So grateful for this message. As a 33 year old man with no mortgage and kids I was feeling bad but lately I see it as such a blessing, a blessing that I have more time,money and freedom to really build a life I'm proud of. Truth be told, I wouldn't be happy to just meet a woman,have kids and buy a mortgage on a house I can barely afford. I want more and I'm working towards it now and I'm pumped. Thanks and all the best to each and every man here!
You think you are far ahead above a man with wife and kids, or what? At 30 the normal college educated smart couples start having children, not the low IQ who had them too early.
Man that's amazing. Self improvement content online really wasn't much a thing when I was younger. (I'm not old still in my late 20s) but either way still is great to see it 👍
@@IAm03j yeah its pretty great the journey is. The ability to f**k off and go where you want and do what you want within some constraints is pretty crazy. People think you have to be stupid filthy rich to do that, not really in many cases.
I found this at 29 😭 Where was this content when I was 19??? Regardless, I’m glad younger men are finding this type of content. This world is kind of a mess
1st Man, you don’t know how many lives you are changing. I’m from Jamaica and I’ve been listening to you since the lockdown. I’m getting in shape, I have a remote job for a Canadian company now, I take care of my nephew since my mom passed away and show him your content to try and unfuck his brain early, I found a beautiful Russian woman who lives with me under my roof and compliments my life so much, cares for my nephew as well. Eventually I’ll buy a home (as a rental property) for additional income and get her her own place as well. Living below my means while taking her on cheap dates as she understands my grind). Thank you Chris, you’re the man everyone wishes they grew up with. Your father (Rest In Peace) couldn’t be prouder…he had a gem of a man as a son. Thank you.
Yea I love the message man. As a 22 year old, I always have in the back of my mind when I go out to college parties “what am I doing here, I should be planning my life after college.” After watching this video, You inspire me to become better. Appreciate u man.🙏🏿
You should be living in and experiencing the moment my friend!! Drink in all the experiences that surround you! Cos sure as shit you ain't gonna be 22 again. Don't isolate yourself from today worrying about tomorrow. If you are fit and healthy, make hay whilst the sun shines!. High value this, high value that, bollox! Enjoy being young because you can only be young once. Screw cold showers and supplements!. Be alive today!. This dudes course is for people who can't meet women and don't get invited to parties. If you are happy and socially well adjusted, you don't need this!. Fyi im 42 and my gf is a super hot 24yr old blonde with legs for days..and trust me i got charm not money!
@@MCHOKUMI fckn totally disagree with that mindset. The best shit you can do is chase success. Girls are born everyday, parties happen every week and will do until the end of time. But success is rare thing and this channel ain't about girls it's about being man, getting girls is cool and all but it's boring if it's only thing u about. Having businesses and cars and speaking different languages is more attractive to me no pussy in the world can ever match that. So with all due disrespect fck that mindset. I'll be disappointed if u've my pops. U didn't achieve anything. Success is a compulsory to everyman on earth fck some nightclubs and hoes
Teens can suicide for serious reasons too. I know you don't mean to, but please don't dismiss it so easily. Most of the time it involves a horrific home environment, relentless bullying at school, hard drugs, serious traumatic events (rape, torture, etc). I work closely with depressed teens and I believe that you are a very good influence. just my piece of mind.
yeah this is very true , as someone who experienced SA at boarding school , that was a bit presumptuous that depression is just ... "gfs and splitting up"
Yes bit the difference is school is a minuscule amount of your timeline, when you're a teen you haven't even entered adulthood yet, you have decades to improve A lot of guys in their 30s get depressed because they feel they wasted their youthful years and can't get them back
Thank you 1M for being so generous with the younger generation and sharing your knowledge for free. That means a lot in a world that doesn't value knowledge or self improvement anymore. You truly are an inspiration!
The problem with hiring a single coder to work in the streaming platform is that it's way too big of a thing for any single coder to work on. between backend and frontend, it would just require a proper team if you need big things to be done in a short time span.
@1M As a full stack developer I've built my own version of it with live streaming and more features than the current one. Emailing that into Kris - hope he likes it
@@benneighbour7339 indeed it is possible, put the website was made by another company so you might face some initial difficulties acclimating to it. Best of luck though, hope you get the position :)
The part where you said that a lot of uni students go to vacation for 6+ months after graduating really resonates with me. A lot of people said I was crazy for working 40hours a week just after graduating and they all say the same: Why wouldn’t you go on a long vacation now? Because you will be working your whole life… I feel much more confident at 24 working at a good company and earning money while already making plans for the future. Glad you said that!
Yeah same really... Just graduated, and during an interview for a good company they told me "Do you want to start right away? Aren't you going to take six months/one year vacation traveling around?" hell no, I don't have money anyway, and I want to start building my future and career!
@@OmeroBello_exactly! Here in Holland it’s normal to take huge student loans to afford such trip…. The mindset is that you will work your whole life, so then you will pay it off 💀
@@-whackdHey that’s also good right? Would love to do that to, the first year at my entry job I focused on getting as much knowledge as I could so I could ask for a raise 😁
"Every morning in Africa, a Gazelle wakes up. It knows it must outrun the fastest Lion, or it will be killed. Every morning in Africa, a Lion wakes up. It knows it must run faster than the slowest Gazelle, or it will starve." When the sun comes up, they both are in the same boat. I feel like this quote can also be applied to life.
