trying it out again but I don't like pharmaceuticals and it's hard to take it casually. My mom was on it for like 25 years before she finally kicked it
Don’t do it fam
Did it suppress your appetite like mine did? When I finally decided I’d had enough and stopped I ate all day that day. Haven’t taken since. It is possible.
"Kicked it" Did she have a substance abuse problem?
@@MrSkeltal268 I think a ridiculously large amount of the people prescribed ADHD medication at a young age didn't actually need it, and were just normal kids who have trouble paying attention to things that suck, and things that are boring. And I also think this is a major contributing factor to how many young adults have mental health problems, and are lonely, lost, depressed, even sue-is-side-al. Who could have guessed pumping 10 year olds full of crystal meth would be a bad idea?
it made you calm because you developed a tolerance, but the first time you did it it made you hyper. ADHD medication does not work differently on people who dont have adhd, thats a myth
I feel like personally I would never hire a sex worker for sex, I feel like it would just be more interesting to hang out with them, chat and play video games or board games or something...
We can tell by that profile pic and name. Lol.
the good ol' board games. Good morning.
Most the time a girl tells me she isn’t into appearance just go through her ex’s and it’s the biggest tell if she’s lying
One thing I will say as someone who works 2 part time jobs because one company does not want to schedule me full time is it’s much harder than working one full time job. It’s twice the amount of skill sets needed, twice the amount of gas to travel to work, twice the amount of people you need to maintain healthy relationships with, often requires weird hours (example I start early morning but end at night), but what sucks most is the lack of benefits that part time workers typically received compared to a full time.
Feel free to ask me questions if you’re curious about anything.
Corporations have more than enough money. they need to be paying more and giving more. I have no sympathy for corporations and rich people.
Is there a reason you are still doing the two part time jobs over the full time? Lack of options or still trying to get experience?
@@joro8693 I am working on getting my masters in Behavioral Therapy for children with autism. Currently I’m a behavioral technician (works under a therapist) and a bunch of companies who hire people for my position only take part time workers because its a high burnout/turnover rate job as working 1:1 with children with autism can be very demanding and tiring. However I need the experience that job is giving me and took on another job for more income.
Video Summary:
Height >>> Money >>> Fitness
If you are less than 5,5 then dating will be very difficult
height doesnt matter much if youre ugly
But where does personality fall on this line?
@@ralphwilsin after you attract them with your height, money and fitness
@@taotl531low iq
No it’s because the money comparisons with a height were still fairly decent income. No woman is going to pick a 6’2 guy that makes 25K.
Almost forgot how short I am today but this video had to be released and ruin my day.
cope-or-rope-for-most-us!
You seem Arab by your name, so you’re average height if you’re around 5’6 and you’d be doing fine in any middle eastern country or Eastern Asian countries. To have an advantage over other men, you just gotta go to the gym, get a healthy body, be good at socializing with others, and be passionate of something. Literally that easy to be a man that is happy with himself, a woman will come by naturally without having to constantly be chasing them if you’re doing all the things I mentioned.
@@f9658 5'4, and I think the average is somewhere around 5'7 where I am.
Yeah I'm obviously constantly working on myself, and I don't think it's entirely hopeless, but it does feel pretty bad at times.
There are some plus sides to being slightly below average height, and lower middle class. At least I know my girlfriend actually likes me because of me, and not my money or looks.
Lol wait for the black pill
I mean what would you rate yourself in looks 1-10 and her?
@@kenonerboy who hurt you?
@@imanigordon6803 I'm probably a 6 or a 7, I'm definitely not a bad looking dude. She's around the same, to me she's a 10 but if I'm pretending to be a neutral outsider, probably a 7, that's about what I thought when we first met.
@@kenonerboy black pill = being perpetually alone and scared of women
Me… A 5’5 adult male watching this
👁️👄👁️
cope-or-rope!
5'7 and afraid going to a public mall knowing women are taller than me
Literally all those women were capping when they said they’ll take the loyal guy making 40k a year
And this is why you don’t understand women
Distrust ruins both a relationship and happiness
@@Takobella I understand women just fine. I also know never to believe anything they say when it comes to relationships. Move on and find someone else to bs
@@dmvbawse4265 lmaoooo ya, I can tell you’ve never had a healthy relationship in your life
@@Takobella I wonder why that is... Don't look at divorce stats cuz ignorance is bliss.
Companies don't don't want employees at full time because they'd be required to supply benefits.
No Steven, things have not changed.
August cutting the end of the video right at "Bust"
For many, loyalty is everything. Once that goes, the trust is gone and once your stop trusting your partner the relationship is trash. Affairs are not one night stands. I'd argue Destiny didn't give that enough consideration as to what that really entails. Affairs are long term realtionships. A one night stand is forgivable. Having a whole ass relationship on the side is knowing, ongoing, betrayal.
Destinys theory being destroyed "in real time"
and with classic bias, just refused to acknowledge he might be out of touch and just called them wrong. How can they be wrong about their dating preferences though 😆.
@@wvance0316 What did he say they were wrong about? What theory? Weirdly vague comments. The only thing he argued about was that 30,000 was over McDonalds
That a woman wouldn’t want to date a 54 year old?
18:00 is where destiny completes the sentence in the intro.
they say money can't buy happiness which is bullshit if it's your money, but if it's yr boyfriends money and you feel trapped between that and infidelity your life will be hell.
Ngl the tall guy 70k vs. short guy 250k thing made me depressed for my shorter brothers. Kind of infers that you cannot do enough to make up for height you're just gonna lose out to a taller guy if given a choice. Damn.
