Mama’s Boy Makes Girlfriend Feel Left Out By Siding With His Opinionated Mum | I Love A Mama’s Boy
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- Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024
- Matt and Kim are ready to start their life together by building their future home in Kelly's property. But when it comes to making decisions, Kim and Kelly clash over and over again, leaving Matt in the middle.
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What a selfish mother - she knows exactly what she's doing & unfortunately he is not strong enough to see it. The girl should move on - ultimately, a good guy loses because of his mother's enmeshment/codependency.
ok yes but she is also paying for the house so i do agree with you though
@@walkersorensen2260 But she's not living inside the house lmaoooo
@@khalidahcampbell229 true true lol
This is TV Its all fake.
@@walkersorensen2260 I would never have a house built on my future mother in law’s property. That would be like being in jail! And she keeps putting in her two cents on how she wants things done. No way in hell would I be there!
This show should be renamed; "I Gave Birth To My Lover"!
I wholeheartedly agree. I have a beautiful daughter in LOVE. I could NEVER be this way.
Yeeees exactly!!! This sick ass mother's be apart of the reason their son's can't commit or is soft af and let their mother's get away with murder
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is a perfect name for this show because there’s just no way this is real 🤦🏽♀️
😂
I didn’t even know Matt had a father with how much emotional incest is going on
You never saw him but apparently they've been reading the comments about where the hell the dad is because he's in the latest season opposing Kelly. Not sure how much he will be involved in the season but he got it out there that he doesn't approve.
Bingo! He doesn’t want to deal with mom so puts that role on the son. This isn’t real and they are actors like in The Jury. It’s too explicit. Most of these mothers are much more sneaky, quietly manipulative, and would never go on a show like this. It’s entertainment because women watch the channel and only they can relate, except maybe some gay men.
What great points does the mom have?! No dog door even for a tiny dog, mom has a key & a room even though she lives 20 feet away… yeah that definitely comes from experience 😂
The mother has totally emasculated her son. I hope Kim moves on fast.
He’s grown. He made a choice.
Kim is TOO pretty for punk boy Matt she is gorgeous and the mother Kelly is acting like the gf, I thought on one episode they showed Kelly husband so why don't he spend time with Kelly she is overboarded and throws it in Kim face.
I'm having a hard time believing he's even straight.
He seems to be into men
maybe more than that ewwwww i cant stand them
Such a turn off when a son can’t be his own person and man for his woman and has to latch onto mom for everything. It kind of feels like passive aggressive bullying in a lot of ways.
That's exactly what it is. It will destroy you after even a very small amount of time. I'm talking like six months, you will become a shell of yourself.
@@nataliem9667 yes literally took 6mo for me i wasted 7y with someone who hid it from me until I stayed at his mums house
Lmao it's so creepy
Does she know her man is gay?
There is nothing passive-aggressive about Kelly. It's full on aggressive. She doesn't even bother to hide her dislike for Kim. She makes it blatantly obvious. Now Mike's mother Liz, she is much more passive-aggressive, she actually tries to be subtle about her hate towards Stephanie. Kelly is bold in showing her opinions of Kim, she doesn't care who sees.
Matt is getting my Gaydar going. Everything in this relationship needs reconstruction and without the mother. Couples counseling is what they need. Don’t make a major life decision without it.
my mom is a psychilogist. She said 'most gay guys are born gay. And those who were born straight... there is nothing that makes a straight guy gay as much as a mother giving her son sexual attention'
Yess I think Matt's gay too
“What about a guest room for when I want to stay over?” Ma’am you live on the same property. Calm down.
This really is insane.... Why doesn't Kim realize she deserves a real man? Matt is a 12 year old Mama's boy in a man's body.
Definitely so
Someone suggested that with Matt's mannerisms he very well might be gay.
I don't think Kim will stay with Matt. She's in Dallas now and has time to think about how truly disfunctional the relationship is.
Matt's mother is truly evil. Matt has the nerve to get mad at Kim is rediculous. In the previews for next week's show he goes way off on Kim and his anger should be towards his own mother for turning him into the pussy that he is.
There is a good chance Matt is gay.
