I'm not insecure nor did someone make me insecure I slay pretty damn hard if I do say so myself😍😘🤩😵💫🤩😵💫😃🤭😵💫🤗🥰😚🥰🤗🥰😚😚😚🤗🤭😃😘🫠😘😍🥵😍🥵😍🥵😱😱😵💫😊😊😵💫🤪😵💫🤪🥵🤪🤩🥵☺️☺️🫣🫣🫣😜😜🖕🫠🫠🤩😣😳😣😲😲😲
You completely right, insecuritys are just thoughts. Its just your own way of thinking that makes the needles thoughts anything wurth. However, acceptance and being confident will get some of the thoughts appear less so its also easier not to think about the insecuritys when the thoughts are not appearing through your mind every time. In that way your insecuritys will get less important and can fade away. Confidence is necessary for the insecuritys to go away. Without self love you never can find acceptance and it makes it hard to love yourself becouse of that. Like a sort circle. Thats why its so hard so solve it. I actually think its necessary to have other people love you before you can love yourself. Humans are social animals and have always been depending on eage other. There are many people who dont get the love they need, the accepance from others who they are. And without others we are noone.
I was insecure once. Then I realized I’m so lazy that I’m not gonna waste my energy thinking bad about myself, it got boring. Now I just think about that one time I heard a person say “I like when girls have big noses” and now I just laugh at my younger self for hating my nose. Edit: you were made to look that way for a reason. ever heard someone say a dog is so ugly that that it’s cute…. Yeah, well your so beautiful that your adorable. Anyways, go treat yourself :)
Oh I needed to hear this. I’ve been insecure about a certain feature on my face that someone pointed out to me 13 years ago. I never thought about it til now why they would say that to me and if they thought about how it made me feel. I started to wonder if everyone else saw me the same way and it brought down my confidence, even after all these years. it hurt me so bad that I wonder how my bf is even attracted to me
I really appreciate this especially as a guy everyone expects you to be all tough and strong and I’m insecure about a lot of things so I really appreciate this
I don’t know if anybody relates to these but if you do then same gurlll! Stretch marks Cellulite Big hips Humongous thighs A belly pooch that kinda makes you look preggo A butt that doesn’t match your thigh size Facial hair or bumps/ unevenness of skin Thighs touch/ no thigh gap Bushy eyebrows or unibrow Uninteresting eyebrow colour REMEMBER: YOU ARE YOU AND NOBODY SHOULD HATE ON YO, BE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR BODY AND ALL IT DOES FOR YOU. YOURE BEAUTIFUL THE WAY YOU ARE!!!
Well it’s both for me because I’m tall and guys don’t like talk girls and my science teacher told me I wasn’t “normal” height for a girl I’m supposed to be tiny😀 so my heart just sank and now I don’t even try to date. And now I’m depressed and suicidal. Not only that but I don’t have friends I have one but my other best friend passed away so yea💔
And if I'm insecure about my personality? I really love how I look, hut I am concerned if I am a good person, because I have caused people to suffer (some accidentally, and some by violating their boundaries)
fr my family used to do that and then i starved myself and was prob depressed and now they don’t stop telling me how skinny i am and that’s why i wear baggy clothes
Spencer: "You're insecure" Me: "Don't know what for" My bro: "you're turning heads when you walk through the do-o-or" My parents: "Oh No, Here wo go again-"
As a 52 yr old let me say that the older you get the less you care about what others think of you ... yay!! Also, absolutely nobody is perfect, magazine covers are photoshopped, even models have issues with their self image too. Be happy, be healthy, be you💗
I made a hoodie in school. I showed it to my sister and her first thought was to say: it's ugly. It made me sad and now I'm scared to wear it bc I dont want to judged. Sometimes I hear ppl commenting on my long hair. I don't want to get judged. I'm so scared that I just go out with the same clothes all the time bc the I look like a emo and not that many ppl judge me anymore.
Really? My mom is in her 40’s and she’s constantly worrying what others think of her and she dresses up and puts on a full face of makeup just to water the plants
My heart skipped a beat when she said *“You’re insecure-“* -I’m a huge One Direction fan. 😂❤️ Edit: I love all the people in the comments. You all just made my day a lot better. 😃👍🏻
I love this video and ABSOLUTELY relate. My family made me feel insecure about my weight so much I began to believe them. I hated my stomach, my arms, legs and my chubby face. But... I managed to get over everything they said. We are all prefect the way we are, if you want to change do it for yourself not other people❤ #bodypostivity
my grandma makes so many comments about my weight to the point when she takes me to go to mc donalds or something everytime i say what i want she comments about how much fat it has in it to the point where i had an eating disorder and didnt even know it like literally its dinner time for me right now didnt eat all day asked my family to get food and they said later honestly this isnt healthy but whatever sorry if im bothering you
@@Bean8396It's okay. From experience people don't hate themselves to be "humble". It's more deeper shit, it doesn't necessarily mean it's okay to hate yourself. First walk a mile in someone else's shoes then you can judge whether it's stupid or not. I guess it would have been more accurate to say "hating your self just because of beauty standards is not wise" Hating your self is deeper shit.
@@annduruibe625 well yeh. But I hate myself because of depression and anxiety and crap, so yah. Just a lot deeper and I can't stop myself from hating myself, so I have personal experience as well...
