IMPORTANT THINGS I REGRET NOT STARTING IN MY EARLY 20s: 5 THINGS I WOULD FOCUS ON IN MY 20s
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- Опубликовано: 10 май 2023
- IMPORTANT THINGS I REGRET NOT STARTING IN MY EARLY 20s: 5 THINGS I WOULD FOCUS ON IN MY 20s
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1) Be disciplined.
2) Find something you are good at and be passionate about it.
3) Do not settle:set your boundaries and standards.
4) Passive Income: monetize your interests.
5) Build and maintain solid friendships.
You're a lifesaver😍😍
I was lazy to write and then I came across this comment
Thank you. I was looking for this.
I’m almost 23. I think a lot of Gen-Z unhappiness and depression about life comes from social media. The constant comparisons, seeing people your age lightyears ahead of you. It’s exhausting. I recently deleted all socials except RUclips and have started pouring into myself, my finances and goals. I love that you added making friendships to this list… I’ve been so focused on my own success that I haven’t really made any friends.
I felt that, had to step away cause it really is a distraction but you also have to understand that it’s also a mirage and most of the people on there aren’t even really living the lives they’re portraying themselves to be. But I always remind myself that comparison is the thief of joy and just because one has something doesn’t mean the same won’t happen to you
I'm so glad I built the level of discipline I have now since the age of 19... I'm 21 a medical student with atleast 2yrs more to become a doctor and despite my limited time as a student doctor I'm growing an online brand, running a small food business in school to increase my finances and building healthy habits and my dream body by going to the gym consistently...not wasting time on relationships that's time wasting I can't reduce my standards no matter what cus I know I deserve that and all this I do with nothing but discipline
Go girl
@@TheLuscious97 thank you 🥰🥰
Love that for you!!!
@@angelicaamara62 thank you 🥰
How did u do? I’m 19
I don’t have any friends and sometimes I like it this way. No drama and no one to backstab you.
needed this video so bad!! discipline is something i really need to work on. now that im finally recovering from my mental health issues, i’m trying to get my life together and obtain the lifestyle that ive always desired. my lack of discipline tends to get in the way of that, but im starting to realize that im wasting my potential by sitting around doing nothing and doubting myself. i need to really start believing in myself and putting in the work to see results. your channel is such a blessing, thank you so much for this video! 💕💕
Same sister
Great video ! I’m 23 now when I was 20 I moved to a new city and have been trying to make friends ever since 😅 I finally realized that I need to be focused on my goals and being disciplined and things will fall into place
Exactly
Finding something you're good at and enjoy doing and making money from it, is something I wish I knew much earlier than I did!
I totally agree...20s is a very important and pivotal time in a persons like. it will influence the way you see life and if could negatively or positively influence your quality of life afterwards. I started smoking marijuana when I was 25. Worst decision I ever made. I became addicted to it. it changed me. i became lazy. Was kicked out of medical school because i failed my class because I rarely studied but spent my time smoking weed. I went back to medical school and glory be to God, I finally graduated. But I paid for my addictions. I wasted 8 years of my life addicted to weed. I had pseudo psychosis due to my addiction. However, God had mercy on me. I dont smoke anymore. I have been 9 years somber. I am mentally better...Not 100 percent..but about 90 percent better...so I am grateful. Guys, listen to her..your 20s is a very critical point in your life. ...very critical
thanks for sharing!!
Hmmm Glory to Jesus
I’m 22 and feel like I wasted so many years, but it makes sense that I’ve been starting to focus on my goals this past year and believing in my self to pursue them.
The way i quickly run to RUclips anytime i see a notification from you is so so different❤
Hi Lucy, I really admire you and appreciate your content. The advices you give us are practically amazing. Please drop a podcast, I would love to follow and binge listen to it. Soooo helpful that I could reflect in every sentence you utter. I could cry. Thank you!
I’m so glad i found you, I’m turning 20 soon so i have much to learn. Listing to your advice you give feel like having an older sibling watching over me 💓
I agree totally with that friendship part❤
Thank you so much, your videos always leave me journaling 😢
Today is my 21st birthday. Perfect timing 💕
Happy Birthday 🎉
Happy Birthday! I would focus on self love if I was 21 again.