Having a long term project is essential for men. It could be a home renovation, a business endeavor, an art project, whatever. Obviously if it makes you money that's ideal. But this is what will give you direction and meaning in life. It shocks me how few men have a project they're working on whenever I ask them.
For me my passion though weird to some is doing Warren Buffet style stock buying, researching and managing. It's fullfilling to me lol. Everyone has the thing that gets them ticking, or should do some inner work to find it.
@@Madchris8828how thats wierd im also interested in that. Just started trading and I'm a accounting undergraduate oneday I want to do that. It's a very nice job. Maybe private equity or hedge fund but in South Africa the industry ain't as big as the Europe or US. But everything has beginning
earlier this year i hit reset. what ive learnt? ITS ALL ABOUT MOMENTUM. and to see Chris speak about it being years ahead in age and a better position, just emphasises how true it is. avoid things that will depleat your momentum like the plague (in particular if your starting out/at the early stages of building the life you want)
@@smilegpstarting out on a new life path or goal ie starting journey of being ENTREPRENUER or starting to get healthy or taking on new challenges (things that require 100% dedication)
Congrats brother. I did something similar when I was 21. I messed up and lost it all pretty quick. Learned my lesson took me a 18 months to make it back. Building that momentum on £40k a year salary now at 25. Aiming for few more promotions before I am 30. Keep grinding brother. You will be miles ahead of your peers in 10 years.
Kris im so f!cked up rn. i’ve been gambling like crazy these past months, first time ive had decent money from a new job. But i’ve lost 3-4 months worth of money man it hurts a lot and the regret is there, i even had plans with the money, but thanks to you i’ve learnt to take a step back and realise im still in a blessed position. 42k usd a year at 22 and still living home for the next few years paying next to nothing rent, i can easily build up again and start chasing financial freedom by 40 again. Without your mindset Kris, i would’ve falled into depression from that gambling issue, but in reality that issue is so small and has been a valuable lesson to never touch gambling again man i love you Kris
@trutht2090 Thank you so much, honestly it warms my heart finally getting support from someone even if its a random on the internet. We’re still in blessed positions and with the knowledge that Kris has given us, the sky is the limit. Love bro and i wish you the best
This talk about post-uni effect is 100% correct, as I'm going through this right now. It's really hard to switch, college is bad for man because it postpones adulthood. But now I feel satisfied when I take up responsibilities, being a captain of my own life.
This man has cured my depression. I'm a russian guy 27 years old, was raised in dysfanctional family, my income is average for russia even so I can't afford start a family. I Made some futile attempt to leave this country but it's failed because of political situation. I frustrated about it. This man had gave me a hope
Wonderful Thoughts. But I've wondered why buying a holiday home is such a big deal when airbnb is a factor. I wouldnt want to be restricted to just one place and would love the chance to see all over.
I've just started a self improvement channel like you Kris and I'm 18 years old. I've been taking your male lifestyle supplement and natural diuretic for over a year and half now. Now... It's time to start growing that brand thanks to you! I'll be making similar videos to you like this at some point- would like to know what the community here thinks about it.
Great video Kris. I think I can speak for many young men, that nearly every guy we see over 30 is a bum. This is also the reason most will jump at the opportunity to be with a women that gives them the time of day. Thanks for the reminder to keep going on living life on my terms and not rushing into make poor short term decisions!
"Lacking momentum and looking for answers" if you don't understand why this statement by Kriss is so profound, then you should sit with it and think about it for some time. Because if you do, you will be able to understand what it will take to turn your life around. And if you don't already, practice taking breaks from the anxiety-filled race of life and start reflecting/actively thinking about things in general. It will help solve many problems in your life and improve your critical thinking. Most answers to your problems lie within you and not on the internet, because your life is so specifically different from that of literally every single other person in this world. Stop constantly surfing the waves of emotion. If you're not going to reflect on your life in an objective manner, who will?
Man that's something that hit me up too.. I'm 21 years old and I can't sit at the table with no phone and writing my plan to how win this match. I'm very impatient for the results and I can't commit to things every day.
Lately the only thing I can think about is moving to Alaska and working there for about 6-8 years and returning to my home country with a big house and a car. I'm 25 years old. If I survive all that, I'll be 33 when it's all over.
so grateful for your work you are kind of my only friend with good sense, my best friends are all the kinds of people you descriped on the video, massive drug addictions, getting all the girls, parting fucking around etc. hearing your voice packed with raw knowledge gives me the very relieving feeling that there are People out there who are also sober and think clearly, bc everyone is so high either on drugs or their ego and everyones a liar and that fucks with me
The only thing I would add is not to focus so much on material part of life. Everyone needs money but you can sell your soul pursuing it. If you have something on your mind you’ve always wanted to try, so it. Improve your skills. Go skiing, hiking, try different hobbies.
Thank you Kris for this video! I am grinding everyday because I have a longevous mindset and want to become the best version in all areas of my life & I believe in myself that I will achieve my goals and fulfil my purpose.
