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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024

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  • @Vanity-Man
    @Vanity-Man 8 месяцев назад +347

    Okay guys we've got a BUNCH of new emotionally removed mindsets to take on

  • @soulofexistence
    @soulofexistence 8 месяцев назад +83

    The fact that he finally adressed the "okay guys" meme is so funny to me

  • @carlosvalencia2235
    @carlosvalencia2235 8 месяцев назад +227

    we’ve got digital products, we’ve got physical products

  • @2Gloomy_
    @2Gloomy_ 8 месяцев назад +114

    Kris smiling means 3 more months of winter

  • @mamaurax25
    @mamaurax25 8 месяцев назад +56

    The more stoic you become. The more attractive you become. Because there is a level of indifference that comes with stoicism. And indifference = Power in most situations.

  • @cormacking
    @cormacking 8 месяцев назад +61

    Documentaries about what made men throughout the ages would be a good series. Maybe diving into circumstances and situations that create well rounded men.

  • @prince_ace
    @prince_ace 8 месяцев назад +36

    I've never seen Chris smile 😂...this video was surely in a good mood

  • @MarkAlCA
    @MarkAlCA 8 месяцев назад +19

    9:58-11:35 hits like a ton of bricks.
    I will make sure to think logically about a relationship with someone instead of being stuck in the imagination, Disney stuff.
    And if they don't have the time to hang out for a long period of time, I should respect that because they have goals and obligations to deal with.
    Thanks Kris!

  • @krishnakantpatil1660
    @krishnakantpatil1660 8 месяцев назад +21

    Stoicism is not elimination of emotions, but domastication of emotions

    • @jordanmortensen
      @jordanmortensen 8 месяцев назад

      You feel the emotions but you don’t respond to them outwardly

  • @jonathanjoestar275
    @jonathanjoestar275 8 месяцев назад +3

    This is an incredibly important video you've made, Kris.
    Learning to calibrate and understand when your emotions rise, to prevent making emotional decisions, can propel you massively.

  • @cameronplunkett4304
    @cameronplunkett4304 8 месяцев назад +1

    Really appreciate your content, Kris. The only channel in the self improvement space I watch. I come back to your videos every few months and it always reminds me why I watch your content.

  • @gingerbreadzak
    @gingerbreadzak 8 месяцев назад +9

    00:55 🤣 Recognizing and laughing at personal quirks and idioms can bring humor and lightness to interactions.
    02:30 🧠 Recognizing the value of logical thinking over emotional reactions can lead to better decision-making and life outcomes.
    03:50 🔄 Understanding that most decisions, even seemingly personal ones, are often driven by self-interest rather than malicious intent, can reduce emotional reactions to situations.
    08:16 💭 Cultivating control over one's own thoughts and decisions, while accepting the randomness of external events, fosters emotional resilience and stability.
    11:49 🚫 Avoiding overthinking and relying on Occam's Razor can help to maintain logical perspectives and prevent emotional spiraling.
    15:04 🧘‍♂ Practicing self-awareness by observing one's reactions from a neutral standpoint can lead to more reasoned responses and personal growth.
    16:30 🔑 Recognize and control emotional reactions, especially when reality contradicts perception.
    17:23 💡 Make decisions based on logic rather than emotion to gain control over your life.
    21:19 🧠 Honesty and self-awareness in real-time help control emotional outbursts.
    24:33 🔄 Avoid making decisions when too emotionally high or low; aim for a stoic, level-headed approach.
    27:35 💼 Deploying the neocortex for logical thinking improves decision-making, leading to success in various aspects of life.

    • @balasaravanan500
      @balasaravanan500 8 месяцев назад

      I was really searching the comment section for this. Thanks man, this was helpfull

  • @patuel1
    @patuel1 8 месяцев назад +3

    I think this is one of the best videos you've made, going deep on practical every day situations, keep it up Kris.

