Obsessive Step MIL Thinks OP's Daughter Is The Child She Never Got To Have.

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  • Опубликовано: 11 мар 2024
  • My SMIL thinks my daughter is the child she never got to have. Help! (r/JUSTNOMIL by u/pantherpurple)
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  • @jacearmor5274
    @jacearmor5274 5 месяцев назад +500

    "Babies are supposed to be with their mothers." Yes, OP, not her.

  • @jmarie9997
    @jmarie9997 5 месяцев назад +466

    Call me cold blooded, but if someone I'm actually afraid of threatens to commit suicide...... I would not try to talk them out of it.

    • @RealShrigmaMale
      @RealShrigmaMale 5 месяцев назад +118

      If someone threatens suicide as a means to manipulate you, 10 times out of 10 it’s an empty threat anyways. Somebody that narcissistic would never actually go through with it.
      Edit: I wrote that before I got to that part of the story. I actually believe the MIL would try to because she’s that unhinged.

    • @leeknowsair-fryer8707
      @leeknowsair-fryer8707 5 месяцев назад +11

      @@RealShrigmaMale so true

    • @mightyactionx9391
      @mightyactionx9391 4 месяца назад +23

      I understand you, dear. I'm the same. We're the type of people with enough spread of sociopathy to not care while still being capable of empathy. Unfortunately, most people are not like us.

    • @Nerdbookworm
      @Nerdbookworm 4 месяца назад +23

      Every single time anyone has ever threatened that on me, I’ve told them to do it. To stfu and just go ahead and stop bugging me. Usually they let that mask slip and get angry

    • @jeffreymoespot5402
      @jeffreymoespot5402 4 месяца назад +20

      My mother would just stare and say "do it."
      She has absolutely no patience for those kinds of dramatics.

  • @jmcg9822
    @jmcg9822 5 месяцев назад +269

    She’s not making progress if she’s manipulating and lying about what happened.

  • @TheLovelyRarity
    @TheLovelyRarity 3 месяца назад +89

    Op needs to stop feeling guilty bc "she's ill 🥺". Her being ill is no excuse to fail to protect your family, sometimes you have to lose whatever empathy and do what needs doing

  • @denisebrown7680
    @denisebrown7680 5 месяцев назад +125

    The interactions with the S-MIL were both scary and tragic. I'm so glad OP and DH were able to handle and resolve in a satisfactory way for them.
    OP's written interactions with her MIL, however, were laugh out loud, funny to downright hilarious! What a mood booster!❤

  • @DancingLynx37
    @DancingLynx37 5 месяцев назад +295

    What the actual heck just happened-

    • @kaurava3
      @kaurava3 5 месяцев назад +27

      What a wild Ride

    • @yolencebajarin8969
      @yolencebajarin8969 4 месяца назад +9

      😊

    • @analyticgeometry9014
      @analyticgeometry9014 2 месяца назад +7

      I didn't look at the comments until the end of the video and I swear to Zeus that I thought the exact same thing.

  • @kgunitkeese17
    @kgunitkeese17 5 месяцев назад +255

    What in the actual f**k?! This is beyond f**ked up. This sounds like the perfect story for a horror movie.

    • @karinefonte516
      @karinefonte516 5 месяцев назад +24

      From both sides! DH's father has a special taste for crazy women - DH's mother thinks she can have her son as Husband #2, stepmother of DH thinks she can mother her grandchild just because.

    • @xaviersmith8456
      @xaviersmith8456 5 месяцев назад +14

      @@karinefonte516I was so confused about the husband #2 part until I got close to the end. What the hell.

    • @dtorres333
      @dtorres333 4 месяца назад +3

      This is a story. The way this is written is def some sort of fiction. Someone sharing their own personal experience doesn't describe things the way this thread does

    • @shuichisaiharasimp
      @shuichisaiharasimp 4 месяца назад +3

      ​@@dtorres333 Who cares

    • @kit4616
      @kit4616 4 месяца назад +7

      @@dtorres333Look, I agree that all stories on the internet should be taken with a grain of salt. That said, the complexity and sheer sadness of this situation makes it a lot more plausible. It’s incredibly rude and ignorant to dismiss any tale of severe mental health issues as, ‘fake stories,’ just because OP describes their life experiences in a different way than you would have. People this unstable do exist and they need support in their lives. The forums and threads these stories come from exist solely for the purpose of seeking advice and support. I don’t think you should blindly believe everything you read, but you should understand the greater context of the situation at hand and think before you speak.

