Penuel The Black Pen | In Conversation With Xoli Mfeka, Parents, Pornography, Onlyfans, Boyfriend

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  • Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024

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  • @sergemulapa6935
    @sergemulapa6935 Год назад +130

    Penuel is slowly taking over the podcast industry, his ability of questioning uncomfortable questions in a polite way, the way he makes his guests comfortable, he always manages to ask what we the public wanna ask his guests. I salute and respect you bro! 👌🏾 Let's continue growing the family.
    #Thepenshow

  • @yonelatshambu9470
    @yonelatshambu9470 Год назад +425

    Everytime I watch an interview by a Pornstar I start to think of the addiction I struggled with for YEARS of watching porn. I later on realized that it's causing me depression anxiety plus isolation, I am really fearful of this industry, I am not a religious guy at all I just feel more and more young human beings are being subjected to this content and it destroys them BIG TIME. Who ever created the Porn industry created a CRAZY form of Addiction. It really affects your spiritual realm we think it's not that DEEP. We don't understand how semen is POWER

    • @sjdutoit2140
      @sjdutoit2140 Год назад +19

      Agreed... ita become to freely available. My issue is that this industry is extremely misunderstood. Ur issue mst addressed as an individual. If it was not made to be so underhanded or even as a bad thing then mayb we need to address some of the mindsets arnd porn becoz she is getin paid openly and others do it underhandly... which is worse? If u listen to her.... she still wnts an intimate relationship and wnts her man to be her man... bt sex wrk is wrk... it does tke away her feelings of values... so... access to sexual content has becme easier bt i still think we mst tke our own individual responsibility for our actions and choices as to what we and our children consume

    • @lelitya04
      @lelitya04 Год назад +10

      Yhoo my Brother, you put it so well.

    • @BeingMelony
      @BeingMelony Год назад +39

      I feel you brother. It's still a fight on my side, makes me sad. I always advise everyone never to open that door because once you open it....its difficult to close it. Big ups to you for overcoming that.

    • @abellekalakala5079
      @abellekalakala5079 Год назад +3

      Eish bhuti it's dad I have been there

    • @siphesihleseipei8198
      @siphesihleseipei8198 Год назад

      Many entertainment industry is ruled by dark spirits, with knowing, some they know

  • @ibhudacreations7641
    @ibhudacreations7641 Год назад +235

    Pen’s ability to articulate his thoughts is world class. Respect Bro🤝

  • @msngema1380
    @msngema1380 Год назад +80

    Love Xoli, there is something about her that Is genuine. Thanks Pen for making her feel comfortable.

  • @khwezindlovu2101
    @khwezindlovu2101 Год назад +327

    The Penuel Show with Xolo Mfeka
    00:00 - INTRO
    00:05 - Biography & Family
    08:00 - Sex education & consent
    13:20 - OnlyFans
    25:25 - Behind The Scenes
    28:30 - Shooting hardcore pornography
    34:35 - Work relationships
    39:50 - Fame & money
    46:40 - Romantic relationship
    52:00 - Finances & investments
    1:03:00 - STI's & protection
    1:06:25 - Adult entertainment industry
    1:20:55 - ENDS

  • @raymondmalatji1034
    @raymondmalatji1034 Год назад +375

    Less than 3 minutes into the interview and she confirmed what most of us suspected.
    Fatherlessness is a serious pandemic!

    • @therevivaltv4256
      @therevivaltv4256 Год назад +16

      Yep

    • @FabianiRose
      @FabianiRose Год назад +57

      My thoughts exactly, if men really wanted to change the world they’d stay home and love their families.

    • @amapianolive5050
      @amapianolive5050 Год назад +8

      @@FabianiRose Men again? Yoh

    • @andiswabeki9720
      @andiswabeki9720 Год назад +10

      No father figures were there. Grandpa and Stepdad

    • @FabianiRose
      @FabianiRose Год назад +1

      @@amapianolive5050 Time and time again, yeah. I'd know. Looking at her is like looking in the mirror, she is me and I am her. Her smile is sitting on my face.
      We're responding to the comment, aren't we?