I started journaling in 2019 and my life has changed internally and externally ❤ slow steps will still get you far
Gosh Lucy we think alike and I’ll really love to meet you. Everything you said is so spot on and I was literally just having the same conversation with my mentor few days ago. May God keep directing us and giving us wisdom. Well done girl, I really love your channel
I’m 22 rn and I’m honestly failing at everything in life. I don’t know where to start in life career wise, I live with my Nigerian parents and still dealing with toxic situations from childhood (I distance myself often) that truly affects my self confidence and self esteem , and I don’t want a big girl job. Rn it’s been a negative shift and I’ve changed for the worse especially after covid. Hopefully when I turn 23 I’m able to change my name for a while Fresh start. I don’t mind the cost. At 20, I definitely was on a better track in life than how I was at 21 during this time of last year and right now.
Sending you love 💖
@@adeola9091 thank you so much 🥺🥺
Someday sooner than you expect things will begin to fall in place for you 💕for now,breathe and know tough days don’t last
Find joy in the things you can control and the little things that work. Make the best of what you have now.
You’ll definitely be alright 💕
Same
We loved it!!!❤❤❤❤ esp the friends part
Thank you Lucy for words on wisdom
Love the advice! Definitely sharing!🙏🏿💃🏿
Most inspiring for me is the part were you spoke about having a liking to something "career" that people will take unserious but you totally love..so so true cos I have a degree and I'm selling food and drinks online and sometimes I don't remember I'm actually doing something I enjoy so much,not as profitable right but has so much potential..can't wait to unleash my potentials in this and so many more
Thank you Lucyyyy
I love you so freaking muchhh❤
I always check out for your videos
I'm still working on the discipline part and It's tough😢
Spent 80% of the time just looking at how elegant you’re and how very well kept the whole video is ❤️❤️❤️
I took so much from this! Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾
Thank you for that segment about passive income. I'm 19 and I have a lot of passive income ideas that I've been wanting to try, but I feel hesitant to go for them because sometimes I doubt my ideas. This gave me the extra push I needed.
Please share some with me. Thank you
I love how you talk. I listened all through, thanks for this I needed it. Does Better help as an app?
Thanks for sharing this piece ❤️❤️
Lucy thank you to be realistic with us
I loved it everything was giving big sister vibes🥹🥰
Thank you❤️
Firstborn energy love it great advice...
You look absolutely stunning Lucy, wow.
Hi Lucy, everything is so true.
Thank you for this insight
It's always like Lucy has me in mind when making her videos 😅😊.
I so much relate with the 5 points you talked about in this video.
Speaking of Discipline and taking action; I love cooking but I'm always talking myself down on beginning my business, I'll always say I don't have the resources, space, time and capital to start. Like you have said "Start Now!!!" and I will 😊😊.
Thank you Lucy 🥰❤️.
You are a brilliant woman and I hope many young women listen to this ! I wish I could have someone like you when I was younger (I am 27), love you
Loved it❤
Big sister Lucy thank you for this timeless information.
Thank You, this is great advice.
Thank you Lucy 😌❤️
Girl you look so good in video🥰
Thanks for the tips as always ❤
Very insightful! The best! Make a video for 30s. I turned 30 this year🎉🎉😊
Always on point!
This is amazing thank uuu
I feel like this is my favorite one of your videos 😊
I enjoyed this nd I would love to hv more of this content. Thanks for sharing
Thank you sis ❤️
Love this video
I’m turning 20 by July and I really do feel pressure and I struggle with anxiety too. Thank you for sharing, Lucy❤️
@lucybenson3 I can't find the link
Mine is next month. I feel the same way too! I’m glad I saw this video!
You’ll be fine honey, set a few goals for yourself each day and try hard to accomplish them, even if its 2 or 3 goals. The gratification that comes with it will make you feel the urge to do more and more.
Remember, there’s will be times you’ll not accomplish them. Thats ok. Don’t beat yourself up. Start afresh each day with the aim of wanting more for yourself in life.
Such good big sis advice❤
I don't usually comment on videos but I wanted to tell you that your channel has already helped me a lot to grow as a person and give me a new perspective on things and I thank you very much for helping people to be better
ps: i apologize if i didn't wrote well cuz English isn't my first language
Your English is perfect
You're English is quite good. You can get better.😊
I can't tell how God uses you but its great.. Each video you make speaks to me Directly... God continue to bless you... Much Love❤❤.. This year of my 20s has been going great.. I have been taking the bold steps in achieving mine goals and dreams...🌹🌹🌹
Lucy thank you big sister ❤
Enjoyed it!
