Nope, both are totally unacceptable and a betrayal of her family and she knew it. That's why she asked OP not to share the info. She knew both things were wrong.
Sil and Markus definitely planned something like making Op jealous... She knows what will be the consequences hooking up with Markus and traumatized child. She deserves all that
Locking a child in an empty room alone for many hours while he's in the age of a child's crucial development happens is a major psychological damage. It looks like nothing at first but it's gonna come back to him in future in worse ways. I'm thankful they started therapy for him.
Lady, she locked your preschool child in his room! That is abuse! Your odd feelings of guilt are misplaced! You jealous? Marcus knows that she is your SIL. He started dating her only to get close to you.
Fr, sure there might be a very slim possibility that Marcus has actually moved on from OP and is pursuing other women, but given the fact that he approached the SIL knowing she was OP’s SIL makes that very unlikely
Something about the ex puts me off here. He just so *happened* to see a girl at a bar who also *happened* to be in the wedding photo of the person he was obsessed with, and he approached her? This guy is playing a long con and waiting for the family to warm up to him enough to allow him within striking distance of OP.
SIL was lucky she didn't end up behind bars for letting that psycho inside OP's home. He totally started a relationship with the SIL to get close to OP, maybe even make her jealous in hopes that she'd cheat on her husband with him. There's nothing "extreme" about what OP did. In fact, she didn't go far enough and should've totally pressed charges.
Nah SIL did this to herself. She knew it was wrong. Why else would she lock her nephew up and why else tell him not to tell OP? SIL knew exactly who Marcus was and kept making terrible excuses
SIL should have been sued for child neglect. Like, the camera evidence was right there. Edit: I just had a thought of why is she asking "AITAH for exposing my SIL for catching her with my ex" instead of "AITAH for exposing my SIL for abusing my child?" Like, when you frame it that way, it makes way more sense. The neglect of her son seems to be an afterthought in this whole mess. Maybe this really is written by AI.
SIL: "You're just jealous!" Me: "Honey, go eff around as much as you like but not in MY house while LOCKING my toddler in a room by himself for extended period."
the whole your only mad I stole your stalker attention away from you and not for locking your son in his room for hours for who knows how many days to the point is developed a phobia is mind blowing
Soo the SIL indirectly endangered OPs kid by inviting their former psychotic stalker. Yeah no, I'd never forgive that and who cares that she's homeless. She fafo 🤷♀️
SIL thought she won by thinking OP is jealous she has Marcuz but she is only fooling herself, just wait for her reddit post when Marcus wanted to name their child after OP's. 😂😂😂
I'm honestly glad that SIL and the stalker got married. I was worried that the stalker was just going to leave her and start stalking op again. I personally believe that people can change despite their past actions, as long as they want to do so on their own. So I had little to no problem with SIL dating the stalker, it only became a problem when they locked the poor kid up in a room for hours. That was messed up.
Exactly, she seems more bothered by the fact that they were joking up than by the fact that her son was being locked in his room for hours. To me this is a little fishy I don’t know if she is telling all the truth.
When psycho meets crazy.... Jeez... Good riddance on the family for dropping Jennifer's ass. I am pretty sure her new hubby is playing a long game to get close to OP, probably hoping the family will forgive Jennifer soon enough now that they're having a kid. Jennifer is her own brand of crazy, too, if she thinks marriage to a stalker will last. He will either start going crazy on her or will find a new victim. But sure, tell us all how anyone would be jealous of that, sis 😂😂
OP's feeling bad for "destroying her life"? no girl, she destroyed her own life with her own decisions, she disrespected and mistreated your own child to have her time with a stalker ex. I wouldn't even blame the stalker ex for any of this, he didn't invite himself into the house, it's just that she mistreated your, lied about it and caused all of this to herself. Edit : Also, even if you didn't put the video out there and just sent it to your husband, your husband would've likely sent it forward simply because this behaviour is not okay.
A 21 year old woman with a 28-29 year old man isn't "creepy" at all. What the f**k is "creepy" about 2 adults in their 20's being in a relationship? How absolutely dramatic and ridiculous! LMFAO.
