The Most Dangerous Parallel Reality - Teal Swan

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  • Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
  • The most dangerous parallel reality refers to the separate realities that we often find ourselves in with our relationships and perceptions of what others are thinking and feeling in their reality/realities. understanding each other's reality is paramount to good relationships and healing our current world.
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Комментарии • 973

  • @Sehara
    @Sehara 6 лет назад +366

    I feel like I am in a waiting room. Always waiting for something while others live life.

  • @Marcin79W
    @Marcin79W 6 лет назад +639

    Being alone is not that much of a problem as being with people who makes you feel alone.

    • @nodumonotha8147
      @nodumonotha8147 6 лет назад +43

      i think there's a difference between being alone and feeling alone. Teal is talking about feeling alone with or without company.

    • @loveinfinity8884
      @loveinfinity8884 6 лет назад +7

      It is this is what a parallel reality is

    • @aaliyahsworldxd9352
      @aaliyahsworldxd9352 6 лет назад +2

      Marcin Wojtaszczyk So true.

    • @bigsci8336
      @bigsci8336 6 лет назад +1

      True

    • @bigsci8336
      @bigsci8336 6 лет назад +6

      It's like we don't exist to other people

  • @gracepurcell7825
    @gracepurcell7825 4 года назад +71

    Teal has more awareness and insight than almost all therapists I have seen since I was 19. Thank you Teal.

  • @toohonestDee_Dee88
    @toohonestDee_Dee88 3 года назад +45

    Holy smokes. I have NEVER heard someone explain what I have felt and have been going through for most of my life. Teal said it in this video. I, myself, had a difficult time even trying to explain to someone else what it feels like. The cool part is that she explained a lot more than what I have been experiencing and I think it will help me when I look at other people. Thank you, thank you, thank you for this video. Even though I wish I would have seen it in 2017, I still have made it through to today...luckily, my suicide attempts actually failed and I didn't make myself a vegetable or a shell of a person.

    • @privateprivate1865
      @privateprivate1865 2 месяца назад

      Same.. I ran my truck into a wall like massive electrical transformer head on at 100mph.. my truck was smooshed..I was busted up. But lived.
      I was driven off a 20ft cliff at 69mph, hit a tree which acted like a cusion and lived..
      I was ready you jump off a high overpass, hanging off.. but a cop Said something only I knew of, which changed my mind and I went home..
      The saying that we don't go until it's our time is real.
      We are living in a simulation.

  • @noormurrar9935
    @noormurrar9935 6 лет назад +51

    this video should have the most views on RUclips, this will literally save you years of therapy .
    Teal you are a genius

    • @SeekTheCode117
      @SeekTheCode117 5 лет назад

      Noor Murrar I’m a simple man, I see a Bleach profile pic, I give a thumbs up

    • @priyasebastian9491
      @priyasebastian9491 Месяц назад

      I came here to say the same thing. And indeed Teal has saved me many, many sessions in therapy.

  • @mihai8784
    @mihai8784 2 года назад +26

    I used to look at people and feel as if they were literally from another world, but it was a very subtle feeling. The confidance they had, the attitude, their world was soo far apart from mine and I never quite knew how to put it into words

  • @bokeh2392
    @bokeh2392 6 лет назад +149

    The real hell on earth is not suffering. It's suffering alone.

    • @moulee7448
      @moulee7448 4 года назад +4

      True

    • @silverline8855
      @silverline8855 4 года назад +6

      This is a wonderful quote, as sad and true as it is.

    • @sexymary
      @sexymary 3 года назад +1

      hmm.. for me, not really.

    • @NoOneAlInOne
      @NoOneAlInOne 3 года назад

      most person experience pain, we are all connected

  • @1allience
    @1allience Год назад +10

    For the 1st time in my life someone has acknowledged/realized what some of us are living and i'm in tears of awe.

  • @malissahenry5105
    @malissahenry5105 3 года назад +34

    Reading some of these comments is so heartbreaking, but I want you guys to know that even though I don't know you all personally...I love you. If your here watching this video, then your already on your way, and I have faith that you will make it through. 💖

  • @supergamermadi3714
    @supergamermadi3714 6 лет назад +102

    I thought I was the only one behind this pane of glass. Thank you, Teal

    • @docdave9511
      @docdave9511 6 лет назад +3

      U are so amazingly insightful. U just described my life from age 3 to the very lonely, sad, incredibly excruciating painful teen years of early puberty into young adulthood. It just brought back so many reasons I was unable to cope because I had no one I could express any of my feelings to. Let alone my insecurities & tremendous fears were such overwhelming obstacles I couldn't cope with at all. I'm so surprised & so grateful I turned to multiple decades of self-destructive yet much slower rate of suicide, rather than the alternative of a much more immediate type of solution & quicker end to deal with all of my miseries I was never taught to express myself. Instead I turned to pornography & masturbation 1st & when my mother discovered thus she made me feel such an intolerable level of shame, guilt, embarrassment & deep humiliation I spent years as a virgin & had to pay prostitutes for sex because I still to this very day can never feel comfortable about expressing myself or communicate any honesty or interest in a woman sexually without fear of rejection by humiliation that repeats in my mind. I have been able to find a beautiful girlfriend( that was a lasting relationship relationship also. 5 yrs. together, both of us loyal to each other. )but that monkey came jumping onto my back once again & I chose that simian of drug abuse over the love of a very good woman I pushed away & right out of my life for good without really wanting to let her go. Only been with 2 other women since, basically just 1 night stands. Have a young woman who I've been friends with for about a year now & I know she must like me but I am feeling some type of strong reluctance for somw reason from letting her know how I honestly do feel attracted to her & would like to be more than just friends. If u have any advice please share it. Last time she was around when I made up my mind to finally tell her a situation came up & she had to leave for an undetermined amount of time during which I lost communication with her by losing my cellphone. She just recently returned to my surprise & once again she keeps coming over to my place every time she can but I can't open up. What's wrong with me? Is it her? Or me & bad memories of my mother. By the way, her & I have an uncanny innumerable amount of things in common. Can u help me Teal, please!