“I changed his diapers and he’s going to change mine” then that nasty gross ass smile. 🤮
Absolutely grossed me out .
Lol
Yes, it is gross. She gives that evil grin and it's just creepy.
That’s life🤦🏿♂️. As parents age they need our assistance just like we needed theirs
I hurled a bit in me mouth 😩😩
@@walterbrown2425 but not like this...
If I were Kim, I would have lost, n burst into tears n walk off on the spot! What a horrible woman that mom is.
2:04 the mother's smile gave me chills. Pure evil I say 😨
He needs to be with his mom if he wants her to control everything, men like this don't need a woman 😤 🤧
Ur right
Yep, I had a momma’s boy once! It only took me three months from “I do” to “I’m done” I had the marriage annulled and the judge agreed with me… LoL 😂 The judge said “best to give him back to momma, there’s no room for you.” And he was right. I hope Kim learns quickly.
Exactly
so true
Mama's boys don't get to call themselves "men". Everything about this is ewwww.
The smirk she makes each time she gets her way 😏
I hate that smirk
YES what the actual ffffff was that face?!?!
she looks like a god damn who from whoville
She’s a drunk 🥴
Kim is strong not to smash her face when she does it
wow.....my poor mother has never given me crap. I see her and my dad once a week and her and my wife get along fantastically. This show really makes me appreciate what I have. Also the father.....what kind of man is he?
a man scared for his life 😂
This girl needs to realize, even the architect will listen to his mom, if she's the one that signs the checks.
If you don't want her butting into your life, get a loan and get your own house.
She has ownership over the property, and apparently her son.
That mother is AWFUL and so is he for not standing up for his wife!! This makes me sick!!! 🤮🤮🤮
I WOULD like to say all of these So-called Mothers are totally in love with their sons.
It's definitely gross but take care of yourself if you want to separate yourself from that.
But if this were fathers acting like this then their would be a problem and the show would end, where are these women men, why are they playing theirs sons gf its like a competition its so unreal and sad.
Wus.
That's not love.
Gail Johnston its nasty ass incest
i wouldve walked tf outta there. this is rediculous.
The architect now has a "I had a client one time" story lol
Yep, I had a momma’s boy once! It only took me three months from “I do” to “I’m done” I had the marriage annulled and the judge agreed with me… LoL 😂 The judge said “best to give him back to momma, there’s no room for you.” And he was right. I hope Kim learns quickly.
@@susanhunter9617 these poor 4 ex fives...
Awww I love you 💜 interesting life story
@@susanhunter9617 no way, where did you hear that?
Hey large Marge ..
She left him, thanks God. Im never dating a mama’s boy. No way
When is this woman going to walk away from this boy. He will never protect her. His mom doesn't care about others feelings.
i read in the comments..she did
Guess where the problem starts- Pat (the dad) letting his wife run wild without psychiatric care
Her evil smirk is sooo funny lol. She’s definitely controlling 😂
Having mum pay for the house will cost you dearly ..
I actually think the mom is disgusting and behaves very badly but when I found out "mom" is paying for it could understand the situation a bit more.
Yeah she'll think she can walk in at any moment
The mom is paying for the house.
Putting in her input , she wants her own bedroom. He doesn't support his girlfriend's feelings.
Red flags waving in the wind!
Run girl run Kim!
A good relationship when both parties let the other have something like she gets her Kitchen he gets his man cave but your mother should not be there this is inane he has no balls no backbone just stands there no support to the love of his life really sad
The mother is intense
But to be fair it’s the mother’s property and the mother’s money that’s building the home. If I was the girlfriend I wouldn’t want to live there . They should spend their own money at another location then it’s not the mother’s problem
I totally agree with Kim, the Mother wanting a key to the house is way too controlling
My Mil used to check my lingerie every day when I went to work. She didn’t let me have the key of my bedroom, and we were living together with her.
@@Sara2016a so you lived my nightmare
@@boredGrinch You had these same things? Omg.. I know how it feels. Yes I lived your nightmare. I couldn’t sit close to my husband cause she was jealous, she would start yelling and insulting me, she even came to my room during the night a few times. My life it’s like a horror movie. This continued for years. She interfered in everything, and calls my husband five times a day since we are not living in the same house anymore. She is sick and evil and totally destroyed everything in my life. I wish I left him in the beginning so I didn’t have to go through all this. Everything is destroyed anyway so why staying? I did a terrible mistake. Cowards like him should not get married. He is his mom’s toy.