This is why my grandma & mother told never participate in hook up culture or casual dating because my grandma said it messes up both mental and emotional health and some psychological health my grandma said it’s best if you’re serious about relationships & marriage
Love how the SIL tries to blame Op for ruining her life. Like girl, you were allowed to stay in OP’s home under the singular belief that you’d babysit your 4yo nephew, but what did you do instead? Neglect and potentially endanger Terry so you could knock knees with your SIL’s psycho ex
As a child I had a baby sitter who locked me in the nursery to also conoodle with her bf. My parents said they don’t know what I did but I somehow caused the breakers to go off and the lights went out in the room. After that I’ve always had a nightlight and even now I get jitters when I’m alone in the dark. Oh yeah and when the babysitter her me screaming she just kept conoodling for about 2 hours… my parents trusted her so they never looked at the baby cam but they went through the camera memory after I would scream when alone and in the dark when I was a generally happy, chill sleepy baby
I really don’t like OP using her child to get proof, putting his safety in complete jeopardy. Also the focus is on OP showing how she’s a bit of a self centered mother, even her “guilt” was incredibly self focused and self centered. That child deserves a better mom tbh
How do you figure? SIL brought in a guy that was mentally unstable in the past- regardless of any therapy while locking up OP's kid, her nephew, in a room for hours while making out with said guy. I think their actions were appropriate, and was taking consideration for OP and her husband's circumstances, that being trying to give SIL a place to stay while she got back on her feet. The SIL agreed to watch the kid, so regardless of anything she literally didn't do that.
the part that peeves me off the most about this story, is the fact jen wants to be the "it girl" so badly that she keeps talking about mark and how "hes different and were in love" when thats no he point, she neglected op's child when its her responsibility to watch him, ON TOP of the fact she let in a dangerous man. I haven finished the story yet but if op's ex was truly over her then why is jen hiding the child away? If this man was truly stable why hide the child from him? Plus the kid never met this guy before so if the kid mentioned anything to op, jen could just lie and say she had a friend over. Straight up neglect feels so over the top unless there was a reason to hid the kid away
I mean, sending to the group chat, she couldn't even word it as anything but vindictive. "I was just worried about my child, but in my anger I sent it to group chat and I knew it was wrong." Everything else was based
I just wince at the parents cutting her off completely, because that age gap has me thinking she's gonna wake up one day and realize just how screwed she's made herself, and the position she's gonna find herself in when that happens is one that needs a support structure to escape safely. Maybe it's just the overempathic in me, but I keep pucturing myself being the parent in one of these stories and finding out later that the kid ended up found in a ditch trying to get out of their situation, and just spiralling because I could have been the escape hatch that made the difference between someone living with a life of shame over what they destroyed to achieve so little in the end, and someone who only got to regret their decision for however long it took for them to black out.
Sil is really lying to herself to make herself feel better LMAO. Like yeeeeaaaah OP deffinitelly did what she did because she was jealous, not because SIL traumatized OP's child and dated OP's stalker Ex behind everyones back and even invited said Stalker Ex into OP's house behind everyones back. She did that only cause she was jealous, nothing more.
We all KNOW that once they announce their baby they will hear from the sister in law within 2 days saying "You're so obsessed with me that you got pregnant at the same time as us."
Okay disregarding everything involving the creepy soccer a 29-year-old dating a 21-year-old is not creepy because they are too legal consenting adults that are close in age
If you notice this. Why didn't you put a camera in your home? I'm not going to ask anyone anything I'm just going to get the proof myself and see what's going on now of course someone may end up in the hospital after I see the camera that I put in my house but, they should not have got it to that point. She said the child is 4 years old. He more than likely didn't tell her all that.
@@bryn1063 - Yes the OP's ex is a creep, but not because he was 30 and was dating a 22 year old. During the story the OP states it as if (in general) any 30 year old dating a 22 year old is a creep. As both are two consenting adults, this absolutely not true.
