Analysis of Transgender Rights Debate | Dylan Mulvaney and Bud Light Controversy
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- Опубликовано: 11 апр 2023
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"Their primary customers are not transgender individuals -- rather people who like awful beer." *NO ONE* delivers a more elegant burn than Dr. Grande!
transgender people don’t buy beer?
It's not that bad. Steel Reserve, now that is some piss awful beer.
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Bud light is gross
@@elbassman416 dead now.. so it dont matter..
The disdain in Dr. Grande's voice every time he says "TikTok" adds years to my life.
BEAUTIFUL! What an awesome way of agreeing with something!
@Sara
In my humble opinion we need to just take Tik Tok away from the celestials and just have it run by Americans without any Chinese involvement of any kind. That way the Americans that depend on the revenue they get from their silly Tik Tok videos won’t lose any food off their table. Why not?
He's giving you the years Tiktok took away back
LOL. I also perceived the disdain. Dr.Grande is the master of subtle dissing.
😂😂😂❤
The elegance of shade thrown by Dr. Grande is unmatched.
Elegance of the shade My new fav phrase😅😅😅
De.Grande is the QUEEN of READING, huney. (as in the movie "Paris is burning") 😂🔥💀
somehow he managed to describe Kid Rock as a "musical artist" without any trace of irony
Lol, I love his little one liners, and just generally dry sense of humor!
Coincidentally I just read about a guy who was locked in a Budweiser warehouse for three days. He survived by drinking his own urine.
Lmao good one
Was that guy Dylan?😂
3 days and he’s already drinking urine 😂 he was definitely drinking urine before this. Nobody starts drinking their own urine in 3 days omg
😂😂
@@kimporter1744 is your life really that misrable???
I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video, only speculating on whether or not we are living a nightmare and hoping someone will wake us up soon.
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Best comment right here!
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Men are men and women are women. Simple.
But we woke tho 😂
I appreciate that he didn’t lose sight of the issue of promoting alcohol to younger people…
What about a surgery?
I think they mean people who are of drinking age who already choose to drink. Not create new, underage drinkers.
@@chaoswitch1974 Yeah. Of course. The problem is their tactic. Their aiming very much down in age and with a shotgun full of buckshot. Dylan has a very young audience and the trans are dis proportionally increasing in the youth.
@@chaoswitch1974 No.
ABs own VP made a video stating they were “we after the younger generation. Your kids. The ones who aren’t bigots”.
@@chloehennessey6813 I dunno. My kids are 24 and 25, so I'm okay if they drink light beer.
I was an NCAA athlete and I really appreciate this fair, balanced, and understanding discussion about women's sports.
Thank you, Dr. Grande. These days are challenging on many levels. You brought clarity & I'm very grateful!
“People can do anything they want until it infringes on the rights of others.” I wish this easy concept was able to be understood by everyone.
Amen 🙏🏻
But that’s not what those who want to eradicate transgender believe…funny how he doesn’t mention that. Kaitlin Jenner will never be fully accepted no matter how water she carries.
I’m all for nuance, tho. At least people care about women’s sports now. Should have new category, or two winners. And kids are too young to decide usually. People on the right can do the same thing 😄. That’s where it started!
Especially children!
Not sure that's the full message of the video, lol
That has been the calling card for Libertarians for years, but not many people pay attention.
I can relate to how the Doctor pronounces "Tik-Tok" like it confuses him. It's ok, Doc; it confuses us all.
And he’ll do it the same way every damn time 💀 hahaha
It suggests a subtle hint of disdain.
"TikTok personality" should not exist in our lexicon.
Right! 😂
I felt like there was a 3 minute delay between tick
And tock.
I have written a proverb: “The way you wipe your ass is none of my business unless I can smell it.” I think it applies here.
You are quite a writer " he said after wiping the vomit from around his mouth".
Love the good Doctor! This is a man who is his OWN MAN and is totally unafraid to speak his mind! With a brain that is sharper than a Japanese Katana! He cuts right through the BS! If only there were more people like him around ❤
Dr Grande is an absolute legend at throwing in a scathing comment with a perfectly straight face and never changing his cadence. It’s beautiful and nearly poetic.
That's called dry sense of humor. He so good at it, lol!
Trans people are not mentally ill, Putin is- wow.. what great analysis by Dr. Grande 😂😂😂😂
I would love to hang out with him off video and a few beers - maybe labatt
I absolutely love dry sense of humors.. He's right though, that beer tastes like piss.. Lol
It sounds psychopathic 😅 and always bothers me but the dry humour is funny
I love the way Dr. Grande always says tiktok like it's either some alien term he is just learning for the first time or he just plainly doesn't want to acknowledge it as an actual website 😂
😂 Yes!!! That perfectly describes the vibes it was giving 😂
And he has a tiktok web
Because it is
… or as if it’s a bomb that’s about to go off 😂
He says it like tik is the first name and tok is the last name. Adorable
I love how you keep a perfectly straight face and vocal tone…especially about the taste of the beer 😆. This is a good, straight forward video on this topic. Go Grande!