  • @Chimalmita1
    @Chimalmita1 3 года назад +15

    This is soooo deep. Teal puts in words what we feel but we don't know how to express it in words.

  • @katjaabt
    @katjaabt 3 года назад +18

    Finally a logical explanation why I felt so lonely as a child and young adult! Amazing video Teal ❤️

  • @stellarwulf
    @stellarwulf 3 года назад +10

    That was one of the hardest parts of my depression in the past. No one could see I had an issue even though I kept trying to express it. I felt like the only way it would get noticed was that I had to keep getting worse to the point it couldn't be ignored anymore and become unquestionable shared reality. When I did come out and ask for a therapist one of the things that hurt the most to hear was "I didn't know. You seemed fine."

    • @AragonaAlessandro
      @AragonaAlessandro 3 года назад

      I feel you sister ❤️❤️❤️ I had to be forcefully admitted to mental health clinic before someone would notice and even now they barely talk about it

    • @dianeibsen5994
      @dianeibsen5994 10 месяцев назад

      The ignorance is sick. It's not easy being your own champion, but we must. There are others out there to get it. We're not alone.

  • @sanny-nk9re
    @sanny-nk9re 3 года назад +5

    Teal is our therapists now

  • @amandalindgren315
    @amandalindgren315 4 года назад +9

    This video made me cry several times. Teal knows me better than anyone else without even knowing me haha..

  • @oldsoul7792
    @oldsoul7792 6 лет назад +93

    Some people are highly sensitive to others emotions and literally need alone time because they are like a sponge that absorbs other people's energy around them. The only time they feel truly relaxed is when they are alone.

    • @LiviaMaria-gu4cb
      @LiviaMaria-gu4cb 4 года назад +12

      thats not the point of this video tho

    • @birdiebear1500
      @birdiebear1500 4 года назад +1

      That's me

    • @theyoodoo
      @theyoodoo 4 года назад +4

      Such people are called empaths. I am one and perhaps you are too. I am surprised that no one mentioned this to you. Teal has several excellent videos on the subject of empaths. You should check them out. This could help a great deal. I go through this every day myself.

    • @davidjohn6253
      @davidjohn6253 4 года назад

      Yeah but why do they feel it’s too much.

    • @Tatyana_Co
      @Tatyana_Co 3 года назад

      Yep 👍

  • @magicmonster615
    @magicmonster615 6 лет назад +86

    I'm always isolated in my own reality. She is literally speaking about my life.

    • @johntheherbalistg8756
      @johntheherbalistg8756 6 лет назад +8

      Magic Dragon we really always are, and always will be, alone in our own reality. The trick is to meet someone (ideally everyone) in the middle, so that you are not alone ✌

    • @cmp-vegan5136
      @cmp-vegan5136 6 лет назад +1

      me too...

    • @rosisunny9302
      @rosisunny9302 5 лет назад

      Magic monster 🌱💜🌱✌️🌱😲There are Millions off people as you,me to!!

    • @tiarajessy9491
      @tiarajessy9491 3 года назад

      😭it resonated a lot

  • @samantha-ellenlambert.7512
    @samantha-ellenlambert.7512 6 лет назад +47

    I've been alone most of my life, even when I was with people.

  • @WisdomClarity
    @WisdomClarity Год назад +6

    I needed to hear this. I was gaslighted and ignored my whole life and it’s caused a lot of issues for me mentally. Thank you so much for explaining the pain I felt in detail like that. It means a lot.

  • @am_andastarseed9642
    @am_andastarseed9642 6 лет назад +67

    Teal, I am valid proof you are a great healer. You have healed my codependent thinking, I, no longer become catatonic, feel depressed, panic or feel I do not matter. I'm going to quit using meth to cope with my feelings. I can not tell you how afraid I am, however, you taught me fear provides the opportunity to see how strong I can be and I have self-worth. I feel guilty asking Would you, could you please talk about Parental Alienation someday, I'm not sure how to ask, hopefully that is okay.

    • @johntheherbalistg8756
      @johntheherbalistg8756 6 лет назад +5

      Parental alienation IS NOT THE PARENTS' FAULT! Could they maybe have done better for you? Absolutely. Did they know how? Um, obviously not. Parents fail their children so drastically, because what they were taught DOESN'T F'ING WORK FOR US, which is a symptom of humanity's coming "step up". For the last several generations (maybe more), we've been born at different evolutionary stages than our patents ever achieved. Stop blaming your parents because they weren't equipped to deal with a being like you. It isn't their fault, they literally couldn't. On the other side, we're gonna be unable to truly understand our own children in exactly the same way. Hopefully, we can understand that fact, and do better for our children than was done for us. Stop blaming your parents for causing your problems, and you'll be able to actually see that, regardless of the root cause of your problem, it is YOUR problem, and you have to solve it. Forgive your parents for doing the best they knew how (regardless of how f'd that may have seemed), and stop thinking about how they failed you.