@@Sara2016a my mom and my soon to be divorced cousin used to live like. the misery continued even after my parents divorced. for that reason it's nightmare of mine. my cousin's mother in law was such a freak she made a hole on the wall to spy on my cousin. it was scary. these kind of people are so crazy idk how people let them act like that
@@boredGrinch I am sorry to hear that. I don’t get it either. My father in law knew almost everything and never tried to stop her. Same with other family members. It’s crazy how come people like this even exist. Then, it’s a lifetime of trauma trying to heal and forget. I hope you heal from all these memories and just know there are a lot of people who deal with staff like this. We just have to be strong.
Gurl. GURL. DONT WALK AWAY RUN! RUN AWAY; SHES GOING TO DRAIN THE VERY ESSENCE OF YOUR SOUL. You’re so smart and intuitive! LEAVE MA’AM.
First mistake: building a house in her property.
I saw on the previews that after Kim moves to Texas, she dumps Matt. Such a shame that his Mom ruined his relationship. I hope she is happy with herself! Matt will end up resenting his Mom for it. Very sad because they made a good couple.
Honestly glad to hear this, thank you for the update.
I hope she really does. Kim deserve a man not a child who still depend on his mother
I’m glad to hear she broke free.
It wasn't the mom who ruined the relationship. It's the equivalent of saying that the side chick ruined a marriage. It's the man who decided to cheat (or in this case decided to be a spineless)
I hope this is true and Kim moves on. She is lovely and deserves so much better. Run! Kim 🏃♂️ 🏃♀️
Two problems here:
1. He’s flaming
2. The mother
I got flaming vibes too.
@@remyrocks1470 So did I. His eyebrows look very demonize
I said FEMININE.
Dude is def gay
So glad I’m not the only one who caught the vibes he was letting off. Definitely gay gay.
“I changed his diapers, he s gonna change mine” …. They lost me there 🤯
This mother knows that she is hurting this lady, and she is getting a joy out of this. It's like she wants to prove to Kim that it's her son, and he can't be of no one's man.
“Have you seen Home Alone?” had me dead 💀
With straight faces lmao
🤣🤣🤣
She needs to leave him. This is so absurd!
I dated a guy who had a mom like this and it was so torturous I feel like she thought no one was good enough for him but her! Lol
He said,”I want everyone to be happy” but it seems like he just wants his mom to be happy. Girl, let him go. No bueno.
For God's sake Kim... RUN!!
I can't believe how equally obnoxious both Matt and his freak mother is.
≥﹏≤ again Kelly run.
I just started watching this series and yes, she definitely needs to run now! This mom might be the worst on that show but it is hard to tell because all of them are crazy. Lol
it's a nightmare relationship....I did see a clip when she tells "them" she doesn't want to "have him as her husband" lol he's happy with mommy..saw a clip too where she checks his temp and put a "banky" on him...ewwwwww She will eventually die and he won't be able to cope...but nobody will live with or marry this loon. And Kelli is the anti-Christ!!!
@@lindavargo5022 I seen that one too like wtf 😂
The boy is not good... he even doesn't have an opinion, she must leave him
I could never with a man like this she is strong asf
Here's an example of a psychopath controlling mother that won't let go. These kind of mother's hate respecting boundaries and don't care about the other person. All they want is benefits for themselves. I lived with one for years and it's a horrible experience.
I have a ten year old son and don't ever want him to be like this. This is ridiculous. I feel sorry for Kim
@Rockshy I wasn't implying that it was the son's fault. My son will always know that I will be there for him, but I will not smother him into a toxic co- dependency with me.
Exactly, I would never want my kid to turn out this way. The way I see it, once they leave the nest and find someone to marry and/or start a family with, their wife and any children take precedence over everyone else. That's their family that they've created, and it wouldn't be my place to meddle.