  • @rockyblumble
    @rockyblumble 8 месяцев назад +16

    I'm genuinely so happy every time I see a notification for a new 1stman vid. Can't explain why. Just feels like home

    • @smilegp
      @smilegp 8 месяцев назад +4

      He's one of the best shit that happening in the world right now

  • @PBarrettt
    @PBarrettt 8 месяцев назад +1

    Honestly your content has gotten so much better over time

  • @imawarrior313
    @imawarrior313 8 месяцев назад +12

    Never make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings.

  • @mamaurax25
    @mamaurax25 8 месяцев назад +16

    Stoicism is a necessity as a man.

    • @Reinousmessandriahdristreniyos
      @Reinousmessandriahdristreniyos 8 месяцев назад

      Exactly,I can't even fathom how emotional most men are and it always comes to bite them in the ass

  • @lucilius-annaeus
    @lucilius-annaeus 8 месяцев назад +8

    I love this topic. But just to add to your points. Stoicism is often misinterpreted to being void of all emotion or ignoring emotions, this is false. Read books from the great stoic thinkers, especially meditations by Marcus Aurelius, don't just read the cool quotes online, read the whole book. He was extremely in tune with his emotions, in the book he describes anger, happiness, sadness, jealousy from various events throughout his life. Stoicism more than anything is self awareness, being able to address your emotions internally, whislt ensuring your actions are not driven by your emotions, but by your morals. There's a big difference. It annoys me when people think being stoic is about being an emotionless robot. It's not about being void of all emotion, It's about being aware of them and in control them.

  • @joonhastandard
    @joonhastandard 8 месяцев назад +1

    Chris is so lively today. Feels like talking to an old friend.

  • @prashantthakuri6520
    @prashantthakuri6520 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Kris for Giving us A New Life , Thank you for the Male Advantage Brother ❤, and Stoicism is the Man biggest Part of Life

  • @EverydayKnowledgee
    @EverydayKnowledgee 8 месяцев назад +2

    In my opinion beeing stoic and disciplined can change a life for long term. these 2 features are 90 % fixing everything

  • @theanomity3185
    @theanomity3185 8 месяцев назад +1

    This is an all time classic!!!

  • @Tianmengliu
    @Tianmengliu 7 месяцев назад +1

    Don’t agree with all his views but definitely respect what he’s saying here

  • @Fittnesj
    @Fittnesj 8 месяцев назад +1

    This is maybe one of you best videos

  • @Kelvistrike
    @Kelvistrike 8 месяцев назад +6

    Those forearms veins looking crazy

    • @secretook
      @secretook 8 месяцев назад +3

      ikr

    • @Kelvistrike
      @Kelvistrike 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@secretook glad I wasn’t the only one noticing 😭🙏🏾

  • @who_is_dis
    @who_is_dis 8 месяцев назад +10

    Nah an Idiom is like "Bite the bullet and do it" or " Under the weather " - you've essentially just been memed 😂

  • @simonejaffa8675
    @simonejaffa8675 8 месяцев назад

    Your best vid in a while. This topic is my Achilles heel. Thanks for this one.

  • @adamfaliq8464
    @adamfaliq8464 8 месяцев назад +2

    Okay guys we've got a bunch of stoic mindset here

  • @djrocks5678
    @djrocks5678 8 месяцев назад +16

    Those forearms in the thumbnail looking thiccc

  • @JamieWE
    @JamieWE 8 месяцев назад

    Such a good mindset to cultivate. Enjoyed this one Kris!

  • @fitnessphilosoph
    @fitnessphilosoph 8 месяцев назад

    The Firealarm Story is Lit.

  • @j-anonymous
    @j-anonymous 8 месяцев назад

    Hi kris, it’s Jeremiah from your insta comments. Recently I’ve started doing 40 minutes of cardio daily, my mind has become more relaxed and focused. I think it’s something to do with increased oxygen intake. Could be an interesting video. Also face and body is getting leaner at a ridiculous rate.

  • @deciduousdiscipline9592
    @deciduousdiscipline9592 8 месяцев назад

    So good. Thanks, Kris

  • @KacperChalcarz
    @KacperChalcarz 8 месяцев назад

    When it comes to that hate culture thing you mentioned, i have to say that it is literally the same in Poland, here if u succeed, people just can’t stop themselves from hatin on you and lookin for excuses why you made it. It’s just ridiculous.