Definite NTA on OP's part. The SIL is the douchebag for not only betraying OP's trust, but also mistreating her nephew, and I feel for the kid, cause imagine being claustrophobic inside your own safe space (kind of an oxymoron, no, being afraid of the one place where you are truly safe). A lot of these AITA stories have the OP (including this one) overthinking things, but I will be the first to say the SIL did this to herself. Her email post-update kind of proves she is not sorry in the least for her actions, and I guess she did this to rub it in OP's face in a "nice try, I'm still with him, suck it" kind of way. Yeah, best to just cut all ties, and let her deal with the repercussions once the ex shows his true colors.
I thought at the start that she made the post bc husband or il called her out but at the end I think that she should Not Even bother about making the First Post because of course the Person you got revenge on is disliking you
"She is wfh so she can watch Terry" Working from home is still working. This is a pet peeve of mine. I have rented an office to work in because wfh is easy so you can do babysitting and chores as well.
I am weird for thinking that Jennifer didn't deserve this. Like if OP ruined her life because she negleted her son it kind of makes sense but if OP ruined her life because she started hooking up with her ex then that's just mean. I mean Marcus is practicly a stranger to you now so it shouldn't bother you.
OP feels guilty because she is conflating her actions as being because of her SIL dating the stalker ex and not because she was LOCKING HER TODDLER IN THE NURSERY TO DO SO! Maybe Marcus did get help (doubt it, but hopefully), Maybe they were soulmates (again, doubt it), Who could give two shits about who the SIL was dating..... She was being abusive to OP's son! OP didn't do all that because she was being a shit SIL for bringing the ex-stalker into her home, it was compounded with her actions towards her son. (Also, the Stalker Ex for sure got into the SIL's head with all that jealousy talk and not being over him stuff, sad to see. I hope it works out positively for their kids sake but well........)
The kicking her out no nta The vindictive way of her handling this yta. She should've let her husband know first and he should've talked to his sister. If need be let the family know. The girl feel into a predator trap and she very vulnerable now. She did fd up though (the sil) big time.
@@samanthadetgen5041 - How? Unless you believe the 22 year old is still a child incapable of making informed decisions (in which case you're saying 22 year old women shouldn't be allowed to vote either).🤷🏽♂️
this story is strange, op focuses too much about sil dating marcus, as if that is the bad thing, i mean, i get that she doesnt like marcus too much, hate could even be a word used, buy who sil chooses to date is on sil and sil only, you can not be ok with it, but i dont see the problem to be honest. maybe dating in her house was uncalled for, but where else are they going to date if sil lives there and marcus's parents are on his house? again, the marcus part, i can see getting upset about, but is a minor issue, yet she makes it the main point, while saying that the locking the kid in his room is an "also, she did that". for me at least, the locking the kid is the thing that needs to be adressed, in fact that was the main reason for the cameras in the first place, but as soon as marcus appeared the locked kid was secondary to op at best. again, i get that she doesnt like marcus, but apparently sil and marcus are quite serious about it and tbh, marcus himself didnt really did anything evil, he just was bothersome and tedious to a high level. making sil go no contact with the whole family over that looks to me like crazy if you ask me. the locking son part was the real issue. op also at some point says that in the mail, sil doesnt apologize, that is also dont get, what does she need to apologize for? she already did that day, and i assume that doing it again was not going to get her nowhere, she was already NC with her whole family with little chance to reconcile by the looks of it, i dont get what she should apologize for, sorry for loving marcus? yeah i dont think so. this op looks a little crazy to me, again, the sil did something wrong here first, but she is focusing in the unimportant part and everyone is making it look like 100X worse than what it is
Hooking up with Marcus is one thing. Bringing him, someone who has proven themselves to be unstable, around the child is another
Around a child that's not even just yours, but the child of his previous obsession, now THAT's dangerous.
@@Starryflame On top of that the guy was getting really dangerous when OP was pregnant. So her concern is not 100% but likw 200% legit.
@@JKGirl90s plus the fact she was locking in the child. thats really the worst....
Finally! A set of inlaws that don't entertain the BS.
Dating the Stalker ex, I can let it go..
But, locking my child in a room? She got away easy..
Nope, both are totally unacceptable and a betrayal of her family and she knew it. That's why she asked OP not to share the info. She knew both things were wrong.