Having a good bond with your kid is great, but controlling/smothering them like this is crazy :/
Kelley’s grin reminds me of the “GRINCH” Lol
oh don't say that.. poor Grinch
She manipulates him to have him turn on Kim. She talks for him even if he wants to side with Kim he sides with his mom.
Finally Kim moved on to Texas!! She left this toxic family never to return!! Good for you Kim!!!! You deserve a life without Kelly in your face daily!!! No woman in her right mind would deal with a mother like her and creepy son!! I think mom has different intentions with Matt…Best Wishes Kim you did the right thing!!!!
Sadly you can tell that he has been under his mom thumb from the beginning. Why would you give her that kind of power in making decisions on your life, home, and everything
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I see it like, its the moms property, its the moms money to build the house, so the mom has all the authority and power on almost everything. If these young couples wants it their way, then they should build a house out of his parents property and not his mothers money, period!!!
@Rockshy exactly. Why even consider marrying someone if he cant stand on his own feet!
Such a turn off to see a man not have ANY balls to back his woman. KIM LEAVE HIM!
Well said 🙌💯
"It scares me a little bit not knowing if Matt will be able to set boundaries." Just listen to him agree to give his mother a key to his and Kim's house... the answer is there!
That girl needs to RUN!!! She needs to understand that Matt will NEVER stand up to her, and his mother's control will grow exponentially worse after they're married, and worse still when they have kids. And they should NOT live on her property or let her pay for their house. She will hold that over them and use it to manipulate and control them.
This mother needs therapy, she knows no boundaries. There is nothing healthy about this mother and son relationship. I’m disgusted how this mother plays
Her son against his future wife.
Matt needs to stay single and remain living with his Mother. He is a wonderful son, but does not have what is demanded by a husband in Holy Matrimony. He will need to leave mother and father and cleave onto his wife. There will always be conflict in the marriage. Once married, issues relating to this attachment usually get worse, not better.
You are right 💯
I’ve been through the same and only it got worse after I got married.
Oh just get ready when the baby is born
Kim needs to move on from this nightmare, and his mother is pathetic. Your children are not here as your retirement plan. He needs to read the Bible, and understand what "leave and cleave" means.
As a mother, this is hard to watch because his mother is actually trying to cause problems so her son and his fiance don't make it to their wedding. I don't understand that aspect. I really want my boys to have a loving caring partner that makes them happy. My heart goes out to this young lady and hopefully they can find a middle ground.
Did the mother actually say "I changed his diapers and he's gonna be changing mine"
Ha ha, what?
it's actually common for kids to take care of thier parents when they get old and cant do things for themselves.
@@Andre.09531
Ohoh, I know
I just found the wording a bit weird (especially how she said it).
You heard it right,and the way she said it..sounds weird...
@@dorcuskencey6816
Exactly!
It sounds like she's rather excited to have her son 'changing her diapers'
@@freshgoopy I agree, it was pretty weird how she said it.
Okay I understand the mother-in-law is paying for it but she's literally going to be 20 ft from their house why does she need a bedroom in their house I'm not getting that yeah I'm not getting a lot of this though
She definitely has some internalized hate for Kim or some sick and twisted obsession with her son.... or probably both. She’s trying to be petty and it becomes much more evident the more she speaks.
PLEASE THE FACT THAT THE DAD WONT SAY ANYTHING ABOUT THIS
He’s not stupid, he knows who’s paying for everything
If they’re not married yet, she needs to really think about her decisions.. it’s just the beginning of your troubles.
Exactly. If this is going on now oh get ready for the hurricane when the baby is born.
I've been in this type of relationship. A covert narcissist mother and son continually abusing me in very subtle ways, whilst they cuddled up to one another. So weird, and I wouldn't wish it on my worse enemy.