@@j-rodthelibrarykid1166 This was a long time ago ik, but I just have to say - doing stupid things, and "being stupid" are two different things. Don't think of / identify yours as "stupid." "Stupid" is a **choice** , a *decision* and *action* - not a personality. It's not permanent, it's not written in concrete, but in the sand...wash it away with: Better decisions, learning, challenging ourself, and seeking wise counsel! I believe in you, you'll go so far in life! 😊👏 Just don't say "I'm stupid." Ok? 🥺
Thank you spencer you’re helping me so much.and Because the your insucure made my heart skip a beat Here’s some more tips I would recommend listening to little things by One Direction it really helped me with my body image and it’s a good song to just cry to Or you can flat up just listen to any One Direction song most of their songs are about teenage struggles or girls problems that they wish girls didn’t have problems with if you look up some One Direction quotes you’ll realize they are very sweet guys Here’s my favorites 1. Louis- there are a lot of insecure a girls out there and I wish I could just hold them and tell them how perfect they are 2.Niall-i’d rather be called a boy and play with paper airplanes then be called a man and play with a girls heart 3.Harry-it only takes a second to call a girl fat but she will take a lifetime starving herself watch what you say 4. Liam-The worst thing a boy could do is ignore a girl. When she’s giving him her whole heart 5.Zayn-just because you don’t have a prince does it mean you’re not a princess
Ligit theres this thing that I didn't mind about me, like I honestly didn't care, never paid attension to it. But when that one person pointed it out, I go crying in my bedroom everyday think about it, even being told that by my own very best friend, makes it worse, but thank you Spencer for all the help you done and made, it helped me alot and Im honestly gratefull ppl like you exist ❤
You know what I realized when watching this video. Most people are so focused on themselves that they don't notice you. I didn't notice ANY of your insecurities until you pointed the out and even after that I didn'tnroice anything wrong with you. So thank you so much Spencer!!
This is so true. Almost all my insecurities come from people pointing them out to me (and then proceeding to laugh) but STAY STRONG BAE because every single one of you is beautiful 💕💕
Same with me. A kid named Nicolas in 2nd grade mentioned i had hairy legs and arms and that overtime started making me insecure about. Im also insecure about my stomach hair and back “hair” which is just peach fuz but the stomach hair is a lot.
@@anqelic7797 There is nothing wrong with your hairy legs/stomach etc. There is nothing wrong with body hair in general. We all have body hair. Some people have more some have less.. some people's hair are noticeable and some of them don't haven't noticeable hair. Its okay. There is nothing wrong with that. You are YOU. And you are unique. Society makes us think that body hair on women is something to be ashamed of. However in reality ITS NOT. It is just a part of ourselves. I mean have you ever heard that if you have hair in you arms mosquitoes don't bite you or something? Lol. So you know its a part of our nature. You can do whatever you want with your body hair. There is no need to feel pressured about plucking them or waxing etc. I mean you can do it if you want. But you can also dont do it! Its your PERSONAL CHOICE. If someone is not okay with it, its their problem. NOT YOURS. You can do or don't do whatever you want with your body hair. Just remember whatever you choose do it for yourself! Not others or society. Embrace your uniqueness. Embrace yourself ❤️
Same! Like a lot and hun I mean A LOT of my insecurities come from my oldest sibling projecting THEIR insecurities onto me to cope Used to love my body.. Now I hate it
@@literally.laurenn Don't let ur sibling to do that to you. U can discuss about it together and you can explain to him/her how his/her behaviour makes you feel about your body and yourself in general ✨
Family made me feel insecure about my weight and I’m insecure about my body and weight🥺 that’s why I plan to loose weight and feel good again🥺 like I used to❤️❤️
@@toolazytothinkofaname1728 yea and honestly whenever I go clothes shopping I always get compared ti my sister and they always take me to plus size which I’m not🥺 I’m a size small/medium but that always pick out clothes and assume I’m a size xl/2xl and insult my weight etc which I just don’t wanna buy any clothes anymore😔😔 which hurts and it sucks
@@toolazytothinkofaname1728 same when I realise that so my clothes I currently have are getting too tight and I try to diet but I don’t keep up with diets😭😔😔 But I hope that you overcome your insecurity and I overcome mine🥺
“I want you to think of all insecurities” I could literally do a presentation about all of the things i am insecure about cuz broooo i literally hate everything about myself 💀
This helped me so much I literally started balling like a baby, when I reached the age 11 I was starting to become ✨insecure ✨ just because all the other girls had skinny body’s and I thought I was fat as a pig I actually feel good about my body for once thank you
i'm slender being skinny is not all that i look weird in bikinis and long in clothes. I get bullied too, my friend said i should be the frog sense i'm long lol..ugh sucks i still think about it , i cry too.
Thank you for this I needed it today. Over the years my self confidence has been brutally crushed by bullies and this video made me open my eyes to realize I am important to someone in my life. Thank you for this video and have a great day.
As a closeted trans girl who is also a bully victim, my self-esteem is at the rock bottom. I am sorry for what those horrible people did to you. Hoping you will come to love your beautiful self one day. You're a queen, go slay it
John 12:23-26 (NASB95): 24 “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit. 25 “He who loves his life loses it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it to life eternal. 26 “If anyone serves Me, he must follow Me; and where I am, there My servant will be also; if anyone serves Me, the Father will honor him.
I grew up with a cousin who is 1000x stereotypically “prettier” than me (long blonde hair, really skinny, clear skin) and she would always remind me how much prettier she was
I felt this one bc I was always insecure abt all my scars bc when I was like 5 or so maybe like 7 or 8 max my grandma said “oh girls shouldn’t have scars” and bc my skin doesn’t rly heal that well sometimes it was more visible. Also ever since she told me that when I was basically a baby until now I’m 14 I was afraid to wear dresses and I felt so uncomfortable when I had to wear them until one day I loved this one dress and I bought it and I wore it and was so happy so I plan on wearing them more. So to all the ppl who’s family member has torn them down ignore it and do what YOU want to do it’s your life at the end of the day.