  • @Afrikanist
    @Afrikanist Год назад +283

    Truth be told, Penuel is a very good interviewer

  • @nomalungelomthimunye9579
    @nomalungelomthimunye9579 Год назад +111

    Penuel asks good questions, in a polite manner. I loved this interview because he went so deep, questions we never heard from other potcasts.
    You the GOAT🙌

    • @blessingnyathi3751
      @blessingnyathi3751 Год назад +3

      I think he got too deep and sounded a bit more intellectual than Xoli he could’ve balanced it better

    • @lwandodyantyis3292
      @lwandodyantyis3292 Год назад +1

      Nah, he good,he levels up,n keeps shut professional

    • @lwandodyantyis3292
      @lwandodyantyis3292 Год назад +1

      U have to balance the equilibrium, set the tone

  • @lionelscarf2872
    @lionelscarf2872 Год назад +116

    Tjo, Pen, you actually humanized her. This is the most decent corn star interview I have ever seen. You spoke to her like an actual person. She is so calm and she is opening up and enjoying herself.
    Dankie Black Pen. 🙏🏿

    • @suzygirl1843
      @suzygirl1843 Год назад +8

      I think he realized he couldn't judge because he has baby mamas

    • @thobanivitaleous2837
      @thobanivitaleous2837 Год назад +3

      Nothing is Humane about pornography

    • @lionelscarf2872
      @lionelscarf2872 Год назад

      @@thobanivitaleous2837 read my statement again. You obviously lack comprehension, I hope you do not help any child with their homework because wow, complete fail.

    • @auvlad6686
      @auvlad6686 Год назад

      @@suzygirl1843 🤣🤣🤣🔥

  • @JOSEPH-is7wp
    @JOSEPH-is7wp Год назад +53

    Pen....gosh I am lost for words with just how you are breaking boundaries. Theres no stopping this guy.

    • @comfortada.8464
      @comfortada.8464 Год назад

      I like the maturity of this show.
      The calibre , magnitude and depth of thought provoking conversation is exceptional

  • @bonganisibeko3892
    @bonganisibeko3892 Год назад +47

    Penuel's studio is top-tier. Lighting and sound is incredibly awesome. 👌

  • @katleholetsiri
    @katleholetsiri Год назад +45

    My first time watching this show and I’m so impressed. Penuel is such a brilliant conversationalist. I’ve watched Xoli in other interviews and always thought she has a good head on her shoulders but this one showed the full range of her personality. Well done! (Also, you’ve gained a subscriber)

  • @rodneysandilemnisi4681
    @rodneysandilemnisi4681 Год назад +41

    The God Penuel, have watched the evolution of this show. You empowered my mind, self belief and overall confidence to chase my dreams

  • @TimCidy
    @TimCidy Год назад +48

    Pen knows how to ask questions that are intimidating /rude n he has mastered a skill to ask em in a clean manner🎉

  • @sibonilekhumalo7212
    @sibonilekhumalo7212 Год назад +64

    I love how they grew more comfortable with each other as the episode went

    • @Nhamo3
      @Nhamo3 Год назад +3

      Yea she became more open.

  • @hlonelikhayagxashe4633
    @hlonelikhayagxashe4633 Год назад +41

    One thing about Penuel, he will humanise any situation and give you another perspective about how other people live. This was powerful, thank you for making Xoli comfortable with her choice ✊

    • @suzygirl1843
      @suzygirl1843 Год назад +2

      He can't really judge her. He's a serial baby mama maker

  • @mkhenebuli7903
    @mkhenebuli7903 Год назад +101

    You're really breaking boundaries. It seems people have boxed you . This is a real blow 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mdumisenimthethwa4052
    @mdumisenimthethwa4052 Год назад +14

    What i like about these girl is that she's genuine she doesn't act like Saint on what she's doing,while other celebrity women's act as if they work hard for their money,career and want to be role model to other upcoming,Xoli's never disappoint the women's work

  • @randomfacts9873
    @randomfacts9873 Год назад +21

    Love how this was such an open and respectful conversation

  • @tjrmakhetha
    @tjrmakhetha Год назад +50

    Best Camera Shots of any podcast I know, Quality Conversations, Super interesting Guests👌
    If this channel was featured on Rotten Tomatoes 🍅it would be 90-100% certified fresh🙌

    • @thulitukisi1711
      @thulitukisi1711 Год назад +3

      This could've easily been a pun

    • @tjrmakhetha
      @tjrmakhetha Год назад

      @@thulitukisi1711 😂elaborate

    • @thulitukisi1711
      @thulitukisi1711 Год назад +3

      @@tjrmakhetha errh, best camera shots, interesting guests, and the line of work she's in
      .. if you don't gerrit, you don't gerrit. Errh