It happened to me the mother would have her son go out, meet women and trick them into paying her mortgage. And the son would gaslight me when I started catching on. What I learned from my experience is this. The mother is a sexual deviant. which leads to deviant perversity. Make sure to look up some of the definitions of the words I'm saying. If you have a weird feeling about a situation like this, the definitions will shed light or bring clarity if it's relatable to your life. I've learned this, Like the bible says A man should cling to his wife not the nest, if he is I would start to wonder about the family dynamic and if incest ever acquired!! When a mother sexually slept with her son she acts like a toxic jealous ex girlfriend. Mother son incest is common in indo-european/ European households if the mother is single/ antisocial/widowed and or lack low self esteem she will guilt trip and manipulate her son into fullfilling her needs. They will make a secret agreement. They will base schedules to have unnatural occurences to meet each other for sex. She will text or call him every day and at weird times of the night like an mistress.The mother will always feel a need to place her input in inappropriate matters between her son and his lady but the son will give his mom the authority to feel like she can do this .The incestous mother will Gossip and talk bad about the girlfriend or constantly bring up the girlfriends flaws/shortcomings even though the good out ways them. This is a mind manipulating tactic Incestous narcassist abusers uses on their victim. They downplay the person that can save, help, change their victim to see the light. The mother knows the son adores and honours her opinion so he'd think she's right. The mother will never give him good advice if it isn't beneficial to her in anyway. The mother will halfway or not at all acknowledge the girlfriend and act very unapproving of her and discernible of her presence if the mom feels inferior or jealous. She will give the son unreasonable/weird/selfish ultimatums and waiver basic needs in front of him like food, shelter. A incestous mother is a master manipulator. Her son is literally under mind control and might never break away if she took his virginity. Men adore and reminisce their first time/love that's what makes the mothers actions Very sickening/selfish and wrong. this needs to be more studied because it's mentally turning a demographic of our men disabled by emotional incest, creating non emotional available men/narcassist and psychopaths !!!
@@dennishaadams6620 I will say one thing, my ex cupped my breast and told me that all men look "to replace" their mother with their wife. I left literally a month after that and I never touched him again, he disgusted me. He and his mother had this really weird codependent relationship, and sometimes I felt as though he was trying to make his mum jealous. Sometimes trying to make me jealous with his mum! I don't think anything sexual went on, but what would I know. Just glad I'm out of it! Her other son moved away and only visits once a year, and even that's strained. I used to think it was weird at the time, but his wife is a clinical psychiatrist perhaps that has something to do with it lol.
Mother is being reasonable
Moms right.
This girl believes that she is a princess from a royal family.
Matt will be divorce in five years living with his boyfriend.
I am so happy about the girl moving on. This is what Kelly really wants, she wants this girl completely gone.
Omg did she really leave them? Good!
She’ll do this to every one of his relationships until he mans up and says enough.
Rebecca, or he’ll end up still living with his parents at 50 and bitter when he finally wakes up to being sabotaged by her at every turn.
They should move FAR FAR AWAY. I moved 5 hours away from my parents. Its great.
LEAVE HIM SIS!!!!! Leave him now before you have kids! It’ll only make it soooo much worse!
Lol RUN AWAY NOW!
That little smirk that witch of a mom makes "you know of that saying, listen to your mother" LOL WOW.
Girl run as far away from these people as you can!!! He and his mother are never going to change. You will never win. You deserve better.
I have a grown son and I want him to have his own life. I love him dearly and I love his girlfriend, whom he plans to marry. They can’t have a healthy relationship with parents interfering in their business.
I wonder how your boyfriend’s mother got along with her mother-in-law.
Honestly, I would never have stayed this long in a relationship with him siding with his mom so often. Who do you want to spend the rest of your life with me or your mother?
Forget building a house he gon set the whole neighborhood on fire with how flaming he is
Kim needs to move on. He is in a very unhealthy situation with his mom and unwilling to cut the cord. Find a real man Kim!!
And another reason why I am glad I am divorced. My ex mother in law acted like an entitled loon
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Same here. I've only been in 2 relationships and both had crazy moms.
Same here im divorced too
Share the details!
I’ve heard about parents like this, but never met any!
@@up-uw4op questions for first date > are you close with your mom? how close? what does she call you? how many times a day do you call your mom? do you live with your mom? so many questions..
Update: the mom had a camera installed right above their bed.
EW REALLY? WHAT A FREAK
Oh my gosh that’s so nasty 🤮
And she watches it alone
That's literally abusive behavior!!!