  • @vdotkog7126
    @vdotkog7126 4 месяца назад +81

    FIL has a type.. Yeesh

    • @blepblep7245
      @blepblep7245 2 месяца назад +6

      yea why is both his wife and ex wife crazy..

  • @trashotaku
    @trashotaku 3 месяца назад +51

    People that become so deluded into thinking that someone else's child is their own have a very high possibility of kidnapping that child, even if that means hurting or even killing the real parents or anyone that gets in the way of them attaining their "child". Op and her husband absolutely did the right move with getting far away from the step-MIL

  • @robynsnest6242
    @robynsnest6242 5 месяцев назад +150

    When the MIL said Mother’s Day was invented by God I was like… Girl, Google easily debunks that. Whatever church she goes to got her programmed well though.

    • @Aetriex
      @Aetriex 3 месяца назад

      Lol it's not her church that is teaching that God invented Mothers Day, it's her delusions. It is very common for the mentally ill to blame/name God for their thoughts and actions. That is why in the Bible it states to never take the Lords name in vain. This doesn't mean to not say "God damn it", it means to never use the name of God for your own agenda and pretend that it's His.

    • @NobodySpecsh
      @NobodySpecsh 2 месяца назад +10

      Pretty sure it has more with the grief-induced breakdown than any church.

  • @pabriela
    @pabriela 3 месяца назад +31

    the first story is absolutely tragic, I also feel rage towards FIL who was acting like a coward by not helping his wife. I knew a person with similar delusions and that woman was suffering so much. My heart goes to all women who can't become mothers 💔 It's sad that nobody proposed to S-MIL that she could adopt a child before she spiralled

    • @nightshadedreams2989
      @nightshadedreams2989 3 месяца назад +3

      sadly there is a chance that it wouldn't have worked, or even make the situation worse

    • @MsAnimefan95
      @MsAnimefan95 2 месяца назад +6

      A lot of places do require some sort of evaluation before they let you adopt. It's possible that she may have tried and wasn't allowed to.

    • @nightshadedreams2989
      @nightshadedreams2989 2 месяца назад +3

      @@MsAnimefan95 I completely forgot about that, thanks for the info

  • @amandafranks8400
    @amandafranks8400 5 месяцев назад +54

    S-MIL needs to go to intensive therapy.

  • @mattdunkley130
    @mattdunkley130 5 месяцев назад +48

    Wow this just sucks for OP

  • @trashotaku
    @trashotaku 3 месяца назад +19

    TW: mentions of SA, suicide, and miscarriage
    For anyone who's genuinely curious, The Hand That Rocks The Cradle is a 1992 psychological thriller in which a woman is m0lested by her OBGYN and reports him to the board, with four other women coming forward about him as well. In order to avoid getting arrested and losing his license, he takes his own life and the shock of this results in his wife miscarrying. She ends of seeking revenge on the main woman by posing as a nanny with the end goal of taking her children for herself. Additionally there's a 1917 silent film of the same title that is completely separate from this film and a Hindi remake that came out a year later in 1993 called Kaal-Naaikaa

  • @cris4ever70
    @cris4ever70 5 месяцев назад +52

    I literally snorted when the comments went to horror movie references and extreme situations but BOI, I had to pick my jaw from the floor.
    Yep. Lesson learned. Crazy can happen to you, me and any ol’ regular Joe 🗿
    I hope OP’s life is blessed in the future, and for her to be surrounded with just regular people, with no horrible trauma to deal with.

  • @silviaflorez-ramey6350
    @silviaflorez-ramey6350 2 месяца назад +6

    OML that woman’s crazy, she thinks the world bloody world revolves around her! I’m so glad Mom put her foot down so her daughter didn’t get all full of herself!!! I so wish more parents would strive to raise responsible members of society!!! ♥️♥️♥️😊

  • @ladyweasellou3367
    @ladyweasellou3367 4 месяца назад +34

    Sometimes i think we're too quick to believe people like this are genuine in having psychological issues and that some people are mimicking those issues in order to get what they want as well as be the center of attention being a drama-wh**e.