    • @tjrmakhetha
      @tjrmakhetha Год назад +2

      @@thulitukisi1711 😹😹😹😹😹😹dope

  • @terrencemkhululigxamza2472
    @terrencemkhululigxamza2472 Год назад +15

    Big ups to Pen ..what a professional interview/conversation. This is more insightful and a different approach to a taboo and I suppose what is a misunderstood and controversial topic...Xoli takes her work seriously...much respect to her as unconventional as it maybe she owns her truth and space👌🏾👌🏾

  • @tumim8271
    @tumim8271 Год назад +64

    Being child free is one of the greatest choice one can make if you don't want to be a parent. You can do whatever you want with your life without thinking of any responsibilities of parenthood.
    After all its not a must to have kids.
    I support her on that.

    • @doomerboy6373
      @doomerboy6373 Год назад +3

      especially with her line if work

    • @SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq
      @SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq Год назад +1

      To each his own. Even Oprah, mother of the nation, decided long-ago that she didn't want kids. She doesn't owe anyone any kids.
      🖤 🖤 🖤 she knows what she's doing.

    • @tumim8271
      @tumim8271 Год назад

      @@SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq Yea Parenting is on a different sphere, Most people are not maternal but still go on with it.

    • @projectxtechnologies9440
      @projectxtechnologies9440 Год назад

      Lol so you found validation

    • @tumim8271
      @tumim8271 Год назад +1

      @@projectxtechnologies9440 Nah from a very Young age i knew i was not maternal. That's i didn't make any babies and i'm glad i did. To me its self-caring and loving myself. i enjoy my space and i'm always changing places or travelling so kids won't fit my lifestyle. they will just bring me stress.

  • @thandisbeauty5586
    @thandisbeauty5586 Год назад +15

    Xoli is so chilled I watched their show “My Body Works For Me” she was always the calm one I love her shame and her sense of reasoning 👌🏽

  • @noluthandokubheka6428
    @noluthandokubheka6428 Год назад +25

    First time watching Penuel's interview and I must say im impressed with his skills🙌🙌♥️

  • @shirinthomas3119
    @shirinthomas3119 Год назад +16

    Such respect and professionalism shown toward such a controversial topic. A very well done interview

  • @BlackRose-rk7zs
    @BlackRose-rk7zs Год назад +10

    Took me a few days to finish this one- busyness. I love how Penuel handles his interviews; you can tell that his intelligence & innate respect lead him. 😍

  • @vuyisekamgweba2952
    @vuyisekamgweba2952 Год назад +8

    She is not Xhosa bro many will come out they will get tired of pretending. this thing isn't about tribe it's about personal choices. God bless you with your attitude.

  • @BlaqSteaze5170
    @BlaqSteaze5170 Год назад +5

    Pen's intricate way of questioning and the compensatino after he blurts why out louder than he anticipted himself!! Beautful interview bhuda, I hope women see this and appreciate Xoli's hustle, she did it her own way. Salutas XOLISILE MFEKA!

  • @zuzuh5755
    @zuzuh5755 Год назад +13

    Xoli is so cool! Beautiful lady.Big up for taking care of your home.

  • @OGLechaba
    @OGLechaba Год назад +9

    You know what, this conversation has made me understand this space a bit better.
    It still makes me uncomfortable but I am a bit more understanding.
    Thank you Pen.

  • @nielsvandenburg
    @nielsvandenburg Год назад +25

    Wait wait wait, wena your siblings are Penrose and Penson, and you are Penuel! That is crazy vibes, shout out to the parents

  • @mrmsports2419
    @mrmsports2419 Год назад +104

    Xoli's boyfriend is a strong dude, mentally and emotionally. Big up to him. I wouldn't be able to survive the thought of my girl being "smashed" & "cut" multiple times

    • @lozi4163
      @lozi4163 Год назад

      He probably not a straight man, no straight man can stand such, is not in our nature and people should respect how nature made us

    • @christopheroscar6058
      @christopheroscar6058 Год назад +15

      he does not need to be strong , very simple just dont spend on her simple

    • @mrmsports2419
      @mrmsports2419 Год назад +14

      @@christopheroscar6058 I meant, seeing content of your partner being sexual and physical with someone else

    • @christopheroscar6058
      @christopheroscar6058 Год назад +17

      @@mrmsports2419 thats why i said , once you dont spend on her , and probably she does the spending, then there is noting to worry about , after all they are not married , , and they have no kids , i know when its time for marriage , he surely wont marry her , he manage the content for the other account , meaning he is making money , and just bearing the title of Boyfriend .....