@@Whykickamoocow she can date whoever she wants it's not her business
@@KnkFuy-ki9nsit is when the stalker is around his victims kid
@devynmalu that's the part the commentor was talking about. Dating stalker was fine since it's her life, endangering child was not.
@@factoryofdivisiveopinions by definition no it’s really not but you do you bro
Sil and Markus definitely planned something like making Op jealous...
She knows what will be the consequences hooking up with Markus and traumatized child.
She deserves all that
Locking a child in an empty room alone for many hours while he's in the age of a child's crucial development happens is a major psychological damage. It looks like nothing at first but it's gonna come back to him in future in worse ways. I'm thankful they started therapy for him.
Lady, she locked your preschool child in his room! That is abuse! Your odd feelings of guilt are misplaced! You jealous? Marcus knows that she is your SIL. He started dating her only to get close to you.
Agreed. It's obvious the Marcus had a Secret Agenda when getting with SIL.
Fr, sure there might be a very slim possibility that Marcus has actually moved on from OP and is pursuing other women, but given the fact that he approached the SIL knowing she was OP’s SIL makes that very unlikely
She knows what she's doing definitely not your responsibility
That’s a firs for SIL. She wanted so bad to have a fresh new chapter with a guy she doesn’t know even existed in the first place.
Something about the ex puts me off here. He just so *happened* to see a girl at a bar who also *happened* to be in the wedding photo of the person he was obsessed with, and he approached her? This guy is playing a long con and waiting for the family to warm up to him enough to allow him within striking distance of OP.
SIL was lucky she didn't end up behind bars for letting that psycho inside OP's home.
He totally started a relationship with the SIL to get close to OP, maybe even make her jealous in hopes that she'd cheat on her husband with him.
There's nothing "extreme" about what OP did. In fact, she didn't go far enough and should've totally pressed charges.
Nah SIL did this to herself. She knew it was wrong. Why else would she lock her nephew up and why else tell him not to tell OP? SIL knew exactly who Marcus was and kept making terrible excuses
SIL should have been sued for child neglect. Like, the camera evidence was right there.
Edit: I just had a thought of why is she asking "AITAH for exposing my SIL for catching her with my ex" instead of "AITAH for exposing my SIL for abusing my child?" Like, when you frame it that way, it makes way more sense. The neglect of her son seems to be an afterthought in this whole mess.
Maybe this really is written by AI.
No maybe it was a mistake
Op clearly has a problem with her dating her ex more then having her child locked in his room
SIL: "You're just jealous!"
Me: "Honey, go eff around as much as you like but not in MY house while LOCKING my toddler in a room by himself for extended period."
So SIL did not even acknowledged that she basically abused a child? Crazy
That 3 yr old must be highly developed to be able to explain that well.
I think Marcus is dating Jennifer to make OP jealous and still stalks OP
I want more DO IT FOR DAN STORIES!
There’s a whole two parts on r/slash videos for the do it for Dan videos
😂😂😂 Do It For Dan
You still have time to do it for Dan!!! That line always gets me when the mum says that line
NTA: This is karma biting SiL in the A**.
Lol I had read mil for a moment and expected the usual mil from hell.
I was thinking the same thing
But he had no pride 🤣
the whole your only mad I stole your stalker attention away from you and not for locking your son in his room for hours for who knows how many days to the point is developed a phobia is mind blowing
Soo the SIL indirectly endangered OPs kid by inviting their former psychotic stalker. Yeah no, I'd never forgive that and who cares that she's homeless. She fafo 🤷♀️
The audacity of the SIL claiming that OP was jealous of her. Just how delusional can you get
SIL thought she won by thinking OP is jealous she has Marcuz but she is only fooling herself, just wait for her reddit post when Marcus wanted to name their child after OP's. 😂😂😂
I'm honestly glad that SIL and the stalker got married. I was worried that the stalker was just going to leave her and start stalking op again. I personally believe that people can change despite their past actions, as long as they want to do so on their own. So I had little to no problem with SIL dating the stalker, it only became a problem when they locked the poor kid up in a room for hours. That was messed up.