I'd love to see vids about young guys that are struggling to find motivation or rather reason to keep going.... although I understand the need and significance of long term thinking it's pretty hard to keep going especially when u barely see any results....
He talks a lot of truths. If you're young, make sure you get more shit done, build a solid work ethic. Or you have to pay the consequences when you get to your thirties.
That's my fear too. Ppl say I need a break but I'm like fck that I rather work in my 20s so i can vacay a hole year in the future. Knowing I got no stress, debts and all that shit that keeps depressed
@@SiyabongaSibiya-pj9gb It's happening to me now tbh. I just do all I can do now without screwing myself totally up. Chris basically advocates full on monk mode. Which is fine if you're cut out for it for long periods, but I can't without going mad, so I do a light mode.
Can we take a moment to show 1st Man some appreciation 👏 I've been missing for 3 months… I've just started posting videos on my RUclips channel again. Thank you for supporting my journey. We got this men. 🤜🤛
I'm a 22 year old from the phillipines Chris most of my friends are either a life of a party, drunkard. Or someone who is hook into drugs. I'm following your advice about the 9-5 and about the hustlin hope you would come to the phillipines. And meet our very own Chris(bugoy na koy koy) hope you have a good time.
I’m only two months into my graduate job as an engineer straight out of uni, for a very good company, but I’m already feeling the repetitiveness weighing on me. Granted, I’m still learning a lot, but I’m already dreading a life of this 9-5. This video probably came at the best time to motivate me. Thanks as always Kris
Ha both jobs I've had as an adult have been very repetitive and worked both for about 10 years nearly. Maybe I'm weird but I get used to and almost like the monotony of knowing what I'm doing every day. Sometimes I want something different for sure, but there is niceness about having easy to follow guidelines at times.
What will be the benefit of the skin supplement you mentioned in the intro? Ever since I started making an effort to increase testosterone my skin broke out badly so I’m definitely interested in purchasing
This single Software-Engineer/Coder seems like a good idea if you keep the other team of the company. Quick changes, direct sync and the more complicated/sophisticated tasks for the team of the company who originally created the website etc. but a bit more details would have been great regarding Tech Stack of the Streaming Platform.
Doing anything can get boring overtime. Meaningless sex with women you don’t have a connection with, travelling to cities to party and get drunk, buying expense cars. You need to find something that deeply motivates you, and you can do that whilst being married or not, with kids or not. The key takeaway is to not lock yourself into a mortgage (for your home, not for an investment property) and kids as they are expensive until you are very financially secure. That can be at 28, that can be at 48. Define for yourself what it is that you want and work towards it. Kris is right though, don’t follow the default path.
I'll add that the skilled trades makes more money than STEM ^ just a heads up fior the guys who want a career in STEM for the money because union skilled trades workers make way more and its a more masculine and fulfilling job
Hey I wanted to buy 3 products(all of the supplements) but the shipping is almost $70 CAD. Wondering when shipping will go down so I can purchase some more things. Thanks man
Damn y’all got that too. They used to say look at athlete when I started my fitness journey or look at the investor now I’m laughing back lol. You know what they say the clown gets the last laugh so I say f ‘em now where even.
Hey guys just a quick question. I’m 22 and my gf said she wants to be married by 26/28ish with kids and I would love to get married but at the same time I want to put in all my effort to reach my goals and be stable for my family and kids like kris says. Realistically I plan to be worth $8million so not as ambitious as kris but I know it will take me time to get there. Not to say that women and kids will hinder my goals but i know myself, and I plan to give my family everything I can but want to do so without having to second guess things because of a lack of money. I know it’s going to be a few years from now but it’s still something I’ve been thinking about because I don’t want to waste her time when the time comes. Am I playing it safe because I believe she is a good women for me? I know there’s other women out there for me especially once I succeed more in life but I see a future with her. Anyways great vid once again Kris.
So whats your question lol? Why do you need to be worth $8m? Having a girl that you can see a future with is more valuable then $1B because if shes the women you claim she is, she'll help you make a lot more plus all the happiness that comes.
@@shawnemployee6906 I like the way you put it and I guess I’m just overthinking it. I plan to be financially stable by 35. I just say $8 million CAD net worth because I believe that is the amount I’ll need to provide for my family without all the stresses of being a father (house, car, school, vacation, gifts misc expenses). Once all the bare minimum things are taken care of then I can focus more on relationship with my wife and my children without having to always work or be absent because I need to pay bills or something. I just watched one of kris’ videos and he said that women can be leeches (not the best choice of words but the best way I could put it) because they want things and we help provide it for them (which I am fine with). Just wondering if settling down to early would hinder my success but I made up my mind and believe as long as me and her can work together than things will be great for us in the future.
@@JustTez What do you mean you plan to be worth 8m by 35? Do you have skills that people are willing to pay excessive amounts of money for? Are you in the 0.1% in a certain industry or skill or closing in on it currently? Otherwise you are just fantasising
While I respect 1M, this just sounds like a fear of 'settling down'. The bachelor lifestyle doesn't quite give a man the drive as a family and good woman would. Even if you're hedonistic or money driven, it gets stale very quickly. We need to recognise the different stages of a mans life - not just idealise one.