    • @andrettam6896
      @andrettam6896 Год назад

      @@mrmsports2419 lol

  • @dumisanisangweni2318
    @dumisanisangweni2318 Год назад +34

    We can lie to ourselves as much as we want and try to sound politically correct or neutral.. but if we're being honest... she is DAMAGED. Her warped perception of intimate relationships is glaring. Plus daddy issues too. BUT I respect how she is honest about vs all the other instagram hunnies who pretend to be self-made hardworkers when "zikhala" in the background with "sponsors". Oh, poverty played a part too.

    • @yethugamedze7317
      @yethugamedze7317 Год назад +1

      Childhood trauma 💔

    • @mbalenhlendaba497
      @mbalenhlendaba497 Год назад +3

      Imimoya futhi iyezwana .her mom had her at 15. Nako loko kuyinxenye ye behavior yakhe . Kuyena kuyi hlazo but she will not admit.

  • @SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq
    @SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq Год назад +9

    I absolutely love Xoli. Not for her work. I just think she'd be cool to chill with. Nice personality. The accent. The braces. 😍

    • @PetrolheadCustoms
      @PetrolheadCustoms 15 дней назад +1

      Lies you love her work.😂😂😂

    • @SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq
      @SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq 14 дней назад +1

      @@PetrolheadCustoms used to. It's all in the past now. 😜
      Now I'm in love with Kiki Minaj from UK 🇬🇧
      Time flies. 🛫

  • @veemuyambo
    @veemuyambo Год назад +20

    The quality of the Sound and Video is crisp.Penuel show killing it , 70k subscribers impressive , keep going man

    • @letlaka8812
      @letlaka8812 Год назад +1

      Thought i was the only one thinking that the sound is super crisp!!!

  • @Bjm365
    @Bjm365 Год назад +8

    Pen I like how mature you keep in this conversation bro, lol even when you give off some cues for morality, introspection and just sheer knowledge and awareness of the subject and she sometimes missing it - you keep it subtle and composed, that's power bro. And it's good that you're not judgmental but although one can tell you wouldn't condone such work, that's to some extent compassion 😊

  • @sibongileviolet887
    @sibongileviolet887 Год назад +32

    I love Xoli besides her work nje but she's a cool person and responsible.

    • @PetrolheadCustoms
      @PetrolheadCustoms 15 дней назад

      "Besides her work" 😂😂😂you be stealing yourself with lotion at night

  • @boitumelomontwedi2796
    @boitumelomontwedi2796 Год назад +13

    More Father's! More Strong Man! And More Financial Education! Let's Go!

    • @fanamlawuli6761
      @fanamlawuli6761 Год назад +2

      Psh,! with women like these, I don't think so, certainly have no right to ask anything either then money they get for sex, nothing!

  • @Perseverance.Nosizwe
    @Perseverance.Nosizwe Год назад +8

    I'm really entertained by how Xoli Mfeka answers the interview 😊❤

  • @reashumaservices7021
    @reashumaservices7021 Год назад +11

    We should start respecting people's decision to be children free. Why is it that when a woman says she doesn't wanna have kids we start questioning her reasons for not wanting to be a mother, like there is something wrong with her and wanting to change her decision?🤨

    • @tlangelanijaunty1868
      @tlangelanijaunty1868 Год назад +1

      Thank you. It was very cringe worth when he pushed that she should change. I feel like I would have told him where to get off. It's normal to not want kids, she is responsible yes but doesn't mean she's got motherly instinct. We have responsible women who've got kids, a job and doing well financially but that motherly love lacks within them.

  • @lorrenzom
    @lorrenzom Год назад +45

    The amount of times Pen kept asking WHY?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @TheVillagePrince
    @TheVillagePrince 9 месяцев назад +2

    Xoli is such inspiration in her on way. Personally I love her interviews, she is straight about her business and mindful. Keep pushing my sister there's no manual to this life thing.

  • @Syamthembu5
    @Syamthembu5 Год назад +3

    Superwoman Xoli 🙏🙌 💯 I respect you and your Boyfriend he is a supporting guy 🙌 and Thank you Penuel for this platform we learn a lot here.

  • @KiDXLiveon88
    @KiDXLiveon88 Год назад +63

    Pen is amazing at interviews. This is groundbreaking.

  • @sydneymaswanganyi
    @sydneymaswanganyi Год назад +69

    Penuel is a great interviewer.