    • @rosisunny9302
      @rosisunny9302 5 лет назад +1

      NPC 17.94.3A 🌱💜🌱✌️🌱🤔Soo true I learn that for my self,you can’t give if you did not gat it your self!But I gave my Best for my Daughter!!

    • @malissahenry5105
      @malissahenry5105 3 года назад +1

      So proud of you, I hope your doing well 🌹I wish you a happy and fulfilled life.

    • @lahicks9773
      @lahicks9773 2 года назад +4

      @@johntheherbalistg8756 show some compassion. A person has to figure that out for themselves. I use to lecture like you however; it really stems from my own crap and guilt about my kids. Everyone has a right to grieve their childhood pain. The point is not to live there.

    • @johntheherbalistg8756
      @johntheherbalistg8756 2 года назад

      @@lahicks9773 I was speaking from the place of a misunderstood, mishandled child, not a guilty parent. I don't blame my parents for their mistakes. I never expected anyone to understand me, least of all my parents, since they were so different from me and separated by decades and cultural changes that they couldn't keep up with. Idk, it always seemed obvious to me that people usually do the best they can, so that's what my parents did. The rest is up to the individual to figure out

  • @Irishstile
    @Irishstile 6 лет назад +23

    "People never seem to understand what you're going through, until they are forced, to live through it themselves!" - Irishstile Perryman

  • @Bubblegum4289
    @Bubblegum4289 6 лет назад +44

    I can't even remember the last time I've commented on a video but I felt like I needed to tell you how grateful I am for you, Teal. Thank you for all your help

  • @newyoda
    @newyoda 6 лет назад +77

    This video is very relevant to myself, and others in the truth movement who get isolated from friends and family for trying to acknowledge the reality of this world.

    • @wrue7
      @wrue7 6 лет назад +9

      so very, very true. I was awakened in 2014 and my life since has never been the same. Often I wonder why I was awakened, considering how impossible a task it seems to awaken others--especially family and close friends. That said, I wouldn't want to go back to 'sleep' if given the choice.

    • @firedragon5045
      @firedragon5045 6 лет назад +1

      newyoda very true , me too! Thanks!

    • @suchismitagupta
      @suchismitagupta 6 лет назад +1

      newyoda that_feels_good..Especially_if_we_r_not_a_piece-of-clothe_in_those_lives_anymore_and_they_realize_it.

    • @AwakenedAspects
      @AwakenedAspects 2 года назад +2

      This comment is so much more relevant during this time than any.

  • @ourevilone
    @ourevilone 6 лет назад +22

    this happened to me. im still living the parallel reality 30 years old now.

  • @wilko527
    @wilko527 6 лет назад +35

    I always felt alone until I had children, i used to think my reality was the only reality and everything else was imagined. Not anymore.

    • @survivalfarmcoach8727
      @survivalfarmcoach8727 6 лет назад

      wilko congrats

    • @brandnewyorker
      @brandnewyorker 6 лет назад +6

      Be careful. It is just a temporary solution. I mean it in the best way
      Another experience.
      Another “game”

  • @sedv999
    @sedv999 4 года назад +4

    Your words describe my own life better than I ever could understand before. Thank You.

  • @Ivana7002
    @Ivana7002 6 лет назад +10

    I remember good times when we were used to hang around together.Every day was so happy for me.I thin what God meant for me in this life is to be very connected with people and it was really that way until I lost my track.I disconnected from my inner being the more I placed trust in other people's opinions.Angels were giving me right nudges but for some reason I cherished opinions of well-meaning people.Now I'm praying to have more trust in my own ability to make decisons for myself.

  • @Piecesoftheshadow
    @Piecesoftheshadow 6 лет назад +16

    I agree with ALL of this. Except some people with depression go out of their way to pretend to be okay, that when they do commit suicide, sometimes you really didn't see it coming. Sometimes you try to always be there for them and be open and connect and they simply wont let anyone in. I have been that person who wouldn't let anyone in even though I wanted to, and I've also been on the recieving end of someone deeply depressed closing everyone out even when I have sat with them, heart completely open. It can all be very complicated :/ but of course, I agree that being alone in that reality is the worst, and I believe in these cases where it's more difficult to tell, patience and persistence in being compassionate and open can make all the difference. Never giving up or checking on them, no matter how long it takes.

    • @queengoblin
      @queengoblin 2 года назад +5

      I've been that depressed person who wanted to kill myself and pretended to be okay. It was because I literally had never experienced connection and did not think it was possible. For that person, what you have to do is let them know that it is understandable that they want to die. If you don't know they want to die it's because they don't feel connected to you, so her point still stands in the case you mentioned. The only thing that saved me was Teal's video on suicide. That was the first time I felt heard. The second I heard her, I knew I wasn't alone and that if there was one person who understood me, there were others. It's not your fault if a suicidal person doesn't feel connected to you. Sometimes it's theirs. We aren't taught to recognize emotional pain in others, we aren't taught to really get to know others well enough to connect on that level.

  • @yasaralzubaidi5989
    @yasaralzubaidi5989 6 лет назад +74

    Just another awesome video Teal! Thanks from the bottom of my heart!