You clearly didn't watch the whole video. He is talking about being 40, massively wealthy with his wife and kids. He isn't living the bachelors lifestyle
most men dont even live the bachelor's lifestyle they just settle after they're ~26, 27 cuz the good life runs dry for them. if youre on top of your shit you can extend it all the way you want to but its a long game vs short game kind of thing.
@@persianfoo grinding in your 30s to magically find the right woman to have kids with in your 40s is a pipe dream. That's not how it works To build a strong bond with the right woman, you need to walk and chew gum - she needs to be with you from the grind phase to appreciate you. You can't just live one way for a decade and then simply change strategy after a random figure of money is made.... Your mind adapts to the life you're living
"she needs to be with you from the grind phase to appreciate you" I don't know what era you're living in but most women today want a ready made man with guaranteed financial stability. There's a reason why older wealthy established men have no problem finding young beautiful women to marry.
@@teej70 yeah, until they divorce these men and take half of their wealth. This could happen to any man, but very less chances of it happening so sporadically with someone who has a long term emotional investment. "Most women wanting a ready made man" is red pill echo chamber speak. Most 304s and gold diggers? Absolutely.
I don't know how having a woman to take out with on the weekends is boring. I'm in my late 40's and I still can't get a date. I disagree with this guy. I think he's privileged and spoiled. I would be thankful for every moment I get with a woman. And if you're lucky enough to find a woman to marry you and start a family, you' ve hit the jackpot.
We’ve got a BUNCH of affordable products
Classic
Or at the start of the vid "I had a BUNCH of older friends" 2:51 😂
@@ssj_h4798I’m convinced every time he says that word it’s coded in him to say it in all caps 💀💀
Yes and YOU are the products 😎
So grateful for this message. As a 33 year old man with no mortgage and kids I was feeling bad but lately I see it as such a blessing, a blessing that I have more time,money and freedom to really build a life I'm proud of. Truth be told, I wouldn't be happy to just meet a woman,have kids and buy a mortgage on a house I can barely afford. I want more and I'm working towards it now and I'm pumped. Thanks and all the best to each and every man here!
You think you are far ahead above a man with wife and kids, or what? At 30 the normal college educated smart couples start having children, not the low IQ who had them too early.
all or nothing. Risk your way into elite status
What are you doing with that time tho?
What's exactly that you want?
@@carlohumbertobalbis3944working hard at a good paying job, investing as much as possible, keeping myself in good shape etc etc
I can't believe I'm lucky enough to have come across this type of content at 19 years old. Great vid Kris, keep em coming
Man that's amazing. Self improvement content online really wasn't much a thing when I was younger. (I'm not old still in my late 20s) but either way still is great to see it 👍
Me too, started a year ago and my vision is slowly unfolding. Got a lot of work and time to put in but I’ll be there before 30 that’s a guarantee
@@IAm03j yeah its pretty great the journey is. The ability to f**k off and go where you want and do what you want within some constraints is pretty crazy. People think you have to be stupid filthy rich to do that, not really in many cases.
I found this at 29 😭 Where was this content when I was 19??? Regardless, I’m glad younger men are finding this type of content. This world is kind of a mess
1st Man, you don’t know how many lives you are changing. I’m from Jamaica and I’ve been listening to you since the lockdown. I’m getting in shape, I have a remote job for a Canadian company now, I take care of my nephew since my mom passed away and show him your content to try and unfuck his brain early, I found a beautiful Russian woman who lives with me under my roof and compliments my life so much, cares for my nephew as well. Eventually I’ll buy a home (as a rental property) for additional income and get her her own place as well. Living below my means while taking her on cheap dates as she understands my grind). Thank you Chris, you’re the man everyone wishes they grew up with. Your father (Rest In Peace) couldn’t be prouder…he had a gem of a man as a son. Thank you.
Man I have nothing to say but respect. If you did that much progress imagine what it will look like in 5 to 10 years as long as you put the work in
@@kubs7379 thank you my brother. We keep going. Chris is living proof any man can do it
So grateful to be listening to this at the age of 20
Same here mate.
I am 18
@@gunnerbadass6218 Good stuff bro this guy is giving us a huge head start in the game
I am almost 20. Life changing talks he is giving!
Get it dudes
Yea I love the message man. As a 22 year old, I always have in the back of my mind when I go out to college parties “what am I doing here, I should be planning my life after college.” After watching this video, You inspire me to become better. Appreciate u man.🙏🏿
You should be living in and experiencing the moment my friend!! Drink in all the experiences that surround you! Cos sure as shit you ain't gonna be 22 again. Don't isolate yourself from today worrying about tomorrow. If you are fit and healthy, make hay whilst the sun shines!. High value this, high value that, bollox! Enjoy being young because you can only be young once. Screw cold showers and supplements!. Be alive today!. This dudes course is for people who can't meet women and don't get invited to parties. If you are happy and socially well adjusted, you don't need this!. Fyi im 42 and my gf is a super hot 24yr old blonde with legs for days..and trust me i got charm not money!
@@MCHOKUM true, but I’m stick and tried of it tho. I get what ur saying.