- I also wanted to add that your clear, considerate and patient and deadpan delivery is wonderful. Thank you for making things apparent and being funny and honest. -
His kinda monotone delivery is calming and there's times when you can tell he probably started chuckling or whatever but his humor although Vulcan dry is appropriate almost always... He had to pull his video on Anne Heche.. of course she hadn't died when he made the video but still it was scathing... I was really disappointed in the doc,, it wasn't like him,, almost like he was trying to be hateful... Sad but true-AHH...
"she noted that the company needed to attract young drinkers." thank you. thank you 🙏🏼 Dr. Grande. I am a recovering alcoholic. I’m 32. you don’t need to be attracting shit. stop 🛑.
Amen.
You know how it works, one day at a time.
Smoking and alcohol as industries were collapsing after millennials like me were growing up around smoking and drinking adults and 3 economic recessions, and increasing mental health awareness. Using culture war marketing is the latest in vogue for dying monopolies.
I'm in recovery as well. 12+ years.😀
Just cos you´re a pisswreck, doesn´t mean everyone else has to suffer
I respect that Dr Grande always manages to restrain himself from diagnosing but only speculating on situations like this. 👍👏👏
It's always a chuckle when people quote this in replies.
I’m only speculating that Budweiser is now the official they/them of beers.
I'll diagnose: Dylan has histrionic personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder.
Doctors CANNOT diagnose someone they HAVEN’T seen, IN PERSON!!!
I respect it as well. But sometimes forces of evil need to be met with forces for good.
The Marketing VP who came up with this Bud Light campaign is on leave from her job (probably permanently).
She was successful in bringing attention to the product, but caused sales and the value of their stock to plummet.
30 billion loss 😂
Good
There is something odd about her face.
I’m very grateful for this video and it wasn’t lost me that he described gender roles as a “social construct”. People should absolutely question what it means to be a woman and a man and confusion and resistance to unfamiliarity does not automatically equal bigotry and hate.
...so, what does
IT mean, THEN?
Only the ignorant would want people to question what it means to be a woman. No male born, once reaching puberty, could have a period, carry a child to birth, or produce milk throughout the day from their breast for that child. Not saying that every woman carries a child, produces milk, or have a period every month. But these are far from the global standard of women.
Penis or vagina that’s what IT means to be a man or a woman.
It means Apathy, or otherwise a preoccupation to things that matter more to someone than some politicized talking points 🤷🏽♂️
I would also like to add that it’s perfectly reasonable to not be up in arms over something that doesn’t “mean anything to me/you personally” (as the clout chasing Redditors and Trans-Trenders like to say) since it’s already pretty dubious how much of this actually matters considering that it’s all ESG Astro-Turfing of culture/Overton Window shenanigans.
When the people who hold all the assets/pensions are trying to force societal changes in bad faith, be skeptical of the celebrities/influencers who want to “be on the right side” 🤷🏽♂️
@@krysivory493 It's been months and you shouldn't expect a response from Mr Carlton because he is not a bright or educated individual. He is clearly slow and, well, let's just say "special". He doesn't have an answer for you, because his ridiculous response has no possible answer other than the negative. Mr Carlton didn't think this through before commenting because of his extremely low IQ and zero common sense. People like him and his complete lack of common sense are incapable of understanding basic science.
bud light identifies as a "beer."
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I still won't respect it as beer lol
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It's actually racoon piss identifying as beer
Yet, in reality it's dish water
I laughed out loud at “ppl who like awful beer.” 😂😂😂
That was also my favorite part 😂
Dr. Grande takes the classy approach when describing Bud Light. I would have said, why is Bud light like making love in a canoe? Because it's fucking close to water!
I'm curious how many Ivy League graduates drink Bud Light 🍻😂.
You're hilarious doc. As a former teleprompter operator, I gotta tell you I love your articulate messages
Yes the battle lines are clearly drawn. Open minded, honest discussions are difficult. Knee jerk reactions and tribalism are much easier ways for many people to deal with difficult and nuanced subjects.
@@RUclipsisterrible I don't understand your comment but I do like your kitten videos.
Dr Grande is a subtle comedic genius
YAS!!!!!! 🙌
For real he is talented.
Big facts
He really is!!
"Tick. Tock." Lol
"She documented her transition on the social media platform Tik............Tok." Absolutely gold!!
Dylan is a fully intact male.
He's just playing dress up for fame, that's what it looks like to me.
But it wasn’t a transition. He facial hair is coming back, she changed he platform after bud lite boycott, she has a penis. Does that make her a penis. My good friend is total transformed to woman to man, she is even appalled how abused the abuse to women and those who truly feel they are of the wrong sex and go through the whole transition. It takes years surgically, psychologically evaluations and hormonal treatment.
@@ellamaeloftus3493huh?
From now on this is how I say TikTok
Him
Always love to hear Dr. Grande’s analysis on the latest big news stories.