My nose: Someone always called me a witch because it was “pointy”. Voice: some say I sound like a squirrel Nails: They grow fast and I try to manage them but the same someone calls me a witch for them to. I like my nails kept long but I always am cutting them so I can say I have short nails. Stomach: Everyone I meet tells me I’m skinny when I know I most definitely am not. It makes me insecure knowing people notice it and lie to me out of pity. Teeth/smile: I started to brush my teeth a lot more than normal because everyone would say my breath stunk and that I was an ogre because my teeth were more yellow. And someone always made fun of my smile and said I looked like a freak. Definitely have more.
People aren’t lying to you out of pity. You probably just aren’t fat. It may be some sort of body dysmorphia. If you don’t mind me asking, what’s your age, height, and weight? Sorry if that’s weird
@@myheartwillgowonandon5467 ??? First of all I’m not making her a twig? Second of all she is a twig and gets praised for it. Third of all people aren’t hating on me. They’re judging me. And because my sister is a twig that makes it ok?
I felt insecure as, though I’m only 11, I still have a bunch of acne, I don’t feel confident with my hair pulled back, and I feel overweight/ugly. Those insecurities were always there, but then it got worst when my friend said “you know, in my opinion you look better with your hair pulled out”, and another friend said “hey Cailey, you know you have a pimple right?”. These made me feel bad, because I was always told that people wouldn’t notice. Now I feel really insecure so yeah.
I'm just insecure. Everyone tells me I look amazing. I mean- I did get told I was hella fat by the internet years ago, but I've lost so much weight and am still insecure about myself even though everyone says I look great. I've just got this habit of hating certain features about myself that nobody else seems to care about
when I was 9 years old I went to a park with my friends and someone asked me if I was pregnant. ever since, I have been insecure about my stomach. I worked out for 5 months and nothing changed. I always remember that moment. I was too innocent to say anything back to that person. but I have found so many friends that appreciate me for who I really am. thanks Spencer💕You always make my day😘😘
I really love you for pointing that out. I really feel beautiful when I look at myself in the mirror, but then again, all the things that others say just come to my mind
I just got rid of mine by reminding my self that we live in a huge universe filled with billions of gallixies that have so many solar systems and we live on a rock so it doesn’t rlly matter what anyone looks like or says.
I’m insecure with my eyes and hair because people say “get that ugly eye-contacts/wig off, you’re faking it”, I’m insecure about my pointy-ears because everyone calls me a “vampire-freak”, I’m insecure about my birthmarks (people call ‘em fake and tried wiping it off with make-up remover..), my nose (it’s like Voldemort’s and people say i’m a “barbie”..) and lastly: insecure about my tourettes, anger&trust-issues, shyness and my anxiety&panic-attacks (because when i get a panic attack, i just hit at random, and e.t.c - anxiety one, i basically became Tamaki Amajiki but imagine that but with deku zoning out and muttering) Edit: ~ It Was Me and Others That Made That Happen ~ Edit / result: i felt the same, i had my insecurities at a HELLA young-age (i think when i was 3...?)
Literally crying. This meant so much. I have some insecurities that just recently came up but that’s because some friends pointed them out. Thank you for this 😭
@@TheRoyalDella12133 Okay. Whatever makes you feel better. Although you can talk to her about how it made you feel. Idk if its a good idea. I don't know you or your situation personally or something. The thing i am trying to say is sometimes it is good to express our feelings and thoughts with others. Just saying
I’m rlly late Ik but someone else made me insecure about my body I do have some parts of my body I do love tho like my thick thighs thick thighs are literally the best thing you could ask for!❤️
I’m insecure because I compare myself to skinnier people. I’m not fat but I’m also not skinny. I have more weight than I want on my stomach and thighs and I’m usually fine with it till the summer and I want to look good in my swimsuit 😭
All through elementary school for some reason I could never get real friends. Idk why. And once I started entering 3-5th grade I started looking at myself and thinking why nobody wants to be my friend or why anyone doesn't like me. I pointed out all the things I had that nobody else seem to have and I kinda just started getting insecure at such a young age. I hate how every judges based on looks. I immediately found out it's probably bc of how I look once I hear my 'friends talking'. Life is so unfair to all these good people. So now I'm just insecure still wearing a damn mask at school and hiding my body because middle schoolers and highschoolers don't seem to nice to me.
Me too girl, I feel exactly that same way too. Now im just trying to stay in the present and focus on building myself up. Can’t cover up forever or we won’t be able to live life to the fullest. And it is scary because im in high-school too and I always hear what these kids say but now im gonna try to work on myself. The people being rude don’t care about us so we shouldn’t care about what they have to say.
thank you! i was never insecure about having sparse eyebrows until my best friend with thick eyebrows told me to fill them in and made me feel like the way they were naturally wasn’t okay and i have been so insecure about it since literally 8years!
My insecurities include my arm hair, my facial expressions, my hair, my chin, my dark under eyes, my chest, and how ugly my smile is either closed or showing my teeth. It’s not a lot but that’s just how I feel. 💔😔
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Her: “Are you insecure, or did someone make you insecure?”
Me: “Both...”
I'm not insecure nor did someone make me insecure
I slay pretty damn hard if I do say so myself😍😘🤩😵💫🤩😵💫😃🤭😵💫🤗🥰😚🥰🤗🥰😚😚😚🤗🤭😃😘🫠😘😍🥵😍🥵😍🥵😱😱😵💫😊😊😵💫🤪😵💫🤪🥵🤪🤩🥵☺️☺️🫣🫣🫣😜😜🖕🫠🫠🤩😣😳😣😲😲😲
I was going to comment this.. Sorry also..