  • @Styles103
    @Styles103 Год назад +5

    Keep up the good work Pen. You made her comfortable & gave us exactly what we wished for. Good interview big bro

  • @matotokanteme2965
    @matotokanteme2965 Год назад +3

    Penuel is great.The good straight questions.Friendly and firm.Xoli sounds like a great person.

  • @sollynkgalabimankga6012
    @sollynkgalabimankga6012 Год назад +14

    This is was a powerful interview.. different perspective of life ❤❤❤❤.. thank you guys ❤❤

  • @sibonilekhumalo7212
    @sibonilekhumalo7212 Год назад +15

    Love it when she says LET'S GOOOO!!! 😂

  • @khayalethupolisa2775
    @khayalethupolisa2775 Год назад +7

    She knows what she's doing.. she's content and very wise ... she's doing herself..you can feel the energy she's happy and at peace...

    • @hlengiwemasondo2858
      @hlengiwemasondo2858 Год назад

      But for her mother and step father to take her money? No man

    • @khayalethupolisa2775
      @khayalethupolisa2775 Год назад +2

      @hlengiwemasondo what's wrong with that??angithi she's work to change the situation at home like the rest of us??she did voluntary and at some point they rejected her money.. obviously in a respectful manner..the lady is intentional

  • @dreadgoy7688
    @dreadgoy7688 Год назад +3

    Yho. She's really living. And by that I don't mean "flashy" and opulent, but she's so complacent and comfortable with her life. Her words aren't fabricated, she just says her shit., doesn't even seem to be fazed or concerned about what other people may be thinking abt what she says. She's so cool.

  • @nezisanogumla9730
    @nezisanogumla9730 Год назад +5

    We went to same college with her she was very decent and kind had the good sexy body n never flaunts or be arrogant just because she was all that n funny enough I still see that in her right now ❤❤❤

  • @Tefl-Tesol-teacher
    @Tefl-Tesol-teacher Год назад +18

    I love this chilled funny side of u Pen, awesome interview as ussual❤❤❤
    shout out to Xoli for her boldness, i'm sure we've all learnt something from her...

    • @fanamlawuli6761
      @fanamlawuli6761 Год назад

      Speak for yourself 😁😁, I've learnt nothing from damaged goods like her

  • @X9Daily
    @X9Daily Год назад +6

    Firs time watching this Podcast, feels great to know both Penuel and Xoli. Love it!
    Thanks for the show you guys❤️

  • @XhrisNathanmonaco
    @XhrisNathanmonaco Год назад +3

    Pen is intelligent the show is much more calm and you are not focus on more to laugh but to learn on both side he is sharing his own past and also the guest is sharing deep thoughts too

  • @masonwabemredlana1088
    @masonwabemredlana1088 Год назад +17

    "These are freelancers?"
    No, I pay them. You go girl

  • @princesstshabalala4102
    @princesstshabalala4102 Год назад +3

    I cannot say it enough times how eye opening this platform is Abuti Penuel...And I must admit I was so wrong about the lady and every other lady who does ONLYFANS.She really does sound level headed

  • @Missjustbe
    @Missjustbe Год назад +6

    You are actually a chilled person...mmmmh who would have thunk it. Great Interview Penuel.

  • @Prof_100
    @Prof_100 Год назад +18

    Xoli must get into the Reality TV space. She's got it in her.

    • @KingThabiso
      @KingThabiso Год назад

      🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮

    • @lwandodyantyis3292
      @lwandodyantyis3292 Год назад +1

      I like xoli

    • @Prof_100
      @Prof_100 Год назад

      @Lwando Dyantyis Same here, she's such a bubbly personality 😊

    • @dt7894
      @dt7894 Год назад

      This is one of the reasons why our society has been full of degeneracy

    • @FictionHubZA
      @FictionHubZA Год назад

      No.

  • @lsddotswimsTV
    @lsddotswimsTV Год назад +6

    Invite Bongani Chavalala back. His episode is one of my favorites on your channel... If you can, bring more people like him.

  • @victortshikororo6024
    @victortshikororo6024 Год назад +14

    I really liked this conversation. It went exactly how I was hoping it would. Respect to Pen for bringing a bit of respectability to an otherwise devoid of respect industry and way of life. I hope to see more guests of this nature on

    • @makabongwemetuso6977
      @makabongwemetuso6977 Год назад

      Why is it "devoid" of respect?