    • @nightshadedreams2989
      @nightshadedreams2989 3 месяца назад +1

      pardon my ignorance, but is there a way to tell the difference? I can understand to the untrained eye it would be easy to jump to phsycological issues, but what about the trained eye?

  • @nicknitro86
    @nicknitro86 5 месяцев назад +85

    This sounds like a very stabby rippy stab stab movie plot.

    • @nicknitro86
      @nicknitro86 5 месяцев назад +19

      Holy shit I didn't even get to the knives part. I'm either psychic or this is super cliche.

    • @gingersnap22
      @gingersnap22 5 месяцев назад +11

      Cue the Psycho shower scene music. 😳

    • @Arkryal
      @Arkryal 5 месяцев назад +9

      @@gingersnap22 Agreed. That's why that's my ring-tone. I figure with the number of spam calls I get and my resulting mental state when receiving them, one day it will seem shockingly serendipitous, lol.

    • @gingersnap22
      @gingersnap22 4 месяца назад +6

      @Arkryal and on that note.....I'd like to speak to you regarding your car's extended warranty. 😂

  • @darrylblanch8463
    @darrylblanch8463 4 месяца назад +32

    I think S-MIL took the make-up in preparation for replacing OP as "Mum" (familiar Mum smell mixed with familiar G'Mum smell) making it easier when S-MIL absconds with the baby.
    Comment made just after S-MIL held knives to her own throat.

  • @FreedDailyByHIM
    @FreedDailyByHIM 4 месяца назад +11

    Never. Argue. With. Crazy.

  • @John.Philip.Tan876
    @John.Philip.Tan876 4 месяца назад +18

    At first it sounds like a tragic story and MiL got a granddaughter she could love then it turns into "That sh*ts not normal" fast. Deranged people can go around unchecked. Damn

  • @muggyate
    @muggyate 5 месяцев назад +31

    like wtf?? this cant be real right?

    • @mightyactionx9391
      @mightyactionx9391 4 месяца назад +6

      I don't know. With the shits I'l already seen, this is extremely plausible.

  • @nancyoneill-buck6033
    @nancyoneill-buck6033 5 месяцев назад +24

    I really don't know what's going on either . It's a real mess.

  • @anq4274
    @anq4274 5 месяцев назад +33

    This is so fucked, it's like reading a horror story.

  • @RandomTrinidadian
    @RandomTrinidadian 5 месяцев назад +15

    I just cant even right now 😮

  • @user-bj8rk4rj7w
    @user-bj8rk4rj7w 4 месяца назад +26

    I know it's fake but i honestly thought it was pretty well written and engaging and has pretty good attention to detail

    • @charadreemurr4839
      @charadreemurr4839 4 месяца назад +18

      I've met people this out of touch with reality and worse. It could be real and I think this may be legit.

    • @Neda_Williams
      @Neda_Williams 3 месяца назад +13

      Oh sweet summer child. Never stop thinking that everything that's bad in this world is a fictional story.

    • @user-bj8rk4rj7w
      @user-bj8rk4rj7w 3 месяца назад +1

      @@Neda_Williams i mean it's just written like a creative writing project especially near the end you can really tell, ik bad things can happen this is just obviously not a real story

    • @teenygozer
      @teenygozer Месяц назад +1

      Oh, this sort of thing has definitely happened, but that doesn't mean this specific post wasn't a creative writing assignment for someone (or possibly A.I.)

    • @user-bj8rk4rj7w
      @user-bj8rk4rj7w Месяц назад +1

      @teenygozer yeah i agree this situation can definitely go down but this video is definitely a fake one

  • @Zminator1986
    @Zminator1986 3 месяца назад +6

    Story 1: THANK GOD OP FINALLY CALLED THE COPS AND PUT HER IN-LAWS IN THEIR PLACE!
    And the FIL is a horrible and abusive husband to never give his wife the treatment she so desperately.

  • @joanns7007
    @joanns7007 4 месяца назад +10

    She needs intensive therapy!

  • @THELTX427VA
    @THELTX427VA 5 месяцев назад +27

    WHAT THE FUCK.