@@MCHOKUMI fckn totally disagree with that mindset. The best shit you can do is chase success. Girls are born everyday, parties happen every week and will do until the end of time. But success is rare thing and this channel ain't about girls it's about being man, getting girls is cool and all but it's boring if it's only thing u about. Having businesses and cars and speaking different languages is more attractive to me no pussy in the world can ever match that. So with all due disrespect fck that mindset. I'll be disappointed if u've my pops. U didn't achieve anything. Success is a compulsory to everyman on earth fck some nightclubs and hoes
Teens can suicide for serious reasons too. I know you don't mean to, but please don't dismiss it so easily. Most of the time it involves a horrific home environment, relentless bullying at school, hard drugs, serious traumatic events (rape, torture, etc). I work closely with depressed teens and I believe that you are a very good influence. just my piece of mind.
yeah this is very true , as someone who experienced SA at boarding school , that was a bit presumptuous that depression is just ... "gfs and splitting up"
Yes bit the difference is school is a minuscule amount of your timeline, when you're a teen you haven't even entered adulthood yet, you have decades to improve
A lot of guys in their 30s get depressed because they feel they wasted their youthful years and can't get them back
You're right, I'm 13 and went thru a lot of shit, age doesn't mean much
depression from regret and depression from living in a horrific reality are two very different things, regardless of timeline.@@rml4289
its already a given to exclude the extreme cases
Thank you 1M for being so generous with the younger generation and sharing your knowledge for free. That means a lot in a world that doesn't value knowledge or self improvement anymore. You truly are an inspiration!
This is probably the most valuable video you've ever released.
Thank you, Kris!
The last 5 minutes were absolutely golden ✨️
The problem with hiring a single coder to work in the streaming platform is that it's way too big of a thing for any single coder to work on. between backend and frontend, it would just require a proper team if you need big things to be done in a short time span.
@1M As a full stack developer I've built my own version of it with live streaming and more features than the current one. Emailing that into Kris - hope he likes it
@@benneighbour7339 indeed it is possible, put the website was made by another company so you might face some initial difficulties acclimating to it. Best of luck though, hope you get the position :)
This may have been true 5-10 years ago, but nowadays with the AI and new stuff. Its probably entirely possible for one guy to code front and backend
Not really, because it's not going to provision the infrastructure and know what you want it to look like....
@@IQByteI'd say it's possible if your driven and a good engineer who's being doing it for years. It was very tough.
The part where you said that a lot of uni students go to vacation for 6+ months after graduating really resonates with me. A lot of people said I was crazy for working 40hours a week just after graduating and they all say the same: Why wouldn’t you go on a long vacation now? Because you will be working your whole life… I feel much more confident at 24 working at a good company and earning money while already making plans for the future. Glad you said that!
Yeah same really... Just graduated, and during an interview for a good company they told me "Do you want to start right away? Aren't you going to take six months/one year vacation traveling around?" hell no, I don't have money anyway, and I want to start building my future and career!
Cool, I lived in Thailand at a boxing camp for months and then Korea. Wouldn't change it for a year of entry level work.
Yeah dudes rather lay in hammock wit hippies in Thailand than build and have hobbies
@@OmeroBello_exactly! Here in Holland it’s normal to take huge student loans to afford such trip…. The mindset is that you will work your whole life, so then you will pay it off 💀
@@-whackdHey that’s also good right? Would love to do that to, the first year at my entry job I focused on getting as much knowledge as I could so I could ask for a raise 😁
"Every morning in Africa, a Gazelle wakes up. It knows it must outrun the fastest Lion, or it will be killed. Every morning in Africa, a Lion wakes up. It knows it must run faster than the slowest Gazelle, or it will starve." When the sun comes up, they both are in the same boat. I feel like this quote can also be applied to life.
Having a long term project is essential for men. It could be a home renovation, a business endeavor, an art project, whatever. Obviously if it makes you money that's ideal. But this is what will give you direction and meaning in life. It shocks me how few men have a project they're working on whenever I ask them.
They don't have jobs?
@@-whackd the vast majority find no meaning in their jobs. It's just a means to an end.
For me my passion though weird to some is doing Warren Buffet style stock buying, researching and managing. It's fullfilling to me lol. Everyone has the thing that gets them ticking, or should do some inner work to find it.
@@Madchris8828how thats wierd im also interested in that. Just started trading and I'm a accounting undergraduate oneday I want to do that. It's a very nice job. Maybe private equity or hedge fund but in South Africa the industry ain't as big as the Europe or US. But everything has beginning
Currently Kris drops one banger video after another. I love this content. It’s so nice to hear while driving or so
yeah i always listen to his stuff while going on my daily walk,its the best.
earlier this year i hit reset. what ive learnt? ITS ALL ABOUT MOMENTUM. and to see Chris speak about it being years ahead in age and a better position, just emphasises how true it is. avoid things that will depleat your momentum like the plague (in particular if your starting out/at the early stages of building the life you want)
How do u know if u in reset positions?
@@smilegpstarting out on a new life path or goal ie starting journey of being ENTREPRENUER or starting to get healthy or taking on new challenges (things that require 100% dedication)
What is “plague” here means? Not epidemic right?
@@limakahasomething deadly.