  • @bakirnolastname3940
    @bakirnolastname3940 8 месяцев назад

    Programers need to be stoic.I've been going to an IT oriented school for 6 years, and I hear this a lot, especially the women and the femboys : ohh i did everything right but it isn't working. If you made your logic right, it'll work

  • @michaelogbole7369
    @michaelogbole7369 8 месяцев назад

    Can you make a video on how to handle conflict? Especially with those close to you that try to test you always

  • @julius.2003
    @julius.2003 8 месяцев назад

    Okay guys we’ve got a bunch of quality stoic content here.

  • @ThatsCaptain
    @ThatsCaptain 8 месяцев назад +3

    1stMan: Okay guyyys…
    His Forearm Vein on the Thumbnail: 🥺

  • @alexandervashchuk7795
    @alexandervashchuk7795 7 месяцев назад

    8:25 genius

  • @kd3655
    @kd3655 8 месяцев назад

    1stman solves 100s of 1000s of years of evolution of human emotions!

  • @tylerdurden8640
    @tylerdurden8640 8 месяцев назад +2

    Is there anything better today than be a proper stoic? Did you ever seen James Bond got angry or lose his coolness? No. So. Act when you can and the best you can, the rest is not in your concern. ⚔️

  • @jesusmedranoo
    @jesusmedranoo 8 месяцев назад

    We've got a bunch of life set up here!

  • @swixdon
    @swixdon 8 месяцев назад +1

    Okay guys, we've got a BUNCH of veins in this left arm.

  • @99vhtech28
    @99vhtech28 8 месяцев назад

    Stoic is great what's 1st man keep it up

  • @cengizhanermet
    @cengizhanermet 8 месяцев назад

    Another BANGER video

  • @MrJesan74
    @MrJesan74 8 месяцев назад

    Video suggestion: Having your shit together as a mam. E.g. being organised, on time, being ahead, knowing your bank details stuff like that please

  • @yashvashisht1805
    @yashvashisht1805 8 месяцев назад

    Keep making more videos . It wil very knowledgeable ❤

  • @orenthabigg5973
    @orenthabigg5973 8 месяцев назад +1

    i dont usually leave comments but i watched the majority of your videos. and i think this one provides the most value. practical tips and thinking methods we can start applying today. i can really see this changing lives. as i see around me hoardes of bitch made men

  • @marcelchalobah7946
    @marcelchalobah7946 8 месяцев назад

    Do a live Q and A
    Meet and greet this year

  • @therealmag
    @therealmag 8 месяцев назад +1

    Okay guys we've got a BUNCH of Veins on the video to build inspiration from

  • @cherubeast
    @cherubeast 6 месяцев назад

    1. Almost nothing is personal. People are driven by their self-interest. Don't take things personally.
    2. Occam's Razor. When faced with 2 things, the simpler one is probably the thing that happened.
    3. Stop in the moment, analyze yourself and reaction from an external viewpoint, as if you're watching yourself from a neutral standpoint. Stop and think logically

  • @smilegp
    @smilegp 8 месяцев назад

    We Got A Bunch A Mindset

  • @zackbowly
    @zackbowly 8 месяцев назад

    prime example of the iconic subtle brag 1:34

  • @Therealmattchong
    @Therealmattchong 8 месяцев назад

    My mate bought bitcoin for a joke over a decade ago.
    He's definitely laughing now haha
    Great video Kris

  • @DevelopmentDive
    @DevelopmentDive 8 месяцев назад +1

    Big One ❤

  • @MatteoHarb
    @MatteoHarb 8 месяцев назад

    Amazing

  • @survivedmatze0327
    @survivedmatze0327 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Chris,
    I already contacted the Support for your Supplement, but got no response. It says worldwide shipping, but I can't select Germany. Am I to stupid or do you guys do not ship currently to Germany?? Thanks a lot

    • @projectsuperhuman
      @projectsuperhuman 8 месяцев назад +1

      You’re not allowed to ship certain supplements to Germany because of their laws I believe.