Yes. People can do whatever they want as long as they don't interfere with the rights of another.
Mic drop Dr. Grande. This is exactly right.
Thank you so much for mentioning the unfairness in women's sports! Important issue that I wish was addressed more seriously.
Careful now, if you are critical of anyone who has experienced male puberty competing against women in women's sports that can get you labeled as far right.
But with that out of the way, I find it odd how the movement that started to help a vast number of minorities (and really anyone who has had a police encounter without having a spare 50k in the bank to afford a lawyer ) has been transformed slowly into this.
I think it's really important too. xx
Yeah a problem that effects less that 1% of people in this country who. Cares
Haha like you people actually care about “fairness” in women’s sports.
Project more.
@@DMEseter even less than that
For me, this is less about transgender and more about portraying women as people who flit around in bathtubs like 3 year olds wearing a tank top, hiking in high heels and having no idea what March Madness is or even what sport it’s about. I hate the idea that we’ve been reduced to makeup and ponytails with zero intelligence or aptitude for sports.
No, it's not women as a group who's intelligence is being challenged. Just yours. I know it is hard, but just try; not for me, but for all women. Okay, here we go: when you see a woman, trans or cis, they are not representative of ALL women!
What a relief! Now you can go back to selling yourself as not just makeup or ponytails, and having more than two neurons firing (not like the other girls ;) ) without throwing transwomen under the bus. And let's not pretend this wasn't about that in a comment section entirely about a video about transpeople. I have 3 neurons, at least.
Agree. Also that a lot of this is on the cost of women. For example the trans woman who became the woman of the year, the trans woman that became the front figure for Hersheys chocolate Her/she, in sports of course and how the radical group in the trans community who demand that we all accept and play along their rules when it comes to how we speak and think.
@@JonatanRonnlycke What trans woman demands you act exactly as they do? This is bullshit. Trans women want to perform femininity any way they choose, they aren’t forcing anyone else to do the same.
Unlike many, many conservative men and women, who criticise any woman, who doesn’t want children, doesn’t want to give her career for kids, doesn’t want to dress “modestly”, doesn’t accept being slut shamed for having causal sex etc.
Excellent analysis as always. I particularly liked the analogy you used right at the end. 🐨❤️
Brilliant, balanced, and fair analysis 💯 DrGrande !
One of the best topics you have covered!!! 💗
"their primary customers are not transgender individuals - rather people who like awful beer" vicious, but painfully true. Kudos for being able to say that without snickering XD
Wow u basically copied the comment above damn near word for word
I would have given him Kudos if he said HE instead of She for Dylan...
"Like awful beer"?
Well....maybe not "like" but "drink" would be a more accurate verb. (No one actually "likes" Bud Light" 😆)
I’m excited never heard “Tik Tok” pronounced with such apathetic disdain 😂
You're good people, Dr Grande.
Nice work Doc. 👍 Always appreciate your take on things (and people and their group think...)
👌✌️✊
"An unhappy compromise is better than an eternal war." Thanks Dr. G I like that concept. I think I can use that in my life
The tough part is that both sides need to be willing to come together, compromise, and reconcile. It's very clear that one side is refusing to compromise in this situation. We have to agree with everything they say. I've seen dozens and dozens of videos where radicals say they absolutely refuse to compromise.
@@bl0pez772 please name those videos, where radicals say they would refuse to compromise, if you can? I would be interested to learn what you are talking about
What happens when compromise is not possible. If they want to trade the trany community instead of a much larger group, so be it.
They have that right, I have the right to buy or not as I choose. I may prefer to buy from companies that at least pretend to value me.
Like my vote, show me you care about me, and I might vote for you.
I'm a detransitioner, I'm so glad I feel better now and I'm okay with my body. Starting to transition was the worst decision I've ever made but I'm glad I stopped before getting any surgeries.
Edit: I realize I need to explain a few things: I'm from Europe and were I'm from before starting hormones or getting surgery you have to get approved in therapy, I was never approved but I was closed. My therapist wanted me to start them and she also told me that she would get money after I got surgery (I swear it happened, if you don't believe it I don't care). She told me surgeons and therapists have a "deal" and they make a lot it money.
I was 19 so I wasn't a kid.
I believe I felt like I wanted to transition because I have been assaulted and that changed me. I was also not sober and wasn't clear mentally.
I've always been a supporter of the community and this is definitely not being in denial. I was confused and always under too many meds.
I'm now in rehab and about to graduate from college. I'm a woman and I'm happy I never took testosterone or got my boobs cut off. I've learned to love my body.
I want to say again that I'm not against trans people, I believe they exist but I think it should be illegal to let kids transition. I was 19 and I'm glad I had my parents who knew me and knew I wasn't trans. They took the time to understand the situation and talk to me into a bit of clearness.
Detransitioners are real and it's shocking that when we say something like this we get asked for proof and are taken as liars. This is not that rare. I believe detransitioners numbers will unfortunately go up. Listen to us as well and be nice, life wasn't hard for me but I'm starting to get better.