@@WlSTERllA it’s a joke
It's so sad that he doesn't have the love and respect from his mother. The first step would be to cut and tie the cord so it can finally fall off. If his wife becomes pregnant, will his mom allow him to become a father and dad or will she just say "I won't allow that" He can start practicing diaper changing with his child before mom insists he practices on her! A Psychiatrist could retire (on her property, of course) knowing they'd be busy for years to come. That guys dad shows real backbone here...NOT!
"I changed his diapers, he's gonna be changing mine". Alrighty then.
Wth was his dad doing letting his wife interfere with his sons relationship like that!
Usually women like this get rid of their hisbands or start fighting with them
After listening to just two minutes of this I'm reaching out to this young girl and telling her to run, run fast. This mother is going to control your husband and your life, run while you still have the chance
Run for wonanizer hubby😂
Why does she want to be with him? He looks strange, wants to live next door to mum, and doesn't give a damn what she wants. The mom is making decisions for the building of the house and the girlfriend really thought she wasn't going to have a key? Wierd people all around, including the dad
The mom is paying for it? Then why is the girlfriend feeling so comfortable with only her opinion of how the house should be when it's not coming out of her pocket... you want full control Kim? Pay for it yourself.
I feel like Kim needs to leave for her own sanity. Kelly and Matt will never change. He sides with his mother entirely too much and it’s disturbing. His mom is crazy. She wants a key to their house?!
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Kim you can't depend on Matt. Nothing you ever want will you get with that Mom of his being in control. Ditch them all!
Oh my gosh girl....freaking run, whilst you can. The dynamics between the mom and son are freakishly weird
"I don't think I'm being unreasonable" 😂😆😂😆😂😆😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Kim should just leave right now because nothing is going to change between Matt and his mom.
He is close with his Mom, and he will never put you first..You are a beautiful young women, and please move on....A new man will come into your life, and 💕 love you....
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Ye agree she s a beauty.
When you allow someone to pay for something it’s their say. Pay for your own and then it’s yours. The mother would have no input.
"Kim is being too wanty, she wants a house, she wants a proposal, she wants a wedding"......
Is she.....
Is she not supposed to want those things from her future husband....
I--
I could totally see Kim getting pregnant and finding out it’s a boy and the mother saying no I wanted a granddaughter. She needs to get an abortion. I know it sounds crazy but that’s how crazy this lady is.
it comes from experience. she has more of it lol
Kim……RUN, he’s never going to put you first….let him change her diapers by himself
Why would one agree to live next to your mom in law with a mommas boy?
The mother is an abuser and at the exactly same time as showing affections, using him. Hugging and abusing at the same time. Maybe also obsessed with him. Poor guy, the father should have protected better!
This is how you know you’ve stopped loving your partner and made your child your emotional release. This is messed up beyond measures.
The son has never had a chance to develop an independent identity. The mother has probably been this manipulating and over baring to him all his life... he has felt her fury, when/ if disobeying her, through out his life and to avoid that he subconsciously avoids conflict. To anyone. Not even his dad seems to be able to stand up against the mother?
This is child abuse resulting in a non functional adult son.... He must be given the oppurtunity to be an indiviual with opinions that he fights for before he can function in any adult relationship. So sad to watch.
He seemed VERY comfortable in his symbiotic relationship with his mom.We NEVER see him with male friends.I don't think he will change!
His mom laughs because she knows shes in complete control of her son. This makes me so angry
"This is our first home together" that is not your first home, that is your mother's backyard
This can’t be real. Is this real? I can’t believe this shit. She really thinks she’s doing something by clenching onto his arm in the confession lol. Run, Kim. RUN! 🏃♀️
I get a gay vibe going on here 🤔🤷🏻♀️
I hear you but I think it may just be wetness and weakness
I swear this show makes me go crazyyyy, i dont know how this woman is so chill like if my fiance's mom was like this i would literally go crazy lol
This man is gutless. This girl could do so much better.
Mom is a control freak. Kim needs to leave them behind. She is in love with her son. Why a guest room when she lives 20 feet away?
Kim, I hope you find someone worthy of you in Texas. You don't deserve the way Kelly and Matt treat you!
This girl needs to find another man with a house not on Ma Ma's property. Run girl, run
Matt needs to come out of his Moms closet! I bet he’s a FABULOUS interior decorator.