  • @meecool4005
    @meecool4005 5 лет назад +3

    Teal, once again you are absolutly right. I'm a transgender woman born in France in 1972, and what you describe here is what I've experienced during my childhood. I always knew I was "different" but couldn't express it because nobody thought to ask me : "are you a girl?" (do you grasp the idea?) I had to create my male character not to be always attack for taking feminine posture, expressing feminine ideas and feelings... I had to learn to control my emotional sphere/body to protect it... until last year! And this is it: no real intimacy (correct spelling?) with nobody. It's only when I watched testimonies on youtube from other transgender women that I felt this intimacy, this feeling of being understood. So thank tou, Teal, for your video that confirm this thru your concept of "parallel reality": it speaks to me. Love from France. Annaëlle

  • @melissakemp2741
    @melissakemp2741 6 лет назад +44

    Teal, this is powerful!

  • @karenrhodes5079
    @karenrhodes5079 5 лет назад +5

    This was my life, until 2 months ago. I was depressed, everything was pointless, and I could see a world that no one else could see.
    Fact is, that world is actually there, it's just that most people choose not to see it (the general concept, not hallucinations). But this is only the negative half of the truth. This truth can have a happy ending, but more often than not, it requires guidance.
    That reality you see, the fakeness you experience, is a reflection of you in that moment. You can't change that reality, by changing everyone around you. You change it, by going within, and finding your true self.
    Say you encounter a lot of angry or aggravating people in your day. So you become irritable over that day, and go home feeling annoyed. You encountered those people, because you yourself, were angry; they were a reflection of you. Everything in this way, is a reflection of you, the depression, the loneliness, the hate, the fear. This may not be true for serious mental disorders, but for the general concept of what's being discussed, it is true.
    Getting out of this rut, and finding happiness again, is easy to do; but takes time. You don't need money, you don't need to go outside (but being outside helps), and you can do it in total isolation if that's all you have (It's actually easier to do in isolation).
    You can't learn to ride a bike in a few seconds, it takes weeks, months, years; it requires you to invest the time to learn. The more time you invest, the faster you will learn.
    Since you're already here, look up videos on spiritual awakening, law of attraction etc. Their techniques and teachings will help you escape the painful reality you're in, and achieve happiness.
    I had depression, attempted suicide, gave up on life. The doctor tried every anti-depressant they had, and sure, some worked for a month. But sooner or later, the highest dose wasn't enough, and it was on to the next one.
    One day, I stumbled on Delores Cannon here on YT. I watched some of her videos, then clicked on law of attraction videos. I figured, "what the hell, I can't work, I'm just sitting here rotting away, I'll try it".
    Fast forward to now, I'm completely off medication, let go of my past hurts, and feeling like I'm ready to do back out to work. I'm not cured yet, but I'm on the road to recovery, I get better with each passing day. All because I learnt to change my reality, by discovering my true self.
    It's got nothing to do with religion, I'm not, nor will I ever be "religious". I just did what they said to do, and took back control of my reality. I don't serve reality, reality serves me. I don't need a "God", I'm the god of all I perceive. The only person I take affirmations from, is myself. No one can upset me or hurt me. My reality is beautiful everyday, and I'm here to share that reality with all of you.
    That's a far cry from the Karen that wasn't enough, that was lonely, that didn't see a point in living.
    If you know someone who suffers in ways that Teal Swan outlines, please give them this message, so they can discover the way back to happiness, like I have. If by sharing this, I've managed to help one person, then it was worth the time it took to write. But I hope that this can help so many more than just one.
    Remember though, don't force it. You can't force people to take the path out of hell, they have to choose it for themselves, or it won't work. All you can do, is show them the path, and be there to help them on those first few steps. If you try to force it on them, they'll just reject your help, and go deeper in to that hell.
    Illuminate the path for them, let them know it's an option, and one day, when they are ready, they'll choose to walk it.

  • @Guykleyn
    @Guykleyn Год назад +3

    Thank you, for this! I don’t feel like a monster anymore 👹
    I lost my dad recently and my friends/colleagues (one who has psychology bachelors degree) were very sympathetic for a few weeks, but after about 7weeks they started treating me as if I’m the one who is lost, the bad one, and that my actions and emotions are wrong towards them.
    I lost my brother at a young age so I thought I’d be stronger, but the loss of my dad has affected me differently, along with dealing with addiction, depression, demanding work as my dad happened to passed during our busy season- and it’s all progressed into one hot mess.
    My bereavement has be put on hold, as I’m the strong one at home and at work.
    I just need to feel my feels

  • @ninaross1961
    @ninaross1961 6 лет назад +18

    Thank you for sharing. I feel that this video clearly explained to me the root of my pain. I could not understand why I felt so disconnected from people. I always felt that everyone was living in a reality that I had no access too, especially when i'm with my family. It made me feel crazy and delusional. People look at me and the situations of my life and expect that I should be happy, confident, and proud of myself. But I feel depressed most of the time, apathetic at best. I can't even fully enjoy good feelings because I distrust them. I really thought that I needed to spend more time alone to figure out my problems by myself but I cant get out of the loop of depression. I hope I can meet more people in the future who can understand my reality, so I wont feel so alone. Thank you again. What an insight.

    • @sunlight8299
      @sunlight8299 6 лет назад

      Sydnae Sea Ditto. Have found someone/people? So now I'm also thinking my job/work is to find people to help who are open to understanding my reality and to let others know I want to understand theirs. There's a lot of work to be done but I think it's going to be amazing...a lovely lovely job. I think the first thing is to find a person who wants to know my reality so that you can recharge between connecting with others.