Thank you.
I would love to chat with you... my oldest is trans thankfully isn't planning any surgeries ❤
@Will Rivers who are you talking to? Me? Are you drunk off your Bud Light? Go away
So, you took hormone blockers or got surgery? You went through gender affirming care medically, which takes at least a year (of talking with mental health experts), and you transitioned?
only 2% of those who begin to transition decide to detransition. either way, it's YOUR life, not anyone elses.
I'm glad you did not butcher your body ❤
Budweiser is owned by AB InBev...the parent company of a huge number of beer brands worldwide...if you're drinking beer, even if it's not Bud Light, you're likely still putting money in their pockets...pretty sure they aren't worried about a decline in Bud Light sales, because people just buy more of their other brands not realizing they're still buying from the same company...
I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that some of the people promoting transgender ideology seem to have never interacted in a meaningful way with a transgender person. I would bet that many trans people do not like their personal struggles being used as political fodder.
Ah okay your delusional on so many levels, it's the fault of the conservatives who are obsessed with trans people and also most people don't know who's trans unless they say they are
Most people have zero experience with these people. I personally knew a guy who had been a transsexual, dominatrix, prostitute. Still these people think I don't know what I'm talking about.
that about sums it up.
if anything, being shoved into the spotlight has actually made me delay transitioning, because i don't wanna get murdered by someone who's got the wrong idea. i have a family, i'm an adult and can stick it out a few more years until people (hopefully) forget all about this "debate".
@@birdn4t0r7 oh honey if you waiting until it dies out then oh boy you got some time, also d you watch vaush?
@@birdn4t0r7 I hope your transition goes as well as possible when the time comes. All I see is people trying to closer to some sort of peace of mind, just like everyone else.
I'm a clerk... I used to sell metric tons of Anheuser Busch products. I've sold exactly one 6 pk of Bud Light bottles since this happened. But I'm selling a whole lot more Miller Lite and Coors Light...
Good to hear! Like they said, bud has been losing market share for years. It will continue to do so!
Glad you came here to say that.
😂😂😂
Cat piss is cat piss. I don't get it.
And Coors light also has a pride campaign. Just goes to show people get offended when they are told too.
My Dad always said, "My rights end where your nose begins." In other words, rights are broad, but not to be pushed onto others.
Hear, hear! Well said.
I like it
Pushed is an awful word more like an introduction to new ideas
@@dorothypettijohn1037No. Pushed was the correct word. There’s nothing wrong with an introduction to new ideas. The quote is a common saying that means your rights should not infringe on the rights of others, therefore preventing others from having their own rights.
People just can’t handle it when hetero women or men talk about OUR sexuality but are trying to force this issue. Pushed is the word. I’m just changing channels anymore because I’m sick of if. I don’t care what you want to do, but I’m sick of it. ENOUGH. And I’m a woman not a cis. You’re making up words now for NORMAL BIOLOGICAL PEOPME, yet somehow you don’t understand why people feel pushed. Stop pretending to be what I AM. I’m not a stereotype! My sexuality and feelings matter too. I’m tired of being denigrated as a woman- by men saying they are woman. DNA says it was never meant to be that way and is unchangeable. That’s just a fact. I can’t live in make believe world. If you want to -go ahead. But I can’t go there for several reasons. That pertain to MY PERSONAL CHOICES!
dr. grande dissected this controversy and the debate surrounding trans gender affirming care / rights / sex. very empathetic, constructive but informative video, thanks Dr Grande.
Whoa! So glad I listened to the end. At 16:00, Dr Grande uses the example of a married couple with very different attitudes about spending seeking counseling as an analogy to the way a political solution should be sought. Golden! "The counselor would not tell them that what they need is more hate and accusations rather the therapist would tell them that they need to find common ground and figure out the problem. They need more understanding of each other and there is no rush to make any decisions. In the end, an unhappy compromise is probably better than an eternal war."
Does anyone suspect that Dylan’s Mulvaney is trolling us on an epic scope and scale?
It's certainally possible. You can be anyone on the internet. For all we know he's straight as an arrow!
The word I would use is grifting.
He is a narcissist actor
Yes.
If you watch the FIRST videos in the series that made him famous, "Day One of Girlhood"(and day 2, day 3 etc), it's pretty obvious it was intended as satire...
But I think he ended up trolling HIMSELF- The series became super-popular, but not as satire; As the sincere story of a stunning, brave transwoman... And Dylan was desperate enough for fame (something he's admitted being obsessed with), that he fully commited to the bit.
As a biological woman who is a swimmer. I feel this
Lol We're all women and no trans people are allowed to swim with you - even if they were you would beat them over and over again. That's reality, sister.
Dylan Mulvaney is not transgender he’s had no surgeries he’s had no transgender surgeries bottom or top he’s an actor pretending to be a young girl he is fake trans just like fake news
As a normal human being I find everything about this creepy and unnerving.