  • @arthurshat7793
    @arthurshat7793 4 часа назад

    Literally zero chance of my newborn sleeping anywhere other than under the same roof as me. Period.

  • @nicholaszikos3851
    @nicholaszikos3851 Месяц назад +3

    She made a go bag to make it look like you just left when she murdered you

  • @user-xd6ni8cr2i
    @user-xd6ni8cr2i 5 месяцев назад +12

    It's not called Timbuktu it's called tombocto, I saw it on the sign when somebody was going into that town on a documentary show

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Месяц назад +1

    NOT HER GRAND DAUGHTER ! NOT YOUR MOTHER ! NOTHING TO YOU !

  • @BPJD2004
    @BPJD2004 5 месяцев назад +28

    Feel so sorry for OP in Story 1, but HOLY SHIT, OP OF STORY 2 IS MY HERO!

    • @SnowWolfAlpha
      @SnowWolfAlpha 5 месяцев назад +8

      I think they're both the same OP. Story 1 is about the step-MIL whilst story 2 is about the MIL.

    • @BPJD2004
      @BPJD2004 4 месяца назад +4

      @@SnowWolfAlpha ahhhh, possibly.

  • @missamanda2703
    @missamanda2703 2 месяца назад +2

    My grandmother pinched my son 1x, and she didn't see him until he was 7 and couldn't be harmed and could defend himself. Just because my mother allowed it doesn't mean I would.

  • @samaustin339
    @samaustin339 3 месяца назад +5

    Why couldn’t S-MIL just adopt, and not do this shit? If I found out I couldn’t have bio kids that’s what I would have done!

    • @RylieRiddle
      @RylieRiddle 3 месяца назад +1

      Some people have hang ups with adoption, not wanting to raise another person's kids.

    • @jmarie9997
      @jmarie9997 2 месяца назад +3

      Likely she wouldn't pass the psychological tests any reliable agencies would require.

    • @izzisart
      @izzisart Месяц назад +1

      I mean, I wouldn't want someone like that looking after an adopted kid (or any kid) but it is odd it didn't seem to be something that was tried.

    • @ohno7153
      @ohno7153 16 дней назад +1

      uh.. she wouldnt even past the tests but someone like this would probably want a bio kid.

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Месяц назад +2

    CAMERAS EVERYWHERE ! MOVE OUT OF STATE ! SHE WILL HURT YOU ! SHE WILL NEVER STOP 🛑 ! MOVE ! PLZ ! STAYING IS NEGLECTING BABY ! MAMA BEAR MODE ! TRUST NO BODY

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Месяц назад +1

    GOD DEFINITELY ! MADE RIGHT CHOICE ! NEVER ALLOWED HER TO EVER BE A MOTHER !

  • @Polygonyall
    @Polygonyall 2 месяца назад +1

    whoever sent op the "the hands that rock the cradle" clip is not seeing the light of heaven

  • @fumkioyuki8457
    @fumkioyuki8457 2 месяца назад +2

    ....reading the title and the frist few seconds im just like how the heck people like this exist

  • @lucyroberts2800
    @lucyroberts2800 3 месяца назад +2

    Jeez you did the right thing protect the babies look after yourself because I think it will hit you at some point .

  • @neuvibathwaterpavedtheway
    @neuvibathwaterpavedtheway 4 месяца назад +3

    Bro... this is so messed up

  • @s0upsp00ns
    @s0upsp00ns 2 месяца назад +1

    yeah no. after she broke in...i would be considered armed and dangerous.

  • @zoevendle9708
    @zoevendle9708 Месяц назад +1

    I want to say something but I don’t really understand what just happened

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Месяц назад +1

    MIL PROBABLY LACTATING ! READY TO BREASTFEED DEAR DAUGHTER ! MIL. HAS BABY AND HER PASSPORT READY 2. BOUNCE ! MIL WILL NEVER ! EVER ! STOP 🛑. UNTIL SHE GETS BABY !

  • @blepblep7245
    @blepblep7245 2 месяца назад +1

    wht is wrong with FIL's taste??? like bro if both ur wife AND ex wife is crazy i think there's smthng wrong with u... tf

  • @mog-gyveroneill2500
    @mog-gyveroneill2500 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm hella confused..what??