    • @jimboy101
      @jimboy101 8 месяцев назад

      so is there no way to get it here?@@projectsuperhuman

  • @jeffyoutube68
    @jeffyoutube68 8 месяцев назад

    Kris...are you going to make more workout videos?

  • @jimboy101
    @jimboy101 8 месяцев назад

    Hey 1stman, why is the mens lifestyle supplement not available in germany? is there any way to order it for me?

  • @Muhluri
    @Muhluri 8 месяцев назад

    OK guys we've got a banger video!

  • @Low_pH
    @Low_pH 8 месяцев назад

    Im BUZZING

  • @Erik-leChef
    @Erik-leChef 8 месяцев назад +2

    Swear box early here

  • @Emiliokelly1
    @Emiliokelly1 7 месяцев назад +6

    1. If you and Alex Dallison are making hundreds of thousands a month each, why are you asking people to commit money prior to you actually having even bought one property? Why would you not buy a house first, develop it etc and then advertise the finished product? If you really make that much you'd have a deposit saved within one month. Or is the real truth that you don't make anywhere near that amount of money so you couldn't afford to do that?
    2. If you're making hundreds of thousands a month as you claim, why does the information about 1stman Ltd on Companies House UK contradict this?
    3. If Alex Dallison is so successful, why does he only have two listed companies on Companies House UK, both of which were only created in the last month? He has no listed companies on Companies House that are listed as making a profit.

    • @TV-oc4ml
      @TV-oc4ml 7 месяцев назад +3

      Exactly, keeping digging man! Expose this grifter

  • @andrewkerr5296
    @andrewkerr5296 8 месяцев назад

    Tall Poppy syndrome exists in Australia too

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 6 месяцев назад

    That'd be a William George Olsen this baby swap - Willy 0

  • @KoenvanderZee
    @KoenvanderZee 8 месяцев назад

    What is the name of the book about the limbic brain, neo-cortex and reptillian brain you talked about in your video?

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 6 месяцев назад

    I regret that sometime Kelsey popped out most complicated stalker women ever - Willy 0

  • @DilanLiverpoolfc27PS
    @DilanLiverpoolfc27PS 8 месяцев назад

    Has the natural diuretic been discontinued? Can’t seem to buy it from the website

  • @Vlad_Ethereum
    @Vlad_Ethereum 8 месяцев назад +2

    Yall see the vein on his arm?

  • @jimboy101
    @jimboy101 8 месяцев назад

    Hey guys, the supplement is not available where I live and I wanted to ask yall if there is an alternative that is out there that I could order?

  • @diesertesch
    @diesertesch 8 месяцев назад

    Where I can buy the posters in the back?

  • @step1610
    @step1610 8 месяцев назад

    18:30 hahaha thats so relatable

  • @myvideosareforyou
    @myvideosareforyou 8 месяцев назад

    Are you meant to cycle the lifestyle supplement? If so for how long?

  • @leodekleijn7712
    @leodekleijn7712 8 месяцев назад

    Yes very good, people end up in jail for nothing because of listening to emotions.

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 6 месяцев назад

    Taking the train is just normal people stuff I don't wanna blow money and I'm drinking - Willy 0

  • @truebezzy12
    @truebezzy12 8 месяцев назад

    15:26 lmao I’ve seen this

  • @sliv9342
    @sliv9342 8 месяцев назад

    If you wanna grab our mens lifestyle supplement or male advantage e-book

  • @Apj-tq9um
    @Apj-tq9um 8 месяцев назад

    Don’t stop the male supplement pls

  • @jomsburner
    @jomsburner 8 месяцев назад +4

    I live a simple life. When I hear ‘ok then guys’, i put on the video and listen.

  • @SandeepSabarish
    @SandeepSabarish 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hey Kris I'm 19 if I'm waiting till 30 to date how do I find a wife quality virgin woman, at max I will be able to find a woman who's 5 years younger than me. Is it possible to get a 19 year old wife when I'm 30+ after achieving straight 7

    • @ronaldgmaster5782
      @ronaldgmaster5782 7 месяцев назад

      Nope. Sorry but don’t wait until 30 to date. That’s really unnatural.