For the last several days I’ve been regularly commenting that Riley Gaines would have been a much better choice to grace their beer cans. It would have likely increased their sales
What part
Thank you Dr Grande. You brought realism, compassion & professional insight to this. The rampant 'intellectual laziness' around it
is harming society (division), rather than enlightening.
So excellent, as always, Dr. Grande! Objective, fair, balanced, insightful & compassionate! ❤
I’ve realized why I enjoy your videos so much. You are like the voice of reason and do a great job of breaking down the issues.
This is why I quit drinking 10 years ago.
thanks, this was actually pretty damn level-headed compared to most content on it out there.
I can't imagine a more even-handed or fair-minded survey of this issue. Well done, Doc.
Just speculating on many situations like this.....some people may complain and call him a rightwinger and ask for his license to be pulled. 😂
@@loganw6156 I get what you're saying but literally taking the time to state he'd be respecting the person's pronouns within the first minute and a half of the video should dispel that lol.
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@@lisap5066 ...9?
@@whahappend8222 Sorry, I said that comment in jest. I like Dr. Grande. I was more poking fun at the contemporary climate. :) I really liked his take: compassionate yet fair and realistic
Kid Rock was standing about 20 feet away and he still missed hitting half the beers.
He's lucky those cans weren't shooting back!
He probably emptied the cans himself beforehand
@@RM-mm1lz lol
Boredom is a plague in the country.
such a levelheaded analysis. guess i'm subbing for more.
Dr Grande is consistently a voice of reason amongst the noise. ❤
I almost passed over this video due to the fact that I feel pretty 'over it' right now. I am so glad I 'tuned in'. This was a very fair, reasonable, and compassionate explaination of the opposing views. I love how you give such equal credence. Why can't the world be as rational!!
😂😂 fair and reasonable if you agree with his views. He’s very political and definitely chooses sides in most issues. That’s completely his choice and his channel but fair and reasonable i don’t think so.
It's rational to not tolerate transgenderism.
@@PhillipAntoneOMara No, it's really not. There is a middle ground and I try to find it. It helps that my first exposures to transgender people was long before the radical left took over. There are reasonable, rational transgender people out there. Most of them want to fit into society, not stand out.
@@devinisdead4061 he is, but that doesn’t mean they’re not valid arguments.
@@christerry1773 they are reasonable if you believe they are reasonable. You may think it is reasonable to help a stranded motorist on the highway at 3am. Someone else may see that as being very unreasonable in lieu of the danger it could cause to them.
Thank you for your analysis! Well said 👏
I think the biggest point in this whole discussion is why people would willingly drink bud light to begin with. Dr. Grande, thank you for addressing that it really is awful beer.
I hate that yucky beer.
Haha, word.
Damn Dr. Grande! This was the most honest, insightful, and considerate take on all of this that I’ve heard so far. Good work.
It was also biased and incomplete
@@faith6833 how so? I mean no disrespect just want to know more about what you mean.
@@Kenniyou He completely left out how the right wing media is creating a ramping up of aggressive behavior towards the trans community. Ignored it completely.
That’s just one example.
@@tinyyogini the trans community are taking hits because of the ideology it is pushing. Most people could not care less about things to do with this until those people start banging a drum for things such as what dr grande explained - how do the trans community expect a parent of a biological female to react when someone who is built so different to the others say they are now a woman and can compete as a female with all the advantages that men have over women.
True! I think overlooking the danger that the right wing poses is a big mistake that the US continue to make.
Dr. Grande, this was so well said. Thank you for presenting truth.
I absolutely love how non biased you always manage to stay Dr Grande.
I don't usually comment on videos, but I think I feel compelled to here because it's so refreshing to hear such a balanced and fair analysis of a topic that usually is skewed so heavily in one way or the other. Well done Doc. I agree with the statement that a person's rights extend until they make contact with another person's rights.
Also, I'm not sure if you've already made a video regarding this or if you're familiar with it, but I'd be interested to hear your take on a situation from 1967 where Mr Ron Jones, a history teacher in California ran a social experiment that turned his school into a fascist movement in 5 days, to answer a student's question "How could German citizens participate in Nazism? We would never do that." There was a film made about this event called "The Wave." I ask because I feel there are similarities between it and how our society seems to be trending, and I'd be very interested in your thoughts on this. Thank you!
I saw that movie many years ago, didnt know it was based on a true story...
Exactly. Unfortunately, "fair and balanced" seems to get you disowned from both political party these days
Dude hit the nail on the head
Wow, I've never seen the movie 'the waves thanks for the tip. It sounds interesting.
You're either for freedom & limited government. Or you're for big-government power & control over the people.
I give you lots of credit for talking about this. No matter what you say you'll make lots of people angry.
This is why he remains neutrally diplomatic.
@@brigittebeltran6701He did a great job.
Garf, I think many trans people agree with Dr Grande, and those that dont? Just ignore them, it is all about attention and creating uproar and polarisation. At some point, you cannot take them seriously anymore, you are over it :)
@@brigittebeltran6701 I love that about him, we need more truly centrist/neutral people today.
