Called Off My Wedding After My Fiancé Went Behind My Back for Months to Secretly Invite My Abusive..
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- Called Off My Wedding After My Fiancé Went Behind My Back for Months to Secretly Invite My Abusive Dad Against My Wishes, Then He Gave Me an Ultimatum When I Confronted Him.
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That Ex is definitely one of those "people should always love their family, no matter how toxic" types and can't stand the idea that someone hates their parents
people like him cant understand toxic people must need removed from you life even if they are "family"
@@ianmoritzplatapino3684 ESPECIALLY if they're "family".
Do you watch Mark Narrations? "For faaaaamily!"
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This is like the “DO IT FOR DAN” situation
Receiving criticism from his family is the best thing to know for sure she shouldn't marry him. Good family would ask and try to truly understand
Ironically, the father unknowingly did something good besides giving the divorce: he exposed the fiancé for the horrible person that he was and helped OP dodge a b-llet.
the ex really does have a savior complex. all he heard from the op was "i want to rebuild my relationship with my dad so one day he can walk me down the aisle". disregarding the rest of the horrible things op's dad done to her and her family.
glad the ex taught her to say no!
Oh hell no, I'm glad op called off the wedding and ended the relationship, this is why you need to be careful with sharing details because they can use that shit against you. Sever all ties with them, hell get a restraining order if you have too, better yet move several states over
I can’t believe that ex invited the OPs father when she told he about what happened to her. He knew what happened between the father and the OP but still decided to invite him when she didn’t want him at their wedding in the first place. All the ex had to do was not invite the dad and the wedding would have happened.
The fact that OP’s ex-fiancé invited her abusive father behind her back to the wedding just shows that he will never respect her going forward in their relationship. What made it worse is that HE KNEW how shitty her relationship with her father was, HE KNEW how abusive her father was, HE KNEW how her father abandoned her when she needed him the most… and he STILL disregarded her feelings when he invited her father to the wedding despite her explicitly telling him not to do so!
Ex pretty much savior complex manipulated lied & ultimatum nuked and scorched salted earthed his plus even his own mom's entire relationship with OP. He just couldn't leave well enough alone regarding that trash mess of father of OP's that destroys relationships, even indirectly... Only good thing about this whole situation, that unlike OP's mom who had deal with vindictive trash that wouldn't give a divorce willing; OP wasn't married yet so was able to walk away even with that apartment lease agreement.
OP’s EX: he guise, I tried to gaslight my finacé after i invited her no contact dad to our wedding. I know that I know what’s best for her, but she doesn’t know that, yet. How do I make her understand she’s wrong and should just do what I say? What kind of cake should I make her make me and how long do I need to guilt trip her before she starts getting her eating privilages back, lol?
This story reminds me of where the fiancee invited the abusive twin sister and the other one where the fiancee invited the mother as well.
This is like the one where the ex GF invited OP's estranged and narcissistic mom to her brother's wedding, and OP and him left before the wedding started.
Ayo, wtf! What is that name 'frieswithshake booty'💀?
I want more DO IT FOR DAN STORIES!!!!
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The ex cares about the image only. It's good you called off the wedding. What happens if the ex turns into selfish, conscending,controlling,and manipulative husband?
Rlsash said: you had a boundary and they broke that boundary, so that is
extremly disrespectful
So Ops Fiancé invited the one person Op didn't want at the wedding and when called it off he tried to paint Op as the bad guy because he know's his family would get mad at him, talk about a victim mentality, he doesn't even own up to the fact he messed up. He just wants Op to take the fall so he can have good relations with his family.
Sounds like the Ex wanted to notmalize OP forgiving toxic narcissistic behaviour.
legit thought a hail marry bandaid fix would solve all their issues. If youre gonna have a savior complex, at least put SOME effort in...
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*Where's The Video With The Rest Of The Updates!*
I heard an identical story to this one where the ex only reached out to the father because his parents were making him, they were saying families stick together no matter what and she needs to forgive him BEFORE the wedding, then they all had the pikachu face when she called off the wedding and bailed.
This story had been on his channel before this is either re-upload or content farming
i remember a story like this but the genders were swapped
If I don't talk to someone and get in a relationship, my partner doesn't talk to them either. My partner doesn't talk to someone, I don't talk to them. If going behind someone's back is how they think a relationship works, the that shows they don't care about their partner's feelings. Inviting an abusive person back into someone's life is grounds for getting cut off.
I definitely wanna hear the EX's side of the story, women are good liers. He went about the wrong way, but I have a strong feeling the girl didn't tell her ex the full truth about what her dad did, I also have a feeling the ex's family also didn't know the truth about her dad.
If my fiancé did this shit to me like if he invited my bio dad I would leave his ass at the alter and then block him because one I ain’t putting up with that shit my bio dad is an alcoholic and drug addict and was physically abusive to me and my mom he was abusive to my mom since I was born and was abusive of me for 6 years and if you so much as said no to him if he asked if you wanted to drink with him aka he would force a 10 year old me to drink with him or he would hit me and he would always make comments about my chest and would slap my ass if he was behind me and he sometimes would call me my moms name so if my fiancé did what OP’s fiancée did I would leave or just break it off with him as soon as I found out
It’s easy to forgive people who aren’t your mom and dad, you have to trust your parents as a kid so if they f*ck up it makes things difficult and causes drama.
Commenter @ about 8 minutes in nailed it. Have a "script" of sorts memorized for people and use it every time. Its clear and concise.
God I hate when people just let family, who have already proven many times that they don’t care about you, do whatever they want to them.
Op needs to stop saying trigerd. It makes think they're the asshole
Omg an armchair shrink just block them all
Hasn't this video already been covered?
You didn't break up with your Ex, he broke up with you while blaming you. He betrayed your trust and he did exactly what you didn't wanted anyone to do.
I didn't even needed the end of the Story and was still right. Beside what Ex did must be some kind of abuse.
First and your not the aita
noone cares that ur first, ur right he is not the ah
No one care bot
@@TheAnyStuff ok and I was just saying first it ain't hurting no one and shut up cuz it just a word
@@Grinderforworkbut you clearly wrote it highlighting your need for validation. Probably low self esteem
@@admonius9668 not really but if that's what you want to think then do it
No one has watched every second of this as of now
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13:10 op needs therapy tho- get past childhood trauma, deal with this whole thing. Brooooo