  • @appiusclaudias3500
    @appiusclaudias3500 8 месяцев назад

    How do we get our hair back 1stman, I lost mine too, can you help me

  • @NM-hq1io
    @NM-hq1io 8 месяцев назад

    OK GUYS

  • @jordanewen6529
    @jordanewen6529 8 месяцев назад

    Ok guys we’ve got a bunch of stoicism here

  • @tucctucc6214
    @tucctucc6214 8 месяцев назад

    We’ve got a BUNCH of idioms

  • @maggus6413
    @maggus6413 8 месяцев назад

    Okay then guys

  • @ariahemin1000
    @ariahemin1000 8 месяцев назад

    Ok guys we've some meme here.
    I think meme is the word he looking for.

    • @Aurora-bv1ys
      @Aurora-bv1ys 8 месяцев назад

      Meme, The DNA of the Soul

  • @giusemineo
    @giusemineo 8 месяцев назад

    11:14 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @poiuy2010
    @poiuy2010 8 месяцев назад +4

    Wheat waffles keeps talking about age pill and how 20 year old girls don't like 30 year olds successful dudes, can you rebutt this Chris

    • @rockyblumble
      @rockyblumble 8 месяцев назад +4

      He doesn't need to. Wheat doesn't have the life experience to back his theory up, Kris does.

    • @Low_pH
      @Low_pH 8 месяцев назад +1

      WW is a kid

    • @pey10bogvkuehl29
      @pey10bogvkuehl29 8 месяцев назад

      Don’t listen to Wheat Waffles man. Pay attention to the things he says and realize for yourself how wrong they are.

    • @JaydonFitness
      @JaydonFitness 8 месяцев назад +4

      He does this to keep you in a shitty mindset so that you can go back to him and find out how to better yourself and then check if you are ready yet by submitting a request and paying to get his opinion on your looks and assets, its all his business. I personally stay away from people like him and Hamza and for about 2 years since then, I have felt better mentally. Kris is pretty decent but at-least he is like if you don’t better yourself you will regret it if not then 🤷‍♂️. AVOID THE BLACK PILL. Just be stoic and train.

    • @pey10bogvkuehl29
      @pey10bogvkuehl29 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@JaydonFitness I’m thankful Hamza directed me here years ago, because Kris is the only guy to wholeheartedly trust. Hamza and Jack, all of them are cringe and have lost the plot. I’m seeing now, Hamza uploads far too often. It’s just sad to see someone you used to look up to fall in with the group he advocated staying away from.

  • @jesusmedranoo
    @jesusmedranoo 8 месяцев назад +1

    Guy looks massive

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 6 месяцев назад

    However, I am tesla and people will be punished like I need the protections for niko himself from now on which my journals do just as much as Nikos I can assure you that - Willy 0

  • @Daighton242
    @Daighton242 8 месяцев назад

    Big g

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 6 месяцев назад

    I'm serious you get that smart my kids still smart enough to figure out I'd leave his girlfriends alone and they would and they trained him to hate me still sees me still doesn't trust them lives with them - Willy 0

  • @stonksag3999
    @stonksag3999 8 месяцев назад

    📈💪🏼

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 6 месяцев назад

    You like the emphasises recent journal that turned Africa into a jungle - Willy 0

  • @Izan-o8f
    @Izan-o8f 8 месяцев назад

    Does anybody else see those monster veins?

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 6 месяцев назад

    Well actually immunity doesn't mean you bred it right right you build the immunity and die you still died without kids - Willy 0

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 6 месяцев назад

    Which actually means your population is still vulnerable - Willy 0

  • @plotrecapped6819
    @plotrecapped6819 8 месяцев назад

    Thay veiny hand haha

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 6 месяцев назад

    But yeah my journal turned the African desert into a jungle just they have no respect for journals you'd have to learn to stalk an individuals typing except 100% of it before talking to me about critical information theft I got all the small children protected from it so far with everyone else the information war has broken out into smaller larger wars a couple times now - Willy 0

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 6 месяцев назад

    Actually truth be told the train doesn't stop the new protection I get but that's okay people want the desert turned into a jungle - Willy 0