@@weego2585When we're talking about human rights for a minority group, I find it funny that people are willing to praise the center position or the neutral position merely for being the center position or the neutral position rather than whether or not it's the right call.
Like, take slavery for instance. The center position there was "alright lets keep the slaves we do have but don't get any more from Africa."
Hello doc, love how you talk so nice and calm. Hello from Bay Ridge Brooklyn
First of all, I'm not calling a man a woman nor will I call a woman a man these people are delusional
Someone needed to say ALL of this... Thank You Dr. Grande for saying it so succinctly & perfectly. This was easily one of your best discussions.
It’s weird if someone continually went under surgery to look more like a different race, we would all say they clearly have a mental illness…. However when people do the same in regards to gender and sex, somehow they don’t have a mental disorder? Weird times lol.
@@tommymc7535 It's so obviously a mockery
AMEN!
@@tommymc7535 I'm trans and perfectly content in saying it is a mental disorder. It's just that in some cases, cosmetic surgeries to resemble the opposite sex is the best treatment available. Some might disagree with this choice, not everyone has to like me for it, but as Dr. Grande said we have to co-exist in this world.
@@dr-ozone Well I appreciate you being so open about it… it doesn’t seem like the majority of trans people agree with you. Or maybe the silent majority does and we only see the extreme ones. The only thing is, it has been proven that cosmetic surgeries do not change their suicide rates statistically.
I still don't know if Dr. Grande's deadpan delivery of comedic gold zingers is part of a brilliant shtick, but I'm absolutely here for his poetic alliteration of insightful commentary. Much love from the beautiful Arkansas River Valley 💞
How/where do you get statistics? Just curious, as I've never seen a poll on this subject.
Doc, I've been waiting for your analysis on this one. Stay well doc, much thanks for everything.
I think the issue with women's sports is similar to sports with weight classes. A 170 lb wrestler doesn't fight against a 210 lb wrestler because the physical difference gives the heavier guy an unfair advantage. Even if the 170 lb guy is the best wrestler in his weight class, he cannot do as well going up against someone who is physically larger and more muscular. Same deal with women's sports. What's between your legs doesn't affect your performance but the rest of your anatomy certainly does.
What about Andy Kaufman wrestling women ?
This is true but the main sex hormone in your body will dictate how your anatomy functions. Naturally high testosterone will always have the winning edge - but plenty of cis women have naturally high testosterone and are loudly vilified and accused of being men. Cis women can grow facial hair, have PCOS, have deep voices. It’s less common but not impossible. And they do succeed - but they are hated for it.
So if a trans person has A anatomy and have matching A sex hormones (naturally produced) or B hormones as part of transition. How far into puberty (or post puberty) affects the physiological changes and function of their body, and even the development of it. I just think this nuance is important to be part of the discussion.
But as a trans person if losing all rights to doing sports is what it takes to stop people calling us rapists, mentally sick and pedophiles I honestly feel like it’s a worthwhile trade.
@@KayosHybrid Quit whining. As if not being allowed to complete against women is the same as losing all rights to complete in sports. You can complete fairly against other people of the same sex and you know it. Keep your nasty ass out of all women's separate spaces. You are not a woman. You do not have a woman's body. You imagine yourself as a female caricature that has nothing to do with being a real woman.
You may not be a pedophile, but most transgender biological men are. So consider the company that you keep.
Just like any other body dysmorphia, you are allowed to reject the image of trans and fight to endorse your true sex. You are not more genuine for embracing the lie. You are not God. You cannot change your sex. Your true self is the body you were born in. You don't have to like it.
@@KayosHybrid I don't like being called cis. Can we stop with labels and go back to being people? Sincere question. I do recall a time when we knew that we were being divided and conquered. What happened?
Your humor is HILARIOUS. Love this one, Dr. Grande.
Excellent and on point, as per usual. :) Thank you!
I think what made so many people angry is that many products seem to be politicized now. People don't want politics being constantly injected into their lives, they just want to enjoy their lives and not always think about politics.
Do you think that maybe if Kid Rock hadn’t made his video, nothing would have happened? It’s been a long time since the beer company has supported the rainbow and I don’t remember the snowflakes crying about it.
Well, tough shit. Issues need to be addressed
if you are transgender, the same people make your life very "political," so it's hard to worry about their politics free drinking experience.
Political is making laws that ban trans people from existing, putting Dylan on a can isn’t a big deal at all.
The real issue is it seems to be okay depending on what the SUBJECT is on both sides..so it’s a never ending distraction. Yes I said distraction. Everyone is focused on silly things when there’s much bigger things going on..
Thank you for approaching this sensitive topic, and for doing it in your usual objective, scientific manner. Given how divided the American society is where most public figures (and not only) pick a "side", it's difficult to find someone who uses logical, informed and unbiased argumentation, critiquing all attitudes and arguments that fail to be rational. We need more people like you!
"Unbiased"? "Critiquing all attitudes and arguments that fail to be rational"?
Really?