Me too you’re not alone
Same 😐👍
@@Charc_arc you’re really helping og rn
Insecurities don't necessarily go away with confidence, you just learn how to deal with them properly
You completely right, insecuritys are just thoughts. Its just your own way of thinking that makes the needles thoughts anything wurth. However, acceptance and being confident will get some of the thoughts appear less so its also easier not to think about the insecuritys when the thoughts are not appearing through your mind every time. In that way your insecuritys will get less important and can fade away. Confidence is necessary for the insecuritys to go away. Without self love you never can find acceptance and it makes it hard to love yourself becouse of that. Like a sort circle. Thats why its so hard so solve it. I actually think its necessary to have other people love you before you can love yourself. Humans are social animals and have always been depending on eage other. There are many people who dont get the love they need, the accepance from others who they are. And without others we are noone.
@@thedon1262 Thankss :)
@@xxahid ❤️
You can end them by fixing yourself and not neglecting yourself.
@@Hayondrolinhix9999 Again, they don’t go away. All you can do is learn how to focus on the things you do like about yourself.
I was insecure once. Then I realized I’m so lazy that I’m not gonna waste my energy thinking bad about myself, it got boring. Now I just think about that one time I heard a person say “I like when girls have big noses” and now I just laugh at my younger self for hating my nose.
Edit: you were made to look that way for a reason. ever heard someone say a dog is so ugly that that it’s cute…. Yeah, well your so beautiful that your adorable. Anyways, go treat yourself :)
I don't know but i was feeling insecure but after watching this video i feel better ❤❤
Oh I needed to hear this. I’ve been insecure about a certain feature on my face that someone pointed out to me 13 years ago. I never thought about it til now why they would say that to me and if they thought about how it made me feel. I started to wonder if everyone else saw me the same way and it brought down my confidence, even after all these years. it hurt me so bad that I wonder how my bf is even attracted to me
I really appreciate this especially as a guy everyone expects you to be all tough and strong and I’m insecure about a lot of things so I really appreciate this
I don’t know if anybody relates to these but if you do then same gurlll!
Stretch marks
Cellulite
Big hips
Humongous thighs
A belly pooch that kinda makes you look preggo
A butt that doesn’t match your thigh size
Facial hair or bumps/ unevenness of skin
Thighs touch/ no thigh gap
Bushy eyebrows or unibrow
Uninteresting eyebrow colour
REMEMBER: YOU ARE YOU AND NOBODY SHOULD HATE ON YO, BE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR BODY AND ALL IT DOES FOR YOU. YOURE BEAUTIFUL THE WAY YOU ARE!!!
The problem is... I have intrusive thoughts and nobody has taught me to be insecure I just AM...
I feel like it’s more like noticing things on you that don’t fit the beauty standards and not someone actually pointing them out
I look bad and i have accepted it because i can't lie either. Having bad looks and good ethics is worst combo ever
Wait- when she sang “ youre insecure “ i couldnt tell if she was singing lovejoy or one direction 😭🤣
Idk why but I have HUGE/BIG ears and I think they are soooo cute
Thank you❤
Well it’s both for me because I’m tall and guys don’t like talk girls and my science teacher told me I wasn’t “normal” height for a girl I’m supposed to be tiny😀 so my heart just sank and now I don’t even try to date. And now I’m depressed and suicidal. Not only that but I don’t have friends I have one but my other best friend passed away so yea💔
Where did you get the necklace?!? Gorgeous 😍
Someone made me insecure
And if I'm insecure about my personality? I really love how I look, hut I am concerned if I am a good person, because I have caused people to suffer (some accidentally, and some by violating their boundaries)
people talking about their insecurities made me insecure, fuck everyone talking abt how they feel without even asking if i want to hear
The worst feeling is that I'm already insecure, and then someone pointed out my insecurities.
Yes so true
Yep
It is the worst shit ever
Same😢
fr my family used to do that and then i starved myself and was prob depressed and now they don’t stop telling me how skinny i am and that’s why i wear baggy clothes
'No one likes a bully yet we bully ourselves the most'
-Some wise person
Some wise person lol😂
@@sheila_789 🤣🤣
that's true tho 😢
How is that so true…
that's why we don't like ourselves too
"Mrs. Girl, Mrs. Squirrel"
I CANT 💀💀💀💀
IKR LOL
😂
Spencer: "You're insecure"
Me: "Don't know what for"
My bro: "you're turning heads when you walk through the do-o-or"
My parents: "Oh No, Here wo go again-"
The fact that your brother knows the lyrics is everything 🤍🤍
Haha
HEYY BESTIEEE AFTER LONGG
Clara here!!😂✌💙💚
Same me and my brothers do the same thing
Her: think about it, r u insecure or did someone make u insecure?
Me: I’m insecure 😂
Same
Same
Same bestie
Fucking exactly
Fr tho-
As a 52 yr old let me say that the older you get the less you care about what others think of you ... yay!! Also, absolutely nobody is perfect, magazine covers are photoshopped, even models have issues with their self image too. Be happy, be healthy, be you💗
Wise words. Thank you. ❤😊👍
Thank you so much ❤ i needed to hear that today❤
I made a hoodie in school. I showed it to my sister and her first thought was to say: it's ugly. It made me sad and now I'm scared to wear it bc I dont want to judged. Sometimes I hear ppl commenting on my long hair. I don't want to get judged. I'm so scared that I just go out with the same clothes all the time bc the I look like a emo and not that many ppl judge me anymore.