You are the reason on why ive saved like £15k at the age 20!
Amazing work in an age where most people spend everything at that age
Amazing work in an age where most people spend everything at that age
Put a bit of that into bitcoin and you will be chilling by 25!
Great job man! Stick that in S&P 500 or Bitcoin and you’ll be laughing in 10 years :)
Congrats brother. I did something similar when I was 21. I messed up and lost it all pretty quick. Learned my lesson took me a 18 months to make it back. Building that momentum on £40k a year salary now at 25. Aiming for few more promotions before I am 30. Keep grinding brother. You will be miles ahead of your peers in 10 years.
Kris im so f!cked up rn. i’ve been gambling like crazy these past months, first time ive had decent money from a new job. But i’ve lost 3-4 months worth of money man it hurts a lot and the regret is there, i even had plans with the money, but thanks to you i’ve learnt to take a step back and realise im still in a blessed position. 42k usd a year at 22 and still living home for the next few years paying next to nothing rent, i can easily build up again and start chasing financial freedom by 40 again. Without your mindset Kris, i would’ve falled into depression from that gambling issue, but in reality that issue is so small and has been a valuable lesson to never touch gambling again man i love you Kris
@trutht2090 Thank you so much, honestly it warms my heart finally getting support from someone even if its a random on the internet. We’re still in blessed positions and with the knowledge that Kris has given us, the sky is the limit. Love bro and i wish you the best
This talk about post-uni effect is 100% correct, as I'm going through this right now. It's really hard to switch, college is bad for man because it postpones adulthood. But now I feel satisfied when I take up responsibilities, being a captain of my own life.
Just a BUNCHHHH of facts right here 🔥
fr, fancy seeing you here mate lol
@@Paras770 😂 1st man is the guy
@@PrinceTorks true bro 😂
This man has cured my depression. I'm a russian guy 27 years old, was raised in dysfanctional family, my income is average for russia even so I can't afford start a family. I Made some futile attempt to leave this country but it's failed because of political situation. I frustrated about it. This man had gave me a hope
The last 5 minutes of this video are perhaps the best of the content I've seen on this channel. So well summarized and explained
Wonderful Thoughts. But I've wondered why buying a holiday home is such a big deal when airbnb is a factor. I wouldnt want to be restricted to just one place and would love the chance to see all over.
At the age of 13 I started working at bodegas and ever since then I’ve been working on that 9-5 cycle. I’m currently 24 and have gained some momentum.
How'd
u get a job at 13 and how much did u end up saving
I've just started a self improvement channel like you Kris and I'm 18 years old. I've been taking your male lifestyle supplement and natural diuretic for over a year and half now. Now... It's time to start growing that brand thanks to you! I'll be making similar videos to you like this at some point- would like to know what the community here thinks about it.
Great video Kris. I think I can speak for many young men, that nearly every guy we see over 30 is a bum. This is also the reason most will jump at the opportunity to be with a women that gives them the time of day. Thanks for the reminder to keep going on living life on my terms and not rushing into make poor short term decisions!
i dont think your streaming platform is going anywhere but gl
U have to be that guy. Just take yourself out of your body and then look at yourself. Kris thing may take 10years netflix didn't succeed in oneday
crazy value every video, never stop making these
"Lacking momentum and looking for answers" if you don't understand why this statement by Kriss is so profound, then you should sit with it and think about it for some time. Because if you do, you will be able to understand what it will take to turn your life around.
And if you don't already, practice taking breaks from the anxiety-filled race of life and start reflecting/actively thinking about things in general. It will help solve many problems in your life and improve your critical thinking. Most answers to your problems lie within you and not on the internet, because your life is so specifically different from that of literally every single other person in this world. Stop constantly surfing the waves of emotion. If you're not going to reflect on your life in an objective manner, who will?
Man that's something that hit me up too.. I'm 21 years old and I can't sit at the table with no phone and writing my plan to how win this match.
I'm very impatient for the results and I can't commit to things every day.
Kris with another banger. Grateful for your knowledge, we’re never taught on how to navigate through life after school and this content is so valuable
I respect Chris. He is a real man and inspiration for me
Lately the only thing I can think about is moving to Alaska and working there for about 6-8 years and returning to my home country with a big house and a car.
I'm 25 years old. If I survive all that, I'll be 33 when it's all over.
love the new thumbnails a lot Kris!
Yeah, so you need purpose. Purpose in life is everything.
Kris you are in your BAG right now, happy you’re back 🔥🔥🔥
so grateful for your work you are kind of my only friend with good sense, my best friends are all the kinds of people you descriped on the video, massive drug addictions, getting all the girls, parting fucking around etc. hearing your voice packed with raw knowledge gives me the very relieving feeling that there are People out there who are also sober and think clearly, bc everyone is so high either on drugs or their ego and everyones a liar and that fucks with me
The only thing I would add is not to focus so much on material part of life. Everyone needs money but you can sell your soul pursuing it. If you have something on your mind you’ve always wanted to try, so it. Improve your skills. Go skiing, hiking, try different hobbies.
Thank you Kris for this video! I am grinding everyday because I have a longevous mindset and want to become the best version in all areas of my life & I believe in myself that I will achieve my goals and fulfil my purpose.
