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  • Опубликовано: 24 май 2021
  • Thank you for watching! My videos focus on life, love, and business. I believe in living a balanced and full life. I answer questions from my viewers in the “Talks with Tony” series. Then on Fridays, I speak to the men in the “Man 2 Man” series. On Saturdays, I focus on business and entrepreneurial lessons in the “Small Business Saturdays” series. Then on Sundays, you can catch a motivational message in the “Sunday Sermon” series.
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Комментарии • 114

  • @samanthasmith1643
    @samanthasmith1643 3 года назад +172

    “A man who wants you is going to make you feel wanted!” Noted

  • @chrissyw7208
    @chrissyw7208 3 года назад +71

    The insecurity in you is seeking the praise and approval of someone who does not want you... T.G.

  • @ShesGottaFastCar
    @ShesGottaFastCar 3 года назад +20

    Hats off to the young lady who cut the guy off immediately she is already ahead of the game. Keep it up sis!!

  • @CarolynHayes74
    @CarolynHayes74 3 года назад +108

    A man that wants you will make you feel WANTED!! ~Tony Gaskins~

  • @jessafaithsorronda122
    @jessafaithsorronda122 2 года назад +6

    As a 24 year old girl, this is the only coach I’m so comfortable to listen to. This is the kind of coach we can trust with! Thank You, Lord!

  • @Dr.Elaine1
    @Dr.Elaine1 3 года назад +57

    Confirmation from the 1st emailer: Tony’s work is not in vain!!!!! Quoted Tony and did what he said. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @alinas8003
    @alinas8003 2 года назад +1

    "You have put yourself worth into other people's hands" that hit hard

  • @reinaquisha9418
    @reinaquisha9418 3 года назад +63

    I believe that it really depends on how in tune you are with your body....
    I knew right away.
    In addition, a man's character is never more clear than when you're pregnant with his child. Unfortunately for some, it proves to be too little, too late 🙆🏾‍♀️

  • @CarolynHayes74
    @CarolynHayes74 3 года назад +45

    A Woman’s Influence is the TRUTH!!!💯🎯

  • @CarolynHayes74
    @CarolynHayes74 3 года назад +38

    That same scenerio happened to me! When I was leaving my ex husband years ago I also found out I was expecting.. 😩😩 that caused me to stay in that toxic sitiation but I still ended up divorcing him but not until my daughter was 6. But I thank God for all the lessons learned that will not be repeated again..

  • @SermonsSubtitled
    @SermonsSubtitled 3 года назад +45

    The last writer, who's married and let her ex see her timeline: She was still seeking to receive the validation from him she never got. And when he didn't go after her, it felt like a rejection allover again. Her brain got conditioned a long time ago to put her value into this man's hands and make HIM the end all be all whose opinion/taste determines it! It's up to her to take her value back out of this man's hand and place it into her own, where it belongs, cuz he ain't God. The real God who actually has the final say about her worth, is already approving of her because God doesn't create "mistakes"! Her value is not dependent on other people's ability to see it.

  • @CarmenLifeCoach
    @CarmenLifeCoach 3 года назад +17

    Multiple lessons on why it's good to not entertain relationships with low-quality people, not friends, nor partner, because they can end up betraying and hurting you. Also know your value and the difference between what you deserved and what you got, so that if you receive closure, apologies or someone admitting how wrong they were, it would be good, but if not, your life goes on just as beautifully. Become so strong and confident that you don't need anyone's confirmation or validation of your value and what you know deep down inside is true.

  • @mekaw0
    @mekaw0 3 года назад +17

    A lot of women find out they are pregnant right after leaving or when they finally got the strength to leave because the man has noticed the shift in her attitude and disposition. I know a few men who have admitted to impregnating their women to keep them in the relationship.

  • @RondelleMartin
    @RondelleMartin 3 года назад +15

    I knew I was pregnant when I was about 4-5 weeks pregnant. I noticed I was very very sluggish and my sense of smell was super strong.

  • @nursesrock4264
    @nursesrock4264 3 года назад +11

    I believe the pregnancy around break-up time is 50% coincidence and 50% reaction to motherly intuition.

  • @stargoldqueen5894
    @stargoldqueen5894 3 года назад +21

    This off topic, but after learning this, blew my mind; no matter what I do for a guy if he doesn't want to be kept.