So true👏🏻
Really? My mom is in her 40’s and she’s constantly worrying what others think of her and she dresses up and puts on a full face of makeup just to water the plants
My heart skipped a beat when she said *“You’re insecure-“* -I’m a huge One Direction fan. 😂❤️
Edit: I love all the people in the comments. You all just made my day a lot better. 😃👍🏻
@Grace Gallagher you’re turning heads when you walk through the do-o-or 😌
@@SammysShow THE WAY U SMILE AT THE GROUND IT AINT HARD TO TELL
@@agwithGod oh-oh U DONT KNOW U BEAUTIFUL
@@bananathemango1751 that's what makes you beautiful
@@Shreyaghatge so c-come on, you got it wrong
THAT "YOU'RE INSECURE" LIT UP MY WORLD CUZ I LOVE YOU A LOT AND I LOVE YOU EVEN MORE NOW THAT I KNOW YOU'RE A DIRECTIONER
💙💚🇮🇪♥️💛
💚💙🇮🇪❤️💛
IKRRRRR
U LOVE UR PFP AND USERNAMMEEEEE
@@blakethestakeig OMG FANK YOU SO SO MUCHHHHHH
Spencer says :Your insecure 🎶
The whole one direction fandom is immediately summoned 💚💙🇮🇪💛❤️
This.
Hello Fellow directioner! 💚💙🇮🇪💛❤️
@@sophie_creations oi oi💚💙🇨🇮❤💛
@@Selina-lk3nm FLY AWAKEN
@@Selina-lk3nm FLY AWAKEN 💙💚🇮🇪💛❤️
spencer: “yOuR iNsAcUrE”🎶🎵🎶
me: *goes to the comments to find my fellow directioners*😂
💚
💚💙
Yes😂 I'm just looking at all the comments right now and laughing😂 (and I have my own comment here...)
me: your insecure
you dont know what for
the way you are is enough-
💚💙
You summoned the whole fandom Spencer 💚💙❤️💛🇮🇪
We are everywhere
@@hannahbell31 ikkrrrrrrrr we are crazyy 🤣
Yes yes
LARRY
@@liv5661 LARRY STYLINSON 💚💙🥺
Spencer: "You're insecureee"
Me: DON'T KNOW WHAT FOR
I came to the comments to look for my fellow One Direction lovers 💚💙
Me too!!
here I am🤡
Right here 💙💚🇮🇪💛❤️
Here..
U found me 😚😁
“Your insecure
Don’t know what for
Your turning heads
When you walk through the door”
Most powerful confidence boosting lyrics
“Don’t need make up, to cover up
Being the way that you are is enough” 🤍
@@marialondonooo make up is not just for a cover up but thats okay 😅
@@vil1906 I’m writing the lyrics
@@marialondonooo okey ı just wanna say it bcs its not comfidence boost type of lyrics for me
@@marialondonooo EVERYONE ELSE IN THE ROOM CAN SEE IT
EVERYONE ELSE BUT YOUUUU
the fact that I'm listing to what makes u beautiful rn is....just lol
😂
Right, I don’t think she got a big forehead or big ears
Me too I'm a directioner 💗
@@pewpew3490 sameee💛❤️🇮🇪💚💙
How to stop being insecure:
listen to one direction
See and listen to Spencer
Life Is perfect
Heyyyyyy! You're a directioner too 🎉🎉
And you chose to speak factsss
LITTERALY
Yay!
Especially listen to little things luv
@@aditriiii ikr
I was already insecure, and then someone pointed out my insecurities right as soon as I was about to get over it , and now I cant forget it
Bruh Fr
Same.
“ miss girl, miss squirrel.”
IM DEAD IMAO 😂
I love this video and ABSOLUTELY relate. My family made me feel insecure about my weight so much I began to believe them. I hated my stomach, my arms, legs and my chubby face. But... I managed to get over everything they said. We are all prefect the way we are, if you want to change do it for yourself not other people❤ #bodypostivity
Awe this really hit home, and yea- it got to the point where I have an eating problem and keep losing and gaining weight ;()
That's just how I felt... But it was those around me, not my family. I can relate.
Yes this happens so much my mom is like you just ate or no more snacks and every time I walk away crying bc it makes me think about my weight
my grandma makes so many comments about my weight to the point when she takes me to go to mc donalds or something everytime i say what i want she comments about how much fat it has in it to the point where i had an eating disorder and didnt even know it like literally its dinner time for me right now didnt eat all day asked my family to get food and they said later honestly this isnt healthy but whatever sorry if im bothering you
@@someoneontheinternet7490 so sorry you have to deal with that no one should ever go through that I hope it gets better❤️
the way she started to sing one d made my day 💚💙
yesss sameee
Directioner💚💙🇮🇪❤️💛
And btw love ur pfp
"miss gurl, miss squirrel"
why did that make my day 😭
😂 omg I just died too
"Hating yourself isn't humble - it's stupid" 🙂 Agreed.
FR tho-😂 doesn't necessarily mean I can stop myself from hating me, but uhhhh... True true
@@Bean8396It's okay. From experience people don't hate themselves to be "humble". It's more deeper shit, it doesn't necessarily mean it's okay to hate yourself. First walk a mile in someone else's shoes then you can judge whether it's stupid or not. I guess it would have been more accurate to say "hating your self just because of beauty standards is not wise" Hating your self is deeper shit.
@@annduruibe625 well yeh. But I hate myself because of depression and anxiety and crap, so yah. Just a lot deeper and I can't stop myself from hating myself, so I have personal experience as well...
Great so I'm stupid too
@@j-rodthelibrarykid1166 This was a long time ago ik, but I just have to say - doing stupid things, and "being stupid" are two different things.
Don't think of / identify yours as "stupid." "Stupid" is a **choice** , a *decision* and *action* - not a personality.