Love these sit down 1M videos. Quality videos.
Thank you your videos mean everything growing up without my father after divorce
I'd love to see vids about young guys that are struggling to find motivation or rather reason to keep going.... although I understand the need and significance of long term thinking it's pretty hard to keep going especially when u barely see any results....
23:28 Wise Words! Thank you Brother!
Yep momentum and routine / structure are very important and under-valued these days.
Great Video man.
Hey man love your content you know a lot
Put in the work the universe will reward you
Hes back 💪
Appreciated this. Thanks
love these vids kris
Post uni effect is legit lmao
He talks a lot of truths. If you're young, make sure you get more shit done, build a solid work ethic. Or you have to pay the consequences when you get to your thirties.
That's my fear too. Ppl say I need a break but I'm like fck that I rather work in my 20s so i can vacay a hole year in the future. Knowing I got no stress, debts and all that shit that keeps depressed
@@SiyabongaSibiya-pj9gb It's happening to me now tbh. I just do all I can do now without screwing myself totally up. Chris basically advocates full on monk mode. Which is fine if you're cut out for it for long periods, but I can't without going mad, so I do a light mode.
Kris rocking the jacket, starting to get chilly in the UK eh
Can we take a moment to show 1st Man some appreciation 👏
I've been missing for 3 months…
I've just started posting videos on my RUclips channel again.
Thank you for supporting my journey.
We got this men.
🤜🤛
Grateful to be listening to this at 18
Hey Mr. 1M! I was wondering where you’ve been-was thinking about you this morning
I'm a 22 year old from the phillipines Chris most of my friends are either a life of a party, drunkard. Or someone who is hook into drugs. I'm following your advice about the 9-5 and about the hustlin hope you would come to the phillipines. And meet our very own Chris(bugoy na koy koy) hope you have a good time.
Please make a version of the lifestyle supplement that fits for Germay 🙏🏼
Gold as always 👍🏻
Chris is the best.
I’m only two months into my graduate job as an engineer straight out of uni, for a very good company, but I’m already feeling the repetitiveness weighing on me. Granted, I’m still learning a lot, but I’m already dreading a life of this 9-5. This video probably came at the best time to motivate me. Thanks as always Kris
Ha both jobs I've had as an adult have been very repetitive and worked both for about 10 years nearly. Maybe I'm weird but I get used to and almost like the monotony of knowing what I'm doing every day. Sometimes I want something different for sure, but there is niceness about having easy to follow guidelines at times.
There's nothing wrong with working a 9-5 as an engineer. It's important
Get some experience and go into consulting
@@Madchris8828some people enjoy that kind of lifestyle, nothing wrong with that
Just stop being a pussy, find something to do and just do it tirelessly. I just substituted all my bad habits with software engineering my own stuff
The problem is that the system conditions us to accept orders for 18 years, then thry drop us in an empty field and expect us to carve our own path
Yes lets go🔥💪💪
What will be the benefit of the skin supplement you mentioned in the intro? Ever since I started making an effort to increase testosterone my skin broke out badly so I’m definitely interested in purchasing
Pure Value
21:52 hits because i feel like i’m one of the few people in this age group who watches this channel
16:00 all or nothing, middle gets rekt everytime. Falling backwards is better than staying stagnate.
21:45 thanks kris
Ayo Kris can you make a video about how to be more cultured for the guys that are further down the road?
travel and gain cool experiences
Kris is super cultured
hey Kris, i like your black jacket in your video. could i know where did you buy it from please? thanks.
I spent more time in clubs than I should have. Alhamdulillah I nvr felt the urge to drink or drugs
This single Software-Engineer/Coder seems like a good idea if you keep the other team of the company. Quick changes, direct sync and the more complicated/sophisticated tasks for the team of the company who originally created the website etc. but a bit more details would have been great regarding Tech Stack of the Streaming Platform.
Their current tech stack is some sort of backend lang + Vite/React with AWS Cognito for authentication
OK GUYS let’s talk about da male adVONtage
Doing anything can get boring overtime. Meaningless sex with women you don’t have a connection with, travelling to cities to party and get drunk, buying expense cars. You need to find something that deeply motivates you, and you can do that whilst being married or not, with kids or not. The key takeaway is to not lock yourself into a mortgage (for your home, not for an investment property) and kids as they are expensive until you are very financially secure. That can be at 28, that can be at 48. Define for yourself what it is that you want and work towards it. Kris is right though, don’t follow the default path.
How the hell does a platform cost you 250k to make?
Random tangent:
Just an FYI for the 1stman clan
*don‘t get a factory job if your dream job has anything to do with studying Uni, ie: STEM etc…
Go to college if you want a STEM job. In other news, water is wet.