For me I hate to admit it but I wastes so many years addicted to social media. It really is taking a toll on me and I want to have a better life. I want hobbies, a second job, save money/disciplined and make meaningful relationships and friends. I’m not innocent and I’ve done bad things like the last person, and sometimes I have resentment but I’m working on it slowly but surely 🙏🏾
Thank you for this video
I enjoyed this video❤
Discipline over everything! Fr
i agree with you tbh💕💖❤passive income is important
it's never easy to be displined however with time you can develop the habit.
Educative 💯
I literally enjoy watching you everytime😊 we hope to learn more from you
I love you so much sis❤
I love you Lucy❤❤❤❤
thanks sis Lucy ur advice is really making impact in my life ❤
I am 19 soon to be 20 in 6 days. I am starting to take more risks on my life. (good risks) I got myself into college and I trust that the universe will guide me to my dream job. I have been moving in silence for a bit. I needed to watch this video.
Thank you Lucy benson
Hello Lucy love your look❤
Love this video! Can you please do a video on different forms of passive income as a young person
Awww yes please
Please do
Where’s your wristwatch from?😍😍😍😍😍😍
I love this video
Thank you❤️
4th here 😍 I love your videos….😊
Part 2 babes 😘
Everything happens in divine timing & order.
Dont confuse passive income for side hustles. Passive income comes from investments what you described was side hustles
I’m almost 23
I’m 23 and I graduated from college a year ago and had been struggling for depression for the longest time. I still have yet to find an actual full time job within my field but have gotten side hustles related to it but really want to relocate to another city to get more opportunities but I can’t afford to. I’ll be turning 24 later this year and for the longest time I felt all these pressures to accomplish all these big things but I’m just trying to give myself grace and not compare myself to other people but it feels exhausting especially when you’re dealing with family that doesn’t understand what you’re going through
You will be fine, love. Everything will fall into place at the right time❤️
You’re gonna make it, don’t worry❤
Not in this life & not in the life to come 😂…..Word 💯💯💯, I totally agree! I even get panic attacks when I see people with a lot of friends 😅, like wooooooa, your life is at risk 😂. Thanks for another video Lucy ❤❤! Love you 😘
Thank you LUcy❤❤❤❤
The only issue with not settling is that eventually, you develop a perpetual pattern of not wanting to "settle." So 1 partner turns into 2, and 2 eventually turns into 4, and so on until eventually you're incapable of settling. No one ever is good enough. Dopamine is like any other drug, it's dose dependent. The more you have, the more you need. Before you realize, you've built up an egregious body count just looking for the next feel good.
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Why didn’t I find this early 😭😭
I will soon be 22 and it looks like I'm failing at everything I try to do, I started selling snails but not getting sales, I have been doing RUclips for a while but I don't know what's happening, I'm now torn apart between choosing a career path. I love media but I am a graduate of Genetics and Biotechnology, I definitely need someone to talk to.
If you truly love media, it doesn't matter what you studied. You can start online and dedicate more to your RUclips. Definitely at first, it will cost you, that's one thing to consider...but if you really love it. Go for it and commit everything to God.
What you said doesn’t make sense, I love your videos and I’ve been following you for a while but the 1-3 close friends I don’t really agree with. I could have 3 close friends and meet another person just because I have 3 close friends doesn’t mean I can’t be close to another friend. Friendship doesn’t work like that, I feel like sometimes not expected you get close to people of the energy, vibe, personality. And then u said if you lose one close friend they can be replaced that’s not how friendship works, you can’t pick the percings your close to. I don’t know if I’m making sense but friendship is based on a lot of things especially close friendship .
Really thought this was Breeny. Thumbnail fooled me
Starts at 4:00
Unfortunately, I can't afford any paying therapy session.
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You are beautiful
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How old is Lucy guys?🙈
First here
I hate my life
Any one to teach me how to make money???😢
BetterHelp is terrible!
Why ?
@@Voiceless_visionary the therapists are not always actually licensed and they sell your data
I'm 22, This video is just what i need rn, to be honest i've been doing alot of thinking, especially about discipline and relationship. Thanks alot for putting this video out there, was really everything i needed to hear, so helpful indeed🥰💓