  • @mscassama
    @mscassama 3 года назад +7

    You really have to ask ⁉️yourself if you're ready for marriage 💍if you still have feelings for an ex or ALLOW an ex to pop back up in your life so he can "see you". You want to manifest happiness in matrimony or manifest past hurts from an unworthy ex? Make a choice🗣

  • @jacquelinewilliams6572
    @jacquelinewilliams6572 3 года назад +16

    Please understand you’re going to get educated in many ways on Talks with Tony! 😂🤣😊

  • @db3933
    @db3933 3 года назад +32

    Hi Tony, I’m not Mexican but I’ve spent a lot of time in the country & had the opportunity to tour pre-Hispanic pyramids. As you read in your 1st definition “Hispanic is reIating to Spain.” I believe some Mexicans don’t consider themselves Hispanic because they are decedents of the Indigenous people who lived in Mexico before Spain colonized the country (Mayans, Aztecs etc.). In their eyes, Hispanic people are descendants of the Spaniards who conquered Mexico. My understanding is that much like our Black-American vs. African-American dispute, there’s also disagreement within the culture over this definition. You’re doing excellent work! May God continue to bless you & your family.

    • @mmxw2294
      @mmxw2294 3 года назад +3

      That’s right it’s like calling natives american something else but this was all created to divide humans I’m from Central America and that’s exactly why I saw indigenous people that that was there before the Spaniards Caucasian’s or Africans showed up lol we are all the human race ❤️

    • @kilimanjaro5537
      @kilimanjaro5537 3 года назад +1

      Yeah I was going to comment Hispanic refers to people from Spanish speaking countries whereas Latino is used more often when speaking of those from South America. I could be wrong but that’s just my understanding of it. It makes sense because Spanish derives from Spain.

  • @Gfamily4
    @Gfamily4 3 года назад +7

    I strongly believe that God uses your children give you the strength you need. Both times i have been pregnant that is when i finally realized that i was in a toxic situation and needed to end it.

  • @reinaquisha9418
    @reinaquisha9418 3 года назад +25

    Heyyyy heyyyy blessed tribe🤍

  • @slimalinga_
    @slimalinga_ 3 года назад +5

    A man that wants you will make you feel wanted -TG

  • @annwideman8760
    @annwideman8760 3 года назад +10

    We really need this. Even with woman to woman friends, it amazes me today at how fake and 14 year old grown people love to be.

    • @humilis42
      @humilis42 3 года назад +5

      I’m not surprised. So many people enable poor treatment from their so called friends. I pay attention to how people talk about their long time friends. I don’t waste a lot of time on a person that gossips about their friend’s business to me. They have a loyalty issue that will never be fixed. The can take your man and don’t care how you feel about it. These types of women outnumber loyal women. It’s a sad reality that has led me to cut people off quickly when I recognize deceit and poor character. I believe It’s linked to immaturity., too.

    • @c.l.9344
      @c.l.9344 3 года назад +1

      Beyond True.

  • @liyaah85
    @liyaah85 3 года назад +19

    Tony is so funny and informative at the same time.

  • @missangel412
    @missangel412 3 года назад +4

    Maybe he meant Spanish, not Hispanic. We are all Hispanic, or Latino.
    But he’s right, some Latinos will say they’re not Spanish.
    All Mexicans, PR’s, Cubans, Dominicans, etc are Hispanic.
    Whether Afro Latino or not, we are all Hispanic.

  • @amelianoble5943
    @amelianoble5943 3 года назад +4

    Tony is that TRUTH!!! He ran each email down with nothing but wisdom and knowledge the there's no way you can't learn something here thanks TG👍

  • @cuniqueness
    @cuniqueness 3 года назад +14

    Extra, extra read all about it,
    Every woman is designed to meet that bad boy to balance feminine & masculine energy. As we grow into adulthood we are generally surrounded by girlfriends & sheltered atmosphere that blind us from the raw world. So the bb come exhibit 1st hand what’s needed to begin your spiritual & valued growth.

  • @amandabretch85
    @amandabretch85 3 года назад +7

    I knew when I was pregnant. Can’t explain it. Just knew. And I knew when I was miscarrying that baby. I didn’t FEEL pregnant anymore.