I'll add that the skilled trades makes more money than STEM
^ just a heads up fior the guys who want a career in STEM for the money because union skilled trades workers make way more and its a more masculine and fulfilling job
What is stem
@@kasebakaseba9009 Science Technology Engineering Maths
Hey I wanted to buy 3 products(all of the supplements) but the shipping is almost $70 CAD. Wondering when shipping will go down so I can purchase some more things. Thanks man
That new thumbnails tho
Damn y’all got that too. They used to say look at athlete when I started my fitness journey or look at the investor now I’m laughing back lol. You know what they say the clown gets the last laugh so I say f ‘em now where even.
interesting insight
Come to Kansas City if you want to see the World Cup!
so yeah i'm 29 now and been working straight since 20, so essentially 9 years. mental
You’ve gotta just commit an hour a day to a big project, hell if you’d done 1 hour a week you’d have finished by now
@@gordonramsdale what kind of project
@@fraser1237he's referring to a project that generates income ,side hustles like selling a product etc
Damn deep video
I didn't understand the ending - why not having the family desire is a fallacy? How wanting family helps you?
Kris you're looking good! Male advantage in action!
Sir please do something about the shipping charges the product is 999 rupees and shipment charges Iis 2300
Can you interview Hamza, that would be a dope video
Im just 22 but i feel like a failure
same here man :'( we'll get through this
What's the tech stack for the plattform?
Still haven't received the account to 1stman after payement !
I thought you said you were leaving
Kris is that friend who will tell us how it is
Bro I’m 3th year of Cs, I want practice, so I can work with free the coder you hire.
Why would u want to work for free when he's offering you money....
BRO i can't even sign up on 1st man.... Fix the sign-up
The Elon musk / bill gates joke is kinda funny 😂
Will you ever make your books/ body language courses free when you're worth 100mil +?
Hey guys just a quick question. I’m 22 and my gf said she wants to be married by 26/28ish with kids and I would love to get married but at the same time I want to put in all my effort to reach my goals and be stable for my family and kids like kris says. Realistically I plan to be worth $8million so not as ambitious as kris but I know it will take me time to get there. Not to say that women and kids will hinder my goals but i know myself, and I plan to give my family everything I can but want to do so without having to second guess things because of a lack of money. I know it’s going to be a few years from now but it’s still something I’ve been thinking about because I don’t want to waste her time when the time comes. Am I playing it safe because I believe she is a good women for me? I know there’s other women out there for me especially once I succeed more in life but I see a future with her. Anyways great vid once again Kris.
So whats your question lol? Why do you need to be worth $8m? Having a girl that you can see a future with is more valuable then $1B because if shes the women you claim she is, she'll help you make a lot more plus all the happiness that comes.
$8M by what? 55? Thats totally doable with wife and kids. Its not doable by 30 and really difficult by 40.
@@shawnemployee6906 I like the way you put it and I guess I’m just overthinking it. I plan to be financially stable by 35. I just say $8 million CAD net worth because I believe that is the amount I’ll need to provide for my family without all the stresses of being a father (house, car, school, vacation, gifts misc expenses). Once all the bare minimum things are taken care of then I can focus more on relationship with my wife and my children without having to always work or be absent because I need to pay bills or something. I just watched one of kris’ videos and he said that women can be leeches (not the best choice of words but the best way I could put it) because they want things and we help provide it for them (which I am fine with). Just wondering if settling down to early would hinder my success but I made up my mind and believe as long as me and her can work together than things will be great for us in the future.
@@rf-uj5sc yea I live in Toronto so things are very expensive here especially housing so that why I plan to be worth that much by 35 to 40
@@JustTez What do you mean you plan to be worth 8m by 35? Do you have skills that people are willing to pay excessive amounts of money for? Are you in the 0.1% in a certain industry or skill or closing in on it currently? Otherwise you are just fantasising
Are u still not shipping to germany?
While I respect 1M, this just sounds like a fear of 'settling down'. The bachelor lifestyle doesn't quite give a man the drive as a family and good woman would. Even if you're hedonistic or money driven, it gets stale very quickly. We need to recognise the different stages of a mans life - not just idealise one.
You clearly didn't watch the whole video. He is talking about being 40, massively wealthy with his wife and kids. He isn't living the bachelors lifestyle
most men dont even live the bachelor's lifestyle they just settle after they're ~26, 27 cuz the good life runs dry for them. if youre on top of your shit you can extend it all the way you want to but its a long game vs short game kind of thing.
@@persianfoo grinding in your 30s to magically find the right woman to have kids with in your 40s is a pipe dream. That's not how it works
To build a strong bond with the right woman, you need to walk and chew gum - she needs to be with you from the grind phase to appreciate you.
You can't just live one way for a decade and then simply change strategy after a random figure of money is made.... Your mind adapts to the life you're living
"she needs to be with you from the grind phase to appreciate you"
I don't know what era you're living in but most women today want a ready made man with guaranteed financial stability. There's a reason why older wealthy established men have no problem finding young beautiful women to marry.
@@teej70 yeah, until they divorce these men and take half of their wealth. This could happen to any man, but very less chances of it happening so sporadically with someone who has a long term emotional investment.
"Most women wanting a ready made man" is red pill echo chamber speak. Most 304s and gold diggers? Absolutely.
I don't know how having a woman to take out with on the weekends is boring. I'm in my late 40's and I still can't get a date. I disagree with this guy. I think he's privileged and spoiled. I would be thankful for every moment I get with a woman. And if you're lucky enough to find a woman to marry you and start a family, you' ve hit the jackpot.
How on earth did you platform cost 250k to make?
fuck, this is a good video.