It's not permanent, it's not written in concrete, but in the sand...wash it away with: Better decisions, learning, challenging ourself, and seeking wise counsel! I believe in you, you'll go so far in life! 😊👏
Just don't say "I'm stupid." Ok? 🥺
No one gonna talk about how Spencer said “So mrs.girl, mrs.squirrel”
Thank you spencer you’re helping me so much.and Because the your insucure made my heart skip a beat Here’s some more tips
I would recommend listening to little things by One Direction it really helped me with my body image and it’s a good song to just cry to
Or you can flat up just listen to any One Direction song most of their songs are about teenage struggles or girls problems that they wish girls didn’t have problems with if you look up some One Direction quotes you’ll realize they are very sweet guys
Here’s my favorites
1. Louis- there are a lot of insecure a girls out there and I wish I could just hold them and tell them how perfect they are
2.Niall-i’d rather be called a boy and play with paper airplanes then be called a man and play with a girls heart
3.Harry-it only takes a second to call a girl fat but she will take a lifetime starving herself watch what you say
4. Liam-The worst thing a boy could do is ignore a girl. When she’s giving him her whole heart
5.Zayn-just because you don’t have a prince does it mean you’re not a princess
Hey bestie.
Thank you
@@Sdghjj401 you’re welcome ❤️
Eeeeeee! all of these make me smile.
Aww mate...this is so touching
Spencer: “You’re insecure “
Me: *starts aggressively singing WMYB lyrics while dancing*
💚💙🇮🇪💛❤️😍😂💕
YESSSSS
Me as a directioner too!!!!!!!
You're insecure...
Don't know what for....
don’t need makeup!
Ligit theres this thing that I didn't mind about me, like I honestly didn't care, never paid attension to it. But when that one person pointed it out, I go crying in my bedroom everyday think about it, even being told that by my own very best friend, makes it worse, but thank you Spencer for all the help you done and made, it helped me alot and Im honestly gratefull ppl like you exist ❤
the way one line from wmyb summoned the whole fandom 😭😭
fr 😭
literally tho
fr not me singing the whole song after
frr
My heart went 💫💫💫💫💫when she said “your insecure” my 1D heart went crazy
Same
Same 🤌I am singing *What makes you beautiful* right now
Pov: all the comments are about the “YoU’rE iNsEcUrE”
Cause Directioner are everywhere 💚💙🇮🇪❤️💛
Her: "You're insecure"
Me be like: "Don't know what for. You're turning heads when you walk through the do o oorrrr"
@corinne and elise to cover up
Being the way that you are is eno-o-ough
@@kaayahasan8980 everyone else in the room can see it
@@fraukehaberland4739 everyone else but uuu
@@yaminoline5 baby you light up my world like nobody elseeeee
@@priyanshugupta3608 the way that you flip your hair gets me overwhelmed
You know what I realized when watching this video. Most people are so focused on themselves that they don't notice you. I didn't notice ANY of your insecurities until you pointed the out and even after that I didn'tnroice anything wrong with you. So thank you so much Spencer!!
This is so true. Almost all my insecurities come from people pointing them out to me (and then proceeding to laugh) but STAY STRONG BAE because every single one of you is beautiful 💕💕
Same with me. A kid named Nicolas in 2nd grade mentioned i had hairy legs and arms and that overtime started making me insecure about. Im also insecure about my stomach hair and back “hair” which is just peach fuz but the stomach hair is a lot.
@@anqelic7797 There is nothing wrong with your hairy legs/stomach etc. There is nothing wrong with body hair in general. We all have body hair. Some people have more some have less.. some people's hair are noticeable and some of them don't haven't noticeable hair. Its okay. There is nothing wrong with that. You are YOU. And you are unique. Society makes us think that body hair on women is something to be ashamed of. However in reality ITS NOT. It is just a part of ourselves. I mean have you ever heard that if you have hair in you arms mosquitoes don't bite you or something? Lol. So you know its a part of our nature. You can do whatever you want with your body hair. There is no need to feel pressured about plucking them or waxing etc. I mean you can do it if you want. But you can also dont do it! Its your PERSONAL CHOICE. If someone is not okay with it, its their problem. NOT YOURS. You can do or don't do whatever you want with your body hair. Just remember whatever you choose do it for yourself! Not others or society. Embrace your uniqueness. Embrace yourself ❤️
Same! Like a lot and hun I mean A LOT of my insecurities come from my oldest sibling projecting THEIR insecurities onto me to cope
Used to love my body.. Now I hate it
@@literally.laurenn Don't let ur sibling to do that to you. U can discuss about it together and you can explain to him/her how his/her behaviour makes you feel about your body and yourself in general ✨
Yea, same abt me they point how I look weight, colour...wth bruh like my whole existence🥲
when she said “youre insecure” i was like and mcyt fan and a directioner at the same time
Family made me feel insecure about my weight and I’m insecure about my body and weight🥺 that’s why I plan to loose weight and feel good again🥺 like I used to❤️❤️
Mine too they always make me feel like a woman always needs to have a perfect Body and face..
And now I am insecure
@@toolazytothinkofaname1728 yea and honestly whenever I go clothes shopping I always get compared ti my sister and they always take me to plus size which I’m not🥺 I’m a size small/medium but that always pick out clothes and assume I’m a size xl/2xl and insult my weight etc which I just don’t wanna buy any clothes anymore😔😔 which hurts and it sucks
@@sydneymcmillian shopping is the worst cuz when a size doesn't fit me they say it's because of my weight
@@toolazytothinkofaname1728 same when I realise that so my clothes I currently have are getting too tight and I try to diet but I don’t keep up with diets😭😔😔
But I hope that you overcome your insecurity and I overcome mine🥺
@@sydneymcmillian Thanks and don't let other people get to you Just keep believing in yourself
When people say “How are you so confident??” Response: My favorite influencer Spencer Barbosa! I love you ❤️
"don't know what for "
Directioner was summoned ✋🏻❤️💙💚💛🇨🇮
( Plus I really like it how your spreading good energy and kindness 😊)
🫠
The "if you're insecure" was amazing 😭✨
Spencer really just summoned a whole fandom with just 2 words 💚💙🇮🇪❤️💛
When Spencer said: “your insecure” THE FIRST THE I THOUGHT OF WAS ONE DIRECTION- HUN
Whoop whoop
Just gonna watch the first 2 seconds of this video on repeat just to hear her singing WMYB 💀
Yessss!!