    • @seektruth5750
      @seektruth5750 Год назад +1

      @@makabongwemetuso6977 because it’s disgraceful work

    • @victortshikororo6024
      @victortshikororo6024 Год назад

      @@seektruth5750 in your opinion it is

    • @makabongwemetuso6977
      @makabongwemetuso6977 Год назад

      @@seektruth5750 I wanted @Victor to provide me with that answer

    • @makabongwemetuso6977
      @makabongwemetuso6977 Год назад +1

      @@victortshikororo6024 its not his opinion, its that of humanity at large. It indicates low moral standards that's why it is disgraceful. By allowing strangers to take her sexual energy she's fixing herself

  • @wendymapholo7313
    @wendymapholo7313 Год назад +6

    This was a beautiful interview. Pen keep up the good work, its imperative to create a safe space for one to be themselves.
    I wish to come over for an interview about Young business entrepreneurs that take advantage of disadvantaged youth.

  • @nosiphondlovu6751
    @nosiphondlovu6751 Год назад +7

    I officially like this show. Power to Pen ✊🏾

  • @kingsleyselinda8150
    @kingsleyselinda8150 Год назад +6

    It's 03:37am and I'm watching this interview for the second time as it's too much 🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯.

  • @thembasishi309
    @thembasishi309 Год назад +3

    respect to Penuel, he kept this interview professional never fell off the square, respect fam

  • @sinelizwinkwali9845
    @sinelizwinkwali9845 Год назад +1

    Penuel made her feel so comfortable and his line o questioning wasn't undermining but came across as a conversation. Woow I liked it!

  • @tsepangmokhele6111
    @tsepangmokhele6111 Год назад +4

    Well done Penuel on this interview I think it changes the whole narrative on how u conduct ur interviews. Tapped into a different space💯💯

  • @nkonzonkonzo2063
    @nkonzonkonzo2063 Год назад +2

    Best camera operator, I really enjoyed your shot where you focuses on Xoli's hands and then tilted the camera up to Penuel's head👏👏

  • @gugulethu4155
    @gugulethu4155 Год назад +17

    I find it hard to go to strips clubs...i no longer watch porn...looking forward to hear Xolis perspective and ofcourse i trust Pen to carry this with ease he always does

  • @mthobisi6624
    @mthobisi6624 Год назад +4

    We give thanks Penuel for being yourself and rooted on your principles.

  • @ryknetwork3070
    @ryknetwork3070 Год назад +22

    You are doing an amazing job, I love the variety of guests 💪💪

  • @TheADFamily
    @TheADFamily Год назад +26

    Pen, I ask this with all due respect. There are some videos I can't understand because of the language barrier and I respect that that is the mother tongue of the guests so it's fine, I try and listen and I can get a general understanding of what's being said coz I am south african after all, but I'm english speaking.
    Could you perhaps in the future when it's okay with you maybe start adding subtitles for us as your audience that really want to listen and live everything and everyone you host, but can't understand sometimes alot of what's being said.

    • @devol_1
      @devol_1 Год назад +3

      learn a native language ! you won't get any subtitles here. TSEK !

    • @japrosper7240
      @japrosper7240 Год назад

      Irony

    • @Penuelism
      @Penuelism Год назад +30

      Thank you for the suggestion. Will definitely discuss with the team and see how we can try sort this out in future 🙏🏽

    • @seektruth5750
      @seektruth5750 Год назад +18

      @@devol_1 that was rude and unnecessary

    • @MackGoru
      @MackGoru Год назад +2

      ​@@devol_1 mara 😂

  • @sothapantsunyora6655
    @sothapantsunyora6655 Год назад +10

    I believe this was the hardest interview for Penuel, he was there driving it the entire time because girl can't flow in sequence with her chain of thoughts for long. Anyway I feel like this woman doesn't know herself fully, I hope one day she can find and clearly define herself because at this point I feel she's just going with the flow plus it doesn't hurt the money is coming in too. Money neh. Danger.

    • @BlackRose-rk7zs
      @BlackRose-rk7zs Год назад +4

      Well thought out & put comment. You are very correct, she has probably learned to mask the disability to engage in quality conversation at length by putting out the nonchalant front.
      I mean I don’t feel a way about her , she can do her…. However it would’ve been so dope to see a girl able to express herself intelligently and hold a conversation well ; just to see she doesn’t fall into the stereotype of girls that become what she is.