  • @Glamrocs
    @Glamrocs 3 года назад +12

    We’re always learning on “ Talk w/ Tony”

  • @rjlondon5801
    @rjlondon5801 3 года назад +2

    That lady is suffering from ptsd and needs more than counselling x prayers to you sis ❤

  • @nooraoraha9294
    @nooraoraha9294 3 года назад +25

    This is my flesh talking, but I am SO angry at this last woman who has a great husband, an actual blessing of a marriage. And here I am, fasting and praying for someone to look TWICE at me and she is talking about her stupid ex. I am so sorry for feeling angry but I just cant help at how potentially selfish and self obsessed she is.

    • @ieshjust16
      @ieshjust16 3 года назад +1

      That's the reality for so many good men.

  • @Hoppinwithhago
    @Hoppinwithhago 3 года назад +2

    "dumb as a box of rocks" tony be having me weeeeeeakk lmaooo

    • @ruxz-ujdkr
      @ruxz-ujdkr 3 года назад +1

      LMAO 🤣🤣 riiiiight!!! I thought i was the only one that be laughing this hard. He be having me rolling and the country accent makes it 10x funnier.

  • @godschild4375
    @godschild4375 3 года назад +14

    That’s a great question Tony but both my pregnancies I left my child’s father (same man) before finding out I was pregnant and both times I found out a few days later after the break up 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @stepng4044
    @stepng4044 3 года назад +18

    Lol, I knew Tony was going to back up and address the meat on the shoulder, screaming while asleep, and the wet willie. I just knew he wouldn’t let that slide.

  • @denacovington2403
    @denacovington2403 3 года назад +7

    I gotta look at you with my good eye 😂😂😂

  • @aphrodita4696
    @aphrodita4696 3 года назад +3

    Listen to this 5 times!! Tony breaks it all the way down! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @angelamurray2826
    @angelamurray2826 3 года назад +11

    Tony, I'm way past certain content you put out! I'm just a loyal subscriber 💯🙏

  • @destineejones3055
    @destineejones3055 3 года назад +3

    Tony I'm Hispanic, I do correct people when they call me Spanish because to me that refers to the country Spain, and I am Mexican. I think sometimes people confuse the word Hispanic and Spanish. I know I have Spanish blood but not from spain.

  • @sherrynelson365
    @sherrynelson365 3 года назад +7

    Girl why do care about your ex he’s trash BLOCK him and love on your husband and NEVER look back

  • @rasheenbarbee7189
    @rasheenbarbee7189 3 года назад +3

    That woman is not over her ex, if she’s worried about him, even though she now married

  • @mariacernov9172
    @mariacernov9172 3 года назад +3

    What a great video again, dear Tony! Watching your lectures of this wonderful life and thanking you over & over again! Even though was studying Linguistics and Semantics back in 2003, it is still great to hear the explanation of this term from you and remembering that we need to learn every day, in big and small ways🌞. Best regards from Northern Europe to you and your wonderful family 🥰

  • @keelycrawford8622
    @keelycrawford8622 3 года назад +6

    Hey there! Blessings to you🙏🏽❤️

  • @julianacheriza1575
    @julianacheriza1575 3 года назад +3

    Why do exes want to be just friends what’s the purpose of that?

  • @meateatertoveganish2032
    @meateatertoveganish2032 3 года назад +3

    The fact that Tony had an ADD moment ang googled for 3,000 minutes after reading that email made me say he all the way tiredof women with these emails😂😂😂

  • @mangoesnbreadfruit01
    @mangoesnbreadfruit01 3 года назад +5

    Wow, so many lessons here! 🙏🏽

  • @bbstar2254
    @bbstar2254 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for the videos Tony!

  • @reginastevens7673
    @reginastevens7673 3 года назад +4

    Let’s go!☺️ ready🙌

  • @_zina9054
    @_zina9054 3 года назад +7

    Love the videos Tony, thank you for all your time.

  • @qscott888
    @qscott888 3 года назад +3

    Now...that is a mouth full.

  • @angelaward5628
    @angelaward5628 3 года назад

    Preach Tony.

  • @deet340
    @deet340 3 года назад +2

    Patiently waiting for Tony vision

  • @dublingirl1691
    @dublingirl1691 3 года назад +3

    Love the extra education on word explanations. Thanks Tony! You are a gem 🙏🏼

  • @shenika1979
    @shenika1979 3 года назад +1

    Yes! I do my I am affirmations everyday

  • @tinajones4506
    @tinajones4506 3 года назад +1

    Listening.