It’s bs how her question was about her ex stalker and not her Sil locking her own son in his room for hours
It’s bc while the child being locked in a room is bad he was “safe”. But with stalker ex could mean bad times if he wasn’t over her
Exactly, she seems more bothered by the fact that they were joking up than by the fact that her son was being locked in his room for hours. To me this is a little fishy I don’t know if she is telling all the truth.
When psycho meets crazy.... Jeez...
Good riddance on the family for dropping Jennifer's ass. I am pretty sure her new hubby is playing a long game to get close to OP, probably hoping the family will forgive Jennifer soon enough now that they're having a kid. Jennifer is her own brand of crazy, too, if she thinks marriage to a stalker will last. He will either start going crazy on her or will find a new victim. But sure, tell us all how anyone would be jealous of that, sis 😂😂
She put lives at risk with that criminal and abused a child. The stalker could retaliate. OP should have filed a police report.
OP's feeling bad for "destroying her life"? no girl, she destroyed her own life with her own decisions, she disrespected and mistreated your own child to have her time with a stalker ex.
I wouldn't even blame the stalker ex for any of this, he didn't invite himself into the house, it's just that she mistreated your, lied about it and caused all of this to herself.
Edit : Also, even if you didn't put the video out there and just sent it to your husband, your husband would've likely sent it forward simply because this behaviour is not okay.
If somebody is holding you responsible… whoever is doing so can take her in.
A 21 year old woman with a 28-29 year old man isn't "creepy" at all. What the f**k is "creepy" about 2 adults in their 20's being in a relationship? How absolutely dramatic and ridiculous! LMFAO.
Why would she jealous that you're stuck with that psycho? You can have him lmaoo
She's not homeless
She can go live with marcus if the relationship is real
This is why my grandma & mother told never participate in hook up culture or casual dating because my grandma said it messes up both mental and emotional health and some psychological health my grandma said it’s best if you’re serious about relationships & marriage
Locking the kid to a room is insane! What happens in case of a fire or earthquake?
Love how the SIL tries to blame Op for ruining her life. Like girl, you were allowed to stay in OP’s home under the singular belief that you’d babysit your 4yo nephew, but what did you do instead? Neglect and potentially endanger Terry so you could knock knees with your SIL’s psycho ex
Oh of course Op is jealous that her stalker who she got a restraining order against is dating her SIL.
That level of delusion is awe inspiring lol
Waiting for the obligatory "Fake story" comment
You know very well he found her to get close to the OP as it very rare for you to met the same person in a town more then one time.
Pretty obvious why this Marcus creep has been dating the sil. If Sil doesn't get it that's her problem
I wouldn’t be surprised if marcus dated SIL to make OP " jealous " lmao
As a child I had a baby sitter who locked me in the nursery to also conoodle with her bf. My parents said they don’t know what I did but I somehow caused the breakers to go off and the lights went out in the room. After that I’ve always had a nightlight and even now I get jitters when I’m alone in the dark. Oh yeah and when the babysitter her me screaming she just kept conoodling for about 2 hours… my parents trusted her so they never looked at the baby cam but they went through the camera memory after I would scream when alone and in the dark when I was a generally happy, chill sleepy baby
I really don’t like OP using her child to get proof, putting his safety in complete jeopardy. Also the focus is on OP showing how she’s a bit of a self centered mother, even her “guilt” was incredibly self focused and self centered. That child deserves a better mom tbh
The in-laws take relationships very serious but cuts daughter off ….. that doesn’t sound like taking family relationships seriously at all
How do you figure?
SIL brought in a guy that was mentally unstable in the past- regardless of any therapy while locking up OP's kid, her nephew, in a room for hours while making out with said guy. I think their actions were appropriate, and was taking consideration for OP and her husband's circumstances, that being trying to give SIL a place to stay while she got back on her feet. The SIL agreed to watch the kid, so regardless of anything she literally didn't do that.
@@Theepieguy doesn’t matter the scenario, if you take family relationships seriously, you don’t simply cut people off.
@Tamara_Middleton The family sounds fake. Op mentions that they are kind of overbearing, so it doesn't make sense that they quickly kicked out.