What Dr. Grande really did here was presenting a very biased and kind video for his right-wing audience. He presented all the valid right wing arguments, such as sports and the permanency of surgery, and repeatedly called out liberal media outrage as overblown. All the while completely ignoring the fact that the right-wing media and even right wing elected officials are completely de-humanizing the minority group by repeatedly calling them pedophiles and groomers. Curiously also no mentions of book-banning of LGBTQ content by right wing elected officials. Apparently these topics, which appear to be almost comically on-the-nose inspired by the early years of some other right wing party, aren't important in an analysis video of the transgender right debate.
No, make no mistake, this is a very biased video.
I agree!!
Well, if he picked the sane side he runs the risk of not only being canceled, but threatened, abused, intimidated, or worse. Fear is a hell of a motivator to keep your opinions to yourself. And they are counting on that.
@@sabrinashelton1997it’s a tool been used by the insane side of humanity for as long as we have recorded history. The insane are fear inducing..
It's only sensitive to those who can't live in reality
Great video as always! Would love to see a video on Jeffrey Marsh.
The Emperor has no clothes.
If only we had more people like Dr. Grande in the world!
If we had a world full of Dr grandes we would have a wonderful world
@@bayleesmith2803 Heck Yeah!
Out of all the people that could possibly opine on culture war issues, Dr. Grande is perhaps by far the most important, because of how reasonable all his arguments are. He is not partisan on any issue and does not fan the flames, while uncompromisingly telling it like it is.
He seems to be trying to diagnose a COUNTRY psychologically - a country which is on the verge of a collective mental crisis of globally cataclysmic proportions.
Thanks, Dr. Grande, for your courage to opine on this from a centrist perspective.
Good assessment !
I thought he was only speculating about what could be happening in a country like this 😮
He has tedency towards conservative side of arguments
It’s fairly obvious he leans right
@@dorothypettijohn1037 he's arguments are essential 'here are the facts'. Maybe someone has tendency to believe Democrat's side of argument.
I really enjoyed this, Dr. G.
Thank you
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Well done! I think you lay out this topic beautifully. Definitely better than anyone I’ve ever heard discuss topic I hope people share this video because it’s just a non-confrontational explanation with some healthy humor thrown in.
P.S. I disagree regarding your take on Drew Barrymore, though. I think she’s about as authentic as it comes.
I have discovered Dr. Grande recently and watched several of his videos. I've fallen in love with his dry delivery. I think he does a great job of being impartial in the topics he covers.
I agree. Me too. I have watched him for at least a couple years. I think he is my favorite YT content creator. I don't always agree with everything, but he does do a good job of presenting multiple sides/theories.
I had never heard of Dr Grande before now I line this guy. I will subscribe to his RUclips channel for sure.
The Dr Money study was deplorable, yet people decided to ignore that evidence. I would love to see a video by Dr Grande on that case.
Right?! Same.
Tragic
This comment needs more upvotes. I would love to see, even a informal dissertation, by Dr. Grande on this subject.
I’m reading David Reimer’s biography on the internet archive called As Nature Made Him. David changed back to male when he was 14, and Dr. Money continued to write about David as a hugely successful experiment. It wasn’t until David’s early 30s that he told the world the horrible experience he had. Not only did his twin brother die of an overdose, David killed himself. Money was silent. No admission of anything. It’s so tragic.
Who defends Dr. Money? What evidence?
Dr. Grande, I always appreciate your thoughts and perspectives so, so much. Even on this, an issue that I struggle to understand and have strong beliefs on, it is important for me to step back and look at the big picture, not just my little slice of it.
My rambly point here is that I agree with so much of what you said here, about the far left and far right, and how both are polarizing the worled we live in. I think both are wrong in certain areas, and that accusing each other of being haters is, as you so accurately said, lazy. Disagreeing is not synonymous with hate, and i really wish the world would grow up and understand that. Not agreeing or supporting something also does not mean fear. The ease with which "phobic" gets thrown around is mind-boggling.
Thank you for your thoughtfulness and care with such a divisive topic.
Great video, Dr. Grande!
The emphasis you use when saying "Tik Tok" is awesome
You can feel the waste of time 😆
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Every time I watch all of the drama unfolding on social media and I am convinced that everyone has lost their ability to reason, I come here for my Dr Grande fix so I can be convinced that there is at least ONE person in this world that can still apply common sense to any situation. Thank you for being a grounded person who sticks true to your hallmark of logical, reasonable facts presented without the hysterics
Same sadly it seems whenever the trans debate comes up on RUclips there's only two sides.
The ones who want all trans people to die and think they're all groomers and the ones who think anyone who has any concerns about any trans issues or even people who agree with every single thing the trans movement.wants but is a fan of Harry Potter is an evil terf who should be sentenced to the most painful form of death.
And then there's me in the middle who wants trans people to be treated with dignity and respect and have the freedom to use their preferred identities and have other people respect them but doesn't think single sex spaces should be determined by gender identity but instead gender assigned at birth and doesn't want people who went through male puberty competing against people who went through female puberty in sports.