  • @amandabretch85
    @amandabretch85 3 года назад +3

    Oh no short videos 😔 I understand why, perhaps I’m just being selfish because I never want your videos to end. 😬☺️

  • @stephaniecarr6323
    @stephaniecarr6323 3 года назад +1

    Thank you again Tony. I am writing my love to me now.

  • @vanessachambers697
    @vanessachambers697 3 года назад

    Be Blessed 😊

  • @eps5605
    @eps5605 2 года назад

    Deep. Real deal session here.
    Hit me and I thought I had it all together. I must do more work!!! Thank you Tony! Wow!

  • @DayaTom
    @DayaTom 3 года назад +2

    Welcome to the Space Jam!

  • @jaenorth2654
    @jaenorth2654 3 года назад +1

    Listening

  • @Keyzzway
    @Keyzzway 3 года назад +1

    Yes

  • @berrybtalksministries
    @berrybtalksministries 3 года назад +1

    She could use some BerryBTalks!! 🙏🏾 Glory to God

  • @mwright0428
    @mwright0428 3 года назад +2

    Most women know within a few weeks, whether they believe it deal with it right then is another story. My last kid, I knew I was pregnant because I was super sluggish with a sore chest. I was in so much denial that I went to the doc for birth control and my doctor was like “no ma’am- your pregnant” 🤣🤣🤣

  • @cindeed4422
    @cindeed4422 3 года назад +3

    Looking with the good 👁 😂

  • @laneys2030
    @laneys2030 3 года назад +2

    So it could be she is not over her ex that's not good at all. She has to deal with that in order to move forward.

  • @JBassett3432
    @JBassett3432 3 года назад +3

    “Look like Mexico here..” Lmfao

  • @TheRealVanityy
    @TheRealVanityy 3 года назад

    Right

  • @mamabearj785
    @mamabearj785 Год назад

    I honestly don’t know but that is exactly what happened to me. I broke up with my bf and the next day I found out I was pregnant

  • @patwilson1257
    @patwilson1257 3 года назад

    I knew the exactly when I got pregnant. I can not explain it, but I KNEW.

  • @adventurouspeach9043
    @adventurouspeach9043 3 года назад +2

    I'm look at you wit my good eye..Lol TG , you are to much..

  • @ShesGottaFastCar
    @ShesGottaFastCar 3 года назад +2

    The increase in estrogen makes you more sensitive or intolerant of nonsense. This is why women are moody prior to cycle because estrogen is increasing hence PMS. Then it dramatically drops which causes your menstrual cycle to flow and the brain levels back up. Ironically during PMS was when I broke up with my boyfriends in the past 😂😂😂

  • @dmwilliable
    @dmwilliable Год назад

    No happenstance, it takes some time...about a few weeks, then you understand your body, then have a true epiphany, its how is it..

  • @Gwamm47
    @Gwamm47 3 года назад +1

    🦋🦋🦋

  • @iscelaarias3957
    @iscelaarias3957 3 года назад +8

    Central, South American descendants are Called Latinos due to Latin is part of their vocabulary ..... Mexicans speak different

  • @miwa9966
    @miwa9966 Год назад

    Tony, you say teach your daughters what to look out for. What would that be ?
    Sincerely,
    A daughter

  • @tedtenorio5628
    @tedtenorio5628 2 года назад

    I don't have no friends I do not have no friends and I'm good without friends

  • @BrittnePtheBestGirl
    @BrittnePtheBestGirl 3 года назад +1

    Email 1. She will probably need to be more open about talking on the phone.

  • @dnatural753
    @dnatural753 3 года назад

    No I don’t think it has anything to do with emotions, it is what it is type situation 😂

  • @tedtenorio5628
    @tedtenorio5628 2 года назад

    No but you think I don't know what y'all doing you think I don't know what you're doing I know everything

  • @nursesrock4264
    @nursesrock4264 3 года назад

    Latin American

    • @IshanaeS
      @IshanaeS 3 года назад

      Right, that’s what is the less offensive term...is what I’ve been told.

    • @nursesrock4264
      @nursesrock4264 3 года назад

      @@IshanaeSsame

  • @ShesGottaFastCar
    @ShesGottaFastCar 3 года назад

    Mexican =Mexico. Hispanic everyone else that’Spanish ... I think.