Jennifer ruin a kids life. OP should be ashame thinking the is her own fault.
the part that peeves me off the most about this story, is the fact jen wants to be the "it girl" so badly that she keeps talking about mark and how "hes different and were in love" when thats no he point, she neglected op's child when its her responsibility to watch him, ON TOP of the fact she let in a dangerous man. I haven finished the story yet but if op's ex was truly over her then why is jen hiding the child away? If this man was truly stable why hide the child from him? Plus the kid never met this guy before so if the kid mentioned anything to op, jen could just lie and say she had a friend over. Straight up neglect feels so over the top unless there was a reason to hid the kid away
I mean, sending to the group chat, she couldn't even word it as anything but vindictive. "I was just worried about my child, but in my anger I sent it to group chat and I knew it was wrong."
Everything else was based
I just wince at the parents cutting her off completely, because that age gap has me thinking she's gonna wake up one day and realize just how screwed she's made herself, and the position she's gonna find herself in when that happens is one that needs a support structure to escape safely.
Maybe it's just the overempathic in me, but I keep pucturing myself being the parent in one of these stories and finding out later that the kid ended up found in a ditch trying to get out of their situation, and just spiralling because I could have been the escape hatch that made the difference between someone living with a life of shame over what they destroyed to achieve so little in the end, and someone who only got to regret their decision for however long it took for them to black out.
Sil is really lying to herself to make herself feel better LMAO. Like yeeeeaaaah OP deffinitelly did what she did because she was jealous, not because SIL traumatized OP's child and dated OP's stalker Ex behind everyones back and even invited said Stalker Ex into OP's house behind everyones back. She did that only cause she was jealous, nothing more.
We all KNOW that once they announce their baby they will hear from the sister in law within 2 days saying "You're so obsessed with me that you got pregnant at the same time as us."
SIL def did this to herself!
Okay disregarding everything involving the creepy soccer a 29-year-old dating a 21-year-old is not creepy because they are too legal consenting adults that are close in age
Nah that’s borderline child endangerment you’re chill
Watch Marcus loose his damn mind that she’s pregnant again😂
If you notice this. Why didn't you put a camera in your home?
I'm not going to ask anyone anything I'm just going to get the proof myself and see what's going on now of course someone may end up in the hospital after I see the camera that I put in my house but, they should not have got it to that point.
She said the child is 4 years old. He more than likely didn't tell her all that.
Congratulations. All best wishes to you and your family.😊 Leave the b******* at the door. And keep living your best life ❤️
I like those in law Jennifer will found out on her own.
"Oh now i feel bad because her own choices made her homeless" so many spineless people
Am i crazy or is 21 and 29 normal?
Yes, it's normal. Op is just overreacting.
Ok maybe I'm really mistaken here but to me Jennifer made a bad mistake and deserved being thrown out of the house, but she's not a monster 🤷
>he is 30
>she is 22
>OMG CREEP
lol
Yeah, the fact that she said that makes me not trust her story too much.
We gonna ignore the fact that he literally stalked her? He's still a creep age difference aside..
@@bryn1063 - Yes the OP's ex is a creep, but not because he was 30 and was dating a 22 year old. During the story the OP states it as if (in general) any 30 year old dating a 22 year old is a creep. As both are two consenting adults, this absolutely not true.
@MorpheusASmith Yeah i already know that which is why I said "age difference aside"..
@@bryn1063 - Fair enough.
Dang guess everyone is creepy for dating anyone who isn't their exact age according to this OP...
21 and 29 ain't creepy, if she was 18 that would be a little different
Ffs they moved to Canada?
Definite NTA on OP's part. The SIL is the douchebag for not only betraying OP's trust, but also mistreating her nephew, and I feel for the kid, cause imagine being claustrophobic inside your own safe space (kind of an oxymoron, no, being afraid of the one place where you are truly safe). A lot of these AITA stories have the OP (including this one) overthinking things, but I will be the first to say the SIL did this to herself. Her email post-update kind of proves she is not sorry in the least for her actions, and I guess she did this to rub it in OP's face in a "nice try, I'm still with him, suck it" kind of way. Yeah, best to just cut all ties, and let her deal with the repercussions once the ex shows his true colors.