Yasssss
YESS
“I want you to think of all insecurities”
I could literally do a presentation about all of the things i am insecure about cuz broooo i literally hate everything about myself 💀
Same. But most are from other people which is lovely. I’m sure we are both beautiful/handsome. Let’s slay
@@kaylanek1 🫶🫶
This helped me so much I literally started balling like a baby, when I reached the age 11 I was starting to become ✨insecure ✨ just because all the other girls had skinny body’s and I thought I was fat as a pig I actually feel good about my body for once thank you
i'm slender being skinny is not all that i look weird in bikinis and long in clothes. I get bullied too, my friend said i should be the frog sense i'm long lol..ugh sucks i still think about it , i cry too.
Thank you for this I needed it today. Over the years my self confidence has been brutally crushed by bullies and this video made me open my eyes to realize I am important to someone in my life. Thank you for this video and have a great day.
As a closeted trans girl who is also a bully victim, my self-esteem is at the rock bottom. I am sorry for what those horrible people did to you. Hoping you will come to love your beautiful self one day. You're a queen, go slay it
All I’m saying is why did god bless us with this angel, she’s gorgeous and amazing.
I have that strong feeling again. It hurts so much. Do very much. Want to scream. Cry. And * * *
John 12:23-26 (NASB95): 24 “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.
25 “He who loves his life loses it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it to life eternal.
26 “If anyone serves Me, he must follow Me; and where I am, there My servant will be also; if anyone serves Me, the Father will honor him.
Spencer’s out here being insecure about her ears when I’m sure everyone thinks that her ears make her the absolute cutest person they know 🤍
*you're insecure-*
my brain: don't know what for
When you realise the fact that your own mother made you insecure 🙃
I don’t like Pimples and blackheads that’s the only thing I don’t like about myself but they should be gone in a couple weeks
I grew up with a cousin who is 1000x stereotypically “prettier” than me (long blonde hair, really skinny, clear skin) and she would always remind me how much prettier she was
Literally me. My cousin is a gorgeous blonde who works at hooters and can get any guy she wants. She’s 18 days older than me and won’t let me forget 😭
@@crystalmartin3422 yesss mine is 10 months older :/
Those kind of cousins disagree when you tell them they're pretty.
@@rwottluv yep 100%
I like how the most prettiest, perfect looking women was or still is insecure herself like girl😭 u a goddess
“Don’t know what for”
I just love your wide eyed face expression 😂😂😂 Makes me laugh every time
❤️❤️ Her voice thooo 🎤 Love you girl! So encouraging and inspiring.
"You're insecure"
"Don't know what for, everyone else in the room can see it everyone else but YOU"
*definitely someone else made me insecure*
ok i love 1d so this is great
Same Bro HAHAHA
LLN same
Ah yes the one direccion intro ✨Beautifull✨ luv ur vids!!
I felt this one bc I was always insecure abt all my scars bc when I was like 5 or so maybe like 7 or 8 max my grandma said “oh girls shouldn’t have scars” and bc my skin doesn’t rly heal that well sometimes it was more visible. Also ever since she told me that when I was basically a baby until now I’m 14 I was afraid to wear dresses and I felt so uncomfortable when I had to wear them until one day I loved this one dress and I bought it and I wore it and was so happy so I plan on wearing them more. So to all the ppl who’s family member has torn them down ignore it and do what YOU want to do it’s your life at the end of the day.
YAS 👏 preach
@@akittenschild635 babyiamlockupbabyiwsntyouinmiftbany
My nose: Someone always called me a witch because it was “pointy”.
Voice: some say I sound like a squirrel
Nails: They grow fast and I try to manage them but the same someone calls me a witch for them to. I like my nails kept long but I always am cutting them so I can say I have short nails.
Stomach: Everyone I meet tells me I’m skinny when I know I most definitely am not. It makes me insecure knowing people notice it and lie to me out of pity.
Teeth/smile: I started to brush my teeth a lot more than normal because everyone would say my breath stunk and that I was an ogre because my teeth were more yellow. And someone always made fun of my smile and said I looked like a freak.
Definitely have more.
People aren’t lying to you out of pity. You probably just aren’t fat. It may be some sort of body dysmorphia. If you don’t mind me asking, what’s your age, height, and weight? Sorry if that’s weird
@@cristianofelicio1141
Trust me I’m not skinny. My sister is a twig no joke though so she thinks she’s perfect. So that doesn’t really help.
@@cocoajammer1782 wtf you're literally making your sister a 'twig' and you want people to stop hating on u?
@@myheartwillgowonandon5467 ??? First of all I’m not making her a twig? Second of all she is a twig and gets praised for it. Third of all people aren’t hating on me. They’re judging me. And because my sister is a twig that makes it ok?
Her : you're insecure ...
Me : don't know what for...
My directioner heart: Ahhhh
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE FACT THAT SHE SAID “MISS GIRL, MISS SQUIRREL-“ I LOVE THATTT--
I felt insecure as, though I’m only 11, I still have a bunch of acne, I don’t feel confident with my hair pulled back, and I feel overweight/ugly. Those insecurities were always there, but then it got worst when my friend said “you know, in my opinion you look better with your hair pulled out”, and another friend said “hey Cailey, you know you have a pimple right?”. These made me feel bad, because I was always told that people wouldn’t notice. Now I feel really insecure so yeah.