    • @sothapantsunyora6655
      @sothapantsunyora6655 Год назад +2

      @@BlackRose-rk7zs You nailed it, yes it was disappointing but not suprising to learn that she isn't that intelligent , she just have guts because otherwise why would she agree to talk to Penuel if she fails so hard to thoroughly apply her mind, its just guts and being shameless. Good for her I guess.

    • @BlackRose-rk7zs
      @BlackRose-rk7zs Год назад +1

      @@sothapantsunyora6655 good for her in today’s world. Absolutely. Being shameless is held as a virtue nowadays and gutsy. We no longer expect women to be of substance & generally people are allowed to be whomever they choose, no accountability.

  • @malefetsanesebajoe9766
    @malefetsanesebajoe9766 Год назад +3

    So diplomatic this guy, Big up man 👏

  • @siphesihlelindokuhle4213
    @siphesihlelindokuhle4213 Год назад +22

    Penuel really wants to get to the psychological part of this work. All the "WHY"s 😅. Your analogy around prostituting other body parts was facinating.Great interview GOD PEN✌

    • @lopezdube9043
      @lopezdube9043 Год назад

      Exactly
      Some of those WHY are unfair questions

  • @sylvestert7490
    @sylvestert7490 Год назад +4

    At the end there is heaven and hell. That equation must be balanced well. No matter how much we may talk of freedom of choice, we will all account for our actions.

  • @mstr4164
    @mstr4164 Год назад +11

    Interesting interview, Xoli is so chilled.

  • @Beatbanguni
    @Beatbanguni Год назад +27

    Penuel is spicing it up 😅

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali Год назад +1

      Hahahah 😂neh? He’s great

    • @Beatbanguni
      @Beatbanguni Год назад +1

      @@ipostsongs5305 i almost relapsed from this one i had to be strong

  • @PasekaNqumashe-j1x
    @PasekaNqumashe-j1x Год назад +16

    Just like Penuel I'm judging her but I'm not judging her😂

  • @siyabongangcobo2009
    @siyabongangcobo2009 Год назад +8

    the one word answers at least you were able to make a come back everytime and keep the conversation, first 30 minutes she made you put in that work🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @savagetau
    @savagetau Год назад +13

    this episode is dope and better than i though it would be. Big up to you Pen and Xoli especially that you made her comfortable to speak, i also think you should have driven the conversation to be a bit longer..... otherwise intswempu le episode 👏👏👏

  • @combomalikongwa1407
    @combomalikongwa1407 Год назад +4

    I honestly don't have a problem with her line of work. But I'm dazzled by her intelligence,,ESPECIALLY with that line of work (no offence) I'm like wow🤤🤤 you truelly never know till we listen ey,and i just realised how judgemental i am lol 🤦‍♀️
    I love her honesty and contentcy ❤

  • @luyandazangwa2951
    @luyandazangwa2951 Год назад +18

    I watched for 4 minutes then I realize Penual is a psychologist by nature

  • @DanielRobert200_
    @DanielRobert200_ Год назад +8

    This interview Was Awesome Guys!!! 🎉

  • @hamiltonmefolo5831
    @hamiltonmefolo5831 Год назад +5

    Hawu uXoli Mfeka 😂
    Panuel you are a genius salute

  • @babyboycansing3141
    @babyboycansing3141 Год назад +3

    we dont have to watch every content but, its the penuel show!! i think I AM CAPTURED

  • @openminded1957
    @openminded1957 Год назад +11

    Love it when she says "let go"🤣

  • @yamkelabuyeyenxonxo6847
    @yamkelabuyeyenxonxo6847 Год назад +3

    I would like to meet Penuel in my lifetime...... Brilliant mind.... very good in the leading questions...

  • @thapelotsotetsi8434
    @thapelotsotetsi8434 Год назад +2

    I'm starting to love the Penuel show, like that Vusi and DZ interview 🙌🏿💥 now this👌🏾👏🏿

  • @MotsamaiSebakwane
    @MotsamaiSebakwane Год назад +22

    Western values are really messed up. Imagine having this type of career.

    • @babyboom6825
      @babyboom6825 Год назад +6

      Man you can say that sgain

    • @lorrenzom
      @lorrenzom Год назад +3

      And then wena u go to work everyday to report to white people and its fine but u want to biased when others choose a different career?It is a career and she is happy so let it be

    • @makabongwemetuso6977
      @makabongwemetuso6977 Год назад

      Its fine that these values are messed up, but why do we take them as our own?