I hate people who say "you ruined my life!" when someone exposes something they did. Like mf it's your actions. Maybe don't do it?
Sounds like OP is just laying it on thick.
I thought at the start that she made the post bc husband or il called her out but at the end I think that she should Not Even bother about making the First Post because of course the Person you got revenge on is disliking you
"She is wfh so she can watch Terry"
Working from home is still working. This is a pet peeve of mine. I have rented an office to work in because wfh is easy so you can do babysitting and chores as well.
I am weird for thinking that Jennifer didn't deserve this. Like if OP ruined her life because she negleted her son it kind of makes sense but if OP ruined her life because she started hooking up with her ex then that's just mean. I mean Marcus is practicly a stranger to you now so it shouldn't bother you.
OP feels guilty because she is conflating her actions as being because of her SIL dating the stalker ex and not because she was LOCKING HER TODDLER IN THE NURSERY TO DO SO! Maybe Marcus did get help (doubt it, but hopefully), Maybe they were soulmates (again, doubt it), Who could give two shits about who the SIL was dating..... She was being abusive to OP's son! OP didn't do all that because she was being a shit SIL for bringing the ex-stalker into her home, it was compounded with her actions towards her son. (Also, the Stalker Ex for sure got into the SIL's head with all that jealousy talk and not being over him stuff, sad to see. I hope it works out positively for their kids sake but well........)
This story gives me this kind of vibe.
Ew, he has cuties and you like him, Gross OMG.😂😂😂
The kicking her out no nta
The vindictive way of her handling this yta. She should've let her husband know first and he should've talked to his sister. If need be let the family know. The girl feel into a predator trap and she very vulnerable now. She did fd up though (the sil) big time.
Stop posting everything online.
Ok her parents are just as bad. I would go lc but not abandon her if i was her parent.
it cant be an affair unless one of the mutual parties is married x.x AI messing up again eh?
These AI generated stories are getting good! 😂
I'm sorry, but there's nothing "creepy" about a 21-year-old getting involved with a 29-year-old
The fact that OP believes a 30 year old dating a 22 year old is "creepy" leads me to think that there's more to this story and she may be a liar.
What 30 year old man looks at 22 year old like that wild💀💀💀💀
A 30 yo dating a 22 yo is creepy though...
@@samanthadetgen5041 - How? Unless you believe the 22 year old is still a child incapable of making informed decisions (in which case you're saying 22 year old women shouldn't be allowed to vote either).🤷🏽♂️
@@BreaHinton-iv8lo - LMFAO! Yeah sure, an adult man being Interested in an adult woman is really "wild". 🤦🏽♂️
@MorpheusASmith I think Op has left out the creepy details but stalking events are everything to prove it.
Oof
this story is strange, op focuses too much about sil dating marcus, as if that is the bad thing, i mean, i get that she doesnt like marcus too much, hate could even be a word used, buy who sil chooses to date is on sil and sil only, you can not be ok with it, but i dont see the problem to be honest. maybe dating in her house was uncalled for, but where else are they going to date if sil lives there and marcus's parents are on his house?
again, the marcus part, i can see getting upset about, but is a minor issue, yet she makes it the main point, while saying that the locking the kid in his room is an "also, she did that". for me at least, the locking the kid is the thing that needs to be adressed, in fact that was the main reason for the cameras in the first place, but as soon as marcus appeared the locked kid was secondary to op at best.
again, i get that she doesnt like marcus, but apparently sil and marcus are quite serious about it and tbh, marcus himself didnt really did anything evil, he just was bothersome and tedious to a high level. making sil go no contact with the whole family over that looks to me like crazy if you ask me. the locking son part was the real issue.
op also at some point says that in the mail, sil doesnt apologize, that is also dont get, what does she need to apologize for? she already did that day, and i assume that doing it again was not going to get her nowhere, she was already NC with her whole family with little chance to reconcile by the looks of it, i dont get what she should apologize for, sorry for loving marcus? yeah i dont think so.
this op looks a little crazy to me, again, the sil did something wrong here first, but she is focusing in the unimportant part and everyone is making it look like 100X worse than what it is
First again wooo
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Just reading the comment at the start of the video know you're not in the wrong