    • @ninaross1961
      @ninaross1961 6 лет назад

      Sun Light I haven't found anyone yet to connect with on this level. I am open to it. You can email me at high_vibrations@yahoo.com if you want to share realities

  • @JohnDoe-ne5ju
    @JohnDoe-ne5ju 5 лет назад +2

    Intimact, confiding in someone, that's all well and good until an argument or break up happens and now your most intimate vulnerable secret are used againt you.

    • @char94
      @char94 3 года назад

      I get this.

  • @wouterdesmedt1736
    @wouterdesmedt1736 6 лет назад +3

    Teal Swan, sharpening her machete of light and love, hacking and slaying more fiercely in every video lately. More! Harder! Harsher! The world needs you in full warrior mode!

  • @anasoulstar6563
    @anasoulstar6563 6 лет назад +15

    This what Im going through😳 Thank you so much Teal for shedding light on this subject.🙏🏼❤️

  • @janefromcanada6943
    @janefromcanada6943 6 лет назад +5

    I agree completely with your assessment that suffering alone is much worse than starving people and victims of hurricanes. I have believed that for years and you are the only person i have ever heard agree with me. Thank you for the validation.

    • @corsicanlulu
      @corsicanlulu 6 лет назад +1

      of course its worse because their pain is so visible and they get help and sympathy, but if ur suffering alone...nobody knows or cares

  • @highersoulhealing
    @highersoulhealing 6 лет назад

    This has got to be one of the most truthful and profound videos I have seen. Teal, thank you for being so very real and sharing the realities that most don't want to look at. You just explained in one video, what I have known inside for so long, that I have tried to share with others but they don't listen.. Thank you for putting it into words, and describing the hell of being invisible in one's suffering.. This very subject is the heart of what I feel my mission is...to help others. To SEE them, to accept them, and to assist in whatever way they I can... Namaste

  • @AbdullahAz383
    @AbdullahAz383 6 лет назад +121

    I used to think i have issues for being a loner I feel sad when i get around people , but now I understand how lucky I’m, when you can enjoy your time alone all the people around you will keep knocking your door for attention where you don’t need any of it , it’s a strong position in life to be a loner imo.

    • @gingermarshy007
      @gingermarshy007 6 лет назад +6

      When u feel positive yes. When depression hits no. Not at all

    • @capgains
      @capgains 6 лет назад +2

      Brave Heart how’s your money situation? Reason I ask is that, have you figured out how to make a comfortable living spending long periods of time alone

    • @AbdullahAz383
      @AbdullahAz383 6 лет назад +12

      capgains I’m a final year engineering student i have a part time job which doesn’t require me to form any relationships with people ..at least for now , I’m fine with the idea of going out and working, this has never been an issue for me as long as I don’t need anyone help and I’m satisfied with what i have . unless you want to start a business&be rich you don’t actually need people or relationships , my plans for the future is to work online from home with an acceptable income as for me money is not a priority, I’m not looking for a fancy car or big house i just want a peaceful life .

    • @AbdullahAz383
      @AbdullahAz383 6 лет назад +3

      bahalkali shimochi what’s your point? I have no issue in forming relationships btw I’ve been with a great girl for 9 years and we will get married soon i got great people around me , i just hate being around them i hate talking/spending time with people in general and they understand that with no problem , my gf is totally fine with me spending most of my time alone and for over 16 years I’ve never picked up the phone to call any of my childhood best friends they are always the ones who call me . While sometimes i ignore them they still reach out to me no matter what . as i said before it’s just a strong position in life to be a loner if you enjoy being alone it’s a win win .

    • @gingermarshy007
      @gingermarshy007 6 лет назад

      Brave Heart respect. Whatever works for u n keeps u happy. Wish my girlfriend of 4 years was so understanding haha ☺

  • @seeker2716
    @seeker2716 6 лет назад +23

    THANK YOU SO, DEAR DEAR TEAL!!!!!!! I've CRIED and CRIED with this video!!!!! You're ABSOLUTELY SPOT ON!!!!!!!! THIS IS WHAT THIS WORLD TRUELY NEEDS!!!!!! LET'S ALL MAKE IT HAPPEN!!!!!!!!!!! THANK YOU for the WAKE UP CALL again!!!!!! MANY BLESSINGS!!!!! Eva

  • @RY-cg9pp
    @RY-cg9pp 6 лет назад +4

    Teal, thank you and love you dearly! your words speak directly to my soul

  • @alcremie8772
    @alcremie8772 5 лет назад +2

    I cried so much. Some intense shadow work ahead of me. Thank you so much. I cannot even explain how grateful I am to you right now.

    • @ageorge8127
      @ageorge8127 5 лет назад

      mahima rajiv good luck on your journey

  • @DC502_
    @DC502_ 6 лет назад +1

    May you continue to flourish and enjoy making these wonderful videos Teal. You are much appreciated.

  • @jessicatseng6734
    @jessicatseng6734 6 лет назад +3

    Thank you so incredibly much for this video. I don't think anyone has ever been able to explain the sensation behind suffering alone as clearly and as well as you did. Thanks for always putting words to my feelings. ❤️

  • @jamieazalea685
    @jamieazalea685 6 лет назад +51

    I've lived the parallel reality too often and I feel like I need to find my like-minded community before I explode.

  • @gordanagojkovic-skrobonja6405
    @gordanagojkovic-skrobonja6405 6 лет назад

    One of the very best of you ! Tnx Teal !