And the best thing is both transphobes and trans allies hate me equally and probably also want me to die a painful death.
If everyone used critical thinking and reason, a lot of idiot politicians and other demagogues would be out of a job 🤷
@@pinkdiamond1847 You said this SO well. Everyone should be treated with respect and dignity regardless of their gender identity, race, legal sexual preferences, religion or other differences. However, we already acknowledged that different genders are different - thus Women’s basketball and Men’s basketball teams exist and have for decades. My transgender friend was born male and fully transitioned to her new gender identity several years ago. Beautiful woman and wonderful person. She is still quite a bit taller and stronger than the average woman and always will be. It is just factual and to say it does not give an unfair advantage in things where height and strength matter would not be true. A true athlete should want to compete against people with similar abilities. It would be like a 25 year old professional soccer player against a five year old. Who would think that’s fair?
@Pink Diamond Nobody wants you to die. It's really quite insane that you both believe such an idea, and also consider yourself the middle. Perhaps if you could abandon the histrionics and hyperbole long enough to actually listen to those who don't agree with you, you would realize just how wrong you are. It's sad, you probably truly believe everything you said. And you expect me to believe you've taken the time to sit down and really listened, with an open mind, to people whom you literally believe want you dead. It's laughable.
@Lori Breitbarth Should Shaquille O'Neil have been denied the ability to play in the NBA because he had unfair advantages of height and strength over virtually every other player? How is that fair to a man like Spud Webb? At only five foot seven, there is no way it was fair for him to compete against a man nearly two feet taller and two hundred pounds bigger? And as I'm sure you're consistent in your quest for fairness (cuz that's really all this is... nothing to do with trans at all... you've got a trans friend...yada yada yada), I'm equally sure you are just as outraged and support banning unusually large men from robbing normal men of their chances to play in the NBA. Of course you have! You would be a massive hypocrite, otherwise, no?
I like to get Dr Grande's take on these controversies that I can't quite figure out from the bits and pieces in the news. Now I know what it is all about. It sounds crazy to me with all this attention on 1.6% of the population!
What I don’t understand is how a entire country of people find it OK to push a extreme ideology of a small group of people on the entire population
It's rare to find objective analysis and reasonable solutions these days. Thank you.
Objective? He calls this person 'her' 😂
@@tricialicious1 😂😂😂
Objective would be allowing for the idea that people have different tastebuds well before he ever entertains the idea of a man calling himself a woman.
It's not objective. He is sharing his beliefs, therefore it's subjective. Which is fine. His bias is quite clear though.
@@margaretemilia8363 Yeah he's clearly biased to the right.
Dr. Grande pronouncing "tick tock" warms my soul.
Excellent workup & thanks
As someone who is trans, hearing the last 5 or so minutes of this video made me respect you even more than I already did. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on the matter, it was very insightful and refreshing to hear such a neutral take.
@@missivemonger they literally just said they're trans.
@@iloveplasticbottles they didn't check with missivemonger!😂
@@missivemonger Poof, I've disappeared
Actually we can all admit that ones age is much less important than ones total human Biological make up. How about we have 40 year olds identify as an 80 year old! Why not? Age is nowhere near as important as that..Let's allow 40 years olds identify as 80 & vice versa.
Plus ones biological humanity is also more important than ones race or ethnicity. We're all human, but our race & ethnicity come from our ancestors & parents that came from those ancestors mating choices. Evolution didn't give us that much of a choice in defining us as "human" (male & female), so why did we discriminate against those white people who said they were black? Or whites who said they were native American? If you follow the extremely poor logic of the pro trans movement, (that a human male can become female & vice versa) the pro trans movement should be even more in favor of the racial trans whites who identified as black & native American.
@@missivemonger huh? As in trans people don’t exist?
Love this video. You are the best at having an unemotional, straightforward, logical approach, and that is what this world needs.
Never mix Business and Politics because you will always offend one of your customers or a potential customer, which will help to dilute your brand!!!
I love your analysis and dry humor!
“on the social media platform, Tik.
Tok.”
😂 gets me every time
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Dylan identifies as a girl, not a woman. Even more outrageous.
Yeah he‘s a mentally ill creep
Men call women "girls" all the time.
@@megara4068 He dressed up in pig tails and a toddler type dress and ran around acting fearful of everything, like a woman in his eyes I guess
They act like the "365 day of GIRLHOOD" was just the term use.. but using the term "girlgood" was WELL planned ...
@@megara4068 Not real men. Never heard that one. Clearly you see children as well. Girls and boys.
Media Today 2023: “You overvalue science”
Media then covid 2020: “you’re not overvaluing science.”
Trust the science! Wait, not THAT science!
Media then: money, please.
Media now: money, please.
You're describing a veil. Lift it a little.
@@jakemitchell9853 It’s sooo much deeper
You're the best Dr. Grande! I love the burns that you throw into your mainly monotone commentary. I stay just for those!