@V꒰ra+Gi4nnasCh4rms 🥺🤚🏻 thank you
I can relate so much. I hope things are better now
@@peacexbanana7927 thank you. No, they’re not. It’s worse. I’m getting help, but yeah. I’m really hoping you’re doing ok. I’m sorry for how you feel.
@@Cailey_forman well keep hanging in there. I’m sure you’re beautiful and remember you’re not alone
@@peacexbanana7927 absolutely. I’m sure I am (that sounds so self-centred 😅), but yeah, I just can’t see you. You do also, have a lovely day ☺️
I love this girl, literally the best big sister ever
This is so true. When looking at others we focus on the parts we don’t like about ourselves.
I'm just insecure. Everyone tells me I look amazing. I mean- I did get told I was hella fat by the internet years ago, but I've lost so much weight and am still insecure about myself even though everyone says I look great. I've just got this habit of hating certain features about myself that nobody else seems to care about
I’ve been made fun of my whole life for being short, underweight. This made me feel so much better!❤️
when I was 9 years old I went to a park with my friends and someone asked me if I was pregnant. ever since, I have been insecure about my stomach. I worked out for 5 months and nothing changed. I always remember that moment. I was too innocent to say anything back to that person. but I have found so many friends that appreciate me for who I really am. thanks Spencer💕You always make my day😘😘
I really love you for pointing that out. I really feel beautiful when I look at myself in the mirror, but then again, all the things that others say just come to my mind
Thanks you so much Spencer! I struggle with confidence and you name me feel better this is so relatable
I just got rid of mine by reminding my self that we live in a huge universe filled with billions of gallixies that have so many solar systems and we live on a rock so it doesn’t rlly matter what anyone looks like or says.
I’m insecure with my eyes and hair because people say “get that ugly eye-contacts/wig off, you’re faking it”, I’m insecure about my pointy-ears because everyone calls me a “vampire-freak”, I’m insecure about my birthmarks (people call ‘em fake and tried wiping it off with make-up remover..), my nose (it’s like Voldemort’s and people say i’m a “barbie”..) and lastly: insecure about my tourettes, anger&trust-issues, shyness and my anxiety&panic-attacks (because when i get a panic attack, i just hit at random, and e.t.c - anxiety one, i basically became Tamaki Amajiki but imagine that but with deku zoning out and muttering)
Edit: ~ It Was Me and Others That Made That Happen ~
Edit / result: i felt the same, i had my insecurities at a HELLA young-age (i think when i was 3...?)
You'll be fine just vibe with 1d🖤🤙🏼
You'r beautiful 🤎 dw
"miss girl, miss squirrel" -Spencer hahahah
Thank you so much!! 😊😊😊🫠🫠🫠🫠🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹 I really needed to hear this! 💖💖💖💖
Literally crying. This meant so much. I have some insecurities that just recently came up but that’s because some friends pointed them out. Thank you for this 😭
Well... friends don't do that to each other right? 🤷
@@WNCFAM Yeah. I was a bit shocked and then got upset. True friends don’t point out that stuff unless they want to help you overcome your insecurities
@@TheRoyalDella12133 Exactly. If i can ask are still friends?
@@WNCFAM Not anymore. We don’t talk anymore after it. It hurt a lot so I just kinda drifted away and stopped talking to her
@@TheRoyalDella12133 Okay. Whatever makes you feel better. Although you can talk to her about how it made you feel. Idk if its a good idea. I don't know you or your situation personally or something. The thing i am trying to say is sometimes it is good to express our feelings and thoughts with others. Just saying
I’m rlly late Ik but someone else made me insecure about my body I do have some parts of my body I do love tho like my thick thighs thick thighs are literally the best thing you could ask for!❤️
I’m insecure because I compare myself to skinnier people. I’m not fat but I’m also not skinny. I have more weight than I want on my stomach and thighs and I’m usually fine with it till the summer and I want to look good in my swimsuit 😭
Her: You’re Insecure
Me:Don’t know what for. Your turning heads when you walk through the doooooor.
My directioner heart❤️❤️❤️
Dont need make up to cover up 🎶
@@NoellyMelgares you know the way that you are is enouuugh
All through elementary school for some reason I could never get real friends. Idk why. And once I started entering 3-5th grade I started looking at myself and thinking why nobody wants to be my friend or why anyone doesn't like me. I pointed out all the things I had that nobody else seem to have and I kinda just started getting insecure at such a young age. I hate how every judges based on looks. I immediately found out it's probably bc of how I look once I hear my 'friends talking'. Life is so unfair to all these good people. So now I'm just insecure still wearing a damn mask at school and hiding my body because middle schoolers and highschoolers don't seem to nice to me.
Me too girl, I feel exactly that same way too. Now im just trying to stay in the present and focus on building myself up. Can’t cover up forever or we won’t be able to live life to the fullest. And it is scary because im in high-school too and I always hear what these kids say but now im gonna try to work on myself. The people being rude don’t care about us so we shouldn’t care about what they have to say.
thank you! i was never insecure about having sparse eyebrows until my best friend with thick eyebrows told me to fill them in and made me feel like the way they were naturally wasn’t okay and i have been so insecure about it since literally 8years!
My insecurities include my arm hair, my facial expressions, my hair, my chin, my dark under eyes, my chest, and how ugly my smile is either closed or showing my teeth. It’s not a lot but that’s just how I feel. 💔😔
I’ve gotta be honest, this just put a smile on my face, thank you so much 💕
“Miss girl miss squirrel” ilysm Spencer! You motivate me so much and help build my confidence!