  • @catsnotkids
    @catsnotkids 5 лет назад

    Teal this is so true. I was told not to feel what I felt from being young. Lots of damage was done to my soul. I have now healed, as much as I can but this is such a great talk xx

  • @georgiamathews1711
    @georgiamathews1711 6 лет назад +20

    I cannot go to a therapist here because they literally have to gaslight all their consumers in order to survive their occupation. That kind of blatant and obvious disconnection from my own reality makes it worse. Great video and thanks for explaining the root of all mental illnesses!

    • @mylifejen6372
      @mylifejen6372 5 лет назад +3

      Georgia Mathews not all therapists do that. My therapist listens to me, and never tries to tell me that my feelings/thoughts/perceptions aren’t valid. There are good ones out there.

    • @bleumoccasin316
      @bleumoccasin316 4 года назад

      Please let me know where you are. Maybe I can help you find a good one for you.

    • @waregerneinvestiert9474
      @waregerneinvestiert9474 4 года назад

      Same here...

  • @blair2993
    @blair2993 6 лет назад +4

    I live in this alternate reality because of my childhood. I don't know how to break out of it, because the things that should feel good don't.

  • @juliejroth29
    @juliejroth29 6 лет назад

    'And Consciousness' has assisted me so very much! (and the middle way, ... and the power of paradox, and numerous other avenues to understand connectedness... even "we're all in this together", etc.) Living in awareness from the heart creates shareable waves in the fields of consciousness. The more we all can be this continuously, the more is available exponentially. AND: words to describe such things fall short every damn time. The heart of intimacy speaks a different language. Thank you as always Teal for your generous offerings on youtube and in the world. Love!

  • @garrettwillett
    @garrettwillett 6 лет назад

    Thank you Teal. So glad you were able to make a video on this topic.

  • @joanninac.7842
    @joanninac.7842 6 лет назад +7

    I needed this... right now in my conscious reality.... I mean this hit home with what I am right now dealing with in my conscious reality... thank you Teal!!

  • @unconditionnallove9448
    @unconditionnallove9448 6 лет назад +13

    WAOOOH THIS WAS HARDCORE, my twin died a year ago, suddenly, at 33 years old, overdose of methadone, and YES FOR ME TIME STOPPED TOTALLY

    • @keldraalpine7091
      @keldraalpine7091 6 лет назад +2

      Love to you about this--my husband ODed right after I left him. He was a doll. And I have not had a real relationship in the 20 years that flew and crawled since.

    • @sunlight8299
      @sunlight8299 6 лет назад +1

      I'm sorry that people around you don't understand your loss. Has anyone tried to understand?

    • @unconditionnallove9448
      @unconditionnallove9448 6 лет назад

      not even tried....only my little dog....

    • @tishkerrville8942
      @tishkerrville8942 6 лет назад +1

      unconditionnallove my identical twin shot herself in 2013 ...but we were not close due to a horrifying childhood

    • @unconditionnallove9448
      @unconditionnallove9448 6 лет назад

      Waoooh, I can feel your message so profoundly.... almost as it was my own pain....thanks for your kind words, I feel less lonely in this...much love to you from my heart...

  • @wioletakoziol2252
    @wioletakoziol2252 6 лет назад +2

    This is your best video yet. Honest, passionate, and completely real. Thank you. 🙏 So powerful and much needed. You're amazing. 🙏

  • @suzannehatton8482
    @suzannehatton8482 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you so much Teal for explaining this xxx

  • @bigsci8336
    @bigsci8336 6 лет назад +9

    This was an amazing video thank you teal swan 💜

  • @realisticthinking3490
    @realisticthinking3490 6 лет назад +16

    mind-blowing... I can't believe that I had lived most of my life in another reality unknowingly. I knew that there was something wrong and rotten in the world I just couldn't grasp my fingers on it. Around 3 months ago I figured out pretty much everything when I started to use cannabis It freed my mind to see what was wrong within myself and the world altogether. Now, I'm happy
    and grateful I don't even need weed anymore. There's a lot of knowledge inside each one of us waiting for being called forth.

    • @tobikay3553
      @tobikay3553 3 года назад

      Very nice to hear I feel happy for you 😊❤

  • @MissVTube
    @MissVTube 5 лет назад +1

    BAM!! Thank you for all you do Teal. These insights are GOLDEN !!!

  • @lilravergrl420
    @lilravergrl420 5 лет назад

    Wow that was a powerful video which resonances with me so much. My twin flame has PTSD & I intuitively found that if I focus on my light I can be in a place mentally to deal with whatever darkness has come over him. I know past the ugly words is an inner child desperately wanting to be comforted. I will touch his arm, shoulder, or hug him. The physical touch alone changes the vibe. From there I listen to whatever needs to come out of his being & let him know I will always be there no matter what. I love him no matter what state of being he is in & that is unconditional love.

  • @Kat-wr8dm
    @Kat-wr8dm 6 лет назад +27

    Why doesn't everybody know this?

  • @slayqueen7741
    @slayqueen7741 5 лет назад +3

    She is heaven sent thank you , it literally makes so much sense .

  • @Lowey666
    @Lowey666 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you Teal for going into and explaining concepts that make us see things from new perspectives. Gives so much clarity to things I thought I already understood.