There's a study where they see how much income you would need to match a 6' man in terms of attractiveness. For every inch it was about another $20k.
5'6" men need to earn $175,000 additionally per year to be as desirable as 6’ men
Well that’s attraction for you
Height is one of the biggest things women are attracted to. Money can’t beat that for most women
@@amazin7006 it probably is not a linear 20k increase as you go down each inch in height. Like the further you go shorter the more those inches cost
@@andrewgonzalez9002 that research was in 2008. Because of inflation u need even more to compensate for inch
@@Takobella There are no peer-review scientific publications showing the height attraction as genetic.
Destiny didnt catch that chick pick the 40K guy over the 200K guy because of cheating but not the 35K in-shape guy over 80K guy because it was "too low". So clear they are lying.
They are and it's frustrating to see it lol ugh.
Or maybe she just ranks loyalty higher than money in her importance hierarchy,
I don't see the contradiction here. She values loyalty over money, but money over fitness.
I'm tired of Destiny's fan base thinking they know women, when they don't even leave their houses or have the courage to text a woman.
Only if you’re too stupid to understand that loyalty trumps money but money trumps looks.
Destiny really needs to consider the fact that he isn’t that concerned with monogamy and a life long relationship, is blinding him in certain areas
I was getting scheduled 40 hours a week during the pandemic because there was a shortage of workers
So if you are short you have to pay a 180k a year tax. Well, thats... Fcked up
Yo! Destiny! I made a street interview about height, looks and money. However, it is in the Asian context and it is in an anime convention haha. Perhaps it is different answers compared to the West thinking?
Ouch, destiny calling 5,4 Manlet short while I'm out here at 5.2
The average height for male prisoners in the USA is 5'11".
On your comment on Adderall at 1:23 -- From someone who's been taking it for 10 years, I think most people are taking way more than they need. When I was 18, I wanted to get the highest does I could (30mg IR x2). I never met anyone who took 15mg, let alone 30mg who didn't get high from it. Now I take 3.25mg (15s split in four) and I still get a euphoric spike around 30 minutes after, so in my experience that never fully goes away, even at low dosages and with 10 years of tolerance. There's a lot of denial from people when taking that high of dose (I know first hand), but the reality is, most people can lower their dose with no affect to their concentration. It's all about understanding what you're trying to accomplish, being honest as to how you are experiencing the drug, and dialing in the dose to minimize risks to your health.
Anyway, back to your regularly scheduled black pill video.
Every video lately I go and try to change the quality then I'm like oh.. yeah.. lmao
9:00 Why I disagree with Steven but 100% respect him. He knows what its like to work.
What if the house is yours and you have your family live with you because you like taking care of them? Very common in Latin house holds
Unfortunately in America and I'll never understand it, the sentiment is "grow up start your own family" I'm at the point where my grandfather is breaking hips and falling g I'm planning on moving back in with family to help out. Idk nowadays with people and this concept of family being a bad trait
Destiny goes on a hiphop podcast and now he's talking about "That's Cap 🤣"
“A 3 though a 3” destiny that’s you lol
"You dont have to be attractive" I call bullshit
I think there's something to be said that a cheating man with money isn't that actual worth to a single partner. For example if a man makes 100k but is stepping out and has say a main chick and 2 or 3 side chicks. To a single main chick that dude is probably closer to a 60k if not less. I mean imagine all the money he is going to be spending on the side/multiple chick arrangements(dates, trips, simping, ect) that the main chick doesn't get. In that sense a loyal man making less is just more resources for you but maybe that's my big cope.
Nope that makes sense to me too. No amount of money will mend your broken heart after finding out you're being cheated on. Besides worrying about STD's, the side chick getting pregnant, the shame when other people find out. Look at Adam Levine and that dude of the Try Guys, it's a big ordeal for everyone involved. At least for me, it's not worth it.
bro why are these videos in 240p even when i select 1080p? is something wrong with my pc or this channel?
600k subs nice
18:47 Those are called mentalcels, aka they aren't really incels, they could've slayed if they unironically just become confident
Dumb asf. "you wouldn't be this way if you were different" no shit
Bruh don't use BP terminology in the normie communities.
But why aren't they confident?
@@erodey3133 "Muh secret online club everyone knows about". lol
@@emptyblank099a everyone took their memes and lingo while still shitting on them lol
for me it depends whether he will complain if i wear heels, im 5'3 and i dont mind if he doesnt mind 🤷🏼♀️
what if he is 2 (two) feet tall !!??! 😱
I don't get the euphoria from Adderall, but it sure as shit helps me sit the fuck down and do things.
Damn when he called 5’4 going to the extremes. I felt attacked.
Abs are not something you just get, it takes work. So if you assume the fit guy works out, that might just be the whole difference between them. 50 pounds on someone at or above average height is not much, that can be gone in 6 months easy.
Man 35mgs for your first time, with or without xr is A LOT, but agreed at that dose for your first time, you literally feel like you can read minds
My personal cope is that all these questions are setups where the only out is to chose one or the other whereas in reality people are much more flexible and it'd all come down to the kind of person you are.
Kinda weird that we got the least amount of answers for the sex life question and the answers we did get we the black pill ones. It's almost as if this channel was geared towards that audience
Yea destiny using the Andrew tate strategy. target lonely men
@@vicvic2081 it's not destiny or his editors fault that courty ryan is trying to profit off of red pill weirdos