    • @fionasmith6686
      @fionasmith6686 Год назад

      ​@@makabongwemetuso6977 okay judge Judy

    • @diogeneselcinico2957
      @diogeneselcinico2957 Год назад

      ​@@lorrenzom the sexual liberation movement was started and pushed by white leftist women. Her content is uploaded to a website that is owned by whites and they get a cut of every payment she gets. She too is working for the white man.

  • @ipostsongs5305
    @ipostsongs5305 Год назад +2

    Interviewing skills are getting doper & the is still much more room for growth. Ur great pen, she interesting too.

  • @elonmyidol.
    @elonmyidol. Год назад +29

    Penuel can carry the conversation

  • @richardzungu2447
    @richardzungu2447 Год назад +58

    She's in denial if she thinks her family isn't embarrassed and ashamed by how she makes a living.

    • @mandznomad8665
      @mandznomad8665 Год назад +7

      Wena you know this how? Do you know her family? Do they tell you that they are ashamed?

    • @richardzungu2447
      @richardzungu2447 Год назад +7

      @@mandznomad8665 if it wasn't an issue she would have told her family from the very start... you are delusional if you think any family that has morals and values would want their daughter in this profession If u can call it that. But mayb u okay with it coz mayb nawe u on only fans yourself.

    • @wakkies8226
      @wakkies8226 Год назад +1

      i thought i read that message wrong kganthi u just judging from the start , as what she been saying about people that judges . Nna i loved this show, it was very educational , mindful and learning about others exoerience in life .
      #Letsnotjudgewithoutknowingthe wholestory.
      Clear?😶

    • @sithembisophewa9380
      @sithembisophewa9380 Год назад

      @@wakkies8226 people will have sex emgwaqeni still nithi asingajaji nonsense is nonsense

    • @wakkies8226
      @wakkies8226 Год назад

      @@sithembisophewa9380 i understand you , but remember here she not doing her job in "emgwaqeni" , wena u on a another set, its obvious we not approve having sex on emgqaweni , but at the end its people's choices.❤☺And whatever we continue saying about them , we cant undo what they did . whatever is done is done

  • @nepandoamupanda7333
    @nepandoamupanda7333 Год назад +4

    Love your podcasts show, but could you add subtitles as your guests swicth and speak their native launguage? it will defiantly help

  • @sjdutoit2140
    @sjdutoit2140 Год назад +6

    Great episode. An industry whch is very misunderstood and considering its the oldest industry in the world. I think tht u tried to go more into the psyche of why she does it and understanding tht from a womans perspective it cn be just a job. If it was any other industry then there wld be rights and rules and people would get paid in a professional and formalized... why shld this industry be any different. I also think her confidence and upbringing has held her stead in this type of industry becoz i do believe like in any other worldy things cn get in the way to cope with challanges tht can come. Drugs and other forms of addiction take hold of any1. Big ups to her to understanding her worth and knwing what she is there for.
    Fyi... in the swingers community... its always abt the woman and what the woman says goes. If ever u have bn to a swingers club u will see the rules around tht and its abt the woman and what she will allow
    Bt thts another convo for another day....
    Thanks for tht informative episode. Ur getng better at this and look forward to ur videos... ❤

  • @LenoxMhlanga
    @LenoxMhlanga Год назад +12

    Xoli is a beautiful person both inside and out. God's creation.

  • @zintletsipa6240
    @zintletsipa6240 Год назад +1

    Loved the questions. I was so skeptical about watching this interview because of how raw other podcasts are when they have sex workers as guests. I enjoyed this one

  • @malimchunu9124
    @malimchunu9124 Год назад +8

    Dope interview Penuel... Very informative!!!

  • @lorrenzom
    @lorrenzom Год назад +20

    I see Penuel was trying to get more into the physiology behind what she does😂😂😂😂

    • @niphomahlangu2733
      @niphomahlangu2733 Год назад +3

      Yeah, I saw that too. 😂😂

    • @masilomoshesh1475
      @masilomoshesh1475 Год назад +4

      It's bound to happen when you have to talk to someone in her industry for over an hour. who better to get insight about sex than someone who does it for a living.

    • @djcrypto_sa142
      @djcrypto_sa142 Год назад +2

      Bro, i was like chill bro

  • @kingsleyselinda8150
    @kingsleyselinda8150 Год назад +7

    10min in and i'm already enjoying this conversation and how they are both interacting with one another.. love this...