  • @laurablood434
    @laurablood434 5 лет назад +1

    Quite simply The Best Ive Ever Listened To.
    Excellent Work!
    I Thank You so so So Much.
    Love Im Sending and Im Ever So Greatful

  • @krissykatportal
    @krissykatportal 5 лет назад +5

    This was amazing. I love how you say the things I've always felt but could never put into words. Your videos touch my heart. And I wish I could meet u as a little girl; I'd rescue u from that abuse and give u all the love u deserved❤

  • @MuseSunflower
    @MuseSunflower 6 лет назад +15

    Wow Teal, great video!
    I know first-hand how frustrating it can be when people don't see you or take you seriously
    But I will also try to be more aware of others and be considerate of their realities too
    My question is, how can we be compassionate and understanding to others without bringing ourselves down? I'll be honest, some low vibrational people can end up making you depressed/drained too!

    • @yusrabelharti3889
      @yusrabelharti3889 6 лет назад +1

      Good question

    • @MuseSunflower
      @MuseSunflower 6 лет назад +2

      Honey Blossoms Yeah that's true. Have compassion and understanding but sometimes from a distance

    • @garnetsword
      @garnetsword 6 лет назад +1

      So.... here is an interesting thing... if we want to relate to someone 's joy and happiness what do we do? Bring ourselves up, right? Otherwise you'd probably feel jealous or envy.
      So what's the problem with the low vibe?
      You don't get it, you don't feel it, you don't see it unless you put yourself into the other person's shoes.

    • @jconnor1337
      @jconnor1337 6 лет назад

      No one has that power unless you allow it.
      What I read from your comment is that your position in yourself maybe a bit frail, but that's okay. All it means is that you have some work to do on you. Believe in yourself. You are wonderful and no one can take that away. Don't question your position if you believe it's just. If your heart is filled with love and that is were you are speaking from, you have nothing to be disheartened from.

  • @priyasebastian9491
    @priyasebastian9491 Месяц назад

    The way you have verbalized this is so extraordinarily to the point. It is such a complex subject and so difficult to express. Your RUclips videos have saved me over and over again.

  • @shamsbashir
    @shamsbashir 4 года назад +1

    I can relate to this very much and all you said is so spot on.

  • @SadieP
    @SadieP 6 лет назад +13

    Congrats on 400K!!

    • @SadieP
      @SadieP 6 лет назад

      I loved this one :)

  • @theartofstephaniahnalah
    @theartofstephaniahnalah 6 лет назад +7

    I love this woman

  • @Aidhab2222
    @Aidhab2222 5 лет назад

    Im so touched. i get so much validation here i never got before. thank you T, from the bottom of my heart

  • @wtalex378
    @wtalex378 6 лет назад

    Excellent!! Thank you Teal!!!

  • @cynicalidealist11
    @cynicalidealist11 6 лет назад +3

    Awesome.

  • @angelab3818
    @angelab3818 5 лет назад +2

    Omg that was so.on point
    .i was raped at 11 and my.mom and family was like exactly what you describes its like they didn't care because of the believe family is family no matter what. Felt so alone all my life been working on myself most of it.

  • @stillpoolsinging
    @stillpoolsinging 6 лет назад

    You are so awesome Teal... and this video touched me deeply , it makes so much sense. Thank you.

  • @mainhanelima5544
    @mainhanelima5544 3 года назад

    Wow ... thank you very much for this video!

  • @fcmiller3
    @fcmiller3 6 лет назад +7

    The movie; Split powerful movie AND the worst suffering is being betrayed and deceived by someone you trusted.

  • @carleyanneart8068
    @carleyanneart8068 6 лет назад +6

    I love you Teal

  • @caitlin6535
    @caitlin6535 6 лет назад

    I can’t believe how much I needed to hear this message. Thank you Teal ❤️

  • @NaikoArt
    @NaikoArt Год назад +1

    holy smokes she speaks so clear and concise is almost scary how good she is at this.

  • @valeriekay8015
    @valeriekay8015 6 лет назад +3

    Yes! Intimacy is key

    • @sasufreqchann
      @sasufreqchann 6 лет назад

      Valerie Kay does this intimacy include the grammar too ? ;)

    • @deannaweir-smyth3114
      @deannaweir-smyth3114 5 лет назад

      @@sasufreqchann Are you talking about English Grammar?

  • @lisac6139
    @lisac6139 6 лет назад +3

    This reminds me of the Netflix Black Mirror series where the ultimate hell is suffering alone in a parallel reality. Think Charlie Brooker is certainly an expert on telling stories about primal fear.

  • @MarkLoves2Fly
    @MarkLoves2Fly 6 лет назад

    Thank you Teal. This is spot on.

  • @lisastonge2731
    @lisastonge2731 6 лет назад

    Teal, I love your videos! You really get to the heart of the matter in regards to whatever subject you are talking about. So glad you are here sharing your insights.

  • @imadiva2975
    @imadiva2975 5 лет назад +9

    I live in hell I'm so exhausted explaining the obvious to people.

    • @VilleGardian
      @VilleGardian 3 года назад

      me too...me too..it is utter hell. This life on earth is just a prison to make you suffer. But even in prison can people be somewhat happy. This is pure evil and people getting angry at you and triviliasing and even making fun of your pain. That is at the core of my hate for people. Retarded species.

  • @BarbaraMerryGeng
    @BarbaraMerryGeng 6 лет назад +4

    I have found, often when I am up, people will try to bring me down, and when I’m down, people will try to bring me up 😆😂😆 So when I’m feeling feisty, I end up in a power struggle ! It’s exhausting! I decided to just feel what I feel & keep it to myself. This way I don’t have to engage in power struggles about who’s right, who’s wrong 🤩

    • @laurablood434
      @laurablood434 5 лет назад +2

      How unbelievable and confusing right? Right.