  • @gavinwilliams1288
    @gavinwilliams1288 4 месяца назад +1

    Holy crap, she’s crazy!!

  • @betzahiarvayo7230
    @betzahiarvayo7230 3 месяца назад +1

    I knew that people with problems like s-mil can have some type of breakdown but this is just so fucking crazy

  • @mztweety1374
    @mztweety1374 Месяц назад

    Yeah this is above your pay grade

  • @karenmariewalker143
    @karenmariewalker143 4 месяца назад +1

    Ol girl has lost her damn mind 😮😮😮

  • @sarahb933
    @sarahb933 3 месяца назад +1

    Great movie😂

  • @jedediahcoulbourne1791
    @jedediahcoulbourne1791 Месяц назад

    This was just A LOT like holy fuck man.

  • @brownsugar7922
    @brownsugar7922 2 месяца назад +1

    What does BEC mean

  • @develyntwocentshenderson5739
    @develyntwocentshenderson5739 5 месяцев назад +4

    she should have just gone and worked with kids. it would have helped

    • @randomloseranddull1560
      @randomloseranddull1560 4 месяца назад +8

      I have the odd suspicion that would make her worse. the only difference is that it's stringers' kids

    • @kit4616
      @kit4616 4 месяца назад

      No, she would have been doing this same creepy shit to children under her care. She’s DEEPLY traumatized and delusional about her situation. Having her work in childcare is a great way to end up with some poor girl getting kidnapped.

    • @foureyedelf6151
      @foureyedelf6151 4 месяца назад +4

      She would have ended up on the nightly news.

  • @daaaaaaaaaanay
    @daaaaaaaaaanay 4 месяца назад +1

    Woow

  • @queenrhubarb1676
    @queenrhubarb1676 5 месяцев назад +3

    😨

  • @abbasturd
    @abbasturd 3 месяца назад +1

    Are these 2 stories or one?

    • @RylieRiddle
      @RylieRiddle 3 месяца назад +1

      This is one story for the video, this creator is typically good with timestamps in the description. So if people have heard a story they can skip to other stories.

  • @HauntedGalMars
    @HauntedGalMars 5 месяцев назад +3

    👁👄👁

  • @theodorebarton4256
    @theodorebarton4256 27 дней назад

    What the fu

  • @dallasisgood
    @dallasisgood 4 месяца назад +3

    This was a solid F in creative writing. Absolute garbage.

  • @kingkongaintgotshitoneme
    @kingkongaintgotshitoneme 5 месяцев назад +8

    what an elaborate fake story

    • @MissCandyTattoo
      @MissCandyTattoo 4 месяца назад +12

      Wow, you’re highly privileged in life

    • @elithluxe7568
      @elithluxe7568 3 месяца назад +1

      Must be nice having a life where everything is sunshine and rainbows

  • @user-hz8iv9fh5r
    @user-hz8iv9fh5r 4 месяца назад +1

    1st story op is a stuck up AH

    • @MarionRobbins
      @MarionRobbins 4 месяца назад +11

      For protecting her child? You sound like the step mother in law

    • @user-hz8iv9fh5r
      @user-hz8iv9fh5r 4 месяца назад

      @@MarionRobbins how? What grandma doesn't say that's their baby?

    • @MarionRobbins
      @MarionRobbins 4 месяца назад +9

      And your silence is loud. Obviously if you are a grandparent you’ve probably overstepped many boundaries.

    • @user-hz8iv9fh5r
      @user-hz8iv9fh5r 4 месяца назад

      @@MarionRobbins you are a snowflake

    • @oh.s
      @oh.s 4 месяца назад +3

      @@user-hz8iv9fh5ryou’re clearly the snowflake here. Being involved in your grandchild’s life is a privilege, not a right. Don’t overstep the parents’ boundaries.

  • @I_Lov3_Kids
    @I_Lov3_Kids Месяц назад +2

    I have a feeling this girl is either sri lankan british or indian british

  • @ninaross211
    @ninaross211 Месяц назад +1

    NOT HER GRAND DAUGHTER ! NOT YOUR MOTHER ! NOTHING TO YOU !