    • @hofhofandaway
      @hofhofandaway 4 года назад +1

      This is so accurate.

  • @carloscastanheiro2933
    @carloscastanheiro2933 6 лет назад

    Thank you Teal, your videos really help.

  • @ritikarai5600
    @ritikarai5600 6 лет назад

    i love you Teal for giving words/clarity to my feelings. You nailed it at the right time. Thank you. 💜

  • @JM-vs9wf
    @JM-vs9wf 6 лет назад +26

    Hi teal, I love you so much but you are so intimidating haha! You are such a blessing in my life and I appreciate you so much. Thanks for your videos I tune in every week. I’d love to see more videos on feeling suicidal and on depression etc as I struggle with those topics. I find myself rewatching a lot of videos incase I missed anything or to just have it fresh in my mind. I watch your anger video a lot. It would be so amazing if you traveled to Australia! Honestly I’m scared to lose you if that makes sense. I’m scared that you’ll stop making RUclips videos and I’ll have no one. I think I have abandonment issues. I feel like I’ve woken up a lot more since I’ve discovered you. My family can’t understand though. It’s frustrating to see them not care about life. I’d also love to hear more about your son... of course his privacy is very important. I am just so interested in what it would be like to have you as a mom. You must be the best mom because you have more of an advantage when it comes to understanding needs. That’s amazing. Anyway I just love you and thank you.

    • @HugBunnies
      @HugBunnies 6 лет назад

      Jessica Whoa, it almost feels like you're echoing my thoughts exactly. And that's awesome. If you want more content on Teal or her son, I'd suggest heading over to her website tealswan.com. I have a premium account there, which allows me access to more content. Feel free to join. There is also a LOT of free content if you can't. :) Best wishes!

    • @johannaericaandren5092
      @johannaericaandren5092 6 лет назад +2

    • @DesHinkle1
      @DesHinkle1 6 лет назад

      Hi Jessica. I come from a background of abandonment and will share that you are NOT alone! Yes Teal is a great living example for us all, but sometimes its not realistic to be dependant on others in the long run. Just keep in mind that there exists like-minded people as yourself that are all over. Much love and integration!

    • @stinelagerholm6438
      @stinelagerholm6438 6 лет назад +2

      Where in Australia are you? I listen to Teal a lot too and would love to meet and talk and I am in Sydney.. We could do Shadow work together and find some of the core beliefs that hurt so much..

    • @JM-vs9wf
      @JM-vs9wf 6 лет назад +1

      Stines Universe hey I’m from Melbourne! A little farther away Haha but it’s so nice to meet a member of the Australian teal tribe!!

  • @huggiesunrise
    @huggiesunrise 6 лет назад +11

    You mean.. Don't repress get real and don't judge. Got it.

  • @larrydee3550
    @larrydee3550 6 лет назад

    Thank you so much for all you share Teal..i have learned alot from your perspectives over the years..love and strength sister!

  • @kimelliot5283
    @kimelliot5283 6 лет назад +1

    Teal, thank you so much, this has "let me into my self" just a little bit more! ♥♥

  • @infinitygemstones2848
    @infinitygemstones2848 6 лет назад +7

    Excellent points made in this video Teal. I have always felt that the expression that so many say "actions speak louder than words" to be simplistically flawed.
    Cause what if others "parallel perceptional reality" doesn't allow them to even SEE your actions....

  • @radhikaprasad8012
    @radhikaprasad8012 6 лет назад +11

    This is brilliant analysis!

  • @m.n.d5949
    @m.n.d5949 5 лет назад

    Thank u teal. As always. Much love.

  • @SCRIPTULATOR
    @SCRIPTULATOR 6 лет назад

    Thank you Teal this message you have shared is helping me to understand myself and others a lot more than I have previously.

  • @user-xj1fn2se9e
    @user-xj1fn2se9e 6 лет назад +16

    People are freakin weird ! LoL . . . I've always thought that since I was a little kid. Everybody is trying to grow up when growing up is so freakin stressful. And then when they grow up, they act like immature fools. Since 2009, I've started noticing how weird this world actually is, and more so the past 2 years. Going through this Awakening process in isolation and basically no intimacy, physically or emotionally is tough ! But hey, if "I" can do it, anybody with half a brain and half a heart could do it ! You are an Amazing Human and Woman ! I Honor and Respect you Teal and your Soul ! Hope to meet you one day ! Positive Energy of Love and Healing to you !

    • @mmoviefan7
      @mmoviefan7 6 лет назад

      roger that

    • @presentfuture7563
      @presentfuture7563 5 лет назад +1

      I've long suspected that the labels of so-called mental illness and mental health have it, in many cases, exactly backwards. Those of us who can't just fit in are the proverbial canaries in a coal mine. "It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profundly sick society." - Krishnamurti

  • @magicmonster615
    @magicmonster615 6 лет назад +4

    Maybe that is why I feel so lonely, in a room FULL of people.
    Even with friends I've known sense 11. Lol I've been lonely for a good long time.

  • @akapatience5571
    @akapatience5571 4 года назад +1

    Teal always manages to explain my childhood to me in a way no one else can!
    Thank you for helping it all make sense!❤

  • @umeshkulkarni9687
    @umeshkulkarni9687 6 лет назад

    Thank you for bringing clarity to what was lingering in me. Grateful.